tenxs Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	(LTR) - "Last night, X guys hit on me"		tenxs	/r/askTRP	31/10/17 10:42 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
249	What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with? I dislike the notion that every women is hypergomous. Not because it's wrong, but because it's too simple. In my opinion, yes, every women is hypergomous - but to varying degrees. And also, by adopting a textbook redpill behavior you're pretty much running your personal ad campaign, specifically targeted at women on the more extreme side of the hypergamy spectrum. Which then leads to you pulling in much more women, but they are also of the lowest ltr quality. Which means the common notion that l…	/r/askTRP	10/12/19 04:51 PM
1	What are women attracted to Evolutionarily? veins Highly subjective and in no way as universally true as the other things you have listed. A lot of them find veins really disgusting, and are looking for veins in the bicep/forearm area at most.	/r/askTRP	02/11/18 08:29 AM
12	What are some lesser known NAWLT and AWALT truths? You don't see these sorts of comments in threads posted a few years back. Everything was better in the old days. Especially because you were able to share opinions and ideas without rookies diagnosing a “fundamental lack of understanding” or getting burdened with quality concerns. TRP applies to all women equally While all women will react positively to high-status behaviour, they don't react equally - just as a lot of things influencing the extent to which women act out their biological, hyperg…	/r/askTRP	09/10/18 03:06 PM
1	What are some lesser known NAWLT and AWALT truths? AWALT, like hypergamy, is a spectrum. Yes, all women crave high status men. However, some do so more than others and they'll live out their hypergamous imperative much more aggressively than other women. Funnily, by broadcasting "I am a high-status male" via the application of redpill behaviors, you run into a self-fulfilling prophecy situation. Just like a company precisely adjusting their advertisement for their target audience, the storybook application of TRP is most effective on women who a…	/r/askTRP	09/10/18 10:08 AM
8	So I was put in one of the most difficult situations I've been in with a woman last night... Ignore the ones yelling shit test, the girl hit you with a storybook comfort test. Usually happens when you are to low on dependabiltiy side of things. She will either unhappily put up with it for a while or leave you. Note that you can provide some comfort and cater to her needs without becoming her emotional tampon. It's basic social awareness, really. Essentially tell her that whatever she is claiming is wrong and phrase it positively. Do give her a honest compliment and see what happens. Not…	/r/askTRP	02/10/18 06:48 AM
1	Is rotten personality something that you just have to accept with majority of HB8+? Can‘t tell if you are joking or living in a different Europe than me.	/r/askTRP	25/08/18 12:35 PM
2	Is rotten personality something that you just have to accept with majority of HB8+? „a bit rare“ ... yeah right, let‘s not demotivate TRP noobs to much.	/r/askTRP	25/08/18 12:32 PM
2	GF of 5 year's cheated and not sure how to handle it . If she had any honour Don't ever expect women to have a sense for honour. I don't even think they are truly able to grasp the concept.	/r/askTRP	25/07/18 06:31 AM
1	Deleting insta until you become high value enough? Can you elaborate on why you think it's best to delete all social media? I am on the fence but so far think the benefits outweigh the risks.	/r/askTRP	24/06/18 06:06 PM
17	Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread June 11 I think it's because on a basic level, we are aware that the final stage of any disagreement/conflict would always take place in the physical realm. The underlying possibilty of violence, even if very unlikely to occur, influences perception of frame.	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/18 06:26 PM
1	I keep waking up at 4AM during sleep after gym days and it's REALLY pissing me off. For me it's a heat problem. After a workout with heavy compounds, my entire body radiates more heat during the night and I get way to warm to feel comforatable, resulting in frequent wake ups. Sometimes I also get RLS because it's too hot which keeps me awake for hours. So make sure your room is cold, leave the windows open if you can. Try a thinner blanket or don't cover the legs etc.	/r/askTRP	25/04/18 11:04 AM
1	Looking for an archive of the two best posts I've seen all year Did you save his text by any chance? I was on a business trip when he posted and only had time to read the first paragraphs. The removeeddit link doesn't seem to be working.	/r/askTRP	15/04/18 07:30 AM
1	April 06 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread Pro excelling at work currently, boss and customers are very happy with my performance hit the target of reading two books dedicated to self improvement per month succesfully unplugged a close friend after he experienced a personal crisis improved the realtionship with my step dad to writing once or twice per week Con missed the gym twice this week for no good reason having anger issues I can't really figure out. I am about to blow up sometimes for no apparent reason	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/18 08:03 PM
7	I am too skinny and want to gain weight asap. Lift, start asap. Diet with high protein and a calorie surplus. Drink your calories if you don't like eating. Sleep a lot.	/r/askTRP	27/03/18 08:51 AM
1	Why does telling a girl you like her kill attraction despite it being clear that she likes you as well? They fantasize about figuring a man out with their mythical, female intuition alone. They want to find and tame down a "beast" and make him love and fall for only her. I advice to prey on that fantasy, full "Beauty and the Beast" style with all the emotional hickups.	/r/askTRP	16/03/18 11:52 AM
5	Can you overdread? Why and how? Yes, in a LTR. It might trigger a panic-stricken exit strategy because she feels the raltionship is about to end anyways. This may or may not include looking for a new partner / cheating.	/r/askTRP	16/03/18 11:45 AM
1	LTR: The Bare Minimum You Need to Know Great post! Espiacially the part about investment and indifference beeing mutually exclusive seems not very well understood in LTR discussions.	/r/TheRedPill	09/03/18 11:19 PM
