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Can we bring it back? What happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/22 12:27 PM
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yeah, it's especially obnoxious if you've never actually worked in a restaurant before. my boyfriend is a chef and it is a GRUELING job. you gotta earn that title
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 05:57 PM
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i very highly doubt he is an actual chef, maybe he just thinks he is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 04:37 PM
14

maybe one day i'll be able to live completely alone...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 04:38 AM
120

Like why is it so humiliating to ask a man out. Never again lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 12:08 PM
16

Her family forced her to keep an IUD in and wouldnt let her take it out. If she wants a baby, shes allowed to have a baby…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 11:00 PM
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why is this a broken heart emoji? she has openly spoken many times about wanting another baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 10:31 PM
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i have spent a lot of time thinking about what i want out of life besides a relationship. i have an incredible boyfriend, but i always keep my needs prioritized, because i know that sacrificing my innermost wants would not make me happy. i can compromise on where we go out to dinner, but i'm not going to compromise on where i want to live. i enjoy spending time with my boyfriend, but if i have other things i need to, they're going to have to come first. if a relationship requires me to sacrifice…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 09:15 PM
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yes. my HV boyfriend knew immediately that he wanted a monogamous relationship, and didn't want to waste any time where i might consider going out with other people. also doesn't watch porn. he has been fully invested in ME from the get-go, which is the important thing, because i've never had to question his commitment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 07:08 PM
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i imagine the laugh was like an automatic response until it actually sunk in and he realized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 03:11 AM
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i don't advocate for violence, but i think that joke was terrible. making fun of someone's illness or disability is absolutely disgusting to me, and i do think it needed some sort of repercussion. for all we know, she's crying herself to sleep every night about it and it's a horrifically sore subject at home. he should know how low that comment was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 08:06 PM
194

if someone ever told me to shut up i would simply never talk to them again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 07:29 PM
82

and the 5+ years of missing work experience and how hard it is to get a job again and then you're basically starting from square one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 05:56 PM
12

my recommendation is to masturbate before you go. gets rid of the craving, lets you think with a clear head lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 04:43 AM
163

scream it out loud queen!!!! i had the same realization over quarantine. i take care of my skin, but who am i wearing makeup for when i hate the process of putting it on, taking it off, and i hate the way it feels? i noticed one day at my old job, i was putting time into doing my makeup every day because i felt insecure without it, but i looked around and realized so many women were not wearing makeup and looked good, and i didn't think they were ugly without makeup. why did i think that about m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 08:32 PM
120

high heels are oppressive to women, why would i want to wear something that a.) hurts and b.) disables me and puts me at a physical disadvantage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 08:30 PM
106

for so many reasons. i would love to be the bachelorette, but i could never fight over a man. like. just couldn't do it. begging for a moment to talk to him? nope nope nope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 10:40 PM
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same, my boyfriend was very quick to ask me to be his girlfriend because he couldn't stand the idea of me still going out with other people. has treated me like a queen ever since!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:00 PM
25

Then they show up looking nothing like their pictures or theyre weird or ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 11:19 PM
185

why is this literally not even a joke. this is every single profile. i am so glad i made the decision to leave online dating, and i don't know if i will ever do it again, unless i find myself particularly bored one day. even then...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:47 PM
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oh honey... my boyfriend worked very hard all day and night on valentines day. that's not a good excuse. february 13th i got a giant, beautiful bouquet of flowers delivered to me with a card and then we went to my favorite restaurant. when a man cares about you, he will put forth effort. that is not something you need to explain. run away unless you enjoy being disappointed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:40 PM
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Id much rather that, much rather have a new boyfriend every year for the next twenty years, than have spent 5 years in a forever gf situation with some chump who’s no longer in the picture, or spend the next ten with a guy whose kids I bred and now rolls his eyes at me and makes me feel like the biggest drag on earth? Id rather live. Id rather fall in love, have fun, bond, have sex, see the world through someone new. Someone younger, older, different. Id rather start over 20x than beat a dead ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:09 AM
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i'm just.... there are so many things that are animated. movies, shows, commercials, music videos, teaching lessons, games, etc etc etc. what a stupid thing to say. meanwhile he's prob a video game addict who lives with his mom and can't cook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:25 AM
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keyword there is sometimes. my ex shit on the floor once when he was drunk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 03:45 AM
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the way i would NEVER cook a second dinner for a man. you're lucky if i'm cooking for you in the first place, and you either like it or you don't eat it. i don't care. the absolute audacity here on top of the feigned incompetence. like, i don't feel bad for women for dealing with this anymore when it's so easy to just LEAVE. date a GROWN UP. imagine dating someone who gets sauce on their sticky fingers like a toddler instead of.... using a napkin? absolutely not, could never be me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:53 PM
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“Baby trapping” if you were done having kids after 4 shouldve had a vasectomy. Also shouldve not cheated on your wife. So dumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:00 AM
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stop online dating. it's a cesspool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 06:05 AM
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I did the best Meredith Blake halloween costume this year since it’s my Meredith Blake year. I might get bored and decide to have children in 10 years but certainly have 0 interest in them now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:07 PM
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this is why i cant wait to live alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 04:48 PM
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not OP but: for finance/money discussions: moneydiariesactive for interior design: femalelivingspace for weed discussions: entwives adhdwomen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:16 PM
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then they make fun of us when we want to use sunscreen and moisturizer and face masks. ummm okayyy!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:49 AM
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my HV boyfriend takes me out every week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 11:04 PM
90

Hehe what about when ‘he’ is my mother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 07:34 PM
20

