Ok so I'm an awkward little looser when it comes to seduction. Now that I admitted it I want to go out and make something happen since I'll have one week off from college. I don't care how far I will go, I'll be happy if I just have fun and approach. I have a hard time with having fun in clubs/ bars. If I make my plans happen then I'll have my first EVER night approach and probably the first proper one ever too, since my daygame consisted of random compliments and almost no conversation only to fuck with my AA. I have a few questions about nightgame:

  • How do I open groups? I have never done that and I'm easily intimidated by guys. I lived most of my life as bullied guy in junior school, then as a chode with no idea of flirting and then as try-hard ultra-beta who wanted to be cool still with no social skills, values or confidence so I suck now.
  • I also look young (I'm about 5'8'' 19 yo but everyone gives me 16-17) And I'm afraid they won't want to talk with such young guy. How do I deal with this impression? I have no experience so I'd really appreciate some tips.
  • How can I have fun in club? How do I learn this? I'm often getting nervous so when I'm trying to dance I'm so fucking stiff that I lack coordination, I also tend to be stiff when just sitting when I can't relax. I don't drink (altough I can since I'm European) and if I did, it would probably fuck up my social skills.
  • I read here a lot about "wonders" of push/pull in human interaction but I still don't exactly get it. Can I count on some explanation and/or examples?
  • Since I'm in college I'll also ask about the differences of street cold aproaching and college "warm" approaching.
  • I came up with one more question: how do I deal with negativity? I know it's stuff I have to deal in whole my life but probably I will need a quick fix during the night, especially if I end up sitting with my friends, bored as fuck or annoyed by some drunk people. I don't want my night to look like this so I'll have to cut negativity for the time out.

My plan for nights out:

  • Open a lot
  • 3 second rule
  • Do what Simple Pickup reccomends which is : throw myself at the first girl I see
  • No alcohol
  • Getting in state before I go out using meditation, high-energy music and getting enough sleep.

That's all I came up with. I also want to take friends with me but they're not even near to being PUAs so I can't really count on some epic help from them.