So been seeing this 20yo chick for about half a year, nearly every week.
Since the start, she does everything I tell her to do, follows my lead, makes up time for me, lets me bang multiple times a night even when she becomes sore or even when I can see she is not that aroused.
She requires minimum "maintenance" (few texts per week leading to a meet up).
Sounds perfect, right? The problem is because here is no connection at all and I am starting to feel like I am just banging piece of meat. There is no emotion at all, she is completely reserved, even if I cuddle her after sex it feels kinda forced.
First I thought she lost attraction and is on her way out but she just sticks around. She doesnt really get anything from me (yeah I pay drinks or food occasionally but so does she, lets say I spend 2/3 and she does 1/3 but this is fine since she is jobless student. She never asks me to do favors for her, like to drive her somewhere etc..
I am a bit emotionally reserved guy (takes some time for me) and I guess overused dread a bit (was going silent after meeting up constantly for months - but she never reached out on her own either) so I guess she just "gave up" and put her guard on.
She is from Tinder and she put out on first date, so another theory is that she was pumped and dumped so many times already that she is afraid to get attached to somebody. She stopped using it for like 2 months after we met but then found out I am still using it, so she did as well (this doesnt bother me). I like rough sex and I make her cum but sometimes it just feels weird..
I dont see her as LTR but I would like to keep seeing her, only if she would open up a bit more.
Any tips where it went wrong and what should I do?
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