i think marriage to a woman would probably be much more equal, but i also still ponder if i ever want to get married to anyone. i don't know if i would ever even want to live with anyone. if not for the financial benefits, i really enjoy having my own space and wouldn't want someone else intruding on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 11:25 PM
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There's a reason why Oprah never got married....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 11:22 PM
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lmfao the absolute entitlement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 11:20 PM
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If you have to hide your disappointment and find excuses for your cheap, lazy partner, is your relationship really good for you? Are you really, genuinely happy? it's so true. having to hide your disappointment is its own game of misery. my bf keeps randomly sending me gorgeous bouquets with chocolates just because he knows i like flowers. it is a world of difference when someone actually wants to show you that they think about you and care about you and like to do little things to make you happ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 10:40 PM
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yes because spending money on your girlfriend = she's just a gold digger using you for your money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 10:36 PM
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I'm down with not giving anyone my real address, but avoiding rides seems impossible? Let's say I live in NYC and I'm out with friends until 1am. My options might be a.) walk 2-3 miles home. b.) take the subway alone or c.) take an uber/taxi. Which option is really the best, besides never going out at night?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 11:54 PM
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it's such a small thing you can do to make the world a little bit better of a place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 04:20 AM
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i guess it depends on the age, but i wouldn't want to get engaged in my 20's to someone i've been dating less than two years. sometimes it takes a while for the red flags to come out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:40 PM
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i can't relate to this. both my grandma's are extremely HVW in their own ways. my one grandma worked her entire life in a doctor's office without ever getting any further education, but smarter than almost anyone i know and can diagnose anyone with the proper illness every time. always knows how to fix a situation, generous, great sense of humor, my best friend. my other grandma came from great wealth but has always stressed the importance of education, investing, and making responsible decision…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:19 PM
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unicorn literally means a single bi woman looking for threesomes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:07 PM
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People don’t like hearing the truth lol. Good news is i don’t care about imaginary internet points
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:11 PM
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Most men i know who play video games are playing call of duty and grand theft auto, which are pretty mind numbing horrible games imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 08:20 PM
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I would argue playing video games is much worse than watching tv or reading. Reading actively builds your vocabulary, knowedge, and social-emotional intelligence by allowing you to understand other characters thoughts, motivations, backgrounds, etc, not to even mention reading actual nonfiction. Some tv shows are equally as mindless as video games, but other shows could be mentally stimulating and educational as well. Video games are typically violent or nonsensical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:24 PM
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Yeah. theres only one thing to look for, men who don’t play video games. That’s a hard stop for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:19 PM
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Nobody in my life has ever shamed me for letting men pay for me. My father taught me men should always pay and he would never let a woman pay for a date. I used to offer to split it out of ignorance and only two scrotes ever took me up on it. My current boyfriend refuses to let me pay for anything, as he should.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:17 PM
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My new HV boyfriend keeps being consistently HV. He is so happy to take me out for dinner all the time, cook for me, planning surprises, asking for my input in everything in his life, showing clear goals and following through with them. Such a contrast to my LV ex who complained that having to buy me dinner would cost twice as much as buying himself dinner 🙄 i honestly don’t know if it is going to be a super long term thing because i think we have very different life plans, but i am enjoying bei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:13 PM
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If he wanted to, he would…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:06 PM
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i agree, we have to do what makes us happy. i like being hairless like a naked mole rat. i once had someone ask me to grow out my pubes for them, and i tried it and hated it soooooo much i'm like why am i doing this for a stupid man? also turned out to be ZV, of course
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:53 PM
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you don't make sure. you just let it happen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 06:47 PM
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lmao could never be me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:00 PM
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Thank you! Trust me, the vetting never stops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 12:49 PM
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i need to brag for a minute, the longer i date my new BF, the more green flags i see. -he is so generous and so thoughtful. he's always asking me if i'm hungry, cooking for me, making sure everything is perfect. he went out shopping the other day and bought me a piece of jewelry just because. he insists on paying for everything and gets offended when i try to buy him drinks or anything. -he is so kind and caring to me, he always asks how i'm doing, checks in on me multiple times throughout the d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:22 AM
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the person i am currently dating refuses to let me pay for anything and doesnt expect sex from it either. treats me like a queen, and it is such a nice change of pace from the usual LVM. such a stark difference from my ex complaining how expensive it was to buy me dinner.... don't settle ladies!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:37 AM
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right on que cue, queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:56 AM
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Yeah but that idea is also patriarchal and heteronormative because what is sex anyway? Are lesbians virgins forever? Are gay men virgins forever? Does anal sex count? Does oral sex count? Does fingering? Are you putting the importance on the physical act or the emotional one? What if you dont orgasm, does that still count? What if the other person doesnt? How are we defining these things? Its all a social construct
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:40 AM
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i disagree with virginity as a concept. there was absolutely no difference in my life between having had a penis in my vagina and not. there was no physical difference, no emotional difference, no mental difference, nothing. it had absolutely 0 impact on me. i was the same exact person i was the day before. the idea of virginity places the importance on vaginas- but no one calls you a blowjob virgin if you've never given a blowjob. what if you have sex with women? are you a virgin forever? are y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:09 PM
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if sex work is work how come more men don't have sex with men for money? if blowjobs are an easy way to pay the bills, why wouldn't every guy want to do that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:47 PM
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WRONG, some women LIKE fucking crusty old men!!! some women LIKE being objectified and sexually abused by disgusting men who pay for access to their private parts! therefore you hating it is misogynistic!!!!!!!! the amount of times people try to say this is absurd. i wonder if people think it's like, ripped sexy beautiful men going to prostitutes. not that would make it any better, but i always just envision how disgusting sex purchasers are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:45 AM
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Men get to exist in their natural state. Why can’t we? this is what gets me. men go to work every single day without makeup on, they don't even think about it. i have started hating makeup so much, and i hate the obligation that i feel to do it before i go to work. does anyone actually care if i wear makeup? no. so why do i do it? because i feel like it makes me better looking.... and why do i care? because we live in a patriarchal society where my attractiveness matters. if i'm home, i'm absolu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:45 AM
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i think about this so often, especially the financial aspect of it. i used to spend sooooooooooooooo much money on makeup. imagine if i had invested that money instead? but nobody gets rich off of you accepting yourself for who you are. society profits off of making women hate themselves. there is no male beauty industry because men are just happy with themselves naturally- they don't feel insecure if they go to work without makeup. it seems like everything is actually just meant to hurt us- wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:31 AM
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my parents used to tell me boys wouldn't like me if i got tattoos. i said great, and then went and got a tattoo lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:23 AM
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Oh yes i meant “seems crazy”, i know shes not crazy. Carrie needed more than big could give her, but they were both addicted to the toxic back and forth of chasing someone unavailable. I dont think Natasha was better than carrie, but i think as a younger, less experienced woman she was more willing to put up with his bullshit and not “demand too much” from him. Like she knew he was cheating and was just going to quietly accept it until she caught them in the act and couldnt ignore it anymore. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:11 PM
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yes, i think Natasha is 26? to his 40 something. she checked all the right boxes so he goes ahead and marries her because she doesn't seem as crazy as carrie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:15 PM
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yup. don't buy a house with a boyfriend, don't even get a dog with a boyfriend, unless you're okay with never seeing it again after you break up. marriage vows are there to protect you- a boyfriend can ditch you at any second and take everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:08 PM
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ugh your bf sounds just like mr best sex of my life. i love fucking hot men, and i'm not ashamed of it! i've never been jealous of anyones boyfriend or husband because theyre almost all so gross looking. but mAyBe ThEy HaVe a NiCe PeRsOnAlIty!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:43 AM
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Oh my moms not a pickme, just a narcissist. I do what i want and she hates it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:59 PM
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hehe we're not speaking right now because the other day she started ranting about what a horrible self centered person i am and making fun of me and i told her to fuck off which is apparently much worse. always gotta remember i can't actually talk to her :) have a lovely weekend yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:04 PM
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mothers are almost always the first person in life to try to tear down your self esteem. i remember telling my mom i wanted to be a comedian and she goes "but you're not funny?" really mom? because thats the first word absolutely anyone who actually knows me would describe me. my mom just doesn't have a sense of humor and doesn't care for anyone who does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:46 PM
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Because wanting a nice engagement ring makes you a materialistic golddigging bitch 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:11 PM
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"Being good at sex" is such a nonsense. i'm going to have to respectfully disagree with you, some men are terrible at sex. just like some men are bad kissers. there are many things that go into good sex that not everyone knows or does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:30 AM
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i hate it so much when men say "we're pregnant" no you sure as hell fucking aren't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:32 PM
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or play 2048 or candy crush
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:43 AM
8

Oh yikes. Would hate to have a manleech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:48 PM
21

to be fair, sometimes women just really want to move abroad and marriage is the easiest way to do that. stay there for 5 years, get that citizenship, get an amicable divorce. no i have not thought about this extensively.............
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:09 PM
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hey, that's what love is! sometimes you have to give up on your dreams and make sure a man has dinner waiting for him when he gets home!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:07 PM
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i wish i were kidding. i wish i had left then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:47 PM
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it's the wanting 4 children but laughing at children getting hurt for me..............
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:40 AM
10

could never be me lololol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:39 AM
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"i will do anything to keep him and make him stay" lol good for you, i definitely won't 🤣she can have him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:37 AM
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my ex got so drunk once he shit on the floor in front of me. you know how many times my cat has done that? zero
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:37 AM
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ugh i want to give this post all of the awards, i agree wholeheartedly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:23 PM
11

