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Hilarious. The poor girl. Has to be so good because she has pussy herpes. Keep the balance sheet in the black. I wish we could go back to the days where all women thought they had hypothetical herpes, due to their gender. On a similar note, I’ve spread mouth herpes to more than one unsuspecting victim. One such had an aggressive reaction with a fever and total mouth breakout. Thankfully I have none under the belt though. That’s a level up.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/21 11:07 PM
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So you’re still addicted to validation, you just try to get it in a different way now? Ideally, surround yourself with a close group of people that want to do what you do. Pursuing the same goals. But people bring issues - “he who travels fastest travels alone”. Some people are cut out for a solo style life, some aren’t. I’m betting that you aren’t op, so get some followers, real ones.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/21 09:03 PM
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Attention is love, love is social cohesion, women are primally built for social cohesion and connection and protection in groups. Men are too, but to a different and maybe lesser degree.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/21 02:58 AM
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"non-exclusively dating" could mean going on dates or not though. I prefer my plates to be FWBs.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/21 11:27 PM
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True, tinder game? You must live in a big city. I’m in a big town and kinda have to have a rotation.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/21 03:07 AM
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Cheers. How big is your rotation and how often are you seeing them? For informations sake. I was seeing this girl at least once a week which might have been too often.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/21 02:55 AM
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Definitely OP, if you’re making her cum she’ll be more into you. Do guys here take their plates out on dates? I just lost a plate because she wanted to go out for dinner but I said I was keen to keep it casual. Took a pretty hard line because I didn’t want to give her the wrong idea.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/21 02:32 AM
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You’re such a douche bro. You were in the false fantasy land that if she denies you sex she’s somehow higher value. And you expected a hot mid twenties to be a virgin, the likelihood of that these days has got to be near zero. Also she definitely slept with more than 4 guys. All women like sex. That this has changed your view on her suggests more about you than it does about her. You’re probably just ashamed that you’ve been talking to a girl for 9 months and have only kissed her while now you k…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 10:48 PM
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That’s a given. But if you stop jerking off and watching porn you will find a wider range of women attractive (In my experience).
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 12:41 AM
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Mate, I’m not encouraging you to grit your teeth and close your eyes and suffer through a sick feeling just to get a root. Obviously if you’re repulsed by a girl don’t fuck her! There has to be a level of attraction. A little bit extra on a girl doesn’t bother me.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 12:31 AM
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Not worth it. Just swipe on girls that you would bang.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/21 02:34 AM
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It does help because porn alters your sexual standards. I’ve never watched fat girls on porn but I’m happily fucking one. Nofap helped me be enthusiastic about that.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/21 02:30 AM
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After a two year dry spell I was getting hard for dry wall. A female body is much more stimulating than pixels on a screen and there’s much more to love ;)
/r/TheRedPill03/10/21 02:27 AM
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Thanks 319Skew, I’ve always enjoyed your writing on here and this comment makes me like you more.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/21 02:18 AM
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The problem is, she’s probably got 4 STIs
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 03:57 PM
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Takes a lot more money though. Plus there’s no desire on the prostitutes part for you. She’s doing it for money. There is many differences there and I’m surprised you even compared the two.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 03:36 PM
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It’s easy to get in the trap of thinking you need to take a girl to a restaurant or some shit though. What I’m saying is, it needs only minimal levels of effort to get sex off tinder.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 03:31 PM
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Well I was “involuntarily celibate”. Don’t get your point.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 03:14 PM
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Good for you, man. Spreading your seed wide (shotgun approach) is naturally what a man is hardwired to do. It feels better for so many more reasons (abundance mainly). Good work finding your way out of fantasy land.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/21 09:55 PM
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Some guys need a lot of work to become “alpha”. Whether it’s biological or (most probably) social conditioning - Madonna /whore complex maybe -, they find it hard to take the step necessary to become someone that works with women on a predominantly sexual level. We all need varying degrees of “relationshippy” aspects, but some guys forget that nearly all women are sexual beings all too willing to be sexual objects. And to be treated as such. The step to see women primarily as sexual beings is ne…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/21 11:12 AM
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While I agree with that on the street. In the workplace, gayer rules apply. And the consequence in that arena was me being fired. You really do have to be Machiavellian in workplaces.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 01:44 AM
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It’s good bro, another step forward in your self growth. Remember though, everyone has some insecurity or another, no ones perfect. Personal growth is great, but if you’re chasing perfection, you will always be insecure. People who obsessively try to improve themselves tend to be highly strung. Sometimes you need to give yourself a break, and breathe out. True confidence comes from accepting yourself and being happy with yourself (self esteem), and putting your own happiness with yourself above …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 01:36 AM
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Agreed. And I think this was exactly the same dynamic. Long fuse, explosion.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 08:26 AM
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Seeing him crumpled on the ground, gasping and me saying “you shouldn’t have done that”, was a momentary pleasure of justice. My reaction was pretty severe though, because like I said, if you let it build up, you do irrational things.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 08:20 AM
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I had a job in car sales where my boundaries weren’t enforced by me and crossed so often they dissolved and I became a stressed lackey, running around like a headless chicken. This was the case for months. Till on one particular day there was another overstepping of my boundary (verbal “bullying”) then later in the day a salesman hit my jacket out of my hand and then didn’t pick it up when asked. I went home and stewed, then the next day I came to work and kneed him in the guts - the force of wh…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 07:15 AM
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Cutting carbs as much as possible will help you lose weight.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 08:06 AM
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Lowering your standards can actually be a good thing. Much more pussy. And unlike what you said about the sex not being as hot, they often are very eager to sleep with a man that is above them, attractiveness wise, so their eagerness can often be turned into BDSM style kinky stuff. If you don’t watch porn and jerk off to 8+‘s on the internet, you are horny enough to bang lower rated bitches, and also let some of your wilder side out.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 01:16 AM
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Yeah but you might get the support you need. Think of yourself a bit brother.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/21 05:06 AM
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Great post man. For all the “how do I bang a girl quick” posts, this is actually the real deal. Dealing with death in your own hands. My (layman’s) advice would be, when your family asks how your day was, be honest. Tell them “I cut down a dead man hanging from a tree”. You’re family is there to support you. You don’t need to be blubbering when you say it, but just an honest expression of what that meant for you. If they love you, they will support you in any way they can. I’m not an American, b…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/21 02:49 AM
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I can see that being the case. Girls just looking for validation. However sometimes you can leverage that initial validation seeking to pussy on your dinner plate, no?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 07:15 AM
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Well there you go. I’ve never been into SM and use the dating apps and real life and also found that it was enough. It would be nice having hot girls reaching out to you on SM though.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 07:08 AM
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Hot tip - delete social media, limit your reddit subscriptions. Turns your brain to mush and kills productivity. The only way I would say to keep social media is if you have a really big following and/or score bitches off it.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 06:14 AM
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Thanks for the tips man. I’ve actually lined up a root (Aussie) for next Tuesday. Busy sexting her tonight, she’s saying she’s not gonna wear any panties and we’re talking about all the kinky shit we’re gonna do. Aaaand now I have blueballs. Haha. So tempting to beat one out but I’m gonna hold off. I’m kinda afraid that I will come really quick with her so yeah I’ll take my time.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 01:08 PM
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The two go hand in hand for me. Edit: I mean porn and masturbation. But I agree that having a bash once a week without porn is probably good.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/21 12:05 AM
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See, this is back to healthy functioning! Top work man. I notice my morning wood has returned after a week.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/21 12:29 AM
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Personally I think that is still not as good as finding sex but much better than porn
/r/TheRedPill13/09/21 12:20 AM
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Hopefully when I hit 90 days I’ll make another post for you, sweety.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 03:12 PM
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You keep editing your comments after posting them, don’t do that. You sound MGTOW, good luck to you. Keep fapping away.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 02:59 PM
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Ok, I stand corrected on the oxytocin. But the point of that brain chemical is to bond people - in this case you and your sexual partner. The chemical release is the same, however the social and self image effects are not. Having real sex trumps porn and masturbation and if you get in a place of nullified comfort with the hottest girls the world has to offer on your pc screen, you won’t go for real girls as much (this is how it is for me and I’m guessing many others). Added to this is the feelin…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 02:31 PM
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Well man, it makes you feel more powerful, in my case anyway. Probably more a feeling of being in control and not an addict to high speed porn.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 02:23 PM
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Retain that sexual desire, motivation. Let’s split hairs shall we?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 02:19 PM
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Yessir, I’ll delete the comment because you told me. Idiot. The same chemical reaction doesn’t occur - for example you get oxytocin with real sex, not so fapping. You seem to be saying that sex and fapping to porn are the same, I would argue they are drastically different. With one being healthy, the other, not so. As either sex or fapping is an eventual inevitability, I know which one I’d choose. And as one of the main goals of this sub is to get girls, and Nofap assists in that pursuit, I thin…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 02:17 PM
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Instead of wanking so these girls become invisible, why not retain that power so you can approach them?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 02:11 PM
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7 days was all I needed to see a positive change so why not do it?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 02:08 PM
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Sex with real women creates relationships and REAL memorable experiences. Fapping does not. When you fap, you don’t have it in you to pursue real sex. Real sex doesn’t come with the shame. In fact, it’s actually a boost to your confidence.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 01:58 PM
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Did that not lead to more or better sex though?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 11:44 AM
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It makes you more in control of your sexuality. There's a difference between walking up to a girl in a weak state vs a strong state. Nofap makes you feel stronger in your sexuality.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 11:41 AM
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I think nofap leads you to become healthy again. Porn and masturbation causes all sorts of negative effects and when you remove the habit, you get back to a healthy state. You're probably not noticing the dramatic change because you aren't coming from as low a place now as you've established a healthy (higher) baseline.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 11:39 AM
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If it is removing your social anxiety then it's worth it, no?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 11:30 AM
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It's called nofap dummy. Sex is fine, of course.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 11:27 AM
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Went to Thailand when I was 19. Good looking, blonde blue eyed. Hooking up with horny Thai bar girls was a breeze. Over six weeks I slept with 6 Thai girls (paid for 2), and hooked up with 1 British tourist. If you’re attractive and white, the Thai girls will be all over your dick and you don’t have to pay.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 05:29 AM
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That’s great. But we’re getting off track here. My point is: the business analogy sucks. We aren’t products. Products don’t have thoughts, goals, dreams, consciousness, souls. It’s an indictment on modern society that we are referring to ourselves as “products” in a “marketplace”. Products are bought, then sold or thrown away. Humans shouldn’t be referring to themselves like that.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 01:51 PM
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Dude, I can tell by the post and this comment that you are the most fragile mf. I bet you look in the mirror and cry.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 01:43 PM
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We’re speaking at angles here. Many analogies can be made to dating eg building “sex is the foundation of any relationship (house), if the foundation is shit the relationship will fall down” ad infinitum. I just find the business analogy particularly grating. Sleazy salesmen selling a “product” (if you want to think of yourself as a product, go ahead), money exchanging hands, buying selling, firing hiring. It’s particularly American (in a bad way) to apply a business analogy to sexual dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 01:41 PM
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Hasn’t it been shown that the underlying assumption in economics that people make rational decisions is false? This would be doubly true when looking at the decisions people make under the influence of lust or love. I find it takes all of the poetry or romance out of the love-mating game to compare it with marketplaces and economics.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 11:55 AM
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As economics was created long after the nature of sexual dynamics, what “reality” are you talking about?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 10:16 AM
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Call me a romantic but I find the business-romance analogy off-putting. We’ve commodified nearly everything in this world it seems.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 07:40 AM
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Karma is bs. There’s only your own conscience and other peoples reactions to your behaviour. Trusting your gut. Exactly. This is why putting conscious effort into manipulating people is pointless. Spinning mental webs to try to get a result is not a strong man’s way. All you need to understand is human nature, yourself and the person you’re dealing with. Why be a spider when you can be a lion?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/21 11:22 PM
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I once walked into a relatively empty dance floor in a club/pub and a girl just walked up and started twerking on me, bent over
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 11:21 PM
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“lean, modelesque in my physique, and somewhat tall, plus uniquely handsome” - you jack off with a mirror in front and behind you, don’t you? Jks man. It must be weird being Uber good looking but insecure. I have the opposite problem.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 12:25 AM
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Do you fuck your boys in the pussy? Sure, do it with her. What you really mean is, don’t be intimidated by her.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 10:35 AM
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OP, have you implemented these strategies? How long have you been with your girl?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 03:31 AM
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By righteous goals I mean “getting strong so you can protect yourself/your family/your kids”, “financial independence so you’re not reliant on anyone”, you get the picture. Unconcern actually makes you able to be charming and unreactive, which both help becoming socially calibrated. Too much social “calibration” makes you a spineless chump anyway.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 05:12 AM
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I'll bite. How is it cognitive bias?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 12:13 AM
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I’m about 4 days without cumming. The extra libido does make you want to get out and see women
/r/TheRedPill27/08/21 02:03 AM
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Yeah I agree with that. Plenty of little girls (mentally) with big muscles. I get what you are saying. For it to be genuine it has to be ingrained as a mindset, not acted like a poser.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 04:00 PM
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If 80+% of the west is getting the jab, do you really think there’s anything to fear? I want to caveat this to say that I don’t subscribe to what the mainstream thinks is good by default but when it comes to disease control the health organisations tend to be ok. Take the other vaccines for instance. I’m sure you’ve got a few of them in your system being an international traveller. RE: Mexico, you make a convincing argument about living abroad, though SE Asia is more popular for Aussies. Reckon …
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 07:39 AM
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Though I don’t think the vaccine isn’t some mind control conspiracy - I see it as a necessary evil - and live in regional Australia, where much of the American shit doesn’t happen, you’re posts never fail to have me in stitches.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 06:56 AM
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It always makes me super horny to see a girl play with herself in front of me. Extra for sucking me off and playing with herself. Confidence and comfort are the two things that are factors. If you are really confident you don’t need much comfort. If you are a bit anxious, you need a bit more comfort (snuggling etc).
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 04:30 AM
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True, correct. It doesn’t take much for a socially attuned guy to realise that a girl is not into you. But you need to have a little bit of a blunted perception of it, unless you’ll give off the vibe of being too reactive to her. The key is being aware of the girls signals without being sensitive to them.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 04:13 AM
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I just want to express my gratitude for this community. There is no other place that encourages and teaches men as well as this on reddit. I hope the new rules are tight but not too tight. Onwards and upwards.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 04:05 AM
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OP, what’s the takeaway from this post? That life is hard? That’s pretty conventional wisdom. You’re painting with broad brushstrokes that give no specific answers. The reason that red pill often boils down to: “lift heavy weights to improve your life and SMV” is because that is objectively true. And actionable. I wrote a post “you’re going to have to fight” or something like that which echoes your post. The problem is if you take TRP as a philosophy, that creates problems. Philosophy is airy. B…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 03:27 AM
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Just share something relevant about yourself to the conversation. A natural conversation should have both questions and statements. To be fair, if they are a shit conversationalist they won’t ask questions about your statements, though.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 03:12 AM
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Doesn’t sound like you are genuinely interested then. Go deeper.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 02:49 AM
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Share something about yourself that relates to what you are talking about.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 02:48 AM
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Lol at having more sex to be above average quantitative metrics.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 09:58 AM
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Nah, trust your gut. Attention is a woman’s currency. It is pretty shitty behaviour on her part but confronting her on it makes it very easy for you to look beta and butthurt. So make sure your frame is solid before going down that path. Just withdraw your attention for a while till you’re ready.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 05:10 AM
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I’m tagging on to top comment here: OP, if you are nonchalant about this type of jealousy play, it will be better for you. You don’t necessarily have to take the phone, invest, and say “he’s cute” as that’s kind of sounding like you’re her girlfriend. If you are actually not afraid to lose her, that does play on her mind as it makes it clear you can replace her (and this is in fact what she’s saying to you). “Good for you babe” or “that’s cool” IMO is much better with little interest.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 02:44 AM
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Everything in your post is logical and good - except weighted dips and pull-ups when you’re obese 😆
/r/TheRedPill24/08/21 03:17 AM
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Yeah I’m in the “little bit of crazy” loving camp. Each girl brings something to the table don’t they (hopefully), so if you like the crazy, hot ones, stick to it. Boring girl that cleans the house is also nice though.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 07:01 AM
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Women chase feels. Compliments, gifts, validation all give them the cherished feeling they love. They need signals of acceptance. But deep down they know, if it comes cheap, it’s worthless. That’s why a man that can hold strong to his frame and not buckle at petulant demands stands out from the crowd. Taking the positive in this, the white knights are so rubbery that they make a normal dude look like rocky balboa.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 06:24 AM
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For a girl like Alice, there’s a huge chasm between what her nature propels her to do and what society deems respectable. Women need to be told what is acceptable. Society at large says chastity before marriage (a religious relic but it hangs on) is a respectable woman’s life. Alice hears that, but her nature leads her to pursue intense, adventurous experience, particularly sexual experience. It must be hard being a girl like Alice. Now she just wants to be a sex slave and Daddy will tell her wh…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 06:12 AM
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You didn’t mention the word courage once. And that’s the essence of your post. Taking action in risky situations requires courage. Too much courage looks like stupidity. Sitting behind a computer all day requires no courage and is comfortable.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/21 12:43 PM
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That’s at the bottom of the bell curve. Ignoring the tips of the bell curve, behaviour is what women find most attractive. You can greatly improve your success by improving your behaviour without changing your looks.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/21 11:43 AM
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I agree with most of what you said. There is a huge grey area with men. Men in that grey area will judged by women as “hot or not” based on the behaviour or personality of those men. Then there is the genetically gifted that don’t need to do shit, and the sinfully ugly. I consider myself average or slightly above average looking. 6 foot blonde, blue eyed but with bad teeth. Women’s reactions to me have been all across the spectrum. If a guy sees a mopey chick he will see that vulnerability as en…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/21 11:41 AM
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This is good advice, with a caveat. In my experience women have called my honesty in non commitment “refreshing” but then complained because they “didn’t know where they stood”. If you want to play the casual game you need to be either good in bed or exciting in some other way, otherwise the relationship can start be low benefit for her and she will bounce.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 06:13 AM
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To me, this sounds utterly sperg and ridiculous. The takeaway is this, never consider yourself out of anyone’s league. Hit on anyone that you want to or find attractive. Water finds its level. Do t worry about or become self conscious of where you sit in any hierarchy because the man that flaunts said heirarchy is the man that gets pussy. Fair, you may not be able to keep a hot model but you may be able to slip it in for a night. And sometimes that’s enough, then you don’t have to deal with the …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 06:08 AM
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Everyone’s got autism nowadays. Probably just a shy, hot nerd. Good combo though.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/21 06:54 AM
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Thanks OP for actually getting real with how women and men are judged in the sexual marketplace. What you said is true. Betas focus on this: Average looking women can get sex easily by virtue of being average looking. Average looking men, not so much. That makes them cry and wail. The solution is to be outstanding in SOME way.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/21 06:28 AM
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The lesson is to approach because more effort makes you “lucky” enough to get a receptive girl.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 12:50 AM
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The title of the next top post: Be Observant
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 12:26 AM
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The point of my reply: that’s an obvious point.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/21 11:13 PM
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Chicks who dress slutty generally are slutty. Well done sir, genius insights.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/21 10:07 PM
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Just do what you want. If you want to bone her 3 times a week, invite her over. Don’t go for explicit commitment, let it happen naturally.
/r/askTRP14/07/21 12:36 AM
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Fair enough, people sometimes think they’ve hit their targets if they step foot in the gym. But that again is the first step to becoming educated and proficient in lifting weights no? Seems like it’s just a level of advancement issue. OP is talking about beginner level improvements and how to get of the couch. You were at that stage at one point I bet.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/21 02:23 AM
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This stuff does sound like hamster wheel behaviour, but what if the activities that he was going for were lifting weights, reading, and meditating? Then the planning and obsessing at the start would not be futile, eventually leading to a natural uptake of the activities into the flow of your life. This is the first step to self development.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/21 07:01 PM
30

This kind of stuff is for people who don’t feel intrinsically motivated to workout/read/meditate or whatever other positive habit. Some self disciplining and autistic planning can be helpful in the early parts of habit formation.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/21 02:54 PM
1

That’s the attitude. If you’ve worked out the being nice and normal doesn’t work, perhaps the opposite will be effective. Ie do what you want, and if you fail at least you’ve acted truly, rather than failing by trying to be nice and normal. It’s tinder remember.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/21 11:27 AM
3

As you’ve found, the OLD market is a bit skewed. You’d do better in real life if you have have confidence. Other than that, perhaps be a bit more aggressive when trying to go for the lay. As this friend showed she will catch dick and probably wanted to but you didn’t move in that direction so gave off friend vibes to her.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/21 02:59 AM
1

Absolutely agree. Also if you play some game of never ending improvement while intentionally not approaching women, you’ll likely develop some false beliefs about the standards of women and also believe that they are some kind of rarified species that is untouchable except for the elite. Dudes - chicks are basic and if you turn them on they will want to fuck, just like you. All this top 5% stuff leads to false beliefs. As OP said, being charming/confident/witty will immediately make you attracti…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/21 09:58 AM
8

Also (and this might sound bad for the feminists and sensitive), some women need violence in a relationship due to pathologies in themselves. And they subconsciously seek it and incite in men because they need it to feel “normal”. These women should be avoided because there is no winning for either party in a relationship like that.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/21 02:20 AM
21

Sounds like you got game now son. “One doesn’t really have to thurst hard” - pretty much sums up TRP.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 03:01 PM
1

But as we know being in the top 20% can be just being the most interesting person in the room. In my history I’ve had 7s as girlfriends. I admit that my recent performance is not that and OLD DRASTICALLY underperforms but the world hasn’t turned upside down in the last 5 years and you can still get 7s if you’re decent. And by decent I mean someone who is confident, tall enough, not ugly, and has a personality. That has been true for me anyway.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 10:05 AM
3

You have to be kidding. Busting someone’s chops calling them that is… it just is.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/21 08:20 AM
1

Sure, I should’ve added, “if you’re ahead physically with some sort of personality”, the amount of dudes here that must have no presence or edge baffles me
/r/askTRP19/06/21 05:24 AM
1

Man that shit is overrated. If you have presence and some sort of personality with decent fitness you can get hot women. “Hot women” includes 7s
/r/askTRP19/06/21 05:22 AM
1

You pretty much disagreed with yourself there. Would you expect a hot tanned blonde to have sex with a fit dude or a fat dude?
/r/askTRP19/06/21 05:21 AM
86

I’d say if you compared the average male American you’d see equally sad results. If you’re ahead of the bell curve, you can expect to hit those ahead of the bell curve.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:10 AM
2

If you’re hiding yourself due to fear then you need to confront things.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 09:33 AM
1

Turn your plates into FWBs
/r/askTRP15/05/21 11:14 AM
1

I’ve never done that. She just said to me one time and it was pretty amazing how effective it was.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 11:45 AM
1

Develop your intellect.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:48 AM
5

Find people who are on your level. You may also have a superiority complex.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:31 AM
1

Be your own boss.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:29 AM
-2

I think marriage is good fo men that would otherwise have to work hard for female attention.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:29 AM
1

It took me a while to make a casual girlfriend of mine cum. She had to communicate what she liked.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:23 AM
2

You need to be your own man. Getting in a relationship is not becoming a beta, it’s an agreement between two parties to commit to each other. Fuck, dude, you really need to work on yourself. If the same thing keeps happening over and over, the problem is you.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:21 AM
11

Dude, you sound very insecure and kind of became defeated by her. That is not love and that is not strong, nor is it masculine. Something says to me that you have some very unhealthy attachment styles that probably need a lot of self work. And just a lot of self work in general.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:16 AM
16

Some of the things sound strange in your post. “I’m on the brink of showing her affection I ghost her because I’d be suspicious it will ultimately make her leave” “I finally gave in to her and she assured me it’ll be ok and I got comfortable.” It sounds like you had a conversation with her about your insecurities then became a beta. Don’t be afraid to love and don’t be afraid to be strong.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:07 AM
2

I guess you are right. I should have said taking cues from what a woman says she wants is inherently futile. You still can’t become what you are not, so pretending to be something for the sake of getting a woman is also inherently futile.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 03:43 AM
1

Yeah that’s a fault balanced view, I agree. When you have hate for the other gender, you can’t love properly. If this chick is deliberately avoiding help from a man, she is not behaving femininely and will repulse men. That’s what you are getting at is happening on a wider scale. Truth.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 03:33 AM
36

