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Comprehensivetenclowns/r/seduction31/05/24 11:59 AM
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tenclowns/r/TheRedPill31/05/24 11:58 AM
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somehow this much effort might make your interactions feel more unnatural and forced because you put a lot of pressure and effort on yourself that probably gets conveyed into your personality. also that you take the interaction with women more seriously you could get more anxious and less natural...
/r/seduction23/07/25 08:35 PM
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Dude, you should have accepted the sex and hugs. She overreacted with getting angry about the gum, but you overreacted by withdrawing attention and then her reconeliation later on where she offered sex and hugs. A man overreacting is a much bigger sign of weakness. If the gum hurt your pride that much you just come across as sensitive
/r/seduction07/07/25 12:13 PM
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Its like a contrast effect. I hate the reasoning behind it because your basically tricking yourself to be impressed by a suprise / contrast you didnt expect. And the suprise emotions and or relief you feel seemingly make you more impressed than you would otherwise.... and again the impression of the person could ride those emotions it positivley. While the same attribute in another person you would expect it from does not impress by contrast. shows the gulebility of humans
/r/seduction25/06/25 07:56 PM
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Im not sure flirting is always necessary. Flirting can sometimes misfire and or the girl might also not be too good at it. Dont seem too serious and can joke around, physically escalate, calming down a bit as you physically escalate. Maybe slight tease and like a suggestion thats flirtish during the talk, "its better to sit close" and then move closer
/r/seduction18/06/25 11:52 AM
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The silly and fun part is quite significant with many types of flirting... dont take it too seriousley
/r/seduction18/06/25 01:11 AM
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hard to know if thats a shit test or not, but i think if you pass it at least your chances arr ehigher
/r/seduction11/06/25 05:11 PM
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yes, I guess that's a point, to test the waters of who you are since many are inhibiting their own behavior out of fear, and that maybe some slight strangeness in your behavior might ensue until you find a balance of where your personality actually is when its not inhibited or seeking a more energetic mood not engaged in before to see if it could be you... there are some cautions though, it can be a hard balance, because with energy also some expectation that you maintain that, I personally woul…
/r/seduction08/06/25 03:15 AM
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Where I live this energy would probably be considered a bit cringe and fake. The motivation for it is ulterior and deep down is generally about pussy. If you could get pussy without having to exert this effort most men probably wouldn't bother. And therein lies the evidence that its too much pretending and not as genuin. So to emulate and gel with the behavior would seem like your taking the act for yourself when its just you changing your act for pussy. I cannot do that with a straight face alt…
/r/seduction07/06/25 03:45 AM
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The life of the party guys are generally annoying, they usually dont manage to live up to it, become excessive and take too much space socially. Those who behave like this overcompensate because they dont know how to balance being likeable without overacting which is often reflected in the things they say and do. What they say and do doesnt match the high amount of energy they present it with, its a miss match when they try to be likeable. Please give me one good example of such a person who man…
/r/seduction06/06/25 11:20 PM
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No but it sounds like a lot of energy and showmanship, that honestly comes across as too much quite often. A person thats going to own the whole room...
/r/seduction06/06/25 06:55 PM
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that sounds annoying to anyone who isn't a girl
/r/seduction06/06/25 05:32 PM
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Too opinionated, can come across as judgemental, judgemental men brings up her slut shaming defense because she will expect men with strong opinions might have strong opinions about sexuality as well. I guess unless the opinions are more liberal and express openness quite staunchly, but then opinionated can come across as too focused on things not too related to yourself, your wellbekng and your future. And they probably dont enjoy men emotionally invested into surpuflous ideas, unless you keep …
/r/seduction26/05/25 11:13 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction26/05/25 09:53 PM
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Hm, kept communicating and validating. Not sure thats an approach for everyone, it can come across as too available
/r/seduction26/05/25 02:34 AM
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Isnt that just part of the drama. I feel like young people willfully cause drama because its exciting
/r/seduction26/05/25 02:29 AM
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If you dont play the violin, how can she know you can play it. I also think: if you dont physically approach at least somewhat on the first date, she will think your weak, because you dont dare to go for it / test the waters. It also assumes your maybe not that good at flirting, which makes you boring to her
/r/seduction26/05/25 02:23 AM
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Dont prepare, id rather you come without makeup so we can see you. It gives you an advantage
/r/seduction25/05/25 02:46 PM
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A bigger problem is probably that women are delusional and or want to be delutional. You cannot fix that with a comment or date because they will swipe you the fuck away if anything goes against them. Im not sure if there is a way around that that kind of just demands respect in a way that is intriguing to them. But they dont understand how all these demands they make are really unattractive and childish. You cannot judge if you want to be with a man based on if he only takes you out for dinner,…
/r/seduction24/05/25 06:24 PM
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They do
/r/BlackPillScience22/05/25 05:48 PM
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And women still want us to think that they are not judgemental. It means a lot more of them settle with men that they are not that attracted to...
