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| 1 | Need a diagnosis: Is this Oneitis or am I falling for this woman?This was gold I wish I had some to give to you! | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 11:50 PM |
| 1 | I have trouble with conversationsJust practice practice practice. Read the book that was recommended and just talk to more and more people to start becoming more comfortable in conversation. Learn how to build off what others say and drive a conversation. It sounds like you get anxiety when you are 1 on 1 which is why you get in your own head and can't think of anything to say. The best way to overcome that is just by talking to more people over time, friends, teachers, ugly chicks, hot chicks, school faculty doesn't matter it … | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 07:34 AM |
| 1 | I have trouble with conversations100% | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 07:27 AM |
| 1 | I have trouble with conversationsYou look at TRP with a very narrow frame of mind and understanding. The kid can do as he pleases and take from it what he understands as the rest of us will with different understandings. Just because you see this as a place where you come to strengthen your game and only use the advice given here, to benefit your sexual life does not mean all people should see it that way as well. If anything OP is only trying to improve himself and his conversational skills, as he mentioned his problem isn't j… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 07:27 AM |
| 5 | From Professor and Clinical Psychologist Jordan B. Peterson on Beta Males and the Dominance HierarchyAbout to start my second go through. This man is a genius perhaps one of the greatest intellectuals I've heard speak and help advise my generation. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/17 01:48 AM |
| 7 | Let's forget getting laid for a second. How do you get a solid, tight-knit social circle?Yea what the problem sounds like is that you have nothing you enjoy doing outside of pick up. You NEED a hobby if you want to establish any sort of social circle than you must find some kind of hobby. If you want to party go out to parties for game not do develop a social circle. Learn how to ice skate, go to an inside rock climbing gym, do MMA. Bottom line is you are not developing any friendships because all you have and all you have ever focused on is PUA and women which isn't necessarily all… | /r/seduction | 19/04/17 07:23 AM |
| 1 | What are the chances she really had sex with him and cheated on me?Somebody get this man a sidebar please. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/17 07:20 AM |
| 1 | To Plate or Not to PlateRemember the concept of plate spinning and the guide to managing your plates. It is ok to want to give one plate more attention than another that is a common thing you do to reward the good and loyal ones. Also how old are you? You should never feel guilty or have thoughts of giving up your endless options due to a moment of bliss. For now enjoy yourself test out your options and if you are feeling like you want an LTR than narrow your options down based on the plates you're spinning. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/17 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Go to get laid or go to have fun?That's what you perceive as the most access to girls currently in your life because it's all you are allowing yourself to experience. Go outside of your comfort zone at uni and day game some girls around town. You said it yourself that dating within uni can make things difficult in your own life so why become dependent on that. Going outside your comfort zone will benefit fit you. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Ex gf trying to contact me.Only dogs go back and eat their own vomit and men are not animals | /r/askTRP | 31/03/17 10:48 PM |
| 0 | How to stop the long nights of thinking?"ASMR is beta as fuck.".... that looks like a pretty blunt judgement (statement not a question) on a topic you know admittedly have no clue about. Instead of trying to explain yourself, step back and work on learning how to act rationally and logically. Think before you speak. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/17 08:56 PM |
| 2 | "I'm not one of those easy girls"I feel like you kind of lost some frame by caving and giving into dinner in order to get a chance at some pussy. That's just my theory would like to know if anyone else feels this way or did OP handle it correctly? | /r/askTRP | 07/03/17 07:06 PM |
| 5 | How to stop the long nights of thinking?Whoa whoa simmer down Bertha... you clearly don't know what ASMR is. Yes there are videos of girls basically posing as people who know ASMR and think they are providing quality content but normally it's just shit. Personally I'm not a fan of the whispering and talking videos and even for the people that do prefer that kind of ASMR they aren't all girlfriend role play videos. https://youtu.be/6GZznb7Sutg Does that look like a fake girlfriend comforting me? No it does not. Instead of trying to be … | /r/askTRP | 07/03/17 08:22 AM |
| 0 | How to stop the long nights of thinking?It's important to find things that help you relax and wind down towards the end of the night. I like to listen to ASMR. I will do a mixture of the different types but if you are looking for suggestions I would go on YouTube and use the channels "SurgeASMR" and "MassageASMR". Let me know if it helps you. Maybe try to research ASMR a little as well so that way you understand it before jumping right in. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/17 07:16 AM |