Trying to understand what women want and adapting to it is inherently futile and beta.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:48 PM
5

You’re adding to the normal approach anxiety etc, the anxiety of being a virgin. Pursue sex with a “take it or leave it” mentality. It will come to you if you open yourself to life. Pursue life, sex will follow.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:25 AM
2

You seem to be going a long way out of your way to prove male superiority. So you’re coming off as as much of a clown as she apparently is. Tbf, I don’t know shit about cars. Can replace the fluids and change a headlight/windscreen wiper. That this chick thinks she’s having a win for feminism is probably ridiculous, but she was probably scared shitless when doing this stuff. She knows she would rather have a man to do it but doesn’t have one so she took independent action. Most chicks would fall…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 10:56 AM
4

Depends on her tone. “Stop flirting with me” with a giggle and submissive gesture or touch means “rail me as soon as possible, I’m wetter than the Amazon river”. Whereas a cold “stop flirting with me” in a dismissive tone is “fuck off”. Edit: even if it is the second one, you could still push through, but go on your gut feeling.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 10:33 AM
2

Yes you can. But it’s in your intention. If you’re doing it to hurt her, she’ll walk or fight back (in her way). If it’s based in loving humour then you can bust her chops.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 10:28 AM
3

5 year plate. That’s a long time. Probably more than a plate, no? At this point, it would be pretty limp to just walk away wouldn’t it? She’s testing you. You can take the piss out of her if it’s ridiculous. Eg “I don’t even like sex”, “join a nunnery then”. Or if it’s based in truth, you can see what she’s saying and address it. How’s your sex together? Sounds like she’s communicating that she’s not enjoying your sex. It’s a woman’s job to challenge and inspire a man. Sometimes you need to rise…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 10:25 AM
5

"Theres a lot of posts that say one of the items listed in the title is the "most important" or that all of them are equally as important. Both of them are wrong." "So yes, theyre all important." You've pretty much contradicted yourself here but yes, all things should be improved. A strength in one may make up for a deficiency in another, but high quality women want all of the above, with a cherry on top. Confidence is catnip but if you're fat, you won't attract the hotties to bed unless you're …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 09:04 AM
5

The thing is, if you give a woman no commitment, she may walk away. A self-respecting woman can sense if she's getting a bum deal. Edit: caveat to this, if you are relatively higher value, and thus dominant over her and desirable to her, you can get what you want more often than she does.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:54 AM
2

Raise your energy - meditate, don't watch porn or masturbate, exercise. Form habits. Prioritise your values - if you think something is a waste of time, you owe it to yourself to not do it.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:50 AM
1

That’s in the past, bro. Ones level of understanding varies from time to time. Hopefully always in an upward direction. But not necessarily so. Because I watched shemale porn in the past doesn’t mean you are right about what you are valuing.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 06:48 AM
2

Sounds like a pretty dumb, normie based lie doesn’t it?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 02:49 AM
11

“Women are heroes - men are bad, dumb or useless - and people who aren’t normies are killers.”
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 02:13 AM
2

So you talk about decidedly girly stuff. That’s cool and all but you don’t want to marinate in that shit too long. It will shrink your brain, and your balls.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 12:29 AM
8

All this could be summed up as - act in line with yourself. If you spend your time worrying about not offending Jane, because Jane gives you social proof and Jane is friends with Samantha who’s hot as fuck and so on, you have begun to think like a woman, who is obsessed with social niceties and appearances. It’s better to be a someone who acts truly, even if that means burning a few people. People are mostly dumb anyway. One caveat to this is, you obviously can’t call your female friend at work …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/21 01:18 PM
119

Two extremes. Be direct or be indirect. The top seducers are witty and smart and use indirect game well. Think of James Bond. Some women love that shit but it’s not how a totally masculine man communicates. He’s also immoral and uses women. The way I’ve gotten around this is to tell myself. “Do what’s right”. That usually involves a level of directness and non manipulation. Works with some, not others. Sometimes a girl wants a bad guy snake. Sometimes she wants an honourable leader. Not any “tec…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 12:00 PM
2

No worries man. Sometimes you have to live it to learn from it. But wisdom shared in truth and in the spirit of help can sometimes get through. Good luck to you man, you’ll be fine. Remember to trust your own mind and question things and take action.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:01 AM
9

She’s trying to test you by sub communicating “you forget what I’m saying, are you paying attention?” Most men don’t listen to their girl like a drill sergeant, so you gotta show you appreciate her in other ways. Predominantly physically.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:16 AM
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When you’re king shit, all the flies circle. Of course being socially connected is great, and if you are high value, you will attract people to you. But sometimes, the normies are insufferable. Especially the normie women, and usually id rather not have a chick that I don’t bone hang around me. I suppose it has happened and they are treated as an irrelevance but sometimes if you want to live an authentic life you have to blow some of those flies away.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/21 10:06 AM
2

Honestly, I’ve done it before too, once. A girl saw me at my lowest, I moved and we stayed in touch. I was on the phone to her all the time for long periods of time. Made it “exclusive” after a while over the phone. She decided to fly over and see me from the other side of Australia and we holed up in a hotel and banged for 5 days. I think I said I loved her and I wanted her to move her whole life over from the other side of the country. She was kind of positive about it. She went back home and …
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:35 AM
4

Ok, so assumedly at some point you will run out of cash if you don’t take some profit for yourself? Yes, I can see why you would identify with it because it has given you a lot of cash. It has been a monetary gain. But if it goes bad, you will identify with it still and it might crush you. Apparently the anxiety of this happening is already crushing you. You don’t need to become a monk, but getting some perspective on it may help. Sources are anything on Buddhism’s take on ego identification. Re…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:19 AM
4

Firstly a practical question, how do you live if you have no job and take no income from your investments? Now, on to what you asked. As you said, you have been swept up in an “all in” position where there is high risk and potential reward. This creates stress and anxiety, as you’ve said, and it also makes you addicted to the highs AND lows. You have become identified with an external phenomena and you’ve put your whole sense of meaning into it. I think you understand how risky that is, as if it…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 08:52 AM
0

Ex was better than present opportunity.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 07:13 AM
1

LOL. Honesty time for me also. I went through a stage where I watched shemale porn. The genitals didn't get me off and I skipped to the doggy position so I didn't have to see them. I got really spooked by this and researched it, to make sure I wasn't gay. It turns out shemale porn is watched by only heterosexual males, not gays. Hetero men are attracted to the feminine, and (nearly) everything about them is feminine. It's also a problem of novelty seeking and taboo in porn watching which is not …
/r/askTRP12/05/21 07:07 AM
166

The "alpha" way would be to follow the direction of your own arousal. The blueprint for sex is written deeply within your dna. You need to do what comes naturally to you. That is all.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:56 AM
1

You are magnifying minor things bro! If you are like this about this, what are you going to do when she rolls her eyes at you? Or doesn't laugh at one of your jokes. "Hey, looks like I'm free Friday. 9:30 at McDonalds? Sincerely, overthinker."
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:49 AM
3

Firstly, LDRs are always a waste of time. Women inherently disrespect a man that gives them every emotional and communicative aspect of themselves (3 hour long phone calls don't make a woman want you) without getting anything in return except her words. YOU WERE HER FRIEND. And it's always highly possible that while you are her emotional tampon and showing her your feminine side she's getting dick from a more masculine man. It also shows scarcity, and a lack of ability of the man to secure pussy…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:31 AM
2

Because it’s a concrete number that can be compared with others to stimulate ones ego.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:04 AM
6

Easypeasy method. (Google it)
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:00 AM
2

I was actually thinking this today. We are a society that values appearances, and sometimes the appearance of a well presented, attractive, apparently nice and well respected woman can hide some real ugly truths beneath. It’s an illusion that needs to be shattered by prioritising other qualities than “hot”. Once you can identify things that you want other than “hot”, certainly, you can promote them to LTR. Because if you find a girl with these qualities she’s a rare breed, especially if she’s ho…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:57 AM
1

Yeah I dig that man. I thought I could get on some level with you. I saw Stacy as meaning a particular sort of vacuous bitch but you see her as just a hot chick. Yeah definitely, if pussy is the thing that gets you off the couch then good luck. I’m 30 now and had some experience (def not a player) and I value things above pussy, particularly knowledge and enlightenment. You might think that sounds weird but when you see women as just sex objects (a lower base need), and then spend all your menta…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/21 11:40 AM
15

Yeah that’s feminine but not all women are feminine and submissive. Especially career minded “go getters” who earn six figures but cry themselves to sleep each night because “there’s no good men left”. Its just that they’ve become so hardened and controlling that they aren’t women anymore. It’s them that have forgotten how to submit because they’ve been told that to be successful they need to be men. And to make it in that world they probably do.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/21 11:09 AM
12

Defining women is not the same as defining femininity. As you can have masculine women, women who do both femininity and masculinity, and women who are always feminine. Same applies to men. But I think you can define femininity.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/21 10:46 AM
1

Girls are not starved of attention. They’re getting more attention than ever before. They know that their body is a weapon, and now it is acceptable to bare arms (see what I did there). It’s a power play, not a scream to be hit on. In fact, I feel more comfortable hitting on a girl in normal clothes over bikinis, gym short shorts etc. don’t know if that’s beta but just how I feel.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 09:17 AM
1

You’re in her friendzone and she sounds like a narcissistic bitch. She’s a “situational 10”, meaning the hottest girl in a group that everyone wants to bang. This inflates their ego to enormous levels. I’ve been in exactly the same situation. All in all, not a situation worth pursuing. Highly dangerous to your work situation and playing with fire. She has you snagged already. Let her fade away from your life as much as you can.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 09:12 AM
2

Yes and his baldness doesn’t detract from his persona. He got voted in some normie magazine “sexiest man alive”. If baldness was repulsive, that wouldn’t happen.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:01 AM
1

The right skull. Yes they have an unattractive bone structure, which is independent from their hair. If you have a good bone structure, being bald is just a style.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:41 AM
1

I agree, you often need to work through something to get real freedom. And being given things on a silver platter can be destructive. But choosing what to work through, and what reward is sought needs to be thought about. Seeing women as a commodity devalues them, so why would you chase something with no value. “Stacy”, to me, suggests a soulless barbie. Not all women are this. But to be validated by a soulless barbie’s affections suggests something defective in oneself. Also as most men say, on…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/21 05:22 AM
2

The point is to prove that baldness alone doesn’t make you unattractive.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:14 AM
89

While you say that women see being feminine is weak, is because it is. The feminine isn’t independent. It relies on external direction. Many women have (subconsciously or consciously) lost this part of themselves to be more independent agents in a world that’s based on rationality and structure. (Designed by men). Most women have a switch and can flip between the two modes and energy. She’ll be hard and angular at work, then melt into pure life force when she comes home to the right man. But she…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/21 03:57 AM
1

I think you know MOST women aren’t like her. But it is more “acceptable” to be sexually open, even slutty for women these days. The girl you are speaking of is in the small minority, but for example in Australia, there was a girl that went on the Bachelor - Abbie Chatfield. She gained a name for herself by making overt moves on the Bachelor and being very sexual and flirtatious. All the girls hated her because she was “cheating” at the game. Ie was making herself easy and getting her hooks in th…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:25 AM
6

Is Vin Diesel ugly? The rock? If you’re unhappy with your do, shave it off.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:24 AM
1

That’s great you have reached your goal. I understand that’s it’s not quite equal. But I was talking about sex appeal only. And I think we can both agree that 10% body fat will be more likely to create sexual attraction than 20% and so on.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:55 AM
2

What got you into the drug addiction, bad health and crippling depression? Something as simple as talking shit about women got you out of it? Again, you’re getting halfway there. You might have made it out of your drug addiction, but now you’re addicted to women. Which is potentially better, but not necessarily. These men might be unhealthy, but getting them to ditch their depression and antisocialism for a conformity and acceptance of the mainstream values will not make them happier. It’s just …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/21 12:50 AM
1

Maybe I was wrong and she’s just a wild one. If you’re young it doesn’t matter what happens. You’ll learn something anyway! Edit: don’t text or call too much
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:19 PM
2

No problem man. Women are great but can actually be an impediment to your growth and understanding. If you find a girl that really gets behind you and your path, you have a keeper.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:14 PM
8

This is true. But generally speaking, if a twenty year old hotty - which is the true expression of female sexual desire - had the choice between fit or unfit for sex, you know what she’s pick 99% of the time.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:41 PM
2

Love can mean a million different things. You say in you’re post that you’re a man of principle, but then make a point of mentioning non-commitment and plates to her, inferring to her that she wasn’t special. If your principles are non-commitment, then her going overseas wouldn’t bother you at all. What’s really happened is she’s tested your facade and it’s crumbled. You’ve shown the depth of her meaning to you by your reaction, even though you tried to pretend all along that she was not much at…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:33 PM
1

You can serve the world by elevating your consciousness, gaining knowledge and seeking wisdom and truth. At the moment you seem to be self centric and lazy and disengaged. This could be solved by some work on yourself by going inward instead of going to sleep in your video games, which is really an escape of reality, which is what you seem to want to do. Your path needs to be to discover reality. This might sound like hippy dippy preaching, but it’s the only sure fire way to increase the QUALITY…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:21 PM
19

I don’t understand why you would “break up” with her, then want her around as a FWB. Then want to repeat the same question after the answer was “no”, AKA beg. Sounds like you still like her and this was some weird power play. The better play would have been to slowly wind down frequency of contact to desired levels through less communication and less contact. Explicitly breaking up with a girl, then saying, “I still want to fuck you though”, is a ballsy play and she handled it quite maturely, re…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:14 PM
10

If she asked to have you back, would you do it?
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:09 PM
6

I’m all about positive action. But aligning your actions too hard with the normie mainstream may produce undesirable results also. The answer is positive action in a direction aligned with your own liberation from the status quo, not freedom (or success as you put it) within the bounds of the status quo.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 11:35 AM
7

Sounds like you've given up on being your own man
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 10:49 AM
3

I think your real problem is on a level of general lack of purpose. And you are falsely believing that "young 9/10s" will fill the hole inside of you. Once you get it, it's not that great. As you have realised with your financial independence and stable marriage.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 10:45 AM
1

This woman sounds like a nightmare man. And you sound like a young chump. But that's ok, maybe you can make it work lol. She's thrown a few red flags which you have sped past at 1130 km/h and now she's tryna betaise your chump ass further. Personally, I would start again somewhere else based on her behaviour, but if you stay with her you better wise up fast or you're gonna get damaged.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 10:30 AM
5

You are so far from the "alpha male" that you want to be, man.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 10:01 AM
8

You sound controlling, jealous and petty. If the girl wants to travel solo, let her do that. You said you want to spin plates and not get married but you're freaking out over this. You sound like a confused, insecure child. RP woke man.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 10:00 AM
2

Mark Manson (has mixed reviews around here) wrote that that is exactly true. Considering attractiveness is such a leg-up in the mating/dating game, it is expected for attractive men to be experienced. If they're not, the woman has to question why, and the probable answer is that you're lacking in confidence. Which as we know is a big contributor to male attractiveness for women. Thus it is a bit of a turn-off for them as it makes them unsure of you in a negative way. If I was you, I wouldn't mak…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:55 AM
1

The tip is to move your focus from valuing external bullshit things to proper things, mostly internal knowledge. Once you have realised internal peace and satisfaction and knowledge, you won't be as needy. You have said you are meditating but it doesn't sound like you've had many break throughs.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:45 AM
5

Words are wind as they say. And women love to talk. Would you trust what a used car salesman says to you? No, because you know he has a motive, and that motive is to take as much money from you as possible. Women have some common motives and some individual ones, and most are not evil. It's just that women and men have reproductive motives that are sometimes unaligned. Hence, a power struggle happens in those scenarios. What you need to do is understand the intention/motive behind the words/acti…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:38 AM
13

This is the response to listen to OP. She's keen to have sex with you.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:26 AM
1

Moral and healthy men. “Bad” men tend to be more destructive and self serving. (Probably not watertight but you get the gist).
/r/askTRP10/05/21 05:18 AM
6

Answer honestly dude. No one can give you your reason, and if you used it it would be BS. ??
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:43 AM
2

hey can you send me some tasteful sexy photos? She might enjoy getting creative, then it's a slippery slope.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:37 AM
5

Yes and the manosphere is becoming more “mainstream” so more bullshit is being injected. Also, money is becoming a factor. False idols cashing in.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 02:39 AM
1

Women tend to be solipsistic so only worry about their own feelings. Men tend to be protective of the herd (if they are “good”). Also men tend to like clear, understood boundaries in relationships, where, again women just want to feel things.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:36 AM
108

Simple question. Are you attracted to have sex with fit, slimmer women? The same applies in reverse.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:33 AM
5

“The only thing you need to trust is your own experience” - sadhguru Any advice should be critically thought about, and tested before being believed. The Manosphere was supposed to be a place where evidence based strategies were taught and applied. Unfortunately, it has become bloated, and with lots of people comes lots of bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 02:30 AM
5

I truly don’t think some high end clothes could hurt in some tasteful photographs. A nice apartment is necessary. Buying a Porsche is obviously pretty wild, but you could be a douche and pose in front of a rental for an OLD profile. I don’t agree with the sentiment but considering the amount of shit girls do to look good, fair game. This is just one angle, the wealth angle, but considering that is your biggest pulling card, you might as well use it. Guys say don’t look like a rich guy because of…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 03:24 PM
19

Create an OLD profile that displays your wealth subtly and tastefully - nice clothes, nice apartment, nice locations, maybe nice car, not hard to fake an interesting lifestyle. Hopefully your semi attractive as well. Then just filter for sluts that wanna bang a wealthier guy. Obviously don’t give them anything, just set the lure with that.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 02:48 PM
9

“Divorce is shame for family and brings pain to kids”. Her fault.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 02:11 PM
2

Loose frame is bad. Picture might fall out.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 02:06 PM
2

I truly hope you have a daughter older than her
/r/askTRP09/05/21 01:45 PM
1

First part was a joke. Second part means shoot for as high quality girls as you want. You’ll eventually find your sweet spot.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 01:44 PM
2

Flip the script. Start dating down - but with men. Give them a taste of what they’ve never had. “Shoot for the stars and if you fall, land on the moon.”
/r/askTRP09/05/21 01:31 PM
1

It doesn’t mean your not either
/r/askTRP09/05/21 10:26 AM
5

Yeah you’re right. And it makes no sense to reject yourself. It’s just nutting up and doing it.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 06:58 AM
1

Mate you’re fine. Sounds like you’re your own worst critic. Seeking endless improvement and believing that you’re not good enough is probably more damaging to your performance than just believing you are good enough. GL
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:26 AM
1

It's not 100% clear but it sounds like you work with this chick. Fucking girls where you work isn't a good idea.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 09:46 AM
4

If you're getting a fat over matching a girl on tinder, I'm surprised your dick didn't combust when you had a girl ready for sex. Jokes aside, it's probably anxiety. Particularly the lack of confidence in being a virgin. Try to address those issues internally (take the pressure off yourself) then approach your next rendezvous with a clearer mind. Your body was designed to have sex so you don't need to overthink it. I feel for you bro, it must be hard being a virgin at your age, then the potentia…
/r/askTRP08/05/21 09:40 AM
4

Your mistake was not having a life when you were with her. You depended on her for everything. This is a mistake for many men. When the relationship ends they have nothing else to look to but themselves, and they’re not used to relying on themselves. Secondly, drastically changing yourself after a break up kind of solidifies that this was a very huge event for you. And I guess it is, but some see it bigger than others. The changes and improvements are undertaken (in your case) to solidify anothe…
/r/askTRP08/05/21 02:04 AM
83

Cos she’s had a few hundred Greek soldiers in there
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:31 PM
1

Play the role of the guide to lead her through the magical fields of her sexuality (just be prepared for whatever, she might say that she wants a gangbang). This requires a relationship where you are open and connected, where you share your fantasies as well. May sound beta but if you’re not connecting on a deeper emotional level she won’t be open with sharing her innermost sexual side either. Goad, encourage, make her feel safe etc.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:34 AM
1

How old are you? That is important. This shit can happen in drastic change periods in your life. Particularly finishing high school and going to uni/getting a job. Sounds like you have a little bit of insight into people and false goals. Keep going down that path. You will realise a few things: not everyone gets high levels of material success. Those that get it say that it doesn’t really change much for them internally, especially if they had to sacrifice their values and or actual interests to…
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:28 AM
1

Sounds like the lockdowns are still in place! What the fuck you bugging for?
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:20 AM
4

First, you’ve got to be pretty young. Second, I don’t think she’s in it for anything other than sex (at this point), so bully for you. Man, don’t worry too much. She’s making the first move by touching your thigh. You’re touching her back and all’s good. If you want to improve your sex game read “sex god method”.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:16 AM
2

Why the desperation if you’ve got an LTR? If the lockdowns are eased, hit her up again. If she slips, that’s her last chance.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:10 AM
2

Congruence is behaving how you are internally. If you felt like having fun but couldn’t, you are not being congruent. And if it’s chronic, it’s a confidence issue.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:08 AM
157

Physical proof of what you knew mentally, spooked you lol. The real question is: did he finish in her after busting the Trojan? You’re gonna be the dad tho.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:02 AM
19

I’ve never wanted to stick my dick in a shower faucet nor have I ever feared being rejected by one. Herein lies the problem with your tenuous analogy.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/21 10:09 AM
2

Your just having the normal, pre nerves bro. There’s tons of people to hang with at uni.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 08:24 AM
4

Online uni is ok if you have a solid friend circle, established pussy, and busy life otherwise. But, no opportunities to meet new friends, girls, future business partners etc. So I would say that on balance online is massively less valuable, opportunities-wise.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:17 AM
1

Relationships rise and fall for myriad reasons man. Spoken from someone who is thirty. You need people in your life - in some capacity. For me I feel happiest when I have a smaller circle of close friends and some pussy. But it will vary for everyone. Trust is what your getting at here. You can’t trust people right off the bat, and the argument could be made that you could never trust someone to never hurt you, or leave you. But you need to still open yourself up to the good things that others p…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:33 AM
15

Remember to treat the clit covertly and softly as per Sun Tzu as well
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:23 AM
22

Dude there is always going to be some level of gossip and whining about people in any social situation. But workplaces accentuate this because if the person you’re bitching about is your boss, you can’t really do anything about it, can you? Your hands are tied at work as far as real confrontation is concerned, especially with your superiors, so things turn more covert and gossipy, or as you put it - how females deal with conflict. It’s a matter of circumstance and letting off steam in the only w…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:21 AM
9

Connect, compliment, listen, affirm, eye contact, smile, touch, generate warm feeling and love for the other person.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/21 09:13 AM
2

I think by this stage men have a strong bond and comfort with their wife. Also sex apparently drops in frequency after pregnancy. Then there is the dudes that search for fresh meat while the wife is at home with the kids.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 03:58 AM
6

Not much to add in terms of lived experience but I saw this chick on a big porn site as a contributor. She was a sexy as fuck teen with an almost perfect rack - big, round juicy tits. She then got pregnant and made further videos while pregnant (weird) and then made videos after the pregnancy. Her body was half it was before. From perky and round tits to flat and saggy. I’d never seen such a huge change so clearly shown. She was also a young mum (teen adult apparently), which maybe meant that sh…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 01:55 AM
49

I’ve boiled it down even further: Generate love and warmth. Make people laugh, smile, have the warm fuzzies. That’s how you become popular and liked. It also makes you feel good. I used to be anxious in some social situations and thought I had intermittent social anxiety. But it was because I wasn’t coming in with warmth and love. If you’re cold and frigid, you shake.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/21 08:22 AM
3

As with everything, there’s a spectrum of respect and dominance. You want to be leaning toward the alpha end of the spectrum but not go too far. Women like to feel considered, just not supplicated to.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 01:39 AM
7

Straight up lying to someone because of a lack of other options is not healthy IMO. Take the other route, which is the one that would make me sleep at night. If you however are uncaring of others do what you think you could live with.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 01:27 AM
4

dont you mean hunting my ath
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 11:09 AM
24

Blah blah blah, long distance relationship. How the fuck that worked for 4 years is beyond me. She was probably banging other guys the whole time.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 09:47 AM
1

Just kidding man, your point was on post
/r/askTRP27/02/21 09:46 AM
5

Do you play this on vinyl in the dark as you cry and masturbate OP?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 09:45 AM
1

Yeah if she cheats on you just give her a hug... “It’ll be alright babe”.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 09:39 AM
5

AKA trust AKA having each others back. Getting in fights together against others cements some shit.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 12:39 PM
101