1	[World Premiere Presentation] The Rational Male – Hypergamy: Micro to Macro - Full Length Edition Now Free On that note, I can't recommend the audio books enough. Maybe it's because I am not a native speaker, but I got much more out of his work by listening to the audio versions. Currently waiting for the audio release of Positive Masculinity.	/r/TheRedPill	28/02/18 10:12 AM
17	Fucked up in LTR & girl is pushing for power. What do I do? Like a child poking frogs with sticks. End it already and start fucking the 20 yo. Cruel curiosity can't be worth all the hassle and disrespect.	/r/askTRP	11/01/18 01:55 PM
2	Lifters of /asktrp, what is your diet? I need some easy to cook, staple-type meals with recipes / instructions. I know jack shit about cooking, have even thrown chicken and broccoli away this week because I didn't know how to cook it. You what? Holy shit. Let's start at retard level. Grab a baking tray, put some baking paper on it. Pre-heat the oven to ~180 °C / ~350 °F. Take chicken breasts, rinse them off with cold water, dab them dry, cut stuff off you don't like, season them, add a rosemary twig on top and wrap them in baking paper to nice little packages. Place those chicken breast packages in the mi…	/r/askTRP	09/01/18 11:04 AM
2	How to Give a Woman an Orgasm. Use her for your pleasure that's all that matters. No contradiction. Forcing a woman to cum over and over is one of my absolute favorites. Having her beg you to stop making her cum is a very pleasurable experience.	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/18 10:12 PM
2	How to stay happy and be positive no matter what ? Discipline and purpose. Realizing you only control two things: your attitude and your effort.	/r/askTRP	04/01/18 04:04 PM
6	Not redpilled, but open to it. Can you push me all the way? Not redpilled, but open to it. Can you push me all the way? No, and nobody gives a damn what you do with the information provided here. Read the sidebar and the rational male series if you are so open to it and start lifting yesterday. Be skeptical and test the concepts in the real world and tell us how it went in a year - not before.	/r/askTRP	04/01/18 04:00 PM
1	Mothers will do all they can took keep you beta All I can say is that my mother is the only woman that truly, undoubtedly, unconditionally loves me and always will. Chances are your does too and is just trying to raise you "right" without any malicious intend. She just doesn't know any better.	/r/askTRP	04/01/18 03:42 PM
1	Thing's I've learned. Not all women are like that. Believe what you want, but AWALT holds true - always. Keep in mind it simply refers to hypergamy beeing every women's biological imperative. Which certainly doesn't mean every women will live it out agressively or pursue hypergamy to the same degree (partly because girls can develope oneitis as well). I have spent a while living in the USA, and noticed american women will pursue hypergamy much more rigorously than european women... although they are catching up here.	/r/TheRedPill	06/12/17 11:30 PM
1	IOI - Your calibration tool. A lot of what TRP has to offer will turn your needy ass"push strategy to pick up women into a pull strategy. Instead of constantly throwing yourself at them, you increase your SMV until chicks will be drawn towards you naturally. The thing is, they still despise rejection and responsibility. So what do they do? Give you covert IoIs. In business world you have a sales promotion and wait four your customer to approach and buy your shit. Here you lift like an animal and get girls to fuck you. The d…	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/17 09:21 AM
4	How to handle period pains??! Did I do the right thing? I saw this happen as well, some girls just get increadibly painful periods. Responded with blanket, hot-water bottle and chocolate. That beeing said, it's hard to believe she was caught by suprise. Usually they know about their impending pain attacks.	/r/askTRP	03/12/17 09:38 PM
5	Guys, I really fucked up... broke up then took her back straight away. Advice? Yeah you fucked up. She will try and leave you soon on her own terms to protect her ego. You threw out the garbage, went to get it back and now wonder why it feels as if you are sitting on a pile of junk. End it once and for all. Apologize, own your shit. You will look like a moron, don't dwell on it.	/r/askTRP	03/12/17 01:17 PM
3	Why is this sub generally against those who say looks don't matter? That is exactly how you treat things you can't control/change - you DGAF. Stop beeing bitter about that shit. Also, that only kind of applies to the face. For example you could: pick a different hairstyle make sure you have a jawline with low bf % maybe fix your teeth clean eyebrows grow a beard make sure you always have nice, clean skin get contact lenses instead of glasses avoid pale-faced look It won't turn a 1 into a 10, but those things help immensely.	/r/askTRP	02/12/17 08:20 PM
1	My girlfriend disclosed to me that before I started dating her she didn’t find me attractive. Once I started gaming her she realized that everyone else is missing out. There is this mysterious thing in TRP sub we call sidebar. If you try hard, you might find it and come across the answers you seek about shit tests.	/r/askTRP	02/12/17 03:20 PM
1	My girlfriend disclosed to me that before I started dating her she didn’t find me attractive. Once I started gaming her she realized that everyone else is missing out. Sounds just like any other shit test to me.	/r/askTRP	02/12/17 03:07 PM
1	Why is this sub generally against those who say looks don't matter? Uh... what? How is anyone disagreeing with that. It's is pretty much the first thing TRP tells you to do. Go lift. Work on your appearance. Learn how to play the hand you have been dealt.	/r/askTRP	02/12/17 12:46 PM
1	Was I right for dropping this girl? Well, you're not a fucking robot. If you find cheaters disgusting, you find them disgusting. I would say most here DGAF when it comes to ONS or plates. But you do you.	/r/askTRP	02/12/17 12:36 PM
4	She says she has four options, I'm one of them Are you a cuck? Because you act like one. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. Get that in your head. She should be crazy about getting your attention. Desperate to fuck you. Find your dignity and ghost that chick.	/r/askTRP	01/12/17 03:59 PM
4	Interesting observation with lifting That would be an FFMI if 24+. You don't look like that. Anyways, IMO you're usually "big enough" after 5-7 years of sophisticated and consistent training. By that time you should have approached your natural, genetic potential reasonably well. Maintaining that is hard - but making more progress requires immense time and effort investments. Which is why I think average shredded joe is better of exploring other areas of life at that point and switch to maintenance.	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/17 09:24 AM
