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Just a note on the topic: drafters of long posts should consider putting a tldr at the beginning. I think there's a note somewhere on the subject of drafting posts, but consider the following in any longer post a meaningful title an introductory paragraph to the topic including the conclusion (also known as a tldr) meaningful sub-headings short sections within the subheadings bullet points, because people like bullet points
/r/TheRedPill05/01/25 07:40 PM
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That's why you wait to commit until you're sure. For the younger guys looking for an LTR/Marriage, that means meeting her family, friends. Don't just move in together after two weeks. My last LTR it was a year before we moved in together, that one lasted 8 years. My current LTR it was four years before we moved in together (she was raising her sister's kids and we waited until they moved out), we're on year six right now.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/25 02:13 PM
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I agree. Real life: Some of these posts just read like someone just summarized other material in order to make a post. I like actual examples from OP's life, friends, relatives, things like that. The old adage if you didn't experience it, don't write about it; if you did experience, tell us about it and what you learned.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/24 02:00 PM
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Thus, "filter for compatibility". "AWALT" doesn't mean "all women are the same"; it means that all women have certain traits. But they can be present in greater or lesser quantities.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/24 05:39 PM
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Interesting post for two reasons. One, it works? Two, yesterday I was listening to Glen Beck while I was in the car, and he had on a professor who teaches storytelling. He wrote a book about all the stories in "A Christmas Story" and how they are parables. Then, about five minutes ago, I got an email soliciting for a storytelling class. Now your post about storytelling. I dunno, I though that it was an interesting coincidence.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/24 05:37 PM
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I see that too with the kids and dating and such. Like I said, there's something wrong with our society.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/24 06:59 PM
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In a moment of total honesty, the consensus on this question from the women was I would go with the guy with money, then cheat on him. The women gave each other high 5s and laughed. It was hard to hear. There is something very wrong with our entire society. >inb4 "Things are different now Gramps!" They don't need to be. Quality post. Now that I'm older and through with my "let's see how many I can fuck" phase, I filter for compatibility. The vagina she has is an important part of that. But that'…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/24 04:02 PM
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Quality. Getting older helps too. Things I used to care about just don't interest me anymore. Once I made a formal decision to live my life the way I wanted to, things got a lot easier. I don't even see "rejection" as rejection anymore. More like, I went to the store to buy something specific, and they didn't have it. Oh well, I'll get it somewhere else. World keeps spinning.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/24 07:13 PM
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ok guy thanks for the input and for the lol at your comment. Especially this one: >Women's true nature is not to be owned, subservient to a man. History and genetics prove otherwise time and time again. Of course, I'm 58 years old which I'm guessing is about 40 years older than you, and everything I post here is based on my personal experience in those 40 years of hanging and banging. Take it for what it's worth.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/24 10:50 PM
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No worries, mate. Most posts are just rehashes of older posts and ideas. Some ideas click with readers written one way, some click written another way.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/24 05:31 PM
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I've had two book chapters published in actual real books that are still in print 25 years later. I've written about a dozen published magazine articles - real magazines, real articles - and I used to teach graduate level writing. Pretty sure I know what I'm taking about. My comment was made in the spirit of let's all work together to succeed.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/24 04:24 PM
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yep. I'm working on a business law for small business owners book, going on about 10 months now and I'm only about 80% with the first draft. My first "book" which I ultimately decided not to try to publish took two years.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/24 04:19 PM
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Thoughts from someone who writes for a living: break up your text more. Use shorter paragraphs. Use sub-headings. If that post is one chapter, honestly you could break it up into 3 chapters. For a self-help book, rule of thumb I just created is someone should be able to read one chapter while sitting on the toilet. Also make the chapter titles more engaging - "what the fuck did I just hear?" or "Tell me you own me ..." for example. Keep your style the same though. Very engaging.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/24 11:41 PM
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Women loved being "conquered" by their man. Despite all of the muh strong women propaganda, their true nature is to want to be owned, subservient, to a real man. Telling them "your body belongs to me now" is the ultimate in conquering them. By saying it out loud, you also are conquering their mind while at the same time conquering their body. And if you're asking what "penetrating the woman" means, it means inserting your penis into her vagina.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/24 11:37 PM
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a little wordy, but quality. In depth. Also >Your body belongs to me now should be one of the first things you say just after penetrating the woman.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/24 05:47 PM
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>Do not call them by the wrong name Hoo boy!
