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very true. gosh I'm giving myself a hug. It sucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 09:03 PM
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oh wow thank you for sharing this. I always thought I had a bad experience just trying to vet using fds standards but it does seem like the bar is in hell. Men just don't care tbh they want love but they're not willing to also give love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:46 PM
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Also wanted to add that going over someone's emotional capacity and being an emotional leech is toxic man or woman. Red pill tactic aside, you're not his therapist and he hasn't earned nor given enough of his own time to be that burdensome. (understanding and balance in any healthy relationship) It's best to establish boundaries with someone who uses your empathy to that extent because it takes A LOT of energy to always be in listening mode. edit: I just read some of the stuff he's just vomited …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 06:45 PM
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LOL Literally hentai and Loli came about because Japan banned pornography and cp. It's literally the same thing and the illustrators use it as a way around the law. The artists would draw a child like character and make it an adult. Then they could do whatever they wanted with the characters. Also the pixelation for pornography and even in hentai is just another way to go around the law but it makes these sickos go even more beserk for it. Omg how dumb do they have to be to defend that..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:43 PM
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yes yes yes yes YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:09 PM
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Me 🙋‍♀️. I'm more healthy now because of celibacy. A lot of people trash FDS for "spoon feeding" hating men to keep us single. Um even if FDS didn't exist the creeps, pedos, and horrible abusive pos still would turn any woman into a nun just to protect herself. That's why happy older cat ladies exist because they're tired of horrible men. Now it's just more awarness for the younger generation of women. An actual place to have these kinds of conversations about our own experiences as women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:27 PM
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w o w can you imagine having your pregnancy ruined by a whispering devil in your ear who is supposed to be the father of your child and your protector
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:45 AM
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I saw that too sigh. I really had hoped he did more than that above. I hope at least he treats her well and steps up. I moved to another country because of marriage. It was not a good idea as he was LVM and I didn't have my family/friends for support when I tried to leave as it got abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:41 AM
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Dude yes... I can see Hila trying not to roll her eyes or keep to herself whenever he disses her. And he has this weird competitive and fascination with Trisha right now. Trisha can totally tell he's lvm but I feel so bad for Hila because every time he talks about Trisha in front of her, I can see Hila squirm. He downright just got more disgustingly comfortable being this way after Hila had their baby. :( Edit: Hila if you're reading you're beautiful and we see your pain :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:57 AM
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woooww I'm so sad this happened to another woman too. I thought I was crazy to be annoyed when my ex husband would walk blocks ahead of me. At one point I literally just taxied home. I was so fed up not having a reasonable explanation for why I feel so abandoned. He would flip out on me saying I always want to start a fight about small shit or that he shouldn't "take me out" if I'm going to cause a scene..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:01 PM
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I'm surprised other men don't call it out as being toxic against each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:42 PM
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Ugh the casual sex one was hard but then when I realized the reality of it, man did I feel disgusted w.all men and myself. Eventually I stopped being disgusted with myself but I had to give a lot of self love back and learn to appreciate how much I could offer myself. Now when I see a attractive guy I'm so self aware. I have to ask myself am I objectifying him like I don't want to be objectified? (I know that one is silly but I ask myself anyway) 7 months porn free/5 months celibate. _^ I kind o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:14 AM
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Oof I have a super pickme coworker who is also deeply religious (in grained roles for woman in religion, I used to be her). Anyway I had just avoided a conversation she was having with our gay male coworker. We just hired another woman to work with us so that makes 3 females in a male dominated area and she basically put all women down by saying, "wow I can't believe they have 3 women working now, when men see me they freak out already." The gay male co worker joked, "Omg now there's just going …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:16 PM
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thank you 💝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:14 PM
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that post really was something else. I was baffled by how shallow but almost hilariously true we are getting to the fact that women are cattle to men :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:02 AM
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please do share! Honestly I'd like some hope but literally I've been stuck with this thought. I really do want to hear so much more discussions about this to open my mind up more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:04 AM
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honestly it's kind of interesting seeing what guys consider low value vs what women consider. I'm kind of shocked about the surface stuff like age. I would have thought it be more of along the lines as she would not endanger or harm you, threaten you, cheat, manipulate you into selfish situations, drain your mental well being, financial resources, damage your career/livelihood, degrade you, and so fourth. It's more so about her not being fat, having multiple past partners, having cats?, wanting …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 10:09 PM
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thank you, needed this tonight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:32 AM
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He's beautiful ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 07:43 PM
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Look man it doesn't take being a woman to see the world eating itself to know even if I wanted to have a child, they would struggle real real hard. My own problems aside, I would not want my children to suffer and if that's anti natalist then damn I learned a new word. You can say I have an undying urge to have a child apparently but as a monkey with a brain, this environment goes against my maternal instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 07:24 PM
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But what if I'm gay? What if breaking trauma means you accept that you're actually really happy by yourself. What if I have a horrible pregnancy and end up paralyzed? And my mate cheats on me because that's an actual stastic. What if this potentially great mate ends up dying? What if an astroid were to hit the planet? What if at this very moment staying present was all that mattered and right now I dont have any of those things happening. Because right now, I'm okay and I want to stay okay. I di…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 07:09 PM
