| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | FR saturday | tekcring | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 10:41 AM | |
| 7 | What are your personal negs/disqualifiers/attraction building lines early in the convo? | tekcring | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 02:25 PM | |
| 7 | early convo tips | tekcring | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 07:13 PM | |
| 6 | Couple of approaches | tekcring | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 07:17 PM | |
| 6 | Field Report Sat. | tekcring | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 08:08 PM | |
| 5 | Any nightgame infields from England that you can link me too? | tekcring | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 11:42 PM | |
| 3 | self amusing openers for nightgame | tekcring | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 11:30 AM | |
| 2 | Field report time | tekcring | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 10:06 PM | |
| 1 | Showing more intent FR failure | tekcring | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 05:00 PM |
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| 2 | Remember guys, rejection is part of the process...I blame mystery for convincing people that you should be able to basically get any girl you open lol (he had his '5 for 5' rule) Thing is, if you watch his own infields, he certainly wasn't able to do this, and was kinda hopeless and not someone i'd be especially worried about stealing my girl! Same for all of the other supposedly 'best'. They all get rejected a tonne. (some, like Julien, even admit it lol) Game just isn't magic. You could have the best game in the world and get rejected 100 tim… | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | I’m done trying, there comes a time where you need to get your foot of the peddle.it's 100% possible, but takes serious numbers game and luck! Trust me. I know from first hand experience lol (you can also lie a little about your age as I have done to help smooth over the cracks!) | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 08:59 PM |
| 1 | I’m done trying, there comes a time where you need to get your foot of the peddle.Money matters more than looks Only for much older women. Milfs etc For the most desirable girls (18 years olds) money usually means absolutely nothing at all (at least here in the UK). So many broke ass handsome dudes are getting top shelf girls | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 08:48 PM |
| 0 | I’m done trying, there comes a time where you need to get your foot of the peddle.I actually think this is good advice. On this sub, the 'friendzone' sounds like hell. A way to guarantee not getting laid with a girl - but in real life, it's the only way I actually see (with my own eyes) guys banging girls 'out of their league'. Never cold approach (that's usually decnt looking guys banging girls slightly below them, tbh). It's always, 100% of the time, the result of him knowing her for ages through work/school etc, and at some point (usually after she goes through a breakup o… | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 08:45 PM |
| 1 | That's it, I'm becoming gay.there's always someone better looking! Bad luck he was at the same party! haha. At least you got the makeout for a confidence boost, bro! Chin up | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Stop the negativity!I think it could work in theory if you asked a certain 'type' of adventurous girl, it was very late, and you are good looking to the point that she is attracted. I only tried it maybe 7 times, personally. All rejections. (1 of which was kind of brutal lol) And 1 reaction was positive in that she found it amusing but no dice lol No different really to just asking her to have sex with you. I think that PUA dude Hayden done a vid once of him asking 100 girls for sex. Think he got all rejections too… | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Yesterday I got rejected, hardEverything was going well, except maybe for the fact that one of the male friends was constantly hitting on her, and she even seemed to be uncomfortable and kind of avoided talking to him. she proceeds to make out with the pushy dude. Man, that's rough. SO much for being aloof and not chasing too hard etc as so much theory advises lol. Was he good looking? How can I not let this affect me more than it already has? I'm afraid, only TIME is the answer in my experience! I've had similar things happ… | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Stop the negativity!i'v'e tried it a few times lol | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 08:41 AM |
| 1 | I’ve 95% of the people I’ve slept with I wasn’t attracted to.no, tbh. I actually tend to mainly go for much younger girls, and I am much much less likely to pull her than I am women my own age (who I find 10x easier). I think young girls get so much validation and they know how hot they are! | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 09:31 PM |
| 2 | What's the missing link in f-close?talk me through 1 or 2 typical interactions that lead to kiss closes. How do you open. What do you then talk about. How do you escalate etc | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 08:26 PM |
| 5 | It doesn't seem to work.The cold hard reality that nobody wants to tell you (partly because people want to make money from you) is that cold approach is a huge numbers game. You really can't force attraction in a girl with some routines and pushpull lines etc etc (game). The 'skill' element is almost negligible. Theoretically, You can approach with excellent body language and eye contact and be relaxed and self amused and deliver a 'good' opener etc, and get rejected 100 times in a row. No problem at all. It's about fi… | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Can a man seduce a rich woman?Of course. Lots of stories of really handsome broke guys banging rich women! Or the spoilt princess with rich parents banging the local good looking bad boy on his motorcycle lol | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Does being tall give you advantages at bars/clubs?Of course - height is simply an aspect of 'looks' - and 'looks' is super important (i.e - she needs to be physically attracted to you for you to have a shot at getting her in bed. If she's not into you, no amount of 'game' is gonna change her mind) So it certainly helps, in the same way muscles or a handsome face do (although in different degrees, depending on the girl in question) That being said, the biggest slayer I know by far is actually fairly short (5ft 8 ish), although girls approach him… | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 01:15 PM |