/r/BlackPillScience22/05/25 01:58 PM
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I'd say it works to say something less direct and ambiguous because direct makes it too apparent that you are here for short term and that will activate her slut shaming defense. Like "...see where it goes...". But potentially the best is to not bring it up unless she does
/r/seduction15/05/25 04:11 AM
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you put attention towards her asking for sex. women are very weary towards sexual shame and dont want to be seen as easy or slutty. a joke is not good response, and definitely not putting attention to her sexual shame as a woman. im pretty sure this is the reason if she was for real and you lost out much better suggesting you could help her out without saying just outright yes. like "maybe i can help with that" or "im looking for something like that myself". there are surely better responses tha…
/r/seduction16/03/25 11:04 PM
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noticing imperfections also helps to lower their value. like her height, hiding her normal looking face behind makeup, having boring standardized hobbies every women has (hiking, wine, food, dogs), small hips, small lips etc etc. the bitch attitude they put up is also partially a test / a defense mechanism and really nothing to be that worried about, behind that attitude ca 95% have really poor trash talking skills compared to most men who practice that shit every day, so you could easily break …
/r/seduction17/02/25 01:13 PM
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I'd barely consider that a joke, you can do better I believe in you
/r/seduction29/01/25 10:53 PM
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Then you are the joke, everyone come laugh
/r/seduction29/01/25 10:44 PM
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It's just considered offensive and rude because it exposes women
/r/TheRedPill18/10/24 09:04 AM
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You didn't escalate you fucking moron xD You have to build up to the touching with some flirting, and see how far she will let you go. Sexy stare also shouldn't come until she plays into it more
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:31 PM
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as long as they are annoyed, they at least like you, because they wouldnt bother being annoyed if someone they don't like didn't treat them right in the aforementioned situations. you could make up for it somehow, but many women are bitchy/complaining by nature and its fine as long as it not signals of a larger issue
/r/seduction01/10/24 10:11 PM
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Yes probably when she says that it probably doesn't even mean friends it means that she is trying to reject him less harshly or become a distant acquaintance. But if you socialize with friends who are women, it can easily go down the path of meeting women, the whole point is that there is specific game for friendzone where you don't come across as a nice guy and your opening for more opportunities
/r/seduction01/10/24 07:56 PM
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It might be a test (less likely), it might be attention seeking, it might be backup if she really gets desperate. On the other side having female friends is useful if shes able to hook you up with other women either through referrals or meetups. It might be a hit to your ego as you think she's friend zoned you. Just don't make the impression you think she's into you after friend zoning you (looks like you cannot take social cues). The impression you should give is that you have understood your j…
/r/seduction01/10/24 04:38 PM
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I'm not sure we are grasping power in the correct way here. A woman still wants physical and mental power (calm and logical). And most men are almost always better in those regards. Goes a long way to give her an impression of power that is protective but also attractive enough to want to secure you / not loose you. I don't think the OP calculation of a totality of power domains the man must be the most powerful. You often end up in relationship of similar power levels, where they sometimes trad…
/r/seduction30/09/24 08:28 AM
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It's not the point. The point was that she will think your effeminate or weirdly into fashion for a man
/r/seduction27/09/24 12:12 AM
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Maybe one reason is that "hair" seems too personal, and its also probably a bit too simple and be considered lazy/boring. Personally if I was to use more specific and to men obscure fashion terms I would never give the impression that I have a wide awareness of these terms if an opportunity to signal that ever came up. It seems a bit off for a man, I think women would prefer a man less into fashion just personality wise
/r/seduction26/09/24 11:53 PM
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Just giving my two cent. I agree with you on two points. The point about horny doesn't really matter because women are still horny. The point about tonality also doesn't matter very much because it's still stated that tonality is important which it is. Do basically almost agree on 4/5 anyway
/r/seduction10/09/24 12:09 PM
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Women are complicated Tonality. This is something I hear over and over again from old pua and I don't think its true. But tonality is still very important. What is maybe most important is to what tonality to not have; hesitant, high pitch, overfriendly, laughing too much Women probably arw not hornier than men, but they are horny, and they have more elaborate fantasies probably because being the receiver and wanting to be dominated causes stronger fantasies Direct about sexual intentions works. …
/r/seduction10/09/24 12:00 PM
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When your flirting your kind of stepping out of your usual self to create sexual connection. Your strongly leaning into masculine and feminine frames to create heavier sparks. Often the whole point of it is a kind of roleplay and she's playing along. You don't have to have this attitude all of the time which is what some men think they have to do. You step in and out of this role from time to time. If you ever want good foreplay, increase your chances substantially you have to do that... This pl…
