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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Men are forced into parenthood all the time Do you even hear yourself? Sex leads to a child? Unless you’re a woman. Have sex and get pregnant. You have the option to abort (for now)…. Decide to keep it? You have the option of adoption. Decide against adoption and realize that its too much work? Drop the baby off at an emergency room, no questions asked. But the only option a man had is to get sterilized? Are you serious?	/r/MensRights	06/05/22 11:22 PM
3	(29M, 27F) - My wife has moved in with her family, and demanded I make changes in order to get her back home. Married 4 years. We have no kids, no assets.. she works part time, and I’m full time, making 100k. I feel so lonely, but i’m tired of trying to fight to bring her home. I need guidance.. When someone shows you who they are, believe them.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/21 04:05 AM
30	FSW forcing a woman to give birth is a disgusting violation of rights, but forcing men to father a child is fine. Hey, look, my chance to get banned from r/Feminism. Be right back...	/r/FeminismStopsWhen	15/02/21 06:00 PM
17	Disney Fired Johnny Depp And Hired His Abuser I’m not sure where you get “almost certainly”.... The only proof Amber has is a few pics of “bruises” that look like a slightly red rash. Johnny has actual recordings of Amber admitting to hitting him, showing no remorse, and refusing to promise she won’t do it again. Oh. And a severed fucking finger. Also, one of Johnny’s biggest supporters in all of this is his ex, who he cheated on with Amber, who says in the decade plus they were together nothing even remotely violent ever happened. But all …	/r/MensRights	25/12/20 09:07 PM
12	Women who are proven to have lied about rape should be required to register as sex offenders. I disagree. Not because women who lie shouldn’t face consequences, but because registering as a sex offender is over used. It should be used for dangerous individuals with a high chance to re-offend. Every extraneous person added leaves less resources to track the truly dangerous offenders.	/r/MensRights	01/10/20 06:31 PM
17	Doctor told me that my blood pressure levels are unhealthy, stating it seems that stress is the cause. I seriously need to get out of my marriage, I’m just guilt tripped into staying every time I try.. (no kids, no mortgage, no assets) No kids, no assets, no mortgage —. Aka “there will never be an easier time to leave than right now”	/r/Divorce_Men	18/09/20 11:03 PM
2	Why do men have to pay for kids that aren't theirs? I’m seriously thinking about starting a sperm bank for men. Like come in, make weekly deposits for a year. Pay me x amount to store it. Get snipped, then when you are ready to have kids, I give the deposit back to you.	/r/MensRights	17/09/20 04:59 AM
1	Good hygiene, feeding yourself, working for a living and not being a sociopath is exhausting for some. Why can’t I post there? Have they pre-banned me?	/r/MensRights	14/08/20 05:09 PM
1	Men should have some say when it comes to abortions, The abortion dispute is COMPLETELY biased against men and it's toxic. While I agree with you, playing Devils advocate I would ask why is it ok to force a man to go through something he doesn’t want for conceivably 26 years, and not ok to force a woman to go through something they don’t want to for 9 months?	/r/MensRights	10/08/20 02:04 AM
3	Why is noone talking about this They did. State didn’t give a damn	/r/MensRights	20/07/20 12:07 AM
8	Why is noone talking about this Then why are laws establishing 50/50 custody time as default in custody case routinely opposed by feminist lobbying groups?	/r/MensRights	19/07/20 11:57 PM
3	Why is noone talking about this I lost IQ points reading this comment	/r/MensRights	19/07/20 06:15 PM
10	Why is noone talking about this Then you’d go to jail	/r/MensRights	19/07/20 06:11 PM
10	Why is noone talking about this So? It shouldn’t happen. The system needs to be changed.	/r/MensRights	19/07/20 04:31 PM
4	Why is noone talking about this Low tech like an eye dropper	/r/MensRights	19/07/20 04:29 PM
9	Why is noone talking about this Again, you know that doesn’t matter, right? They will pressure a single mom applying for state assistance to name the father. Maybe it was someone she met at a friend’s party. She goes to friends Facebook page and picks you cause you “kinda look like the guy.” You are paying child support even though you never met her or the kid. Sure, you will stop once you prove it, but by then you’ve paid a lawyer and paid a year of child support an you’re not getting any of it back	/r/MensRights	19/07/20 03:36 PM
16	Why is noone talking about this You know that doesn’t matter, right? There was a famous case in the Midwest (Iowa?) where a lesbian couple asked one of their gay friends for a sperm donation. It was all very low tech, but the couple had a kid. So when they broke up and one of them applied for public assistance, the state made them name the father so they could go after him for child support, and he was forced to pay it.	/r/MensRights	19/07/20 03:30 PM
12	Why do many women hate accountability so much? Sometimes you trip.	/r/MensRights	18/04/20 02:17 AM
3	The Orgasm intensity gap Question: How do we know when labeling every single difference between the sexes as a "gap" has gone too far. Answer: This thread. Seriously, outside of me and my wife, the last thing I care about is someone else's orgasm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/20 02:53 PM
4	Marriage has become completely obsolete for Men Also great cognitive dissonance. Women outearned men so we don't need them, but then men are going to get taken to the cleaners in divorce court? Can't be both mate. Uh, no. Most marriages result in children. Children are given to the woman 84% of the time. This the woman who makes more gets all her paycheck and 20-40% of his.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/20 02:20 AM
18	Woman rapes a 13 year old boy and has his baby, she falsely claimed she was raped: Oh, misread the response. My bad	/r/MensRights	04/03/20 07:04 PM
85	Woman rapes a 13 year old boy and has his baby, she falsely claimed she was raped: Edit: You are correct. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/talking-about-trauma/201902/when-male-rape-victims-are-accountable-child-support%3famp	/r/MensRights	04/03/20 06:43 PM
5	Guy's kid gets aborted, the lack of empathy is deafening. Nothing has been more wrong in the history of wrongness. The fuck did you get this from?	/r/MensRights	29/02/20 01:04 AM
