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| 1 | how do i take a woman home from a club or bar or anywere really? more clarification in the text field?Agreed. You got to build the communication and attraction so you can lead her. | /r/seduction | 27/07/16 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Failing at showing sexual interestDo simple things like a hand shake, multiple high fives, hugs. Simple body contacts like that improves more confidence in both parties, guards are lowered and can lead to intimacy | /r/seduction | 27/07/16 06:24 PM |
| 1 | How to recuperate after a bad club approachNice work for approaching. Unfortunately it's the interaction that fell through with both these women. Yes you got their numbers but was there any interaction that was memorable or high energy that the girl would like to see you again? Next time you approach, act as if you already know her. Complement her outfit, tease her about why she can't be at your level, literally(damn 6'5'' nice!). Dance with her since that involves kino. Practice makes perfect. Keep going! | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Finally learning that girls don't define my happiness.Most important thing for you is to work on yourself. How? What do you want to become? A traveling musician, a Bar owner with a hit franchise, Dentist, CFO? Those are the things that you should think about. Get your s*it together and everything will follow suit. It may be a daunting task but it's great that you realized that women don't make you happy. YOU are the person that makes yourself happy. Find what you want to be, make goals and you will eventually find happiness. Best of luck man! | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 04:38 AM |
| 3 | I've gone desperate after being dumped. Just need some sex and sexy times to distract me, just a rebound.Still have your standards but now you're free to explore. Tinder, other dating websites, bars, clubs, anything or anywhere you can have access to women. Remember by the end of the day, it's how you feel. Don't let anyone else alter your well being including women. | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Accidental experiment: do girls prefer bigger guys or model looking guys.It doesn't matter what body type you are. I am far from heavy set but no where near model status. The most attractive trait for a guy to have is self confidence. Trust me. If you feel good regardless of what anyone thinks, girls will definitely notice it too. That's how I got girls and my current girlfriend. Best of luck man! | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 05:31 AM |
| 0 | When do you set the expectation that you are not looking for anything serious?^ Agreed! | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 10:14 PM |
| 2 | UK Pickup - Breaking the BarrierEye contact is best for that type. Make initial eye contact, smile and see if they react. If they react on a positive note, you already broke through their barrier and its time to initiate. If their reaction is negative, on to the next one. | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 10:13 PM |
| 6 | Does the use of kino change depending if your aim is a long or short term relationship?No. The only difference is that you state your intentions differently with the girl that you want to mess with in comparison to a girl that you want to have a relationship with. The key to both success is to kino early and I mean 'go and hug her when you see her for the first time' early then improve from there | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Because of you guys, I got my first GF. Thank you!!Yeah she should as well. It goes both ways. Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Because of you guys, I got my first GF. Thank you!!Will do! Thanks man and I will stay true to myself no matter what! | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Because of you guys, I got my first GF. Thank you!!Oh man! Such great advice! Thank you so much and I will still improve myself no matter what! | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Because of you guys, I got my first GF. Thank you!!Yes! | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Because of you guys, I got my first GF. Thank you!!Yeah sometimes I say sappy things hear and there. Thanks man | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Because of you guys, I got my first GF. Thank you!!True | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Because of you guys, I got my first GF. Thank you!!Sorry. I know too after I said that as well. Heat of the moment | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Because of you guys, I got my first GF. Thank you!!Yep! Sorry if I wasn't so clear with the description | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Because of you guys, I got my first GF. Thank you!!Ha! I might have. It was at the spur of the moment and also I'm a minority as well so it just came out | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Because of you guys, I got my first GF. Thank you!!Hahaha! | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Because of you guys, I got my first GF. Thank you!!Will do! Thank you so much man! | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Because of you guys, I got my first GF. Thank you!!Will do! | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Picking up girls at EDM festivalsI'll be there too! like what cudder17 said, just have fun! | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 11:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Just do it!(First ever K-close at a club!)Bite her neck? I've never done that before. I'll try it but first I need to practice :) | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 10:30 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Just do it!