| 1 | How does one strive for goals that are independent from the clause "in order to get women"You also mistake RP for only being about women. The most important part of RP is to develop your masculine identity and as this thread stated to have a mission and goal to be successful in your endeavors. Coming to RP doesn't mean it's just for women. Focus on yourself first and when once you have a goal and a mission in life your success will come and women will follow your success. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/17 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Call to all Men - Wake Up v.2.0Meh depending on how you look at it marriage is disputable for sure. I would say marriage is nothing but a label and a very expensive one at that. Think about how many people get married for all of the other purposes (financial, etc.) besides "love". You can still have a family, you can still expand and continue a bloodline without getting married. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/17 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Call to all Men - Wake Up v.2.0Not all men are here for sexual strategy. You missed the part where it mentions helping men develop a masculine identity. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/17 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Call to all Men - Wake Up v.2.0The fact you think leftism is more popular than rightism just goes to show how out of touch you actually are. Pay attention to what's going on around the world and not what MSM and the most likely inflated and falsified popular vote tells you. Kinda funny how I can watch every episode of the JRE podcast except episode #911 on a majority of platforms other than YouTube. That is classic censorship and blatant at that. An even better example is the UC Berkeley protests. A group of thugs hired by gl… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/17 10:51 PM |
| 9 | Call to all Men - Wake Up v.2.0It really is the course of history playing itself out. Look at the fall of Rome. A group of corrupt disgusting pedophiles who systemically oppressed the people of which they governed ran Rome into the ground and it was then conquered by a variety of different people but it's no coincidence that we see the same thing starting to happen in our own country in modern times. It's not just by some crazy chance that over 400 people were arrested on pedophilia charges of whom which are highly connected … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/17 10:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you turn her "slut mode" on?Might you be able to provide a quick link to an RSD video you speak of? | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend texting another guyI've been read my some of your responses to the comments and I think it's important you remember "she's not yours it's just your turn." Even thought you say you are more prepared than ever to drop her it doesn't sound like it because you keep making up excuses and giving her exceptions to the rules. You mention the time you have invested which should not make a difference in your decision to deal with this. Using that excuse makes it sound a bit like ONEitis. You're only 30 and there are million… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 06:24 PM |
| 4 | Get another oneMet Rick Ross back in December. He was at the Florida high school football state championships cheering on his old school and was actually a pretty chill dude. Got to do an interview and shit with him. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/17 06:11 AM |
| – | How to handle a girl asking you how many people you've been with?Again you are wrong. If she persists and brings it up again then you a) didn't do a good enough job the first time. B) you hold frame and take any approach you are comfortable with, be it change the subject, agree & amplify etc. Your narrow understanding and view of the article as a whole now makes it easier for me to understand why you cannot grasp the concept of this meaningless question which makes you feel a need to answer it. And honestly you think she's worried about an std? If she's think… | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 11:02 AM |
| – | How to handle a girl asking you how many people you've been with?Also would like to bring to your attention that a lead moderator on this sub also views this as a shit test... read all the comments next time. | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 05:11 AM |
| – | How to handle a girl asking you how many people you've been with?That question is a shit test and it's something they "genuinely" do not need to know the answer to. You can and should read the side bar more effectively before patrolling the comments like a mod. Also changing the subject and trying to "dodge" the question will work if done correctly and effectively and will not make you seem guilty. What you say and do is perceived based on your portrayal. If you are portraying your words and actions in a way that makes you seem guilty that is your own fault. … | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 05:03 AM |
| 3 | My story: From masculine to beta self and losing my girlfriendTBH I would love to chat on the phone about it with anyone who is experienced and and willing to give advice to someone who is actually passionate about getting started as a part time trader. If you or anyone else who has the knowledge is open to that I will PM you after I get back from this business trip. I'm turning 21 in March and looking to build a portfolio early. PM me if you want to talk about it more, I don't wanna ruin this guys thread and go off topic. