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I’ve never heard it put this way but I think you’re spot on.
/r/seduction20/02/24 04:45 AM
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You put yourself in the friend zone… not her. To get out of the friend zone you have to end the friendship… This video gives a perfect explanation https://youtu.be/0rSb_QD08vw?si=r0-IXvyrOxnT3F2g
/r/seduction20/02/24 04:40 AM
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Were you attracted to them before they showed their emotion?
/r/seduction13/04/22 07:10 PM
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Take some mushrooms
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:56 AM
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Disagree, I think it’s rare for girls to receive compliments in public
/r/seduction07/01/22 07:06 AM
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You miss every shot you don’t take, and I’m feeling like you’re letting this opportunity pass up by…
/r/seduction15/11/21 07:19 AM
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Hell yah brother! “Come over here and cuddle with me”
/r/seduction15/11/21 05:48 AM
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Throw on a movie and ask her if she wants to come lay next to you and watch it with you
/r/seduction15/11/21 05:46 AM
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Yeah
/r/seduction02/11/21 12:04 AM
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There’s no easy way to say this, but the sooner you realize it the better: you are going to have to work your way up from nothing in order to have any hope for a decent life; for you and your kid. For health, find a lifting plan and lift weights for 5 days a week. Walk 10k steps every day. Start going to bed at 10pm and waking up at 5am every day. Join a rec sports league for one night a week. Enroll your kid in an after school club and participate in it with them regularly. Actively help your k…
/r/seduction01/08/21 01:39 AM
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Could you see yourself in a relationship with her? Relationships aren’t planned... they just happen. Tell her you think she’s cute and you want to hang out one night and take her to a couple bars. Set up a date and have fun... if you have a fun time, setup another date. Rinse and repeat. If you keep it up, boom you’ll be in a relationship. If not, no biggie, at least you both had fun.
/r/seduction26/03/21 07:22 AM
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Bro have you even been direct and showed clear as fuck intent with this girl?
/r/seduction26/03/21 06:50 AM
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She could have an Avoidant attachment style
/r/seduction26/03/21 06:47 AM
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the book of pook is part of the ultimate trilogy: Models Pook 3% male
/r/seduction05/03/21 05:33 PM
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OP have you friend-zoned anyone?
/r/seduction24/11/20 11:13 PM
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What do you mean escape game? If she ran to her car and dipped it sounds like she didn't have a good time at all... Can you go in depth on what you did during the date?
/r/seduction03/07/20 10:53 PM
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I have a couple points to explain why a guy approaches in that manner. As you said yourself, his motives are very clear when he begins with a compliment like that; that's the point. Stating intent in that way sets the context of the interaction to a masculine/feminine, sexual-esque interaction. I think there is a spectrum of women who like cold approach with clear intent, all the way to women like yourself who don't appreciate it, and that's fine - that's all a part of your personality. Which br…
/r/seduction26/06/20 09:10 PM
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Starting to realize that all of these posts about what to do and don't come from a place of fear; fear that you're going to lose her; which is not masculine. ​ It's not unattractive to text a lot before you meet. Have normal conversation back and forths, and be okay with letting a girl go if she's not into you or putting the same effort into it as you are. Become the best version of yourself, and don't be afraid to be that version.
/r/seduction06/05/20 08:46 PM
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Flirting ranges from fun banter, to teasing, to being cocky/funny, to being overtly sexual. The method of push/pull or hot/cold or two steps forward/one step back implements the above. Pushing/cold/one step back means you tease them, interact normally with them, disqualify them in some fun way. Pulling/hot/two steps forward means you banter, compliment or do anything that directly speaks to one of their love languages, even touch escalation. Women love the combination of pushing and pulling in t…
/r/seduction27/04/20 07:53 PM
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I think you're nailing it. Question for OP, how many times have you really liked these girls? Like, really liked them? If its just been ok and you've kind of tolerated them to see how long the relationship can go for, then maybe they feel that too, and are moving on for both of your sakes.
