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imstah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:46 PM
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QUEEN SH*Timstah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:22 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGimstah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:02 PM
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SCROTES MADimstah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:49 AM
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FDS MEMESimstah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:43 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYimstah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:14 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYimstah/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:21 PM
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Mommy does it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 10:22 AM
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So do you have a cheese grater or do you need to borrow one? :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 06:10 AM
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Well they damn sure can't 🤣🤣 how the fuck are single old men "eligible bachelors" and single old women are "old maids"?? Notice how much more positive one sounds than the other, why?? A male acquaintance was telling me the other day about how many of his single friends (35+) still take their laundry to their mom's house despite living on their own! It's a fuckin joke 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:01 AM
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Except instead of medals we'd get STDs, yeast infections, unwanted pregnancies, UTIs, emotional manipulation, the scorn of society etc. And not even an orgasm or true emotional intimacy in return. I swear, it's the biggest scam in the world. Actually no, marriage to men is the biggest scam, casual sex is a close second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:52 AM
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But please don't confuse that with them actually looking for love or true commitment - I feel for most it's just a case of "I'm getting too old to hit on women at the club and I'm tired of eating sandwiches and living with dudes; time to find a mommy bang maid who's gonna put up with me in exchange for marriage - after all, isn't that what all women want?" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:23 AM
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Hilarious because his new gf did find a man EXACTLY like him and she's dating an asshole lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:12 PM
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I saved this on my phone just now, will be using when people talk to me about how bad "feminist misandry" is, when the truth is it's just being pro-wellbeing of women. It just so happens that most men are very bad for women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:47 PM
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I think this is really stupid, like "hurr durr black people can't be racist." If anything, i feel infantilized and it upsets me that someone's telling me i can't be sexist lol. Women can be hateful and nasty just like men can, we just do it faaaaaaaar less, statistically. Although we have faaaaaaaar more reason to.. statistically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:35 AM
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Honestly just drop them off on a fucking island without a raft and let them get off on each other's misery instead of ours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:07 PM
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i'll definitely check her out, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:33 PM
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LOL! My solution to that was to accidentally get GERD - lost 50 lbs. How can I get man-GERD?? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:50 PM
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Yeah you're 100% right. I don't mean sending him a paragraph to explain him my feelings, i mean send one with a reality check his narcissistic personality can't handle so that HE blocks ME, thus making me unable to contact him at all 🤣 i know, i know, super lame. i did all those things you suggested previously but then I watch a show we used to watch together or hear a song he showed me and get all emotional and nostalgic and think maybe now that he's had a chance to miss me it'll be better, and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:48 PM
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Great idea, thanks!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:16 PM
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Girl i moved and started a whole new life, am so busy i barely have time to watch a movie, and I'm still not over it. I really don't think it even has anything to do with HIM but with my ego being hurt over a perceived rejection 🙄 And i had him blocked. Then unblocked, then blocked again then unblocked. Ad infinitum. Also know his number by heart so it's really only self discipline that would prevent me from contacting him, which i lose when I'm feeling lonely. I'll nuke it eventually by telling…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:55 PM
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LOL shit, case closed let's wrap it up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:29 PM
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Only one for me. And truthfully it wasn't about him cause it would only happen if i was on top so really i did it to myself lol, his dick was somehow just ergonomically perfect for my vagina 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:48 PM
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Gotcha, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:30 PM
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Wait is she serious or?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:17 PM
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Yeah he's sexy as fuck. Sons of anarchy was my show for a while 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:50 AM