Ouch, truly friendzoned by that one. While you might be beta as fuck at least you’re aware and want to improve. If you’re fat, lose weight. You do this by lifting weights and eating less. If you’re skinny, build muscle. You do this by lifting weights and eating more. Cardio is important but don’t overdo it. Read books to expand your mind. Get off social media. Pursue a job/career that YOU want. And finally, and this is the most important. Keep the focus on you. You hear about a “hero’s journey” …
/r/askTRP25/02/21 12:26 PM
23

Trust me this girl is not what he’s cracking her up to be. Read his post history.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 07:25 AM
11

If this is the same girl you posted about months ago that you went to Vegas with, you’re a fucking idiot.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 07:13 AM
17

You sound like a great housewife
/r/TheRedPill24/02/21 11:08 AM
2

You can say no dude. You don’t have to beta analyse everything. Check your gut from time to time.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 09:04 AM
3

I reckon she’s just being a little brat. AKA shit test Edit: and she was probably surprised you even entertained the thought. Hence the “maybe!!??”
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:25 AM
8

Shit test. Beta bait. Dude shouldn’t need to ask this question. If you don’t want to do it, don’t do it. Bonus question: has she ever done this for you?
/r/askTRP24/02/21 04:15 AM
1

I stand corrected, that would be a massive consideration
/r/askTRP23/02/21 08:43 PM
3

He said he’d banged heaps of average to ugly chicks but has problems with the hot ones
/r/askTRP23/02/21 08:35 PM
2

Could be coming from a place of needing their approval/access to their pussy to feel better about yourself
/r/askTRP23/02/21 08:32 PM
1

You need to realise a bigger goal than just her. In other words, find a mission. If she understands that she’s a hugely inflated priority of yours, she no likey and you will be rejected again.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:16 AM
1

Shove a dildo up your ass and walk the streets
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:11 AM
2

You’re right, uncomfortable is more arousing than happy 😆
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:38 AM
1

That is the second best option. It’s hard to hold a shit eating grin when you’re spewing
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:31 AM
1

Dude this is retarded. Firstly, do you think fat chicks or ugly chicks can get top quality men? Secondly, top quality men have many girls to choose from and many women want some form of commitment. Lastly, many girls have low self worth even when hot so end up with less than ideal men. Really beta question btw
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:29 AM
1

“I’m looking for the number to the suicide prevention line, do you have it?”
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:26 AM
2

No it’s not ok. Continually uppercut yourself to the chin until you nut in or on a female.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:25 AM
1

Is it congruent with you?
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:24 AM
1

As long as she can shit in her hand and eat it without vomiting I’m sold
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:23 AM
3

Neediness. Just enjoy them.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:20 AM
1

Get a skull or snake tattoo
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:19 AM
1

Bahaha you’re a paranoid fuck
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:02 AM
4

Cooming in her hair then combing it out and feeding to her
/r/askTRP23/02/21 06:48 AM
1

Her applying a light electrical shock to your gonads
/r/askTRP23/02/21 06:44 AM
3

Sniffing between her legs as she’s laying a deuce
/r/askTRP23/02/21 06:40 AM
2

Some of it is in built. Working towards goals improves your self worth. Achieving goals also. Using your time effectively. Being social. Wearing good clothes. Getting a good haircut. Being fit and healthy. Lifting weights. Edit: also traeting yourself to things you truly enjoy.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 06:17 AM
42

You’re blaming your Christianhood but it’s more likely self worth. Once you feel like you deserve the best girls you’ll approach them. AKA confidence/self esteem/ self worth.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:25 AM
6

An alpha male would command her to have a lesbian orgy, film it and give the only copy to you. Are you sure there’s no dudes going? Seems strange to have an all girl lingerie party. Probably actually a pimps and hoes but you ain’t one of the pimps nigga.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:20 AM
1

When you say “paying for a girl”, do you mean paying for a date or giving her cash?
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:17 AM
2

Do what you can. Meet them in public first. If you’re both vibing ask to go to her place. If you can’t and both wanna fuck get a room for the night. Just be honest with your situation and shameless.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 03:58 AM
2

I would call that a net negative
/r/askTRP22/02/21 03:52 AM
1

It’s easy to blame your height for the ghost but that’s just you picking something that you’re already assuming you will be rejected on. Just make a rule for yourself: date women shorter that you.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:46 AM
5

Guilt might be because you’re doing too much lovey dovey shit and that’s making you feel beta. Only do what aligns with your core (values, instincts). That should mean maintaining your masculinity, which is probably what you feel you have already given up.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:43 AM
5

I often get two mirrors so I can masturbate over my front and back reflections
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:04 AM
12

After she quit you should have hit her up again lol
/r/askTRP22/02/21 12:28 AM
1

Haha she’s making you feel inadequate. Fuck her how you want to
/r/askTRP21/02/21 11:54 PM
1

Your post brought a tear to my eye and a butt plug to my rectum.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/21 11:52 PM
43

Demote to lowest levels of investment.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 08:42 AM
5

Sounds like a slutty girl. Hit it and treat it badly 👍
/r/askTRP20/02/21 12:24 PM
8

She’s sending you porn. Starring her. Don’t complicate it.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 09:57 AM
2

There’s heaps of ways around this: Don’t talk about it with her. If you can’t or don’t want to be with her you’re “busy”. No explanation. You have to skirt the edges of truth by not explicitly expressing to her that you want it low investment. No girl is going to take that well, so until she brings it up, it’s a non issue. When she brings it up, say something like “it takes me a while to commit to someone, I really have to know them”. This might make her behave even better for you. Is this moral…
/r/askTRP20/02/21 09:55 AM
1

Charlie Chaplin is redder than Soviet Russia
/r/askTRP20/02/21 09:48 AM
2

When you say the “connection wasn’t there”, that could mean a thousand things but I’m taking it to mean, “I wasn’t attracted to her”. What do you mean - “did I fuck up?” You didn’t fuck her because you didn’t want to. Does that make you gay, probably. But what you have to ask yourself is “do I want to fuck her now or in the future?”. If the answer is no, NEXT. If it’s yes, you know what to do.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 09:46 AM
1

Dear Mods, please delete this piece of trash post. It’s a guy saying he likes black women and not ferraris and how that makes him uniquely awesome. My iq dropped 3 points reading this. Sincerely
/r/TheRedPill20/02/21 12:11 AM
2

That would be the most queen bitch thing to do. Definitely do it.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 12:01 AM
1

Got news for you bro, some chicks are damaged. Sounds like you got a soulless gal right there, unfortunately.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 11:57 PM
-1

Well you’re clearly in love with him and idolise him. You just wrote a fan fiction about him. The way he goes about it is wrong, he stinks of arrogance a mile away. Good for him if he educated himself and is helping people. It’s not how it comes across though. Basically shitting on everyone who doesn’t follow his specific formula for success is particularly arrogant. “Hey everyone who is not me or in my program, you stink, come join my program to get fresh”. It’s been done a million times and I …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 12:40 PM
2

Dominance hierarchy getting to you. Everyone has this to some degree. If you generally are a people pleaser and lack a solid sense of self it’s worse. As to how to stop it: remember they’re just humans too. Same as the women, don’t put them on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 09:16 AM
-1

Purely self interested post. GLO, you're not interested in helping others, you're interested in demonstrating that you are better than them, and then extracting their resources so they can be like you. You are just another Jordan Peterson, except he initially gave his advice for free on youtube before monetising it with a book. You're telling people that they should not submit to the scrabblers agenda but rather submit to yours. It's hypocritical and disrespectful and many weak minded people wil…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 03:49 AM
16

Probably neediness. Number 1 turnoff for girls and probably what they would refer to as “weird”.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:59 AM
1

Lifestyle, confidence, looks, fitness & health, social success, fashion. Social media is for broadcasting your lifestyle. Personality is a bottomless pit but all the standard advice is usually true. Be fun, adventurous, confident, funny, bold. But obviously you will have unique strengths so work with them.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 02:04 PM
9

I’ve read through the OP and the comments. Is this girl alternative like? She sounds insecure and OTT, plus you said she’s awkward and says the wrong thing, so she could be just a bit strange. I dated a girl like this and she was super extra. Guys are saying “abort” and she’s cheating but why the fuck not just clarify it? You’ve know her for 2.5 years so you can fucking ask what she means. I’m putting money on that she does like you and is trying to communicate that, but it’s over the top.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 01:56 PM
5

Maybe the weed made her see it differently. I would expect many girls to lie about that to not make themselves look bad. The other shit is hardly strange except the best friend being a guy. That’s probably unusual and she may have slept with him before. Other than that sounds like you’ve got an average or slightly below average girl. Edit: forgot about the lesbian shit. Lots of the more experimental girls fuck with that shit. Are you taking advantage of her experimental nature. Those types of gi…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 09:26 AM
6

Bro, tease girls.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 11:47 AM
5

You ok bro?
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:17 AM
1

You’re being thirsty bro. Think with your big head. If you fuck this girl, shit blows up with the boyfriend, imagine the world of pain that could bring. Think long term, think about you, think smart. Not a good idea at all. Keep it professional.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 12:41 AM
1

Well bro, you know what to do. Get them in front of you!
/r/askTRP16/02/21 11:52 PM
18

Bro chill lol. She gave it a crack and struck out. Consider it a compliment. She was obviously ready to bang and you turned her down. You know about how women never really approach unless they’re desperate. The bit of drama at the end was her gaining sympathy, and deflecting the blame onto men. You have no responsibility to flirt with or fuck women you aren’t attracted to. You’re not a cock charity.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 11:48 PM
1

Scarcity is why you feel this way. Try to manufacture an abundance mindset, even if it’s “fake it till you make it”. Low self esteem, crazy, hot chicks are fun but never love them. Have fun and ditch them, or handle them moving on. You need to choose who to open up to for your own protection. For them “it’s just your turn” applies more than ever because they rarely settle down.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 11:41 PM
2

When I was your age I got my first well payed job. I was earning very nice money for a teenager (in construction). My mum was being an absolute bitch to me at that point and demanded that I payed $150 a week rent as well as absolutely losing her shit at me a number of times. I think it’s a complex time for mothers and one in which it’s probably healthy to distance yourself emotionally from her. This is a natural process. And in the wild, an 18 yo man would not have been spending much time with h…
/r/askTRP16/02/21 11:33 PM
1

Personally, I think nurses are great. But that’s just a personal opinion based on experience. The specific career might not matter as much as the lifestyle they lead. I know women that just love doing outdoorsy shit, camping, surfing, cooking and yoga and working out. This is not uncommon where I live but a lot depends on your location and the circles you move in. Social circle game is the best place to find an LTR for many reasons. I guess you’d work in a male dominated field so don’t meet many…
/r/askTRP16/02/21 11:08 PM
2

First find what you are looking for. By the sounds of it, an LTR. You said someone to “match that energy”, but would you really want a hyper successful, tense go getter for a woman? I think the ambition and drive should come from the male side and a woman should should support and compliment that, yin and yang. I reckon you’d suit a home maker, focused on cooking, health and fitness and a decent job. There’s plenty of girls like that.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 10:53 PM
2

Reeks
/r/askTRP16/02/21 11:26 AM
3

That’s cool, your breath smells
/r/askTRP16/02/21 11:20 AM
1

She’s busting your chops in a loving cute way. If you can’t handle that you’re very insecure. And you sound insecure. Sounds like you’re failing these shit tests internally.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 10:46 AM
5

I don’t know the dynamics of the relationship bro, but at the very least tell her to not talk to this dude for the sake of your relationship. You need to lead right now.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 10:16 AM
0

Has sex with heavily disabled women because they need some d.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 10:01 AM
19

She’s keeping him as a fall back option. Pretty fucking disrespectful. But AWALT.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 09:58 AM
2

IMO not worth it. Angry, jealous boyfriends are not something you want in your life for some pussy. Also, she isn’t to be trusted to not tell him where you live if shit hit the fan. You could protect yourself by meeting at a hotel. But again, is it worth it?
/r/askTRP16/02/21 04:06 AM
1

I think that is right for you. At this point it’s like she is kind of holding you back, and I foresee it failing. It sounds like you’re way out of her league dude but I understand attachment. Just do what right for you in the long term.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:29 AM
5

Firstly her: she’s investing in you because she thinks that you will be the successful stable one. So far that looks to be true. She was scared of being locked down with you and missing her prime years on the cock carousel and that was evidenced when she freaked out and kissed the dude at work. She still thinks you’re high value but she has doubt about whether she can give her life to you. Up until this point she has invested in you so she also doesn’t want to throw that away. For you: you are t…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 04:17 AM
9

The middle ground is being relaxed. You find that through confidence. Your voice is naturally chest oriented when you are relaxed and confident. If you want to simulate it. Imagine your voice coming from your chest. Keep the highs and lows and changes in speed but resonate the voice from the chest.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 07:41 PM
3

An element of unpredictability and danger is usually what attracts women to “bums”, also that they don’t conform and live by their own rules. That should point you in the right direction if you want to be more like that.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 11:31 AM
11

Think “I’m not an idiot”, even though that’s untrue
/r/askTRP14/02/21 11:27 AM
1

Go to the dance floor, inhabit a bit of space, dance and have fun, make eye contact with a chick then approach and dance. It’s all about the vibe you bring and your moves. I was dancing by myself at a concert once and this chick came up and started making out with me.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 09:40 AM
10

If you have manly thoughts you will grow a beard
/r/askTRP14/02/21 09:24 AM
5

If it’s in a witty joke way, fine. If not, don’t worry bout it
/r/askTRP14/02/21 06:59 AM
1

It’s a slower more intimate setting. So you have to slow your roll and be relaxed. Then just get close to her, put your arm around her, cuddle, fucking tickle her, whatever
/r/askTRP13/02/21 11:15 AM
2

She doesn’t sound like relationship material. But sometimes you have to fuck up to learn. My advice would be to keep spinning and not commit to her.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 11:12 AM
12

Have you directly received and feedback saying that you are? It’s not bad to be kind. The difference between a nice guy and a kind person is usually assertiveness and going after what you want.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 08:07 PM
1

The problem is in my life I have so little external challenge. I crave that. And you are right, men need that. The problem is that most of the world has become feminised. I find myself trying to tackle problems in my own psyche but I think I would get better results if I were to have to face external challenge. And then I would have a huge power boost from that.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 09:33 AM
1

She is a plate. It’s probably in your interests to let a few of her texts be unreplied. It only gets them hamstering and you can just say you were busy (and then you forgot, if needed) when she inevitably asks. Edit: and don’t pick up all the calls.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 03:08 AM
7

If you hint to a girl that you don’t get sex and you need it from her*
/r/TheRedPill12/02/21 02:07 AM
3

If we all didn't value sex the species would die out.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 11:34 PM
11

"even the act of sticking your dick in a pussy is retarded". Not sure I follow...
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 11:07 PM
21

Fair enough. I won’t be getting rid of them any time soon. I think it’s reasonable to just invite her to sit on the couch.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 10:57 AM
65

Fucking lol Stopped at 1. Ok I’ll throw out my computer chair and dining chairs. You gotta be kidding bro
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 09:52 AM
21

Your mum likes chocolates doesn’t she?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 07:53 AM
22

Definitely not a dick move. You got dumped, too nice. Your lying to yourself about how much she meant to you. Don’t shit where you eat. For this exact reason. Now you can never get away from the bitch. Vet for better quality girls.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 07:44 AM
63

AKA any technique becomes spergy if you become fixated on it. Because anything will look like a nail if you become a hammer. The problem is if AFC comes on here and reads a top post that says “treat her like a child, tease her” they will double the fuck down and weird people out. Shit needs to flow spontaneously and naturally.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 06:09 AM
57

That must be handy when you’re trying to pick a girl up cold. “What stage of your ovulation cycle you at? I need to know if I should be 2/3 asshole or 2/3 sweet and kind” 😂
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 04:14 AM
1

Cant you just fucking block her
/r/askTRP10/02/21 01:04 PM
2

It sounds like you’re searching for perfection but everyone’s idea of value is different. You did not mention social power at all in this post and that is a very important factor in success, for example. My focus areas include: financial independence, nice car, dress well, fitness and health, socialise, hobby like sport, meditate, read, have love in your life. Everyone will have slightly different answers but TRP generally focuses on what is going to get you a lot of casual sex. And that is fair…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/21 12:46 PM
1

That freak didn’t get his neck through neck training dude. And do you think mike Tyson did either? Things grow proportionately and due to genetics. Fucking neck training is a laugh
/r/TheRedPill10/02/21 09:27 AM
74

Are you really using that thick necked freak as something to aspire to?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/21 08:39 AM
1

You’ll never live that down, shy boy. Haha jokes man
/r/askTRP10/02/21 01:28 AM
2

It’s all subconscious man. They all know at a deep level when they are at their prime.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 11:16 PM
1

Man, you did enough sexual things. She knows you want to fuck her. In fact you made it very clear. Next time you can invite her to your place. If she says yes, you know she’s down to fuck.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 12:06 PM
4

You choose. Vet for ones that seem super into you and you have some connection with. If they are super into you, and seem to fit your lifestyle, plus add something of value (personality wise or practically) you can enter into a relationship. Or you could live the plate lifestyle.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 11:58 AM
1

Women know their prime is from their late teens till their mid twenties. They’re scared to be overlooked.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:59 AM
30

Yeah I agree with this totally. I actually reckon that seduction is so primal that the only thing that matters is confidence. If reading TRP gives you confidence, great. But if all the information is making you a spergy robot, then you might be better with trial and error. In the end, as you say, you have to flow from your natural personality and that is very individual. Guys want a cure all but they don’t exist. Lastly, reading the red pill should be done for understanding, not for technique. F…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/21 05:02 AM
1

Try to get to know a woman in person.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:51 AM
1

I can’t believe you, an apparently straight guy, referred to your male friend “like super cute”. Times have changed man
/r/askTRP08/02/21 01:21 AM
13

Perfect example of thinking with your dick lol
/r/askTRP07/02/21 09:29 PM
3

Polarity creates sexual attraction. It doesn’t matter if you have no hobbies in common but it can help grease the conversation. What matters is the chemistry, flirting, teasing. “Oh you went to (rich school), you spoilt brat. I went to (poor school), all the tough guys come from there.” It truly doesn’t matter what you say, what matters is underlying the conversation. Read more to realise this.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 09:16 AM
2

Firstly, you fucked up by saying those things if you didn’t mean them, anyway, you shouldn’t say those things. This sounds like a truly weird and fake relationship. If all of what you’re saying is true say something like: “I’ve realised that my feelings for you were forced and I really wanted them to be real but they aren’t. I don’t want to lead you on so it’s best if we split.” That is just a completely off the cuff wording so you can do better. You are a free man so you can break up with whoev…
/r/askTRP07/02/21 09:11 AM
7

Don’t take it too personally that she left to be seated. Your only option would have been to ask her for her number there and then. The seating excuse is a good reason to be straight to the point so use it.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 09:04 AM
2

There’s no reason to worry. Just break it off. Give her any reason that works for you. If she does some psycho shit the police are always there.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 09:03 AM
1

Healthy habits: don’t indulge in alcohol to feel better for example, exercise, eat well, sleep well. And this is the biggest thing: train yourself to live in the present moment, AKA mindfulness. Heaps of resources on this online. Another tool is gratefulness, which is appreciating what you already have. And counterintuitively this inspires you to achieve more positive things. What you’re dealing with is common to all humans, and that is discontent. The above strategies will help. GL
/r/askTRP07/02/21 03:48 AM
2

Don’t buy into it. Focus on your sphere of influence. There are plenty of girls that are normal (I come from country Australia so it is a bit more conservative to be fair).
/r/askTRP07/02/21 03:35 AM
-33

If you weren’t a tard, you would know about the obesity epidemic in the west. It only gets worse as they get older too
/r/askTRP07/02/21 03:33 AM
1

I can’t really break it down man, it just kinda happens. Build rapport with one or two of the then ask them if they wanna get beers after a class. That’s usually all it takes. You’ll probably find that many have lost a lot of their friends when the get to 30 so are keen to escape their wife and child/ren. It sounds like you might not be the most naturally extroverted guy. But at the same time you’re missing the social life. Just make an effort. Join that kick boxing class. Even if you make one f…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 11:21 PM
6

It’s not a conscious manipulative, scheming manoeuvre but this is how they function to keep socially protected
/r/askTRP06/02/21 07:17 PM
10

Mainly <24 female influencers Edit: LOL I was joking. And people are actually saying this is a good idea
/r/askTRP06/02/21 10:03 AM
8

“You can’t change what women want, but you can change yourself into what they want”. That’s a really fucked up attitude to have man. You will be forever chasing validation with that shit. Don’t put yourself at the whim of a woman, they want different types at different times of their menstrual cycle for fucks sake. Being attractive is really not that complicated. And it really boils down to being the best version of yourself you can be. And that will benefit YOU. As many say “the goal isn’t wome…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 08:31 AM
1

“Hi”
/r/askTRP06/02/21 02:36 AM
2

Solution would be to find a good group of friends. Can do that through mining old friendships or creating new ones through hobbies and such
/r/askTRP06/02/21 02:03 AM
28

Basics: workout, eat well, sleep well, reduce or stop drugs. Socialise, meditate (this is how you become present), talk to girls, be mindful, enjoy the moment.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 10:14 PM
3

Well it just seems like this chick is your standard, run of the mill GF. Unless you have other motives/options just get the chick a present
/r/askTRP05/02/21 09:25 PM
5

Does she know that? Edit: that she’s told you that she’s getting you a present means this is definitely a test point. What you do will communicate what you see the relationship as.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 09:07 PM
8

I think if you reject it she would be pretty butthurt. Seems like she either sees this as a pretty romantic relationship or wants it to be that way. If you buy her one it will show that you see it that way as well.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 08:49 PM
1

I think it’s appropriate. But as another said, you have to do what you think is right. “Felt kind of disrespectful to me” is what you felt so that’s right for you. If it’s an LTR just tell her you won’t accept it.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 12:33 PM
3

The problem can be summed up as: anxiety level. Work on getting that down and you’ll do better. Try a tip from the buddhists: mindfulness.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 11:41 AM
1

Bro the whole thing felt forced, autistic and scripted. It’s like you were reading from the playbook, but you weren’t playing the game. Ie you have to be IN the game, feeling it, rather than seeing it as a bunch of “to do’s” and “this then thats”. It was you that looked “weird and psychopathic” because you were to scripted. In an effort to appear like some sex god, you made yourself seem like a desperado.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 02:56 AM
11

I value this post. Relevant to me right now. You need to paragraph your ideas and write them out better, but good energy in the post.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 05:05 AM
2

She realised her freak side, you helped her find that (if what you say is true), and now she’s going to go explore it. Don’t take it personally.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 02:48 AM
3

Fuck that shit. You’re dealing with a self absorbed hoe. Fair enough all girls want as good as they can get but this is some brazen obnoxiousness. We are at a fucked point in history where girls think this shit is acceptable and cool. “Enjoy and know your worth” cringe.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 10:15 PM
2

I agree he’s a douche/charlatan. But you’re playing identity politics, which is a lefty thing to do. You’re looking at who’s saying it rather than what’s being said. This particular piece of advice is solid.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 11:19 AM
10

It just gives you the lack of shame and the biological pressure to pursue real sex. For some guys (and you sound like one), they get really down on themselves for watching porn and they have this deep shame about it. That comes through in their everyday lives. You either need to become comfortable with PMO or stop it as much as possible.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 09:53 AM
2

You’re not too ambitious, you’re too scattered. “Don’t major in minors” as Tony Robinson said. Ie pick something achievable and high value, or pursue something you really like and commit to it.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:07 AM
1

Good post mrs miley. Is miss Cyrus a hero of yours? Jokes aside, as most have said, she’s still in your frame but that is how it always starts. You have leaked a drop out of necessity but make sure you don’t haemorrhage.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:22 AM
2

Whatever floats your boat ay, Viking. I’m also Nordic looking and prefer Nordic looking girls, though the petite versions. But am very open to whatever gets my dick hard. Maybe this is how nature ensures abundance for all, different types for different dudes lol
/r/askTRP01/02/21 08:03 AM
3

Live demonstration is also effective
/r/askTRP01/02/21 05:50 AM
2

I’ve heard bukkake is most effective at increasing load size
/r/askTRP01/02/21 05:49 AM
1