/r/seduction02/04/20 11:12 PM
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I don’t really know. I guess I thought them wanting something casual was either a one night stand or an easy way to reject someone. It’s never been something I’ve discussed on any of my first dates, but only as something they mention later on when things appear to be ending...
/r/seduction29/02/20 07:21 PM
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What did you like about it six pillars? I'm reading the reviews on audible and they aren't very good, or as good as what I expected.
/r/seduction12/02/20 06:59 PM
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I think this can all boil down to giving and taking energy. the former only takes from her (and is reactive to her responses). The latter only gives of himself (and she is reactive).
/r/seduction12/12/19 04:21 PM
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powerful comment: we play it cool when flirting and hold back how turned on actual masculine approaches make us, but we want it.
/r/seduction06/12/19 04:36 PM
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I grew feelings for a really great friend of mine. I told her but she didn't feel the same, and I took it personally and I couldn't just be friends with her. I couldn't be friends with her because I had these feelings and she couldn't reciprocate. What would you have done if you grew feelings for one of your best friends?
/r/seduction20/09/19 03:46 PM
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Thanks man, definitely taking a look at this
/r/seduction06/09/19 05:00 PM
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I think I'm open to a relationship but honestly I'm wanting it to develop naturally, I just think I get in my own way with things like this. I definitely like the idea of the amazing flashback. I don't have a problem getting dates or escalating, I have a problem with the rinse and repeat aspect of it. What's you're process for texting her to hang out again? Do you follow the 'I'm doing x later this week and wanted to invite you' route? would love to keep chatting with you on this
/r/seduction06/09/19 05:00 PM
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My man, thank you for the reply. Have you had success with just the "How are you?" or "whatsup?". I think there were so many guides at one point saying "don't open with 'hey whatsup' because girls get that all the time and that's boring" that I took that to heart, so now I end up not saying anything at all, or if I do say "hey whatsup" I feel weird about it, almost like I'm bothering them or starting a weak conversation, or am needy for a reply, I think that principle really messed with my minds…
/r/seduction06/09/19 04:53 PM
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Oh for sure, didn't see it credited to him. Thanks for pointing it out.
/r/seduction30/08/19 08:23 PM
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This is verbatim Corey Wayne's Material - Read it in his book 3% male
/r/seduction30/08/19 08:11 PM
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Love this dude
/r/seduction30/08/19 06:24 AM
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I used to believe this because Corey Wayne always said this, but the more and more dates I go on, the more I'm starting to believe this isn't always the case, that in fact there are some instances where not initiating a kiss on the first date is optimal. Plus I think every girl is different. Most of them will kiss you, but whether it was wanted is an entirely different scenario. One girl recently on a first date kept bumping into me while we were walking, this was a huge IOI and we ended up maki…
/r/seduction29/08/19 11:23 PM
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Well I'd agree with that, but I'd say more often than not trying to control or influence the outcome is needy and manipulative and exactly what putting a girl on a pedestal is, which makes you reactive to her, which is unattractive.
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:28 PM
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Stop trying and stop chasing means stop trying to control or influence the outcome.
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:50 PM
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Agreed. A valuable guy can have charisma and hold a girls drink, and still pass the "shit test". Why? Because he's having fun himself. The valuable guy, in my opinion, is the one who makes a good time no matter the circumstance.
/r/seduction05/07/19 10:22 AM
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unexpecteddock
/r/seduction25/06/19 05:37 PM
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Trying. ​ The art is to go with the flow, escalate and de-escalate, and be okay with an interaction not going anywhere. Enjoy the interaction itself, enjoy the person, enjoy the moment.
/r/seduction23/05/19 05:10 PM
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"So do I" *smirk*
/r/seduction20/05/19 08:43 PM
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Valentine is incredible. What didnt you like?
/r/seduction12/01/19 07:16 AM
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This is awesome man, thank you for this. ​ Over the passed year I've done really well with online dating, and I have no problem having great dates, and pulling once we meet. But I don't feel confident with the cold approach at all. I feel I need a basic template that I can follow, and eventually tweak over time and practice. Based on everything you read and experienced, can you point me in a good direction?
/r/seduction25/10/18 05:37 AM
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This is how I think of it: Approach is by nature interruption. Girls want to be approached. Therefore girls want to be interrupted.
