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I was literally banned for calling out people simping for dumb politicians like Kamala and Walz. They love them their genocidal Zionist kings and queens. They say they only objected to me using the term simp, but I don't buy it. Useless cowards, all of them. And yeah, the mods there love to delete the shit out of posts that have anything of substance or is even remotely critical of women and feminism. They're maintaining a mediocre status quo and as activists they only serve to promote the popul…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/24 01:50 AM
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No I mean, I intend to build a career through Patreon, and even if I don't making good money, a parasite's psuedo relationship with me doesn't have to be permanent. They can always use me and then move on. As parasites do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:49 PM
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There are high earners on Patreon, and even then, it doesn't have to be permanent. They can always latch onto me like a parasite, then move on once they're done.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:15 PM
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There's opportunities for freelance stuff that typically doesn't fall under the typical definition of a "job" out there. I mean, look at Patreon. Other thing is that this situation with me right now is very much a temporary thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:52 PM
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Okay, yet another goober who has absolutely fuck all to say. Off to the block list you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:39 PM
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Bad people are bad people. If they're doing shitty things, I can say something. I felt this way even when I wasn't looking for a relationship. How the hell do you figure I don't have a job? Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:29 PM
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Then they shouldn't settle for men they know they aren't attracted to later on in life. And they shouldn't go after these bad boy types, period. A lot of women will say they like fucking them for one night stands or try to change them for a relationship because at least they're hot. I could never think that way with a similar woman. I've honestly found myself disgusted by hot women with an attitude problem, even when I was younger. I don't ever want to be with a woman who didn't have similar res…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:10 PM
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If a lot of women didn't like bad guys, there wouldn't be so much advice from women themselves saying that men should tease them and stand up to them or else they're not attractive. There wouldn't be advice from women flat out rationalizing, justifying their decision to openly go after bad guys even fuck them. If anyone looks at these types of men as relationship material, yeah, I'm gonna judge the shit out of her. A lot of women seem to judge men all the time for dumb petty reasons, at least I …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:47 PM
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Done, you worthless fucking dunce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:38 PM
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We're living in a pandemic right now and I've got responsibilities to take care of. A big part of me not dating when I was younger was that I had a lot of shit on my plate, especially mentally. I know I wasn't ready for a relationship back then, not to mention the uni I went to was party central and I DEFINITELY did not want that, ever. But if I ever put myself out there for once, I don't ever want to get involved with some two-faced woman who is settling for someone she isn't attracted to. So a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:35 PM
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I'm not going to accept someone with a sexual history I don't like. We can be friends, sure. Lovers? Never. And it's not my imagination. I've seen women admit to it ALL THE TIME. I've seen them say they like brash assholes, their negative qualities be damned. They'll say they used to be attracted to asshole types who "didn't take any shit," when they were younger. The past matters. Where for me, if a woman is like that, I lose all attraction instantly, regardless of how she looks. Obviously not …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:27 PM
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Women who sleep around or go for bad boys when they're younger then decide they want more boring/nice guys when they're older are gutter trash by definition. Someone like me is a target for these types, I know it. And I never want to get involved with them on any level.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:37 PM
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People can sometimes have masks on to hide their true natures. I don't want anyone with a high n-count who used to party like crazy and then decides they don't want that anymore. By definition, that person is not suited for me. She'd be settling. And that is an insult. And Robert Greene is a fucking idiot. I haven't even read 48 Laws of Power, but I know enough that it's complete horse shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:35 PM
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What a way to say absolutely nothing, but sure. Guys can't ever have standards and have to accept whatever two-faced gutter trash comes their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:32 PM
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I mean, that's it right there. If a woman would ever look down on shy/passive people like me or find more loud mouthed types more attractive than me on principle because they're loud mouthed, then boom, she's not good enough for me. By definition I already know I don't want her. If someone like that ever tried to get with me, she is a user, she is a predator who is using me for a relationship but is still pining for the alpha types. And let's be honest, a lot of assholes are more in that categor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:31 PM
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That...doesn't address that a lot of people can be chameleons. I want to know how to avoid spot them on sight. As in, she used to party hardy when she was younger, and now puts on the image of a decent normal girl. No. She's bad news and I'd feel dirty for getting involved with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:01 PM
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K, that's enough outta you. Off to the block list you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:58 PM
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Emotional maturity what again? If I end up with a liar, I'm gonna be pissed as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:59 AM
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30s. I'm open to doing all kinds of stuff socially but I'm also strictly a teetotaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:56 AM
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I've definitely encountered my fair share of bad women in real life, yeah. And now that I'm older and out of college, I still want to avoid them. As in, if they had a phase or anything like that when they were younger, that's also a red flag any man in their right mind should heed. But a lot of these types do tend to be chameleons. So how do I vet them completely? How do I make sure they like me for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:55 AM
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Not criticizing all women. Jesus fuck, people like you are dense as lead. But there ARE lots of abusive user women who are like this. And Stacy is a useful term. It denotes conventionally attractive women that are shallow and vapid to the nine. But sure, keep going on about that one thing while ignoring everything else. Ah well, I know this answer probably won't get through to you, you being as thick as you are. Can't wait for another thrilling reply from you that says fuck all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:34 AM
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I want someone who unironically, without any ulterior motives, wants me for me. Not because she's been burned too many times in the past or is looking for a change, not someone who is using me for emotional support or my money or anything like that while not being my type/not being attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:14 AM
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And for the record, obviously it's not all women, if that's what you're implying. But it's a lot of them, some of who are blatant about who they are, and some who are more secretive about it. I want pointers on how to stay far away from them. Because in one way or another, they are users.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:01 AM
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The gist of your response is I'm not allowed to criticize women for any reason. Like rejecting women who rode the CC when they were younger or say that women who make bad choices are to be avoided because of all the inherent red flags there. I'll say it again, yeah, they're a bad boy's leftovers who are using me for relationship points, they're dumb and nasty. If women like to shit on men all the time, I'll do it right back. They're not nice people. Either that or you're saying women are by natu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:42 AM
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Since you insist on being vague, what then is the right question? Because right now, you're just waffling about. I'll say it again: any woman who gets involved with bad men despite whatever their positive qualities are is to be avoided. Because a lot of these women will even admit they like them because of their bad qualities, say that bad boys are totally alpha and hot or whatever. Even if she's "changed," down the road, I'm allowed to say that's a red flag because nobody in their right mind sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:17 AM
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Then what is the point of you participating in this thread? You clearly have nothing to contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:51 AM
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If women didn't overly talk about much nice guys are too boring and assholes at least are exciting, and shame men for their insecurities and whatnot, then they're not good enough for me by definition. I'd have to fight off the urge to laugh in her face if we ever met in real life. We're incompatible. I refuse to get involved with these people. So again, what should I look out for, what questions should I ask to make sure I steer clear of these types? You can make as many snide remarks as you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:26 AM
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Because I refuse to get involved with a user type. AFBB and all that. I don't want someone pulling the rug out from under me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:50 PM
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Why shouldn't I have my standards? There's a lot of bad women out there. A lot of predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:14 PM
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If lots of women weren't so dismissive or outright scornful towards so many men, this perspective wouldn't be required. I'm allowed to say that if she rode the CC in the past or likes bad boy types, I'm going to want to get away from her. And I don't ever want to kiss or share a bed with someone like that. I need to know who she is and if she's trustworthy before any physical stuff. Otherwise it ain't happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:56 PM