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/17 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Any good youtubers who inspire/motivate you to hustle hard?Inspiration and motivation truly comes from within. I would argue that relying on something like YouTube or some videos to get motivated is actually a negative thing for the mind. We live in a society that teaches us that we need immediate results and lacks to create an identity that makes us hard working individuals. Instead the sense of immediacy creates laziness. This ideology is similar to that of NoFap. Is it not more rewarding to have awesome mind blowing sex or use your own imagination to… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Gay man in his first stepsGood on you for identifying and interpreting TRP in what I would argue is the correct way. Most people read the sexual strategy part and completely ignore the masculine identity portion because they are to obsessed with the thought that this sub is like a guide to get laid. Don't get me wrong it's still a big portion but the real reason these guys that come here can't get laid are because they lack the masculine identity you are trying to find and create for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Got head for the first time [20 M]For future posts this is something you post on the main sub. This sub is for advice and asking questions. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 03:28 AM |
| 3 | My story: From masculine to beta self and losing my girlfriendThis post was a god send that I have been looking for lol!!! I will definitely pm you on this subject. Seriously wanting to get into day trading. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/17 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel a weird connection just with eye contact?If you want to know what it is go talk to her. Or you can keep fantasizing about it and ask the Internet a question they can't answer for you cause they aren't the girl you are passing in the hallway. When you to to school tomorrow go up to her and talk to her and then comeback here and share with us what happened. In short quit being a pussy and looking for validation from random people on the internet to just go do something you are already subconsciously thinking about. | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Texting questionRefer to the rule of 2/3 bro and use texting as for logistics and not a means of constant communication. This is obviously a little different for an LTR but it doesn't sound like this is an LTR circumstance. If you are texting a girl and she stops texting you then you are wasting her time and you are chasing. Over texting can and will dry up the pussy killing whatever or any little interest at all. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 03:06 AM |
| 1 | How to handle a girl asking you how many people you've been with?There is a really good resource called the side bar that actually tells you exactly what to do in this situation and will help you with handling shit tests in general. If I were you I would go fucking read it it cause they call it "required reading" for a reason. The short answer though is to never actually tell a women the honest answer to this and never give them the validation of answering it. Make a joke and change the subject. | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Can I make them ask for my number?There are a couple ways to approach it to make it fun and exciting rather than a dull repetitive process of number collecting/gathering. I'm sure you know that not all girls you day game and give you their number are actually interested and will just give you the number and never respond. You can't win them all. Getting numbers and sticking with that approach is fine and still rather effective (still my primary go to) but if you are bored and or just wanting to try something different then inste… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Asking for muslim redpillers opinion on women's place in Islamic cultureIslam is archaic. Do you think it is ok to stone a women to death for actually being raped? Or is that just red pill as fuck? Also read the side bar if you are still confused or unsure on the core ideology. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Weekly RP chat (On main sub)?I see what you're saying but and it's probably meant with good intention but just won't work. We essentially have a daily discussion throughout all of the topics posted on the main sub. It's up to you to pick the discussion and topic you want to be apart of. If you like to read and talk about "FR" then read an FR and contribute to the conversation. If you like theory then do the same with those posts. I recommend being involved with a little bit of everything. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 02:39 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with frustration as a total beginner?If you take the proper time to learn and invest in yourself than will not worry about putting women on a pedestal ever again. Anger and resentment is common and very normal when beginning to "unplug". Stay strong and apply the teachings that you will learn here to your everyday life and little by little you will see improvement. A from rule to live by is to never change for anyone else but do it for yourself and your own self benefit. Attack life in this order of importance: Yourself Your money … | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Minimize damageDo exactly as CaptainCringeworthy says. Erase the memory and it never happened. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 02:14 AM |
| 2 | What is/are the best resource(s) to learn game?Funny you mention you did the required reading.... I did that same required reading and found the answer to the question you are asking.... You ever seen the movie "Miracle"? Go read that sidebar. "Again!" As an added part to your required reading add "The Rational Male" to your list. It should be a required thing along with the side bar. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Self Defense - Martial ArtBJJ | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Can I fart?Used to have a similar problem. Learn how to gauge that feeling/pressure and size of your butthole. You will know when they are going to make sound or if you can get away with it. Normally they won't be smelly. Practice makes perfect and this is a good art form to learn. This is a serious post lol. Also this should be common sense but if things are getting heated just learn to hold it lol. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 02:03 AM |
