I'm a 20yo looking 16-18 (I hear I look 16 very fucking often) about 173 cm (5'8'') not muscular at all, at most average looking guy from Poland. I'm having issues with approach anxiety and this post is closely connected to it. I've been struggling with game since may and made almost no progress, I'm almost the same chode I was when it comes to picking up girls and being social in clubs. My emotions rule me and I really don't like being a slave to them that's why I'm writing this.

I get intimidated by clubs very easily. I feel quite comfortable being there but with this knowledge of me looking 16 and all girls looking... well the better the club the older the women but like 95% of them look older than I am.

I usually go to a shitty club because it's popular among people in my age group altough older people also go there. When I go to a club with more quality girls the situation (in my mind) is like: older and taller than me (especially with high heels) hot girls and jacked taller older (mid 20's) masculine looking guys... and me, guy looking 16 and being treated not very well by those jacked assholes. Situations like being kind of shoved by the big guy because he wanted to pass or take that particular place by the bar are pissing me off.

I feel intimdated and powerless and the better the club the stronger the feelings. It makes me not approach at all except that one shitty club because I think it's pointless to approach older taller girls. This whole situation makes me not even dance when I'm alone to pump my state etc. even in shitty club. I also care too much about other people I guess because just the thought of girl's friends (especially male) makes me freak out.

I know most of this is in my head but it's sooooo strong that if there's any way of lowering this resistance and starting to believe my (supposed) age doesn't matter would be fucking great. If anyone has similiar experiences and got over them please share.

Thanks in advance!