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I want to be sure that someone I'm pursuing or is pursuing me likes me for me. Not because they're desperate, not because they've been burned in the past, and especially not because they're using me like a mark. People like this exist, and they all overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:51 PM
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The past matters a lot. I have to know exactly what sort of person they are, and make sure they aren't lying to me bold-faced. If she rode the CC or anything like that, I'm running fast, our personal interactions be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:31 PM
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If it was so shitty, it wouldn't be so widespread. Even in leftist circles/blue pill leaning sites, this sort of thing is advised. I've seen places say, "Well at least an asshole is attractive," and if they can date asshole men with that excuse, then I say they're not good enough. I don't want some asshole's leftovers, and someone with that history who is pursuing me doesn't really want me, they're using me, they're settling for me. I've acted like an asshole back in high school and college when…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:29 PM
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Currently jobless so I don't think we'd match period. Wasn't going to, don't like kids and don't want to be somebody's walking ATM. Not religious. This answer ties into number five, so it's my final point. People can say I'm an asshole and unattractive all they want, but it didn't come out of nowhere. Society hates men that don't fit patriarchial standards, and women enforce a lot of it. Obviously there are worse things in the world, being single ain't the worst thing in the world, but it still …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:51 PM
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I've interacted with plenty of women. I've seen women online profess they don't like boring nice guys and will always prefer an exciting asshole over them, even if the assholes are assholes. I'd never want someone like that. If you're not attracted to someone fine, but for the love of god, going out with assholes and even rationalizing it? I've had nasty bitchy women interested in me purely because they were shitty to me to start with, so I stood up to them, and presto, guess they liked me becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:43 PM
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You're being dishonest. A lot of women ARE like this, a lot of dating advice outright tells men to emulate the behaviors of assholes ALL the time without being an asshole. As in, don't call for a few days after seeing her or else she'll think you're clingy, tease her, etc. And that ain't who I am. I've seen it online and in real life. I don't want women like that because a lot of them will admit to losing attraction for men real life if they become too boring, whatever that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:07 PM
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No I mean a lot of women I thought were friends and acquaintances turned out to be shallow and nasty at the end. It just feels like dating is opening myself up for trouble. I have to make sure that should I ever feel brave to start dating that I NEVER end up with these types of people. They're commonplace, it's flat out gaslighting to say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:02 PM
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If women didn't like assholes, a lot of them wouldn't flat out admit to it and advise more shy men that that's the model they should emulate. A lot of women wouldn't find loudmouthed assholes like Gordon Ramsay and the like attractive. A lot of women wouldn't be constantly bitching about men who anyone can see is bad news from a mile away. And it's not just that they're conventionally attractive, but they also tend to be rude and abrasive in so many ways. It IS a personality thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:01 PM
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Okay, so how do I make sure she's the type of person I'd want? PUA and TRP have taught it's pretty easy to build attraction, but they both leave out how hard it is to find a quality partner. Someone who isn't a two-faced snake in the grass who is hiding what kind of person they really are, you know the kind of person that judges men unfairly all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:58 PM
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I don't even necessarily want an attractive woman right now. Just someone who isn't a predator. I want someone I can trust, someone I can at least be friends with. If someone who is downright fuckin ugly but has a good head on their shoulders approached me, maybe we might become more than friends, maybe not. But I will NEVER have someone who is vapid and downright nasty as a lot of women these days tend to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:55 PM
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I wouldn't be caught dead at a party or a club or anything like that. Someone like that and I are incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:14 AM
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I don't like bad women who use people, who engage in actual abusive misandry. A lot of women are like that and know how to hide their true colors. I need to know a list of signs to watch out for. And for the record, good women should absolutely in turn watch out for former players and the like. Abusive people are like chameleons. They need to be watched at every turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:09 AM
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Don't pull out blue pill just talking points about how women can do no wrong. A lot of women ARE bad people and not to be trusted. To the point that too many feel it's okay to normalize this kind of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:05 AM
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Because it's not just about who they are now. I do not want to end up with someone who was screwy as hell when they were younger. Oftentimes the reason they "changed" is because either they hit the wall or they're settling. And I feel the only reason I'd want someone like is because I'm really horny or I'm lonely. Not because either of us like each other. That kind of rationalization is dehumanizing to everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:03 AM
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I don't want to end up with someone who will lie about their past and I find out about it months or years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:00 AM
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I don't want to end up with someone dishonest or who is a user. Women aren't perfect, they can be just as nasty and scuzzy as men, and a lot of times, they are blatantly that on the internet, but they're given a pass. I want to make absolutely sure I never end up with someone like that on a romantic or sexual level. It's happened enough from supposed friends and acquaintances I thought I could trust. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:59 AM
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Not religious myself, but I do want someone that doesn't like to party hard/fool around a lot. I don't really care about marriage either, and if you had sex a lot in relationships that's fine, it's more the character of the people someone was with, as well as they shouldn't jump from relationship to relationship like they're doing stunts. I will admit that I'd probably have to know the person really well as a friend first before getting involved with them romantically, both out of preference and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:58 AM
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I randomly just found this reply while randomly re-reading over this old thread, so if you don't feel like responding feel free, just doing it out of some courtesy post or something like that. I guess I didn't address it at first just because it escaped me in some of my notifications. But what you described there does kinda skeeve me out too. Sometimes the narrative of fixing bad types or deliberately dating idiots is described within the confines of CC type behavior. I wouldn't want someone lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:39 PM
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All of those relationships were unhappy? Of course not. A lot of them? Oh yeah, and the experience imbalance might have just been one factor among many, but it was probably one of the bigger issues all the same. Like I said in my OP, I've heard so many horror stories about reformed players/PUAs going back to their old ways at the first sign of trouble. It's a bad deal no matter what. "If you meet a girl you like and likes you back, don't overthink her past, you might me missing an excellent chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:47 PM
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The first part of your response, I wish more people thought that way. But I've seen a lot of them here and on other places that should know better, and the only people willing to call them out for whatever reason are some of the most extreme Red Pillers around. Second part is more important to me though, since that's exactly the core of what I mean. There's a reason AF/BB is even a thing, it's literally the definition of CC. I've seen people openly admit they'll use their 20s for sleeping around…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:40 PM
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Because sex is not the issue. Loyalty and actually liking your partner are the issue. I even said in the first post here I don't like sleeping around/partying, etc. Why do you think I'd ever be compatible with someone who did or does like that kind of thing? Don't try and change the subject to something completely different. I don't ever want to be someone who gave a lot of handjobs and blowjobs to strangers in clubs and didn't think it was that big a deal/still thinks they're a virgin because i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:11 PM
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I'm not talking about sex. I'm talking about commitment and willingness to stay with a partner. What you're looking for in a partner even is affected by your life choices. I can't see how it's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:38 PM
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Yeah, I've seen lots of people get married young confident they're soul mates, then seen the whole thing fall to pieces all too easily. But compatibility also matters. Are there any studies that show fooling around a lot necessarily leads to being a better partner? It might work if both people were like that and now know what they want from each other. But I can only think it would work in that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:27 AM
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That's why she and I are incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:20 AM
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It would weird me out. All I can think is that she might like me now, but I'm pretty sure she'd get bored of me fast. Or she'd cheat on me while using me for the relationship. And nobody wants to be in that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:21 PM
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Experimenting as in trying out to see if you're gay or not? Fine, I can get behind that. Sleeping around with tons of people, trying to change bad boys, all the while denigrating or ignoring people who aren't like that or into that, then deciding later that you actually are into them? With a history like that, I'm gonna be a lot more skeptical. Were both people in these relationships promiscuous in the past? That makes sense, birds of a feather flock together. If not, if it was a one sided thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:56 AM
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I don't want to get tons of pussy. And I've known a few of these types of women in real life, and there's tons on the internet. I know I don't want someone like that to be my lover/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:36 AM