He really thought that by eating across from him while i paid for my own lunch i would be so impressed and immediately go fuck him after work. The audacity...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:54 PM
20

Ive never had anyone in NYC ask me for a walk in the park and if they did id laugh in their face. The BARE MINIMUM here is nice cocktails, and usually we go somewhere and im hungry so i get dinner anyway. Every single time ive eaten dinner with someone theyve paid for it because....... manners. The only time i paid for my own food was a lunch date, which was my fault anyway for even agreeing to a lunch date. Lunch date then turned out to be a NVM. Most of the dinners were decent guys, just not f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:54 PM
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dusting the shutters, cleaning the litterbox, bleaching the walls, vacuuming the ceiling..... heck, i could even bake a new type of pastry or perhaps watch a nice film.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:27 PM
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i simply.... would not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:00 PM
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i just read a post in datingoverthirty by a woman in NYC wondering why all her park dates are horrible. probably because you're considering a walk in the park a date. if i wanted to go for a walk i'd grab the leash and take my dog for a walk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:57 PM
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anime/video games doesn't have a driver's license gross toothbrush works for the family business talks to his mother too much overly interested in cars drives a truck hunting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:04 AM
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oooh baby, sign me up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:47 AM
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i have an iphone tripod on my amazon list for whenever i travel again so that i can make sure i get great pictures of myself without having to ask anyone else to take crappy pictures for me. i wish i had thought of it years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:27 PM
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Yeah, never loan anyone money. Youre never getting that back sis, sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:30 PM
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excellent list. i have so many goals i want to accomplish that don't involve other people at all, it's a great way to spend my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:41 AM
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how dare we try to enjoy the sex we are having!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:06 AM
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last guy i was dating, we're having sex, and then i pull out my vibrator to help me cum while i'm riding him. then he has the audacity to say he feels like i'm just using him to masturbate with. just because....... i wanted an orgasm..... from the same sex..... that he was going to orgasm from.......... it's exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:01 AM
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i just want to understand why one man in particular (LV) could get me off so fast, so easily. but for everyone else its impossible? it's not like he was particularly attractive. why must a LVM be the best in bed?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:57 AM
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She knew peggy was being a pickme and wanted better for her. She knew peggy deserved a man who actually wanted to marry her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:53 PM
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i got an IUD and it hurt for like 5 minutes, with minor cramping afterward. have been very happy with it and getting a new one soon. it's not completely awful for everyone and i still recommend it for long lasting birth control. i got the hormonal one and haven't had the need for a tampon in 5 years because there's one drop of blood a month for my period. i love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:49 PM
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"you're lonely? get a cat"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:34 PM
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stop getting plastic surgery and botox and lip fillers to fill an artificial beauty standard that men never compete with...... you are beautiful just the way you are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:57 PM
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it's not libel if it's true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:01 AM
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interesting. it's only libel if it's not true. if we kept the receipts.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:00 AM
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i've NEVER given bumble more than 5 minutes of my time because the entire idea of ME reaching out to THEM? just doesn't sit right with me. i'm not going to beg men to date me and give them the option to constantly ignore me. no thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:15 PM
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deleting all of the apps has given me so much peace. it really is the best way to go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:13 PM
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can a programmer sis out there make an app where we review men? there are some men i would give nice reviews to, but they just weren't for me. and there are some men that everyone should get a warning for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:12 PM
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Theres members from all over!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:00 PM
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PLEASE stop telling me [19F] to break up with my bf [38M]! he's great in every way except for the fact that he belittles me, forces me to have sex i don't want, doesn't clean up after himself, doesn't do anything nice for me, and is trying to trap me into having a baby!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:24 AM
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Financial freedom is the key to success! If you wanna talk about budgeting and finances in a friendly female-focused subreddit, feel free to join us at moneydiariesactive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:26 PM
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You are obviously a lying materialistic golddigger!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:31 AM
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She shouldve had the abortion, wouldve made her life so much easier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:16 AM
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Too bad her fetish is acting alive during sex :/ he’s kinkshaming her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:52 AM
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and they're not too shy to cheat on you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:08 PM
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they're shy, but they're not too shy to cheat on you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:07 PM
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this is kinda why i hate the holidays. every single holiday somehow turns into women cooking and cleaning and men being useless. holidays are supposed to be enjoyable, but the only enjoyable holiday for me is the 4th of july because i can sit on the beach and nobody is expecting any big meal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:21 AM
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we’ve just become interchangeable for them. One woman that’s too hard to reach doesn’t phase them because another woman will gladly fill in that role of being a mother they can fuck it makes me want to vom but it's so true. the minute your standards become too high they give up to look for someone who will expect less of them and settle for their mediocrity without complaint
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:50 AM
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kind of love the fact that oprah never got married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:25 AM
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Thank you sis, its just exhausting living in a patriarchy. We are really never safe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:12 AM
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Literal stranger picks me off the street to rape and still tried to defend himself with “she wanted it” no i did not?????? I didnt know you and i was trying to go home and you SNATCHED me???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:37 AM
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my cat loves my boobs. they are warm and squishy and make a nice place to sit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 12:16 AM
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sounds like my cat. any relationship where someone says "it's me or the cat" .....ok bye, we will have a lovely time without you lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 12:15 AM
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They will not think you deserve respect (unless of course they are in the process of shaming a mother with a career by comparing her to you), they will not think you deserve leisure time, they will not think you deserve rest, they will not think you deserve financial compensation, hell, they will not think you even deserve basic human decency. Beware that becoming a SAHM is essentially signing a slavery contract to the father of your children and you forfeit any expectation of freedom or human d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:04 PM
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like a literal bum off the street or....?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:00 PM
24

this is the direction i'm leaning toward as well, unless i somehow find someone absolutely incredible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:00 PM
15

OP needs to dump him. there ARE men who can make you cum, this one just aint it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:50 PM
24

we don't even count the guy if he doesn't make you orgasm i like this theory and i'm sticking with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:47 PM
11

good girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:13 AM
18

there's this guy in my friend group who used to date my ex roommate, and one night over zoom he started telling us the most convoluted story of how he cheated on her and hid the evidence and i was just lost for words at how ridiculously sociopathic it was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:06 AM
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i used to think it would be so nice to be a stay at home mom. the longer i go on, the more it seems like prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:08 AM
15

that's called a snot-rocket, my friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:59 AM
35

yes, women are so beautiful, and funny, and smart, and clean, and interesting, and rationally minded. i would love to find a nice gf when i start dating again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:58 AM
70

hey, don't downplay c-sections! they're also traumatic surgeries that can have many complications and risk factors. there is no easy way to have kids, unless you're a man, sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:09 AM
22

i wish i could have children but just fast forward past the baby stages. like i could deal with a 5 year old, but babies sound like so much work....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:07 AM
23

this is why it is important to see how a man reacts to "gross" things before you ever consider having a baby with him. can he handle blood? vomit? shit, piss, gory breastmilk?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:04 AM
39

imagine thinking breastmilk = gore. what an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:03 AM
8

my parents are the same. my aunt does absolutely everything for her grandkids, watches them throughout the week, has sleepovers, etc etc, my mom is like "no way in fuck i would ever do that" good to know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:41 PM
43