1	GF's interfering control-freak mother - some advice? To me it sounds like her mother is an experienced women that is seeing her daughter's sexual strategy fail (AF/BB). She knows that your GF's SMV is declining and is trying to push her to find commitment ASAP. You waited to long, even came out on top of hypergamy and are therefore a threat. The fact her daughter's pussy has no power over you probably is a huge red flag to her. Maybe Law #12 is of help to ridicule her efforts by making her reluctance seem unreasonable and robbing her of her famili…	/r/askTRP	30/11/17 08:33 PM
1	Girlfriend Cheated, best stuff to read to get though it? No. Most of the time, it's just her validation and fee-fee addiction. If you truly belief, that whenever a female doesn't fend off some attention dispensers or emotional tampons immeaditly, it's because your lack of value as man... you're going to have a bad time.	/r/askTRP	30/11/17 05:40 PM
1	Girlfriend Cheated, best stuff to read to get though it? By understanding it's just a symptom of hypergamy and increadibly common. And especially because most of the time, it has nothing to do with you. This realization is important as we, men, are ego invested creatures and hate when our boundaries are crossed and our sense of self-worth is attacked.	/r/askTRP	30/11/17 04:15 PM
1	Girlfriend Cheated, best stuff to read to get though it? What a TRP textbook fuck up. Well, I am not going to twist the knife. Try The Key Logger. Kind of relates to your situation with all that snooping through her Mac. It's a nice and easy read and gives you a realisitc impression of what usually goes on behind your back.	/r/askTRP	30/11/17 03:15 PM
3	How often does your plate/GF wear lingerie for you without being told to do so? Can confirm [...] unremarkable way Uh... pick one?	/r/askTRP	30/11/17 02:38 PM
1	How often does your plate/GF wear lingerie for you without being told to do so? This deserves so much more upvotes. Once I got interested in D/s and made my GF my sub, everything changed. It felt like her perception of my SMV doubled. Seriously guys, learn how to take what you want sexually and be dominant.	/r/askTRP	30/11/17 12:47 PM
4	F-closed at a heavy metal show Immortal in the TRP sub, some of my favorite things just met. Neat.	/r/TheRedPill	29/11/17 06:38 PM
1	Should I take this job? Take the job! Take. The. Job. Future you will be grateful.	/r/askTRP	29/11/17 01:27 PM
2	Commanding Respect in an LTR Red flag. I mostly agree with dr_warlock on this one. Your call.	/r/askTRP	28/11/17 07:31 PM
1	Commanding Respect in an LTR Most of it is prevention by screening for the right girl. By the time you upgrade from non-exclusive plate to exclusive LTR, she should have a very solid idea of your expectations and boundaries. Ideally you would have tested her compliance already mutliple times. As most guys seem to keep this part short, they are left with setting a lot of boundaries in a LTR. Which is somewhat more annoying because you have to do so covertly. Whenever she does something wrong, immeadiatly withdraw attention a…	/r/askTRP	28/11/17 06:41 PM
11	How do I help my dad become more redpill aware of a failing marriage? You can't. I tried redpilling a friend once, horrible mistake. People need to find the redpill themself. And usually it takes a personal crisis first. So for now, sit back and wait, although it's hard. Your dad doesn't even remotely sound ready for the pill. He is not ready to be unplugged. In that stage, he will fight back and your relationship to him will suffer. You will be a threat to his marriage fantasy which he holds dear. Don't talk about the fight club.	/r/askTRP	28/11/17 12:01 PM
1	Just broke up with LTR. Did I do the right thing? "LTR" ? How long have you been together?	/r/askTRP	28/11/17 11:40 AM
1	How truly important is constant sex to a man in an LTR? Chill for a second. Working on your SMV and hitting the gym is great stuff, getting laid or not. But let's be realistic for a moment. A women in a LTR is not going to have your testosterone levels. Eventually, she will not be able to keep up with your sex drive. Dictated by nature. The girl here is working around it by fucking her men good anyways, instead of him having to look elsewhere or getting frustrated.	/r/askTRP	27/11/17 04:11 PM
5	How do you guys deal with size issues...... Beware of the following vicious circle: insecurities lead to less/no sex -> less/no sex leads to lack of experience -> lack of experience leads to more insecurities I am convinced the frustration of women with small dicks predominantly stems from a lack of confidence and experience of the guy it's attached to. Fucking is a skill that needs practice. The best way to get rid of any insecurity is the certainty that you can make women cum at your command. Find out how to play the hand you have been …	/r/askTRP	27/11/17 12:32 PM
3	An evening with an Alpha (married guy) Next year beeing alpha will mean going to bed when the spouse says so, but secretly browsing TRP for another ten minutes under the blanket.	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/17 10:22 PM
3	An evening with an Alpha (married guy) Man I wish people would just start using some names here. Enough with this "A B C 1 2" bs. Also, I didn't think there is anything special about the guy? He lifts, is not retarded and has a wife that's not a bitch. Cool.	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/17 07:50 PM
21	Is she cheating? What you need to understand and have to accept is that you'll probably never find out if your SO cheated. We won't either. You can only gather hints, like guarding her phone 24/7. Also, if she wants to fuck other men, she will find a way to fuck other men. You can't control her. You cannot. The fact you're obsessing over the possibility proofs nothing except your insecurity. Also, if you let that insecurity spill outwards in any form (e.g. jealousy), you'll be single in no time. Here is what you…	/r/askTRP	26/11/17 01:52 PM
8	How to cause maximum psychological damage when leaving a oneitis Now this one has been going on for a while and I'm dead set on returning a nice blow to her for the time wasted. I'm 99% sure just nexting her she'll get over sufficiently in short time. You sound like a little bitch. You should give no fucks about her, instead you sit here and ask for advice on how to facilitate revenge fee-fees.	/r/askTRP	26/11/17 12:47 PM