/r/TheRedPill17/11/24 10:29 PM
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Also, "The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida. It's a bit heady but after a couple of reads it makes more sense and it's been life-changing for me >inb4 Rule 10
/r/TheRedPill12/11/24 07:40 PM
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you know you don't have to get drunk when you go out.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/24 02:37 AM
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When I have "failures" with women I do two things: One, I realize that it's her loss and probably something on her end, you're just not going to be able to bang every woman you set out to bang. Two, I may do a quick recap of the interaction/s on the drive home, some self criticism. Then forget it and move on because frankly life is too short to spend too much time on this nonsense and I have better things to do.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/24 12:36 PM
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What to do when you are lost or in a rut Do something. Anything. Stop fretting and go do something Quality post bunny.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/24 12:33 PM
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Dude this isn't a porn fantasy sub.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/24 02:49 PM
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A word to the wise. Men have to work at being men. Otherwise you're just lost among the group of generic people. Bit actors, NPCs, extras, part of the scenery, the background. I've got a client. Young guy, maybe late '20s. Tall, fit, good looking guy by any measure. When I interact with him he's personable, smart, knowledgable about his industry. Ambitious with his business. At a networking event a while back, I introduced him to a decent looking older woman. No reason, just networking. Dude fro…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/24 01:56 PM
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Wow single mom *and* LDR. Dude take a minute and read all the great information in the sidebar. From what I see here you're doing everything wrong. To make my post a little more helpful than that: Single mom and you're a young guy: you will never be her priority. Worst case you fall in love, get married, and become responsible for raising someone else's child. Where is that guy and why tf isn't he raising his own kid. She's a single mother so it shows she has poor judgment in partners, bad decis…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/24 03:00 PM
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I understand what you're saying. Social media, instand gratification, and "the Kardashian" effect (every girl is a princess who deserves every indulgence) have ruined two generations now. Even the plumpers dress like sluts, act like spoiled princesses, and get all the up-doots on their insta no matter how stupid their posts. It took us a few decades to get to this point. It will take a few decades to get back - if we ever do. You are proposing a generational change where the current 18-40 genera…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/24 01:33 PM
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Never be direct about having multiple women on rotation. Deny and deflect. "Aww baby, you're the only woman for me" said with a wry smile so that she knows you're bullshitting. Note that it's important that you've already established yourself in her eyes as a player. You can't just be a simp and all of a sudden come out with this. Women know. They just rarely come out directly about it. Although, sometimes outright honesty, said with confidence and a shit-eating grin, has workd for me, "Don't tr…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/24 05:40 PM
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Turn it into a game. It's fun chatting up women using the red pill toolbox and knowing before hand exactly what their reaction will be, and how to counter things like shit-tests. Even in business, I've learned that yes, I do have to treat and respond to women differently than men. Personally it's given me clarity in all relationships, with women and men. I understand their motivations and reactions and can respond appropriately.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/24 12:34 PM
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The adage is true: women would rather share a good man than settle for a bad one. It all comes down to DGAF. Everything else is a sub-set of that.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/24 03:59 PM
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Sex without condoms feels like 20% better in my opinion
/r/TheRedPill06/10/24 01:37 PM
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Explain how I'm wrong.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/24 03:19 PM
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Sidebar quality. Only comment is that to use these concepts, you must practice. That means actually talking with people, learning how to feel the flow of a conversation, how to read reactions. And by talk to people, I mean talk to everyone. Practice.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/24 03:16 PM
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You want a real answer? It's feminism, which is an offshoot of old Russian communism, and it's been going on for over 100 years. Communism dictates, among other tenets, that women and men can be equal. Physically, mentally, emotionally. Back in the early/mid Soviet days, women were put into traditionally male roles like doctor, architect, yes, even soldiering. The purpose was two-fold: to destroy the family unit (women can't raise children if they're working); and to destroy the male dominated m…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/24 01:34 AM
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Jason Statham agrees with this post
/r/TheRedPill18/09/24 11:13 PM
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This is a post to read. I did a post on forgetting "game" and just learn to talk to everyone. Rx' point is broader than that. You can't learn social skills if you don't put yourself in social situations. When I grew up back then, you couldn't help but be social. Sure, we had the "loner" kid, but just by being in school you had to interact with others in the hallway, classroom, lunch-room, gym class. We'd "crash the mall" on Saturdays and chat up our-age girls. We had to get phone numbers and act…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/24 12:15 PM
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In your case, you had the social foundation Rx is talking about, and made a conscious decision to limit it. I've done the same over the years. As I get older, I don't have the need to "hang out with the bros" and yell at football on the t.v. on Sundays or going to bars and drinking useless calories on Fridays. Rx' post is more about the younger generation who grew up isolated, living in their bedrooms, headphones on walking the hallways at school without talking to anyone or taking part in what,…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/24 12:07 PM
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Dude, when you find a reason to get a girl back to your place, it doesn't have to be a real reason. They all know what "I want to show you something at my apartment" means. You just have to give them a reason that's not "sexsexsex" so they don't feel like a slut. Read the sidebar, man, that's what it's there for. That's why I LOL'd out loud at your "if you have a great view" comment. Who gives a fuck what your view is? The point is to get her back home, not show her a great view.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/24 11:06 PM
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"My view from the balcony is amazing—you’ve got to see it.": If you have a great view, use it as a draw. It’s an invitation to share something unique about your space. this one made me LOL out loud. Who cares what the view is like?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/24 07:02 PM
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Thanks, man.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/24 02:31 PM
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this. Part of the problem noobs face is thinking that women think like men, combined with a fear of women. Women are attracted to boldness, confidence, and a man on his mission. When I meet a bold, confident woman, I actually find it unattractive. It's a masculine trait and frankly nowadays there's enough mannish women in the world. I don't need a bro as a partner; I need a womanly woman. Deida talks about this in great detail. In the absence of masculine energy, a woman will "pick up the slack"…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/24 08:41 PM
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You should be talking to everyone, all day, every day. Take the anxiety out of talking to strangers. Read my post "Ditch Cold Approach ..." about how to do it.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/24 04:00 PM
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I rode an elevator with Steve Martin once. It was long enough he could have told three jokes. Instead, he just stood there like everyone else.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/24 11:41 AM
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She might not be interested in you because she's just not interested in you. Are you interested in banging every woman you see?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/24 05:27 PM
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You only see them on t.v. and they play characters. In real life, who even knows what kind of off-screen confidence they have?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/24 05:25 PM
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This place turns you into a robot if not swallowed in the correct manner. Don’t get me wrong, this place taught me allot of good things and has hugely impacted the man I am today but it is very scary in terms of the damage it it can do when not internalised correctly. This. TRP gives you the tools in your toolbox. It doesn't always give the maturity to use them.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/24 03:09 PM
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"Abort" because the gym is your personal temple and you don't want to get kicked out for creeping. Gym pickups are for advanced users only. Don't stop talking to her, because day-to-day interactions are practice for being a human in a society. If she makes an overt move, like she invites you out for a drink, then maybe. But still remember, you don't want to make your gym awkward for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/24 01:36 PM
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But I said I am not one to turn down a cute girl more than once, perhaps next time I will take her up on that. She blushed. Any follow up? Personally, if i was interested, "I can't do it because I have plans with my buddies, but on [day] I'm going to do [thing], come with me" or some such. Waiting for a shy girl to ask you out a second time is risky. The lesson I've screwed up in the past is always know your availability.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/24 01:34 PM
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In the old days, the original PUAs actually kept logs of approaches, and would discuss success rates based on different approaches; or would actually interview women and get their viewpoint on things. ROK comes to mind, and there were others. I guess I'm wondering how much of your blog posts - which I enjoy - are based on your real-life experience. By that I mean, you're speaking on behalf of the woman's perspective, "Women Want To Win You Over" for example you're telling us what women want, whe…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/24 01:29 PM
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I think raise the standards, go for the sexier, hotter, more fuckable, porn star look alike. To each his own is a better view to take. Even as a kid I never liked the "Sports Illustrated" or "Playboy model" type. I like all types of women, but literally never had attraction to "model beautiful" types.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/24 11:58 PM
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Quality post guy. Easy access porn is ruining generations of men. When I went single about 10 years back I got hooked on the shit. Gave me anxiety-related ED (yes the memes are real). this girl will want to do nasty things in bed. Porn, and the deviant shit on the internet, has changed millenia of expectations for what is "normal" sex. When I got off the internet porn, my desires changed back to normal. Honestly, I just want a straight fuck when I'm in the mood. I see in the porno all the knots …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/24 08:51 PM
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you have to put the work in to obtain abundance and it takes time. You want a basket of peaches, first you have to plant the peach tree.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/24 05:13 PM
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Or in my case, just not caring all that much. Older I get, the less I care about chasing women and getting laid. Been there done that, it was easy, it was fun, but it's just not as urgent anymore.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/24 12:10 PM
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That's why my invites are generally, "I'm doing ________ tomorrow night at 7. You should come with". The "______" is something I'll be doing anyway like going to a show or for a hike. Either way, I'm doing what I planned on doing.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/24 05:26 PM
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The old "wear something sexy" and variations is a classic. It shows intention without being too direct. Plus women love dressing up for men.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/24 05:24 PM
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This comes with abundance.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/24 05:23 PM
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I've been told many times by clients that they like working with me because I'm blunt and direct, whether it's good news or bad. I dunno, I've always been this way. There's like 7 billion people on the planet, not everyone is going to like you. If you don't like me, that's a "you" problem, not a "me" problem.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/24 05:16 PM
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That's more like it!