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Fucking wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:55 PM
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Cute. Also, don't like sleeping around or go for nasty asshole women myself, and if someone who went after types like that pines after me all of a sudden, I'm justified in taking a good hard look at them and wondering what the hell they're planning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:55 PM
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Yes, people are allowed to have their preferences. On the other hand, people all too easily gloss over why it's a gut instinct to feel a little weirded out by someone who slept around a lot, or partied when they were younger, and insist if you feel that way then you're in the wrong. I always see hear stories of or see photos of couples where one person used to be a total partygoer type and now wants nothing to do with it while the other is pretty average, and I'm thinking, "How long until this g…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:53 PM
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Fair enough, I could have worded it better. I guess I'm just tired that in places that aren't necessarily Red Pill, you can't have this viewpoint or else you're a horrible person. It's more the party hard types who fool around and then decide they're ready to settle down. Some do view it as a mistake, youthful indiscretions and the like. I can say someone like that such decisions skeeve me right out. Not into casual sex myself, and these types of men tend to congregate at bars/parties, just plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:47 PM
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Some do. Lots don't. I've found the ways people can change are small and insignificant compared to the ways people can't or won't change. Which is fine, people need to stick with what they know. But for crying out loud, don't mess up someone decent and not your type in your search for love because you're dysfunctional or like Chad/alpha types.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:34 PM
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I don't give a shit about legal precedent, the law used to specify women and children were property without rights, the law used to say black people weren't even human. The law will tell you that rape victims were asking for it because they were wearing a short skirt or they went to a frat party. Fuck the law.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 10:51 PM
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Yes. Yes they are, you vapid creature. Not all abuse is abandonment but all abandonment is abuse.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 10:46 PM
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Then you have a very limited and narrow concept of abuse, akin to those people who say that date rape isn't real rape, and ultimately harms a great deal of survivors that don't fall under your umbrella. Your kind of thinking is why so many victims don't come forward.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 10:44 PM
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Proposing an open marriage to someone when they have a major disease like cancer isn't abusive? Leaving someone because they were disabled from a traumatic car accident isn't abusive? That is precious. Trust me, I'm not the one starting conflict right now. Fucking wow, if this isn't proof that we're living in the darkest timeline, I don't know what is.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 10:39 PM
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The above cases I just mentioned are prime examples of how abuse isn't necessarily physical, you know actual emotional/mental abuse, but go on. And you say I'M being the stubborn one.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 10:34 PM
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No, you're not gonna do this DARVO shit with me. I am allowed to call Newt Gingrich an asshole for looking for an excuse to cheat on his wives because he was to chicken shit to leave them, the same way I can say that anyone who leaves their partner because they became disabled is human scum. I don't even care about whether it's because they're too depressed anymore, you legitimately think you can't call someone out for leaving another person for ANY reason.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 10:30 PM
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I've been told several times here that if rape victims and people who lost beloved family members were too depressed over it, that they're not worthy of love. By definition. Not because they have a tendency to end up with abusive partners who exploit their issues or they repeat the cycles of abuse they grew up in, but by definition. But sure, people who suffer from manic depression and the like are all Karens and narcs. You people are the definition of Poe's Law.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 10:24 PM
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So I know emotions are running high on all ends, but I had to take a step back and process what you said several times over. And you're gonna have to quote me in my own words where I said this because I'm not looking over this beast of a thread again. Where in the world did I ever imply that it's okay to weaponize your issues against someone? As in, all people who are really fucking down/depressed are also abusers? That wasn't even mentioned once, but hey, you went ahead and said it outright, so…
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 10:18 PM
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I grew up in a physically violent home myself, but okay. Glad to hear I don't know what abuse is. Lovely. And you're really going to try and play the "not as bad" card? I've dealt with that before, seen it slung as others too, and damn does it always sting no matter what the context. Or act as if you alone get to decide what abuse is. I don't know the intricacies of your relationship was with your boyfriend when he dumped you, not asking either for the record, but if your suffering due to the ab…
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 08:57 PM
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Yes, that is abuse. You're not gonna try and weasel your way out of this, that is literally abusive. Though I guess you're right in part. Being told those people shouldn't be in relationships is nowhere near as abusive as getting with someone and then leaving them if they can't get over their issues. And yet that is parroted en masse in this thread. Normalized even. Hot damn, but people will go to the ends of the earth to internalize and reinforce this kind of stupid shit.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 08:44 PM
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More than a few people here have told me that rape victims, people who lost family members in accidents, etc., shouldn't be in relationships if they can't get over it. Obviously not you, but others. That IS abuse, and anyone who would leave someone for those reasons alone is an asshole. Yet they're calling me all manner of insults. Fucking wild.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 08:34 PM
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As long as they're good people, intelligent, etc., I wouldn't care if they felt sorry for themselves. There are lots of people in downright shitty situations for whatever reasons. Tell them to stop feeling sorry for themselves, get over it., etc. Better they feel sorry for themselves than pretend they're okay.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 08:28 PM
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Abuse isn't always physical. I'm pretty sure I made that clear in my last post.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 08:25 PM
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I wouldn't blame men if they did. It's a lot better than the prevailing cultural narrative for the past several decades Hell maybe even a century. As in... Be a man! Don't cry! Don't be weak! Etc. Every single person who's lambasted me here is either too damn thick to understand a word of what I'm saying, an asshole trying to rationalize their toxic bullshit, or both. You're all proving my point. Every single word.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 08:23 PM
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Is it a matter of you not being comfortable saying it that you don't tell your family, or is it because you know they'd shun you? Because if it's the latter, then they're not much of a family. PS: Get a therapist is the most unhelpful garden variety advice there is. Lots of therapists are absolute fucking shit.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 08:18 PM
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Well, more people need to call these types of stupid women out for what they are. Toxic femininity is real. It's probably not as prevalent as toxic masculinity, not as big of a crisis, but it's real. I mean, there is a reason the term Karen is becoming adapted into the cultural lexicon
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 08:15 PM
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I can only imagine you're saying that from a place of sheer ignorance and privilege. Damn but I hope you never have to deal with actual emotional pain or befriend anyone with real issues in life.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 03:40 PM
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Then why bother being in a relationship at all? You don't really love someone else at all, you're just using them, and proud of it. That's not beautiful or romantic, it's something that belongs on a talk show or 90-Day Fiance, or whatever else the fuck dumb tabloid styled shit is popular these days.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 03:38 PM
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Meaning no communication, no honest to god empathy. Wonderful.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 03:30 PM
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Some people's issues are too deep. Fuck it, some people CAN'T get better. Tell a rape victim they should get over it, tell someone whose kid died of COVID they should take some personal responsibility lessons and learn how to manage their emotions. Yeah, it's hard to deal with, but relationships are hard work. If they think it's okay to lash out at someone for something that, then they'll do it for anything. Confiding in someone like this should bring them together, not break them apart.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 03:26 PM
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Then why are women given a pass for being outright abusive to their partners? Why is it so accepted? I've seen it right here in this thread, don't try and apply this pseudo-gaslighting shit about how that's not really what's going on because it is. There's no point in trying to hide it with nice words, it is abuse. And I hear all the time from women on how shitty men can be. Reading about gender norms and how sexism is easily excused and normalized, I wouldn't blame women entirely for wanting to…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 03:20 PM
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That's bullshit. Every single word. With all the mass media stupidity and ways the world is going to hell, yeah, for you to not feel compassion for another and think they're unworthy of love is evil. I wonder how many issues you must have deep down under this tough facade?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 03:06 PM
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You know, I just noticed this. And sure, not ALL club goers are idiots looking to get fucked on the regular. Can be said of anything. But there's a reason clubs have their reputation. Like frat houses have their reputation.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 03:03 PM
1