1	Polyamorous Plate Travels Comes Back Commited To Another Guy lol "plate"	/r/askTRP	26/11/17 10:10 AM
1	Addicted to Heroin Just checked his post history, legit mental case. Almost got to be worried for the girl if she doesn't give him any of that fine coworker ass.	/r/askTRP	24/11/17 06:55 PM
6	High N Count debate and don't give a fuck about losing her If that is the case, you don't have a LTR. That's plate level investment with zero affection on your side. Aka in for pussy only. Defuq would you want a LTR for if that's your approach? And yes, in that case you don't need to worry about n count.	/r/askTRP	24/11/17 06:12 PM
1	How much grams of protein per kg? Quotes ffrom the ISSN postition stand 2017: "For building muscle mass and for maintaining muscle mass through a positive muscle protein balance, an overall daily protein intake in the range of 1.4–2.0 g protein/kg body weight/day (g/kg/d) is sufficient for most exercising individuals, a value that falls in line within the Acceptable Macronutrient Distribution Range published by the Institute of Medicine for protein. Higher protein intakes (2.3–3.1 g/kg/d) may be needed to maximize the retention …	/r/askTRP	24/11/17 04:12 PM
1	I just pulled an all-nighter devouring the side bar. Here from /r/deadbedrooms. I think my gf does nothing but shit test me. While I think this is an excellent reaction, I disagree it's the right thing to do when you have established piss-poor frame. Chances are high you will just look like a victim that's enduring disrespect because he can't help it. For starters, I would rahter suggest a&a / pressure flip. He can't afford not to react yet.	/r/askTRP	24/11/17 02:47 PM
1	The challenge of a successful LTR. Good post IMO. Great read for anyone who wants to give LTRs a chance after becoming bored with superficial relationships. But speaking from my experience, younger guys tend to not actually appreciate the deeper level of female affection and bonding a LTR offers and are just in for convenient pussy. A lot of men never appreciate it. And that's fine obviously - maybe you are wired this way or you have never met a girl that was still moldable into good LTR material. Ask yourself if that's you. Beca…	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/17 07:55 PM
1	The Red Pill has mentally turned me into a ruthless cunt Normally I wouldn't respond to a cringy self-adulation of someone who thinks he is slowly exceeding power level 9000. But I just can't skip past your nutrition line. Do yourself a favour and eat carbs. Only go for IF if it makes you happy. Don't just eat eggs and meat, throw in some veggies and fruits.	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/17 09:08 PM
2	My Grandma's Response to My Alpha Grandfather's Decline: a DIFFERENT Story Would you mind sharing that "higher logic" with me?	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/17 07:49 PM
3	Destroying her “Oh, you break up with me?! Let me just turn around, grab my phone and make a date right in front of you, that will show you.” Sounds pathetic and cringy enough a chick could have done it. Enjoy your revenge fee-fees. At least you ghosted her. Your title is retarded btw	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/17 05:36 PM
1	Am I better off acting like I've always been in shape? Yep, chicks can be genuinely disappointed when they find out you were not born with an FFMI of 22+. It's disenchanting their perception of you. Everything has to be effortless and easy for you and hard work in the gym is a turn off. It's just ridiculous.	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 05:20 PM
1	My Grandma's Response to My Alpha Grandfather's Decline: a DIFFERENT Story wElL ShE waS PRobaBLY FucKInG ChADs leFT an RiGhT beHINd HiS BAcK! Jokes aside, good women are made. And it sounds like your grandfather did an excellent job. Also, AWALT basically refers to hypergamy beeing every women's biological imperative. That doesn't mean every women will live it out agressively or pursue hypergamy to the same degree. Don't be too negative as that will permeate your thoughts and game. Not everything on theredpill will apply to you or be useful. You may occasionally find t…	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/17 05:11 PM
19	Examples of a Crazy Ex-Wife Oh boy, beta-you did a piss-poor job at selecting his wife. How did the divorce go?	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/17 03:32 PM
1	[22M] I'm an 'incel' i.e. virgin according to a friend who mocks me by saying it (in a good natured way, banter), but deep down it hurts, I'm terribly insecure about being a virgin and inexperienced because I know both are turn offs to women (weaknesses), how can I gain confidence with women? If you go 6 months without Holy shit, I hope you meant weeks.	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 01:04 PM
68	Girlfriend weight gain problem Problem is she goes to school full time and works nights so she doesn’t have really any time to work out or do anything for that matter. She doesn't have time to eat less? Stop validating her bullshit. She also said something last night that was very concerning. We were talking about skinny women and she said that being skinny wasn’t realistic for most people and everyone should just be comfortable the way they are. Self-denial and a huge red flag. This is the time to remind yourself that it's j…	/r/askTRP	20/11/17 08:18 PM
2	Swallowing The Pill I left her blocked her on everything and I moved on. [...] She even went as far as getting my name tattooed on her Haha, well at least those BPDs are never boring because you don't know what the fuck they will do next. Anyways good you turned that into a lesson. Welcome. Happy digesting.	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/17 08:00 PM
15	Couples video reveals RP truths My take on this: don't. Always assume a circle of attention/validation dispensers and emotional tampons orbiting her. If you start snooping for them you already lost, because it bothers you.	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/17 06:46 PM
1	Be sure to make best friends with Chad Thundercock. It's eye-opening. Chodes at the bar will look at me and say I'm "lucky" assuming I was born with muscles or something. Guys are annoying with this, but girls are worse. Chicks tend to be so disappointed when they find out you were not born with an FFMI of 22+. It's disenchanting her perception of you. Everything has to be effortless for you and hard work in the gym is a turn off. It's just ridiculous.	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/17 12:10 PM
