testylose Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	making new friends: how to provide value to people you don't know? What do you mean you felt stupidly left out? When I’m at a big function and I’m being “left out” I start doing my own thing. I move around as if I’m comfortable and I belong and I’m just enjoying the vibes. People then gravitate toward me, and if they don’t then I still don’t care. Offering free drugs only works if you provid drugs every time, once you stop, they’ll stop coming around.	/r/newTRP	02/08/21 02:54 PM
36	Improving eye contact Silly move if you ask me. Why would I want to join some rando website to circle jerk with a bunch of virgins. I haven’t used a forum outside of reddit in years why would I start now lmao	/r/askTRP	27/06/21 12:35 AM
4	I lost my virginity recently, after being a kissless virgin at 25 yo. Struggled to stay hard, what to do for next time? It’s 100% the cause. It’s like snacking all day and wondering why you don’t have an appetite for your dinner.	/r/askTRP	15/06/21 02:50 PM
2	I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I have This	/r/askTRP	09/06/21 05:40 PM
2	Group of girls from my class hates my guts That’s definitely overkill lmao. What you gonna do change schools every time you encounter bullying? Face your problems dude	/r/askTRP	09/06/21 05:29 PM
6	MO after first date fuck? I always wait until they hit me up, this gets their hamster wheel rolling and shows that you aren’t needy. When she does I always try to arrange a meet up from there.	/r/askTRP	09/06/21 05:25 PM
2	MO after first date fuck? I wouldn’t do that, instant validation on her end.	/r/askTRP	09/06/21 05:23 PM
1	Is it normal for men to cry...? How in the fuck do I stop drinking every god damn night... I cannot control my alcoholism... I was in the same boat as you at one point. Early 20’s, own car, motorcycle, etc. Get off work and just get drunk off my ass and couldn’t stop the urge. This solution may not fit everyone but I literally started smoking weed and all urges for drinking vanished. Not the best solution by any means but probably the easiest way to quit drinking. Also being a stoner is 100 times more manageable than being a drunk.	/r/askTRP	09/06/21 03:56 PM
2	Is it normal to enjoy shit tests? For me it’s fun when a new girl does it. After a few months it starts to get annoying because why are you even shit testing me at this point?	/r/askTRP	10/04/21 03:23 AM
1	Is Social Media to Blame for this? Do you think everyone who uses social media is anxious in real life? Sure, it’s best to stay off it, but I doubt that’s the root of your anxiousness. You said you’ve just started uni? It’s a new experience, you’ll adapt.	/r/askTRP	07/03/21 02:14 PM
5	What sacrifices have you made to be where you are today? Shortly after I started reading up on trp strategies, I heard 50 cent say on the end of some random song: “You become as successful as the people you talk to, for no reason.” That quote really stuck with me early on. Since then I’ve lost touch with a lot of old friends who are kinda like yours. Ive always been more responsible than my old friends, but their lifestyle was so dangerous it had effects on my life too. Cutting them off is pretty effortless and can be done without conflict( atleast it…	/r/askTRP	24/02/21 03:48 AM
1	Is this situation worth fixing or do I ghost? I mean unless you got other pussy lined up I wouldn’t back out that easy... even though she is shit testing you a lot and so early, it seems like your passing them. If you can hold a strong frame long enough things might turn out good. Only thing is when she ghosted the first time I wouldn’t of been so available so soon. She would of had to wait a lot longer for the next date cause I got a lot of shit going on and now I gotta make time for you.	/r/askTRP	23/02/21 01:26 PM
1	total loser(in my opinion, in need of advice) Good job on catching on early and trying to improve yourself at such a young age. I didn’t catch on until my early 20s and it was a struggle trying to learn when every else was ions ahead in experience. You’ll thank yourself later!	/r/askTRP	23/02/21 01:20 PM
1	Is it worth to fuck below average woman? It’s cool if you can do it discreetly. Depending on your area you can actually further lower your smv if your only seen with low smv women.	/r/askTRP	23/02/21 01:18 PM
1	How do you not let shit like this get to you? Sure, there’s plenty of reasons she’d drop you, I gave one example. Why wouldn’t you put any thought into why she drops you? Sounds like your the type to get played very easily. Be aware of the situation your in and figure out what to do from there. It’s not as cut and dry and “when she leaves just forget her forever.” Kudos to you if that’s your game, that’s a tough one to play.	/r/askTRP	23/02/21 12:06 AM
7	What to do to cure huge fear of hot/pretty girls Once you understand their mindset you’ll lose that fear. They’re hot so they have betas kissing their asses on a consistent basis. They’re attracted to the ones who aren’t intimidated by her looks AT ALL and give her a “idgaf” attitude. If your the one guy who isn’t orbiting her, she’s gonna want to figure out why. (The frame you hold with these type is that your high value guy whose getting plenty of pussy already, she’ll want to know just why.)	/r/askTRP	22/02/21 08:58 PM