1	Praise and preach. Unpopular opinion: you made that choice when you came let that guy come in you. Use contraception if you don’t want to be a mother. No more abortions Still like your arguments?	/r/MensRights	15/02/20 03:00 PM
11	Praise and preach. The point is you may not have a choice. There was a case in the Midwest where a gay man gave sperm to a lesbian couple who later broke up after the baby was born. The custodial mother needed help from the state (unemployment, food stamps) and the state would not give them to her until for she filed child support on the gay guy. Laws in many states are like this.	/r/MensRights	15/02/20 02:55 PM
7	Male feminist ran a workshop on how to undermine the fathers' rights movement, shares the notes he used. It's as disgusting as you'd expect. Link in comments. LOL	/r/MensRights	14/12/19 03:22 PM
33	Male feminist ran a workshop on how to undermine the fathers' rights movement, shares the notes he used. It's as disgusting as you'd expect. Link in comments. I originally read this as "psychopathetic" and now that is my new favorite word.	/r/MensRights	14/12/19 03:14 PM
5	Oregon mom, 36, is arrested for having sex with 14-year-old at her daughter's school who she met online You are more than welcome to fuck right off.	/r/MensRights	10/12/19 10:31 PM
10	my brothers story You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. You can't fight 24/7 conditioning every other weekend.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/12/19 11:49 PM
7	my brothers story Couldn’t he communicate the accuracy of any lies the mom would have told? When, during the 2 1 hour dinners a month? GTFO.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/12/19 11:46 PM
2	r/femaledatingstrategy megathread. That's not sexist at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/19 03:15 AM
5	r/femaledatingstrategy megathread. So do single Moms. Doesnt mean I think more than a micro-percentage of them are evil.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/19 03:14 AM
7	r/femaledatingstrategy megathread. It is exactly the shit as red pill, but they are "terrorists".	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/19 08:57 PM
5	r/femaledatingstrategy megathread. Yeah, oppression is all good as long as you are doing the oppressing. Got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/19 05:16 PM
2	r/femaledatingstrategy megathread. I really, really don't understand why that place is ok when redpill stuff is pretty much universally looked down upon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/19 05:15 PM
24	Australian teacher convicted over sex with student speaks out \| Female journalist writes a sympathetic story about a female pedophile teacher, including witholding her name. Can you imagine a male pedophile ever being treated so leniently by the media? However, due to his age, the 15-year-old “had no consent to give”. Why THE FUCK is "had no consent to give" in quotation marks? Is she disagreeing with age of consent laws. Let a male journalist write that sentence about female victim and see what happens. Especially when they follow it with: The victim, by then a young man, read an impact statement in court, saying how Natalie “made me feel excited and powerful”.	/r/MensRights	25/11/19 03:31 PM
28	I really can’t think of a title for this much stupidity "The best argument against democracy is spending 5 minutes alone with the average voter" - Winston Churchill	/r/MensRights	13/11/19 08:51 PM
1	You Guys Don’t Really Want Divorce To Be Illegal Do You? It is apparent you know less than nothing about how things actually work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/19 09:28 PM
263	Now there's a whole community to exploit men with dating and sex. Had to post after seeing stuff like this: Can someone explain to me why this sub isn't quarantined?	/r/MensRights	23/10/19 05:52 PM
2	Crime has no gender. Abuse is about control. Which do you think is more likely when leaving an abusive relationship? The abuser says "yeah, that is for the best. No hard feelings" or they call the police, report the bruises she gave herself as abuse, has you arrested at your job so you get fired. She also files for a protective order, and it is granted in a hearing you were not allowed to attend because she was so scared of you. The judge kicks you out if your house and Grant's her all of your assets until the divor…	/r/MensRights	21/10/19 07:21 PM
1	TIL what she meant by "amicable" 4700 a month in spousal support?? How much do you make?	/r/Divorce_Men	16/10/19 04:45 PM
2	[Q4All] Why are some of the men on PPD obsessed with single moms? Then I suggest a hearing aid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/19 04:12 AM
2	Should I wait? You're the dude whose wife charged you with violating the OOP because you went to the apple store, then she showed up at the mall? I think the question here is "Why haven't you filed yet?"	/r/Divorce_Men	17/09/19 05:33 PM
1	Our lack of reproductive rights is overwhelming. This is the stupidest thing I read on the internet today.	/r/MensRights	15/09/19 12:34 AM
1	Unmarried Women Face Shortage of Potential Suitors? Yeah, sure they do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/19 02:28 PM
1	Unmarried Women Face Shortage of Potential Suitors? Yeah, cause hot poor women never marry up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/19 05:35 AM
2	Unmarried Women Face Shortage of Potential Suitors? Maternity leave is covered under short term disability plans, usually at 50% pay. And a guy who makes 45k a year can't hold down the fort for 6 weeks? Again, I'm not saying women should settle for burger flippers, but just because he makes 50k and you make 80 doesnt mean he is a scrub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/19 02:57 AM
8	Unmarried Women Face Shortage of Potential Suitors? THIS IS THE WHOLE POINT. This is what I was talking about when I asked the question. "Why is the concept of being a provider still an exceedingly male responsibility?" Women expect to make as much money as men, but still expect their partners to make more than them. These two goals are not compatible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/19 02:02 AM
11	Unmarried Women Face Shortage of Potential Suitors? Then where are all of the articles about the lack of economically desirable females? Being economically successful is only an expectation that is applied to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/19 01:51 AM
