A Women's value is transactional and that currency is her body

Our value is on our bodies not who we are. We can either cash it in for children and not be valued for romance or cash it in for sex and not be valued for romance lol Either way it's almost like we are set up not to be loved but used.

I've come to this conclusion when reading what men consider a low value women.

Most men said fat, a slut, has kids, a cheater, has cats? lol, a feminist, her age, multiple past sex partners, and more surface things.

What I didn't see was she would not endanger or harm you, threaten you, cheat, manipulate you into selfish situations, drain your mental well being, financial resources, damage your career/livelihood, degrade you. You know actual toxic stuff.

Instead a woman who has "baggage" like kids or trauma to carry is low value.

And who placed this on her? who told her that her worth was based in children or attraction? The men who dumped their shared responsibilities onto her in the first place. Her not being pretty enough or having someones kids or being a feminist because of this shit exactly. I don't get it.

I don't understand the hate and the roundabout argument against women. Instead of seeing our grievances, they think we hate them and don't want to be connected to them. But how can we want to be in relations with them when they use our own hurt against us. When they minimize and belittle our real experience in this world. When it's okay to just expect nurturing, grandiose feminine sensuality, and everlasting loyalty to carry a man through his hard times. Hard times that endanger a woman. Like addiction to alcohol, drugs, porn. Like gaslighting and multiple moments of adultery. Like selfishness to the extent of withholding affection for control or very forced rough sex because that's the only way he gets off.

Don't you think all of that screws with a person's mind? Being subjected and frankly tortured with the expectation that if youre a good woman you'll care for him and love him ride or die.

But for a man if he loves her, he'll fuck her and put a ring on it just to screw with her for a lifetime. Because if shes hot on his sliding scale of what he can look at for a long period of time and she is totally passive about him spending 85% of the relationship to gratify himself, she's worth it because she did it to herself. She wanted to get married, she wanted kids, she wanted, she wanted, she wanted and that's why he snapped. Because he really didn't share anything she wanted besides her body. Which he mutilated and degraded and cashed in and abandoned.