| 321 | I’ve 95% of the people I’ve slept with I wasn’t attracted to.sometimes girls who are way better looking than you think that you are good looking. (and then you can get them girls in bed) Girls tastes do vary somewhat in terms of what they think of as hot/handsome. I've had nights where i've gotten rejected LOTS of times in a row by girls who weren't even that hot who were like ''Ewww...no chance. Not interested. Byee!!'' after I approached and opened them, who clearly didn't give me a shot as they thought i was ugly, and I ended up pulling a much hotter, … | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Hitting on hired guns is usually a fools errand, but this one simple trick might help.Good stuff, but of course tonnes of guys try and fail with this (giving the cute girl their number) It 'works' if she thinks you're hot/handsome, and will obviously fail if she doesn't | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 09:22 AM |
| 0 | Hitting on hired guns is usually a fools errand, but this one simple trick might help.You mentioned you received strong vibes, so I’m more interested in how you created attraction It would have just been a matter of him being her type, as is always the case, tbh | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Magic tricks/personality testsIt's a bit dated and girls seem to find this sort of stuff a bit cheesy and try-hard nowadays, but it sounds like you want stuff by mystery and lovesystems (myssterymethod teaches lots of this stuff, as does the lovesystems 'routines manuals') | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 05:55 PM |
| 1 | The age old question of seducing a bartenderprobably just ask her out and shoot your shot. Same as any other interaction, really | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Couple of approachesI'd say your last set is what usually happens in majority of cases The 5-set? but I don't find gaming in bars effective at all, especially when you're solo. All the chicks come in gangs and hold defensive formation. I know man. It's almost comforting to hear that though, tbh. I feel there's lots of BS written that gives us an unrealistic idea of what should happen. Truth seems to be that 95% of girls simply don't want to be approached by some random dude, especially if he's simply not her physic… | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Field report timeBTW, it would be great if you didn't just write "I opened, I DHV'd, I negged", but actually let us know what specifically you said. I tend to keep it laconic on purpose now, based on past experience Firstly, seddit always tells me 'what you say doesn't matter'. But the main reason is that I learnt that specifics just give people a reason to use in hindsight which might not even be true and results on me spinning my wheels lol For example, if I say 'I opened her with 'who lies more, men or women?… | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 01:57 PM |
| 1 | It's not as hard as it seems!my most recent one: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/el1727/field_report_time/ | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 09:01 AM |
| 39 | "Advanced game" is just not giving a fuckSomeone told me that advanced game was just a complete lack of anxiety and inhibtions, so I can see where you're coming from lol (might have even been an old Tyler vid but not sure) There's clearly no 'ONE' method (which is why some PUA's are 'funny', some are direct, some are indirect, some are serious, some do things like neg and tease lots, some never seem to do that, they all disagree on everything in terms of outergame etc etc yet all are 'professionals') I guess top level game is about hav… | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Keys To The VIP Season 1 - A show about Players Picking Up Women!I used to like this show. I found it funny. The black 'coach' used to make me laugh a lot. There was lots of discussion at the time though (from people who had competed on the show and posted on PUA forums) about just how 'legit' it was in terms of actresses etc, so take it all with a pinch of salt! | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Field report timetypical, tbh :) - Even with all the game concepts, it's a massive numbers game | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 08:42 AM |
| 3 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?what's your method? (i'm assuming not MM based on that) Provide a 'manifesto' like RSD and mystery done (so you gives your opener, a transition, what sort of things you talk about, how you show intent, when etc etc - basically everything mapped out what to say to force attraction in an unnatracted girl) Then we can all write FR's using your lines/method to put them to the test ;) | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Average looking guy with amazing game vs supermodel with no gameHow would a guy that the girl isn't remotely physically attracted too, 'seduce' a girl to the point she was? Imagine you're about to leave your shitty job and some 18 year old STUNNER starts working there. You're ugly. But you have 'game'. You have 3 weeks to work your magic. What sort of things do you say to her to make her physically attracted to you/want to have sex with you in the same way she wants to bang the handsome mechanic who works next door? Are we talking saying things like ''You an… | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Grimoire: The 2020 Dating guide for men (Free on Amazon for the next two days)upload it post a linky link? It's free anyway and some people can't donwload it from amazon from certain countries | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 08:55 PM |