11	Unmarried Women Face Shortage of Potential Suitors? Ok, so please explain to me how with the wage gap shrinking and women making more than ever before, why is the concept of "providing for a family" still an exceedingly male responsibility? That's basically your argument. A man who doesn't makes less than you is a scrub. I get that you don't want a cash register jockey that makes 25k a year, but if you pull down 75k, what is wrong with a guy that makes 45k?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/19 01:29 AM
1	Men still have to pay child support even if raped Men can terminate their parental rights and not have to pay child support and also not have to pay any overdue child support Yeah, when the woman agrees to it. As in "My new husband is better than you. Let him adopt your child." Try this under any other circumstance and you will be laughed out of the courtroom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/19 05:28 PM
17	Saw this and although my Dad wasn’t the greatest in making sacrifices for us kids, I have witnessed greatness by other fathers. Here’s to you 🙌 While I love the idea, the government doesn't have the man power to police/enforce it. They have men to put in jail, for Pete's sake.	/r/MensRights	03/09/19 05:28 PM
76	Saw this and although my Dad wasn’t the greatest in making sacrifices for us kids, I have witnessed greatness by other fathers. Here’s to you 🙌 Marriage: "Money doesn't matter, kids need to have a father present in their lives, it is so important!!" Divorce: "You get 4 days a month, and if you miss a check I'm throwing your deadbeat ass in jail."	/r/MensRights	03/09/19 04:46 PM
25	Is this how consent works,? And this doesn't help our point at all.	/r/MensRights	28/08/19 05:20 PM
5	Another post-judgment issue Just get out already. You have the judgement. If you continue the fight, I'm questioning whether or not you really want to move on.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/19 03:36 PM
7	The state of men in unhappy marriages is unfortunately very high Except now you’ve gotta pay for her house and life Don't forget the guy she met two weeks after.	/r/MensRights	10/08/19 06:27 PM
4	Text response from STBX Stop this madness. Get a new lawyer that will talk to the judge, or the bar association, and make something happen. Your lawyer is fleecing you.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/19 01:14 PM
2	Procter & Gamble the owners of Gillette have this morning announced results and have taken an $8 billion write down on the value of Gillette. In my opinion a lot of that is due to the feminist male hating advert they aired at the start of the year. Honestly, not really. Just picked a mid priced (not the cheapest, not the most expensive) one of amazon.	/r/MensRights	30/07/19 08:17 PM
10	Procter & Gamble the owners of Gillette have this morning announced results and have taken an $8 billion write down on the value of Gillette. In my opinion a lot of that is due to the feminist male hating advert they aired at the start of the year. Safety razor + badger hair brush = life changing event	/r/MensRights	30/07/19 08:05 PM
2	Wife filed now having 2nd thoughts That is what happens when the affair ends.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/07/19 01:21 AM
2	Divorce / Retroactive Child Support in Texas Yeah, you've going to be paying retroactive CS. Welcome to the Lone Star State.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/06/19 08:27 PM
0	Why it's Virtually Impossible to Reach a Consensus on Consent You're delusional. You don't hang out alone with someone on a first date who shows mental instability. It is have a nice night. Why wouldn't I want to be alone with her? Because she is obviously mentally unstable and may try to ruin my life in some way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/19 12:26 AM
1	Why it's Virtually Impossible to Reach a Consensus on Consent Ok, did you read what I wrote? Your reply doesn't address anything I said. Of course you can hang out without having sex, and hang out before and after sex. That is called dating. I am specifically addressing the Aziz Anasazi issue, where they hung out, started sexual activity up to oral sex, then she stopped. Then they started again, and she stopped again. I'm saying at that point, the date is pretty much over. As a man, I'm not going to be comfortable being alone with her, so it is pretty much…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/19 07:51 PM
1	Why it's Virtually Impossible to Reach a Consensus on Consent Yeah, no. Never said she she had to continue. But expecting to have a pleasant conversation and withdrawing consent would just awkward as hell. At that point it is pretty much time to bail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/19 12:34 AM
3	Why it's Virtually Impossible to Reach a Consensus on Consent Wait are you serious? You really think that you can't have a nice evening, get to know each other, hang out, if the other person wants sex and you dont? Sure you can. What you can't do is willingly suck a guy's dick, twice, and then stop halfway through saying "I just wanted to talk".... and then expect to have a nice evening and just get to know each other. That is why this issue was so divisive. It shows the danger of passive consent. She never said no. He shouldn't have pushed so hard. I have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/19 01:35 PM
7	Why it's Virtually Impossible to Reach a Consensus on Consent Way back in the day when Maxim was popular with men, they got together with the editors of Cosmo to do pieces in each other's magazines. One of the cosmo editors said something like "If you go for third base, and I move your hand away but still keep making out, it doesn't mean no, it means come back in five minutes." I get what you are saying, and it is definitely something men need to be aware of, but it also somewhat new. Also, if she had such a problem with his actions, she could have left.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/19 04:26 AM
1	I’m so sick of the venom that these shameless feminists spew just to spite men the point I was trying to make is that most men, especially ones paying exorbitant amounts have child support, don't have the monetary resources to follow through to the point where a judge will actually do anything. There are literally so many excuses and roadblocks the custodial parent can throw at the judge and do nothing but cost the non-custodial parent more money. And I don't have brother?	/r/MensRights	18/06/19 03:37 PM