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I really didn't understand how bad the situation was until i started frequenting FDS and seeing these types of posts. I can't even go into relationship advice anymore cause my advice is always to fucking dump the loser. How heartbreaking that after insults and emotional abuse from the person she JUST started a family with, she wants to protect that lame ass scrote's feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:47 AM
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Wow that's terrifying, I'm so sorry! Fucking ridiculous!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:39 AM
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I've been going for a walk every morning before work. It's been getting me off to a much better start by starting productively! This is literally my first time doing something like that.. I've always been the "get up as late as i possibly can" type
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:59 AM
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Wow are you serious? That's nuts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:05 AM
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Yes girl! I got a cool ass tattoo of a girl t-rex done by a girl last month and I'm never going to a dude again if i can help it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:02 AM
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Cause they don't care to listen, cause there were never consequences for not listening, cause the "that's just the way men are" bullshit. That's my assumption anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:49 PM
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i am so grateful that no one ever tried to engage me about conversation related to star wars in the years i had a few star wars bumper stickers on my car before i actually watched the movies... listen i really enjoyed the aesthetics ok?? :D (and i really wanted to come off as nerdy...)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:39 AM
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Lol if i had a penny for every time i heard "aww i prefer long hair :( " from a scrote either in reference to a haircut I'd had or me talking about how I'd like to cut my hair.. almost like they're trying to guilt me out of it? You know I'm not doing it for you right?? Like literally dudes on the internet I'd never met would say this to me - you think i give a shit about what you 'like,' sir?? Ugh. The scrotacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 12:55 PM
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Wow. Scrotacity knows no limits!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:12 PM
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that definitely happens to me. birth control = no libido. luckily, you don't need birth control when you're celibate :D :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:00 AM
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I feel like you can tell from the way they're talking about it - like if it's always "yeah, my friend and i.." i assume it's one person (cause that's how I talk about my 'one ex person") . But if it's "yeah this one friend of mine..." then i assume it's a serial dating type thing. Is that stupid 😂 Anyway since FDS i haven't found a guy i wanna talk to past like 4 exchanges and I'm down to 1 dating app (yeah... After deleting all OLD apps i fell for Zuckerberg's trap and signed up for Facebook da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:57 AM
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Wait wait guys - ok I've been trying to rack my brain about this unironically.. why is Jim LVM? 😁 Was it just cause he was kind of an underachiever? Cause didn't the do like everything for Pam? Or wait, was it the part with.. Karen, was it? Is that why?? I don't remember, I was kind of mentally checked out during that stage of the show, i think.. (I'm high and rambling guys but indulge me plz)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:00 AM
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But even if I'm at the events, i don't network or socialize or know how to hit on women. That's more of a problem than gaining access to women who like women lol. I should have said i don't know HOW to meet women, not where, since technically i know exactly where.. I'm just a weenie about it 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:31 PM
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I've actually barely just gotten to the point where I've started arguing with men, at 32. I'll snap at my stepdad when he makes an insensitive "funny" remark to my preteen daughter and respond back calling out a scrote commenter on a friend's Facebook status. It's a big deal for me cause it's SO FAR from my instinct (which is to submit to any degree to avoid a potentially awkward/humiliating/hurtful interaction). It's stupid but i see it as confidence building. Fuck them, I'm done keeping my mou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:28 PM
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Ty :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:16 PM
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What's the sub?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:56 PM
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I would love to but i honestly have no idea where to meet women, and I'm in Texas.. :( i don't know if I'd have the courage in your situation to actually search it out, but if i had a safe opportunity to have that type of relationship i absolutely would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:55 PM
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Can you sell your story and make some money off of it :D if you did, could part of the deal be helping you take care of the legalities? Idk how any of that works! Lol mine wanted to be famous so bad, he gaslit me into believing he was this anonymous musician but now thinking back on it it doesn't make sense. Cringe that i believed it for so long
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:20 PM
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Yeah i mean I'm saying that assuming she's able to ascertain it's not.. but you're right it's almost definitely a scam or trap of some sort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:07 PM
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Honestly i think you'd be a damn 🤡 if you didn't cash it. Why, out of stubbornness or principle? Fuck that, it's reparations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:52 PM