Seems you’re ready to choke on the chode
/r/askTRP01/02/21 05:42 AM
1

That’s a tough one for me. I’ve was in a relationship with a nice girl but she didn’t excite me physically. And I developed an attachment to her that was built around comfort. I don’t think you should be comfortable in your early twenties, you should be wild. You do need to “sow your wild oats” at some point. It comes down to this, can you see yourself staying with this girl till you’re 30? If not I’d end it and start living it up.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 05:34 AM
5

You see, life is life. And when you turn the corner you realise that the corner you just turned is behind you. And after that, you look up to the sky and think “I am looking into infinity”, but my cones and rods just see baby blue. Then you look down at your watch and realise that you’re late for work, and you think “why I am I such a slave for the dollar?”, but then you think “what is a thought?”, then you realise you’re a twat.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 05:22 AM
7

Firstly you’re a tripper. Secondly, white women are considered highest value by most, so maybe you think you don’t deserve the cream.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 05:10 AM
16

Girls will often give a “window of opportunity” in which they are receptive or at least neutral to you, where she is allowing the guy to make his move. You said she was flirty early on. If the guy doesn’t make his move she becomes unreceptive and the window is basically shut. Think of traffic lights: green is good to go, orange is still make a move and she will either go green or red, red is a waste of time (and from what you’ve said it appears she’s now red) So the solution is to keep her as a …
/r/askTRP01/02/21 05:08 AM
1

The problem is when you “don’t really care about other girls”. That shows that you have unfinished business
/r/askTRP31/01/21 09:01 AM
8

Girls are attracted to impudence. Which is the lack of respect for others.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 08:58 AM
9

“I’m a broken man” That’s why you are attracting broken women.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 02:44 AM
1

She’s gonna see you anyway so why sugarcoat. Might as well be bold with it. “5’8, tall enough” If she’s gonna reject you on it, fuck her
/r/askTRP31/01/21 02:41 AM
1

Meditation helps your clarity of mind
/r/askTRP30/01/21 10:57 PM
1

Scientifically, women act submissive around men they are attracted to. That explains most men’s preference for submissive women. If she’s acting little girly, she’s attracted.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 09:49 AM
1

Buddhism
/r/askTRP30/01/21 05:13 AM
3

I think that’s more referring to chode inches lol
/r/askTRP30/01/21 03:32 AM
6

Don’t buy into tribalism. That’s my take, and America is terrible for this. Instead, work out some values that you believe in. Eg “I think that if someone works hard they should be rewarded” or “people who don’t have the opportunity to participate in the workforce should be looked after” or whatever. If you care about getting pussy over taking a political stand, the key is to be neutral but not make it obvious. If she’s fucking persistent and asks “who did you vote for?” Just say you prefer to k…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 11:01 PM
3

You sound like a tool man. What you’re talking about is arrogance, pure and simple. If you go around thinking that everyone stinks and you’re golden, you will not live a good life. Remember, you’re a human as well.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 09:56 PM
3

Maybe try taking your fist out of your arse and you’ll feel better
/r/askTRP29/01/21 09:51 PM
7

Sounds like you’re brother is having some serious problems right now. Also sounds like you live with him? Hard to not speak to someone you live with. Usually it’s best to give a person that’s dragging you down as much space as possible. But as you’ve said, you want your family in your life so try to balance the two. Be in a position where you’re in contact but not where he can harm you. If I’m right and you live with him, that means moving into your own place but you can do it amicably. “I love …
/r/askTRP29/01/21 09:46 PM
22

What I’m saying is this big fella, if a hot girl that you would definitely bone hung around you and put herself in positions where you were alone with her and you didn’t pull the trigger, you feel like a vagina afterward. And that if I had my time again I would’ve pulled the trigger. Thanks for your extremely red pill challenge
/r/askTRP29/01/21 09:35 PM
19

I’m looking for my keys, you seen them?
/r/askTRP29/01/21 11:32 AM
94

As they say you regret the thing you didn’t do. Hot chicks that gave me time but I didn’t shoot my shot.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 10:37 AM
1

Um, block the number
/r/askTRP29/01/21 09:02 AM
2

Don’t worry about it man (the sex). You’re both young so you’re not expected to be anything special. If anything, just take the pressure off, forget you said anything to her. And enjoy yourself above all, and get into it.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 12:13 PM
1

It’s the top result for me. Maybe it’s your country
/r/askTRP28/01/21 12:10 PM
3

Did you try google noodlehead
/r/askTRP28/01/21 10:18 AM
5

Intensity. Dominance. Immersion. Read sex god method
/r/askTRP28/01/21 09:26 AM
13

You’re mistake was letting her know about TRP. What was your motivation to do that? Women are threatened by men sharing knowledge about women. It’s like weaponised knowledge. Seems like it’s tit for tat now.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 06:28 AM
5

That’s worked for me before. Gets the hamster spinning like a schizophrenic
/r/askTRP28/01/21 06:21 AM
2

If it’s a mindset thing. Meditate.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 06:18 AM
1

How the fuck have you just assumed this kid is fucked up based on what he has written here? There is nothing to show that but “mostly due to my poor mindset”.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 06:15 AM
1

“Practical female psychology for the practical man” best book I’ve read on relationships and doesn’t receive enough recognition here.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 06:09 AM
1

Fuck man, are you really gonna do what I say? I do t know the lead up, her, you, whether you value the relationship. Whether you talked about it before hand. Surely you had a discussion with her. You didn’t just up and leave a great job and do something radical without thinking and talking it through. I thought IT guys were supposed to be analytical. If you truly want to follow your dream, then you won’t be happy pulling out now. So the right thing to do would be say to her “I really want to do …
/r/askTRP28/01/21 06:05 AM
0

You can be quick but it has to come off as congruent. Don’t just ask them “what’s you’re number”. Make them laugh or have an interesting to and fro, then ask when the mood is high. “You seem interesting, what’s your number? I’m not on here much.”
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:58 AM
7

She’s pissed because you were her beta bucks. Now that you’ve taken that away from her she’s mad.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:55 AM
2

Firstly, it’s up to you to pursue sex. If you didn’t pursue it, you don’t know how far she would have gone. Secondly, you might be dealing with a “good girl”, who don’t act slutty and make potentially good LTRs (don’t know for sure but sounds like it from what you’ve said). (Note: Don’t know how long you’ve been seeing her or what her feelings toward you are except “kisses you passionately) This goes against most of the red pill standard advice but if you’re looking for a standard GF invite her …
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:44 AM
1

Course I have. I know a girl right now that I’m mad about. What’s happening to you is you’ve met a girl that you’re infatuated by. This is probably because you’re in scarcity and/or you’ve met a girl that you think is a good match. As you haven’t met her in person it’s too early to tell though. And talk of committing to a girl you haven’t met is bonkers. Set up a meet.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:24 AM
4

It really depends on how you are. If you’re naturally a chiller and observer then they should know this. If you’re afraid to let go and you’re stuck in your head then that’s something you should be aware of. If you’re in a low mood, just tell them. If you’re trying to put on a “strong and silent” act and it’s not natural just be more natural. It doesn’t matter what they say, your state matters, answer from there.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:20 AM
5

That’s you even asked this to TRP shows you have no idea about what this sub is about. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:13 AM
1

You’ve identified some problems. Now take steps to fix them. Job: quickly identify an accessible career/job you think you want NOW, then take the steps to get there. Make it quick and take action. I was unemployed for about 8 months and wasted time fucking about trying to work out what I wanted to be and spending my savings ($20kAU) and losing my confidence before I did something about it. In a good place nearly 12 months on but I should’ve acted quicker. And that’s my main advice for you. Don’t…
/r/askTRP28/01/21 01:57 AM
6

Yeah there are girls that prefer monogamous relationships. You’re probably looking for a low sex drive homebody type. Because you don’t want drama. The question becomes, where do you find these types of girls? They don’t party much and they don’t usually keep a high profile. That’s why you think there’s none of them. I don’t really know where to find them but maybe cooking classes, library, gym.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 10:07 PM
9

Tips to have fun? That’s simple bro, relax and have fun and don’t take yourself too seriously. Being exciting to be around is about your personality and perceived value (status).
/r/askTRP26/01/21 09:36 PM
1

The PTSD stuff is way more a red flag than the girl dating. Just means she’s sexually open.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 09:23 PM
23

No he doesn’t pay for them. You’re aiming high but the answer to your question is to become high status. But you should know that already. Leo is one of the most high status people in the world, and lives an exciting lifestyle. That’s why models want to be around him. Essentially if girls are excited to be around you, you are attractive and high status.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 09:21 PM
3

Never heard that one. I’m not in that demographic/culture I don’t think
/r/askTRP26/01/21 09:10 PM
8

You’re making broad statements based on limited, subjective experience. Statistically, people are having less sex now than the boomer generation. It may be concentrated to high SMV males but less overall. Yes, because of porn, girls are exposed to all kinds of stuff early. And this makes “sex” a broader umbrella and includes more nasty stuff. But, you are hooking up with young sluts. Age changes them. Also, you are humble bragging.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 08:56 PM
1

Exercise of choice >30 minutes Read for an hour Meditate for >15 minutes Talk to a friend or family member Stretch Earn money Talk to a new girl
/r/askTRP26/01/21 08:26 PM
32

I think most masculine men would like it. What’s not to like about it? Unless it’s totally contrived.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 09:00 AM
53

Giggity. In terms of personality.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 08:59 AM
126

I would also rather a innocent little girl than a tough butch bitch
/r/askTRP26/01/21 07:43 AM
2

I was more worried about “in the animal kingdom the male is almost always the more beautiful of the species”. If you start thinking human males are the more beautiful of the species, you really have turned gay lol
/r/askTRP25/01/21 07:36 AM
-21

You sound gay
/r/askTRP25/01/21 12:13 AM
1

She was hot to go. It should’ve been, “drove over like a madman and gave her the d”. But the prior wussy shit had set the tone for this guy
/r/TheRedPill24/01/21 08:47 AM
7

Bro the fitness class doesn’t add up. I reckon she’s probably cheating. Ask her why she’s going to one so far away. Edit: and the fact that she’s dressing up more and not fucking you means that she’s broken up with you in her mind.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 03:20 AM
2

That obsession comes from the biological urge to plant your seed in her womb. If she is high value to you, you will be more obsessed. To put another way, if you had 2 plates of relatively equal value and then you met a chick that was hotter AND had an amazing personality (again this could be subjectively), you would likely feel more obsession love for her. If you have no plates, then you meet a hot chick that has a banging personality you will of course become obsessed. Another thing that intens…
/r/askTRP21/01/21 10:44 PM
1

Love is an emotion that you feel. I don’t know the difference between “in love with someone” and romantically “loving” someone. I think you’re splitting hairs. Is it the obsession part of “in love” that you’re talking about?
/r/askTRP21/01/21 11:59 AM
5

Firstly, if you are confident and comfortable with your sexuality it should allow her to open up as well. You first, then her etc. Secondly, if she wants to do something that you like, be enthusiastic about it. But if she starts opening up about shit you don’t like, be honest. Don’t go along because you feel you have to.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 11:53 AM
6

Say it twice so I know you mean it
/r/askTRP20/01/21 03:14 AM
-7

Man I’m that thirsty, so the answer’s yes
/r/TheRedPill16/01/21 04:35 AM
21

If it was me, when she sent that text I would’ve invited her over to my house to bone. I think she was giving you the big hint and you went back to wussy vibes. Anyway, this article is about behaving dominantly which is what most women want. OP didn’t achieve dominance over this woman. Compliance involves a dominant and a submitter. Submission in its ultimate form for a woman is sex. So yes, smaller forms of dominance will pave the road to sex, but displaying a dominant character is what will ge…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/21 12:48 PM
1

Two retards trying to connect
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:26 AM
3

Low self esteem
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:24 AM
-1

You do you
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:24 AM
2

Dude, do you reckon a shaved head is gonna mean shit at the end of the day? Edit: I mean to say: this dude has most of his shit together and he is picking a hairline as an excuse that he doesn’t get good quality chicks. That sounds like under confidence IMO
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:17 AM
2

Your problem is self esteem. Hairline doesn’t mean shit man! Fuck, that shit is peripheral. Chicks care about swagger, confidence, wit, charm, humour. Pimps are pimps, being handsome is just an added benefit. But if you’ve got game you can get hot chicks. Simple. You need to believe in yourself. Think some positive thoughts then take action.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:29 AM
7

“Let’s just see how our connection goes”
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:23 AM
1

It says more about you that it is getting to you than what they are actually saying. Men interact on challenge, if you can’t mix it with the boys you need to masculine up
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:22 AM
4

But it feels so good in there
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 10:40 AM
3

That’s not idle time then is it buttface
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 08:29 AM
1

You sound like a rake, which is what I am too
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 05:03 AM
5

Good book, I got most out of understanding which type I was and just organising my life around that. Also accepting that.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 10:12 AM
18

Spot on. I’ve been called creepy, sleazy etc, even by girls that I’ve hooked up with. Also by white nights. As you said, you have to be bold. “Faint heart never fucked fair lady”.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 06:57 AM
2

Done it before. Not good outcomes
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:30 AM
8

So true. Eye contact is like the social grease that keeps yourself and the group flowing. When alone it’s good to look inside and introspect but when in a group situation it is vital to get out of yourself and join the social dance. At that is a dance primarily of the eyes.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 08:32 PM
7

Yeah I actually reckon if your higher value than the girl and the compliment is genuine it works. If she is super hot it’s like, “yeah, I know, what else are you bringing to the table”
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 07:20 AM
11

I think it works to call the fatties pretty though
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 04:03 AM
2

It’s important to have some identified characteristics that are needed for commitment but the people we fall in love with are judged with subconscious parameters and we just feel a certain way about them. Love is a hard thing to control and sometimes people find their way into your heart.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/20 03:49 AM
0

If it was a momentary gimmick then don’t worry
/r/askTRP28/11/20 09:19 PM
2

So he had their attention for a little while. Did he have their attention for the whole time? We’re you being ignored? Did you go home with one of them? It was probably just a bit of fun for the girls. Or maybe they prefer Asian guys. I think you’re sounding a bit jealous and needy for attention.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 08:25 PM
2

They watched mad men
/r/askTRP28/11/20 08:20 PM
7

Simply text them to hang out again. Repeat
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:17 AM
11

Eating pussy is gay
/r/askTRP26/11/20 02:02 PM
2

I think you impregnated her
/r/seduction26/11/20 11:38 AM
22

You’re dealing with a woman that thrives on having male attention, and the power and flattery associated with it. This doesn’t mean she will cheat on you but in my opinion that is shady behaviour not worthy of a relationship.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 10:02 AM
3

Yes that is weird. If you’re not inspired to interact and fuck model tier chicks then you’re out of luck buddy, because those are the most stimulating chicks to be around. I don’t know if this is some humble brag - “I’m too good for the best looking girls”. Maybe join a monastery bro, no girls to annoy you there.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 09:58 AM
1

You hate in other people that which you deny in yourself. True mastery comes when you’re so above it that it doesn’t bother you.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 07:21 AM
9

Such a fucked up post. You’ve just described how you think. Not how men think in general. Plus some women can be competitive anyway. Wrong in every way.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 04:01 AM
8

If you’ve read 20 books on psychology and social skills you don’t need more reading. You’re probably just a textbook introvert. I don’t think anyone is going to have any answers here, other than fake it. You can’t connect with people if you’re closed off to them, so you’ve just got to share yourself and listen to and connect with them.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 03:55 AM
4

Other guys are saying because YOU aren’t attractive enough. But that’s actually wrong. Women are sexually and romantically aroused by feeling YOUR desire for THEM. And that explains why less hot chicks are saying this to you rather than the hot ones. Because the hot ones received your sexual desire and flirtations and felt something back in return, the uglier ones didn’t, and felt a platonic vibe. If you go on a date with a 5 and you feel no desire for her, she feels that and she isn’t going to …
/r/askTRP26/11/20 03:46 AM
2

You can’t change the past but you’ve got to make peace with it. Many people who had disadvantaged upbringings made exceptional adults, it’s down to you. And that brings me to my main point. Focus on yourself. YOU are the one who determines success or failure and are responsible for that success or failure. Don’t let others define you. YOU define yourself. You are very young, man. Still a teenager. You can continue to slay when it comes to women for decades. Some argue that a man’s highest potent…
/r/askTRP26/11/20 03:38 AM
1

Do what you want bro. Passion and success are always good
/r/askTRP26/11/20 12:57 AM
5

So if she knows and is still interested, what’s the problem? Just act as if there’s nothing to be discussed. As for other girls, you really don’t need to let them know till well down the track. I’m talking, move in with each other stage. I know that that might seem unfair to her but presenting it upfront is basically telling her before she likes you that there’s a reason for her to not like you. It will be mostly a bad idea to tell her before you’re well bonded.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 09:21 AM
2

“I get it you’re not like other girls, let’s get together and see how things pan out” Then treat as you want if she comes. It’s kinda stringing her along but in a very small way. Be prepared for heaps of LMR.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 07:04 AM
9

Asking this question is beta
/r/askTRP25/11/20 06:58 AM
0

“I love children and animals, and drop in meals to the elderly” “I once had a homeless person over for Christmas because he had nowhere else to go”
/r/askTRP25/11/20 06:56 AM
2

Yeah this was some cringy shit
/r/seduction25/11/20 12:22 AM
2

You gotta be real about what kind of girl you’re dealing with here. She’s a partier, she’s hot, she’s probably had countless dicks, she drives to other cities with dudes she’s just met and fucks a lot, probably a bit crazy to add some spice to the mix. Now, there’s nothing wrong with this but these types girls are not girls you want to settle down with. It will bring you a world of pain because thrill seeking and getting male sexual attention are not conducive to committed relationships. I’m spe…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 12:46 PM
2

No ones mentioned this yet but, this type of girl has no loyalty. She will only want you if you are the hottest dude in the room. Attention whoring, collecting orbiters and stringing exes along. This is exactly like my ex GF. They are not good for anything other than sex, commitment is a no no, and anything that resembles commitment is a no no (eg snuggling on the couch with a movie). On the other hand, a girl like that is an ideal plate (hot sex). Treat her as such.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 11:59 AM
1

Don’t think she’s your SO. Why don’t you guide her hand toward it?
/r/seduction24/11/20 11:41 AM
1

You can find it right here in my fist. Move your face closer
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:59 AM
1

Op Certainly a troll
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:58 AM
17

Communicate your feelings to her by seducing her. Keep seducing her over and over and you have an LTR. No need to speak of undying love, because as you’ve said, that communicates that you’ve cut off all other options which decreases your attractiveness.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:21 AM
3

Ok. Seems like a problem of logistics. She’s probably just a hoe and lost interest. Might hurt but keep it in perspective.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 12:04 PM
2

Reits, ETFs, dividend stocks, all pay income. Maybe not monthly though for the stock market, usually quarterly. Any is good, and different people will swear by different things based on their personal experience. In Australia, real estate and share market are roughly on par, but direct real estate is undiversified so better to go for a REIT.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 11:59 AM
1

Why didn’t you drive her to your place? (Not that it matters, but that seems like the most logical thing to do)
/r/askTRP23/11/20 11:53 AM
5

Firstly, you need to stop worrying about that hoe and not let her effect you like this. Secondly, it could have been any number of reasons she went cold but most likely this: Some women actually say that they don’t want sex and they want that to be overridden. She sounds like a ratchet hoe and she only goes for black guys so she probably chooses men based on their aggressiveness (no racial stereotype intended). So, in her mind, you were too nice for her because you didn’t fuck her. If you fucked…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 11:40 AM
1

Despite what people are saying looks stand for a fraction of what a girl finds attractive. A “handsome” man can be unattractive to a woman if he is beta. Alpha attributes make you appear more attractive to women.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 11:06 AM
1

All the girls that have liked you sit in gold. Once you unlock gold you can view them and match them if you want. But I found very few quality girls in there when I got gold. Also some bots. Better to just swipe right on the girls YOU like and hope to match.
/r/seduction23/11/20 11:00 AM
6

Apparently it takes a while for a woman to become aroused. But spontaneous sex seems to be fine by them also. You can get a woman wet by just talking to her if you do it right. Mix it up.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 10:57 AM
12

Either partake or politely ask them to fuck off
/r/askTRP23/11/20 10:55 AM
12

Buying a girl a drink can come off as buying her time, which subcommunicates that your time isn’t good enough to be had unless it comes with payment. Best to offer her a drink after a little while if things are going well and you want to take her to be alone with you.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 05:01 AM
2

definitely not interested in friendship Translates to “definitely not interested in any relationship at all”. A girl can sense that because that’s how she’s wired. She can feel that and won’t come running back to someone who gives off that vibe, unless she’s a headcase. It’s about how you make her feel. If you’re consistently making them feel bad, it’s gonna be very short term relationships and ONS for you brother.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 07:31 PM
5

The connection you’re feeling are because they’re making themselves available to you: flirting with you, sexually open to you. Hotter girls usually have higher standards so they may seem a bit more “cold” if they’re not into you.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 12:10 AM
1

Try to get her to hang out for fuck time
/r/askTRP19/11/20 05:52 AM
2

Flirting good. Best sign is when she asks for you to hold her hand while she pees.
/r/seduction19/11/20 03:54 AM
5

Just because she rejected you a couple of times doesn’t mean that she didn’t eventually want it. Maybe she was pissed that you missed the signals when she was ready. Girls are moment to moment emotionally so you have to accept that “craziness”.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:24 AM
1

If you’re not as attractive you might have to settle for not as attractive women. Better to put it out there up front than give unrealistic expectations.
/r/seduction19/11/20 02:21 AM
6

Oh ok I thought you meant to desensitise yourself to their beauty only. Fair enough
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:31 AM
9

Beach, if you’re near one. Thong bikinis. It’s like soft core porn.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:21 AM
2

Nothing wrong with saying “I had a fun date, I’m out of town for 2 weeks, I’ll hit you up when I get back. Love you 😍😘😘😘😝😝😂😚🤪🤩” Last part optional.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:15 PM
1

Fucking 3 years is a long time! You mustn’t be very flirty or he might not think of you in that way because of all the time spent in each others friendzone. In my experience most guys would make a move in that time if you were giving out any signals at all. He might be gay (half serious).
/r/seduction17/11/20 11:11 PM
2

Abundance mentality and attractiveness can be achieved through attitude alone. If a chad breaks up with his girlfriend and is single, he still knows that he can get high quality girls so projects that confidence without needing the girls to prove it.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:06 PM
1

It’s clear that this is your oneitis. And this is a big shit test. If you agree to this, there’s no getting in her pants.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 12:05 PM
2

You obviously are invested to some degree because you are giving details like “she lives alone in an apartment with her new cat”, and you are bothering to talk to her. It’s best to cut contact with her. Yes she is trying to make you jealous and perhaps would get back with you, but why does that matter if you don’t want that? Old feelings for exes are best dealt with alone. Reaching out to one another perpetuates the pain and perhaps furthers a feeling of longing (especially if you are single). T…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 12:02 PM
2

Thanks for your useless contribution. Maybe add something that is of value instead
/r/seduction17/11/20 06:26 AM
8

Jesus had many plates. Pumped iron at the gym. Had unbreakable frame - son of god. But he was also captain save a ho - kissed that prostitutes feet.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 12:48 AM
1

Reduce their ego by poking fun at them/teasing, not by being butthurt and retaliating. Do this as soon as possible to get them on the defensive
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:27 PM
4

You have a very nuanced, educated and mature outlook on life INNA. Are you sure you’re in the right sub ;) Thanks for your contribution. Stuff I’m really interested in.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/20 01:47 PM
12

But reinforcing thoughts apparently can change your beliefs Edit: also as you reinforce your thoughts/beliefs you look for ways to prove them
/r/TheRedPill15/11/20 10:10 AM
35

You don’t think you can brainwash yourself into believing something? There is always the supposed problem of the subconscious, but I find personally if I consciously think positive thoughts I tend to feel better, at least in the short term.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/20 10:04 AM
-13

Gay
/r/askTRP14/11/20 12:47 PM
0

Quote the lie please
/r/seduction14/11/20 11:22 AM
0

Why would you react so strongly if he was 100% wrong?
/r/seduction14/11/20 06:37 AM
17

Mark Manson wrote a book on this, “models”
/r/seduction14/11/20 05:22 AM
12

I guess it all came to a logical conclusion. Interesting experience though I’m sure. On to the next
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:35 AM
8

As others have said, stop doubting yourself and go for what you want.
/r/seduction14/11/20 01:32 AM
2

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Other dudes probably would think that your ex isn’t as great as you do. Added to this is a personality meshing that you had. Hard truth is that she may have been high value to you but there is other high value women. You just have to get yourself to a position where you can get them.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 01:30 AM
96