3	Should you ask out a girl a second time if she said no the first time around? Only in the moment. If she was shit testing you, you could of said something like “yea? Me too. Relationships suck, let’s go out and celebrate!”. Once you fail that kind of shit test your chances of her saying yes the second time are non existent. If she’s acting to busy for you that’s not a problem because your busy as hell too(Right?). Never try to schedule something to accommodate for their time. You want her to move on your time as yours is more important. Tell her that when she’s less busy …	/r/askTRP	22/02/21 08:47 PM
2	Is it okay to ping text a girl if you can't see her for like 2 weeks? This. She’s letting you bang so she has attraction to you. Don’t start asking her when she’s coming back, she could interpret that as needy. Let her wonder about you not the other way around.	/r/askTRP	22/02/21 08:19 PM
6	How do you not let shit like this get to you? I said “it could be the case”. I didn’t meant that’s 100% what happened. There’s plenty of other reasons a girl will suddenly drop you. It’s good to learn some of the behaviors though, so that you can better rationalize your own situations.	/r/askTRP	22/02/21 06:37 PM
5	How do you not let shit like this get to you? Your right, women have a natural abundance mindset and won’t chase you that hard. You just have to treat her as if she’s brand new again. Act high value and give slower response to texts, little time available for dates.... As if you were pursuing your other options while she was fucking off and now you need to make time for her again. Don’t just pick up right where you left off is what i meant.	/r/askTRP	22/02/21 06:34 PM
78	How do you not let shit like this get to you? Yup some advice on here is a little too harsh to actually be practical. Trial and error my friend, we all go through it. You did right by not chasing her, leave her be and she’ll return when things don’t fall through over there. When she does you don’t let her back in too quickly/easily. She’ll think twice next time.	/r/askTRP	22/02/21 02:02 PM
184	How do you not let shit like this get to you? Did you cave when she started talking that never leave me crap? You have to maintain the same frame you were in. The minute you start to act like she’s the one, your out of here. Girls are weird like that. Never let off the dread. Also keep in mind some girls have exes that they would drop everything and return to them in a heartbeat if they let them back in, could be the case here. They don’t really mean what they say in the moment like men do, they’re too emotional for that.	/r/askTRP	22/02/21 01:50 PM
2	Need advice on how to handle these tinder matches If it was me I’d just try to make something happen. Have you ever seen what a girls tinder account is like? Atleast 100x more active than yours. In 5 months you’ll be a blemish on her account if she even remembers you.	/r/askTRP	22/02/21 03:13 AM
4	Need advice on how to handle these tinder matches Dude if this isn’t scarcity mindset idk what is. If you don’t have time to bang chicks just delete the app for 5 months. Holding on to a tinder like for that long is absolutely ridiculous.	/r/askTRP	22/02/21 03:05 AM
3	How do you actually become a "Masculine Man" late in the game? Either work out and get buff, learn to fight (I’d take up boxing before martial arts), or learn to shoot and start carrying. I would get a strong hold on your mental stability before that last option though. If you freeze under pressure it won’t do you any good and actually might be ALOT worse than not having a gun.	/r/askTRP	22/02/21 03:02 AM
1	how to make your gf more submissive? Opposites attract, masculine energy pulls that shit right out of em.	/r/askTRP	21/02/21 04:11 AM
0	Where did I go wrong It’s ok to reschedule but you must make it seem like your just so busy and that was the only time you had for her. Do not schedule something within the next few days. You want your time to seem very valuable and mostly unavailable. This communicates your high value and have a lot going on. You don’t want to seem disappointed whatsoever. I’d make her wait atleast a full week or two. If she’s actually serious she’ll think really hard about flaking you next time. If it was me I’d say “ hey no prob …	/r/askTRP	21/02/21 04:07 AM
1	Should i cut out friends who view me as beta males?? I used to have this same problem. It’s important that you keep a solid frame and demand respect not only with women but with your friends as well. If your faking a strong frame in front of her and you get in front of your friends and theyre clearly treating you like a beta, she’ll instantly catch on. You have to start demanding respect from your friends. When they don’t change you start to ghost them more. Your absence will increase your respect over time. Side note: the “what are you doing with…	/r/askTRP	21/02/21 03:53 AM
3	Swings in Motivation This is why discipline is important. You need to be able to force yourself to stay on track even without motivation.	/r/askTRP	21/02/21 03:45 AM
3	What does a woman with feminine energy look like? There’s not really a “look”. Feminine energy can be brought out of even the most masculine looking women. Masculine energy and strong frame brings out feminine energy. You’ll know she’s being feminine when she’s just being really girly and submissive.	/r/askTRP	21/02/21 03:39 AM
2	How to improve my life at 25? One thing that helped me with this is the realization that I’m not in school anymore. In school your forced to attend classes and various events with your peers. In the end your pretty much forced into a social circle. Well now your an adult with no one telling you where to go. force yourself to go out and do things you wouldn’t normally do. It’s uncomfortable at first but you quickly get used to it. Before u know it you’ll land into a new social circle.	/r/askTRP	21/02/21 03:31 AM