Yes, even walking ahead of you is a dealbreaker to me. Youre not together if hes 20 feet ahead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:53 PM
15

i'm so jealous of tall women. i have to climb on my counters like a little monkey to get things up high. be proud of your amazonian goddessness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:49 PM
7

well, he's right you know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:26 PM
19

it actually enrages me how even the things that are seen as stereotypically "womens jobs" will STILL be taken over by men, where more men get the higher paying jobs, recognition, prestige, etc. i'm in education, where 75% of teachers are women, and yet only 54% of principals are women. like HOW are we still taken out of leadership positions in A FEMALE DOMINATED INDUSTRY????? how is the stereotype gonna be women belong in the kitchen but then all of the professional chefs are men, the cooking tv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:24 PM
59

sounds painful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:55 PM
11

i hear you. my mom loves to complain about me but you know she'll be devastated when i finally move. going to your own room is helpful. if you have a car, that's also a nice escape. even if you just go to get mcdonalds/coffee/whatever and sit in your car by yourself somewhere for a while to get some space. it will be over soon and the fresh air of finally being alone will be so lovelyyyy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:22 PM
57

william made kate wait sooooooooooo long to get married, holding that like a carrot in front of her for SO MANY YEARS. i would never spend 8 years as someone's girlfriend waiting for the day they decide they finally want to marry me. if you can't figure that out after a few years.........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:18 PM
30

stone wall. if someone is yelling at you, stay calm, "i'm not going to listen to you scream at me" and walk away. deep breaths. start saving to move out. my mom is also a yeller when she gets mad and i have learned to just ignore her because usually when shes upset it's something deeper and doesn't actually have anything to do with me. i walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:13 PM
25

yup. my favorite subreddits are here, a female-centered subreddit about finances, and a subreddit for female marijuana enthusiasts. relationships, personal finance, and trees are all overloaded with men. it's horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:20 AM
71

military is also a huge red flag for me and an automatic deal breaker at this point in life. #1 i don't want someone who is going to move around a lot, but #2 the military breeds misogyny, homophobia, violence, anger issues, PTSD, republicanism, etc etc etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:24 PM
5

just imagine you lived by yourself..... what would you do? you'd have to clean up after yourself.... and feed yourself.... so keep doing that.... IT'S NOT THAT HARD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:13 PM
39

when i was 17 some guy used to come through the drive thru at my job every morning for a while, really flirty, asked for my number, we start texting, he tells me he's 29, i stop answering. keeps texting me.... i don't reply..... texts me like 15 times in a row with no response asking me to hang out. then tells me he won't be coming through the drive thru anymore because he got a DUI and lost his license and his mom has to drive him to work now. what a piece of a human garbage lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:33 PM
9

ugh i wanna give everyone my rapist's phone number so they can remind him that he's still a rapist, but i'm sure that's against the rules of the internet somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:03 PM
22

Womens law project of philadelphia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:44 AM
23

don't study abroad with a boyfriend back at home! he's gonna cheat on you anyway! get out while you're ahead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:00 AM
18

ah yes, a gift that actually shows EFFORT AND HARD WORK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:21 PM
7

unless they actually know how to cook and are trying to impress you, it's an easy excuse to get you to cook them dinner. it's a date.... you shouldn't have to be working
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:03 PM
5

eating a man's leftovers? no thanks, ill go home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:32 PM
2

Exactly. Like i wouldn’t even look at them now. Its just odd that its every single one! I guess its good because it makes me feel better about not looking back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:20 PM
23

i don't even mean like my opinion has changed though, i mean they literally get so much worse looking. one got super fat, the other one got even uglier, and the other one made poor facial hair decisions and is now gross looking. their ugly personalities are all still there, but they seem to let themselves go in the wrong direction while i keep getting better looking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:22 AM
20

many of us discuss becoming a single mother by choice, therefore there is no man in the equation to bother us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:20 AM
109

who is this? this is a solid bit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:01 AM
103

tell me why every ex gets uglier and grosser looking after i dump them, but i keep getting better looking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:20 PM
26

ugh. i was lovebombed by the last person i thought i was "seriously" dating.... we hit it off so well from the beginning, talking constantly, hanging out a lot, hot sex, planning all of these future dates and things we were gonna do together, telling me how much his friends will love me, HAD DINNER WITH MY PARENTS, and then right at 3 months ghosted after slowly texting less..... i wasn't even surprised, just disappointed. whenever something feels too good to be true, it usually is. take it slow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:13 PM
5

i just like to spread the good word because there is a bias where you only ever hear the bad stories, even though they're not as common. same thing with childbirth, car accidents, plane accidents, etc, you only ever hear when it goes horribly wrong because things that go well aren't newsworthy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:12 PM
33

exactly!!! like i was smiling and looking at him too, i was laughing wondering how long it was going to take for him to finally say something! i thought in november 2019 i should just say something, he didn't say hello until january. but i shouldn't have to beg you to say HELLO, just imagine how much more work i'd end up having to do the entire time in a relationship like that. ugh. i saw him again while i was running one day but i wasn't going to interrupt my run for a man. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:27 PM
18

it's easy for men to be anti-abortion when it has literally nothing to do with them or their bodies. that would be a huge red flag for me as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:12 PM
11

IUD hurt for like 5 minutes and some cramping afterward but i've been very happy with it, personally. i would still get another even if i never had sex again because it has made my period almost nonexistent where i used to bleed all over the place. that alone is worth it to me, the birth control is just an added bonus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:11 PM
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i used to make eye contact with this guy on the train every day (in the Before Times) and he would like smirk at me but not say anything so i was like ok i'm not gonna start talking to you first.... and then he finally started talking to me but was so shy and taking it so slow i contemplated just giving him my number but then i was like he should ask! and then he disappeared and we stopped commuting and i never saw him again but i live with the assumption that he probably had a girlfriend or he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:48 AM
87

what are you supposed to do to defend yourself? say please stop?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:02 AM
36

50/50 is never equal for women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:09 PM
34

except for when people you don't know are like "let's cuddle" and i'm like gross get away from me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:07 PM
8

my gym has a women only room and it's soooooo nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:59 AM
110

And people can screenshot your OF and post it elsewhere and screw you out of any money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:05 PM
28

It just..... you know i love coffee. You know theres nothing better than waking up to someone delivering you coffee in bed. It costs $2. You have to actively be thinking “no that would be too nice she doesnt deserve that” so fuck me i guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:04 PM
127

my ex's idea of doing me a favor was getting himself coffee so i didn't have to make him coffee and could just make myself coffee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:26 PM
87

one time my ex was over, left early in the morning while i was sleeping to go out to dunkin and get himself coffee and brought me back a sandwich. and i'm like thanks, but where's my coffee? he's like oh i didn't get you one because you can make it yourself. i thought i'd do you a favor and get myself coffee so you don't have to make me coffee. and i got so annoyed and he called me ungrateful but how are you going to go GET YOURSELF MY FAVORITE COFFEE and rub it in my face that you didnt get me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:24 PM
1

check out moneydiariesactive for a female based finance sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:48 AM
20

taking one year and putting all the time and energy that you’ve put into looking good for men or meeting good men and put it all into learning about money, meeting people who are good with money, investing money, making more money this is exactly what i've done for the past year! and damn it i feel so wealthy and free. saving up so when i move i can buy nice new furniture and live in a beautiful feminine apartment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:46 AM
3

nope, teacher with a set salary schedule. union fights for the salary numbers so i don't have to, which to me is a beautiful thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:49 AM
4

i wish i had saved my award for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:37 PM
7

men can fuck you over in all sorts of ways, but the point is that women with careers have the freedom to leave abusive relationships and ZVM in a way that SAHM's do not. if you've been working for the past 20 years and need to move and get a new job, it shouldn't be that hard to find. someone who got married at 19 and never worked is going to have a much harder time finding a living wage at 38 with 0 work experience and kids to support. a job is the key to independence, ESPECIALLY if men are goi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:23 PM
6

because you want a steady income trajectory? what the fuck kind of a question is that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:18 PM
3

ugh i'm so glad to choose a career path where i don't have to beg someone for a raise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:16 PM
16

i've been with several gorgeous, chiseled abs rocking body could be male models men. and let me tell you, they were delicious, and the sex was incredible. did i want to date them? no. their egos were obviously overinflated, apart from other major personality flaws. but the sex was great! better than any ugly guy! so no, i'm not swiping left on men because they're good looking and take care of their bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:50 PM
41

i wish they would just hire a maid and leave us alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:53 PM
103