/r/seduction20/08/24 01:58 PM
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Jesus, what are you talking about? You really need to get of the internet and stop being offended. Its clear you have a lot of room for growth with that annoying attitude. This is what's called flirting/teasing, she knows you don't mean it, and she will potentially play along if she likes that kind of thing. Its playful blame game. In reality though if it was offensive women probably will go for the offensive guy over someone who is easily offended and overprotective, that's nice guy territory
/r/seduction20/08/24 01:53 PM
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shifting the blame "wow, look at you getting so close, you like to go fast huh?" I think this is a a really bad example. I would not put attention to her boundaries when moving closer to her, your just putting her focus and attention on boundaries when you do that. She want's to forget about that, you want to kill and hide that elephant in the room
/r/seduction19/08/24 10:48 PM
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What's important is probably to have a way to invite her home that isn't as direct, so that she feels its easier to play along. Like "I need to get home to my dog, he probably would enjoy meeting you" - not necessarily a good example, but you get the drift. This dog example isn't a shared narrative but it could be from you mentioning the dog earlier or you just mentioned the dog right now when inviting her back. Does anyone have a list of such indirect ways of asking? Shared narrative might be a…
/r/seduction19/08/24 10:45 PM
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It's a lot of white knights thinking showing resistance towards red pill will white knight them to pussy. It''s only going to make it worse. They sometimes get emboldened in this position if they watched a youtube video "debunking" it. All the debunking videos is just cherry picking the most over the top or dumb red pill content, its embarrassing to watch
/r/TheRedPill17/08/24 11:57 AM
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Porn selects for attractive men and women. Do whomever tested that hasnt controlled for a myriad of factors... Bad study design Women have a type, but they also have personality types. A tall big man that has less facial attractive features is still an attractive male, so the attributes that they enjoy can make up for other lacking attributes. One reason why women don't know what they want is because they can be dishonest to others or even themselves. They want to delude themsleves as being less…
/r/seduction06/08/24 10:17 AM
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Not a single woman out there in the west is relationship material for 85% of the guys. Only the top guys who get laid a similar amount or have the looks to attract them can wife any of these slags. Your always a small dick, shorter, less attractive moron comparativley. Have fun out there!
/r/seduction29/07/24 09:24 AM
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I'm the opposite. I need the bantering friends, because they have close to zero filter, you can say the vilest, dumbest silliest things possible; right wing, left wing; no boundaries. I often turn up in a bad mood / less engaged, usually it's never pointed out though, but I would have little issue with being shat on and have the mentality more that I'm just not in the mood that I can enjoy it as much but that's not their fault. Of course you can get annoyed ar certain points but the benefits out…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/24 12:06 AM
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Lol your like an 8
/r/seduction28/07/24 11:05 PM
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Michael sartain personality doesn't come across as very attractive to me, so no wonder he has to try to rely on status
/r/seduction24/07/24 11:47 PM
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"RSD pivoted towards inner game because they realised that trying to get guys with no confidence to do routines that require confidence to sell them properly was never going to work, granted it just came from a business and marketing perspective rather than a self help perspective." That's a great observation and must surely be based on years of experience
/r/seduction24/07/24 11:46 PM
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Sounds like a lot of work, and in the end you might up putting in that work on becoming a better version of yourself with the biggest motivator being women; meaning you select ways to better yourself that is attractive (thats not really being true to yourself). If the time to result ratio is better for game than bettering yourself then I'd take the game. Or maybe better, getting good game while slowly working on yourself, you have to realize the dwindling interest in self improvement that comes …
/r/seduction24/07/24 11:43 PM
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Should have put a kid in her to bog her energy levels down, probably the only way with women like this. Even that probably will not work
/r/seduction22/07/24 10:13 PM
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Your aggressive reaction could be appropriate if there was a lot of I'll intent. To me the unmasculine thing in you case seems to be the inavility to control your emotions, emotional control is considered masculine. This is probably the reason you don't like it and might be biased to want to call it unacceptable
/r/TheRedPill18/07/24 05:31 PM
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Because it means you can laugh at yourself, don't take the world over-seriously (a man that takes it too seriously is likely easily buthurt and grumpy which is not masculine, why else would he think banter isn't acceptable), let's the woman unwind and talk shit when she wants to (they all want to) without you scolding her for being a bitch... Banter is also fun, if you want to make it less offensive, talk shit about yourself or help the other side talk shit back at you. There are so many ways to…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/24 12:16 PM