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It would be interesting research for your meditation journey to look into the subconscious and consciousness of humans. Very cool! AND THATS OKAY FOR US TO CHOOSE NOT TO HAVE KIDS HURRAY because we broke that monkey mind/that chain. Now I'm going to add those emoticons that make you vomit 💅💖💃👑 and lastly QUEEEEEEEEN 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 06:55 PM
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The subconscious and consciousness are the only things humans have that allow us to adapt. So it's natural for us to evolve. It's nature which is what you're referring to. As for "being a victims to justify hate that occurs on the sub" I'm not defending any hate that makes men fear what's happening on the sub. It's only a balance of what women have experienced with misogyny or abusive relationships with apparently many many men. I'm sorry you view us as predators. I guess the game changed and we…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 06:43 PM
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Wait before I fully respond to your response I must add as someone who practices meditation I'm surprised to see you not understanding hypervigilence. Trauma is heightened awarness and a dysfunction of the fight or flight response. If anything trauma makes it easier to identify what hurts you. Meditation is used to stabilize those stress responses and allow you to think more clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 06:37 PM
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I made peace with the fact and I choose an alternate path. As we are given life to choose different even if it's more discipline. I am upset and yes I do have trauma. But that doesn't mean I believe matriarchial societies are a solution. It's not a solution. It's a community for women who just don't want to participate. And that's an alternate choice. I think to believe we can't challenge our monkey brains and stop the continual cycles of hurt is twisted. Because it's going downhill if we keep b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 06:28 PM
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So you'd like me to choose to be celibate AND to breed because it's my basic human need? That although you have no idea who I am or my experiences and I only further discussed the idea of a supportive community responding to your comedic "vision board" I am so miserable and want happy couples to feel that to? Amazing. I'm amused by your trolling. Just an fyi though, if you go onto a discussion board talking about gender issues, the ideas you've proposed actually do plug into some twisted minds o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 05:46 PM
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That actually makes a lot of sense huh... Wow thanks for giving me a revelation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 07:34 AM
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lol yes thank you for saying this. There's a lot of other great reasons FDS exists for all women. Not to one up each other in the dating game like men do. Women don't work that way. We are trying to activately protect ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 07:27 AM
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lol ok. Tbh if we did create a vision board the first thing I hope for is matriarchial societies. Not because I "hate men" but because I believe men and women are two different to coexist at this point. Sex is arbitrary at this point. I'm happy living in a matriarchal community and I choose to be celibate. Hopefully FDS can actually create a physical community for women to commune and live together so we can support each other which is what we do best naturally. Yeah it's probably a crazy idea b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 07:00 AM
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well it kind of makes sense women would carry baggage when you talk about them like the first paragraph, no quotation marks needed. Yeah that kind of talk about someone isnt healthy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 06:53 AM
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Unfortunately it's the lack of awareness and consciousness to identify what's changing your behavior to desire something abhorrent. Yes we don't know what other people are going through but that doesn't make harmful behavior correct if you're let's say trauma bonded and reliving your place of hurt over and over again to heal??? Somewhere along the lines, our fractured thinking and our broken society has bred this cesspool of hurtful thoughts into action and validates itself! We are literally our…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:07 AM
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Here's the entire study for anyone that enjoys scientific articles 😌 https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0131613
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:44 PM
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I legit told my ex this that he prefers virtual cooch than a real person and his brain could not compute. Men like this and there's a majority are something else. Im not going to reason in my brain anymore why, it's taking too much mental space lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:13 PM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:09 PM
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What if I don't want to be married (again ...)? How would a man show commitment? I got screwed over in my divorce because he was military and they protected him. I was TRAPPED because of marriage until I could get the divorce processed which is taking two years... I'd rather just not deal with it tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:57 PM
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I'm southeast Asian too. My grandma is so ashamed of my divorce she lies to my cousins on the phone about me still being with my abusive ex husband. It makes me personally vomit whenever I'm around to hear her lie about it. It's so annoying because they love to pry and gossip. I just straight up tell them I'm divorced and happy, mind your own business. I feel sorry for my grandma because she was treated like shit before my grandpa died. She was loyal to him and he was a sick man who beat her and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:51 PM
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I always wondered why men love to play the pity card when they are in trouble. This explains it. I'm really glad I shut down this guy who has been harassing me at work because he tried to do this during the hr meeting. He gave some weird story that we had a special connection because he's worked all his life to be able to have a million dollars and I share that dream or whatever. OKAY. Anyway moving on, it's not okay to touch my waist or ask me to call you uncle. 😂 Even Hr was like what does tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:15 PM
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it takes so so long. I'm not even looking for a relationship, i just want to be healed already. I'm tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:28 PM
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yeah my ex husband said that until the day he did hit me then his new excuse was at least I haven't killed myself because of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:26 PM
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I was only branching out my thoughts/fears from the articles statement. I would not go as far to compare the two subreddits - Mostly just thoughtfully pondering the future for women. So I'm sorry if you took to offense my thoughts. As they are just thoughts not a final conviction or end of sentence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:56 AM