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I've been a single mom for 11 years and the only time it was difficult was before i got my masters degree and finances were poor. I was alone with a foreign country with my daughter and it was honestly not nearly as hard as people have you believe, or i got really lucky. It's incredibly fulfilling and i wholly recommend it, I'm thinking about trying for a foster baby since i don't want to go through pregnancy again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:44 AM
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this would be funny if i hadn't felt compelled to apologize for my explosive reactions to being insulted or otherwise mistreated several times in the past... it's still funny, i guess, but now it's also sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:04 AM
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Mine would do that and then go "god you're so dramatic, always arguing!" Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:07 AM
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I really did need to hear it today.. I've been feeling bad about kind of screwing over my LVM, except it was less that i screwed him over and more that he tried to screw me over and it backfired epically. Like EPICALLY. And he's furious at me, talking about how he's gonna sicc the cops on me cause I have an 11yo but allegedly sometimes smoke weed (I live in an illegal state). I have no doubt he actually made the report lol.. i just feel bad for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:52 PM
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WAIT A MINUTE. She's a PhD student, has a full time job and a part time job... And his work load of a part time physical job and 2 community college classes is more intensive? HAHAHAHAHHHAHAHA i literally laughed so hard out loud. Jesus this guy is a LOOOOOSER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:11 PM
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Honestly are we sure this isn't a scrote trying to be funny writing this? It reads like fiction in that she now has a slug phobia but slugs keep coming in, like... Idk do slugs go into people's houses and walk on their food? Obviously it COULD be true and i have no doubt there are men out there who would do this to her but I'm skeptical because it could be a scrote getting his rocks off playing a vulnerable girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:12 PM
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Wow I have to look this up - as a mom to an 11yo girl, that sounds so interesting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:42 PM
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Hahaha!! Yeah try something like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:57 PM
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Yeah for sure, they're cheap lol, google waterproof mattress covers! And make sure to get the ones that don't audibly crinkle!! 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:50 PM
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Girl it's inconvenient!! I have to have one of those waterproof things on my bed like I'm a toddler who has accidents!!! 😂 But so true - not all my orgasms are squirty (in fact, most are not) but the ones that are are SIGNIFICANTLY better!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:44 PM
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In fact, the longer we can hold off on our orgasm as we build pleasure, the more incredible our orgasm will be. Absolutely. TBH I didn't know I "squirted" (which is more like an uncontrollable leak, another thing which has been fetishized to hell) until I got myself a vibrator at like 26 (recommended 1,000,000%) I remember my mom telling me as a teen that sex is overrated. How sad for women that most sex for us involves just getting repeatedly penetrated until the man comes while we fake moan. S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:53 PM
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i never put on that i have a kid (let alone that she's a girl or her age) because like the lady below said, i don't want to attract pedos. gross. or well, that's how it was before i deleted OLD :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:38 PM
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I'm close to it. The other day a guy i barely talk to anymore (who once wanted really badly to cheat on his girlfriend with me - a girl he "did not have any feelings for" who is now his wife and pregnant with his child 🤦‍♀️) hit me up on Snapchat in response to a picture i put up (of me without makeup) talkin' bout "who's that? You look different.. guess i never imagined you like that.. guess you used filters" etc (please with the negging attempts). I was like yeah huge surprise that i look diff…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:56 PM
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Honestly that thread just served to make men feel better about using or thinking about using those types of "services." Lots of circle jerking about the great service sex workers provide to society (i.e. men) without a concern for the negative consequences in physical and mental health as well as emotional well being, self esteem etc that these women experience daily. Because it's "just a job like any other" 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:50 PM
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Great lol... Can't wait 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:14 PM
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I have tattoos and I'm a board certified medical professional. Not only has it never been an issue, I got a fun tattoo addition while on a recent business trip and my boss and I had a bonding moment over it 😂 Now if the tattoos were on your face it would be different lol. Mine are only on wrist and upper arm so far, i guess my experience could change once i start covering the forearms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:12 PM
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Crazy how at the time it seemed like just marriage.. it's only looking back that you get to see how fucked you actually were 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:53 PM