1	I’m so sick of the venom that these shameless feminists spew just to spite men ...and the cops won't do anything. They will file a police report to document it and give you a copy. Then they will tell you file a family court case, and the judge will lecture the woman for 5 minutes at a cost to you of 1000 dollars a minute. Then the whole process starts again. If you are lucky, after years and tens of thousands of dollars, you might get custody.	/r/MensRights	18/06/19 01:27 PM
3	Wife is serious about divorce Get a lawyer now.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/19 12:48 AM
1	Where's the choice for men in regards to unwanted pregnancy? It is not simply her responsibility, nor is it simply his responsibility. It is both their responsibility. That is not what this discussion is about. The fact of the matter is women have a way out of parental responsibility and men don't.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/19 08:31 PM
1	Where's the choice for men in regards to unwanted pregnancy? How is it possibly not her responsibility? Your whole argument is flawed. We can't outlaw abortion because it interferes with a woman's right to chose, but she has no responsibility in getting pregnant? No responsibility = no choice. The Right will be ecstatic. For the record, I have three kids and wanted them all. I am still married to their mother and I dont pay any child support. Hell, one of my kids is technically a step kid who I raised from the time they were 6 with a total of about 800 do…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/19 05:02 PM
1	Where's the choice for men in regards to unwanted pregnancy? Blah, blah, bullshit. If she didn't want a kid she should have been on the pill, or insisted on a condom. It takes two to tango.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/19 04:15 PM
5	Where's the choice for men in regards to unwanted pregnancy? Man doesn't want to be a father... "He should have kept it in his pants..." Woman doesn't want to be a mother... Free abortions all around. Woman can't take care of their kids... Here is your section 8 housing, food stamps, and monthly check. Man can't support their kids.... Here is your jail cell. Enjoy your stay. There is actually an idea floating around called a "financial abortion" where fathers can sign away any parental rights and not pay any child support. It wont pass anytime time in the…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/19 01:28 PM
116	Yeah because women don't lie about it at all Just tell us exactly what you mean by the word "creepy" so we can avoid doing that. Yeah, this actually depends on how attractive you are...	/r/MensRights	10/06/19 06:02 PM
12	My ex-wife said she has something to make me move out Yep, she's going to accuse you of bad shit.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/19 04:25 PM
1	About to get divorced, she’s pregnant with another mans child Texas. Quick Google. Most Texas courts will not grant a divorce to a married couple if the wife is pregnant. ... Generally, Texas courts prefer to wait until after the baby is born so that paternity can be addressed and the court can determine if appropriate child-related orders, such as child support, need to be included.Aug 30, 2016	/r/Divorce_Men	21/05/19 12:05 AM
1	About to get divorced, she’s pregnant with another mans child Be very careful. My state actually wont let a pregnant woman get divorced. The state wants the ability to put the father's name on the birth certificate without his consent of necessary. And the 6 months it takes to prove the kids isn't yours? You are paying child support that entire time.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/05/19 10:53 PM
10	Lost don't know how to deal with this Do not get back together with anyone who beats herself and tries to pin it on you. "Pregnancy hormones" are not an excuse for that crap. If this guy is as grounded as you say, he won't be around for too long. Dont stick your rod in crazy anymore.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/19 03:12 PM
2	Lawyer’s Response to Shenanigans! Dude, you need a new lawyer. There is absolutely zero reason this should be dragging on like this unless your lawyer is complicit in it. I would contact the bar about the judge as well.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/19 09:09 PM
5	Newly married man needs advice on divorce w/ children You are in what is called the affair fog. In all seriousness, life with the new woman probably won't be that much better than life with your current wife. Whatever problems that caused you and your wife to "fade" are half yours and you will be taking those with you. Also, your wife's hormones have been doing loop de loops for like 2 years. I would try some couples counseling first.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/04/19 06:53 PM
12	CMV: Partners that refuse to allow access to sex in a monogamous relationship are just as bad as a cheater The central promise of monogamy isn't "I won't sleep with anyone else"... it never was. It is "I will have sex with you and only you". It is the only way it works. People would not give up their right to sleep with other people without a promise of regular sex. Thus cheaters and withholders are breaking the same promise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/19 01:26 AM
1	Issues with ex-wife and new husband regarding our child Good luck! I'll be praying for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/19 04:20 PM
1	Issues with ex-wife and new husband regarding our child Hey Man, I totally get how you feel. You did take all the bullets, and now they are coming after you with a hammer. It is not fair. I do not deny in any way that they are doing is completely crappy. It is disrespectful. But the reality is you can't stop them. You don't get a say in what goes on in her house, and she doesn't get a say in what goes on in yours. Sure, you couod take them to court, but that is going to cost thousands of dollars and get you nowhere. Save your money for when she stops…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/19 07:46 PM
3	Issues with ex-wife and new husband regarding our child You could very well be right, but he has no control over that. And the quickest way to make yourself miserable is to try and control something you have no control over.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/19 07:12 PM