/r/TheRedPill10/07/24 11:40 PM
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He became irate; “I could never cheat on her” he said. holy shit You can't red pill other people. They have to make the journey themselves. Best you can do is be there for a buddy going through it and gently guide. It's up to them if they want to take the pill. toolbox Accurate. I don't do all the red pill things. For one, I'm older so just banging randos doesn't appeal to me. You don't have to bring the entire toolbox just to hang a picture on the wall. But it's good to know you have the tools …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/24 08:28 PM
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It wasn't ad hominem. We're all here trying to get better, trading advice. I saw a teachable moment about communicating like a man and offered some advice. Internet's a rough and tumble place, guy.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/24 10:18 PM
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Thanks Vermillion. "Experienced" women mimic what they learned from other partners. I don't want a BJ or whatever the way that her last guy liked. I don't even want to have to think about it. I tell or show her what I like because that's the whole point of such an excursion.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/24 10:15 PM
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I've been having sex for 40 years, son. Pretty sure I know what I'm doing. Maybe try taking some advice from people with experience, you might learn something. if u have a partner after u leave u You want to be taken seriously, start communicating like a grown up. Women want a man who acts like a man, not a kid texting to his middle school crush.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/24 03:23 PM
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Food for thought, low body count women often suck at aex. If the sex is bad and you're in the room, it's your fault. Men lead, women follow. In sex and in all things. Tell her to do what you want her to do. Move her into position. Demand compliance. I've never had a woman say "no" to anything I've wanted to do when having sex. They want to be led, they want to be fucked properly.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/24 12:18 PM
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Search for my post "Ditch 'cold approach'" and what you said is exactly it. Go out and do things you enjoy doing, learn to talk to *everyone* not just the cuties. If you go out "I NEED TO GET LAID" women can sense that, and find it off-putting unless they're on the same mission. And then all you'll generally find is low quality whores. Good if you just want to have sex, bad for longer term prospects
/r/TheRedPill06/07/24 03:18 PM
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With that said, you’ll pick up on patterns after encountering enough of them and be able to recognize when you are with one more quickly. This. Nothing teaches better than experience. When I first started reffing football, the game was a jumble. 22 giant high shool kids running at me full speed and here's me trying to look for holding and facemask penalties and not get run over. Now that I've seen 1,000 plays, the game comes at me slower, I can pick out individual battles between players, and mo…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/24 12:32 PM
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Search for my post " TRP for the older guys: "Eh, Where's all the broads at?" " for some more tips. tldr: they're everywhere. Stop being a try-hard and just start being aware.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/24 12:23 PM
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As an old-timer I appreciate this comment. "Been there done that" is an underrated way of actually learning. You can be the best natural baseball player ever, but you won't hit a curve ball your first time at bat. You need to see 500 curve balls to know and understand how to work them. tldr: experience is the true teacher.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/24 01:24 PM
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After a while of faking it until making it, your personality will actually adapt to "red pill" behaviour because your body and mind will feel better, feel the succeses, and tell you that it is how you should naturally be. TRP is a toolbox to accentuate your character. This. You can't make a turnip into a cherry. If you're naturally masculine but have conformed to society's blue pill m'lady pressure, you can overcome that. The clear vision of what's natural in female behavior, and how to respond,…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/24 12:06 PM
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This is the correct answer. A boss once told me "I'm your client" which entirely changed my perspective. Even though I was an associate lawyer just doing assigned tasks, it made me realize that I was in business for myself and had to conduct myself accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/24 12:55 PM
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Your entire post is low info low effort crap, honestly agreed. Just a summary of the sidebar, no real actionable information. True story about lifting, I started in junior high for football in the late 1970s. Both my cousins played HS, college, and one went pro. Anyhoo, they had a full weight set in their garage, along with a kegerator and an in-ground swimming pool in the back yard. When we were all in JH and HS working out, well, you can imagine the fun we had with that combo of facilities. Do…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/24 08:24 PM
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If only there was a place where wisdom such as this was catalogued in a simple, easy to understand format, and readily available at the touch of a button to anyone seeking such knowledge. If only there was such a place.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/24 12:03 PM
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Growing up and well into my '30s, I had a grandfather who was a notorius mobster for decades back in [my home city]. I also had lots of friends and great contacts. After he died, people I thought were friends and who even stood up in my wedding stopped talking to me. I lost my politically connected job. My family lost whatever esteem and connections came from having a well-known grandfather. The point is, you're on your own. You always were, you always will be.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/24 11:42 AM
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tldr: Trust your gut, that's what it's there for. Also, stop approaching women in the gym. There's too many white knights with too much power (they outnumber us like 100:1) that will ban you from the iron temple in a heartbeat.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/24 11:35 AM
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I like taking pictures, and their filters are kind of neat. I like keeping up with family members. I also watch "training" videos of baseball umpire and football referee calls where commenters discuss the rules and their application.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/24 11:42 AM
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The content goes against the global reddit hyper-liberal narrative. Don't know why it's still tolerated. Mods created a backup site for when this sub finally gets shoa'd
/r/TheRedPill19/06/24 05:22 PM
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I'm a historical fiction guy so "self-help" books aren't something I'm interested in. I read a lot of contemporaneously written lit from different eras, mostly 1800s to early/mid 1900s war novels. It's amazing how red pilled our society and authors used to be. They would say the shit in writing about men's and women's roles what we're not even supposed to say out loud these days. A lot of wisdom, too. Posts from ECs and others would routinely get 200, 300, 750 upvotes. I just don't think the vol…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/24 07:07 PM