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Oh i didn't mean you specifically, i meant that societal expectation or judgement. Like, just because i don't wear makeup and care about heels doesn't mean I'm "low maintenance" or accept low value relationships. I mean i totally have in the past 😂 and i guess it's not a coincidence that my interest in more than just the basic self-care has risen significantly since getting out of the toxic environment that is single mom early 30s dating lol..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:03 PM
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Ugh. I had placenta praevia which means the placenta was over my cervix. I was also contracting starting at like 11 weeks - the combination of the two has a chance of detaching your placenta from your uterus which would make you bleed out in 2hrs (doctor's exact words) so i was put under strict bed rest. Like, restroom and bed type strict. My parents had to bring me food cause my ex husband wouldn't help. He was too busy playing world of Warcraft. When i confronted him about being a lazy piece o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:28 AM
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Haha god i pretty much blocked out the horrific itching all over my stomach and back. They couldn't explain or relieve it except to say it happens sometimes in pregnancy.. it went away after a few weeks but it was a nightmare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:23 AM
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Idk i mean I do the same. I don't feel the need to put makeup on to go to work or to the store, never have. I resent the common implication that not wearing makeup or getting your nails done makes you sloppy or unkempt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:01 AM
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Increased chance of intimate partner abuse: 1 in 6 abused women are first abused during pregnancy. Even if your partner has never been abusive to you before, it may come out during pregnancy. Wow that makes sense. Mine started doing it to me during pregnancy too. Sick fucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:56 AM
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Made me laugh out loud lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:02 AM
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So am i!! Sucks cause some things like discord logs are there foreeeveeerrr 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:30 PM
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I just can't bring myself to even go out with one... Invited an ex over last weekend but he said some dumb shit right after so i immediately rescinded it lol. Like it's not even worth enough effort to manicure my bush.. I'll just do it myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:38 AM
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I genuinely think my number would be like 3, maybe? If we're talking completely unassisted orgasm by a dude? I'm 32... Cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:33 AM
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Lol some guy on my LVM brother's social media commented talking about his "huge" peen and how he has sex with all these chicks and "destroys their cervix" etc.. i commented saying "yeah but i bet you never made any of em cum" and he's talkin' bout "yeah maybe maybe not, i think you're just jealous" etc etc. That's all i needed to know sir 😂 imagine thinking you're god's gift to women despite not being able to get one off, just because you managed to manipulate a lot of them into sleeping with yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:32 AM
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The number of American troops killed in Afghanistan and Iraq between 2001 and 2012 was 6,488. The number of American women who were murdered by current or ex male partners during that time was 11,766. That’s nearly double the amount of casualties lost during war Here's one like that.. from https://hoperisingtx.org/about/domestic-violence-statistics/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:23 AM
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Right, and the whole being in love with a forest fire thing.. i feel like the only thing burning down in that particular forest fire is your self esteem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:07 AM
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Megan, on the other hand.... Fox later told the publication that she never tries to "control" her musical boyfriend, though he "looks to me to avoid his own self destructive tendencies." "And that’s where I'm useful because on his own and left to his own devices I don’t know how much interest he has in caring for himself," she continued, before sharing that their connection is of "mythic proportions." “Loving him is like being in love with a tsunami or a forest fire,” the actress said of their r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:11 AM
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Male to female trojan horses LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:21 PM
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I mean it's kind of ridiculous because it's like the question is "how to get men to see women as people." sad that that's the state of things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:12 AM
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wow this is so well put, i want to share this with every woman i know, like - BE CAREFUL, IT'S ALL A LIE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:57 AM
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Exactly. I cringe when i think about how much of my energy would go to the LVM i was seeing and how many self esteem hits I've taken from LVMs throughout the years. Honestly, I don't even want to date; I want to foster friendships and socialize through my hobbies, network through my friend circle etc - if I happen to find a HVM partner through that, great, if not, great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:40 PM
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Cute!! I missed out on a lot of social opportunities doing both undergrad and graduate school through distance ed. Now, at 32, i don't even know where to meet men (apart from OLD) anymore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:16 PM