(First ever K-close at a club!)Bros unite! | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 10:08 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Just do it!(First ever K-close at a club!)Perfect summary of how I felt that night! | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 10:08 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Just do it!(First ever K-close at a club!):) | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 04:51 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Just do it!(First ever K-close at a club!)I was surprised that dudes were approving. To be honest, I would have turned around since it would have frustrated me. | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 04:49 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Just do it!(First ever K-close at a club!)Congrats man! I like the fact that you used your friend's aviators, saw someone with a similar eyepiece and started to mingle! What did your friend say after your encounter? | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 04:48 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Just do it!(First ever K-close at a club!)Thanks man! That keyword you just stated is the key: CONFIDENCE! | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 04:46 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Just do it!(First ever K-close at a club!)If I can do it so can you! It's a bit nerve-raking at first but just go for it after establishing a good connection while dancing. | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 04:42 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Just do it!(First ever K-close at a club!)Hahaha! I didn't get her number but I was just ecstatic after making out at a club. Till next time my friend.... | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 04:40 PM |
| 1 | "Close, but no cigar!" scenarios at clubs :(Thanks! That's a good tip. i'll try that next time | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 06:10 PM |
| 1 | "Close, but no cigar!" scenarios at clubs :(Thank you man! That is exactly what I need to do | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 06:10 PM |
| 2 | "Close, but no cigar!" scenarios at clubs :(Haha! At least you were about to do it. As for me I just have to make my move and hopefully the lights don't come on :) | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Where Do YOU Go Or Have You Gone To Meet Women?What are your hobbies? If you can list at least 3 things you like to do, go and find local clubs/social organizations that hosts those hobbies. Therefore you can meet others who have that same interest and see women(of course :)) and start from there. AA is really tough and I still have it sometimes. Like you said baby steps and practice makes perfect. Good luck | /r/seduction | 22/11/14 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Kinoa simple high five, hug, light pats, light push, shoulder to shoulder touching, legs/thigh touch while sitting down, twirling her around, complement on her nail color while holding her hands, leading her in a store with your hand behind her lower back, her sitting on your lap after initial contact....so many ways of kino but the best advice is to practice and eventually it will be less awkward and more autonomic. You'll get it. Don't give up! | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 11:11 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "You a Bengals or a Browns fan?" (#-close + date)You're right they are puns. It was at the spur of the moment when you cannot think and just improvise. I had to do the Eagles jokes(corny as they are) since that's one of the reasons she remembered me for and she found them humorous. I adapt to what's happening at hand. If I have to say terrible jokes just for her to loosen up and open to me then I have to go that route. If she's into wits or political satire, I have to do more of that. It's all about what type of girl is it and how she likes he… | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 04:49 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "You a Bengals or a Browns fan?" (#-close + date)thanks man. cheesy like whiz.....oh jeez another corny joke lol. | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 04:35 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "You a Bengals or a Browns fan?" (#-close + date)Thanks man. I know you will do the same! | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 04:34 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "You a Bengals or a Browns fan?" (#-close + date)Anytime! | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Quit Doubting Your Abilities!TRUTH! | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 11:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got stood up, ate Chipotle, and practiced my windmills (# and first date close)You're absolutely right | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 05:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got stood up, ate Chipotle, and practiced my windmills (# and first date close)hahaha! | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 05:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got stood up, ate Chipotle, and practiced my windmills (# and first date close)Thank you! | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 05:12 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Got stood up, ate Chipotle, and practiced my windmills (# and first date close)These: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oI8saNJAiEY | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 05:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Got stood up, ate Chipotle, and practiced my windmills (# and first date close)Thanks man! This means a lot. Nowhere to go but up! | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 04:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got stood up, ate Chipotle, and practiced my windmills (# and first date close)You're welcome and thank you! | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 04:13 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Got stood up, ate Chipotle, and practiced my windmills (# and first date close)I was 16, then I turned 17. 