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I think it's partly to blame that "askTRP" got banned so there's a lot of overflow coming here, but instead of the kids asking for advice, they're giving it. Reddit updoots and all that.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/24 07:02 PM
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let's do an evening date no, let's do an afternoon date He lost control from the get-go
/r/TheRedPill08/06/24 12:38 PM
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The broader point I was trying to make was to use your skills in some beneficial way.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/24 01:17 AM
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Nice mission. Teaching a skill you have to others is always a good mission. You're helping new players learn teamwork, discipline, how to handle loss. That's how I see my umpire/referee missions. We need more of that in today's "everyone gets a trophy, my kid is the best" society.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/24 06:05 PM
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Your mission should reach beyond your own self gratification or desire to learn something to better yourself. It should benefit society, even if in some small way. Learn a new language so you can help recent immigrants learn about living in your country. Look at the examples I gave, and others in this thread. The common string is that even though it makes you a better person, more whole, the missions also have some benefit to society. "make a full album" is solely because you need to make music.…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/24 06:03 PM
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I was meeting with some business consultant a while back, and he was going through his mumbo jumbo, when I interrupted and asked him, "Are you any good at this?" He sort of chuckled and said, "Oh yeah." I thought that was pretty cool, so I adopted that attitude when people ask me if I'm a good lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/24 07:38 PM
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up-arrow to undo the down arrows confidence is attractive my man, don't ever change.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/24 06:10 PM
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All the words of every book are in the dictionary so why not just read the dictionary then you've read every book and you don't need to read anymore Sometimes saying the same thing in a different way effects people differently Sometimes saying, "the same thing in a different way" effects people differently. Same words, different meaning.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/24 06:09 PM
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Hire slow, fire fast
/r/TheRedPill01/06/24 03:22 PM
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A senior monk and a junior monk were traveling together. At one point, they came to a river with a strong current. As the monks were preparing to cross the river, they saw a very young and beautiful woman also attempting to cross. The young woman asked if they could help her cross to the other side. The two monks glanced at one another because they had taken vows not to touch a woman. Then, without a word, the older monk picked up the woman, carried her across the river, placed her gently on the…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/24 03:20 PM
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I've always theorized that humans are designed to chemically "bond" with one or two people in a lifetime, and that for whatever reason (pheremones, situation, who knows) our brains create this strong desire for that one person. That's why we have "the one that got away" phrase. The one girl from high school that you still think about, or the girl you met on vacation and had a great week with. For whatever reason, your mind is open to creating that bond for that person, at that time. I've had ple…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/24 03:19 PM
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I'm a serial monogamist myself, spinning plates just taking too much time and energy when I tried it out a few years ago, but back before my current LTR I dated some "pre-divorced" women. That didn't bother me because their relationships were over already. Be the "rebound guy" for them for a few months, but always be clear that they're not supposed to fall in love with you, because they always do.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/24 07:15 PM
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One of the best books. the only non-fictions self-help book I've ever been inspired to read. It's an annual read for me. It's what got me thinking more about having a mission in life, than just slogging through day after day. The part that taught me the most was a simple analogy he gave: Women are like the ocean: calm one moment, the next a hurricane, seconds later calm again. And you never know what kind of weather she's going to be. Men need to be like the rock of Gibraltar: unmoved and solid …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/24 04:00 PM
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men evolved to need a purpose exactly. Good post, but I would disagree that a mission has to be a "life's purpose". That's difficult for me to conceptualize. My personal missions have all been somewhat temporary, or seasonal. Work your mission, do it well, contribute, then move on or not. Like my yoga teaching, umpiring baseball, and my teaching law school writing. I did it, I excelled, I helped some people, then it was time to move on for whatever reason. I cared about getting better and having…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/24 08:32 PM
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You can't help others until you help yourself dude. Get off the weed and videogames. Get yourself healthy. Then you can start to think about making a broader contribution to society. I think I explained pretty well how to find your own mission, and I gave examples, as others have. But get your head right first.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/24 08:25 PM
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Agreed. But for a lot of people it isn't their daily slog so they need "something more" to give their lives meaning. I happen to like being a lawyer - I like the writing, working with business owners to help them become successful, the money I sometimes make. But I needed something else in my life.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/24 08:22 PM
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When I first started calling HS baseball, I wasn't sure if I would like it. But I told myself, "try it for one season, what else do you have to do?" Turns out it blows and I'm done after this Summer and three seasons calling games. But I tried it and did well at it. On to the next one.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/24 04:21 PM
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One thing I would recommend for you is to be humble and be honest about your position when you start out. "I've never volunteered before" or "I've never done this before" is a simple statement but powerful in that you will get all kinds of help from people versus if you just showed up and didn't talk to anyone.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/24 04:19 PM
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The quoted examples just happen to be from military books because that's what I read, but that's not the point of my OP. The books show a man on his mission, or finding his mission, and what the results are. You can find literature red pilled material all across older texts. Books I've read years ago take on new meaning when I re-read them in light of what I've learned here, and from my experiences as I grow older. I can't even listen to country music anymore because it's filled with men whining…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/24 01:59 PM
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"Leadership" I think is a core RP tenet. I often summarize, "Men lead, women follow".