2	Field Report: Ex gf came over today to pick up belongings My condolences. In an ideal world, she would have been your tower of strength during that time. Unfortunately, women can only love opportunistically. Good to read that you're doing better.	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/17 11:58 AM
1	Couples video reveals RP truths No surprise. If your girl is even remotely attractive and social, this is very hard to prevent. You would literally have to lock her away. Men from every corner of a girls life throw themself at her, all the time. Don't forget that women are natural plate spinners who (at least subconsciously) judge themself / get judged based on the attention and validation they can generate from men. It's like currency to them and every orbiter resembles a stady source of passive income. I am pretty sure a lot…	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/17 11:42 AM
2	Why getting a girlfriend could be the right thing to do if you never had one Why, if there is an endless amount of women around who I could happily have sex with or develop relationships with, should I care about whether this one woman sticks around, and care enough to not dare slack in case she leaves? LTRs lead correctly offer a much higher level of female affection and bonding. I started to enjoy and appreciate that a lot. If you're not interested, perfectly fine. Do what makes you happy. Having said all that, I'll definitely get back into a relationship eventually, b…	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/17 07:25 PM
1	Why getting a girlfriend could be the right thing to do if you never had one I was mentioning that men and women evolved different tools to push their sexual strategy. In duck world that means having a ballistic penis optimized for rape attacks or a controllable, multi-canal, corkscrew vagina.	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/17 07:08 PM
24	why do women find calm men attractive Because in most cases, you radiate confidence when you are calm. It implies you know exactly how to handle any situation.	/r/askTRP	18/11/17 11:37 PM
1	Why getting a girlfriend could be the right thing to do if you never had one Women are born with a biological imperative: hypergamy. Get good genes, get lots of resources. Strive for the best possible circumstances. That’s just nature doing its thing. Why would you apply infantile concepts like “good” and “evil” here? By the same logic, men are “evil” when they fuck multiple women while reserving their commitment. Makes no sense either way. It’s simply two genders trying to push their opposing, sexual strategy with the tools nature has equipped them with. Rather be happy…	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/17 08:37 PM
2	Why getting a girlfriend could be the right thing to do if you never had one Another issue with LTR's is that progress depends on the man and his personality/mindset. Wouldn't really call it an issue. It's quite interesting how you can leverage the personal developement of your partner in a LTR simply by focusing on self-improvement. Ideally, your girl will be inspired and follow in your footsteps. The perspective of her will be very different though: while you focus on the goal, she will focus on the process.	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/17 08:12 PM
1	Why getting a girlfriend could be the right thing to do if you never had one I like your post, I really do, but I already see the wrong audience taking the advice. It's not appropriate advice for anyone that has never spun a few plates for an extended period of time and experienced abundance mentality. Don't flee into a LTR before you did that. Women are evil, never trust them, they are going to betray you anyway! People who still believe women are inherently evil are outright retarded and probably still grumpy about incels beeing banned. I don't have to go out anymore. …	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/17 03:54 PM
2	Pretty sure my first gf cheated on me last night. What to do?? Check if it was one of her friend's houses. If not, ghost her.	/r/askTRP	18/11/17 12:42 PM
1	Strange encounter on my way home from the night club. Odd. Very wild guess here, but with the attention of all the people you commanded in the cable car you extended your frame and became the center of interest. That girl didn’t like to be pulled into your frame, felt threatened by it and tried to establish her own. Pair that up with some fee-fees about men trying to oppress women and the reaction “makes sense”.	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/17 12:18 PM
1	Gambled my money away Idiot. There I said it. Better now? If you step in that casino again, please do me a favor and get a tattoo saying "idiot" on your forhead so people know what's up with you. You can either make that experience a lesson or a mistake you dwell on. Move on with your life, forgive yourself.	/r/askTRP	18/11/17 12:06 PM
3	Real-life evidence proving why your looks, wealth, and status mean NOTHING when meeting women. We're tired of your excuses looks, wealth, and status mean NOTHING I am so glad you found that fake ass video to proof I don't ever need to worry about stepping out of my comfort zone again. Sidebar got me worried a bit.	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/17 11:56 AM
8	Repost: stop diluting the sub's content!! I think you are right, but I also think paragraphs are not that hard.	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/17 08:08 PM
1	Women and Jealousy Just sounds like their competition anxiety is kicking in.	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/17 10:45 AM
1	The memory that makes it easy to swallow the Red Pill. Yep, and with such a beautiful horn. Glows in all colors of the rainbow.	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/17 10:38 AM
1	The memory that makes it easy to swallow the Red Pill. Rough story. Thanks for sharing, shows just how much shit gets thrown at you the second you loose frame. The reason I share this story is to remind you guys that woman are evil. Come on man. The only one you are bullshitting with that one is yourself. You simply did a piss-poor job at selecting your wife.	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/17 08:09 PM
