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I'm not a native English speaker. That's true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:41 AM
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Thank you. I honestly have no reason to lie, it's 10:40 PM in my country I literally gain nothing to get on this platform and lie. I do not gain a thing from it. I just don't understand. I thought I should share my experience and everything I have typed is all that transpired. The only smart thing I did, I did not introduce him to my baby brother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:30 PM
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English is not my first language so I phrased it the best way I could. And yes I did break up with him like that. He's wealthy and I come from a city full of pickmes who go on Instagram to say they will date anyone no matter the age or state as long as he has money. To me it was a way to tell him that maybe he should look for someone who will settle for that as it won't be me. It came from a bitter place but I do not regret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:17 PM
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I am not a troll. Why are you gaslighting me? What is it that I have said that shows I'm a troll?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 06:20 PM
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Also, my bestt friend tried to point me to the issue by reminding me that I had told this scrote that my before we get intimate rule was only for 90 days but he still did not try to make advances after that and I guess I was so caught up enjoyingthe attention he gave me I did not notice. I think the excess gifting and giving me head was to cover up his issues. Or maybe he went and got off to it idk!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 06:16 PM
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Thank you. I'll give it a shot tomorrow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:26 PM
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No I have not met her. I had intentions of reaching out to her and getting to know her side of the story but I did not want to make it awkward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:23 PM
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I have wanted to do that so bad. But I don't want to make it awkward or uncomfortable for her especially if the separation was bad and she's doing some healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:19 PM
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Oh wow. Girl I'm so happy you're doing better. I am happy for you. I want to ask her so bad but I have a feeling that it may be awkward and I don't want to make her uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:18 PM
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I met him after healing and finishing therapy from a very tough time in my life. I then courted him for 4 months before I agreed to be his girlfriend which meant we went the old way until I agreed to be his girlfriend. One of the prerequisite for me to date him was to ask him a set of questions about his past and all. Which is how I got to know all this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:16 PM
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He claims after reporting the assault, the authorities downplayed it so his lawyer asked him to keep a record in case they needed to build a case. In my country a mother, as long as she's of sound mind has custody of the child until 18 but in case if separation people go to court and share time and custody with the child which he is yet to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:12 PM
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So he claims that when the abuse got too much he reported it but the authorities downplayed it so he consulted a lawyer who asked him to keep evidence of the assault in case they needed to build a case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:10 PM
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I courted him for 4 months before I agree to be his girlfriend so I have known him for 9 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:09 PM
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Thank you. I will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:08 PM
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You have made very valid points among which I raised with him. Like why he was not pushing for more time with his son especially during formative years. The friend I met him through was only an acquaintance and she did not know much about him. So I really don't know how to get the real reason behind the separation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:07 PM
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Oh. Unfortunately I don't find her as a threat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:04 PM
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Unfortunately I'm not in the States 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:38 PM
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We are not in the US. In my country the mother if of sound mind has custody of the child until they're 18 but in children's court you and your spouse get to split time on how to share time with the child such as half of the holidays. Two weekends in a month. But In this case he sees him only on a Sunday afternoon and that's it. Which is not normal even in my country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:13 PM
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He had us in the first half. Ngl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 12:38 PM
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I totally feel you queen. I'm so sorry you had to go through all that. Time to level up queen. ♥️♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:54 PM
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Shots fired! Man down! I repeat, shots fired 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:31 AM
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I'm really sorry for the said girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:55 PM
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So unfortunate. I hope she takes over the business before he runs it down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:43 AM
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It's beautiful!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:32 PM
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Keep levelling up queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:46 AM
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Did you read the flair? It read "Discussion" did you read the answers from the amazing queens here? We all educated each other. Besides, when I met my ex, we stayed in my country NOT his. So I came here to understand other people's cultures and talked about mine. If you read my post well, I said It came from a place of ignorance. There was no stereotype whatsoever and this discussion helped me a lot. Have a lovely day now Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:08 PM
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Oh gosh that is terrible!! And why would the kids refuse to leave despite the ability to sustain themselves on their own?? What's the logic behind that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:25 PM
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She is an amazing woman!! You're welcome babes. I wish you all good things on this earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:11 PM
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You do not have to accept ANY cultural practice that expects you to subjugate to men, no matter how accepted or ingrained that practice is. And in fact a culture that does not give you even the room to express the desire for change, or the standing within the community to enact such change, is not a culture you need to participate in, and that includes your own. I wish I could Up vote twice!! My mom has always told me to unlearn things that I learnt from her if they do not constitute to the pers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:48 PM