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Great story! How'd you meet him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:11 PM
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I just blocked and deleted a male "friend" today who made a bunch of excuses for why he can't help an extremely vulnerable female "friend' of his who is basically getting passed around his entire friend group (except him, of course, he "would neeeeveer" 🙄). He was even like "of course they just want sex, what am I supposed to do" uhhh idk, voice your opinion and call them out on their predatory behavior? Stop being friends with them? Interesting because I feel like MOST people who consider thems…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:09 PM
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I can honestly sympathize with HVM because I do think finding HVW is difficult (and sidenote, I don't think just being a part of this sub means youre a HVW because let's be honest, many of us have changed our standards without addressing our behaviors). High value people in general are, I'm coming to find, EXTREMELY rare. That said, DATING is easier for women - as long as you don't mind dating endless LVM. Once you smarten up and stop entertaining men who don't have the same relationship goals a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:49 PM
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I rented it last night on amazon and then promptly passed out lol. Will have to try again tonight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:05 PM
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But it's so normalized nowadays, i feel like every boy is exposed to it in their teen years by the internet and their friends. We have to start publicly supporting the message that porn is not ok, in big numbers. So that these kids are at least exposed to the opposing perspective in addition to the terabytes of porn freely available
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:20 PM
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I'm convinced they think just because women have a "receptacle" naturally designed to accept a penis, accepting a penis in ANY circumstance is just not a big deal. I've had a scrote use that to try to convince me that prostitution is ok, that that's just what you're "supposed" to do with a vagina. I've had one try to tell me having a vagina as a homeless woman is an ADVANTAGE because you can monetize (aka sell) it. Imagine thinking that everyone around you seeing you as a walking, sentient, chea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:13 PM
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Ok Thanos 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:07 PM
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Girl tell me about it 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:03 PM
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Yeah.. dating is the last thing on my mind right now but I'll definitely keep that in mind for the future!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:58 PM
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I'm never 'kid free' so to speak but my parents live nearby. I'd feel guilty about dropping her off to go out so i thought I'd ingeniously solve that problem by having the person I was dating over while she was asleep. 1. Obvious huge safety issue and incredibly lucky i never got assaulted or robbed, and 2. Talk about sending the wrong message lol. I basically designated myself the Netflix and chill option 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:54 PM
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That's excellent! I wish I'd known 10 years ago what I know now!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:49 PM
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Hope so! Honestly I'm sad because i feel like I'm taking something away from her by not trying harder to have the family/sibling she wants. I was a single child and i hated it so I feel a lot of guilt for 'forcing' her to stay a single child! Is that ridiculous??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:48 PM
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Well yeah, and ignorance about the potential consequences, or thinking you know better, are a good judge of character etc. But there's really no amount of vetting that would work here because men routinely hurt the children they create, so how would I EVER trust a man with one he didn't help create??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:45 PM
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Yeah, I've done that mostly with a few exceptions when I'd date someone over a couple months. I'd always introduce them as friends, so I wonder if she could even remember any people I've "dated." But regardless, not worrying about dating at all (honestly without OLD i don't even know where to meet men in that capacity, but that's ok)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:42 PM
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Thank you for saying that!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:49 AM
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Oooh I can't wait to watch this! Is it available to stream without paying like $20 yet 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:38 AM
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Yesss! I've been pretty horny but my sex toys do more for me than honestly any guy except one has ever done so... I'm totally fine lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:35 AM
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That's nice of you to say but i feel like a total loser cause it took me this long to wake up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:32 AM
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I think this was posted here very recently! I hope so at least and it's not two young girls with identical stories within a day..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:44 PM
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Yeah, aside from gambling, I'll concede that. But that's what I'm saying - it's fine as an interest, it's not fine as an addiction. Plenty of people just play a video game when someone else would watch an episode of Big Bang Theory or Game of Thrones or whatever, and then go about their day. What I'm saying is, I personally don't believe just having video games as a hobby is a deal breaker, but a gaming addiction is a giant red flag yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:17 PM