44	You are gross. Beeing able to show weakness and vulnerability in front of your girl without her thinking less of you is a privelage that has to be earned. And even then, don't overdo it. Currently I am sitting here with pulled traps. Can't even keep my head up properly and wearing a retarded looking ruff. My GF went out of her way to get everything I could possibly need from the drugstore, bought groceries for a week and just prepared dinner for me. She is happy as a lark she finally gets to take care of me a …	/r/TheRedPill	15/11/17 10:08 PM
2	Polygamy and its place in Redpill. Here is a pro tip though : you can't really control people. You can manipulate here and there, influence here and there, but that's about it. Nothibf you do can guarantee anything over what people do. You can't "control" hypergamy, you can simply make yourself the best target of it. Absolutely agree. And I don't expect more tbh. Control/contain/limit it to the best of my abilities... not a native speaker, maybe control isn't the best word here. Simply making me her best option, via (amongst othe…	/r/askTRP	15/11/17 09:24 PM
1	Polygamy and its place in Redpill. If you're so insecure about your value that you have to closet your girl to hide her from other men It's not about locking her away, but about to controlling her hypergamy. Which is a solid, age old method of raising chances for a succesful LTR and not getting cucked into BB. I agree with the STD, fucking with crazy, etc, but let's get real, no man ever got mad at his girl for fucking someone else because of that. If my dick turns green or crazy decides to fuck up my car because he is jeolous of…	/r/askTRP	15/11/17 08:43 PM
1	Polygamy and its place in Redpill. If one chooses to have a relationship it's fair to assume he does so because it makes him happy. If LTR doesn't do the trick for you, perfectly fine. But let's assume for a second you belong to the part of TRP thats genuinly enjoys and wants a LTR because for you, it leads to more happiness. So you found a suitable girl and invested lots of time and commitment. You love her. Love doesn't equal oneitis. You understand you only share a period together that will end sooner or later. You understand …	/r/askTRP	15/11/17 08:10 PM
1	Polygamy and its place in Redpill. Good attitude... towards plates. This thread is about another level of investment, it's about relationships. Good luck having a succesful LTR giving your girl a freepass to enact her hypergamy and try out different dick whenever she feels like it.	/r/askTRP	15/11/17 07:16 PM
1	Polygamy and its place in Redpill. I somewhat agree, it remains risky. In some distant corner of her hamster brain, she will feel entitled to the same privelage. No matter what you'll have agreed upon.	/r/askTRP	15/11/17 03:08 PM
1	Polygamy and its place in Redpill. I think the only way polygamous relationship fits into TRP is a harem arrangement. Meaning, you are free to fuck other women while you partner remains exclusive. All other scenarios would be detrimental IMO.	/r/askTRP	15/11/17 10:57 AM
6	What would you do? Next or silent demote? I hope writing that down at least had some therapeutic value for you because no one will read through it. If you write more than one paragraph on a girl diagnosis is most definitely oneitis.	/r/askTRP	14/11/17 01:56 PM
2	Have you ever had any experiences that went against redpill teachings? I think that's pretty in line with TRP? I mean at some point, you must have proven the potential to be her alpha for that to happen. Also, girls can develope oneitis as well. Pretty sure though she will branch swing eventually if one continues to display weakness. The amount she tolerates will vary widley obviously.	/r/askTRP	14/11/17 01:15 PM
1	What is Dread If you are in a LTR, be careful not to shoot too far. Not every women reacts the same. If you overdo it on the dread front, your girl might panic thinking she lost you already and you are about to leave her no matter how she behaves. That will likely lead to her initiating her own exit strategy.	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/17 12:19 PM
1	The consequences of enjoying the decline It's not like we can choose what we want, we can only choose to do what we want. It's our biological imperative to want to fuck as many women as possible. That's were the "need" comes from. It's up to you to decide to what degree you want to follow that imperative. TRP is simply a strategy guide to realize it effectively and safely should you want to. MGTOW are men with all kinds of different reasons on why not to follow that imperative. Some are simply incapable, some think it's objectively not…	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/17 10:37 AM
1	The consequences of enjoying the decline Women having children at an older age increasing their likelihood for developing an Oedipus complex Can you elaborate on why you think so?	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/17 10:24 AM
1	Have you ever had any experiences that went against redpill teachings? I bought them from audible.	/r/askTRP	14/11/17 09:14 AM
1	Have you ever had any experiences that went against redpill teachings? Also not a native speaker, try the audio book versions. I found them way easier to comprehend.	/r/askTRP	14/11/17 08:57 AM
1	Approval vs Companionship Couldn't agree more. Swallowed the pill, still in the early stages of digestion so to speak. Fully getting rid of the identity and behaviours my single mother's upbringing gave me seems impossible sometimes. She was a bipolar women with a schizophrenic relationship to masculinity. She hated, feared and needed to have alpha men in her life. Always on the lookout for dominant partners to then try to change them once she got commitment. What was going on at home was absolutely crazy at times. Her m…	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/17 09:12 PM
1	Keto, fasting, and lifting. Based on my post, what makes you think keto works well? It doesn't. Calorie restriction alone - with any diet form - reverses effects of insulin resistance.	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/17 08:32 PM
2	How to maintain Alpha threesome etiquette and frame? You're overthinking IMO. Figuratively speaking, make sure it's a sex triangle and not you on the one side and both of them on the other.	/r/askTRP	12/11/17 08:33 PM
1	How to maintain Alpha threesome etiquette and frame? First question I have some advice, teach them how to entertain each other. Tell them to eat each other out etc, maybe get some toys involved. Get creative. But the second mate... I have no idea, but I need to get rid of the images in my head now. I don't do MMF.	/r/askTRP	12/11/17 03:16 PM