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You expect the other person to be sensitive himself if he only want to speak pleasentries... Sensitive people can be annoying unless they get hurt but still take it on the chin. Also banter is very fun, probably lightens the mood more than pleasentries and makes everyone subject of riddicule (life is absurd anyway so why take the bad parts so seriously (sometimes it's relevant but for the most part not))
/r/TheRedPill18/07/24 12:11 PM
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Don't try to act dominant. Its better you try to limit some behaviour that makes you look like a nice guy. Faking behaviour aka trying to act dominant makes most guy look stupid because we all have a retarded idea of what dominance is hence its better to limit nice guy behaviour because its much easier to limit behaviour than to act dominant. Try to limit needyness, not having opinions (too agreeable), overfriendly voice (too agreeable) but show that you can initiate a kiss etc and have some abi…
/r/seduction17/07/24 09:51 AM
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its hard to compete with porn, you can seek novelty by changing clips all the time, so for me many times sex can seem less exciting in comparison, but I would never turn it down
/r/seduction10/07/24 06:24 PM
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Practice talking with people especially girls, plan a bit what you can talk about and say before the date. Once its easier to talk and you have a plan you can at least reduce the anxiety quite substantially. Without the plan or the experience you like everyone will have worries about what you will say, and if you will embarrass yourself etc... This really will have an impact
/r/seduction09/07/24 07:26 PM
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No, its a test she puts up before she will let you get close to her. It's to test / play a game to see if your a man enough to break through the boundary. It's short term about getting access to her at all
/r/seduction05/07/24 03:47 PM
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Not entirely sure how to describe it, but with what I called empathic boundary you would have to look for things like pitty, compassion, sympathy if they reject you / set up a boundary. It's more friendly. And so if you see this its potentially a worse situation than if she doesn't show that. It's like how they would treat anyone, or a child, but not a potential mate which they would have standards for and to pass those standards being able to put up with and breake through boundaries is what sh…
/r/seduction05/07/24 03:44 PM
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most women put up a boundary at first, its your job to kind of crack it. they put up a boundary for you to crack so that they feel less slutty not just giving it to you making you work for it. depends on the boundary, but some boundaries that are actually sexual opportunity almost doesn't look like it. its almost better that shes strict boundary than empathic boundary, because the latter she sees you as pathetic
/r/seduction05/07/24 03:29 PM
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I guess you passed her testing mode for various reasons. In judgement mode she is similar to an annoying wine dick beeing uneccesarily judgemental because he knows his reputation as a wine critique needs him to explain the taste in witting detail, often ending up a dick in the process... Tests will be back, but if she think your a catch then it will be an easy time
/r/TheRedPill23/06/24 06:21 PM
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pump and dump her for more satisfaction
/r/TheRedPill21/06/24 03:00 AM
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Thank you for your reply. Sorry for previous gf, maybe one day you can see her again. But yes there is plenty of fish in the sea. I watched some videos from bobbie rio and playing with fire on youtube. Even though I watched them and took some notes I managed to make "needy" mistakes, but I don't think I overdid them, and got some respect back by just not texting back and answering in short. I think it was useful for me to contacted her again, as it could be possible she would have just moved on,…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/24 12:14 AM
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I'm watching some videod now on how to use the friend zone to get access and potentially turn it around. She was very attracted to me, and I actually think I might have a chance... Going to binge a lot of content to set up a plan
/r/TheRedPill31/05/24 02:32 PM
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No because I was the issue. and I can fix the fault because I had other motivations and hence didn't do so , but it didn't happen until it went to far... I suddenly had a perspective I cannot shake, and I'm certain that if I get her back I want to stay as long ss i can
/r/TheRedPill31/05/24 02:31 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I'm afraid I don't. This woman is incredible... She loved me hard, and had a great personality and humor. She let me know immeditaley when shes annoyed, and wouldn't go linger on the annoyance of it like other women. We went together pretty much perfectly. I have no idea what I was thinking, I thought I wanted some space and flings. I only want her. I could see her coming back in the future, but maybe a year or two would pass... but if shes out and about I would have troubl…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/24 01:28 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I try to register on askTRP. I finish the registration but it tells me no user is registered on the email or username. I have tried registering twice now. Any suggetions?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/24 12:49 PM
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women are generally worse at math, and I would also say generally worse at being logical and release grudges when they are upset
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