I want to share what I asked from a chick last week, please share your thoughts.

The chick came over, we had something to eat, and quickly went into the bedroom. We fucked three times because I was horny as fuck but she was not giving at all. No blowjob, no anal. She did not even shave her pussy. I tried to make her relax in bed by giving her a massage and that helped a little. I also told her that it is ok to let go, but she didn't. Still, I enjoyed it as much as I could. She wanted cuddling and romanticism after...

Two days later she texted me and wanted to meet again, so I told her:

Look, I don't think we are going to get along that well in one particular aspect. I think we have very different tastes in bed. I like women that are more active and open-minded, which includes anal, oral, spanking, tying you up, and playing with toys. I think you are more on the "romantic" vibe, which is fine because we are all different. Anyway, I want you to know this because I enjoy being more dominant and you didn't look comfortable with that.

Her response: Surely a man with your qualities will find a woman that likes all that. Best luck in your search.

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I do not want to waste time having mediocre sex so I know I needed to convey that. I wonder if I could have communicated it better. I was thinking in ARC "mode one" style when I sent that...Elephant in the room: she did not give me her sexual best, because I am not alpha enough in her eyes.

What do you think?