Thanks naughtychick9999
/r/seduction14/11/20 01:27 AM
3

To females he finds attractive
/r/seduction13/11/20 11:23 PM
1

Stop posting links to your site, Dan Bacon
/r/seduction13/11/20 10:25 PM
3

It would only make sense to go for women that spark your attraction. Otherwise there’s no joy in it, or pain for that matter.
/r/seduction13/11/20 07:59 PM
7

It sounds like you want to just have a chick locked down so you can focus on your goals and don’t have the time to seduce multiple women. This girl may have been a “good girl” and suited to the above, but remember, “good girls” will react to weakness like any other and desire a high quality, strong man, like any other. Remember that she’s not special and there are other girls like her and as good as her, that you don’t have a bad history with. With that in mind, you can go for it if you want, ge…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 12:18 PM
6

Depends on what your goals are, how old you are etc. if you’re young it may get pay to forget about her and go for a plate spinning expedition. You also didn’t mention how your love life is since breaking up. So if your goal is to enter another LTR you need to work out if you’ve pedestalised this girl and how the dynamic would be if you were together again. If she is your oneitis it might be better for you in the long run to meet other high quality girls. However if it was as good as you’ve made…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 11:28 AM
6

Work on generating sexual arousal in women. Read up and practice on this point. That will keep women around.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 03:04 AM
21

The same rules don’t apply to a 15 year old girl. You are not her beta bux, you probably don’t have two dollars to rub together. Escalate slowly through physical touch, foreplay, eating her out. If that doesn’t work you can find someone your own age.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 10:43 AM
7

SOME women (low self esteem women) don’t know what’s good for them and subconsciously get in relationships with abusive men. Women that have been abused in repeated previous relationships are ones to avoid. That’s not victim blaming, that’s called connecting the dots.
/r/seduction12/11/20 09:21 AM
2

Become self amused, do what you find fun in each interaction. Yes it is a numbers game, but focus on each individual interaction and be with it.
/r/seduction12/11/20 06:34 AM
3

Instead of focussing on the numbers, try to have a really fun, interesting interaction with each individual girl. Break it down. You make it good for both of you by leading the interaction in a way that you find interesting or fun, and bringing her along for the ride.
/r/seduction12/11/20 04:29 AM
6

No
/r/askTRP12/11/20 02:30 AM
5

Plenty more chicks like that, find one. Also why say “actual whore” if she wasn’t a prostitute?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:34 AM
8

Lots of girls do it because it’s in vogue. Hive mind/ sheep think. Nearly all healthy women want a dominant man to submit to. Genetic wiring trumps political vogue.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 12:21 PM
6

All she is saying is that the sex wasn’t amazing. She’ll be down for another time man
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:40 AM
9

“King of the jungle, baby”
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:00 AM
3

Yeah you are correct, status symbols point to a lifestyle. And lifestyle is what we all want, a wage slave that buys a nice car is still a wage slave, albeit one that’s making bad decisions with money. Women are attracted to certain lifestyles. Some may be attracted to the businessman who flies to different locations. Some, the DJ because of all the fun he has. Focus on your vision. If it is successful, certain women will be attracted to that. At least be more interesting than the norm. A big ca…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/20 01:34 AM
2

Ignore her
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:20 AM
2

How do you feel about yourself?
/r/seduction07/11/20 09:58 AM
68

Only losers spell losers loosers
/r/TheRedPill07/11/20 09:56 AM
24

Anywhere where there’s people
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:49 AM
2

No you have low self esteem. Fix that and you’ll be sweet
/r/seduction07/11/20 09:49 AM
8

Look for validation elsewhere. You have a plate that is submissive and comes over whenever you want and doesn’t annoy you. That’s a good deal man. Edit: flirting with hot women is a great way to get validation. Getting numbers etc
/r/askTRP06/11/20 03:18 AM
13

You’re only looking for validation. You’re getting everything you want out of her but now are complaining that she doesn’t text you. Didn’t you just say that you only wanted to text for logistics. As long as she’s keen for sex when you meet up there’s nothing to change here.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 03:01 AM
2

The double bind. Low self esteem bitches love using them
/r/askTRP05/11/20 07:41 AM
1

There’s nothing wrong here bro. Proceed to date
/r/askTRP05/11/20 07:28 AM
1

Dunno about saying friends, I’d rather not lie but that’s me. What about “would love to see you again”. Sounds like she could be keen for some excitement on the side (major assumption based on the info you’ve given) so paint that picture but don’t make her feel slutty or bad.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:12 AM
1

Meet chicks at the gym. Rules were meant to be broken. And the gym isn’t a high pressure social situation. Edit: you can always find another gym too
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:02 AM
4

Yes I reckon you could smash if you play it right. Sounds like she’s hamstering into trying to be happy but isn’t.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:00 AM
22

Don’t worry, providers get no sex anyway. Better to be the toyboy and bodyguard
/r/askTRP05/11/20 03:35 AM
2

Try the strategy and see if it works. My opinion it would depend on the woman and what had happened prior. If she has interest in you, there’s no way it won’t work.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 03:29 AM
1

Dorms seems best Edit: only if you have your own bed room
/r/askTRP05/11/20 03:07 AM
1

Love the breast. Treat it like a newborn. Make love to it.
/r/seduction05/11/20 03:04 AM
3

Overthinking. Any nice public place will do. A park with coffee is fine
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:36 PM
25

You’re probably in the “pain period” where you have to confront a few lacking skills. My advice for you is exposure. You’re good looking so that will give you an in with most people, so just go from there. Socialising is a natural process so you will pick it up. Everyone has quirks, that’s what makes them interesting. As for women (and this might sound a little fairyish), what do they inspire out of you? I behave differently with different girls because they each inspire a different part of me. …
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:28 PM
7

Yeah you’re overthinking to a degree. Just pick a day on the weekend and shoot for that. Key to seduction is inducing emotions (usually positive) within your girl and yourself. Be congruent and this normally happens, unless you’re boring as fuck or not attracted to her. Don’t be afraid to touch her or tease her. If it feels right do it.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:20 PM
1

Indirect game may very well be like small talk. But what I’m saying is that doesn’t mean shit, just find your way to flirt with girls and that’s all that matters.
/r/seduction04/11/20 10:36 AM
26

Have you tried cry-wanking?
/r/askTRP04/11/20 09:59 AM
1

Don’t get caught up in buzz words
/r/seduction04/11/20 09:53 AM
15

You forgot boybands. What a gay poll.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/20 09:17 AM
1

Just talk and flirt
/r/seduction04/11/20 08:50 AM
4

A lot of redpill advice is for short term, low investment relationships for girls that are of a certain type. And it is successful for this. Naturally, this will screen out a lot of women that want more than just sex. Those with healthy self esteem and more “good girl” morals will want a deeper relationship for example and many who are angry or false will not get these girls for any length of time. But many, many women are happy to be in a sexual relationship without much commitment. Equally fal…
/r/askTRP04/11/20 08:46 AM
2

Go for what you want
/r/seduction04/11/20 08:33 AM
2

I think he’s having a breakdown. If not, quality shitpost
/r/askTRP04/11/20 07:25 AM
1

nice ad. f off
/r/seduction04/11/20 06:59 AM
1

Haha yeah good idea Yeah you are going to have to make money somehow. Find a job that has a relaxed culture where you can be yourself and that offers a flexible work schedule. Or start a business and make your own rules.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:24 AM
1

Everyone has to submit somewhat to live a “normal” life. Those who don’t, live lives such as that which you’ve described. Most find a degree of conformity they’re comfortable with and live in that. That doesn’t mean you have to live an all American 9-5 life. Live off the grid somewhere, for example. It feels like you’re bragging to a degree. Also you’re attractiveness to women means nil unless you’re having sex with them. Write back in with field reports of the attractive women you slay and you …
/r/askTRP04/11/20 04:54 AM
3

Talk about anything. The mood is what matters most. Mood should be light if you don’t want the deep and meaningfuls
/r/seduction04/11/20 04:32 AM
2

Depends on context obviously, but your more likely to fall into bed if you do those things. Other stuff is for deeper connection which isn’t essential for casual hookups
/r/seduction04/11/20 01:20 AM
2

Perfect teacher student role play scenario. She’s getting off on being submissive. She’s keen on you. Charge her full price and give her 1 on 1s.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 11:56 PM
2

I might be wrong, but you might be being a bit too overt/cocky. In the right settings that works great but you might be making them feel slutty triggering the ASD. You might have more success if you try a bit more charm.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 11:51 PM
2

In the case of the doctor, you communicate your intentions through your behaviour. If you’re giving of the vibe of “I’m going to fuck you tonight”, the woman can either submit to that or not. If she doesn’t you next her. It’s about knowing what you want and aligning your behaviour to that.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 11:47 PM
1

If you have something specific to talk about a therapist can be wonderful
/r/askTRP03/11/20 11:42 PM
4

Good start buddy. It’s only up from there. Remember you’re not always going to get a positive reaction, but that’s normal.
/r/seduction03/11/20 11:41 PM
4

Flirt, humour, tease, touch, FUN. Stay away from intellectual discussion (some girls like this but most it bores to death)
/r/seduction03/11/20 11:39 PM
1

Yeah a CASUAL date would be the way to go. One where your not lavishing her with things. That will further push you into asexual nice guy territory. Better would be if you could get her straight to your place. Higher risk. Also, you may have a bit of the Madonna/whore complex. Which is where you think the girl that you “love” is somehow not a sexual being that is capable of slutty behaviour. Keep in mind that she is just as sexual as you, if not more and wants to have hot sex as well. Good luck
/r/seduction03/11/20 10:56 PM
1

Only way to see is get in her presence again and flirt with her again. She may give you another chance
/r/seduction03/11/20 10:46 PM
2

She was giving signals to hook up. You went the other way. Girl sees this as hesitancy, therefore the opposite of confidence. This is a step backwards, as evidenced in the vibe going south. Show your desire through your body and making a move. Generally, the thing is, be BOLD. Take the chance. Women appreciate being desired and take it as a massive compliment in the right man. Obviously, your going to get rejected from time to time but that’s where the signals come in. If she is giving out green…
/r/seduction03/11/20 10:29 PM
2

The second answer is something I wholeheartedly agree with
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:00 AM
-6

Nah it was just his remark in my treatment of women. I agreed and amplified.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 01:37 AM
24

Bait and switch. Frequent sex to no sex. You’ve become a provider not a lover. Look it up. She’s now going to betaize you, which seems to be happening alarmingly fast.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:54 AM
1

Don’t pursue. This girl is just for fucking. Try to keep your mind straight and remind yourself that she’s doing this with other guys.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:49 AM
3

Don’t use IG, or facebook, snapchat or anything Use Facebook messenger, tinder and reddit In my case it helped my mental because I had less FOMO
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:50 PM
3

I’m sure she’ll find a beta bux virgin to marry at 35
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:43 PM
2

Definitely, the more positive reactions you get, the more it seems to make you believe that you’ll get a positive reaction again. As for the emotions, you just have to deal with them in the moment.
/r/seduction02/11/20 10:42 PM
2

Yes teasing, bantering and flirting are basically all you need. Communicate with your body as well. Trying to be “stoic” does not give off player vibes. But it can be effective when mixed with cocky/funny
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:34 PM
1

Women value harmony in social environments. So of course this will include inclusiveness. This is also why women “lie” instead of facing a harsh truth that would destroy harmony.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:31 PM
31

Not all your jokes/lines are gonna be hits. Even the best comedians bomb sets. Gotta be strong enough to absorb the L and keep on truckin’.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:29 PM
5

You need to be able to engage her emotions somewhat for her to feel stimulated. Girls are aroused in two ways: words, and masculine dominance. You need to be able to “speak their language” somewhat to be “that guy” that can engage them but still remain masculine. Read “practical female psychology” for help on this. Particularly female sub-communication.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 09:36 AM
1

If you’re high value like you said, it won’t matter if you message them first. Yes, you are showing interest, but also confidence. What comes after the first message is what matters more.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:49 AM
6

Sum up your work activities as “grinding”. Girls like guys that workout so don’t worry about that. You do t have to involve her in boring specifics. Paint it as you have ambition and are going somewhere. That’s it.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:17 AM
4

Love a bit of shrimp chowder. My plates are always full
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:15 AM
1

Huge. Still get the bitches though. I don’t reckon they care much about it
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:09 AM
5

10% body fat is great by any measure. I don’t have any advice to get you lower. But my advice would be not to worry if you’re 10% body fat
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:50 AM
18

Obsessed with body fat %. Eat a sandwich bro
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:30 AM
2

There’s one word that defines your problem: scarcity. If you had 2 or more hot chicks that you were plating atm you wouldn’t care.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:28 AM
1

Advice: lose your filter and be bold
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:17 AM
2

If you are a nice guy you need to come to terms with why you’re acting so wimpy and address that. If you are generally a decent person naturally, you can still get girls, you just need an edge of some sort to make yourself interesting and a challenge.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:09 AM
1

Higher self esteem
/r/seduction02/11/20 03:03 AM
1

Just sexually escalate. Don’t give off loving, relationship vibes, which should be easy because you’re on your first date.
/r/seduction02/11/20 02:36 AM
-2

Don’t even bother trying to communicate like you said. It will trigger ASD (anti slut defence). If you’re into her only physically, then that will be communicated in how you talk to her and how you treat her. Just continue with your desires and this will be clear to her.
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:44 AM
5

In my opinion, faking that shit is ridiculous. You either have a busy life or you don’t. If you put her off by lying, that lie is going to fester and come out in needy behaviour. Lying to get a girl is needy behaviour anyway.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 12:40 AM
7

Keep in mind that this is how she behaves with other men as well. You are not special, just attractive to her. She is using you as validation as well. Girls like that tend to cheat and or flirt with a lot of guys even when in a relationship. Not love material.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 09:32 PM
2

I’m 30 - between 15 - 20
/r/seduction01/11/20 05:45 AM
2

When you say hooked up, do you mean sexed?
/r/seduction01/11/20 05:41 AM
3

“I know what you’re up to, it’s over”
/r/askTRP01/11/20 04:16 AM
8

To a hot older woman who’s in her 30’s “you’re at least 40” To a cute chick “you’re such a loser” Generally taking what you want without courtesy. Eg tickling, touching a girl, sexual aggressiveness etc
/r/askTRP01/11/20 04:13 AM
23

It takes finesse to be disrespectful without having people hate you. Subtle disrespect is top level
/r/askTRP01/11/20 04:05 AM
7

“I love/you look so hot when you do yourself up”
/r/askTRP01/11/20 03:46 AM
19

The more disrespectful you are, the more hot chicks want you
/r/askTRP01/11/20 03:31 AM
1

Maybe to some young chicks. Better quality, older ones are looking for personality traits
/r/askTRP01/11/20 02:12 AM
2

Yeah I relate. Currently there’s this pretty, decent personality chick who I work with who’s giving me all the signs, and I’m giving her all the signs. And I’m losing sleep over he at the moment. Catching the feels, but she’s in a relationship
/r/seduction01/11/20 12:29 AM
2

Everyone has hang ups. Healthy, attractive women exist. Edit: it’s all a spectrum
/r/askTRP01/11/20 12:26 AM
1

Always a question of whether or not to shit where you eat. I lean towards not doing that. But when you’re thinking about someone at 1 in the morning, all rules seem to disappear. Girls sometimes love the game of flirting and would not go all the way. Sometimes they would. They’re also aware of the high risk of work romance but sometimes like the validation and fun that comes with flirting at work. It definitely passes the time quicker. The only way to find out where she stands is to make a move.
/r/seduction01/11/20 12:14 AM
1

Feelings can be developed in seconds with the right person. What you’re talking about is commitment.
/r/seduction31/10/20 08:15 AM
11

Partly subjective partly universal. Self confidence for example is universally attractive in men
/r/seduction31/10/20 05:56 AM
11

Once you master something let it go. One way to get the excitement back is to approach women that you find very attractive.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 02:04 AM
4

You don’t need to start a relationship. Just take them for something fun to do and escalate
/r/seduction30/10/20 11:32 PM
20

Sometimes girls choose a “nice guy” because mentally they think it is “right” for them, or they were treated “badly” by a “bad boy” so they flip to the other side of the spectrum because they think they will be treasured and cherished.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 11:25 PM
3

Got ghosted for saying “sexy pic” in tinder. Yes my experience backs this up
/r/askTRP30/10/20 11:20 PM
8

Proximity Edit: signals to continue the mating ritual. Which is largely subconscious.
/r/seduction30/10/20 10:55 PM
38

She’ll give signals. It’s up to you to interpret. If you want a girl to chase you, you need to be higher value than her. Then show that in your behaviour, ie not be needy.
/r/seduction30/10/20 09:31 PM
2

They’re probably more open to flirting
/r/seduction30/10/20 08:19 PM
2

Girls don’t value looks the same as men do. For them it’s about attributes. “Alpha” attributes, confidence, humour, leadership etc
/r/seduction30/10/20 02:21 PM
3

Marriage shouldn’t come into the conversation in the first year
/r/askTRP30/10/20 01:48 PM
2

Yes I would do this. You have to find a guy that’s right for that. Most will want to lock you down but some (usually experienced players) will be able to appreciate a relationship like that. To me it’s ideal
/r/seduction30/10/20 09:21 AM
5

Not much experience with fucking teens since I was that age. But more power to you. They’re hotter when they’re younger (up to a limit)
/r/askTRP30/10/20 09:18 AM
2

Move into your body and act spontaneously
/r/seduction30/10/20 09:17 AM
4

Yeah there has to be a focus on experience as well. The theory does help to a degree but nothing will make you grow like hands on, personal experience.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/20 06:03 AM
2

Read No more mr nice guy. You may have nice guy syndrome.
/r/seduction30/10/20 03:50 AM
4

This. You don’t need to go OP. It’s just a way for her to test you for further commitment. If you’re happy with a low investment plate, keep it that way by maintaining that frame.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 03:45 AM
6

If she was cool she would’ve let it slide. Dodged a bullet man
/r/seduction30/10/20 03:42 AM
18

No, porn is a money making industry that cashes in on male sex drive. There is no ulterior motive other than making money.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 09:40 AM
2

You’ll get back to your natural personality in time
/r/askTRP29/10/20 09:38 AM
4

If you don’t care about them you shouldn’t care. But since you want to inflict something on them, leaving them “read” would get the message across better.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 09:35 AM
10

You didn’t mention an abortion
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:16 AM
1

Let go and enjoy the ride. If you’re beta, use it as experience. If you’re having a good time people will naturally be drawn to you.
/r/seduction29/10/20 08:13 AM
2

First step is to go out at clubs with a butt plug in. Gives a twinkle in the eye that the girls find irresistible.
/r/seduction29/10/20 08:10 AM
21

The mental gymnastics and anguish you’re putting yourself through over this is a worry. Nothing seems salty about the texts
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:48 AM
8

10’ penis. Flaccid. 7”2’. Crouched. 0.3% body fat. Ripped. Can make girls come by looking them in the eyes. Have a harem of 28 model tier women that live in my house. Which is a 30 bedroom mansion. Fuck a different 2 every day. Which means I don’t fuck the same girl in a fortnight. Have gay eunuch butlers that serve me and my harem. Drive Maserati’s and Ferrari’s.
/r/seduction29/10/20 04:00 AM
1

You should have probably already tried to close for a date
/r/askTRP29/10/20 03:48 AM
1

Some girls like to move quickly. So she may be bored if you’re not moving things in a solid direction. Attempt to close for a date.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 03:46 AM
1

Chicks care about status and alpha behaviour more than body fat percentage
/r/askTRP29/10/20 01:48 AM
1

Physique good enough to pick up any woman. As long as the other shit is in order.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 01:19 AM
2

This shit happens subconsciously most of the time. But yes, you can make a concerted effort to make sure he doesn’t miss the message
/r/seduction28/10/20 11:54 AM
3

It’s a bit hard if you’re not even in the same room. If you do want him, find a way to get in close proximity and the signals should be received if he’s looking for them.
/r/seduction28/10/20 11:35 AM
3

I don’t think I can teach you how to flirt over a reddit message. But what works for me is to keep things light, humorous, teasing and with sexual undertones. The sexual undertones should be present naturally if you’re attracted to her.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:56 AM
0

I picked an STI up from a plate once as well. At this dirty ass restaurant. Waitress must have been rubbing it on her pussy or something...
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:47 AM
10

Firstly don’t judge her. Present your most open minded self. Be comfortable with female sexuality. And don’t feel inexperienced because you only fucked one girl. You probably fucked her plenty of times over 6 years so see that as experience.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:43 AM
2

Not LTR material. Fine for casual relationships just don’t get attached otherwise you’ll want to control her
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:08 AM
1

I mostly wrote that in humour. I’ve never cottoned on to the daygame numbers game. Probably because I live in a large town. 50,000. The way he wrote this sounded like he was doing himself damage by how many rejections he was getting. If that builds him a thicker skin, good for him. But he did sound desperate for validation.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 11:38 PM
4

When a girl is saying “I don’t know what to do” she is handing over the reins to you. So picture what you would like the relationship to look like and move to make that happen. In your case, if that is controlling her weight gain, insist that she run. If that’s more social engagement and activities, plan for events that you’ll find fun and lead her along.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:03 AM
6

If you feel like the relationship is not growing your life anymore you need to LEAD to make it so OR end the relationship.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:52 AM
12

Social circle is massive. But being a confident, dominant, funny, flirty man is the biggest thing you can do.
/r/seduction27/10/20 03:49 AM
7

False projection of value. NEXT her. Only get involved with women AFTER you’ve had sex with them. Major determinant of compatability.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:37 AM
6

Take it easy brother. You’re in a good place. Deep breath. Now act on what chick you’re horny for. Enjoy the moment and you’ll give her good sex. Don’t hold anything back and you’ll give her great sex.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:35 AM
1

This is the best answer. You eat an elephant one bite at a time. Work on getting one plate, then another and so on. Also, the quality of girl that you get might have to be accepted. With your level of game and experience, you might not get good level women to begin with.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:33 AM
1

As someone suggested, narcissistic mother or some other complex such as the Madonna/whore complex is effecting your judgement. At least you’re aware of it. Now you need to address it.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:24 AM
1

Probably a stress related thing?
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:21 AM
1

The art of seduction
/r/seduction27/10/20 03:18 AM
4

Conversely, if you like yourself, people are more likely to like you. Also, not EVERYONE is going to like you. Someone who is truly themselves is going to step on some toes here and there. If you want everyone to like you, you become PLEASANT and not particularly edgy or risky, leading to everyone being INDIFFERENT. Also if a 30 year old virgin had had some self worth and liked himself, he wouldn’t be a virgin. You’re saying you need other people to like you to like yourself. I’m saying you have…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 11:39 PM
1

I didn’t exactly say that. I said he was validation seeking and looking out for self acceptance. If you need external gratification to feel good about yourself you are going to have a hard life. If, on the other hand, you feel good about yourself regardless of how some rando chick reacts to you, your life will be better. The caveat is that it feels good to most to have a receptive beautiful woman in front of you but some chase that feeling like a starving, whimpering dog.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 11:06 PM
1

Yeah I concur. That’s a good side gig to keep you excited and socially engaged at the very least. At best to find hot young girls to sex as well. When I said drunk I meant slightly inebriated. Enough to get the cheeks flushed and the blood pumping.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 05:53 AM
2

That’s a good job to have. Lots of young horny drunk women around. I agree about the female friends. I’ve got a friend at work that I play tennis with and she’s tryna set me up with a girl.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 05:43 AM
2

I totally agree. There’s also the added confidence/ comfort you get with being your natural self amongst people you know. It’s kind of like you’re alone and desperate in the wild when you cold approach.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 05:37 AM
12

Sex God method gets a lot of jizz here
/r/askTRP26/10/20 05:24 AM
17

You’re a wounded warrior man. A martyr. With a golf stick up his arse. Walking the streets in search of that sweet validation. Putting all of your worth externally, desperately seeking some form of self acceptance but looking out instead of in. Bigger balls than me though.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 05:20 AM
2

You’re a dickhead. She doesn’t love you she wants money from you.
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:45 AM
1

A high self esteem woman wants a quality man. So if you can’t match her, yes she will look elsewhere. Not necessarily cheat though. The solution is to become more confident.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 08:05 PM
1

Don’t like low self esteem girls. They’ll fuck up your world with toxic drama
/r/askTRP25/10/20 07:59 PM
0

Either she disqualified herself from you (she was low self esteem and thought she didn’t deserve you). Or she disqualified you (you weren’t good enough for her).
/r/askTRP25/10/20 07:55 PM
1