Don't think too hard. Your head might start to hurt.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 03:00 PM
1

So how often do you actually communicate about your problems with her? Or is it just something that you're allowed to bring up once and then there's an unspoken rule to never talk about it again? Because that's not happiness or fulfillment, it's just an illusion of it. Fuck, I'M the miserable one here? Damn I hate to imagine what kind of nightmare creature you are in real life.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 02:59 PM
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Made up? Your little buddy here is at the very least telling on herself. And there is a certain kind of woman who is perfectly okay with it. Don't make excuses and don't make rationalizations. Call that shit out when you see it.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 02:56 PM
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That's exactly what I've been saying all along, but the mindless morons have been too eager to disregard. You are allowed to set boundaries. You are not allowed to treat your partner with unmitigated contempt and scorn.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 02:54 PM
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Consider the possibility I might be right. These people are showing exactly who they are to me, no holds barred. I'm going to take the late Maya Angelou's advice and believe them the first time. I mean, I gave very vague details about who I am, and this freak woman and her idiot cohort launched into me with undisguised vitriol, both barrels out, for simply suggesting the possibility that it's wrong to treat your partner with contempt, to not act with compassion. It's not an exaggeration to say t…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 02:52 PM
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I'm not even mad anymore, you people are just hilarious.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 04:56 AM
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"sexist mother fucked"
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 04:36 AM
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Cute, this is a real mask off moment for you if there ever was one. I don't always like being right, this case being one of them, but hey, when I'm right, I'm right.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 04:34 AM
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All you're telling me is that you like finding justifications for being an asshole. Your woman is probably a real piece of work too.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 04:32 AM
1