99% of rapists are men. Coincidence? I think not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:24 PM
45

ugh. i was interviewed in here and i wrote so much about all of the benefits and this is just.... disappointing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:27 AM
90

my new fetish is being worshipped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:47 AM
16

Leave when you start to hear the music 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:46 PM
34

they would like to get to know what your vagina looks like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:36 AM
5

lol i'd settle for having my friends in the same city as me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:33 AM
66

being single feels like winning every time i hear these stories
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:42 PM
25

it really is so freeing. i keep unfollowing people, deleting them, deleting apps, giving myself space and quiet and it feels so nice. you never miss them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:40 PM
2

thank you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:36 PM
5

it makes me contemplate either no children or being a single mom by choice. i would never deal with a man like this. it would never have gotten this far because i would never date someone who plays video games, but that seems to be the least troubling part of his behavior. disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:09 PM
7

yet another example of why i would never date someone who plays video games. fucking disgusting. throw the whole man in the garbage and free yourself ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:07 PM
10

there are plenty of men who don't eat pussy. there are plenty of men who will make you feel bad about your pussy, and tell you its your fault they don't wanna eat it. or theyll just ignore it. even your statement "they never refused" it shouldn't be a matter of refusing. they should be enthusiastically eating your pussy. only one did it regularly? this is basic, should be an essential part of foreplay, if not the whole activity. they always expect you to suck their dick to get it hard and wet. t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:32 PM
22

i'm perfectly happy not forgiving my abusers! i hope they all rot in hell if such a place exists!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:18 PM
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you don't need to forgive anyone. i hate when people say that. if you really do forgive people, great. but i am allowed to stay mad for the rest of my life if i want to. some people don't deserve forgiveness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:22 PM
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sorry i'm not MATERIALISTIC and NEEDY like those other girls! i don't need someone who tells me they love me! i don't need someone who respects me! i'm DIFFERENT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:19 PM
30

Bless you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:47 AM
10

it's exhausting.... she keeps getting mad at me for saying everything is racist. i'm just trying to get you to acknowledge the racist things you say and stop it!!! you can't say you're not a racist and then constantly make racist comments. ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:56 AM
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i hear soooooo many bad stories about abusive stepdads or boyfriends..... i would probably wait even longer. it's so hard to know if someone's secretly a scumbag. i would feel so horrible if i unknowingly subjected a child to abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:51 AM
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why would you marry someone who doesn't eat your pussy? you can find that out early enough to get out before it gets serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:24 PM
26

yup. modelling industry as a whole is incredibly damaging to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:20 PM
24

last night i said something about how as a teacher i have to be careful about what kind of role model i'm being for young girls and what kind of gender stereotypes i'm enforcing and my mom yelled at me for my woke bullshit and told me to shut up. all we can do is be better for others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 10:41 PM
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Almost as if daughter in laws only matter if they are pregnant you mean like how my ex's mom would constantly badger me about when i was going to have a baby, but had absolutely no interest in me as a person?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:06 PM
55

men are NEVER worried about using us. they take what they want and move on to the next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 07:56 PM
117

yup. men will have you buy your own meal and still expect sex out of you. where is the benefit for us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:37 PM
122

ugh. i went on a date, did my classic "do you want to split it?" line waiting for this guy to say "no i got it" and he DIDN'T! so i paid for both of my drinks and was like wow i guess he doesn't like me, okay. whatever. then he tried to kiss me which i found very confusing. then he tried to make plans again and i bailed because i didn't feel like it and he said sorry it's not gonna work out i'm seeing someone i like better. great! so he saved the money that he didn't spend on me to SPEND IT ON S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:34 PM
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no i'm agreeing with you lol. we can support sex workers without encouraging people to do it. they need support to escape, not legal consequences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:52 AM
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i am running out of ways to explain why we shouldn't be encouraging people into prostitution....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:32 AM
7

please god. i retweeted this saying "please tell me this isn't real" and someone i'm friends with retweeted it with like YASSSS and i just..... i don't know how to explain to people that this is bad anymore..... no one wants to believe it....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:30 AM
26

paying for a date is quite literally the least men can do. if someone asks you out on a date, they should pay. men who don't pay are cheap and are saving their money to take out someone else after you. if you pay for yourself you're only hurting your own pockets while wasting your time with someone cheap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:58 AM
8

"not really, thanks"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:55 AM
15

i have no qualms about letting men pay for me. they make more money. i feel no obligation to give them anything in return. why would i let them save their money to take someone else out after me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:54 AM
122

just another symptom of men constantly thinking they're better than us, more important than us, their wants are more important than ours, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:43 PM
197

Women were beaten, abused, and had feeding tubes stuck down their throats in jail just so we could vote. But some women still be like “i just don’t care about politics 🥰”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 06:59 PM
18

threesomes arent wrong if YOU want to have them and everyone is happy and safe. theyre not for everyone, but theyre not inherently bad. i'd rather have a threesome with another couple than within my own relationship, or with two friends where everyone is equal. theyre definitely more complicated though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:43 AM
4

my parents used to tell me no man would want me if i got tattoos. which of course isn't true, but those arent the type of people i would want to date anyway???? who cares?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:31 AM
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this. kept trying to explain to my friend that having multiple problems in the first year of your relationship means you need to just let it go. she's like no we can make it WORK relationships take WORK. no sis, it shouldn't be this hard. "work" in marriages is like how to spice up your sex life after 15 years. work is not asking someone to respect you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:26 PM
23

Always have that quote in the back of my mind. Love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:42 PM
85

Running a marathon is much harder than having unprotected sex. And no man can ever take my medal or my master’s degree away from me, so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:56 PM
66

i still feel like 99% of the men who had sex with me when i was 19 should be arrested
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:06 PM
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Of course! I am a fence sitter, in that I think I could be happy either way, but I don’t worry about childbirth because it is such a short process in the grand scheme of life. I’m much more worried about being able to afford children, if they would be healthy, how i would be able to support a child with severe illness or disability, etc. Many, many women forget about whatever pain they felt during childbirth and choose to go through it again! So that is the least of my concerns, personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:56 AM
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Of course! I am a fence sitter, in that I think I could be happy either way, but I don’t worry about childbirth because it is such a short process in the grand scheme of life. I’m much more worried about being able to afford children, if they would be healthy, how i would be able to support a child with severe illness or disability, etc. Many, many women forget about whatever pain they felt during childbirth and choose to go through it again! So that is the least of my concerns, personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:56 AM
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Probably easier to get girls to have sex with you if they dont all automatically hate you for being a cop first. I imagine that limits the dating pool (for smart women, at least). Thankfully i never had sex with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:49 PM
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most women don't end up in chronic pain or with horrible complications. you only ever hear the horror stories because people who have easy, simple births aren't really going to talk about that. just like you don't hear about all of the people who don't get in car accidents every day- it's supposed to be that way, you only hear the bad stuff because it's abnormal. there's definitely risks involved with pregnancy and raising children, but you have to accept that possibility. i know several women w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:25 PM
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Ohhh love this one. I went out with a guy who was a cop, but told me he was an EMT (probably because he knew I wouldn't date a cop). went to his apartment, i'm like why do you need a bulletproof vest? he's like oh it's a dangerous area where i work. go through his closet, all his shirts say ____ county PD. i'm like why do these all say police department? he's like oh i'm an EMT for the police department. constantly would make plans and then cancel at the last minute because "things came up at wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:47 PM
2