Understanding leads to mastery
/r/seduction25/10/20 07:49 PM
2

Definitely
/r/seduction25/10/20 07:47 PM
165

Um, you took her to a restaurant AFTER you saw fresh wounds on her. You need some correction man
/r/TheRedPill25/10/20 10:03 AM
1

Sudan
/r/askTRP25/10/20 07:58 AM
1

I woulda HELLA TURNT it off
/r/askTRP25/10/20 07:20 AM
10

Some low self esteem bitches need to be able to manipulate with there pussy to feel attracted
/r/askTRP24/10/20 11:23 PM
18

Wake up Hunt lions naked Impregnate goddesses Shit pure gold Set forest afire by staring at it Bench press elephants
/r/askTRP24/10/20 09:43 PM
2

Try to find women that you enjoy spending some time with also. Otherwise those relationships will be exceedingly shallow. Having the frame of your comment isn’t a bad thing. It means you won’t settle for shitty girls who are basic and boring. Maintain that mindset and look for good quality women.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 07:55 PM
2

You’re taking a defeatist attitude. Bowing out because you’re not having success yet. That’s why TRP says NEXT. You gotta put the past behind you and move on to the next one. You’ll find some girls don’t worry.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 07:37 PM
5

The good quality chicks desire a good quality man. That usually means having a high level of genuine confidence (aka alpha frame). If you’re lacking in some internal way, those chicks will not want to have sex with you.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 07:33 PM
11

Showing that you aren’t at their beck and call can build attraction in the right woman. This is best done in person.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 07:31 PM
2

Firstly, your tinder profile. It pays to get good pics of you that aren’t selfies. If you want a better profile, go out of your way to do that. Enlist the help of one of your friends. You’re 6’5” so you stand out from the crowd (pun intended). Secondly socially, having a strong core group of friends is good for human life. If you go out with these friends it is a good base to meet new people (I know COVID) including girls. Just be seen enough with your friends then approach a girl for her number…
/r/askTRP24/10/20 07:25 PM
9

NEXT. Don’t blame yourself. Try to seduce multiple women.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 07:19 PM
3

How did you get into this position? We’re you spinning plates at the beginning? It’s fine to choose a woman for an ltr but it’s best done from a position of abundance and choice. So you have options and also so you can compare many women to see which one is right for an LTR. Obviously read up on LTR maintenance. And know what kind of woman you’re really dealing with. Edit: or start getting some on the side
/r/askTRP24/10/20 02:27 AM
1

Simple solution is to satisfy both. Go out sometimes and stay in others. Then you’ll feel like your not missing out on either.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 11:31 PM
1

This is just prejudice at work. Stupid fucks. Just prove them wrong and beat them in your marks and they’ll either hate you more or come crawling back. Either way just laugh at them.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 11:20 PM
3

More aggressively seek out women to get more experience.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 10:54 PM
1

I trust her to act in accordance with her character. Which is that of an attention seeker of attractive males. Which is why I’d never ltr her or give her boyfriend vibes
/r/askTRP22/10/20 08:44 PM
1

It doesn’t matter if you say it’s a date or not usually. But in your case since she has been the aggressor, it might be a little confusing on your part. You will know if it’s a date or not after you finish it. Treat her as a love interest and she will get the message.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 06:59 AM
3

Just say you need some time to focus on your pt test
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:41 AM
6

If she is high self esteem, you’ll only become dominant over her by passing her tests. That usually means you’ll have to interact with her.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 12:54 AM
1

I don’t care if she cheats. I’m not getting into a relationship with her. She’s cheating on someone with me. I’m not going to put myself in his position.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 10:05 PM
2

Good answer bro. I was being optimistic and not thinking about what could go wrong. Thing is it’s so much easier for me to pick up with social group game than cold approach. But anyway just gotta do the work.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:37 PM
4

Just adding to this, a girl that is submitting to you wants you to take the lead. If she feels like she has shown signs of submission and you don’t lead, she will think you weak or uninterested in her.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:28 PM
22

Lack of an alpha father, absent father, no father. These factors make things difficult for a boy to see the correct dynamic between a man and woman. And since most females are able to turn even strong men beta in marriage, it’s not surprising. Also things like feminism, social media, technology in general mean people are becoming less and less confident in person.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:21 PM
2

You’re welcome man. Good luck
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:52 PM
3

They’re reacting because this is a recent change. People like predictability in personalities.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:48 PM
1

Look up the Madonna/whore complex. You probably have it. A good source for this is “Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man”. You can access a free version online.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:43 PM
1

Don’t be a dancing monkey to entertain her. Tease the fuck out of her to entertain yourself. Sex and seduction should be for YOUR enjoyment.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:33 PM
2

Just fucking enjoy it man! Don’t you feel excited when you see a hot girl? Don’t you feel your pants bulge when you’re in the presence of a hot woman? Nature has designed you to want to fuck women, don’t fight that. “The game” is just you getting into her pants, but it’s also nature’s way of weeding out the weak males.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:31 PM
1

You need to do some reading. All the principles in the red pill are designed to give you more power when dealing with the opposite sex.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:27 PM
0

Totally normal at your age. I wouldn’t worry about that. Feel your desire for them but don’t let it control you if possible. Otherwise you will be like their toy. Build your other seduction skills to balance the power and be a challenge to them. Ask yourself, “if I don’t get this girl, does it really matter?”, then “if I went without sex for a long time, would that be the end of the world?” (Let me tell you it’s not). In saying all that, seducing women is an incredibly fun and stimulating thing …
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:21 PM
1

You should be amusing yourself man! Fuck you’ve got this all backwards
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:14 PM
1

If you had had successful, fulfilling relationships with women would you be speaking the same way? It’s on you to get yourself to a mindset to enjoy and celebrate the opposite sex.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:13 PM
4

Dudes that hate women are dudes that are really bad with women. Try to have fun with them, they are extremely fun creatures
/r/askTRP21/10/20 12:45 PM
6

Tennis, walking, golf. Taking a stroll is good for the soul - that should be a t shirt
/r/askTRP21/10/20 10:03 AM
3

“Could I borrow you for a sec”
/r/askTRP21/10/20 09:30 AM
13

I reckon saying it is “pathetic” crosses the line. I wouldn’t accept that. Start to reduce contact. She might learn a lesson. If she keeps doing it, break the plate.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 09:29 AM
10

If she likes you she will do it willingly so a simple request should suffice
/r/askTRP21/10/20 09:24 AM
1

I was thinking triangle
/r/askTRP21/10/20 07:05 AM
5

Women are horniest when they’re ovulating
/r/askTRP21/10/20 07:03 AM
1

If you put a winky face after what you said, it might have increased her attraction to you as it would have been an effective tease. She may have then proved herself to you by giving you a blowjob. If what you said works, she either has very low self esteem or you’ve got rockstar status.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 07:01 AM
5

Correct answer. Took too long. She gave you all the signs.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:41 AM
8

Girls like to be challenged, and don’t like supplication. Over the top compliments fail both these tests. In saying that, rare genuine complements can go a long way. Whispering sweet nothings in a girls ear for example or a genuine appreciation when you first lay eyes on a girl. Teasing (I hate the word negging) is effective when it is not genuinely meant and is funny. Mean comments only work on low self esteem girls and you don’t want those. Example I used the other day: hot milf blonde type, c…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 02:49 AM
1

Heaps of talking without any action (leading to sexual action) will make the woman feel that you are a coward. Essentially, you have to lead. Sometimes that means telling her things, mostly it means making your intentions known by setting a structure and taking action.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 02:22 AM
3

Yeah. Anything that addresses confidence, assertiveness, humour are universally respected by men and women.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:23 AM
10

Do t be a fucking sperg man. If it’s women you want. Invest that money into a behavioural or communication course/seminar. Much more return on investment.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:13 AM
2

It might be because you were unsuccessful early on that you believe that you are somehow now undeserving of success. Girls will only spend time with you if they think you’re good enough for them. Sometimes they know this straight away and sometimes they work it out after a while. Usually, they know quite quickly. Don’t downplay your current success. You are obviously attractive and confident enough to get women. I’m unsure of the type and quality of the women you are getting, but this means that…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:11 AM
1

Well you’re obviously not man enough for her to ditch her other plates. Some chicks just do t want to be tied down though so don’t take it personally.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 12:35 AM
4

I consider my experience with women dating back to high school. I haven’t tried to change myself really since reading TRP it just confirmed a lot and made me understand more. If you’re history with women is limited just go out and do shit. You’re young and have plenty of time to fuck up and go again. I’ve beta’d out before and then I’ve been alpha as well. Dating plenty of women is a great place to be. If you feel like a fraud, you need to be a bit more genuine, even if that means you beta out a…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 12:33 AM
4

“Wanna paint me nude?” Edit: joking. Just be normal man. You don’t need to push any lines and shit just let it flow
/r/askTRP21/10/20 12:25 AM
3

Low on self confidence. Your experience with women might hemp to correct that, or not. It comes from within as well. If your semi goodlooking and can flirt, you can pick up. I’m 6” 113kg, but have good frame and can flirt. Hot chicks love my advances. Don’t doubt yourself man.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 12:24 AM
8

The only thing you can do is channel the extra energy into productive/creative things
/r/askTRP21/10/20 12:19 AM
8

Find a girl that isn’t doing that then. But it shows your not man enough to handle some chicks.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 12:16 AM
8

Dude what a weird conclusion. Most of the West is obsessed with carbs. One woman’s cooking does not equal another’s.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 12:15 AM
2

Is she attractive? Do you spend more time thinking about her than your plates? If so, she may be a good option for an LTR but your frame must be strong. Girls that have higher self esteem will spend more time getting to know you before having sex with you. That looks like what this girl is doing. These types of girls also make better LTR material.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 12:13 AM
1

If you’re sure they can’t lead you on you can friendzone them. Become friends with them and hang out with them. That may lead to meeting her friends. However if there’s romantic feeling in your interactions and then you request to meet her friends, it will likely be bad for you.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 12:08 AM
1

First move should be the pawn or knight. E4 is a good start.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 09:29 AM
2

Made a girl cry cos I wouldn’t emotionally open up to her. She called me “blocked”. I started to not speak to her much then hooked up with another chick. Then she got together with a friend of mine and called me to tell me
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:37 AM
1

With that attitude you won’t
/r/askTRP20/10/20 12:55 AM
2

Firstly she sounds like a psycho, sex addicted slut. Which can work if you are right for the job and want that hot sex on the side. Clearly, you weren’t right for the job. She wasn’t impressed by your sex, and demeaned you directly. Also you don’t need to be in constant contact. She was manipulating you the whole time, in person and over text. Gotta do what you want, if that doesn’t work, kill that shit.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 12:14 AM
3

I would be using her as a sex doll for the next 5 days man. Don’t hold anything back
/r/askTRP20/10/20 12:07 AM
13

Read between the lines a little bit here. She’s leaving in 5 days and tells you she sees it as a “chore” because you do it every morning. What she’s really saying is that she’s bored with the sex you’re having currently and she wants to do freaky shit before she leaves. Go out with a bang. So mix it up. Different times, different positions, different places, kinky shit. Isn’t it funny (obvious) that she responded by getting horny watching porn with you - something different, see.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 11:50 PM
2

Chalk this one up to “bitches be cray”
/r/askTRP19/10/20 12:37 PM
2

I know you said you wanted people to speak who had experience and I can say that I don’t struggle with inner game or self worth really. But sometimes my tonality goes off and sometimes I worry if I don’t get a reply quickly or at all. That’s pretty normal. But I would encourage you to seek another therapist. This time be totally open with them (I know that’s hard) but that’s the only way to change the inner workings. They are experts in dealing with self esteem issues.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 11:23 AM
1

First priority is flirt and tease girls with humour. Once you can do that you’re half way into their panties
/r/askTRP19/10/20 11:15 AM
8

Scarcity dominating your thinking. My opinion is only go for what you want. Fuck “practice” women. Edit: as in don’t bother with “practice” women
/r/askTRP19/10/20 10:30 AM
17

Probably boning chicks that you aren’t really into
/r/askTRP19/10/20 09:29 AM
2

Yeah wtf. It’s in men’s nature to fuck multiple. Sure I still think about my exes but I know for a fact there’s millions of chicks better.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 08:38 AM
2

There’s no question here. But women cheat for many reasons. Sometimes it’s for revenge because a guy WOULDNT submit to her.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 08:35 AM
22

Do it in person. Lift her up, spin her around, tickle her, seduce her. Anything that engages her body. She’s not looking for words to lead her emotions. She wants actions. And you showing that you desire her will lift her mood.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 08:33 AM
3

I second this op. Flirting is basically just comedy most of the time. Don’t worry about this children bullshit, just don’t be afraid to tease the shit out of them with humour, slight disrespect causes attraction in women.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 08:29 AM
15

I’m also a grower not a shower. It’s not a big deal, when you get semi aroused with women it grows and that’s the only time it really matters.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:37 AM
9

Just eat ingots of it
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:36 AM
3

I personally think I feel different if I don’t PMO. Like a couple of days after a jackoff you don’t feel as sharp.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:59 AM
90

Like I said you haven’t moved on emotionally
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:19 AM
64

You haven’t moved on. Flirt and sex other women
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:03 AM
4

Jesus, spanking and head pushing on your first lay. You tried a bit too hard my brother. You were trying to be something rather than being in the moment
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:49 AM
1

This is not correct. It’s just that women get approached tons of times and most of the time they don’t like the guy. So your reasoning is off
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:47 AM
5

Start viewing them as children and believing they’re children and you’ll treat them so
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:46 AM
1

Flow from a genuine place. You have natural strengths, use those in your seduction
/r/askTRP18/10/20 11:27 PM
29

When they arrive at your door, put a thermometer in their pussy
/r/askTRP18/10/20 10:00 PM
7

Don’t worry I won’t give you a sermon
/r/askTRP18/10/20 09:36 PM
3

Fucking oath, you’re nailing it
/r/askTRP18/10/20 09:15 PM
1

In my opinion cocky comes off as fake, confident seems more genuine. Could be totally different for chicks though
/r/askTRP18/10/20 09:13 PM
3

I fucked a 6” chick once (I’m 6”). She was hot but a bit too tall. I think the rule is, if they’re shorter than you it’s good to go, but really it’s whatever you feel comfortable with man
/r/askTRP18/10/20 09:01 PM
1

Different types of skills are needed when you seduce women out. It’s faster pace and you need to build attraction with methods other than “getting to know you” conversation. Flirtation is obviously the biggest skill you need - mixed in with that is humour, presentation etc. Girls at a bar make quick decisions about whether they want to spend time with you. At work etc it’s different. Also, don’t confuse a woman liking you as company and as a friend to women wanting to be in bed with you.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:39 AM
4

Yeah man forget about her for your own good
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:34 AM
5

I don’t follow this. You can’t treat a girl you’re attracted to the same as you treat a girl that has absolutely no value in your eyes. If you think you do that you’re kidding yourself
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:31 AM
3

Sounds like you have uncovered a little bit of low self esteem. Either that or you overthink everything and get into a hole. I do that sometimes. One way to differentiate the two is to as yourself “how do I feel about myself?”. If that generates positive feelings you probably have a decent level of self esteem and the issue is your monkey mind.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:02 AM
1

You’re one of the few that said to do it. I wanted to jump all over her the other day and she catches me checking her out sometimes. I dunno if I can handle that tension...
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 11:31 PM
2

Drakkar noir for night. Aqua di gio for day
/r/askTRP17/10/20 11:08 PM
3

Yeah fair enough. You’ve identified a problem and now you’re putting too much pressure on yourself to lay a lot of chicks because you think that’s what you should have done. Take a load off yourself first of all. Reassess which type of girls you think you’re likely to get (even if your good looking). I mean looks and personality. And go for them. You might have to shoot low before you can raise the bar.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 10:05 PM
3

Just a warning. The sweet, vulnerable girl might change when she becomes your wife and you become a beta provider. Edit: unless she absolutely has to rely on you
/r/askTRP17/10/20 09:59 PM
3

Avoid her
/r/askTRP17/10/20 09:56 PM
2

How do you feel about yourself? The answer to that question is kind of the measure of your self esteem. Achieving goals, self talk, meditation, exercise, taking care of yourself, having friends that you have fun with and support you. Why are you so nervous with women?
/r/askTRP17/10/20 09:55 PM
1

It’s very hard to identify red flags because you said literally nothing of her character. Can she work? Will you be expected to support her family? Etc etc A serious commitment like that requires serious planning.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 09:52 PM
6

Exposure is one answer. The more you speak to, you might loosen up. Working on your mindset and self confidence is another.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 09:47 PM
0

Think about going for the other gender then lol
/r/askTRP17/10/20 09:17 PM
9

I have an inkling that she’d like to lead me on and she may get a kick out of that. I’m the type of guy who hates and resists manipulation though
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 07:44 PM
9

Yeah I realise it’s completely different and your point rings true for sure. Having abundance in an LTR is paramount. But I wanted some advice so hijacked your post lol
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 07:39 PM
7

Haha she’s actually not bad at tennis so there is a marginal benefit for me. Just tryna work out if it’s worth some regular tennis for blue balls
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 07:38 PM
57

I’m in a reverse position right now. I’m single and a chick in a relationship (def fuckable) wants to play tennis and chess and shit with me. I can only see it leading to a world of frustration for me cos I’ll only want to bang her. What’s your take on that?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 07:07 PM
17

You should be finishing on her face
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:08 AM
1

Very good strategy, in fact the only strategy that will be successful at beginning relationships or having short term flings with very little commitment. Different rules apply in committed long term relationships, particularly marriage.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 03:46 PM
1

Yes that is important. But women are genetically designed to manipulate a man into serving her and her children. They are very good at it, you can’t underestimate this.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 03:43 PM
5

Read “practical female psychology for the practical man” particularly on the life cycle of a LTR. Women are practically designed to betaize a man in an LTR. It is a slow but almost sure process. Being “a fun guy with a good character and idgaf attitude” might make you successful at picking up a lay but an LTR is a different kettle of fish. It doesn’t sound like you’re speaking from a position of being previously married, so you shouldn’t claim to know.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 02:44 PM
1

You mentioned conditions and subconscious conditions for love. Everyone has these, it’s when they are filled that you get those feelings that you had when you were a teenager. Does this not happen for you? It happens for me. It’s when a girl is just hot, or just nice, and doesn’t fulfil your subconscious checklist that you won’t have feelings for her. If you try to seduce these women it will feel mechanical or bland. It’s only once in a while that a certain girl ignites the “teenage fever” that …
/r/TheRedPill14/10/20 06:35 AM
4

“Focus on that which you control”
/r/TheRedPill14/10/20 06:26 AM
3

A female will push and prod you in your weak spots. How you respond is how she will judge you as a man.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/20 05:26 AM
7

You spent a lot of time pretending to be something you weren’t and game playing which apparently only hurt you. Maybe it’s time to stop pretending to be something other than what you are. If you don’t like what you are, try to improve it genuinely. Then move on genuinely.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/20 04:09 AM
29

It also helps to be grateful for the things that you already possess.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 11:07 AM
2

I was addicted to cigarettes. Try vaping. At most a quarter of the cost and at least a little bit better for you.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/20 02:59 AM
11

Your post seems to float in the air, like a stale fart. Not sticking to anything but making you pull a bad face. There seems to be nothing to gain from this stale fart, nevertheless it is there. Bothering all those that come across it and offering no value.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 11:22 AM
2

That’s right. Rather read the comments
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 07:09 AM
-2

I totally agree, will smith screams beta to me
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 07:07 AM
15

I think everyone needs an enemy - that is most people need an enemy. It helps when you can put blame on someone/something and say “THERES the problem”. Typical choices in this sub include women, SJWs, liberals and feminists. The problem and solution is that you can’t change people, you can only change yourself. Hence the focus on self improvement in this sub. The problem and solution lies with yourself. Be the change you want to see in the world and forget about trying to make anyone else fit th…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 07:01 AM
2

It shouldn’t be a chore. If it feels mechanical or forced then there’s something lacking in the mix. I’m sure you’ve had experiences where things felt right when you seduced a girl/she seduces you. Reflect on that experience and seek out more like that. Don’t waste time on notches on the belt, unless you get satisfaction out of that.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 03:13 AM
2

I agree with your well reasoned argument mostly. However I do see that the ideas of criticism of groups held in an unsophisticated mind can lead to hatred and violence by some, and there are multiple accounts of this over history. It takes someone that is well reasoned and balanced to hold critical views of groups of people and not let that lead to hatred; unfortunately many people aren’t well reasoned and balanced as we all know. If you plant seeds of criticism and reasonable contempt into unso…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 03:08 AM
1

That’s good. I had a post deleted and messaged the mods and got radio silence. Hence my pessimism that you’d get anywhere. Happy to be wrong though
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 02:48 PM
-5

No, criticise all you want but you’re not going to get anywhere. Just don’t be butthurt cos these guys removed your post. This is the redpill man, complaining wont work.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 02:12 PM
-6

Who gives a fuck, if you put this much effort into caring about it, just leave the sub
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 01:35 PM
12

You’re just spewing out redpill teachings. Sex isn’t the peak of human experience but you probably didn’t like the girl. What about laughing contentedly after sex with someone you have true chemistry with. That’s a good feeling. Sex for sex’s sake isn’t satisfying. When you really want the girl it is
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 10:48 AM
1

Hmmm I would say human have been improving long before modern masters. Since the hunter gatherer days where there was an egalitarian society. Eg hunting better, controlling fire, making tools. I think it’s an innate sense of curiosity natural to humans that asks “what if I/we could do this a better way?”
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 11:36 AM
1

People do things like chase money or women to fill a void of meaninglessness or to compete and be “better” than other people/men. If you were deeply satisfied in every moment things like this would go away. Eg if you felt bliss in all moments you wouldn’t chase much. This is why people turn to spirituality/Buddhism to try to get past the rat race mentality and find a place of satisfaction with the present moment. This takes lots of work though as it is in most humans nature to try to improve/pro…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 11:29 AM
1

That’s not that crazy man. If a girl suddenly sprouted tits I’m sure you’d pay more attention to her at that age Edit - or a fat chick lost weight and was now attractive
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 11:30 AM
1

If you think you can’t be yourself it’s because you’re operating from the mindset that you’re not good enough. If you believe that you are, you won’t feel the need to put on an act. Of course, courtship is an act of sorts but it should be a spontaneous, natural and enjoyable one. Try to go with the flow more. About girls not liking when you spill your guts. That could be because the girl isn’t emotionally vulnerable herself so it turns her off - she wanted an emotionless fuck. If you want girls …
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:40 AM
7

Well written, not sucking your own dick, honest, basically helpful reminder. Good post
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 04:27 AM
1

Definitely agree with the no gap no porn advice. It does change your energy quite noticeably
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 08:00 AM
1

ESCALATION
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:14 AM
1

More dominant. Osama bin Laden was obviously a hugely powerful and charismatic leader, and dominant masculine figure. He would’ve held many of the traits listed in the post. That proves my point. Since you need to pick my post apart, a dominant masculine man would keep his word to his allies and perhaps lie to his enemies to get ahead.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 06:52 PM
2

But why are you enrolling him in the chess and wrestling? Might that be to teach him masculine traits? Oh yeah those were the ones that were out lined in this post.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 06:41 PM
4

No, you are now telling me what I want to identify with bud. I was putting this out as information to others that aren't so enlightened as you as an example of what masculinity has meant throughout time, as this is a time where masculinity is being redefined. Also masculinity cannot be "consumed" but it can be identified with and encouraged in men. Will you encourage your son to be brave and smart? Or will you tell him to wear a pink dress?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 06:04 PM
1

So someone who is wise and courageous is better than being one or the other. Which was my point. Emotional strength is not crying and being resilient for example. Behaving on impulse is not related to that. Ie driving fast or drinking too much, or fighting someone can all be done in emotionally strong state. Thrill seeking can be done to someone who in calm.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 05:55 PM
1

Well those men may be wise but they lack courage. If you read the post that was another trait. Emotional control is different to impulse/self control in my opinion. And never once did I mention self control. Someone can be an emotional rock and still do crazy shit. An army guy or james bond would be a good example.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 05:42 PM
2

After watching the first quarter of the video it was on how we identified ourselves in the pre and post modern era. And how in the post modern era we have essentially become de-identified with anything and are searching for something and are manipulated by capitalism to fill the hole. I get that and agree. Wouldn't identifying with masculine men, and heroes throughout knowable history be a way to combat that? Is that not as traditional masculine as you can get? You seem to be hijacking this post…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 05:37 PM
2

