hello loves. So I discovered FDS a few weeks ago and I’ve been obsessed. I cut out all the bad men out of my life but I couldn’t help feel myself occasionally thinking about them, wondering when the former fuck boys of my life would come around again and try to hit me up.

But today I decided to do a complete and total blocking sweep on my social media and phone. All the old fuck boys who had zero respect for me blocked and numbers deleted. All the weird toxic male friends or guys who slept with me and never hit me up again or the guys who made plans and never followed through deleted/removed/blocked.

I figured I can’t fully grow into the new person I am becoming if I still wondered who viewed my story or waiting for my chance to hear from them so it could be my turn to ignore them. Instead I just want peace and real growth, no games just me and my new goals.

I feel invigorated and like I have a fresh start, like I finally rinse all the grit off me. I know now I need to do things that make me a little nervous or scared. Because if I can’t block a fuck boys number and I continue to allow them to live rent free in my head how am I ever going to truly vet any man in the future?

Anyways just wanted to share with you guys and let you know how much this sub has helped me find my worth. Thanks queens 💓