Oh i think all of the stories are a bunch of garbage written by men lol. I embrace judaism for its greater moral teachings and community, not necessarily the religiosity per se
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:04 AM
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i think religion as a whole is stupid, yes. but some branches are less evil than others. i don't agree with a lot of the principles in orthodox judaism because it is so restrictive and sexist. i specified reform judaism because we focus more on equality, my point being there are some versions of religion that do respect women. most of them suck though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:56 PM
4

Religions are sexist. most reform jewish temples have female rabbis, are pro-LGBT, pro-choice, pro-education, pro-respecting women :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:59 PM
26

i concur. after i got raped i went through a phase of sleeping with a lot of people because it felt "empowering" to be able to say yes. except i still wasn't getting any pleasure out of (most of) it. i was just ALLOWING myself to be used as a hole by people who didn't care about me because i was lonely and craved a human connection. it wasn't worth it. there are very few people i actually remember. i wanted to get my virginity "over with" too. except there's no point. wait until someone actually…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:30 PM
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heated blanket good vibrator kitty <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:00 AM
8

ugh don't watch the handmaid's tale then. i want to keep watching because i'm intrigued by the story but it is just so painful to watch....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:59 AM
6

"ok, bye"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:29 PM
14

What kind of 26 year old is happily fucking a 52 year old though??? I could vom just thinking about it 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:34 AM
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i just downloaded this = i keep deleting this because no one matches with me, or unmatches me as soon as i try talking to them love anime/video games = misogynist, will never leave the house or pay attention to you not my baby = i use others to make me look more attractive and will use you to the best of my ability here for a good time, not a long time = don't bother, i'm just looking for a body to masturbate with i love the office = i have never had an original thought in my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:00 AM
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LMAO this is very true, i concur. they love to say where they're from if they think it's a bragging point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:56 AM
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i see we have similar taste. are we asking for a lot here??? the hard part is when you find the perfect penis and it is attached to garbage people. le sigh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:39 AM
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best hugs are from my friends tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:37 AM
6

i hope you told him how tiny and gross his dick was :/ sorry you keep dealing with trash. don't take it personally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:47 PM
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i got banned from relationships for telling someone to dump her abusive bf and try finding someone who respects her instead and join us. every single person asking for relationship advice online needs to just dump them honestly but no one wants to hear that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:58 AM
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absolutely agree. this is a huge red flag. i've had this experience with multiple losers, we're supposed to be on a date, why are you 20 feet ahead of me? however, it is also a great way to lose them. let them speed up. you slow down. when they call you 5 minutes later wondering where you are, block and delete. eta: i once met up with a date who STARTED THE DATE by walking so much faster than me and not paying attention to me at all. i should have just turned around and left, but i continued on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:17 AM
25

they WILL have a girlfriend in every city because they cannot be alone for more than 5 mins
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:18 AM
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Seconding blackout curtains 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 06:23 PM
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avoid anyone who doesn't know how to deal with conflict in a healthy manner. on the opposite end from someone shutting down your concerns, avoid someone who never tells you what they're really thinking because they don't want to "start a fight". if someone can't express minor grievances along the way, eventually they'll just blow up about things from forever ago that they never mentioned upset them so you never had any idea to fix it. bad communicators in general. just give up. you can't teach t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:58 AM
6

i had to unfollow an influencer i liked because she was giving away free botox and lip fillers. the last thing we need is anyone encouraging women to hate their natural faces MORE. i can't stand this culture. there's nothing wrong with your face!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:10 AM
156

i think the only flaw women have in relationships is trying to "make it work" with someone they should just give up on. you do not need to make a bad relationship better. just leave. we often struggle to break up with people because we don't want to be alone. but a lot of them suck! so just cut your losses sooner instead of wasting your own time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:43 PM
2

YES as you should
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:19 PM
24

Choriocarcinoma is a fast-growing cancer that occurs in a woman's uterus (womb). The abnormal cells start in the tissue that would normally become the placenta. This is the organ that develops during pregnancy to feed the fetus. Choriocarcinoma is a type of gestational trophoblastic disease. one of my favorite youtubers, elle fowler, just had a miscarriage and there were cells leftover in her uterus that she had to get surgery to remove because they can continue growing and turn into cancer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:39 PM
17

i just found out last week that some pregnancies can turn into cancer, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:33 PM
36

they need to ask questions, but they need to ask thought provoking questions. if all they ask is do you live alone, where are you from, how big are your tits...... theyre still LVM. and an absolute red flag for me: asking about your sexual history. they have absolutely no right to know, and i won't answer "how many people have you slept with" on principle. it doesn't matter if it's 0 or 500, it's none of your business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:59 PM
4

i really, really, really didn't want to report it. i didn't want to tell my parents. i wanted to forget it ever happened and move on with my life. but everyone kept telling me i should report it, and that only made my life a million times worse. don't ever feel bad for not further traumatizing yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:03 AM
4

they can use you not immediately going to the hospital against you - "she thought she was fine". if you ever get assaulted, go to the hospital immediately. get the evidence. don't text your friends about it- if you need to talk to someone, call them. anything you say in a text message to your friends will be used against you. if they ask for your phone, don't give it to them. also, if you really want to prosecute, get a lawyer before you talk to the police. the police don't really care about hel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:00 AM
336

i get gayer and gayer by the minute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:49 AM
12

i wouldn't say they're exclusive to LVM, but they are pretty classic man hobbies. by emphasizing her love of "manly" hobbies, she's trying to appear like "one of the guys" and attract "manly" men who pride themselves so much on being "manly" while they are, in fact, LV. HV men might enjoy golf and fishing but wouldn't really be bragging about it, because they have more valuable things to offer, more interesting things to talk about, and maybe because most women don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:37 AM
14

i'm just like other women in that i yearn for both affection and respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:32 AM
15

i'm just like other women in that i yearn for both affection and respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:31 AM
32

magic wand gets the job done in about 30 seconds if you're ready for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:15 AM
19

thats how its done!!! leave them at the first red flag, they never get any better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:14 AM
44

you know what to do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:00 AM
46

run sis!!!! you will find so much better. even nothing sounds better than that. we're here for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:58 AM
44

genius. i struggle to find an equivalent, because i really don't care about diamonds that much and i will inherit many. but a fake diamond would gross me out. i guess i could go for a more expensive and rarer gem, but i really don't care about jewelry that much. a house is a good compromise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:20 AM
24

men who don't read are probably too busy playing video games!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:09 AM
76

i hate wine. i tell people this, and they're still like, "try my wine, you might like it." i literally just told you i hate wine, why do you think your magical wine would be the one special wine in the world i might enjoy? i hate it all NO just LISTEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:07 AM
36

men who don't know how to properly wear a mask....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:03 AM
55

not asking me about myself, offhand misogynistic comments, taking too long to text back, playing video games, splitting a check, "i don't know where do you want to go"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:02 AM
68