18 was around the corner, then 19 followed. 20 just crept up on me, soon I turned 21 and eventually celebrated by 22nd birthday. Just playing with you. I know Chipotle doesn't seem ideal but I was new to the area and it seemed convenient since I have plans this weekend and I set up the date during my lunch break | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 04:12 PM |
| 2 | I'm getting numbers but no responses. What am I doing wrong?Hope this helps: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2egrek/basic_noobs_guide_to_texting/ It helped me! | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 05:27 AM |
| 2 | ". . . therefore, fail early and often"Oh man I was in the same position!Opportunities missed, not knowing what to do, seeing a girl that flaked you... Don't worry man. You are doing something courageous that a lot of guys these days, including myself have trouble with: approaching. Its all practice. Analyze what you did wrong, advance from that so you do not end up doing the bad form again and keep going. As for the girl that flaked you before, trust me after practicing, talking to other women and enjoying yourself, she will notice … | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 05:25 AM |
| 11 | [FR] Got stood up, ate Chipotle, and practiced my windmills (# and first date close)I don't know how to respond to this. First off, I cannot take anyone seriously if they use the word n***a in their sentences. It shows to me how uncultivated the person really is. Secondly, how can you be embarrassed about me after reading my so called "BS" field report? You read it didn't you? You might be trolling but for me, I post these reports to give back to the community and to let them know how thankful this subreddit helped me after college. I was in their same position as I suffered fr… | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 04:47 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Got stood up, ate Chipotle, and practiced my windmills (# and first date close)Thanks! its been a while and I will keep you updated | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Want to go out clubbing by my self tonightI agree! Go out dance your ass off and have fun. It may feel awkward at first but if you are having fun, others will know that you're having fun! | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 12:50 AM |
| 2 | BF shit test aka how I fucked upI cringed too! Hey you learn from your mistakes. Practice makes perfect | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 03:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR]First time being an AMOG. Not an easy job at allThank you :) | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 12:31 AM |
| 1 | [FR]First time being an AMOG. Not an easy job at allYou're right. I just felt upset after she grabbed her like that. I was honestly afraid since he was bigger than me but i stood my ground. | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 12:31 AM |
| 1 | [FR] "Look! That's the brother of the guy with the big muscular bottom!" First # closeThanks! My brother is indeed awesome! | /r/seduction | 02/08/14 11:45 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "Look! That's the brother of the guy with the big muscular bottom!" First # closeThanks man! I did not see them at the club. Oh well, I still had fun dancing and mingling with everyone else there. | /r/seduction | 02/08/14 11:44 PM |
| 3 | [FR] "Look! That's the brother of the guy with the big muscular bottom!" First # closeCorrected. Thanks mate! | /r/seduction | 02/08/14 01:55 AM |
| 1 | [FR] A Laughter a day keeps the doctor away. First City Approach!Ok ill try that method: FTC. Thanks man. However, doesn't it sound a bit desperate when you turn around and ask for their number? | /r/seduction | 06/06/14 03:59 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A Laughter a day keeps the doctor away. First City Approach!Thank you! | /r/seduction | 06/06/14 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Made out with a girl for the first time! FINALLY, a success story!Congrats my man! Feels good doesn't it? | /r/seduction | 21/05/14 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Is Kik a good idea?lol Thanks | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 08:55 PM |
| 2 | (a little FR) Baby steps. First eye contactYay! You too! It felt great didn't it? | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Eye contactTake it slow. I was just like you! I've done a post where I did this at a supermarket for the first time and it felt great! Just go for it, look in her pupils, and see how it goes | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 11:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] daygame - 8th May 2014I love you man. lol. In all seriousness, you did well! What was your mindset when you were about to approach these women? | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 11:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Push Physicality as far as possible with very receptive girls?nice report man! i'll try this as well. were you nervous during the whole interaction? | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 12:21 AM |