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Lol i mean ok, if we wanna be that literal about it, sure (edit: i guess if we're being literal, kids who haven't been taught what they're doing don't tend to go hunting in the first place). But I'm sure plenty kids got beaten for messing with their stepdad's tackle box or something idk!! I'm just saying, there's having a hobby, and then there's having an addiction/obsession. Having video games as one of your interests = not inherently bad. Playing video games to the exclusion of any other hobbi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:10 PM
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Jesus...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:16 PM
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I think some people have serious addictions to the instant gratification people get when we engage in our most preferred activities (aka our hobbies) - I'm thinking about the dudes who are gonna routinely be out there fishing, rock climbing or playing football with their buds all weekend while their wives are home with the kids, or they'll spend thousands of dollars on car parts when she's spending hours a week couponing for groceries. People need to start calling those what they are, addictions…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:15 PM
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I have no idea what I'll do, we haven't talked about it but she's met people I've dated on occasion.. She brings up wanting me to get married or have more kids sometimes; I think next time she does I'll sit her down and have a conversation about how I've decided that's not in my best interest and everyone is free to make that choice for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:01 PM
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Yeah.. I have a pretty cushy job and an M.A. so I hope that will be her example rather than my pickmeisha history.. 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:54 PM
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Lol it doesn't have anything to do with liking video games, it could just as easily be a fishing hobby, a car obsession, drugs, alcohol or gambling, the problem is a dangerous combination of narcissism and addiction. I've played video games since I was a little girl but I've never hurt anyone over them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:44 PM
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Lolllll good for her. So sad for all the little girls getting brought up with "not all men" lectures. My 11yo today told me she wanted to be a housewife - I have A LOT of work to do!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:39 PM
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Girl I'm in the same place! Owe a big debt to FDS, otherwise I'd probably be off apologizing for something that I didn't do or sitting through some activity I didn't want to do because I knew saying no meant we were done hanging out. Thank you ladies for being the breath of fresh air I needed to remember who I am!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:36 PM
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an all-female commune? say no more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:23 PM
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I've been celibate since November and I'm honestly so happy about it. I have never been so disinterested in men in my life (I'm 32) and I feel so free! A combination of a timely stumble upon FDS and the constant verbal abuse of the last LVM scrote I wasted a year and a half in an undefined shituationship with totally changed my outlook on things and made me realize the INTENSE internalized misogyny i held! And just in time - my daughter is 11 and the last thing I want her to witness in her prete…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:20 PM
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Wait but what did the original thing say, i don't get it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:08 PM
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I mean really, why isn't the "therapy" for trauma ever love?? Why wouldn't the kink be giving your partner as many orgasms as they want, making them feel safe and open with you sexually through mutual trust and understanding without causing them physical pain? I mean REALLY, therapy is reliving the most traumatic time of your life with the perpetrator being someone you care about? How does that not just normalize the abuse further?? How is society stigmatizing women for "asking for it" (through …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:14 PM
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Honestly, I didn't think about it at all before FDS, and wouldn't think think twice hearing awful stories from my friends about their pornsickness. For example, I have a friend who takes over an hour to masturbate because he's so pornsick and anime addicted that he can't even experience sexual pleasure in a normal way anymore. And he's only like 32. It's obvious that men as a whole DO NOT care about women as a whole - but you'd think they'd at least care about other men struggling with this addi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:04 PM
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Source for the stats?? I believe it with every molecule of my body but I like to be able to fact-check these things lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:57 AM
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Seriously. I was just thinking yesterday how my ideal "settling down" scenario is beginning to lean more toward female companionship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:16 PM
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LOL oh my god i feel like I'm becoming aware of so many things I've never even thought about before through this sub. Just listened to the "how come you never hear that men are visual creatures in relation to anything other than gawking at women" and wow... Crazy how much is just normalized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:17 PM
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