In a society that is constantly redefining masculinity and shaming men for what they naturally are, it's important to have something that shows what men have been and will continue to be forever. That was the nature of this post. The headline of the redpill says "A society that lacks a positive model for male behaviour", and I think this post shows what male behaviour is and can be. You sound bitter and angry as fuck, and you misinterpreted a lot of the post. Eg doesn't having wisdom inherently …
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 05:16 PM
11

This wasn't a post about a value set, it was a post about masculine characteristics. These characteristics actually are timeless and inhabit no set time period. These characteristics would've been held by dominant men throughout history. Pick any time period. Though I used the word "traditional" once, the post focuses on dominant masculine traits primarily and their contrast with newer forms of masculinity that seem to allow more feminine traits as acceptable for men. Also it's possible to have …
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 05:07 PM
10

"Less than a thousand" "No seriously" "Ok more than negative 27"
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:50 PM
9

Yeah this one was really clear. Women like a traditionally masculine man. Despite what current blue pill culture (mainstream culture) is trying to get us to believe, being muscular, dominant and macho will get you more girls than not. TRP confirmed.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 12:23 AM
1

Man this is a weird question. What would you prefer?
/r/askTRP17/10/19 08:15 AM
2

If you’re going to settle for someone like that you have some serious problems. Hot or not
/r/askTRP13/10/19 05:54 AM
1

Before I read the edit I was going to say she was a tranny But this is some of the scariest shit I’ve read on redpill. What an absolute headcase. She gets off on bullying and is a control freak, she will be single for life
/r/askTRP13/10/19 01:59 AM
1

Sounds like you’ve had a checkered past but are moving forward with honest, good intentions for your son. So good props for that. If you approach your ex in a confrontational manner she will immediately slip into her patterned behaviour which will be unproductive for everyone. You have to be able to make her see another point of view without being threatened or becoming defensive. That’s the ideal. However that is usually only achieved if you have a calm respectful atmosphere between the two of …
/r/askTRP13/10/19 01:54 AM
-1

The “respectful redpill”, I propose a new subreddit
/r/TheRedPill11/10/19 04:04 AM
-1

No it’s you that attracts the wrong type of girls
/r/askTRP09/10/19 10:29 PM
2

She's not interested in fucking you. Stop wasting you're time and trying too hard
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:55 AM
2

You can't beat yourself up about this stuff man. Humans are complicated and she could have made this decision for any number of reasons. "Daddy figure", maturity, maybe the dude really DGAF, which you seem to be struggling with etc. BUT THE KEY POINT IS, WHAT YOU WANTED IN HER WAS NOT COMPATIBLE WITH WHAT SHE WANTED IN YOU. Once you accept that just move on and find (more than one) someone who is compatible with you.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:47 AM
2

That wasn't the only reason I assumed he acted condescendingly
/r/askTRP06/10/19 12:13 PM
6

So how many times has this happened to you? Once. girls will not be disgusted unless you do something disgusting or are disgusting. Therefore don't be overly sexual in a mall for example. The rest of your post is assumptions. Your approach obviously needs to be more socially attuned in the day but girls are more than willing to be talked to by men at any time if you have good game.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:56 AM
1

lol that's not approach anxiety, that's just awkwardness because she did not respond well to your move. you'll be fine buddy. You said she was shy so maybe she prefers a quiet place to do stuff, not in the view of other people. try that Also did you talk to each other?
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:13 AM
1

I was actually replying to the OP... who are you?
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:02 AM
9

Keep working on yourself because you've obviously improved but you seem like you are a bit delusional if you're not joking. Because if what you said about yourself was true you would be fucking Hollywood actresses this weekend. Go for girls that like you. Simple. As you improve those girls will become hotter. Group girls into Receptive/Neutral/Non-Receptive. Receptive is easy mode. Neutral requires good game. And non-receptives are a waste of time (eg gag reflex)
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:56 AM
5

Don't wait too long to respond. She's reached out to you so leaving her on the hook is not going to get you more points - unless she hates herself. Answer authentically in this case without being gushy. "was really fun. I was thinking we go do punch midgets Thursday at the fair." Don't ask her a question in your text. Keep it about you two.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:44 AM
33

You said you're in college or school. OF COURSE dudes are going to be salivating over girls. You're at that age. That will mellow out over time. Spend time with your friends and spend time with girls. The answer is to still participate with the knowledge given to you here. The redpill is like the older brother that many never have. Showing you the meaning behind behaviour, and what types of behaviour usually works. But the responsibility to succeed is YOURS. Isolating yourself is your choice. In…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:37 AM
2

Your username is Destroyer of Souls. If that's how you see yourself, were you trying to destroy the interviewer? Because if so, it's a logical reaction that he wouldn't give you the job. It's always easier to blame someone else than it is to blame yourself. Not saying that you are definitely 100% wrong but consider the possibility that you contributed to your fate. That's were your growth points are.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 01:59 AM
0

These are some difficult questions man. And there are many books that cover the questions that you are asking. Mark Manson is one author that I'd suggest. Both "models" and "TAONGAF" cover these exact topics. But you have correctly identified the issue as internal. You need to analyse your value set. If you have values like "I want all girls to cream themselves when they see me", you are going to be disappointed and anxious because that's not going to happen for any man. And it will be stressful…
/r/askTRP05/10/19 06:01 AM
3

Dude this is sad as fuck. Have some self respect and move on and find something that is satisfying and exciting. And you sound so desperate saying "getting what I can out of her" - that's a bad attitude. If you use people they are either using you back (in this case as a time/validation whore) or despise you eventually. Things should be mutually beneficial.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 05:48 AM
1

That seems like an overreaction to that event. There's probably other emotional issues that you aren't dealing with happening in the background.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 05:27 AM
7

Paraphrasing Mark Manson: If you're going to approach a lot of women, some ARE going to find you creepy. Fact of life. Maybe you look like the uncle that molested her. Maybe you look like her asshole boyfriend. Also, any man that has been adventurous with women has been called creepy in his lifetime. Gotta accept that and move on while still expressing your sexuality. The alternative is to shut off your sexuality and be friend-zoned by every women you meet. What sounds better?
/r/askTRP03/10/19 10:25 AM
1

Man don't put too much thought into it. Take it as flattering that they know you're attractive. And they are playful shit tests, not serious questions about commitment. They should come much much later than 2 dates/sex. Also I would say to counter intuitively work on your own insecurities. If you are truly confident you wouldn't give as much of a shit. They can handle themselves so don't worry or feel pity about them. You are doing nothing wrong.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 10:19 AM
95

If you’re not pissing someone off, you’re not doing anything worthwhile
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 12:16 AM
3

Your either desperate or have a weird fetish. My gut instinct would be to run in the opposite direction
/r/askTRP30/09/19 03:05 PM
16

I heard they’re the bomb
/r/askTRP30/09/19 12:36 PM
5

Is a dancing monkey sexual? No. So why would you be that if you had sexual intent?
/r/askTRP30/09/19 07:46 AM
1

Depends how she responds when you initiate
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:29 AM
1

How the crusties on your ass get itchy if you don’t shower for exactly 105 hours
/r/askTRP27/09/19 03:26 PM
1

That sounds like a dangerous statement, my friend. I might be going out on a limb here but reading between the lines a bit it suggests that she is incredibly selfish and self centred with her ideas of “love”, and would walk all over and disrespect a man if she was in a relationship. In short that sounds like something a psycho would say.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 03:24 PM
1

If her pussy juice was soaking your shorts and she was grinding you, she was down to fuck. She never gave you a “no” so you didn’t escalate enough. She’s testing your sexuality. Always verge on aggressiveness rather than timidness.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 03:13 PM
1

What you do is buy her a strap on and lube your sphincter. Seriously, who likes manly women? Why waste your time with them?
/r/askTRP27/09/19 03:00 PM
2

Man even Brad Pitt gets interrupted. Key is to not be a seething beta if it happens
/r/askTRP27/09/19 02:54 PM
1

Rig the house with explosives and trip the door handle. Just make sure you’re not home when she opens the door.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 02:51 PM
2

Buy one of those enema things. Then make the coffee before she gets there so it’s cool. Then put the coffee in the enema. When she gets to the door say “I’ve got something for you” with a cheeky grin. She’ll say “ooohh what is it?” and giggle. Then you say “surprise!” And reveal the coffee enema. Then she’ll say “awww dreamexpedite you shouldn’t have! I love coffee enemas!” And down her skirt and panties on your door step and proceed to give herself a coffee enema while moaning slightly and fart…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 02:49 PM
1

In my high school experience hooking up meant any of kissing, blowjob, sex...
/r/askTRP27/09/19 02:41 PM
4

Dildo designer
/r/askTRP27/09/19 02:31 PM
1

You thought that everything would be better once you had more, but it’s not making you emotionally happy? Like having all this would make you feel validated and worthy but you don’t? That’s what many have felt when they do what you’ve done. And that’s why deeper values and such tend to always be present in spirituality. You’re still the same person that you were when you started grinding, but now you have more shit and a sense of disappointment that the more shit didn’t change your life all that…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 02:29 PM
12

Best thing is to imagine what brad Pitt would’ve done here: “my mistake man I’ll buy you another one”, then walk him to the bar and treat him like a friend and an equal. Now you’re friends with the host. Bingo status increase. However you went to aggressively challenge the host for top position. You tried to AMOG the AMOG and he didn’t back down. His frame was stronger than yours. Something from the Laws of Power may be applicable here such as, never outshine the master. Also giving a gift to so…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 02:23 PM
20

The best frame I’ve heard for a relationship is a good leader and a follower. A good leader takes his pleasure and does what he wants, has the plans and the direction. But still considers her as part of the equation. That means if she has good ideas you can use them, and give her credit. And that means you consider her when you make decisions. But you always remain the leader.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 10:27 AM
6

Yeah well she‘s gotta be doing something with her time!
/r/askTRP27/09/19 10:00 AM
11

No I want an emotional woman. Because they tend to be warmer. And I guess it depends how you define driven. Because I define driven as relentless about pursuing goals at the expense of relationships and lifestyle. I’d rather have a woman that is focused on our relationship as a priority and I do the driven part. Driver and passenger. That doesn’t mean I want her to be lazy, it means I don’t want her working 60 hour weeks and coming home exhausted.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 09:49 AM
12

0-100 nigga real quick. Ok she should be fit and capable. Capable at different things. But I don’t particularly want a rational, driven woman because those are masculine traits. All we’re saying is that feminine women are best.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 09:39 AM
11

Because they are masculine traits that a man should have and a woman should not
/r/askTRP27/09/19 09:26 AM
6

She may be a flirty person and that’s her way to gain social power over the men in the workplace. All while never shitting where she eats. Common female strategy. Seems to be working too, because you’re now thinking about her, asking trp about her and planning to become her friend. Nothing wrong with that though. My advice is to be authentic and become her friend. Make a clear commitment to not make any moves on her. You could even verbalise that to her so she knows she can’t lead you on. Do you…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 06:39 AM
9

Good answer. To add to this: on a subconscious level, responding to that text will immediately decrease her respect for you. Because responding to it on some level communicates that you still want her despite the fact it’s been 4 months of no contact. She’s twitched her thumbs for 3 seconds and now bang she has you again. That obviously does not respect the decision you made to cut her from your life. And she has invested a total of 3 seconds to have you on the hook again. So really there’s no w…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 06:08 AM
1

Better to just invest in yourself while still being interested in them. Benevolent selfishness
/r/askTRP27/09/19 05:39 AM
2

Would you date a man that was abusive, destructive or extremely emotionally damaging to you? Or would you like help with securing relationships that feed you and help you develop and succeed in life? That is what TRP is for.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 02:57 AM
1

No problem, good luck. Seems like all is well
/r/askTRP27/09/19 01:59 AM
2

I’m not a gushy person. I tend to communicate through action. The truth.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:36 AM
1

Ok that’s not as bad as I thought. I guess you’ve been orbiting her but you need to be on a position to take it further.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:34 AM
1

They do say in the book that girls are a mix but tend to display one strategy predominantly. You don’t think that girls tend to display one behaviour pattern? Like a girl with a low n-count and a few long term relationships. Like a girl that’s always aggressively tryna find a rich guy?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 12:31 AM
2

Yes that’s a very insightful good conclusion. You didn’t mention self esteem though. If you have a high self esteem you tend to not compare yourself to others or get jealous or care what people think about you as much. Everyone wants to be validated, but people with high self esteem tend to be above it.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 12:40 PM
1

You’re a kid. You probably have a crush on the prettiest girl in your school. Normal shit. Bit the solution is to be your own point of focus. Aka be selfish. How is it making you feel? Is it helping you to think about this girl you have no chance with? If not do whatever you gotta do to move on, including banging your HS teacher
/r/askTRP26/09/19 12:27 PM
2

You didn’t “fuck up” - you didn’t try. Try not to get in anxious spiralling thoughts and energy. I can feel your anxiety through the words you use. Make sure, fuck up, lose it, things get real next time, are all extreme phrases. This seems like a big deal to you, and it can sometimes feel that way but it’s just a male and a female coming together to see if things feel good. You can not eliminate anxiety totally, it will come and go. I have had issues with anxiety with women from time to time and…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 12:22 PM
3

No no no
/r/askTRP26/09/19 10:29 AM
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Negatives: First advice is to lead with your desires. Was it your desire to hang around with her and talk for 1.5 hours with no possible opportunity for sex or kissing? Or would you have rather been in bed. Seems like she was grilling you, which you didn’t like, and you obliged. You could’ve just scooped and said “I’d like to see you again, I’ll text you”. Positives: It’s good that you have her asking you questions because that shows that she’s interested. You obviously have an air of mystery. H…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:08 AM
3

Lead her. Provide a good framework
/r/askTRP26/09/19 08:47 AM
1

hard to tell but wouldn't think it's a great sign. if she was wetting herself to see you she probably would've texted you herself. Only way to find out? make a move on her
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:54 AM
1

yes it's definitely subjective. the girl that you linked is obviously attractive but she has a masculinity about her face because of the massive chin. so not my cup of tea. anyway, hot girls are everywhere. but obviously cities, cities with colleges, party towns, beach party towns, tourist spots etc will have higher density. simple stuff. Move or deal with it
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:51 AM
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self confidence. Once you think you deserve hot women you'll hit on them and be surprised by your success.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:43 AM
1

Don't understand why you would be disgusted that she was interested in you for being musical. It's because it communicates something good about you. Kinda like seeing a girl with a perfectly shaped ass attracts you without knowing her. Weird attitude you have man... "great number of girls" - again, make the most of opportunities that you have. Adding them on instagram goes nowhere. Might as well online date. Oh yeah you have an excuse for that too. You're just finding excuses to distance yoursel…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:40 AM
0

Fuck the phone call. It’s not relevant anymore. Especially at the start of the relationship
/r/askTRP26/09/19 05:52 AM
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You’re probably acting, and she sees the cracks
/r/askTRP26/09/19 04:05 AM
1

The top comment is that she’s looking to upgrade. I disagree. Many women would love to have a provider and a lover at the same time. It satisfies their mating strategy ideally. Provision/security and sexual satisfaction/excitement at the same time. If you can keep the frame of a lover strongly, there’s every chance that her marriage and your relationship could continue without any drama. Make sure you’re leading it like that though, don’t act like a provider.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:48 AM
2

You sound like a deeply idealistic, value driven human being. And that’s not a bad thing. But EVERYONE has a darker side of selfish, animalistic drives, you included. You may be reacting to these things you see with disgust because you aren’t recognising these same drives within yourself. You have to balance your view of the world and yourself and others 50/50. Half dark half light. Not everything is pure. But purity exists.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:41 AM
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You seem to be creating mental barriers/excuses. There is always opportunities to meet women. Some have more than others. Take your opportunity to introduce yourself to girls that you like when you have them. If something comes of that then good. Look for casual relationships with quick women so you don’t have to waste time. They exist and if you are clear with your intentions for that you will filter them out. And if what you say about yourself is true (not bad looking, hobbies, dedication) the…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:32 AM
2

Firstly, she has never been “on your dick”. You were her mr reliable nice guy, who never led her emotions or sexuality. You never have made a move on her or made her feel anything besides friendship. You have emotionally validated her and opened up to her like a woman would. You feminized yourself and are deeeep in the friend zone. You are her girlfriend. Get realistic about this. She doesn’t see you as a sexual option. So you’re going to have to seriously smash her current image of you. That us…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:14 AM
6

Came to say the same. Men’s view of women is heavily influenced by their perception of their mother. This guy’s mother sounded like a piece of work, so now women are pigs. His view is untrue, but understandable. The healthy view is that there is some better women and there is some worse women.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 11:56 PM
2

Sounds like drama. Do you want drama?
/r/askTRP25/09/19 11:09 AM
1

More gold than Tywin Lannister’s shithouse. No problem
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 05:49 AM
2

The relationship seems a tad sub par. Sounds like you’re more invested in her than she is you. Which is the death nell of a relationship. Get back to doing you. Investing in yourself and what you want. She comes second. The sex disinterest could be a symptom of her lack of investment in you. And you are being needy for sex. She is testing your sexuality and so far you are not passing in flying colours. She may also have a sex drive issue that you are not helping to stimulate. “Practical female p…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:30 AM
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Disgust is a strong term. If girls are repeatedly disgusted by you it usually comes from a girl sensing your neediness. Your neediness level must be high. So do things for the fun of them not in some form of validation attachment. “My self esteem depends on this girl giving me a good reaction.” Is not a good frame to have. Consider an approach as an interested exploration of her. “I wonder what she’s like?”. This means you are just getting to know her and she’s getting to know you as a result of…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:07 AM
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Low self esteem girls are primarily self destructive as well as drama queens. Which is why it’s an incredibly bad idea to care for them. Because nothing good will satisfy them and they’ll detonate it. Leaving many chumps chasing their tail about how to make her ‘happy’ - hint being happy is not what they are naturally geared for. As well as the hysteria and all the other crap. HSE girls on the other hand will be satisfied and pleasant to you in a relationship that satisfies and pleases her.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 02:06 AM
3

The book breaks up all girls into 3 archetypes: materialista, adventuress, and good girl, each having their own dominant sexual strategy. Then within each of those 3 there is low self esteem and high self esteem cases. Which will change their behaviour. So a low self esteem good girl exists and is bad for a committed relationship.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 01:59 AM
8

Google search title, second link
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 06:33 PM
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Look man I’m not selling anything and neither are they because you can access it for free. Have a read and make your own mind up. Peace
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 06:12 PM
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The book is 200 pages and covers a wide range of male female dynamics. I’d suggest you have a quick look at the contents and read chapters that interest you. My post focused on screening which is where I think they excelled in the book. TLDR on screening: They suggest to screen for archetypes, which they say are Materialista (sex for material gain), Adventuress (sex for sex’s sake), and Good Girl (sex for relationship commitment). They give advice on how to succeed with each of these types of gi…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 05:19 PM
1

Chick logic: you didn’t support her enough in a stressful time then compounded it by supporting the other (younger and potentially hotter) driver then gave her a hug. She was emotionally hurt by that so that’s why she is saying you were wrong despite the fact that she objectively caused the whole thing. They operate on emotions and relationships and she feels you didn’t support her in either in that event.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:27 PM
2

Low self esteem women are not LTR material. Treat them as fuck dolls and don’t catch feelings unless you love misery. Please read “practical female psychology for the practical man “ it’s not recommended reading material here but should be. Very eye opening.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 01:37 PM
1

I’m 200 pounds. By no means low body fat but I get ioi’s. I could do better with my fitness but I’m lazy. I have been low body fat in my life and definitely slayed more. Having a six pack is a pretty good status symbol
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:13 AM
1

Eg 1 - woman grows up in the hood around extremely aggressive violence. She can’t act all soft and feminine. Eg 2 - woman climbs the corporate ladder and needs to take on masculine traits to succeed. Assertiveness, coolheadedness, thick skin.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 01:16 AM
1

Highly unlikely in this situation
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 08:32 PM
1

it's called your inner slutometer. Lol. It's good to have standards mate. Judging by your objective description you should be able to get quality women. So ditch the slappers if they make you sick
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:53 AM
2

man fuck your elevator shoes. Your going to have to take them off sometime anyway
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:51 AM
2

enthusiasm and being interested in getting to know people while being genuinely compassionate and interesting yourself. That to me would describe an genuinely "charming" person. However the worst is to try to pull this off while being insincere. Insincerity is the opposite of charm. So find out your genuine strengths and build on them
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:50 AM
0

some have learned a tomboy persona to protect themselves
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:39 AM
3

Cool story. Might make a book one day. Where are you now?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 06:19 AM
1

You can only control your own behaviour and boundaries man. If she is pissing you off next her. But you have to be clear in what you want and how you communicate with her. Don't try to manipulate your way into her pants. No self respect in that.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 03:08 AM
1

yeah i just said to pick her up and go to your place. sounds like a weirdo man. I'd be making clear boundaries with her that she has to follow to make you happy or hard nexting.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 03:05 AM
1

Don't fap or watch porn for 10 days. You'll become a demon. Also just relax. Longer foreplay can help that.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:49 AM
8

Experiences strengthen bonds. Particularly emotionally charged ones
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:47 AM
3

Dude she was giving you an in to fuck. Wanna hang out? Translates to "wanna fuck ASAP". You backpeddled to a date with the promise of further dates. That is why she's all weird, cos she feels confused you didn't take the hint. Plus she is manipulative (by the sound of it, could be wrong). You're not treating her as she feels is appropriate. She's acting easy, but your acting all romantic and timid. She's trying to work out were the fuck this is going because she's opening you for sex and your pu…
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:46 AM
2

If she didn't want it, she'd leave
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:30 AM
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She's manipulative as fuck. I'd be pumping and dumping asap if shes hot. If she's not I'd be dumping. Satisfy your sexual desires with her then hard next. Also, she was giving you an in for tonight. not further down the week. so I don't understand why you didn't just say I'll be over after beers with my buddy.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:28 AM
2

just don't swipe right on them if you wouldn't fuck them
/r/askTRP23/09/19 01:51 AM
1

Man this is a ridiculous question. How much more responsibility/sacrifice do you think there is with a child?
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:13 AM
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2 things I take away from this: Don’t run if ‘caught’. Makes him look guilty and as if he’s doing something wrong. Also adds to her a sense of abandonment. I think this is key in this case. Don’t hook up with drunk, mentally unstable gilrs. (Probably hard at a frat house party though).
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 12:27 AM
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Of course there’s beautiful Asian women! Probably hundreds of millions. But I get it, you wouldn’t like an interracial couple and I kind of agree. But I’ve sure as hell had casual sex with hot Asians, and would again. And the thing they have over Western women is their submissiveness, because they come from masculine dominant cultures.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 10:46 AM
-1

How could you write off all Asian women? Super picky!
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 09:35 AM
1

About 1 in 1 chance exactly
/r/askTRP18/09/19 10:20 AM
2

How long did they live together? I keep hearing people say (in Australia) that if you cohabitate for a year, even without marriage, that classifies you as defacto partners and she is entitled to half of whatever you own. Must be areas of grey though, like if she’s on the mortgage etc
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 08:45 AM
1

She’s butthurt cos she’s been chasing but you’ve been hard to get. She’s just playing a little validation game. If you’d said “Hey I’ve been real busy lately but I’d like to meet you. We should go on a hike.” And she answered positively, you then could’ve got her number. Otherwise just use tinder for logistics.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:58 AM
1

You're treating her as you would a girl who you don't care for all that much but you seemed to still remain wrapped up in what she is doing (she doesn't know that though). If you truly DGAF you wouldn't be analysing. But these are small problems. You seem to be living a good lifestyle and she still seems into you so everything is fine. Keep investing in yourself, not her and you will be peachy.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:05 AM
1

Mate, I don’t really feel like there’s any issue here objectively. Maybe the only issue is your incongruence, which is why you feel like something is wrong. Otherwise, taking all that data in and making an objective view of it, you’ll be smashing her again after her period. Now you have to work on aligning those actions (which all seemed pretty good) with your emotions (which seem all over the place). If you acted in the same way genuinely, you wouldn’t be having your current anxiety attack. Pro…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 09:04 AM
1

Great post. Well written and I totally agree with your points. Because you are in your frame when these meetings happen you are already ahead of the game.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:02 AM
1