2	Messed with in my friend group I think he was shit testing you at some point. You failed the tests, which made him look superior. From there on you became a source of social validation, an easy target for him to "mine" the validation necassary to remain AMOG. Now you can either make someone else his easy target or become the AMOG. The first one is not advisable IMO but I have seen it work. I would rather fight him by dealing with his bs the way you would deal with shit tests. Changing subject, ignoring and commanding respect …	/r/askTRP	12/11/17 02:34 PM
1	Went on college road trip with a girl who likes me, treated her like complete garbage, had sex with a different girl in our hotel room, then had sex with the girl who likes me the next day after Enthusiasm and active participation instead of just receiving makes a huge difference It's still baffles me how some younger girls think they are amazing in bed by default, because pussy. Sex is boring? Well, must be the guy's fault, he is the one doing the work after all.	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/17 09:29 AM
1	How could I not hate women? You are obviously not attractive to women. That's not their fault. Don't bitch about it, do something, sidebar is full of information on how to do that. If you think it's all not worth it - even better. Go ahead, remove yourself from the sexual market and get out of our way without making a scene.	/r/askTRP	11/11/17 10:50 PM
1	Keto, fasting, and lifting. First of all people, you are not your diet. Don't become ego invested in it. You can make any diet healthy. You can loose weight with any diet. Here is how it works. About keto, when you are an athlete and performance matters to you, cutting carbs is not the brightest idea. If it works for you though and you like it, go for it. Still, here is everything you need to know about keto sumed up. Similiar story with IF / skipping breakfast. If it works for you and you like it, good. If IF feels like a…	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/17 09:56 AM
1	What to do when your girl wants to hang out with another guy 1-on-1? ==> Demote to plate or dump immediately. Maybe because here in Europe things aren't as bad (yet), but this is an element of TRP I have trouble digesting. A LTR girl can never have male friends and should never meet them 1-on-1? Hell, most of the girls I hang out with have mostly male friends. They themself find 80% of women annoying af. Ugh, I don't know guys... this one is not going down.	/r/TheRedPill	08/11/17 07:36 PM
1	LTR asks to "play bitch" No "professional" dom would ever start slapping you without discussing that shit beforehand. You basically fucked a random brat.	/r/askTRP	07/11/17 08:09 PM
1	LTR asks to "play bitch" Might be her telling you she's a bit into BDSM / femdom. Don't disregard immediately simply because "but muh FRAME". Obviously if you find that repulsive, don't let yourself be pressured into trying.	/r/askTRP	07/11/17 07:55 PM
1	Gym frequency Try to get 48-72h (depending on size, intensety yada yada) of rest between training the same muscles again. Meaning: pick a, established program and follow it training every day is fine if you train different muscles, try to get at least one rest day per week though.	/r/askTRP	07/11/17 04:22 PM
1	LTR wants to understand/know me better 2 years? Oh man, throw that nice girl a bone already. You probably already know girls never want full disclosure, but if she behaves THAT well, let her feel a nice dose of that sweet security and commitment by opening up a calculated bit.	/r/askTRP	07/11/17 04:15 PM
1	LTR is out of town and wants to explore her bisexuality. A LDR is not a consideration with a redpill mindset. You might as well not have a GF. If she is asking about fucking other people, she is already doing it. Decide what works for you: non-exclusive LDR or no relationship at all. Act accordingly.	/r/askTRP	07/11/17 09:45 AM
3	LTR gives me pointers on how she likes it on bed - good or bad? Great! Keep your ego in check, listen closely to what she says, learn and apply. Never get angry or frustrated if she interrupts you and asks for something different or gives you "instructions".	/r/askTRP	06/11/17 09:32 PM
1	Law 38 explains why a lot of you here are actually struggling. IMO "The Laws of Power" is just a collection of concepts/ideas on how to gain power over others while at the same time sensitizing you for their manipulation attempts. Pick a few ways that suit you and apply them, but it's impossible to always follow all of them. Personally, I don't like #38.	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/17 12:39 PM
1	Want to gain a sex god like body. Clueless on where to start. Yep, definitely skinny fat territory.	/r/askTRP	06/11/17 11:27 AM
1	Why are women so willing and quick to fuck me? Ridiculous	/r/askTRP	05/11/17 11:31 AM
2	"Your" woman likely has strange cock in her. Yep, that's the one, thank you	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/17 06:49 PM
1	"Your" woman likely has strange cock in her. I tell every guy who doesn't believe it: Crack that IPhone or email acct and meet your girl. There was a book on this topic, where the guy logged online activities of 10+ women while dating them. Bruttally real example of what goes on when they think you are not watching... ugh, I wish I could remember the title. If anyone happens to know the book ... ?	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/17 04:28 PM
1	The Red Pill Cheat Sheet Isn't it somewhat pointless to refer to masculinity as "good" or "bad"? I mean, feminity/masculinity is just a byproduct of our evolution. And I see no one running around claiming one aspect of nature is bad, while others are good.	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/17 11:18 AM
1	"Your" woman likely has strange cock in her. I don't know man, they even lie frequently when it's completely unnecessary. Especially on a smaller scale, twisting little details here and there to comfort a version of realtiy that makes them feel good. Some men I know are guilty of that as well, but when dealing with females it comes off... so very natural, impulsive. Like a dog choosing to bark.	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/17 10:28 AM
1	Schopenhauer’s Essay "On Women" "Man can do what he wills but he cannot will what he wills." - Schopenhauer My favorite quote on the topic of free will. Came up a lot in my mind while I was listening to the audio versions of the rational male. For me, it kind of illustrates how women are exposed to hypergamy as their underlying, biological imperative. They can choose to act accordingly or not, but they won't ever be able to get rid of hypergamic incentives.	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/17 10:04 AM