When the issue in question is your partner's mental health, yeah, you better make sure damn well you do it right. You're looking for an excuse to be an asshole.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 03:26 AM
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Making sure you're compatible with someone is not the same as loving all facets of their personality. I don't know how else to tell you this.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 03:23 AM
-1

Honest to god communication and tending to another's emotional needs is babysitting an adult, sure, why not? No wonder there's so much relationship dissatisfaction these days. I mean fucking hell, on the flipside, lots of women don't like former players/PUA types. There's even stats saying that people who slept around have a higher chance of cheating. But sure. Arbitrary standards.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 03:22 AM
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Because this issue is not about happiness. You should love the person for who they are, warts and all. As long as they aren't going out of their way to make you miserable, lashing at you, or you're incompatible, then breaking up because of mental issues is fundamentally wrong. People can do it, but I can also still say that's a shitty thing to do. It's one thing to say that this person is going out of their way to drag you down. It's another to turn your nose up at them.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 03:17 AM
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Putting it like that? Yeah, that's abusive. There's a right way and a wrong way of putting things out there, and woo, you hit the nail right on the head on how not to do things. Tough love is the biggest load of horse shit there is.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 03:03 AM
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I am allowed to say that someone and I are incompatible based on who we are. I am allowed to say someone's life choices make me think we wouldn't make good partners or leaves me feeling sketchy. It is on the other hand not ever acceptable to mistreat someone based on their mental health, no matter who you are, no matter what stage you are in life. That's not for me, it's for everyone. That should be a baseline in a relationship, the same way not hitting your wife for glancing at some other guy w…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 03:01 AM
-1

