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tbknow/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 03:54 PM
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tbknow/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/15 08:03 PM
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Not to hijack, but what does it mean when your wife sees you flirting with hot chicks and instead it makes her more distant?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 04:37 PM
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Let me add a few things: 1) What I call terrible sex may be good sex to many of you. She is always engaged and I don't get starfish sex. 2) Many years ago she described some pretty kinky things she wanted to try. That all subsided. Granted I also dropped my game through some career issues that got me down. 3) I can definitely increase more SMV. 4) I can be consistent -- Sometimes I am happy with our typical routine and lay off the pressure for her to step it up. This is my bad. 5) She is an engi…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 07:28 PM
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We both laughed about it one day. She discovered the pleasure of the stretch with my fingers and was surprised it felt so good. I was curious too...so we tried it. Only have done it a couple times.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 07:18 PM
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I have also wondered if there are some aspects women will always hold back from their long-term husbands regardless of how RP they are now that they wouldn't if they had an affair.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 01:48 AM
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Good points. And I need to start working on my SMV again before I harp on this too much. As far as respect -- I don't think she respects me all the time or in some aspects. I think it's hard to gain her respect. And in the past, I would self-sabotage and make it worse. One of the reasons I threatened separation is because she was unwilling to learn how to show respect to a husband. There is a big part of her that isn't feminine at all. I also wonder sometimes if you can ever repair all the damag…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 01:44 AM
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I am very open and filterless about sex. Sometimes in an intellectual way that makes her feel uncomfortable at times. She has heard most of mine...and others I quit discussing because she gets all judgemental. This is one thing that has started to bother me as I have gotten older. I feel I need more emotional intimacy to enjoy sex with her in the long-run. In 2012 she started tell me her fantasies and they were kinky as shit. Then she quit because she said she just gets too uncomfortable and I n…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 01:37 AM
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You make some good points. And yes, we have gone through our phases of success on this. One problem is that she is back to her main approach of just acting like everything outside of vanilla is somewhat perverse. At least in 2012 she was contributing by wanting to try what she is interested in. What has also changed? She went back to work part-time after 10 years so now she has the genuine tired excuse. She also is starting to have body image issues again where in 2012 she finally felt somewhat …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 01:29 AM
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This is a known problem with Red Pill knowledge- it exposes your precious little snowflake in all of her hypergamous, shit testing glory. A loss of attraction when you knock the Goddess of her pedestal is not unexpected. So is part of the knowledge and acceptance of RP putting yourself in a different mindset every time you slay box? I almost feel like if things don't change then I need to go through a period of just simple objectification and use her as a masturbation toy like the mindset of an …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 01:23 AM
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Probably so. In 19 years of marriage, it only got exciting when I instigated dread in 2012. I basically wanted a separation. Things improved non-sexually, and she got creative and kinky for awhile. She even admitted later that she loosened up because "we were working on our marriage." A shock she admitted it...but at the same time at least she did. Main thing is that she doesn't seem to give a shit about making it better and complains if she isn't turning me on.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/15 11:25 PM
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Fair enough. Maybe some leftover anger phase. Maybe some leftover BP. And maybe this isn't a MRP issue after all. And no, I don't think it's non-stop happiness. Let me try to re-explain. 80% of the time, the sex sucks. Yes she is getting me off. But in the past few months, there are times when it just isn't enjoyable anymore to the point where I have quit intiating or I am just laying there thinking about some other chic. It's like masturbation. I have fucked alot of chics in my time. And what i…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/15 09:23 PM
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I should also mention it wouldn't be withholding on my part as I genuinely start to just lose it for her.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/15 08:20 PM
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Sorry. I left that out. I always get her aroused first and she also gets aroused by giving me a BJ. She wanted to hurry up and have sex because she likes to cum at the same time. Basically the same ole same ole. The problem is her attitude. And I feel like by not stopping, or just accepting it, she will continue to take this attitude.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/15 08:20 PM
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Yeah...my wife will sometimes say in a timid voice, "you wanna make love tonight." I taught my wife how to orgasm when she was 19. She was a virgin before me. We agreed that there was no reason for her to fake it. She was happy because she is a horrible actor and also speaks very "matter of fact" (sometimes with no tact). She wasn't always at 95%. And when she didn't orgasm, she just didn't. I didn't get butthurt, and she never needed to fake it. I also know by her strong contractions and her co…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/15 03:10 PM
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What you say is valid. I don't point to the traits of other women anymore though...that makes it worse. I am getting the blowjobs often because I praise the hell out of her when she does them. Lastly, I have showed less interest. This has helped some. It hasn't been an act because my desire for her has dropped because of her apathy at times. I need to stay consistent though because sometimes I depart from this when I just need to get some.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 10:56 PM
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Good reminder.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 09:53 PM
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Yes..and not too long ago I got weak and expressed my "wanting" her to be more like that...set me back She does see other women as a threat sometimes. Our whole marriage though she has been an avoidant in a way. More like "out of site, out of mind." So in a social situation if she sees someone flirting with me, she gets threatened some. She is not your typical neurotic woman though. She doesn't spend much in thought on this. She is also not very sexually confident. She is good at being productiv…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 09:52 PM
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And it's people like you that help put me back in check. For me, it's become more about quality and not quantity. And the fact of enjoying a little bit before and after the encounter instead of her being all tense and prudish.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 09:34 PM
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I agree. However, I have seen some aggressive 40+ women out there. I guess not necessarily with their husband. And I initially meant "panty dropping" by so horny they drop their panties and want it right then and there. As far as panty dropping as just being accessible, I am not having an issue with that.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 08:06 PM
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To answer your other question - No, I don't know what gets my wife horny anymore (spontaneously).
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 08:02 PM
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These are good points. And I was wondering about the MRP vs. TRP in this case too. It sucks because no matter how alpha I could be, a "novel" alpha could create that panty dropping effect.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 07:10 PM
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I have downward momentum in my SMV right now, but it is still decent. I am also getting a 1 year severance check on a business that is being acquired...so my career is in limbo, but we are good financially. Here inhibitions seem to have come back (spite the good blowjobs). She seems to become prudish in the past year. It reminds me of my BP days when I later found out it was all an act. My wife is an engineer and says things in a "matter of fact" way. I will never forget in the start of 2012 whe…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 07:09 PM
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You bring up a good point about being physical. I am still fit looking, but my physical activity has dropped quite a bit this year.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 07:04 PM
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For the past couple years, she genuinely doesn't get horny outside of the act of sex. No sex thoughts. No need, etc. We usually don't let a week go past without at least 2 encounters. So maybe she would if we waited long enough. She has never been the real horny type. She went through a phase in 2012 where she would initiate and seduce me after feeling a "tingle" during the day.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 07:03 PM
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Good points. My wife is a lot like yours. Even with the Father's Day example. Some of it comes down to ego (I admit), another comes down to I have 2 best friends with horny wives. My wife genuinely doesn't get horny. And she has been on testosterone therapy for 4 months.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 04:52 PM
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