1	Does my girlfriend want me to fuck other girls? Just a quick thought stemming from my own experience: Once you get her to be ok with you fucking other women, in some distant corner of her hamster brain she WILL feel entitled to the same privelage. You do the rest of the thinking.	/r/askTRP	03/11/17 12:09 PM
1	Women are not inferior players, they play a different game. There is no reason to be proud that you’re better than a woman at something. It's still a lot of fun to demonstrate that to her every now and then.	/r/TheRedPill	03/11/17 11:29 AM
1	Anyone want to start a book club? Sounds like a great idea, I'd be up for it.	/r/askTRP	31/10/17 10:30 AM
3	i am a troubled 20 year old woman that needs advice Check out https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/ From what you tell us here, you are the opposite of what a good man will want in his life. Maybe they can help you do a 180°	/r/askTRP	30/10/17 01:19 PM
2	I Animated A Red Pill Top All Time Post - How To Get Laid Like A Warlord Nice, change the music for your next videos though.	/r/TheRedPill	27/10/17 10:24 AM
1	TRP has taught me to hate making any efforts to get laid. Not sure if it's good or bad.. Funny that you mention, but we literally have the following agreement: if we are out and I ever get physically harassed by another female, my GF is going to retaliate first, not me. Simply to protect me from legal issues that would be much more severe if my right of self defense get twisted, because "it's never ok for a man to hit a wumahn". Also, I prefer the word "train" over "manipulating".	/r/askTRP	14/10/17 08:30 PM
1	TRP has taught me to hate making any efforts to get laid. Not sure if it's good or bad.. I feel the same. Currently listening to the audio versions of The Rational Male and browsing TRP subreddits frequently. Once in a while I get disgusted with femininity as a whole... but then I overhear my GF beeing nasty about feminism, while looking super adorable. I am pretty sure I would have become outright hostile towards women if it wasn't for her. It's just so hard to constantly remind yourself, that they can't be blamed for their biological imperatives and simple strife for the best pers…	/r/askTRP	14/10/17 02:26 PM
1	Answering question "what do you want? " Really? TRP strategy speaks to the submissive side in females. Are you honestly wondering why they are asking you what to do when sexy time starts? Yes - they literally want you to tell them what to do. Be dominant. Dirty talk. Stimulate their mind.	/r/askTRP	11/10/17 02:54 PM
2	The Only Time It’s Okay To Have Oneitis Yes! It bothers me that people here seem to fall for the misconception that because a LTR requires more investment, it's never worth it. Like what the fuck. Sure it's hard, I get it. But TRP teaches so many ways to succesfully find, shape and lead a relationship (should you want one). If you do it right, your girl will add so much more value to your life. If you develope oneitis because of that or forget about AWALT, it's entirely your fuck up.	/r/TheRedPill	11/10/17 08:11 AM
1	When a beta makes progress, its quite disturbing to women, and I have found nothing but confused, hostile people around me going out of their way to knock me down. Then you are causing an imbalance in your body that you should rectify. Not just because it looks stupid, but it's bad for you. I second this, you really have to be careful with that OP. When your chest is very responsive to RT (grats) you might be in for all kinds of postural defects following imbalances. Especially once your shoulders get pulled forward by your pecs. I would recommend doing pull / push movements either in a 2:1 or 3:2 ratio.	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/17 07:57 AM
1	Being Wired Differently You can't approach your work and personal life like a scared child and then magically turn into the sexy alpha hunk on Friday night every woman has been dreaming of. You can read all you want, but to a great extent: You are who you are. I feel this is why TRP eventually feels more like an incentive for self-improvement than anything else. If you want pussy, you have to stop making pussy a priority.	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/17 09:16 PM
1	Red Piller here who's been working in strip clubs for the last 8 years Non-native speaker here, what do you mean with "tingles" ? Absolutely agree that women are very easy to understand once you realize that they live and die by emotions. Only takes a bit of empathy.	/r/TheRedPill	05/10/17 08:09 AM
1	Sources and advice in regards to leading LTR redpilled Thanks, will have a look. I thought marriage is a big no-no in TRP?	/r/askTRP	04/10/17 08:09 PM
1	Sources and advice in regards to leading LTR redpilled There is no concrete issue at hand in my relationship. I am simply wondering, where can I read about leading a LTR the red pill way? I learned a lot the last few days and would like to read something more specific to my circumstances. Having a second read of my text, I does indeed sound a bit naive. I assure you though, I did nothing to much out of the ordinary. My GF is used to beeing physically and emotionally manhandled a bit, likes it, and consented years ago.	/r/askTRP	04/10/17 08:01 PM
1	Sources and advice in regards to leading LTR redpilled Great and very much out of the ordniary in some aspects. I never really knew what specifically I was doing right, nor was I wondering much about it. But TRP has given me a ton of insight so far. Like a veil has been lifted and now everything is clear. Hence I have the feeling that TRP perspective can help make my life better by enhancing my relationship even further. Once I understand more of it.	/r/askTRP	04/10/17 07:44 PM
2	Don't get married. That is all. You seem resigned to accept the common failures of other people as a defining limitation on your own life. What a great perspective on things. At least I found a gem in the comments of this thread.	/r/TheRedPill	04/10/17 12:17 PM
1	Don't get married. That is all. I learnt nothing from this post but the fact that you're unhappy and your marriage is the reason why.	/r/TheRedPill	02/10/17 06:36 PM
1	Learn To Take A Hit Words of sanity. Confidence like "knowing I could kick the shit out of some drunk asshole at the bar" has become haughtiness.	/r/TheRedPill	29/09/17 08:28 AM