0	Issues with ex-wife and new husband regarding our child Why, because of the nickname? I mean, if she was trying to get the daughter to call StepDad "Daddy" and bio-dad "Tom", then I could see it. But reading to her at school and a nickname doesn't mean BioDad is being pushed out of the picture, although he should remain on the lookout for that. Bottom line, OP got completely screwed over by ex and new husband, and has every right to feel however he wants to about that. However, he needs to be careful and not put his daughter in the middle. He can't c…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/19 06:38 PM
8	Issues with ex-wife and new husband regarding our child The feelings you are having are completely normal. But remember they are your feelings, and there is no such thing as too many people loving your kid. You should be as big a part of your daughter's life as possible, but that doesn't mean step dad can't be a part of it too.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/19 05:59 PM
3	Soon to be ex wants my veteran benefits I'm sorry, but I laughed when I read this. Welcome to the fraternity of men who became abusive overnight because their STBX wants a divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/19 03:10 PM
2	Should he disclose the affair? That he should pay child support, alimony and mortgage on a house he does not live in? My complete disdain for everything you have said about this situation not withstanding, this is probably exactly what will happen. It sucks.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/19 10:53 PM
1	Should he disclose the affair? Um... their father does not want to date me... he wants to marry me. Right away. He has a disability that requires adult assistance in the house. We love each other deeply. My kid loves him, calls him “second daddy” I met his kids via FT. I kinda NEED to slide into his life right away... he asked me to move in right away, asked me to be a “proper Mother to his kids”. He met my Mother, my husband. They love him. In fact, all my friends think he is awesome. I am in an email correspondence with his…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/19 10:49 PM
2	Should he disclose the affair? Then you should really know better.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/19 10:44 PM
4	Should he disclose the affair? WTF? 1) How is he going to marry you if you have a husband? 2) Your response was basically "Who cares what those kids need? I want everything on my timetable". Yeah, you're going to be a great mom. /s	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/19 10:30 PM
1	Should he disclose the affair? I am saving him from a narcissistic abusive wive and a dead bedroom, they went through counseling, it did not work... so he needs to get out of it to make our relationship official. And the fact you are so much younger than her is just a lucky break for him?	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/19 10:10 PM
2	Should he disclose the affair? Because parents aren't interchangeable like fucking light bulbs. If want any chance at a long term relationship with these kids, you need to let them process this divorce, grieve, heal, and then get used to the idea of their Dad dating again. That is 2 years, minimum. You seem to have this idea that you can slide in to this life, and if you try it like that, those kids will hate you forever. All you will ever be is the woman Daddy left Mommy for.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/19 10:07 PM
6	Should he disclose the affair? Right? What do they expect? For them to present the plan "We keep the house and the kids. Kids leave for school, Mom moves out. Kids come home from school, Dad introduces new Mommy. Its seamless." Judge goes "sounds good to me. Approved!"	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/19 07:42 PM
10	Should he disclose the affair? You should stay far, far away from everything. Especially his kids.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/19 07:08 PM
3	Fucking Terrified Keep the faith. Join us over in r/DeadBedrooms if you haven't already	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/19 10:10 PM
6	Admittedly unhealthy thought... Don't give her this power over you.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/19 02:40 AM
2	Ex keeps taking away my legally appointed time with my kids. What should I do? Police tend to let the court handle things. Sorry to hear about your situation. I'll keep you in my prayers	/r/Divorce_Men	15/03/19 04:26 PM
3	Ex keeps taking away my legally appointed time with my kids. What should I do? Ok, so honestly this situation wouldn't be that much better if you had a lawyer. She can basically do whatever she likes and the only thing you can do is file to get a hearing in front of the judge. So the judge might change the paperwork a little and lecture your ex, but she doesnt have to follow it cause the worst that can happen is another lecture. After years of doing this, maybe the judge will do something drastic to change it. It sucks. It would be better to make nice with her as much as p…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/03/19 02:19 PM
2	Straight men are such pigs Yeah, because caring this much about some other man's criteria for a wife is not odd at all.	/r/MensRights	02/03/19 04:15 PM
1	Straight men are such pigs I generally don't? I criticize women who marry guys they are not attracted to because they need provider, and then stop sleeping with them once they get what they want.	/r/MensRights	02/03/19 04:06 PM
7	Straight men are such pigs But hey I bet you defend those women who do the same thing to men? I honestly dont know what you are referring to here. I'm all about men's rights in this 3rd wave where the worst thing you can be in this world is a white cis male. I dont know what this has anything to do with that. Some men like big boobs, some men like small boobs. Some men like brunettes, some like redheads. Some like women, some like men. It's all good.	/r/MensRights	02/03/19 04:11 AM
19	Straight men are such pigs There is nothing wrong with the OP, or the woman in your example. It is their life, the can marry or not marry any they want for whatever reason they like. Judging someone for what they believe is your right. Calling them out and basically telling them they are wrong is how we got to where we are today.	/r/MensRights	02/03/19 02:51 AM
1	As if this doesn't go both ways (Some how saw this on the front page) I'm pretty sure that 90% of the time, they just cant remember your name.	/r/MensRights	27/02/19 05:45 PM
1	Did they really think that ad would do anything? Well, it made me get rid of Gillette products, start shaving with a simple safety razor, badger hair brush and shaving soap. I also discovered shaving that way is freaking awesome.	/r/MensRights	26/02/19 01:43 AM