/r/TheRedPill23/05/24 01:54 PM
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Not until just now, reading about it. Good stuff, same thing as my post but from an Eastern perspective. Flow is a string of “best moments” or moments when we are at our best. These best moments “usually occur when a person’s body or mind is stretched to its limit, in a voluntary effort to accomplish something difficult and worthwhile” (Csikszentmihalyi, 1990). Flow can be said to occur when you are consistently doing something you love and that you are good at, with the possible added benefit o…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/24 01:47 PM
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I did that when I first moved to my new city. Did it for a few months. Most shelters around here have some kind of volunteer program, even if it's just cleaning feeding dishes or walking the dogs. Recognize that it's not permanent, go in with the attitude, "I'm going to try this a few times, if it's not for me, at least I did something" Report back after you've done it a few times.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/24 01:45 PM
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You do have time. Take the pressure off to find your mission. "what to do with your life" and having a mission can be and usually are two different things. Earning is often not the same as mission. College isn't the end-all of existence. What can you do, that you would enjoy, that would also be of broader benefit to society? Try something as trite as volunteering once a week at the local animal shelter for two hours, do that for a few months, or coach a kid's baseball team for one summer, if it …
/r/TheRedPill23/05/24 04:48 AM
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Share your higher purpose. That's sort of the point of this thread. I'm interested in how others manifest something more than just jiving and surviving.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/24 04:42 AM
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The Friday night jealousy was a shit test, easily passed. She's 100% on board now. Agree re: war as a purpose. But that's where the examples that I read about (I read a *lot) hit home the most, well-expressed by the authors. A lot of older literature is surprisingly "red pilled", we've just forgotten about it as a society. "Self actualization" v. "Mission" - brothers in concept but not the same. "Mission", I think, can lead to actualization. That whole "higher purpose" and all that. You might wa…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/24 02:15 AM
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Computers amiright?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/24 12:34 AM
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Wasn't directed to you specifically, just generally a comment on how nonsense seems to get through. Post got auto-removed (I assume) in like three seconds. I tried editing some of the quotes out and reposting and still got denied. I sent a dm to mods and never heard back. I'll try to dm you the link for it if it's still in my account, allow it or not, it was a good post, but I understand this is your forum and rules.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/24 12:25 AM
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I looked up "chelsea boots" and the first hit was "women's chelsea boots at Nordstroms" I prefer a basic black cap-toe oxford for "dressing up". Works with jeans too if you get the right pair. I can only imagine some poor soul going down the list, checking off everything, "okay did I tell her to look into my eyes when she's speaking with me - check. Did I ask her what her favorite vacation was - check." Not complaining but just wondering how a post like this gets through and mine on "get on your…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/24 11:51 PM
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But how are newbies to the game supposed to filter the good (really only about 5% of his post) from the bad? It's just a cringey post summarizing PUA materials from 10 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/24 06:12 PM
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Sorry guy but this is cringe advice that reads like you summarized and catalogued 50 other "pick up artist" posts. Having a checklist for most of this stuff is a horrible way to approach a dating event. Date Ideas Fuck this. Do something you want to do. It's not your job to entertain her. Do something cool that you like doing, and invite her to come with. Maybe after you've fucked and decided you want to see her again, you can come up with "event" dates based on conversations you've had with her…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/24 06:10 PM
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This is why "abundance" even if it's just having a few potential new women in the on-deck circle. It makes you realize women are easily replaceable when you have the freedom to just go out and find a new one. They're not rare sports cars; they're Toyota Camries. You can find one in every used car lot.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/24 12:27 PM
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Also, men who are obsessed with watching professional or college sports is a turn-off I watch high school football and baseball ... from on the field as an official. A man needs a mission in life.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/24 01:57 AM
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It's a field report. We learn from other people's mistakes so that when we see these situations in real life we have a knowledge of what works and what doesn't
/r/TheRedPill11/05/24 01:56 PM
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C'mon, it's Czechoslovakia. We zip in, we pick 'em up, we zip right out again. We're not going to Moscow. It's Czechoslovakia. It's like going into Wisconsin. Wiser words were never spoken.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/24 01:54 PM
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yeah, too much chatter. Open with chatter -> converse normally -> insert more chatter -> converse normally -> close and gtfo So, I was reading this book. And it said that guys who wear gray tank tops in the gym, and girls who wear black tank tops in the gym are apparently super compatible. Now, I don’t necessarily believe everything I read, but I am interested in finding out if there is any merit to this. I want to say this is way too wordy but it seemed to work. I’m 27, but I look a lot younger…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/24 01:23 PM
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that's why you calibrate. Protip: If she laughs and punches you in the arm and says "you're such an asshole" then you're in like Flynn.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/24 12:35 AM
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My Friend is a Moron yep. “I bet you guys are dating so many girls. What number are we?” *friend shits his pants because he can't believe he's having an actual conversation with omg a girl. *OP saving the day: "Oh I don't know about him, but let me see" [starts counting on fingers and saying shit to himself like "Oh, yeah, and her" with a dumb grin at some supposed memory of "her" then continues counting] Basic response to shit test
/r/TheRedPill05/05/24 12:30 AM
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"red pill is for women haters" comes from the outside, not from you and me. Comes from feminists who don't want their charade exposed. The purpose of feminism is denigrating strong male roles in society. It - feminism - is a sub-tenet of communism whereby individual thought, ambition, and free-will must be squished out in people so that society can be rebuilt by the authoritarian rulers. Don't just understand *what they're doing, understand *why.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 06:19 PM
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Better yet, have your side hustle be your mission if at all possible. Be on mission, and earn while doing it. You do have a mission in life that transcends just slogging to the office every day, right?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 05:11 PM
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It's a "field report". It's even tagges as "field report." It gives an example of red pill in the wild and what it looks like so others can recognize it when it happens to them.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 05:08 PM
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Interestingly, I think the tide is turning on "red pill is for women haters". The last year or so I've had women tell me things like "I wish I could have just had kids and raised a family instead of having to work"; "trad wife" is slowly taking hold with the instathots; women telling me things like "I like hanging out with you because I don't have to make decisions". They're realizing "feminism" is against nature. Unfortunately, for most people and definitely for America, the cost of living is s…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 05:06 PM
