Hey guys!

I have recently discovered that when I'm at university, I have little problem with approaching groups regardless of members' sexes. I have even less or no problem with approaching foreign people!

For some time I was wondering why do foreigners respond to me better than other Polish people... And it hit me that they do not respond to Polish guy but to a guy who is GENUINELY interested in them! After some thinking I came to a conclusion that I have no AA towards foreigners because I am interested in them, they are a big mystery and I'm happy to know them better and I never run out of questions, statements or some random comments about eg. China while talking to Chinese or Middle East while talking to Saudi or I just ask them what brought them to such cold country like Poland! I just seem to never, ever run out of things to say and I feel like I'm discovering some mystery, I feel that this is someone unique and getting to know each other is fun!

I can't implement this that easily while talking to Polish people at univeristy and I easily loose the flow of the conversation or get a massive AA when it comes to people I don't know and are not related to my social circles.

Today I was on a task I gave myself to walk one subway station in the centre (instead of riding) and just tell girls I find cute, that I find them cute. Just this, no seducting unless I start feeling energy to do it. It ended up with just a walk since I didn't find any cute girls (impossible so I probably just avoided finding them cute to avoid approaching) and when I found a few occasions... I passed it.

Here's where I ask you for advice, how do I implement this attitude I have toward foreingers to be less anxious and how do I make myself approach at least ANY girl? I always find excuses such as "she's too old/young for me, I should call her misses/ kid". Any advice? I'm 19yo and I feel like approaching a girl older than a year or 2 is not uhmmmm... "appropriate" meaning I shouldn't and even can't hit on them (or try to learn it).