6	Q4W That have cheated or left their ex to be with another guy, why did you do it? Holy Crap. This is horrible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/19 11:45 PM
4	Q4Men: If women are the ones who are cruel and unsympathetic to men, why is the internet so chock full of men mocking women, but not the other way around? Why isn't this sub quarantined?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/19 08:50 PM
1	Agreed to a Dissolution I wouldn't make too terribly detailed. My wife had tons of problems with her ex because he wanted to be ridiculously vigilant in following the parenting agreement or he wanted to throw it out the window, whichever caused us more problems. I would instead make sure the process for settling disagreements is spelled out. For example, you should always try mediation instead of family court.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/19 06:13 PM
3	"Those men and their murderous ways, amirite gals?" You mean like this one? https://www.abc15.com/national/missouri-prison-nurse-accused-of-killing-husband-setting-home-on-fire-to-marry-inmate	/r/MensRights	12/02/19 06:50 PM
32	CMV: Polyamory and/or open relationships are time consuming and not worth the effort. A long time ago, my wife's crazy pregnancy hormones had her convinced I was cheating on her. I looked her dead in the eye and said "Honey, you are all the woman I could possibly want... or even handle now that I think about it." I don't think I have ever been more right about anything, ever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/19 11:32 PM
8	Opinions?? I get it, I really do. If you want to move forward, file yourself and then do whatever you want.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/19 11:03 PM
4	Opinions?? Do this right. Don't let temptation cost you the high ground.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/19 10:54 PM
3	STBX took $6k out of savings — why? Not if she's already spent it.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/01/19 09:45 PM
7	STBX took $6k out of savings — why? She's on to you.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/01/19 08:12 PM
5	FILING EX PARTE MOTION TODAY FOR CONTEMPT-Wish me Luck! Honestly, the lack of response from her lawyer (not necessarily her) concerns me. Make sure you are prepared for accusations of anything.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/01/19 05:59 PM
5	Maybe it’s Make Believe? Well, First of all since when was she put in charge of deciding right and wrong? We had a system like that for a very, very long time. It was called religion. I am a Christian, and I hate religion. It puts the focus rules and regulations... not on your personal relationship with Jesus Christ. For a long time we had to give up our personal judgement and follow what the Church said. We finally get out of it, and what happens? We make the damn internet the new Church. It is like the Borg, where ind…	/r/MensRights	19/01/19 07:56 AM
2	In 68.4% of divorces in my country it's the woman who files for divorce. The average child support rate is 1/3rd of what a child costs. Why do you think the % of women who file is so similar to the US then? TX has some wonky differences in family law. If I'm brutally honest, this is the main reason I'm still married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/19 10:55 PM
2	In 68.4% of divorces in my country it's the woman who files for divorce. The average child support rate is 1/3rd of what a child costs. Why do you think the % of women who file is so similar to the US then? Yeah, there are not many custody agreements that say men only owe child support. Most have child support, a responsibility to provide health insurance, and half of all child specific expenses like co pays, school supplies, and clothing. My guess is after all of that it is much closer to 50%	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/19 10:50 PM
2	In 68.4% of divorces in my country it's the woman who files for divorce. The average child support rate is 1/3rd of what a child costs. Why do you think the % of women who file is so similar to the US then? I dont know what state you are in, but in TX it is based on the non custodial parent's income.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/19 10:46 PM
1	In 68.4% of divorces in my country it's the woman who files for divorce. The average child support rate is 1/3rd of what a child costs. Why do you think the % of women who file is so similar to the US then? Do you have any stats on how many people actually remarry vs how many say they want to remarry? Attitudes change over time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/19 10:45 PM
0	Rant: Why are men Always getting fucked so bad in divorce? r/MensRights	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/19 12:00 AM
2	CMV: Telling someone that sex isn't important or a big deal is patronizing and objectively incorrect Sex is 10% of a happy relationship and 90% of an happy one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/19 07:35 PM
1	Child custody redo upon redo I'm pretty sure what she is doing is perfectly legal, as long as she has what she perceives is a major change in circumstances. However, if the judge is saying she has no case, he should be filing for her to pay his legal fees since she keeps dragging him back to court.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/18 05:25 AM
7	Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood? I get what you are saying... I just can't agree. Giving them the option to decline just reassures that everyone is having a good time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/18 09:59 PM
1	Sex isn’t a marital duty Yes sex is an obligation in marriage. I have a mortgage, so I have an obligation to make a mortgage payment every month. If I fail in this obligation, the person I owe said obligation to (the bank) has the right to terminate their relationship with me by foreclosing on the house. They do not, however, have the right to hack into my bank account and take the mortgage payment by force. That would be illegal and wrong. Likewise, a spouse has an obligation to provide sex in a marriage. If they fail …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/18 09:36 PM
6	Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood? Right on. I wish the people over in deadbedrooms got this. I am not entirely unwilling to have sex, but I'm not really in the mood either. Where people shit a brick is #3. Should the woman dig deep and have sex anyway, even though she's not 100% in the mood? And not even everytime she feels that way... half the time you do it, half the time you don't. It is called compromise...	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/18 08:59 PM