Abusers of all stripes don't overlap. Man oh man, sure they don't! Fucking WOW.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 01:35 AM
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You've yet to explain why someone would want to stick around for someone who is as callous and judgmental as you're willing to advocate. That's self-serving, that's being overburdened. Put it together with all the ways men are expected to man up and take charge and all that. All I can think is, why bother? Women enforce toxic masculinity as much as men do.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 01:26 AM
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Yeah, I'll stop you right there, armchair psychiatrist. You don't know shit about what I went through, those people were damn nasty considering I was going through a domestic violence situation, and it is downright fucking vile to leave someone for being miserable or being chronically down. I don't care who it is. Friends, family, and in some cases, therapists. You don't do that to someone. If someone who is down gets abusive with you, uses their problems as an excuse to hurt others, ignores you…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 01:21 AM
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Let's put it this way. I've had plenty bad experiences with women who DID mistreat me based on my issues. They offered themselves as a listening sympathetic ear only to turn on me down the road. This wasn't even dating for the record, these were friends and authority figures I thought I could trust. I thought it was just anecdotal evidence, some bad experiences, but no, it is apparently a lot more common than I thought. A lot more common. And then I see that you can't really open up to your part…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 01:02 AM
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Well a lot of women DO demand their boyfriends/husbands be more vulnerable, then when they do, immediately go cold on them or insult them. And that's me being intentionally vague, I've heard all kinds of bad things that were done or said by nasty abusive women. It's not a stereotype, it's a thing that happens, a lot. Maybe not the majority of cases, but a lot of cases. I want a girlfriend I can communicate with on the regular. Without fear I'll be insulted or get into a fight about it. If that's…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 12:11 AM
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Telling a guy that he shouldn't convince himself he's undateable and then rubbing salt in his wounds if he can't get over his complex doesn't make all women cheaters and users, but people who do that are adjacent personality types all the same. They overlap a lot, you know?
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 11:59 PM
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Shallow as in, don't leave someone for feeling sorry for themselves. Don't leave them for flat out hating themselves. Don't leave them for being spineless or afraid to stand up for oneself. Because some people just have anxiety, or are down on their luck. Hell sometimes they're in a situation where they can't afford to stand up for themselves Don't see them as broken because of their issues. And don't ever give anyone grief for something like that either.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 11:53 PM
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Yeah, I specified setting emotional boundaries and telling someone to get help from someone who is more qualified as different from telling someone off. I don't know what your post is trying to say here when we're both in agreement about that much at least. And you can't deny a lot of people look down on others for their weaknesses, emotional or otherwise, see them as worthy to abuse. Hell it's even encouraged in some circles. That is telling someone off and it's inexcusable.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 07:13 PM
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You don't even know me, but okay. And you're missing the bigger point. I can be miserable and feel like shit, but it's not okay for anyone to look down on me because of it, let alone a partner. It wouldn't matter what my problems are, I can say I will not have someone who would ever patronize me like that. It's a land mine of a relationship waiting to happen, whether it's just friends or otherwise. It's toxic behavior through and through.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 07:08 PM
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When I say requirements, I'm speaking generally, it's meant to be a placeholder. Nobody should be treating their partners this way for such a shallow reason. If you're also in pain, fine, yeah, that sucks, sometimes you're both in such dire circumstances, there's really nothing that can be done or said. But don't leave them for being human. Don't look down on them for it.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 07:01 PM
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If someone meets another person's requirements, isn't abusive, but at the same time is generally miserable? They've got no right to tell that person off and still say they're treating them right. Say it's too much to handle, recommend they talk to someone, but tell them off? Let's turn that around, why should anyone want to be with someone who does that in the first place?
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 06:58 PM
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Move past it how? Accept it and deal with it? There's no other choice, there's no changing reality, but damn if it can't bring me down or make me feel like shit all the while. Damn if I can't have neuroses because of it. And I know lots of other people have it worse, and I'd never blame them for feeling like shit, or feeling suicidal. Leaving someone, looking down on someone, is not the proper response for something like that.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 06:41 PM
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To me? In parts, some of them "friends" who turned out to be nothing of the sort, sometimes even therapists. I mean there are people out there with eating disorders and bulimia problems and there's so many assholes who look down on them, I think a little bit of forgiveness can be afforded here if it's not the worst thing in the world compared to someone who lost their kid in a car crash, some people obviously have it worse but pain is pain, shit is shit. And I've seen other people do it to each …
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 06:37 PM
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Do you believe in just world mentality? Because that would explain a lot.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 06:32 PM
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For the record, I've said plenty of times that not all women are like that. But a lot of women ARE like that. It sucks to admit it, but it's true. Men too, hell probably more men than women, but also women. These people need to be avoided. I've seen it come from friends and therapists I thought I could trust. To see people so openly treat this as a thing you can to a partner? Why bother? I don't want someone who will be there for me at the drop of a hat because some street vendor looked at me th…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 06:28 PM
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We don't live in a sane, normal world. We live in a capitalistic hellscape of a world. Being miserable, burned out, feeling like shit all the time is more accurately the proper response to that. I would NEVER leave someone for feeling down all the time or just hopeless. Look around, read the news, and that's just the news. If someone like that gets nasty, sure, things are different, but being miserable does not make you a bad person and you'd have to be stupid to think otherwise. I don't know wh…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 06:17 PM
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It's one thing to put all the emotional labor on someone. It's another entirely to tell them to get over it or shut them out completely.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 06:06 PM
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Some RP types will use the cock carousel term rather loosely, but let's be real here, there is a type who sleeps around a whole lot, then decides they've done with it for whatever reason. I don't want someone like that. I am justified in thinking like that, the same way a good deal of women are completely okay in avoiding PUA/player types of any stripe. It's not about feeling sorry for myself for being single. It's feeling sorry for yourself period. That is apparently not allowed when you get in…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 06:03 PM
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Maybe not here, but a lot of places DO say that. Fuck if you're not attracted to someone else because of it, you're a bad person if you neglect their emotional needs.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 05:55 PM
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Doesn't matter, treating someone like dirt for feeling sorry for themselves is a nasty thing to do. If they're abusive in turn, sure, they go, but otherwise? No excuse for it.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 05:52 PM
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Definitely not making it up. Women leaving their guys because he can't hold down a job or is manic depressive is not okay, but it is common. The writing is on the wall about what kinds of people they are. I mean you're doing it right now. That kind of condescending attitude is not something that should be accepted in a group therapy setting or amongst anyone you can call a friend or partner. Define damaged. Someone who hurts others and uses their issues as an excuse is one thing. On the other ha…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 05:50 PM
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I mean find Jesus figuratively. As in, party around, ride the cock carousel, then decide they want a stable relationship with someone stable/inexperienced/less interesting. In short, a mark. I can say I'm skeptical of that. Hell I don't want a woman like that period, if her past was public knowledge and she takes an interest in me, I'm gonna think she's insincere as hell. Sorry about your alcohol problem, obviously people who struggle with that deserve all the help they can get. But there's a ce…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 05:43 PM
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Of course a woman like that is justified. 100% justified and then some. The patriarchy is real contrary to a good deal of RP and what the manosphere believe. I didn't even watch a second of the Johnny Depp/Amber Heard stuff, but a lot of Depp stans seemed ready to believe his side well before the trial got underway and even right up to the conclusion, despite the complexities of domestic abuse and how sometimes victims don't always play perfectly nice with their abusers. But that goes both ways,…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 05:40 PM
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I see it all the time. Online and in real life. Even if it's not said outright, the implication is obvious. When I was in group therapy WAY back when over a decade ago, obviously some of us were feeling a little down a lot of the time. Yet a prevailing attitude there held by a good number of people there was that they can't respect someone who can't respect themselves. Even for those who were feeling suicidal or on the verge of a nervous breakdown. And it just seems to be that way, that you can …
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 05:28 PM
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Obviously NAWALT. Some women are lesbians, some women are transgender, some women plain aren't like that period. But a lot of them are. I want to avoid the predators, and I want to be able to say this kind of treatment of your partners is wrong, because it is wrong. It is normalized and encouraged, and I don't like it. Not all women treat men like this and say things like that, but enough of them do to make me wary.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 05:03 PM
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Apples and oranges. Differences in personality is a whole different thing than neglecting your partner's emotional needs. And for the record, I don't like sleeping around, I don't like drinking or going out to places like that, and let's be honest, there's LOTS of scuzzballs and general idiots in clubs and bars. Men AND women. Obviously not all of them, but a lot of them. I can say I don't want want someone who was a drunken idiot/slept around in their youth then decides they're bored of that, t…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 04:52 PM
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If someone plays oppression olympics or just doesn't listen to you, then yeah, ditch them. Same if they turn out to be a wolf in sheep's clothing. That's just as abusive, and downright predatory. Plenty of people are like that and they need to be avoided. But that's not what's at stake here. It's one thing to say you want someone who is emotionally vulnerable and then decide, okay, that's enough vulnerability for once, now shut up and move on or else you're too whiny and therefore not good enoug…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 04:39 PM
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The world is a shitty place, and if someone met all my requirements but just didn't like themselves or felt powerless, leaving them would be the last thing I'd be inclined to do. You support your partner. If they lash out at you despite that, then all bets are off the table, but your type of thinking is toxic positivity incarnate.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 03:46 PM
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The thing is, it doesn't just end there, and for the record I'm still not down with most of what you said. Women are encouraged to call men who don't conform to a masculine ideal losers, they're encouraged to shame them, repeatedly. Hell you even just made up a whole bunch of assumptions about how people are depressed feel the world owes them something. And that is putting words in people's mouths as well as bootstraps thinking. The world is a bad and rough place, and I'm not just talking relati…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 03:44 PM
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They do kind of have a point though. A lot of woman ARE like that. People might not want to admit it, but it's true. Maybe not the majority, maybe not even a significant population, but a lot of women nonetheless are not good people, they're not even nice people. And a lot of these same women have their toxic standards on men reinforced into popular culture, and even people who should damn well know better in this sub and others regurgitate it, like it's the most natural thing in the world. It's…
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 08:16 PM
1