She’s a keeper
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:27 PM
2

Go through puberty
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:11 PM
4

Be righteous Calling her bitch The king rules the kingdom. And any woman that gets with him becomes the queen. If a man gets with a queen he just becomes the man that got the queen. Ie the man’s frame must lead the relationship otherwise it’s a shit show
/r/askTRP15/09/19 12:15 PM
1

Black Phillip show. Few different episodes but not sure which
/r/askTRP15/09/19 05:22 AM
2

True, I’m older than you and don’t use that
/r/askTRP15/09/19 05:20 AM
1

Always applies
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:33 AM
1

Pm me if you want
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:32 AM
1

SAY “I WANTED YOU AND I TO HANG WITHOUT YOUR FRIENDS TONIGHT” ITS NOT HARD TO SAY WHAT YOU MEAN
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:20 AM
1

She’s clearly interested in you and you have flirted, which she’s reciprocated. All green lights. Now it’s up to you.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:13 AM
3

Stop making it about her. If she was a cunt to you then she was a cunt. Move one. Then focus on you (take responsibility. Responsibility = power)
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:05 AM
4

Dude, this chick sounds like a total headcase. You’ve dodged a bullet here mate. Once a psycho always a psycho and this is not the type of woman a healthy man would want to go for. Who gives a fuck if she’s hotter now if she’s that fucked up. Total nightmare!
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:52 AM
4

When you say direct never worked for you. You mean nothing is actually working. Just because it takes longer for you to freeze out with an indirect opener doesn’t mean it’s working better. Direct announces your intention, which is bolder and more confident. Indirect is sneakier. Either way she knows that you are attracted to her. Your problem is not the techniques but probably deeper things. Your level of anxiety, how you feel about yourself, how you can connect with women. My challenge is this:…
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:46 AM
1

The texts literally exist in your phone
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:32 AM
2

Chicks have types but the biggest factor is status. Top director, champion sportsman, CEO are all high status so will get top tier women. Looks are important but not as important as status.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:30 AM
1

My philosophy is this: if you play games, she will as well. Or she won’t put up with it and she’ll next you. If you’re not playing games and she starts playing games, you next her if you respect yourself. Manipulation attracts manipulation my man. So maybe on some level you’re reading into this expecting that because that’s what you’re doing to her. It’s gotta be RIGHTEOUS! As Patrice O’Neil would say.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:25 AM
2

I read that you reckon she is a 6.5 in looks. Is she worth it? Some girls are either egotistical (power trip) or highly principled (people should know each other before fucking) or want to protect their “good girl” self image (I’m not a slut). Other girls just do what they feel. Maybe if you were looking for a LTR and she was hot I would advise to pursue. There is going to be hotter, easier girls out there.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:09 AM
3

A kissless virgin who turned out to be into bdsm and submission. That’s gotta be pretty rare. She must have had some pent up sexual fantasies going on it that head. You lucky bastard
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:01 AM
2

Sounds like a good result man. You’re dating and kissing so shouldn’t be long till you have these girls in your bed. You maybe didn’t have to be as patient as you were in this instance. She was giving you green lights. But that’s ok. Just be careful not to miss an opportunity. Timidness is not fun or attractive. Generally, you don’t have to wait for the “perfect” moment. That first girl turned her head but that could have been for any number of reasons. Going for the kiss and getting rejected is…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 11:37 PM
1

That one paragraph explains the situation better than the OP. But you seems to be skirting something FFS. Maybe it’s just the way you speak. “Whom I don’t find ugly” is not the same as “who I find attractive”. I group girls - who I wanna fuck, who I don’t wanna fuck. Binary system. Where is she on your binary system? If it’s no it’s no. If it’s yes but your afraid of the feels she catches, set some clear boundaries even before she comes over. That means you can have a clear conscience about not …
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:09 PM
2

What like 30 minutes a day? Doubt it
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:58 PM
8

Dry spells come and go. They aren’t good. But they only make you miserable if you tie up your self worth with how much you have sex, which is unhealthy. Obviously if you had a meaningful life otherwise you may be happy without sex. Take a Buddhist monk for example. But all things considered, sex is a good part of life and can be very memorable and fulfilling if it’s quality sex.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:35 PM
2

If you want to give up, head over to incels. On the other hand, you accept your situation and do your best to improve. Your lifts don’t seem weak. And your test is normal. You are speculating about your estrogen. You are 19. With the proper actions there’s no stopping you becoming a beast in a couple years. Eat well, care for yourself. You’ll be fine. Also cardio does wonders for your mental health. And meditation if you’ve got the patience.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:05 PM
1

“Really nice body” would equal hot IMO. Casual sex on a platter is what most men want so you may be a feminine man. I am trying to give you advice because you asked for it, and because you didn’t give the whole story I had to read between the lines. You never said you weren’t fond of casual sex. If it was me I would definitely have sex with a woman who had a really nice body and was into me. She seems like the type of girl who would be fine with casual sex with little commitment. You don’t have …
/r/askTRP14/09/19 11:49 AM
5

Frame: All that matters is how you feel about yourself. If you feel good about yourself you don’t need other people to like you (have friends though), and you don’t need to bully people. If you are acting arrogant in some “persona”, that’s when shit can go bad and you start attracting bad shit.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 11:36 AM
3

Man chill the fuck out. She seems super enthusiastic with her replies. Ask her out another time
/r/askTRP14/09/19 11:30 AM
1

You’re finding the wrong conclusions in all the wrong places. You need to work on your attitude before anything else my man. Self esteem, emotions and all that shit. It’s fine to be an angry teen but at least try to get your shit together.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 11:27 AM
1

What you’re saying doesn’t make sense. And it’s confusing as fuck. You say she is hot. You say she is probably good in bed. You say you like “experienced” women - meaning, women that are good in bed. So wouldn’t this woman be your type? Something isn’t adding up here man
/r/askTRP14/09/19 11:22 AM
1

Connect emotionally, sexually with yourself then go from there. You lead, so you shouldn’t really get into any positions that you don’t wanna be
/r/askTRP14/09/19 10:57 AM
3

Obviously you need to modify certain behaviours in different contexts. But everyone has rough edges. Ideally, you want to be able to be uninhibited in any circumstance - that is high status behaviour. But if you’re the junior in a firm you can’t really come in and not give a fuck. Powerful people are usually more idiosyncratic than the bottom feeders. Meaning they can show their rough edges without being judged harshly, because they are more untouchable.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 10:54 AM
3

Something is not normal here but it’s good you’re taking responsibility, that’s some good maturity for your age. And if you keep that attitude for life you will go very far. Are you a bit scared of your dad? That seems a bit over dramatic for a driving lesson. My sister used to cry when she was learning to drive but she was/is a very anxious kind of girl.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 10:47 AM
1

Well she probably feels like you didn’t appreciate the fact that she was putting in the time with you even though you were at your lowest. If you were insulting her (which may be what happened, it’s hard to tell through reddit accounts) that’s pretty unfair. Got to look at it from her point of view as well. If a girl was sick and you spent time with her during that sickness you would expect some appreciation.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 09:56 AM
1

Also polarising behaviour creates hate and love. He knows that if a chick hates him he’s doing something right.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 02:21 AM
0

You lack so much self awareness man! How can you say you weren’t invested when everything here says you were? The time spent together, the 4 page asktrp post. Get honest with yourself.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 02:08 AM
0

Everything here screams insecurity. And you have a lot to learn. Why were you always downing her if you “cared about her”? Because you read being an asshole works? Hot tip: it doesn’t. Being a confident guy who acts in his own intentions and invests more in himself than his girl is attractive. Teasing is different to bullying. Being a bully is insecure behaviour because you are communicating that you need her to be hurt for you to feel better. Unhealthy. And you are too invested in her. If you r…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 02:03 AM
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Dude she is engaging so she has interest. Just ask her out. “That’s cool, I’d like to meet up sometime. I was thinking of fucking homeless children at xyz this Thursday, you can apply the ball gag”
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:57 AM
1

Stories that reveal what type of person you are and your experience that mean something, passions, dreams etc: “I grew up in a rich part of town. Everyone thinks rich people have it easy but my family was just so disconnected from each other it was ridiculous. We could never talk honestly with one another. Except for my younger brother, we we’re really close. Still are actually, me and him want to start our own dildo company one day when he finishes college”.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:50 AM
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Hahaha I used to say to my ex that missionary was the “love making position” so I never did it. Fuck how you want to fuck. Would Conan the barbarian do what his girl told him to do in the bedroom? Be dominant at least there. Preferably everywhere else too. PS - Just a quick analysis. She said this while you were cuddling, which is a beta comforting thing to do (nothing wrong with that). But remember the girls subconscious mission is to emasculate her man in an LTR. So she was just doubling down …
/r/askTRP13/09/19 02:01 PM
1

Is she taking contraceptive?
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:51 PM
2

Well if you are naturally a flirty, sexual, masculine, confident man then how is being natural gonna fail? My approach is to work on yourself and your inner game to the point were being your natural self attracts women. Then you don’t have to perform or work hard. When I was in high school I was getting headjobs and fucking the hottest girls in my year and year above. I had no idea what game was or how women worked. I was just me and it was all natural. So I don’t really subscribe to the idea th…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:49 PM
2

You need some soul searching brother. You are in an epic situation now that most of us here would want. So, now you need to ask yourself the hard questions. Where to from here?
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:39 PM
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Yeah I guess all that comes out in the flirting process anyway. Ideally, you can be spontaneous with it and not have it come across as scripted. That’s always worked for me but guys here have all kinds of different experience (mostly none) with women so sometimes need the hard theory to have any game. My go to is natural game I guess. But you can’t just say “have natural game” cos thatll give someone an anxiety attack lol
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:36 PM
1

Open and honest with charm requires the least investment or mental gymnastics for me so it’s my preferred. What’s your approach for daygame/night game cold approaches?
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:21 PM
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No you have to not be fake
/r/askTRP13/09/19 12:02 PM
1

Virgin period blood
/r/askTRP13/09/19 11:26 AM
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You’re focusing on technique when the problem is probably you. Remember the content is less important than the intent. In other words you are sending a message about yourself that is turning the women off somehow. Women are good at reading your behaviour, not your words.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 11:25 AM
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People go to the club to relax, get tipsy, have fun and express themselves. Women particularly. It’s a place where sexual expression is encouraged and social rules are relaxed. So don’t be an uptight cunt. That’ll get you nowhere.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 11:15 AM
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Dude, if you’re fucking a girl and she gives her number to a guy in front of you I would be telling that bitch that shit won’t play
/r/askTRP13/09/19 11:09 AM
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Do you want friends or romance? If you pursue her sexually and come off as an asshole then she will let her friends know about it. If however you’re confident in your desires and genuine in your approach then you’ll be fine.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:58 AM
1

Graduated exposure. First just make eye contact and smile. Then walk up and ask how’s your day going, no pressure. Then walk up and compliment her or express some interest. Then ask for a number or a date.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 08:43 AM
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Heavy deadlifts and squats improve testosterone levels the most. As for the mental and spiritual side you just have to get in touch with your inner freak and let loose on her. Lose your inhibitions.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 08:38 AM
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Don’t fake it. Present yourself in your normal state at all times. Therefore the pressure to perform is never there. However that’s not to say to not work on yourself. Follow your own interests but expand them. Take on a hobby that you somewhat like that challenges you in an area that you want to obtain. Say, you’re interested in being charming and a good conversationalist - take an improv class. Girls will only be disappointed if you pretend to be something then turn out not that way. So always…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 08:32 AM
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You’re opening a big question here and there is tons of info to help you if you need it. Quick tips: Don’t go from conversational friend talk to going for the kiss. That is confusing for the girl. Work up to it. Emotional discussion is better than friendly discussion so you have to dig a bit deeper. Feelings trump all in intimacy. Physicality is the most important. Obviously if she is giving you the physical cues then full steam ahead. Eg if you have your arm around her and she is leaning her he…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 05:00 AM
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Pride is fine but can be problematic in heirarchies as you’ve said. Be CONFIDENT, not arrogant. Meaning know in your self worth without having to dominate others. If your boss is incompetent, it is a matter of time before she is replaced. Maybe by you. This is where you need maturity to be able to say “I don’t like this woman, but I’m not going to let that affect my frame and my path”. She is a complex obstacle that you need to work out a solution for. Pride is not a solution, because if you act…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:36 AM
1

Easiest solution: be flirtatious. At the moment you’re being friendly. So flirt, touch, do what turns you on sexually. Simple.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:26 AM
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Good shit getting a 19 yo first up. You say you’re not a noob so this might go without saying but you wanna kiss her when her emotions/attraction are peaked. You didn’t mention the context so maybe you went for the kiss in a lull. Assumption here though. Otherwise, she might be a little shy so just keep flirting and being physical. It seems like you’re gonna get there, so see how far you can get. And err on the side of aggression rather than timidness with your desires.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:22 AM
1

Yeah definitely. Not every time but sometimes. And if I’m not getting hard I’m half way there
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:13 AM
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I used to have a thing about thinking I’d prefer a male psychologist. But really, healthy females tend to be more helpful/empathetic than males on average. And you aren’t trying to sleep with this woman. Showing your insecurities has no risk. She will be trained to deal with what you present. Also, it’s her job to help you. If she wasn’t good at that she wouldn’t be in practice very long. Choose a therapist with a good track record. Male or female. And let your guard fully down. You need to trus…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:10 AM
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Why didn’t you use her ass as a fuck hole after she brought it up?
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:02 AM
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It’s about values man. How could you live with a girl that was banging on about Jesus everyday if you had no interest. There a plenty of girls out there
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:01 AM
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The juicy stuff is where good conversations happen. Passions, ambitions, formulative memories. Deeper things. Don’t be afraid of them.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 03:56 AM
1

Don’t do coffee for romantic dates
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:02 PM
1

Calls herself a fuckbuddy after you had dropped your other girls? That’s a shame. You dropped them too early and probably for the wrong girl. A girl will usually signal who she is earlyish in the relationship. Calling herself a fuckbuddy probably suggests that’s what she puts her value at. Also don’t cower to a girls neediness. They’ll just lose respect. She sounds low self esteem and manipulative. Definitely the wrong girl for a LTR.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:01 PM
2

Clearly you were crushed about her seeing the sugar daddy, even though you “acted nonchalant”. Key word being acted. All I can say was that if she was your plate you wouldn’t care but she wasn’t. She was your “potential ltr” - your words. So apparently you didn’t have any other plates. She was the wrong girl for a potential ltr if she’s fucking sugar daddies. Either don’t develop feelings for a hoe, and have many hoes. Or find a chick that’s worthy of an ltr and do that.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:47 PM
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Dude it’s good you’re trying to work your shit out. You are displaying some good traits here - persistence, problem solving, investigation. And you obviously have a lot to say on the topic. So I think you’re on a good path and you will get somewhere eventually. It’s hard to unpack all of what you’ve written here and give you a concise solution. However, my diagnosis is probably on the social calibration, emotional level. You have to realise that humans are feeling based creatures (men and especi…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:33 PM
1

Wrong attitude: “get what I can from it” - desperate. Do you want her? Are you attracted to her? If so set up another date. If she is attracted to you she will come. If she isn’t then you move on.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:07 PM
3

You lost the battle by lying. Already in her frame. What do you care what this dumb girl thinks? “I care about my health. But you can do as you like” Keep it REAL playa
/r/askTRP12/09/19 01:58 PM
3

You seem to struggle with relating with people. Good conversations are based around experiences, what you learned or felt around those experiences, stories, likes/dislikes and why etc. essentially who you are and who they are. I get that you’re young and still developing this but I’m sure you have a bit of ammo. “I grew up in a rich part of town. Everyone thinks rich people have it easy but my family was just so disconnected from each other it was ridiculous. We could never talk honestly with on…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 12:50 PM
2

The biggest take away from this post IMHO is “alphalfa”. If that doesn’t change TRP community nothing will
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 11:22 PM
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Haha fuck, if you didn’t laugh at that one you’d cry
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:28 AM
7

Also let an ex come over to my house after breaking up while she was fucking an acquaintance. She was a drama queen and wanted revenge because I cheated on her then ghosted her. Also think she still wanted me. Then she proceeds to invite me over to her bfs house (my acquaintance) while they were together to fuck. Needless to say she was a slut, but I should’ve had better boundaries.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:24 AM
6

I bought a girl presents she didn’t really want/need and gave her $400 after she flew and paid for a hotel for a week to come and see me. Looked a gift horse in the mouth
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:18 AM
1

Cool. Just go for it while staying true to and respecting yourself above all else
/r/askTRP10/09/19 01:52 PM
1

Haha drunken hookup. Don’t think too much of it then!
/r/askTRP10/09/19 01:22 PM
1

That’s a long time to wait. Did you have her number? Good rule of thumb is day after “Last night was fun/nice to meet you” depending on what happened, day after that logistics to meet up again
/r/askTRP10/09/19 01:13 PM
1

My POV is this, and it’s not “typical” red pill advice. Be honest with yourself and her. The game of manipulation is only played if two people want to play it. That is, either you start manipulating her (being false) and she starts to manipulate back. Or she will detect manipulation and go cold. Either way is a bad result. So the solution is openness and honesty. People might say “that’s bluepill pussy shit”, but if you’re a confident man with nothing to hide, how can being open fail? You may ge…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:58 PM
5

Course man. They’re called good girls. And they do exist.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:41 PM
22

Harden up pussy and do it
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:40 PM
1

Her place or get creative
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:39 PM
1

“I’m searching for more than beauty, I’m searching for genuine connection”. If you can look past a woman’s beauty it suggests that you are high value because beauty is easy to have (in fact, those that have it did nothing to get it). Therefore complimenting a beautiful woman on her beauty is valueless to her. Also because she here’s it all the time. You could also say “I like that you are (insert desired value here)”. Doesn’t matter if she has it or not. Research has shown that if you want a wom…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:37 PM
12

Give up porn and jerking for 2 weeks and you’ll know why
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:28 PM
1

Well what’s stopping you from bringing her back to your place and banging her on your mattress on the ground?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:44 AM
2

Aren’t periods hard to predict? Like they aren’t like clockwork
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:43 AM
1

My 3rd gf started dating me when I had a female roommate, no car, mattress on the ground. (I assume you have a mattress). Not a big deal, you’re making excuses cos you’re scared
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:30 AM
1

I think it’s mostly been said here - that is, the comment was really badly delivered. However no one has mentioned that girls pick up on the intention behind the comment. By reading your comments you sound like a bit of a bully. That is, you get off on putting other people down to feel better about yourself. Correct me if I’m wrong. So this girl felt the intention was to insult, not to tease in a fun way. That’s why she reacted the way she did. If the intention had some type of good fun behind i…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 07:55 AM
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How could you marry a girl that wasn’t absolutely all about you? That is the real problem here. He settled for some bullshit relationship in which he would’ve chased her, showered her with gifts, and convinced her to marry him. She was just take take take probably. No self respect for himself. There’s gotta be genuine desire on her part to have a relationship. Like “love” would be a good start, obsession would be better.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 02:09 AM
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Does she tie intimacy with you buying her things/paying for things? If so you have a gold digger. If she just wants you to pay for dates, this may not be a deal breaker and may fit with her “old school” values. Read “practical female psychology for the practical man” to find out what kind of woman you’re dealing with here and how to treat her to get the best out of the relationship. If you want a relationship after working her out, that is.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 01:42 AM
5

Competition anxiety (dread) if you want her to work for it
/r/askTRP10/09/19 01:35 AM
2

Living a lifestyle that you actually want to live
/r/askTRP09/09/19 10:28 PM
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Hygiene, cologne, appearance, fashion, fitness are instant improvers. Long term improvers are inner game/self improvement/lifestyle improvement.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 02:57 AM
5

Usually once a women rejects you it’s hard to come back. Even if you change yourself for the better. So it’s a weird one but if you wanna get with her give it one last try. If nothing else you get a free book
/r/askTRP09/09/19 02:12 AM
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Don’t say 10/10. No such thing. Anyhow she’s hot. She’s leaving for a month so she probably saw this as no strings attached sex. Just say “Have a good trip”. If you think about her a month from now text her. Not complicated but you have feels so you are making it complicated.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 12:18 PM
1

Because they’re not looking to ingratiate themselves. Smiling is a form of submission.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 12:07 PM
4

Bahaha if lions had language, laws, private property, inheritance and currency maybe they would have monogamy too! Grow up and get an education dipshit
/r/askTRP08/09/19 11:24 AM
1

It’s very hard to give you advice because you told a story but the devil is in the detail. Was she drunk? Did she seem open to leaving with you? She was probably more into her friends than you and maybe you were a bit of validation to her. Did you try to leave with her? It sounds like you were the social butterfly but didn’t have clear purpose. Like you just wanted to hook up and make friends, you weren’t on your own path, you joined theirs. You say you were leading, but I’m not so sure. That is…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 11:17 AM
1

OP you had 4 different dates in a month, that’s enough opportunity. You said you were good looking so you’ll get good initial responses but after that it’s all about self expression and confidence. Something about your personality is turning the girls off further into the interaction. So you need to work on the emotional, self confidence stuff as a priority.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 11:27 AM
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This is actually a tough one. Just have an honest convo with your mate about how you feel about her, how she feels about you and what she has said about him. Tell him you like having a casual relationship with her, and ask if that is going to hurt him. If he says it’s going to hurt him you have to make the call. If you have previously talked down about her to him you have shot yourself in the foot because he probably feels like you lied.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 11:10 AM
2

We are all psychologically anchored somewhat in our childhood. But you can grow past it. Educate yourself, treat yourself well, good lifestyle, self improvement, honesty, introspection.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 11:05 AM
3

Dude, what the fuck is the question? Weird post, I can’t make sense of it.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 08:15 AM
4

Yes that’s the definition of unconfident: constantly changing yourself to external circumstance. No frame, no truth. A confident person is themselves in any situation
/r/askTRP07/09/19 07:47 AM
1

Why would you feel weird if things are going as you’d like?
/r/askTRP07/09/19 06:12 AM
4

The only reason you need to give to persuade her to give you her number is that you’d like to spend some time with her/date her. If she wants to do the same she will give you her number. Whether she wants to do the same will depend on how she feels about you during the interaction. Obviously you can’t just walk up and ask for her number so there’s gotta be an interaction of some sort before you ask her. So, the problem here is either the interaction, or how long you are spending with her before …
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:52 AM
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‘Persuade me’ is a very “gamey”, manipulative thing to say. As in she’s making you perform for her number. That hints to me that maybe your approaches come across as a bit needy, not genuine, like a performance with a reward scenario. “I put on a good performance, you validate me by giving me your number”. Even if you got the number there seems to be no genuine desire on her part so she’d probably just flake on you. So treat these rejections as maybe an indicator that you’re probably performing …
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:11 AM
3

You’re take is different to mine and that’s fine. My take is if you expose your truth to a woman (be “vulnerable” - but let’s not get caught up in semantics) without neediness you are showing that you are confident enough to accept if she doesn’t like you. (You are polarising and bold) Conversely, if you fake your behaviour to win her, you are showing outcome attachment and neediness of external validation. Which are unconfident and therefore unattractive. The word vulnerability has some negativ…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 02:53 AM
1

Preface I’m reading it for the second time and think it’s good. To me it’s a self improvement book with the side bonus of being better with women. What do you mean by aggressive? And what do you mean by not RP enough?
/r/askTRP07/09/19 02:32 AM
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I agree with what you’ve said except the way you define vulnerability. Manson is basically saying vulnerability is presenting your true self and being confident about whatever comes from that (ie strong frame and DGAF). If you are presenting yourself truly you are making yourself “vulnerable” to rejection. That’s why he calls it vulnerability you are exposing yourself. He also makes the distinction between vulnerability and weakness. He says the opposite of vulnerability is nice guy syndrome (fa…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 02:23 AM
2

My advice is to be more genuine in your interactions, not to perform for female validation (ie DGAF), and slow down
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:25 AM
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Man your whole post here seems to be rushed and fake. Which is probably how you were acting in the situation you described. “Looked off into the distance and said ‘to catch a vibe’, and saw out of the corner of my eye they were getting wet”, man sounds super cheesy and acting for validation. Why were you watching to see their reactions? Because you are too caught up in their opinions of you. If you have genuine desire for a girl she can feel that and if she likes you at all she will usually go f…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:16 AM
1

Simple, do what makes you happy. Some people will love you, some will hate you. But that’s better than everyone being indifferent.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:44 PM
1

You need to work on being able to truly say “i love myself” or “I am awesome” and have good feelings about yourself when you ask yourself “how do I feel about myself?”. This is the end game of good self esteem. How you get there is by doing the things I mentioned.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:23 PM
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