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I would differ with the last statement. Too extreme. I have lived on my own since I was 18 and I am still here. It has it's own challenges but it has taught me a lot and before the pandemic I was a go-getter because I had only myself to look up to. I agree single women have been murdered but not necessarily in their homes, men will murder women even in their workplaces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:12 PM
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What about living alone? You know instead of renting with a boyfriend?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:35 PM
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Understood. I totally appreciate this perspective. I also live in a tourist town in my country and the governor is borderline a socialite attending parties so I get you. Thank you, I now know better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:34 PM
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There are no affordable housing? I come from East Africa and well obviously we are not doing well economically but the housing has levels. There is a one bedroom apartment that is serviced, not serviced, basic where you pay the amenities separate from the rent, there's studio apartment etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:23 PM
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Please educate me. Is the rent equivalent to like a place like New York? I have a friend who lives in New York after he got a scholarship in Cornell. So I have heard it is very expensive. Is it the same in your country?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:17 PM
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I'm glad you decided to move on. Wishing you the very best and healing in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:48 PM
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Men or women? Again that depends on tribe. There are tribes that are very strict on these kind of stuff and some are not. Also, most African cultures are based in traditions and modernity, having both and finding balance. In the cities, you will find families foregoing the traditions due to economic status but back in the village, despite the poverty levels it is very common. But generally, in my culture, despite the economic status, it is frowned upon for a man past the age of 24 to be under hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:25 PM
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I'm African myself and while my culture can be patriarchal, it centers around the man being the head of the household, leading and providing thus my surprise at learning of the Italian one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:14 PM
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I get your point. Most cultures are misogynistic but there are cultures that really go a long way to ensure the men are dependent on women. And I think Italian is one of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:11 PM
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Are you still together with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:06 PM
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Yes. This. I noted lack of individualism too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:04 PM
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Thank you so much for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:02 PM
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Oh my!!! So this means the men are in a perpetual stage of childhood? How do they even raise kids?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:01 PM
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Would you say these kind of men are HV? From your experience?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:59 PM
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Oh wow. I have no words. I'm glad you got here and levelled up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:32 PM
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Why on earth is she with him? That's s sicko wtf!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:34 PM
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It will only get worse. I hope she leaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:30 PM
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WTF is wrong with these people??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:25 PM
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Can I say something? Can we stop hiding the identities of these incels. These LVMs do not deserve your extra energy of blurring out their names when making a post. Post it, call the out on this BS!! Whether it's a real name, an Instagram handle, email POST IT!! Out them!! Let everyone know who they really are!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:09 AM
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You go sis!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:14 PM
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Now that's a level up baby!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 03:40 PM
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Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:22 PM
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Sounds like you're more than winning!! You go girl and all the best in the future. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:24 PM
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Did she say "your mom and your sister" I literally can not. Too much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:32 PM
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It is so disrespectful and demeaning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:11 PM
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Yesssssss sis!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:03 PM
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Haha exactly!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:02 PM
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friends There's nothing wrong with you. You are awesome and you deserve to be loved wholly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:36 PM
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Sis, I feel like however he decides to treat his current gf shouldn't bother you. If you broke up and he moved on, the rest of the job is up to you. Take this time to heal, realize your value and love yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:10 AM
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This guy is so married lol! I got embarrassed reading the first bit. Ewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:54 AM
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Real. Queen. Stuff!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:47 PM
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They tend to believe their power is on putting women down and they feel entitled. So when they see women being confident despite their size or appearance, they can't stand it because it means they become irrelevant. They expect these women to come to them begging for love and acceptance!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:40 PM
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She is a QUEEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:37 PM
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That's right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:19 AM
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Me too sis! She dealt with him!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:19 AM
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I'm WEAK lol!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:12 AM
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u/Forwardgash thanks for the award babes!!! ♥️♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:34 PM
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Indeed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:32 PM
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And I swear it's the ugly and overweight ones always talking like this! The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:48 PM
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I love him! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:07 PM
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