can't wait till i'm 50 and divorced and i go back to fucking hot 25 year olds with rocking bodies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:20 PM
59

it's always better to be alone than to be lonely while you're with someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:08 PM
19

yup. i wish i hadn't given my award away earlier, because this one deserves it. i will never date a man who plays video games. they suck their souls, men can't regulate their behavior, they ruin lives. absolutely not. no where near me. if you wanna play at your friends house, okay. but not in my house, and not in my relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:07 PM
38

it was sooooo thoughtful of my ex to get me a visa giftcard from the gas station on the way to my house for my birthday. sis, if you're reading this, run!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:41 AM
12

lmaooooo i should not be laughing that much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:25 AM
2

oooh, can i suggest posting pics on femalelivingspace when you're done redecorating? love seeing womens homes that they design for themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:40 PM
70

if a man isn't begging to eat my pussy, i don't want him at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:39 PM
36

i wonder if women in any country think their men are great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:38 PM
10

the trifecta: heated blanket, vibrator, cat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:29 PM
21

got mine at 2:30!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:59 PM
31

my favorite NVM hit me up at 2:30 last night with a "lol hi". gave me great pleasure to leave him on read and not respond. fuck that noise. i hate blocking people because i love knowing when they come crying back, which they always do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:58 PM
94

how come when a boat goes down they want to rescue women and children first?! what about the men?! toxic!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:52 PM
18

i concur, your ugly boyfriend will still cheat on you with a sex worker and lie to you about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:12 PM
5

Yup. I dont think womens bodies should be for sale, therefore i hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:15 AM
10

If the only reason someone is consenting is to make money to pay their bills, it still feels coercive to me. If youre not doing it for fun, you dont actually want to do it..... which makes it rapey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:12 AM
3

So well said. I wish we could scream this into the void. I’m not going to judge someone who does it, but promoting it is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:09 AM
18

This was my argument lmao. If sex work is real work how come wealthy women dont do it for a hobby? Oh yeah, because people only do it when theyre desperate and nobody actually wants to bang crusty old scrotes unless they have to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:32 AM
15

I made the mistake of commenting on ARAD about why prostitution SHOULDNT be legalized and everyone just downvoted me and told me women LIKE being objectified for cash and that clearly i hate women! Then i unsubscribed because this is reddit and nobody actually cares about women UGH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:30 AM
3

the amount of times i should have left before i finally had enough ://///// never again. no one is ever getting that many chances again i swear to goddess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:48 AM
6

these are literally all just one ex bf. lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:46 AM
16

lies lies to avoid confrontation doesn't prioritize your safety doesn't appreciate anything you do still attached to his mother's tits cheats on you with sex workers lies about it stupid with money can't control himself with alcohol condescending can't initiate a decent conversation doesn't go above and beyond to make you feel cared for makes you feel shitty for asking for the bare minimum talks shit about people behind their backs talks badly about your family tells you he worries about you get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:02 PM
134

but he wrote bxtches!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:39 PM
7

idk my vibrator and heated blanket is a pretty sweet combo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:40 PM
19

the one the other day was great- "my bf slept naked with his ex girlfriend for comfort, what do i do? don't tell me to break up because it's NOT happening" lol okay girl have fun with that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:58 PM
50

this just sent me down another rabbithole of reading about peoples horrible relationships. every single person asking reddit for relationship advice needs to dump them. each post is worst than the next. i can't even describe how quickly i would dump any single one of these people and every post is like "how do i make it WORK?" ugh GODDESS i love being single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:29 AM
33

if there's a prize for rotten judgment, i guess i've already won that....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:10 AM
46

i would so much rather be a single mother by choice than deal with a shitty man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:41 AM
36

if someone didn't want to eat me out that's fine. i simply wouldn't date them, because there are plenty of men who would beg to eat my pussy. why waste my time with mediocrity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:00 AM
29

If something makes you happy dont let people on the internet make you sad lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 05:25 PM
15

This is the plot of an episode of the show virgin river. I was aghast lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 05:23 PM
23

my closest male friends have been friends with me for 15 years and 8 years.... not all men are horrible people. just the ones i date!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:40 PM
29

I have several male friends who are good people and not interested in having sex with me... they all have girlfriends, and our friendships all revolve around shared interests and deep conversations that aren’t remotely sexual. It is possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:26 PM
63

I think the word sex implies that its consensual. Rape is about power because there is no consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:02 PM
46

........sigh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 03:12 AM
67

But a roommate who actually cleans ip after themselves and doesnt expect me to cook them dinner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:18 PM
73

Call me old fashioned, but if he doesn’t want to commit to you, why would he be committed to a child?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:13 PM
70

omg i didnt see that update but SOUNDS ABOUT RIGHT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:26 PM
177

tell me why every single post on relationships is about women having babies with their boyfriends. not that your husband can't also leave you, but god damn i would never have a baby for a BOYFRIEND
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:25 PM
13

i think video games normalize violence and misogyny and racism. it's not normal, and they'll play them every single day and go to sleep dreaming about shooting people. it's a hard no from me. i will not allow any violent video games into my house. if you wanna play mario kart or animal crossing, that's one thing. there's no reason to be blowing peoples brains out and smacking hookers and pretending like that's normal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 11:37 PM
18

Needed to see this right now thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:57 PM
96

men don't actually want constructive criticism. don't waste your time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:31 PM
6

i'm so happy for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:06 AM
10

Maybe we accidentally dated the same nazi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 02:24 AM
18

Oh yeah i learned this the hard way a long time ago. Told this guy i was seeing about my trauma, ended up telling him we shouldnt see each other anymore (he was joking(?) about being a nazi??) and then he gets mad and tells me i deserved it and im a liar and blah blah blah. Ok cool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 01:56 AM
39

automod said they removed my comment, but if you go back in my post history "you ever go into someone elses house...." all the comments are telling me i'm being too judgmental and other people's life choices don't affect me....... they sure as hell do if they want me to date them?! then i remembered most of reddit is toxic incels anyway so why bother posting anything lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:10 PM
31

he had a 2br apartment to himself in nyc and there was not a single inch that wasn't covered in absolute garbage. like literally pulled garbage off the street and kept it and never looked at it again. nooooooo thank youuuu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:02 PM
33

so she quit her job to enable a child abuser? and stayed with him....? and disenfranchised herself in the process.....? oh honey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:07 PM
136

YES. i have dumped someone over their toothbrush before. it was atrocious. so frayed and disgusting looking. how do you LIVE with yourself?!?! he was also a hoarder and the first time i stepped into his apartment i knew i would absolutely never do that again. i wrote a post somewhere about not wanting to date a hoarder and so many people commented telling me i'm a bitch and i should mind my own business. fuck no, MISS ME WITH THAT ya nasty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:04 PM
19

every time i see stories like this it makes me so sad :( the amount of reddit posts from divorced women who have never worked or haven't worked in 20 years, have no idea what their finances look like, and have no idea what to do with themselves makes me want to cry. even if i married a millionaire, i need my own job and my own money and my own autonomy. we aren't slaves, and we need to stop acting like it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:01 PM
10

always have a fake name lol. my initials are a pretty classic name as well so i use that at starbucks and stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:31 AM
90

I got banned from relationships for telling someone to dump their loser boyfriend and find someone who respects them instead, with a link here. They just hate when women try to respect themselves....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:54 PM
31

therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 07:46 PM
14

Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:56 PM
25

enjoy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:23 AM
3

yes of course, just register for your divorce party
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:21 AM
20