| 1 | What other philosophy is RedPill worthy?Noted! Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Do women sleep with someone they admire, or do they put them in the provider category?A women will fuck you so long as you are confident enough to fuck them. Don't worry about what you hear and create your own results. Just start off with her as a plate. Also remember that the way she perceives you is the way you portray yourself to her so if she sees you as a provider than that is on you. But if she sees you in a confident light and is truly in awe of you, then she will do anything for you. You are perceived and viewed based on your own thoughts and actions. Take notice to why y… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 01:58 AM |
| 2 | I love youYou never have to unless you genuinely want to. Don't ever worry about saying it to please her. Unless you're a giant pussy who will do and say anything he doesn't actually mean just to please a girl. Then in that case go for it cause then you will just be used and walked on. Also go read the fucking side bar. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 01:51 AM |
| 1 | How can somebody who is bald and short attract women or am I pretty much fucked?Not even gonna read your post because your title says enough. What's going to completely fuck you is your negative attitude and thinking you are fucked in life because you are short and bald. First learn what true confidence is and apply it to your life. Second go lift and get in shape,not to only just look better but to better yourself and strengthen that already low self esteem and negative attitude. Lift for self betterment and not for anyone else. Women aren't attracted to a guy who wants to… | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Ask a friend to dare you to approach a girl. Try it. I find this gives me a confidence boost, and makes me less nervous.This is so wrong and do not know how this is trending. All you are doing is validating and further enforcing your approach anxiety, also makes you sound like a huge pussy. If you need to install fake confidence to approach another human being (don't ever pedestalize pussy aka women) than you will never be able to just do it for yourself and be genuine. Male or female will see directly through your bullshit and chances are you will look like a retard. This post is toxic and awful advice that no o… | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 01:27 AM |
| 4 | What other philosophy is RedPill worthy?Democracy as a whole is a weak form of government which is why we in the United States have a representative republic which is basically a foe "democracy" democracies essentially become tyrannical majorities run by retards (I.e. People who voted for Hilary) who were created and formed via mainstream media and pop culture which essentially brainwashes those weak minded individuals. Look back at every ancient civilization who prided themselves on being a pure democracy..... they all failed. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 01:31 AM |
| 9 | GF of 5 years started messaging a guy I believe she had an emotional affair with 3 years ago today but she told me upfront...She's not yours it's just your turn..... does any read the fucking side bar? And for god sake if you break up once don't go back to her that's pathetic. Only dogs go back and eat their own vomit and men are not animals. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Need to capitalize on this bish! need some post first date tips from fellow Red Piller'sRead the side bar. Also the way you are getting so nervous and anxious makes me want to never come near you in real life and if you really don't want to fuck things up make sure you don't act like that around her. So for starters you need to chill the fuck out and just take her out to do something fun. IMO ice skating is a great way to practice kino escalate (hold hands, hands on hips etc) and stop putting pussy on the pedestal cause that is what you are doing and that's what is causing you to f… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/16 05:42 PM |
| 1 | What's the point of RP sub?There is no one definition of alpha. I read RP daily and yes I see what you are seeing as well but I leaned how to filter all that shit and actually find a good article. This sub has been growing a lot lately and stuff like this happening is to be expected. If you want stuff posted mainly by the endorsed contributors go to the TRP.red website. All of the endorsed contributors write fantastic content and there are some other guys who even though they are not endorsed they still write great field … | /r/askTRP | 18/12/16 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Best books on RP Theory?Go buy "The Rational Male" it's 10 dollars on Amazon and read the side bar. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/16 09:13 PM |
| 8 | Do Something DecemberWhat is that? I'm only here a month. Recently unplugged. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/16 04:49 AM |
| 5 | Lack of Feedback from girl I'm seeingSounds like you got the perfect bitch... She just sits there spreads her legs and keeps her mouth shut...... Jk But really what do you expect what do you really want from this girl lol? You ask her to come over and you guys bang. Sounds like a good fuck buddy kind of relationship to me. She sounds quite introverted so in that case you need to work on her making her comfortable when she's around you to open up to you, if you desire that kind of "companionship" that is. For more info I would look … | /r/askTRP | 07/12/16 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Below the knee amputee seeking guidance on getting into shapeIt's also really important to cut the shit out of your diet (candy, fast food, microwave meals) but being a diabetic you know about strict eating. As a vegetarian for my entire life (20 years) I have found that adapting this lifestyle instinctively made me stay away from junk plus I save a lot of money as well. I would recommend finding a diet and sticking to it an dim not talking about some south beach bullshit but an actual diet that you alone researched each food and how it will effect your b… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/16 08:04 PM |