/r/seduction24/10/18 01:29 AM
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Totally, you do you man. I think you're missing out on some playful banter opportunities though.
/r/seduction18/10/18 08:15 PM
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Because she's not serious... she's flirting/teasing with you
/r/seduction18/10/18 07:26 PM
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Amen
/r/seduction20/09/18 08:04 PM
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Totally agree man, for me I've found the texting only for logistics to be inaccurate. As well I feel the concept of always being cocky funny, kissing on the first date lends to the impression that you're a player etc. I've had a bunch of really awesome first dates, but not second dates. And I had a girl tell me a couple months back that me being that forward etc made her feel uncomfortable. Anyway I've had a lot of success toning it down a few notches. But I think that's exactly your point, you …
/r/seduction20/09/18 06:26 PM
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He's saying it sets you back a week in terms of progress with the girl you are dating.
/r/seduction20/09/18 04:38 PM
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Thanks man! You definitely should! And I'm gonna be that guy and recommend Mark Manson's book "Models" and David Deita's "Way of the superior man". 10x for all of them haha
/r/seduction20/09/18 05:51 AM
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Haha nice, thanks man hope this is useful for you
/r/seduction20/09/18 05:48 AM
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Definitely man, hope you get something out of it
/r/seduction19/09/18 08:37 PM
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Tao of Steve: Do something excellent, then walk away.
/r/seduction23/05/18 09:01 PM
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You know what would be sexy as fuck to either of them? Next time you see them to say "Hey I think you're really cute and I enjoy our conversations. Want to get a drink sometime?", and then see where it goes. ^ Respectful, quick, clean, to the point. Even if they reject you, I don't think they would be turned off from you for showing attraction. Girls dig vulnerability.
/r/seduction26/02/18 03:42 AM
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Yeah dude that's odd. It's hard for me to understand her being cool with you rubbing her thighs but her not being cool with you going in for a kiss. I would say if anything could have been improved, its that you could have gone for a kiss probably immediately when she was looking at your lips.
/r/seduction06/12/17 06:04 PM
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I don't mean to hijack your thread, but I'm concerned with the fact that you described yourself as a nice guy. If by "nice guy" you mean r/niceguys then no its not safe for you to approach random women, because nice guys don't have genuine interactions with women. Nice guys at root have a low view of their own self-worth, are incredibly desperate for validation, particularly from women, and tend to objectify women by placing them on pedestals. This usually plays itself out when a nice guy "befri…
/r/seduction27/11/17 02:18 AM
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Hey man, you have so not missed your chance. This is absolutely the best time.
/r/seduction17/11/17 09:28 PM
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Think of it this way, what if you go for it and it's completely awesome?
/r/seduction17/11/17 04:29 PM
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Don't ever give up on the fundamentals. You should be implementing those all the time, even when you're not going out. But your goal is to start having conversations with as many girls as possible that last between 5-15 minutes, and if you feel like there is a chemistry, escalate.
/r/seduction16/11/17 04:14 PM
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Absolutely address the weirdness, it's what makes you real. Just call her and say "Hey my bad if last night was awkward, the truth is I felt really nervous the whole time, but I would like to do it again."
/r/seduction16/11/17 04:08 PM
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I'm gonna piggy back on this, a few years ago I met someone who really inspired me, and she did something amazing and it made me realize that the only thing stopping me from pursuing my dreams was me, and that realization changed my life. I'd definitely encourage you to meditate on this until it clicks for you: THE ONLY THING STOPPING YOU FROM ACHIEVING YOUR DREAMS IS YOU
/r/seduction16/11/17 06:37 AM
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I've found that a woman's attraction to you grows just by talking with you. I've also found that it absolutely doesn't matter what you say, a girl is 90% of the time going to just go along with and add to your conversation. It's also important to note that women are much better at being present to the situation, then men are, which is why it's so easy for women to just talk. So I'd encourage you to have fun with It, the next girl you want to talk to, just go up to her and open with something so …
/r/seduction16/11/17 06:04 AM
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Yeah the goal is to just absorb it all as much as possible, so just do you. It's true what the other guy said about Corey how he tells you to Google his stuff, and tbh he kind of is all over the place, that's another reason why you need to keep reading it over and over again. But a big thing to come away from Corey is hell tell you to pull away from a girl to increase attraction, and to never chase except in the beginning. He then goes into how to read a girls attraction to you on a scale of 5-1…
/r/seduction12/11/17 07:20 AM
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I know what you mean, I just bought these on audible and listen to them on my way to work. I actually had to stop listening to Corey because I sick of listening to him haha. But that's one thing I definitely think he was right about is to read his stuff 10-15 times, then just apply that to other good books. Have a goal to get through a book a week. But yeah definitely 3%, models, no more Mr nice guy and way of the superior man should be all you need to get your inner game solid.