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No I like listening to you and thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:40 PM
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I only liked that they got opinions from professionals like dating coaches to social sciences to speak. I really wanted to hear more from them tbh. I think her quoting some people's slander/opinions about their own experiences was kind of shady because there's no context. I agree its a sensational article and I'm used to that type of news because I'm from America. So I try to filter the useful information like those from the professionals. I wasn't really taking in the article as a whole so I'm …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:46 PM
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well I'm worried that our collective mistreatment will turn into hate and hate will become our voice rather than healing. that's my worry, because it can go both ways as healing isn't linear. We are still human after all. I found FDS a safe place even with the difference in opinions because this is really the only place I see other women going through the same thing. I'd be sad if I went on FDS and it was hate fueld rather than empathetic. edit: also I'm slightly uncomfortable you evaluated my p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:41 PM
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oh okay I'll check it out. man that's terrible journalist work if she totally warped the mods words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:16 PM
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Oh I didn't know you guys were making fun of it. :/ I read it and could see the duality of the opinions presented on the article. I honestly thought it wasn't a bad article as it didn't present a narrative in absolute truth since those arguments are logical fallicies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:11 PM
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read the article
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:06 PM
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love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:01 PM
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wow... I'm speechless and so so sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:50 AM
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HOW ABOUT MEN STOP GAUGING WOMEN BASED ON HOW FAST THEY CAN GET LAID.... That's entirely the problem. Everything they do "for" us is geared for sex. Men and women have different values in relationships. Thus, I cannot be in a relationship with a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:00 PM
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do men actually want to take care of children? like seriously... or do they want us to have them and take care of them and they play daddy for a couple moments. Plus if a woman really wants children uhh we can do so without a man. there's literally sperm banks. Nothing has been taken away from us. Men need to double check why women are staying away from them like the plague and if they can't see that then that's their lack of introspection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:41 PM
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I'm in! Ive been looking for matriarchal societies in the US and sadly there are none :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:20 PM
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the truth, so unfiltered and clear !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:01 AM
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I always wonder why some men joke like this. DiStURbInG joke indeed :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:31 PM
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because they will shoot their shot and in their world there is no league. men don't care if we have an education, career, and are successful. They only care about the 1 in a 100 rejections. What we value in a significant other is very different from what they value and they literally only value looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:56 AM
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you have a point about porn addictions developing their own defense in the brain. I didn't know others saw the porn glaze too. quite sickening honestly. sometimes I wish I was no gender because being a female I live in fear and anger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:46 PM
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wow in ten years?! that's so inspiring. that's my timeline I have to get in CNRA for the air force.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:01 PM
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this is actually a valid statement considering they so proudly boast about it being normal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:24 AM
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(and he knows) - I'm sorry I didn't word it properly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 10:55 PM
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also what's PCD? I googled it and it's a respiratory disease. Is that illness you're referring to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:32 PM
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so basically I'm just addicted to the dopamine rush. Because of my traumas, I like to have controlled highs with dangerous things. that makes more sense than me reasoning needing to have sex with someone. thank you for breaking it down! I never thought of the empy feeling after sex as my rush coming down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:02 PM
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Well I hope you're right actually. I drop my FWBs pretty fast if I feel disgusted or disrespected by them. I can go a year without touch but sometimes I like to supply my imagination with something real here and there. It'd be nice if I could cut out men all together. I honestly don't think I trust any man, LVM or HVM. To me they're a time bomb and to be avoided. edit: I only ask my original question in the frame/mindset of a woman who wants to take care of her needs but doesn't want to come off…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:45 PM
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I was actually shocked at how other people view FDS. I came here for the amazing knowledge and support of what WOMEN (DIVERSE WOMEN OF EVERY AGE AND COLOR AND BACKGROUND) have been going through. It felt so great to know I wasn't the only one who had suffered in an abusive relationship or been manipulated by my own traumas into being submissive (negging, pickme girl behavior). LIKE I DIDNT KNOW THAT WAS A THING. My mom never taught me. My dad has his own failures. Who am I going to turn to? we a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:24 AM
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happy birthday and big hugs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:26 PM
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I'm 25. Prime time age to see how much lunacy men have caused. I'm already divorced, know what an abusive relationship is... There's no other place on the internet and no books that have the knowledge that FDS has. It has greatly helped me heal and redefine myself as not a pickme girl anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:15 PM
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how will we improve ourselves and our lives without a safe place to talk about our struggles - that's my view I love this community. it has opened my eyes and is a rare corner of the female world where I see such conversations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:31 AM
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