1	Girl didn't holla. Should i address it? This. next time get her number. Women don’t really initiate contact like that, not really in their nature.	/r/askTRP	21/02/21 03:22 AM
7	Manipulated female into liking me by pretending to ignore/hating her lmao where do i go from there? Yes you know the answer, just proceed. Your either getting the number or she’ll reject, either way it’s on to the next one.	/r/askTRP	21/02/21 03:20 AM
3	Should I tell her that "I won't be a second choice"...? You don’t tell her anything. Fall back and pursue your other options. It sounds like your the one chasing her, you keep going on dates and she’s not putting out. Why would you want to ltr someone who isn’t showing you attraction? Just because she answers the phone doesn’t mean she’s attracted to you. Girls like attention and your giving it to her for free as you keep calling her and taking her out. Fall back and let her wonder about you a little dude, this is what’s killing her attraction.	/r/askTRP	20/02/21 02:35 AM
1	Ltr of 4 years wants me to sell my car when we move in because I had sex with girls in the past This is the only reason answer.	/r/askTRP	19/02/21 09:00 PM
2	Just had a first failed date, thoughts? If your asking if you were being too “clowny”, you probably were. You want to have a carefree and sexual vibe, not a friendly/goofy one. Act calm as if you’ve dated 1000 chicks and this is just another fling. Shes the one that should be afraid to mess this up. She’s a girl so it’s ok that she’s nervous, it’s feminine nature. Also don’t text them after the date like that. It’s interpreted as needy which is why she ignored it. if she had a good time she’s going to reach out to you one way or anoth…	/r/askTRP	19/02/21 08:48 PM
1	Going over to a girl for the second time ever Well she’s from okCupid so hopefully your going in with the mindset of just using her as a plate. Hold a sexual frame and don’t act all talkative and goofy. Start with innocent touches and escalate from there. She’s going to let you keep going if she truly wants to smash. If she stops you don’t act all butt hurt. Just act like you don’t give a fuck what happens because u have pussy lined up either way.	/r/askTRP	19/02/21 08:24 PM
3	Plate is totally distant, why does she keep seeing me Hey man, your in control. She’s down for whatever your down for, but remember your both human. Anything you overdue becomes boring.Try taking longer breaks with a slower build up instead of returning exactly where u left off. She probably likes u a lot to let u mindlessly bang her but that doesn’t mean she won’t get burnt out.	/r/askTRP	19/02/21 07:49 PM
6	Ltr of 4 years wants me to sell my car when we move in because I had sex with girls in the past Your currently winning. She doesn’t want to lose you to other women. Selling your car means she no longer has to worry about any competition and she can finally get some leverage in your relationship (meaning she has room to be less submissive toward you). I wouldn’t change a thing, sounds like the ball is currently in your park and she wants to make a power move.	/r/askTRP	19/02/21 05:08 PM
1	Online dating profile? You should be avoiding small talk as much as u can and saving it for the meet up, which means your profile doesn’t matter that much. I’ve had the most success with a single photo of myself looking hella good. Short and brief answers in my profile. Avoid selfies like the plague, especially if your alone in your room or something. Your entire vibe should be mysterious, serious, and not bothered because u have plenty of options. The pics you decide to use should make them want to be apart of your s…	/r/askTRP	19/02/21 04:56 PM
2	What do you guys think of this? You could definitely improve your text game. Avoid using “lol” and the laughing emojis. This ruins your masculine vibe. Also if u haven’t dated her already you don’t want to make small talk to ask her out on a date. You can just greet her then say something like: going to out to “random bar or whatever ” Friday, your free to come. You can save all the talking for the actual date and it will keep her wondering about you in the meantime.	/r/askTRP	19/02/21 04:12 PM
1	How do I grow my Instagram? The only way to organically grow is to actually post quality content. Keep in mind regular people with a lot of followers are more than likely highly sociable in real life and their IG is just a reflection of that. If your just an average joe posting your boring everyday moments, you probably won’t get anywhere unless your already known.	/r/askTRP	19/02/21 03:42 AM
1	How do I grow my Instagram? This is simply untrue. A strong IG presence is nothing more than an attention grabber. Similar to a nice car or expensive fashion. An awkward guy might get a “chance” as you said, but if your “popping” on IG and you’re cornball in person, those panties will dry up on the first date. Ugly/awkward men have been getting laid long before social media.	/r/askTRP	19/02/21 03:38 AM
2	What should we post in our instagram story to raise our SMV (selfie, mirror selfie, food, exercise,...) ? Instagram won’t raise your smv if you’re using it just to post your daily activities. This kills your mysteriousness and gives your plates a free background check on you. HOWEVER, if you’re already an influencer or host a large following for some reason, then you can use it to get ALOT of potential plates. NEVER post selfie’s. That screams your alone looking for attention. You can get away with a picture someone else has taken of you but these should be rare and meaningful. Gym posts are ok but …	/r/askTRP	19/02/21 02:23 AM