/r/seduction12/11/17 07:08 AM
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I used to think it wasn't good on my first read of it, and then royally fucked things up with a girl I really liked and just realized I had no game. I did what Corey suggested and read his book 10 and im glad I did. Some things I've found haven't worked for me, but in terms of regaining a sense of masculinity and being able to gauge a woman's attraction level and how to increase that have been absolutely gold. It didn't start clicking for me until my 5th read of the book. I would definitely read…
/r/seduction12/11/17 07:00 AM
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Whenever any of these happen I think you can go for it: 1: You feel the energy 2: You hold eye contact 3: After you've physical escalated into purposeful touch 4: you make her laugh and you look into her eyes and her lips
/r/seduction12/11/17 06:53 AM
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I'd say make it playful, there comes a point where escalation moves from incidental to purposeful. Here's something I like to do, after a high five or something I'll say "let me see your hand" and then I'll hold it and make a joke about how "I'm really glad we finally broke the touch barrier, I've been nervous this whole time but we're finally here", smiling and being playful the whole time. After you've made it purposeful like that, keep escalating to the kiss
/r/seduction09/11/17 11:16 PM
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From my experience, girls don't like it when you try to be romantic if they aren't in a relationship with you, and they don't like it when you try to put labels on things. This means you are always "just hanging out" until she brings up relationship talk (she brings it up, never you). This also means that you shouldn't "do romantic gestures" until you're in a relationship with her. With that in mind I would recommend not buying flowers (because it's a romantic gesture, too soon), and I wouldn't …
/r/seduction06/11/17 10:50 PM
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Girls are immediately in three categories in relation to you: 1: Receptive 2: Neutral 3: Non-receptive The receptive girls are the one's who are immediately showing you signs of interest or chasing you. You will come across these girls, just not as often as neutral or non-receptive ones. The neutral girls are exactly that, neither for or against, but will allow you to approach and then polarize to receptive or non-receptive based on your actions. When you approach and start talking, if there is …
/r/seduction30/10/17 08:04 PM
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I 100% agree, relationships are built in person and not over text. Texting is primarily for setting dates. However from my experience, a girl will absolutely drop you if she thinks you are ignoring her. This is how I handle these situations: Reply back within a reasonable amount of time. Keep the responses light-hearted, flirty and "value added" fun. Keep the conversation going back and forth a bit (a few exchanges). When you want to stop the conversation, just tell her "Hey I'm in the middle of…
/r/seduction30/10/17 05:57 PM
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It's not a negative reaction if you handle it in a mature way. You need to cut contact and walk away, but leave the door open. Tell her that you developed feelings and you cant change them, you really like her and your friendship but you can't be just friends anymore. This is the most important part - tell her that if things change to definitely reach out to you. The issue is this, you stated your intentions and she stated hers. If you continue to hang out with her, you are agreeing to her inten…
/r/seduction11/09/17 05:02 PM
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Instead of thinking "I got rejected." what if you thought "She didn't vibe with my offer." ...? Exactly this. Anytime you have an interaction with a girl, you bring a certain vibe to the table. She can either accept it or reject it. Her acceptance or rejection is also what she is bringing to the table, which you can either accept or reject. It's about what you bring, and if shes open to what you're bringing.
/r/seduction05/09/17 08:43 PM
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