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The curse of man is a perpetual performance This is why it's best to internalize "red pill" thought and behavior. So instead of saying to yourself "what would a real red pilled man do in this situation" you just do it naturally. Yes, betas can change. I did, now my life is tons better.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 05:03 PM
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I kept hurting my shoulders - front deltoid/pectoral - trying to lift heavy on bench using a straight bar. I realized based on other injuries that fixed bars was the problem, they limit natural mobility. A power lifter I know suggested decline dumbell press, and now I'm injury free almost a year and putting up 70 lb dumbbells, which is pretty good for an old guy like me. summary: learn to lift correctly, and seek advice.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/24 12:33 PM
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word. A lot of kids these days aren't talking to each other, everything is a click on the phone. My Uncle Ernie could talk to anyone. He could meet some guy on the street and in five minutes they'd figure out something or someone in common and be laughing. I asked him about it once, and he said "I genuinely like meeting people". I have good days and bad talking to strangers, but the more I do it, the more good days. It helps to have canned openers. Like, I'm from Chicago originally, and I discov…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/24 12:29 AM
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I wrote a post a while back about how to practice just talking to everybody until it becomes second nature. Then "approaching" women is really just something you do naturally. Networking is also a great way to teach yourself how to talk to strangers with purpose. That said, being older helps too because I just don't have social anxiety anymore.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/24 12:11 AM
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To just be able to get the fuck out of the situation as quickly as possible. You shouldn't be going on a first/second "date" that's going to hurt your wallet if you have to bail and spend an extra $10.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/24 11:52 PM
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Because money is just a tool. Don't give it more importance than that. Sometimes it's just easier to cough up money for the bill and get the fuck out. Of course, why are you going on dates that cost money you don't have to spend? One shouldn't be going on million dollar first dates, or even second dates.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/24 11:51 PM
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imagine still sitting with someone on a first date after she checks her phone a *second* time. And you're worried about being disrepectful to *her*? That said, always end dates early. Always have a built in timer on dates. That's why coffee/drinks are so great, "I only have time for one maybe two".
/r/TheRedPill23/04/24 11:47 PM
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you did not set the parameters of your OP as physical and "non-physical". You only talked about physical self-defense. Sorry guy, don't get to change the argument mid-stream bc you don't like the feedback.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/24 11:44 PM
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WTH are you people doing that you're fretting about getting in fights? Last fight I got into was in 1990 when some drunks jumped me in college. How about working on being places where you don't have to worry about this kind of nonsense?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/24 02:21 PM
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how much time does she have before the Wall? Doesn't matter, she's going to leave you for some older rich surgeon, or move from your city to get a job at a better hospital.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/24 12:28 PM
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Truth. I'll say it: letting women into the profession ruined it. Everything is a "battle" to them, even the tiniest grammatical revision to a standardized contract. In the courtroom they are insufferable. I would not recommend becoming a lawyer to anyone (and I've been doing it 30 years). The work is great and I enjoy it - commercial transactions, helping businesses be successful. But the environment once you add just one lawyer to the mix has been toxic for decades. It's the "L.A. Law win at al…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/24 06:06 PM
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Only do any of these because you want to do them **and you're good at it** because otherwise you'll be miserable and resent having to go to work every day I've been a lawyer 30+ years and the shitty lawyers far outnumber the good ones. In fact, back when I was teaching law school, often I would see students with little motivation. Talking to them it turned out they didn't want to be lawyers, but went to law school for some stupid reason like "may dad is a lawyer"
/r/TheRedPill16/04/24 06:02 PM
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We're going as strong as ever. Until two years ago she was raising her sister's kids, after they moved out I invited her to move in once her lease expired. I always saw potential in her which is why I kept her around so long (most of my relationshps lasted maybe a few months until they demanded exclusivity, which she never did). Her life was stressed between work and raising kids. Now that she has a safe place with me and no kids to worry about since they moved out, she's happier, more intereste…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/24 07:22 PM
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My current five year girlfriend moved in with me a year ago (see my other post in this thread). I don't do any of what you listed. Sure, now I get 2, maybe 3 home cooked meals a week, but she was doing that here before she moved in. We go out a few times a week, but I did that before she moved in. She likes the t.v., I like reading, we do it in separate rooms. I have continued working out on my regular pre-live together schedule. I still go out on my own to catch live music or hike or what not, …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/24 07:15 PM
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True story: After I went single about 7 years ago, I was trying to figure out how to be a better person, and make my life better. I had an old piece of display cardboard lying around, so on the back I listed some things that were important goals for me, and eventually I made a "top 5" list of my priorites on the board, in order: health mission Dog (yes, man's best friend, women come and go but he's always been there) earning (not the same as mission) women / relationships I was doing well, if so…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/24 07:07 PM
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*he let her sleep over the first time they fucked
/r/TheRedPill14/04/24 12:59 PM
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"Hey [girl], I'm making myself some fish and shrimps tonight with wild rice, you should come over and share it with me" Do you not eat dinner unless there's a girl involved? If she shows up, great. If she doesn't show up, you're just doing what you would have been doing anyway. Don't overthink it. Ignore the rest
/r/TheRedPill08/04/24 07:00 PM
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Maybe one day you or someone who has read this post will be in a similar circumstance. They'll remember, "oh, right, *now* I understand what this post meant" I can tell you all day how to pitch a baseball, "just pick it up and throw it" but until you've done it, the simplest or most complex of directions won't make sense. When I first started officiating HS sports, I read all the rules books (and fuck there are a *lot* of rules for football and baseball!). Not all of them made sense until I saw …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/24 06:05 PM
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the point of this forum is to teach men how to find women and have sex with them. They're not "psychological games" , it's just the way women are. Once you realize women's nature, and accept it, and learn how to deal with it, the game becomes fun.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/24 05:59 PM
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It's more an effect of you realizing that women are a lower priority than other things in your life. When I first went single after my last LTR and taking time off from chasing women, I just started doing cool things by myself. Bring my kindle to a brewery and listen to some live bluegrass band; hike with my dog; whatever. I liked it. Still like doing it. One day it occurred to me that having a relationship with a woman just wasn't that important in the scheme of my life and how I wanted to live…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/24 05:52 PM