| 4 | Why Californication?!!very little. You're right. I started watching it for the same reason and noticed the same thing lol (hot girls literally throwing themselves at the handsome writer after they recognise him) Like James Bond, he's 'good with women' because he's been written by writers that way according to the script. It's not real. There's nothing to learn, tbh. One could write a film and the main character who gets laid a tonne shouts in girls faces when he opens them and talks about puppies with each girl. Does… | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Dancing with girls at clubs then hooking upIf a chick makes eye contact for more than 2 seconds or smiles at you, don't think. Move your feet towards them and improvise. Do you only approach if a girl is giving you an IOI (she finds you attractive to look at) Is it worth approaching otherwise or is it a waste of time? If you DO approach, what kind of things do you say to 'game' her during the first few mins? I can only think of asking like name/age/plans for the night/job etc, usually Should I be running a an opinion opener and maybe a r… | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Just a question on attractiveness: What is the male equivalent of boobs?height/muscles | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Starbucks girl startup guyWould that fall more under ToddV than mystery method? https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/e9fsgh/test_out_the_main_pua_methods_to_see_which_is_the/ | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 01:11 PM |
| 11 | Pretty sure guys avoid me at bars bc of my guy best friendLike 90% of guys wouldn't approach a hot girl even if she looked to be by herself. If it looks like she's with a guy, that goes up to like 97% lol I'd suggest giving big IOI's (even like in a dorky way. For example, I have a really handsome wingman, and girls just wave at him and stuff from across the bar in the hope that he'll open them. Sometimes they'll even outright approach him and tell him he's hot). You don't need to do that, but to increase your odds of getting the handsome dude to open … | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual MANIf you do a pick-up technique to try to make something work, you will fail. Didn't lots of people supposedly succeed with techniques and stuff back in the mysterymethod days, though? (neg, dhv story, a routine etc etc) | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 09:51 PM |
| 42 | Physical looks get your foot in the door, character and personality keep you in.or just not engage in convo properly and allow you to 'hook' I had a few of them interactions last night lol. Feels like pulling teeth trying to get them to actually engage. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/e7sd5v/fr_saturday/ | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for a long term Unemployed person to get a girlfriend, or even casual sex!?Yes. I know unemployed people who get laid. It's not even an issue tbh, if we're literally talking about just getting laid and not getting a wife or whatever! (not to mention you can just lie!). my older brother lived at home in his 30's and was 'unemployed' (although he actually made good money from selling drugs!). He pulled girls back from bars etc. Pretty sure he'd either lie and say he worked in marketing or something, and if a girl wondered why he lived at home (I don't think most girls ev… | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 11:44 AM |
| 1 | How to flirt and get girls at parties?I get that. I'm still experimenting with the idea that with 'game', you can get the girls that aren't initially attracted to you. The original idea seems to be that you can get girls 'in your league' with just walking up to them and telling them that they're hot, but with game, you can attract girls that are 'out' of your league and who aren't attracted to you and thus would always reject a direct open Lots of people tell me that this is all just marketing BS and lies, and a few others tell me t… | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 12:05 AM |
| 3 | How to flirt and get girls at parties?Simply when you see a girl you like at the party. Go talk to her. And Let her know that you're sexually interested on her I read the exact opposite advice earlier that was also upvoted. Said to disqualify her and make it looks like you weren't interested in her at all in order to make her chase | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Cristiano Ronaldo a never seen video of Him!!Good game, good game. Nice infield | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Do we need to split seddit into 2 subs (technical and natural)I posted my FR here and on a few other subs. (i'm currently experimenting with technical game to decide for myself whether it's all marketing or whether it's legit) I got mixed answers, to be fair (although mainly from, I guess, natural gamers, so you might have a point) https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/e64zwg/field_report_sat/ | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Trained vs Natural and Routines vs Natural Approach. The TRUTH.That's my Field report! :) haha. Yeah, i'm currently experimenting and putting this stuff to the test to see whether it's all industry lies or whether you really can force a girl to be attracted to you with game, even if she initially thinks you're ugly or whatever I'll have my answer in 2020! | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 08:27 PM |