11	Fearing false accusations, men are asking women to create 'Consent Videos' before sex. Feminists are not happy. And they say romance is dead. Lady, you are the one standing over romance's dead body with a smoking shotgun... and now you are lamenting it's demise.	/r/MensRights	06/12/18 05:54 PM
2	Read an article about “Signs of Emotional Abuse”. Rest assured, you are not alone.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/11/18 07:58 PM
2	When you left, did you just disappear? Honestly, he sounds like the first group. Do you feel like he could do it to you?	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/18 04:29 AM
-1	When you left, did you just disappear? Ok, so there are only two reasons this would happen... He is the biggest narcissist asshole on the face of the planet with the complete inability to care about other people. He is so monumentally hurt and/or unhappy that actually staying around to give you the closure you want would hurt so much that he can't do it. These men have probably suffered some form of emotional abuse or infidelity. You will have to decide which one he is, we don't know him. Although keep in mind that type ones tend to …	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/18 06:44 PM
9	She’s on a date You don't cheat on someone you respect. You don't cheat on someone you care about even the slightest bit with their twin brother. Her actions show you what she thinks of you. Ignore her words and listen to her actions.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/10/18 05:09 AM
1	Seems like once a month she says she’s done Honestly, that is because she has been enabled. If she acts like that with a stranger she's liable to get punched in the face. With her Mom, you, the kids there are no consequences. Heck, her bad behavior scored her a free vacation to Europe. You need to get into family counseling ASAP. If she is not on meds, she needs them immediately. If she ever loses control to the point of violence (throwing things at the walls, physically striking you) most states will let you put a 72 hour psych hold on h…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/10/18 05:47 PM
1	Seems like once a month she says she’s done One question. How does she react to other people when she's in one of these moods? Cause if she can control it with them, she can control it with you. Mental illness is not an excuse for abuse. That's what it is.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/10/18 05:32 PM
2	What to do with my wedding ring? Have you thought about making a new ring with it? Your life changed, your ring can change with it.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/18 02:44 AM
3	Dealing with anger? Having anger for someone in your heart is the same as you drinking poison and hoping the other person dies. Find someone to talk to. There are tons of people who are getting licensed for counseling that have the same education as counselors and lower rates.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/18 10:53 PM
11	Believers in Tabula Rasa; Present to me your arguments as to why you think all rape is the same It's not the same. When woman rapes a 14 year old boy she can make him pay child support. You sound like an idiot, by the way. r/iamverysmart	/r/MensRights	04/08/18 10:39 PM
20	Now colleges are teaching young girls that the difference between "flirting" and "sexual harassment" is totally based on how it makes a woman feel. No, it is not literally accurate. Flirting and sexual harrassment differ from each other not by how it makes the woman feel, but whether or not it continues after it is communicated that it is unwelcome. The problem with the above is it puts 100% of knowing how the woman feels on the man. So a socially awkward boy could end up being accused of sexual harrassment just because he doesn't know how to read signals.	/r/MensRights	16/07/18 08:06 PM
2	No fault state.....finances Look at it this way... Anything she spends before the divorce she gets 100% of instead of 50%.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/07/18 04:07 AM
2	Wife won’t sign papers/stuck in limbo I'm so sorry. What does your lawyer say.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/07/18 04:05 AM
2	19-Year-Old on Sex Offender Registry after having sex with a girl who said she was 17, lied about her age. Thanks for proving you haven't heard a thing I said. Later, troll.	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 08:36 PM
1	19-Year-Old on Sex Offender Registry after having sex with a girl who said she was 17, lied about her age. Ha!	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 08:13 PM
2	19-Year-Old on Sex Offender Registry after having sex with a girl who said she was 17, lied about her age. This is fallacious. Their body isn't 'representing a 17 year old'. Its representing a 14 year old. So basically your whole response is "nuh uh!"? The guy trying to hook up with a 17 year old knows he's hooking up with someone who could be younger than her stated age if "14 year olds can look 17". What? Seriously, what is your deal? Again, I'm not saying that he should get off with no punishment. He just wants to get off the sex offender registry since that is supposed to be for people with a hig…	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 08:13 PM
7	19-Year-Old on Sex Offender Registry after having sex with a girl who said she was 17, lied about her age. You do realize that people's bodies mature at different rates, right? That it is possible for a 14 year old to physically resemble a 17 year old? Maybe even older. As for the rest of your post suggesting I am throwing and fit and calling me stupid? I'll let the mods deal with that. And a person driving drunk knows they are driving drunk. The 19 year old in piece above didn't know she was 14.	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 07:36 PM
5	19-Year-Old on Sex Offender Registry after having sex with a girl who said she was 17, lied about her age. Everything in your post is wrong. Jared from Subway was into 15-16 year olds. He deliberately sought them out. More importantly, your example of drunk drivers doesn't even make sense. The drunk driver intended to get in their carand drive after drinking. They knew it might be illegal depending on their blood alcohol content. The subject in the story had no way of knowing he was doing anything wrong. Are you a parent? Have you raised teenagers? They do stupid ass things all the time. I'm not sayi…	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 06:52 PM