| 0 | Going out with plateYea bro just sit back and take a chill pill. Don't over think it and just remember to stay calm at all times and if a bitch starts acting up or making a scene put her in her place. Since this is your first time going out in public, DO NOT panic or lose control. But you know this and you got so just don't worry and be cool. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/16 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Pseudo-Plate wanted status check to "see what we are" - How did I handle it?Solid example of holding frame, good read. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/16 07:36 PM |
| 4 | What does "holding your frame" really mean?There is noting wrong with being young and being RP aware. For the past 30 years kids have been raised to become and portray a pure beta image. A lot of that problem is what kids see on TV or in some cases how they are raised and in other cases how they deal with their daily interactions at school which plays a large role in your development growing up. TRP is not for the weak minded and for those coming into it and only reading what is on the surface and not really understanding the literature … | /r/askTRP | 06/12/16 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Tactful way to tell her I'm not going to see her anymore if she won't have sex with me?I know here on red pill we discuss things like doing and saying things without worrying about the outcome and effects it will have on someone (man or women) because rationalizing your reasoning for doing something based on those effects only clouds your judgement. What is your end goal? LTR? Is she just a PLATE you are thinking of giving a promotion? Or is this just some STR and you have others waiting for your call? From what it sounds like she is trying to get you to let out that little "beta"… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/16 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Asking for help with someone I want for more than just sex.Just keep reading the theory bro and you will start understanding this naturally almost like second nature. Read the "Rational Male" blog or just go buy the book for 10 bucks on Amazon. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/16 06:41 PM |
| 4 | How do i ask a shy girl to hang out?DO NOT ASKE HER TO SEE A MOVIE..... Movie=social suicide. You want to get to know this girl and talk with her not sit in a theater for 2 hours and not be able to say anything to her. Movies are for girls you already have a relationship with, not one you want to get to know. Buddy I had a ROUGH time in high school with girls, it was bad. But end of senior year I got with one of the hottest most popular girls in my school because I learned from my mistakes during the first 3 years. If you already … | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 09:17 AM |
| 1 | She has a bf but....Pretty simple, just do it! Just know if she's cheating with you then she is only a plate and will only ever be a plate. A women who cheats with you will certainly cheat on you. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/16 08:50 AM |
| 7 | Asking for help with someone I want for more than just sex.Not being a dick but dude this post smells of ONEitis soulmate bullshit. The chick is playing hard to get she pretty much is going out with you and messaging you randomly over the course of 6 months just to feed her need of "validation". Remember there is no ONE, no needle in a haystack. It doesn't matter if you "think" you guys would be good for each other. At this point make I would just hit next and find someone who goes with your flow and wants you! But that said you seem like you really wan… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/16 08:13 AM |
| 2 | The way you carry yourself.Ah I see. Well good for you my friend I'm glad to read and hear about TRP FR and the positive effect it has on us guys willing to unplug and swallow the pill! | /r/askTRP | 23/11/16 03:29 AM |
| 2 | The way you carry yourself.As the alpha it is your job to create and hold that frame and continue by leading it. Definitely could have been gaming you. IMO in the future I would take that approach and run with it. After she said those things you could continue to build on it and ask her what she saw when analyzing you and keep with that frame which in turn you could use that very same topic of conversation to escalate. Remember it is always up to you to recognize when a girl is gaming or may just be attracted to you, if y… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Answering "What are you looking for?" on Tinder99% of the girl will never ask this. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 09:26 PM |
| 2 | The way you carry yourself.Take it as a compliment don't for search for any specific subliminal message. You said it yourself, people perceive you as someone who is more mature and older btw the way you carry yourself. In a way they could be subconsciously giving you more respect just based on the way you carry yourself because that is how they are perceiving the confidence and the masculinity you portray. Do not worry about what others think or say be confident in what you say and do, and continue to carry yourself as a … | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 09:12 PM |
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