I never did like red pill or the people behind it. But damn, at least they were willing to admit there were problems with the current paradigm of dating and romance. At least they were willing to point out some of the hypocrisy and repulsiveness of a lot of women these days. Even now, I still hold true to that attitude. I hate the red pill and what it stands for, but goddamn are there a lot of nasty, shrill stupid women out there no matter the age, who will treat you like you're less than human …
/r/ExRedPill29/04/22 01:13 AM
1

It's not red pill to want someone I can be compatible with, but okay. In my defense, I just scanned through your profile and you believe in astrology and watch tabloid bullshit. So yeah, definitely don't care what you have to say.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/22 10:36 PM
1

This has been really helpful thanks. re: past partners. It's not so much the past partners stuff as it is that people with a high number of partners tend to be or were party types. And that's absolutely not who I am. The few times I ever veered anywhere close to that, I felt dirty and uncomfortable, and knew I didn't want it. I can't be with someone who used to do that. The closest I've ever done to that is fool around with women on cam shows and even that left me feeling dirty and miserable eve…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/22 10:08 PM
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The patriarchy is real, yeah. You'd have to be stupid not to see that. But there are still a lot of bad women out there. Look at TERFs and others of their ilk. Not to mention due to societal convention, a lot of bad women's behavior is seen as normal. Look at Debra LaFave, and every other female pedophile whose rape was excused because, man, that kid got lucky amirite? Your closing remarks...that's absolutely not who I am. I want a partner, not someone I have to protect. And I mean, that's ablei…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/22 09:23 PM
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We're two completely different types of people. We're incompatible by definition. I know it wouldn't work out, the same way that a hardcore conservative and staunch leftist wouldn't work out. We can be friends, sure. But we would never work out as partners. When I say lover me for me, I mean she has to accept me because she genuinely likes me, that we're similar people. I can't help but feel that someone like that is a predator or just looking to settle. It's not the worst thing in the world sur…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/22 09:20 PM
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How I wish that was true. I wouldn't see, "Oh he's an asshole, and he does these bad things, but you don't see him when we're alone!" What do you think general normal people and those down on their luck are supposed to think hearing that? Hell I've seen it in real life, people making excuses for these dirtbags on the internet and everywhere else, oh they're not that bad, .you've got it wrong, or nice guys are the real assholes because <insert boring cliche here>. Especially with all the ways tha…
/r/ExRedPill20/03/22 05:08 PM
1

In that case, how do I separate the genuine women out there from the users? What is good dating advice to follow? A lot of it says to emulate more extroverted personality traits/cocky and funny or whatever, tease her and the like but I don't want that and I know it's not me. And then there are so many legitimately bad women out there who will flat out excuse treating otherwise decent men like dirt, or simply settle for them, all the while still admitting they love asshole types just because. Peo…
/r/ExRedPill20/03/22 04:54 PM
1

It's fine if people make mistakes in life, god knows I've done it. Nobody's perfect. Still, a lot of dating advice out there is quite frankly toxic, bashing guys who have dating woes with all manner of epithets, and that the only way to improve is to become someone they're not or else they're no good. Online and off. I mean, you'd think women liking assholes or general idiot loudmouths would be something too absurd to be true, but let's be real, most people have probably seen it. I've seen stupi…
/r/ExRedPill20/03/22 04:21 PM
1

That makes sense, but how many relatively harmless situations is this saying actually applied to? When I hear don't be a pushover, it's usually in the thing of nice guys vs assholes. And they say that even the loudest dumbest asshole at least has a spine and is therefore more attractive than some average guy who isn't like that. People like Gordon Ramsay, outlaw biker thugs and others wouldn't have an eager list of female followers if that weren't remotely true in real life. That's not the kind …
/r/ExRedPill19/03/22 02:10 AM
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I agree with you, but there is a significant amount of women who can be this nasty towards guys for shallow reasons. I don't know if they're the majority, but there are a lot of them. As in, they'll judge a guy for not being confident enough, or for hating himself, or for having issues, or just for being down on his luck or in life. Or if he opens up to her and is still feeling like shit afterwards, she'll reprimand him and tell him to stop using her as an emotional crutch. I wish it weren't so,…
/r/ExRedPill19/03/22 01:46 AM
2