6	19-Year-Old on Sex Offender Registry after having sex with a girl who said she was 17, lied about her age. The tragedy is "black and white" way these cases are treated, and your comment is great example of that. This guy isn't Jared from Subway. He wasn't out searching for 14 year olds to hook up with. He made a mistake, one that the victim and her mother don't think he should be held responsible for. He learned from it. But no, let's treat him as a pedophile and ruin his entire life because he wasn't as vigilant against lying teenagers as he should have been. I don't condone "sex with children", as …	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 06:33 PM
5	Why does this sub having no posts actually about men’s rights? All the post are anecdotes that usually aren’t even about sex/gender. You’re all just dumbass feminists but for men wtf How many times are you going to post this? You don't like the posts here? Fine. Find something better to post. I agree that we need to focus on the issues we disagree as opposed focusing on "women" lest we become like modern day feminism. I also agree with the fact that we get some exteme opinions and posters here. But they are welcome to debate just like you are. Just try to be respectful.	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 04:50 PM
8	19-Year-Old on Sex Offender Registry after having sex with a girl who said she was 17, lied about her age. The real tragedy of this story is it is just like 10s of thousands of other stories that no one knows about.	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 04:25 PM
1	Teacher gets a WHOLE 30 days in jail for "sex with 3 students" No, she was older.	/r/MensRights	21/06/18 12:36 PM
1	Teacher gets a WHOLE 30 days in jail for "sex with 3 students" Hey, watch it!. Squints married Wendy Peppercorn. He was no loser!	/r/MensRights	21/06/18 03:50 AM
2	Happy Father’s Day! Thought you all would like this. So because a woman's body changes for a year or two, the man has to be an indentured servant for 18 years? (22 if they go to college)	/r/MensRights	18/06/18 03:27 PM
2	Happy Father’s Day! Thought you all would like this. I would counter that the vast majority of the shortage would be covered by the savings of not having to pursue these men for non payment of child support. It would also have added benefit of allowing the agencies responsible for pursuing these men to concentrate on the men they might actually get some repayment from.	/r/MensRights	18/06/18 02:57 PM
9	Wanting to leave, not happy in marriage Ok, you are making a classic mistake. Your life changed drastically 4 months ago. Your wife's hormones are not balanced out yet, so your wife is still a completely different person right now. Your life is the very definition of "sucks" at the moment. Running is not the answer. Talking to the exgirlfriend isn't helping anything. It just confuses everything. It's like trying to drive 80mph in a heavy fog. Stop talking to the ex. Recommit to your wife and family. Give it everything you have for 1 y…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/06/18 04:42 PM
2	Two Teachers Hook Up in Classroom: Male fired, Female reassigned - Female denies wrongdoing. Easy there, Ethel I don't think it was one of my nerves that was struck. If you read more than one story on this you might have found this quote: 'Our contract employees that are probationary ... can be excused at any time for any reason,' Rob Spicker, a school district spokesman told the News-Press. So, as you can see, there is no double standard, at least based on gender. Now if the female teacher isn't fired for this once the disciplinary process has been completed, then you have an argument.…	/r/MensRights	06/06/18 09:28 PM
2	Two Teachers Hook Up in Classroom: Male fired, Female reassigned - Female denies wrongdoing. Ha!	/r/MensRights	06/06/18 09:06 PM
8	Two Teachers Hook Up in Classroom: Male fired, Female reassigned - Female denies wrongdoing. And people ignoring the facts is how we get strict, unyielding ideologies like feminism.	/r/MensRights	06/06/18 02:47 PM
355	Two Teachers Hook Up in Classroom: Male fired, Female reassigned - Female denies wrongdoing. This is a union issue. He was in his first year on a "probationary status.". She just finished her fourth, so she is entitled to a hearing. She will be fired, they just have to go through more steps.	/r/MensRights	05/06/18 08:45 PM
1	NYT: 45 Stories of Sex and Consent on Campus (40 of which confirm that you're the bad guy if you can't read a woman's mind) That was the most frightening thing I've read in a long time. I'm so glad I'm married.	/r/MensRights	11/05/18 08:03 PM
1	About the Brock Turner case I think we can agree on most of that. While Emily Doe did not make good choices that night, she did not deserve what happened to her. There is definitely a disturbing tendency now to confuse rape prevention with victim blaming. I tend to think of it like this: If I were going on a safari in Africa, it would be a poor choice to bath in ox blood before setting out. To do so would seriously increase my chances of getting eaten by a lion. When someone (man or woman) goes out for the night on the soc…	/r/MensRights	05/09/17 05:18 PM
0	About the Brock Turner case I think what you missed the most important part... He was convicted of rape. Not accused and cleared, not accused but it was he said she said, he was convicted of rape. I don't think we want imply we are ok with lenient sentences for convicted rapists. If want to debate the rather or not he should have been convicted, we can do that. But at the end if the day, convicted rapists should go to jail.	/r/MensRights	05/09/17 03:36 AM
1	This person on my Facebook consistently posts things like this. I stay friends with her so I can poke holes in her logic. Because it opens Men up to abuse. And I'm sure some people will think that is extreme, but imagine a stay at home mom being held responsible for knowing EXACTLY what her family wants for dinner without being told. Or a woman who is responsible for the shopping being punished for her husband running out of deodorant even though he never said he was running low. We have no problem with helping without being asked. We have problems being held responsible for meeting needs that were never communicat…	/r/MensRights	31/05/17 03:19 PM
1	Disabled and Being Divorced Just leave. She's cheating on you while leaving you laundry to do while she does it.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/17 03:14 PM