| 0 | What "playing to win" means and how it can SKYROCKET your resultshopefully he's legit, but I keep hearing how all these PUA's just use actresses and stuff :( | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Those of you who look way younger than your age, what benefits do you experience?Hive hostel | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Field Report Sat.But in my opinion if a girl says I’m not her type and she isn’t showing much interest, I’d just end the conversation there. Really no point in trying to win her over Thanks Yeah, this is the very core of the concept of 'game' though. And That's at least what i'm trying to test. Some people (even on seddit) say that the whole point of game is to get the girls who are 'out of your league' or who aren't attracted to you. The idea is that they CAN be 'won over'. You do things like push pull etc and … | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 08:36 PM |
| 8 | Those of you who look way younger than your age, what benefits do you experience?I'm 33. Some girls (usually ones my age) can tell that i'm older (I think little eye wrinkles and my hairline give it away), but most girls (particularly young ones) seem clueless about them little tell-tale signs, and think i'm about a decade younger!! I slept with some teenagers last year who I know wouldn't have slept with me if they knew my real age! I also went travelling and stayed in a party hostel in Eastern Europe this year that was full of like 17 year old girls and I banged the girl s… | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 08:11 PM |
| 0 | Where’s the best places to meet woman if you don’t like to go to bars (aka for an introvert)do you apply the same method as night? So basically, 'guys, who lies more, men or women?' - 'I've only got 2 mins as i have to meet a friend'. 'The reason I ask is my ex girlfriend who is a model...'. 'What do you have going for you other than your looks?' And then ask for the number or maybe try an insta date? Or do things have to change for day game? | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 08:02 PM |
| 4 | Instead of gaming, why not talk to her as you would to any human being?Every PUA coach seems to have a different philosophy, but there do appear to be some coaches who basically say that 'game' IS, as you say, just talking to someone normally, but with showing intent at some point (which is the only thing that separates 'running game' from just 'talking to someone'). So no 'rules', really. You can do and say whatever you want based on your own personality Whereas someone like mystery and a few others have to be sure to neg the girl, disqualify themselves, tease, DH… | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 07:44 PM |
| -1 | Clubs are the best places to get laidI'm not really trying to convince anyone to like me either. I really believe that you CAN'T actually do that. either they like you for who you are or they dont. This has been my experience so far too, sadly. It would seem that 'Game' doesn't seem to have the power to 'flip' a gril who isn't interested into wanting to bang you. | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Can we really master the art of seduction?I think I must meet too many girls in the 2nd category and not the 3rd category, but gonna keep going https://www.reddit.com/r/pickup/comments/e5ez5j/fr/ | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Are you guys also more successful when traveling abroad/on holiday?Ahhh. That kind of depends. For example, if you are white and from the US or the UK and you go to South East Asia, the locals will treat you like Brad Pitt! 20x easier to get laid. There's legit hardcore 'incels' on forums who go there and get laid non-stop and post all their pics of proof on the forums lol. In other countries things like your accent will certainly bump up your odds, but there's probably also an element of you being less inhibited and feeling more 'invisible' (in a good way) and… | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Are you guys also more successful when traveling abroad/on holiday?Girls who are travelling become way more adventurous and are often looking to hookup so they make it easy for yoo I pulled 3 nights in a row in Budapest. That is just like unheard of here for me! | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 09:08 AM |
| 4 | Differences in Pickup in Europe (Copenhagen)Never been to Copenhagen. I've found UK girls the hardest by far to pickup (aggressive if they don't know you or think you are handsome af. Speaking to strangers freaks most of them out). Girls in Hungary and Poland were much more receptive. Friendly. 80% less instant blowouts. Personally I found US girls the MOST receptive though. I love them. Wish I lived there. | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 08:24 AM |
| 2 | The manley method by jack manleyI heard that he just kisses girls super easily on teh street because he's a fairly good looking, young guy who interviews hot young drunk girls in college towns at night where he's got his camera crew with him and that girls love acting wild when they know they'll be on youtube with a channel with tonnes of subscribers, so they always agree when he kisses them on camera | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 08:20 AM |
| 3 | The best methods of flirting and escalating | Women by Todd sneak peak |You and I are not gonna get along What if she doesn't say anything that gives you a chance to use that line without it making you sound odd? Do you just shoe-horn these lines in? Like, ''Hey, how's your night going?'' Her: ''not bad''. you: ''you and I aren't gonna get along'' Or maybe you've been talking for half an hour, and then you just say out at a quiet point or something? | /r/seduction | 29/11/19 01:45 PM |
| 1 | FemaleDatingStrategy on Mysterymethodwhat script do you use? In theory, I should be able to get any girl I want with: I've only got 2 mins guys (FTC) Who lies more, men or women? (opinion opener) Is she always like this?! Does she have an off buttton? (neg) Anyway, I was skydiving with my friend yesterday and my ex girlfrend was doing some modelling work bla blab bla (DHV. She should now be chasing me hard) What do you have going for you other than your looks? (qualify her) (Now just build some comfort with normal chat and then esc… | /r/seduction | 29/11/19 10:01 AM |
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