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Does he not have other, more important things going on in his life? Why does he have so much free time to hangout with me? Thus the importance of setting priorities in life, having a mission, having a decent job or career, and taking time for yourself. My current LTR threw a fit one Friday night, early in our relationship, when I was going out to referee a football game, and not spending Friday with her. I told her simply and straightforwardly "Football comes first. You don't have to stick aroun…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/24 05:49 PM
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Got out of an 8 year LTR., after an 18 year marriage, that's 26 years with only two people. Hadn't "dated" since college when I could just fall into relationshps without trying. Decided I knew nothing about dating and getting laid. literally just an internet search for "how to be a better man" Now I've set my priorities straight and am much more satisfied with the life I've built fitness/health mission my dog earning relationships in that order
/r/TheRedPill24/02/24 02:28 PM
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Nice. I look at the "history" of modern day "negs" and yes, the words you say to the woman may be the same, but I'm guessing you do them contextually appropriate, and with your particular style, and of course, shit-eating grin. When I used to watch that horrible pickup show, though, "negs" were taught as independent things to do, almost like working through a list. "Find something about her and make a negative comment". The chuds would walk up to a woman cold and just throw a neg and hope for th…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/24 11:50 PM
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Rather than "down arrow" you, I'm going to take a short minute to explain where you're misunderstaning shit-tests. You cannot change the inherent, genetic makeup of women. You wouldn't ask a camel to not drink water at an oasis. They are genetically predisposed to do it. Same with women, "shit tests" are a way of testing your confidence, because above all else (yes, even looks) women value confidence. And they want to know that your confidence won't fail at the first sign of stress, let alone af…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/24 11:43 PM
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the "tell" is if she punches you in the arm and calls you an "asshole" you're in.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/24 11:36 PM
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“Your clothes don’t match. Should have worn brown shoes.” Never, ever, insult or criticize a woman's clothes if you've just met her.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/24 11:33 PM
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>negging >teasing There's a huge difference. Negging is not bueno. Teasing *done with a shit-eating DGAF grin* is bueno. The same words can have different meaning depending *how* they're being said. With that in mind, outright insults are not bueno.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/24 11:31 PM
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They want to have the power to affect you. I used to bang this woman, one time in the kitchen, her skirt lifted up and panties to the side, she told me that was the hottest thing. Whan I asked her why, she said she loves it that I find her so sexy that I can't even wait to pull her panties down. After that it was panties to the side as often as I could.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/24 02:07 AM
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You forgot the "shit eating grin" that you use when you make a joke where the words are serious but the intention is playful
/r/TheRedPill23/11/23 02:43 PM
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The first year I was dating my current LTR (going on 5 years now) she hated that I always taught yoga on Wednesday nights, and refereed football Thursdays and Fridays. She'd send me nasty texts while I was in class/on the field so I'd see them when I got back to my car. After a few weeks I had a short "long talk" with her about it, put her in a few time-outs, and she hasn't acted up about *anything* since then. I told her my priorities, in order, were: fitness mission my dog earning women In tha…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/23 08:05 PM
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Didn't read The answer is "no". People have to find the red pill on their own. Live your life, let them live yours.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/23 02:32 PM
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shit tests are not micro aggressions. Shit tests are for her to see if you're man enough to keep moving forward under adverse conditions.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/23 02:21 PM
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What do you do if he physically tries to push into you to get you to move out of the way? I'm not talking a shove, but more like a shoulder into your shoulder, or edging in between the two of you where there is either of physical contact, or just-about physical contact. or worse, the guy who talks with his hand out and grabs your shoulder or pushes on your chest. Especially the guy with beer muscles who is determined to just push his way in? I hate being bumped in crowded venues which is why I m…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/23 12:38 AM
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I might try to repost it, I used a [] to get past the proscription on not linking to websites, maybe that was it? Mods haven't responded to my request to unban it
/r/TheRedPill17/10/23 12:23 PM
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Yep. I tried to put up a high quality post on finding and having a mission in life and it didn't even make it past clicking "post" - some kind of auto filter deleted it instantly.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 08:25 PM
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bench, rows, curls, dips/tris, shoulders, traps. In and out in about 40 minutes. That's my upper body routine. Do quality lifts and you'll work the smaller muscles at the same time. You don't need to do three different kinds of curls etc. And stop fucking around on your phone or picking "just the right" music.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 08:22 PM
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/polish their husbands' daggers
/r/TheRedPill11/10/23 09:08 PM
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Start your Next Mission, & Let Sex Become a Fun Hobby You do in Your Spare Time Sex is not a "mission." Maybe we need a refresher post on "what is and what is not a mission" or "how to find your mission". Note to self. Do this.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/23 09:02 PM
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Only works if you're an oldchad like me.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/23 08:48 PM
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To add to everyone's hate on this post: Stop using emojies. Men communicate using words, not cartoons. The only exception is Seth McFarlane and Stonetoss.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/23 11:32 PM
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I think his point is more "own the situation and take action" rather than "let it happen and complain about it." His idea about coming up with a plan is solid. Maybe it doesn't have to include the relationship, but if there's something there he wants to salvage, having a plan is better than doing nothing.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/23 05:39 PM
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Or as I like to say: No one ever hired me because I sat in my office all day doing good work. Picasso would not have become Picasso if he didn't have a tribe of people who loved and promoted art and artists.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/23 03:01 PM
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I'll give an example of what GLO is talking about because everyone likes examples to solidify abstract ideas. This one is important. No man is an island and all that. men belonged to tribes. I've probably mentioned that I referee high school football. The officials come from absolutely diverse backgrounds. In our association we have lawyers and doctors and executives and electricians, and we have guys who drive garbage trucks and guys who work at tire shops. What we have in common is a love for …
/r/TheRedPill04/09/23 02:44 PM
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Practice. You'll get desensitized quickly. Also, learn to enjoy the process instead of focusing on the outcome. That's all.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/23 05:10 PM
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One thing I learned with all my publications is that at some point, it has to be done. Whether it's a deadline for print, or whether you just need to finish it and move on, at some point it has to be done. If you really have a lot more information to write about, write two books. Split your topics into logical groupings for two+ books, and go from there.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/23 04:58 PM
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Not only does telling women that you are the leader not work, do not talk about process in a relationship "I think this date is going well don't you?"