Can they analyze embryos to make sure theyre genetically sound? Arent there still a bunch of disorders that wouldnt show up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:44 PM
8

exactly why i'd rather not bother trying to date at all right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:16 PM
-2

Lol i’m not addicted or dependent but thanks for the advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:36 AM
11

I’m sorry that i think you’re beautiful the way you are and you don’t need artificial enhancement. Jewelry and handbags aren’t invasive procedures. My question is WHY do you think you need to alter your face? Who told you that wrinkles are unattractive and need to be fixed? I don’t care what you spend your money on, but i’m concerned with society putting unrealistic beauty standards on women that aren’t helping us with anything in life. Why is sticking needles in your face a source of joy and se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:47 PM
6

Live your best life! I wanna go to japan so badly. Saving up for a big trip when i finish grad school :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:17 PM
6

Thank you 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:20 PM
21

Exactly. My ADHD brain can’t shut off at bedtime without smoking. Even if i’ve been up since 6am, i will stay up until 3 or 4am with my thoughts. Contrary to popular belief, smoking helps me go to sleep, which then helps me to be a more productive member of society lol. Also i can’t imagine living a life with someone where we can’t get high together and have sex. That would make me sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:14 PM
11

Back when i was commuting, there were sooooo many people drinking out of paper bags on the train home. And all i could think was how depressing is your life that you need to start drinking before you even get home? There’s no social aspect, you’re not doing it because you love the taste of budlight.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:10 PM
9

So happy you found peace within yourself. I just think its sad how much society PROFITS off of making women hate themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:47 PM
19

I’m not shitting on other women. More just on the society that makes us so insecure that we feel like we have to do these things. Most people look the age they actually are, and are trying to fight that. Even the idea of “looking old” -so what? What does that have to do with the content of your character? How have eye wrinkles and forehead wrinkles come to be something we are so afraid of, instead of embracing as we are privileged to age? Why did you feel like you needed a new lip? You already h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:41 PM
47

That guy sounds like a loser. Conversely, i can’t date people who DON’T smoke. I have a lot of trauma around alcohol, but i want someone to be able to smoke with me at the end of the day. All the people i’ve talked to who don’t smoke always have an issue with it, but i think the bigger issue is people not knowing how to manage their use. Someone who gets high all day and plays video games is a bigger turn off to me than someone who wants to get high and go for a hike. Someone who needs to drink …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:28 PM
20

I used to love makeup. I would do it every single day, so many different colors, spent soooo much money on it. Now i can’t stand having it on my face. My eyes water, i hate having to take the time to wash it off. I kept wearing it to work because i thought i needed it to look “put together” then i started looking around and realized so many other women look perfectly put together and they aren’t wearing any makeup. So why do i think i look ugly without it? If i’m getting so annoyed every time i …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:15 PM
5

Conversely, i get great pleasure out of shaving but i will never wear heels!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:45 AM
85

If he was a good father, he’d buy his kids new clothes and birthday presents instead of more video games. Jesus christ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:31 PM
65

I think if a guy has kids you need to look VERY closely at why he’s single. That’s not to say single fathers should never have another relationship, but the circumstances are extremely important. Did he knock up some random one night stand? Was he happily married and their mother died in a freak accident? Is he a doting father, taking full responsibility and care for his children, or does he pawn them off on his ex and barely see them? Does he expect you to immediately be their new mommy? Does h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 01:57 AM
28

Agreed. I’m sooooo happy. Why would i want someone to ruin that for me? No thanks lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:35 PM
13

women ignoring them = mysterious, me still sitting there = insane connection. shoulda walked out earlier, but i didn't want him to chase me down the street or do something insane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:58 AM
27

oh man, story time. i went on a date one time with this guy, we went to this bar where you smash your glasses against the wall after you're done with them....... shouldve been red flag #1. anyway, he goes to order drinks, and the bartender tells him that we need to sign the consent forms on the ipad so we can't sue them if we get hurt. he comes back to our table, LIVID, telling me what a fucking bitch the bartender is, calls her a bitch like 12 times in the matter of a few sentences. i already d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:17 AM
6

update: she dumped him. thank god. what a piece of human garbage, leeching off of her and destroying her things. i would not have been kind to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 01:15 AM
21

that video was horrifying. no thank you to any of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:16 AM
36

Wah wah wah, i feel so bad for manbabies who sit at a desk for 8 hours browsing the news. Not. Absolutely unacceptable for anyone to not clean up after themself. If you lived alone, youd have to take care of your own mess. Living with other people shouldnt make that any different. People just love manipulating others into doing their bidding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:29 PM
176

“Why don’t you want to have sex? What’s wrong with you?” Whats wrong with me is that you’re an idiot and i don’t respect you 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:39 PM
3

oooh i love that!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 03:16 AM
24

Can you imagine that i almost moved to a shitty townhouse on the side of a highway in a boring area i didn’t want to live for some stupid, boring, ugly, loser??? Almost gave up on all of my hopes and dreams! Thank me for the fact that i didn’t. Blessed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:22 PM
15

God, i would never pay my own money to spend time with some guy i don’t know. I bought my own lunch once, never again!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:11 PM
22

meatheads: no thank you. men who exercise, yes. men who go home and play video games: absolutely not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:02 PM
5

r/femalelivingspace welcomes you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:41 AM
66

i got banned from relationships because i told someone to dump their boyfriend and try dating someone who respects them instead. ooooook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 08:49 PM
23

don't forget the pick-me's who love to brag about how their love is so powerful, they don't need anything else!! jewelry is for other, gold digging women!!! lol ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 08:47 PM
41

EVERY SINGLE TIME!!! you know you need to break up! You know everyone is going to tell you to break up! People in happy, respectful relationships don’t need to ask reddit for advice! The only answers ever are break up or therapy, and honestly its not worth going to therapy with someone youve been dating. Just break up and find someone you’re actually compatible with jesus christ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:48 PM
5

Thank you 🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:03 PM
7

If she was a psycho (which is red flag #1 when a man says that) wouldnt you want your child to not live with her 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:46 PM
4

hating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:01 AM
39

oh 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 01:26 AM
138

Started talking to a guy one time, and he mentions how he has a daughter, but its okay because his ex is a psycho and never lets him see her so he basically doesnt have a kid. Yeah i’m gonna pass on that one, thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 12:18 AM
10

Yeah i couldve saved myself so much time if i had dumped my ex the first time he showed 0 thought or care 🙄 but ya live and ya learn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:38 PM
3

your local jeweler
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:09 AM
45

i will never again have sex with a man who doesn't eat me out first. non-negotiable. they always wanna get their dick sucked and never return the favor. no more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 10:35 PM
38

This is hitting me where it hurts. The best head of my life came from a guy who’s such a piece of shit. Really fucks with the brain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 06:34 PM
37

This is why i refuse to date anyone who plays video games. Also sounds like my ex who cheated on me with a sex worker. All you gotta do is say “bye”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:57 PM
2

come join us at r/MoneyDiariesACTIVE if you wanna talk about your finances, see how other women are spending, and get some great advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:45 AM
1

i've come to terms with the fact that i want a baby more than i want a man. if at a certain point in time i'm not married, but i make enough money to support a child, i'm just gonna do it by myself. waiting for the perfect man to make it happen just feels like a waste of time to me. being financially independent is key in that plan though, because i need to not worry about money while making these decisions. i don't want to have to rely on a man for me to be able to have a family. if i find a de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:44 AM
8

and 20th century! we couldn't even vote until 1920!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:36 AM
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