I met him last year, but I was in a bad place to date but he remained my friend and he was amazing and thoughtful. Around January, we had gone for a friend's party and I told him I was ready to try dating again. The next week, he took me on a date in one of the most expensive restaurants in my city and asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes. I also have the 90 day rule and I don't allow men into my apartment, I live with my 14 year old brother and that is our safe space. Fast forward to this month, the relationship is great, we would occasionally kiss in the car and he would give me head which he was excellent at and I was satisfied. Beginning of this month my baby brother won a position at a very good boarding school and so he will be away for a month. So I thought let me try to go out on more dates and explore now that I'm alone. Well, day one my seemingly HVM couldn't keep an erection as long as it takes to say the word "ok" his excuse, "you're so hot babe I was scared of underperforming" Oh! OK. Day 2, "babe I am under so much pressure but I'll make it up to you" Uhmmmm okay sure! Day 3, I'll go see a professional. I even went with him, guess what the andrologist says it's psychological since his blood work and testicles appear okay medically. But he gives him some pills to aid blood flow. A little suspicious but okay. I give him time to take them and day 4 I see him and we're fooling around and he gets hard but not hard to keep until condom time or any other time after that. I pretend to understand, nap a bit in his bed and he even cuddles me, lol. Then I wake up to go home and send him a link to Tinder. Then I get up, ignore him, dress up. He's calling me a thousand times telling me he'll make it work. Then, I delete his number and contact details as I show him (he's still begging) I get my cab home and on the way pick a glass and as I write this I have drowned my frustrations and doing much better. So babes and huns please vet because if I had I would have noted whenever we fooled around he never got hard or it didn't show a print. But whatever it is, he knew prior but never cared to disclose.