| 1 | How oneitis destroyed my inner game^ I agree. Every guy had experience with this at least once in our macho but somewhat emotional state. Just suffered one last weekend. Not cool | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Wow! Eye Contact plus a smirk does work!its sooooo incredible! | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Wow! Eye Contact plus a smirk does work!Thank You! This means a lot! It felt great doing it as well, whatever the outcome | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Wow! Eye Contact plus a smirk does work!Will do! Thanks for the tip. Ill try harder to get a number to actually set up a date | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Wow! Eye Contact plus a smirk does work!hahahaha! nice one! | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Wow! Eye Contact plus a smirk does work!That's even better! You probably have those eyes that swoon all the ladies | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Wow! Eye Contact plus a smirk does work!Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Wow! Eye Contact plus a smirk does work!I cannot wait until that happens! | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Wow! Eye Contact plus a smirk does work!https://imgur.com/gallery/A4oNk This is the smirk that I used. I too was the same way before I started this. I tend to look away because I too thought I was a 'creeper'. Today I just wanted to do it, regardless of the outcome, locked my eyes, smirked, and it felt great! If I can do it, so can you. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 03:38 AM |
| 5 | Wow! Eye Contact plus a smirk does work!I felt the same way! So much confidence right now! | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 03:35 AM |
| 7 | Wow! Eye Contact plus a smirk does work!https://imgur.com/gallery/A4oNk Hope this helps! | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 03:34 AM |
| 48 | Wow! Eye Contact plus a smirk does work!HAHAHA! Very clever! How do you come up with this stuff?? | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Why I always try to find time for daygameEach day I get off at 9pm. The weekends are best for me I guess. Thank you for the tips man | /r/seduction | 26/03/14 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Hey friends! Im going out alone for my first time on Friday, any tips for me?"Don't give a fuck and have fun" This. Have fun man, regardless of the outcome | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Why I always try to find time for daygameThis is a great post. I'm trying my best as well. How do you do it? even with a 40+ hour work schedule is it still possible?? | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 11:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Met Jessica Rabbit, ended with an utter failure.Haha. Sounds good. I'm about to go to Manhattan this weekend. What tip would you give to a guy who seriously just want to approach and meet new people? | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 10:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Met Jessica Rabbit, ended with an utter failure.You're right. Just have fun and go with the flow. Just being myself is the best option and not to rehearse any lines. I really appreciate this man. Thank you so much. Sure you're not a Seddit guru? Hahaha! | /r/seduction | 15/03/14 09:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Met Jessica Rabbit, ended with an utter failure.Thanks for your input man. It was really my first time ever having such a gorgeous woman approach me like that. If she wasnt interested in me, why the hell would she approach me and at the end reference to my dance moves? Normally I would not act like this and just freeze up like a whimp. After reading a few about teasing, I thought that would work. I did not come across as an asshole. I was generally smiling and she was too. I was just letting her take over the situation after taking a shot sin… | /r/seduction | 15/03/14 06:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Met Jessica Rabbit, ended with an utter failure.Thanks man. That was my problem. I still acted as if she was too good for me but you're right. Treat her the same like every other woman. Back to the drawing board | /r/seduction | 15/03/14 05:36 AM |
| 8 | A girl said one sentence to me tonight which changed my perspective:You're right! Dammit Ill go out and approach some more!! | /r/seduction | 15/03/14 05:35 AM |
| 160 | A girl said one sentence to me tonight which changed my perspective:guilty | /r/seduction | 15/03/14 05:03 AM |
| 2 | A girl said one sentence to me tonight which changed my perspective:Great post. I too am a schmuck but I will transform myself with more practice and reading posts | /r/seduction | 15/03/14 05:03 AM |
| 1 | [FR]First EDR Concert. Fun yet still got a lot of work to doThanks for the reply. What you said wasn't mean at all. I soon realized that I did absolutely nothing lol. I'll still try to do more attempts and actually move my mouth and stop acting like a 22 year old p***y. It's a lot harder than I thought but i'm still not giving up. | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 05:35 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 1st report! From a "congratulations" to a free VIP club passHaha, thanks man! It was just random but a great line to use sometimes | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 05:13 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 1st report! From a "congratulations" to a free VIP club passThanks Chris! Will do | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 05:12 AM |
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