What do you mean by her bullshit?
/r/ExRedPill19/03/22 01:36 AM
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I don't understand the confusion. Read what I just said.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/22 07:36 PM
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I guess what I'm asking is, why should any man worth his salt put up with that kind of treatment? Yeah, there's worse things out there but it still sucks. It sucks to know that women can and will hold you in contempt for reasons that can only charitably be called asinine, and a lot of advice here will put the blame solely on the man if he fails to live up to her standards of behavior. Sometimes it goes further into the realm of pure seething contempt, to know that she might not be attracted to y…
/r/ExRedPill13/03/22 01:07 AM
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If you want to be dishonest about it, fine. I don't like red pill or the people behind it, but at least they're willing to admit there's a lot of stupid fucked up bullshit in the current dating system and whatnot. Responses like yours that attempt to shut up any and all opposition by parroting mind numbingly dumb cliches might not direct more people to red pill because that kind of disingenous reasoning can be used to feed all kinds of analogies, but at the same time, you are feeding a lot of ri…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/22 08:30 PM
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You're missing the point. I don't want someone who would ever choose a knuckle dragging asshole. That narrative that at least an arrogant jerk has something to offer is bloody annoying, and the kinds of people who would go for someone like that always tend to be bad news anyway, not to mention the naked scorn they show on men who deviate from that stereotype in any way tells me I know I wouldn't like them in a relationship either. The same way that I find the typical hot bitches or whatever to b…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/22 01:49 PM
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Because I know not all women are like that. But a lot of women are. Hell it's a popular thing in dating circles to make men out to be in the wrong for being unassertive, shy, whatever. And I'd never hold it against a woman for feeling the same way. But if she was to not like me for the same reasons, but saw an asshole or general loud mouth as more attractive than me? I wouldn't have her. I don't want someone like that.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/22 08:29 PM
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I don't like sleeping around, I don't like one night stands or casual sex. I thought I did, but every single time I got offered the opportunity, it weirded me out and made my skin crawl and I always refused. I used to think it was shyness, but then I realized I can simply just not want this and that's why I refused. I can't stress this enough here, I don't want this. I've got nothing against people who do want it, but I don't want someone who's fake, who used to do that thing and now decide they…
/r/ExRedPill08/03/22 02:21 PM
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Well my main issue is those women that do sleep around in their youth and then decide they finally want a nice or stable guy. And I don't want anyone like that. People for the most part can't change, and even if they do make some improvements, I still know that's not the kind of person I want. Even if they are overall pleasant, loyal, etc., it's a personal matter for me. I know that she and I are two completely different kinds of people. I know it wouldn't work out. My issue isn't how do I avoid…
/r/ExRedPill08/03/22 02:01 PM
1

Like what?
/r/ExRedPill08/03/22 12:56 AM
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It's not that simple. A lot of these types will mask their true natures, looking for unsuspecting men to prey on. And a lot of outright hatred for men, not for good reasons like he ignores her or hits her, but for stupid reasons, like he's not confident enough or won't stand up for himself. I've seen women full on go Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde on this issue. Needless to say, I don't like that. It's abusive and I don't like that it's normalized so heavily in our culture, online and off. How do I avoid t…
/r/ExRedPill08/03/22 12:55 AM
1

I'm all for debunking red pill, but Sam Vaknin's info is entirely first hand, his degree is from a diploma mill, and he is not in any way an actual psychologist. He has said that gay people and transgender people are narcissists, the former by virtue that they're looking for someone similar to themselves, and the latter because they think they can transform their bodies into something else. And he has a professorship in Putin's Russia based solely on his anti-LGBT stuff. Bottom line, he's not to…
/r/ExRedPill22/02/22 11:54 PM
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This sounds way too close to proto-RP/PUA content for my liking, and that it's okay for women to flat out abuse men, and you have to be alpha to not let this kind of thing happen. Spare me the victim blaming narratives kthxbai.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/22 06:03 PM
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So I appreciate your project and what you're doing, but at the same time, some of these places had some reactionary/right wing elements, some were flat out proto-TERF dens, and I really do not want to platform these places in any capacity, or bring them back from the dead or anything. Like they were popular back in the day, but it really brings a song to my heart to know most of them are forgotten in the current era. At the same time, and I know I might get flack for it, but some of what they sa…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/22 03:37 AM
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Some of it were personal blogs, some of them were dating websites, and some were feminist websites. It just seemed that women were united in wanting a certain thing, and real emotional vulnerability, the core of any relationship for me anyway, was something that wasn't always valued, or you had to pick and choose how you did it, else you'd be viewed as less of a man, or creepy.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/22 03:18 AM
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I wish it wasn't true, but yeah. It wasn't so much what TRP posted as it was that a lot of female oriented blogs and the like would flat out echo what these Red Pillers were saying, even if it wasn't as extreme language. It just felt like me being me was a lost cause, that I have to adopt some alpha traits, I have to play games, or I'd never be good enough, and all I could think was, if a guy did this kinda thing, a good number of women would rightfully call him on it and nobody would think less…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/22 03:01 AM
1

"I sense a lot of anger in your post. You seem to feel like people don't change, and you don't trust anyone who claims they do." If I'm being asked to think that they suddenly want nice guys despite all the rhetoric on the internet saying they're the REAL assholes or are liars looking for some ass while jerks are the real men of the world, I can only think they're being entirely dishonest, or they're using them to fill a hole in their lives as opposed to actually loving them. Same goes with casa…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/22 01:27 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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