/r/TheRedPill28/08/23 04:55 PM
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I have another date tomorrow. I'm kinda tempted to send the girl home if she's obviously not interested way too much pressure, way too many serial first dates, reading your comments. Try this instead of sending her packing: I don't know that we're really connecting physically, but as long as we're here let's just hang out for while, no pressure Lean back and relax when you say it, like you own the joint and are relaxed and enjoying being there, and for god's sake, smile with a shit-eating grin w…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/23 09:46 PM
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You don't mention if you were physically attracted to them when you saw them IRL. There's your problem right there. Going through the motions, without true attraction, is a waste of time, even as practice. Also, seems like you kids are just getting burned out with nonstop first dates, apps, etc. Take a few months off and focus more on your mission?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/23 09:42 PM
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I'm on speaking terms with every ex I've had in the past 10 years. There's no reason it has to be otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/23 08:59 PM
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Start now. Tease her, "You going to miss me when I leave?" with a shit-eating grin sets the tone that you are, in fact, leaving without her.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/23 08:58 PM
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I'm on speaking terms with every woman I've fucked in the past 10 years. There's really no reason for a breakup to be all kinds of dramatic. Although contrary to GLOs advice, most of the women initiated the breakups because when they had "the talk" with me I refused to give any of them exclusivity. That's just not what I want from a relationship now.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/23 08:56 PM
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"I have a boyfriend" is a classic shit-test that OP failed. Read the sidebar more. You sound respectful Lot of letters for "gay"
/r/TheRedPill17/08/23 07:41 PM
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"Chatter" is different than "rapport" but that's some good chatter you have there. Flesh it out, make it believable, have fun with it. Actually when I got out of college I did some studio music work, you know that "bumblebee song", the one with the video of the girl dressed as a bumblebee in the field? I played bass guitar on that song. Their regular base player, Todd I think his name was, had a real bad flu and they needed someone because they couldn't afford to keep paying for an empty studio.…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/23 11:51 AM
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The kids these days, they don't know these things. A lot of adults don't either. There's a woman who comes to one of my regular networking events, see her there 3/4 times a month. Looker, if a little older. Tried talking with her more than once and it was horrible trying to get any kind of vibe going with her.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/23 12:27 AM
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What does really light the spark in you? please don't say it so gay like that BCB. That's some high level girly yoga chat jargon there. And yes, I've taught yoga too so I know these things.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/23 12:25 AM
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let him help you change the oil or put on a spare tire on the car. Bring him with to the auto parts store when you get the oil and filter show him how to use a gun, take him with to the gun store and have him interact with the owners there like a man. Take him to baseball games and football games, get him involved in sports even if they are getting pozzed in the US more and more. Football at least, and baseball, are still 99% male even though women are encroaching on them show him how to go camp…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/23 12:32 AM
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Raise your son right. Don't give him homework to be a man, it's your job to show him
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 07:16 PM
3

have something better to do than sitting on your ass blocking people on whatever it is you block them on.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 04:41 PM
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You are regressing. You shouldn't look at shit-tests as something you "tolerate", you should welcome them as a sign of interest - she's testing your mettle to be a mate, after all. Also, they should get easier to ignore the more you learn to ignore them. aight Found the problem. Start acting like a grown man instead of a hood rat.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 04:39 PM
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kudos to you for parsing through that. Also >pull out phone >pretend I'm reading a message from a girl who needs an app for that? and why would anyone do that?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/23 02:32 PM
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What is this? Another TRP thread that reads like I'm having a stroke.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/23 04:55 PM
2

never listens to anything I say no matter how important it is to me. stop talking so much. Women are companions, not best friends or confidants.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/23 11:57 AM
2

It's not "4 step" it's "choose one based on circumstances"
/r/TheRedPill18/07/23 06:47 PM
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>ignore it >change the subject >let her finish then change the subject without even acknowledging what she was saying >get up and go do something to break her momentum
/r/TheRedPill18/07/23 02:03 AM
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I read the first three sentences and can say, with authority as a published author (not blogs but actual articles in real magazines and books) that it's excellent. First sentence: state exactly and clearly what the topic is, then shut up. Second sentence: define terminology so we're all on the same page. Third sentence: give an example. People love examples to illustrate concepts It's amazeballs how many authors miss the fundamentals. Now on to read the rest of it.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/23 06:03 PM
10

Is getting laid the definition of having a good life? No but this forum is devoted mostly to male strategies for getting laid, so that's what we talk about here.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/23 11:23 PM
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What is the age range of the women that is attracted to you? Don't know, don't care. If you meant women I find attractive, I've banged from late '20s to one who wouldn't tell me her name but who was probably early '60s. Tight little pilates country girl body.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/23 11:22 PM
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My life started getting better at 50. I've gotten laid more, and more regularly, in the last 7-10 years than in all my years before that. I don't think I've gone a week in the last 5 years without getting laid at least one time.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/23 01:01 PM
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You don't owe explanations. If she has a genuine question, you kinda do. Fine. I'm happy with the way our relationship is now. There's your explanation. And no, I'm not agreeing with you that you owe anyone an explanation for how you feel. You don't. I can tell by your posts that you talk too much because (a) you admit it; (b) your responses to the girl show it; and (c) your posts are a mile long. Slow down and think. You can convey more meaning with a raised eyebrow and a shit-eating grin than …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 04:20 PM
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"I want nothing to change. I ask for too much in a relationship, and I don't want to put expectations on you that will be too hard for you to reach. But you can prove to me if you can take it." Way too many words. You don't owe explanations. I'm happy with the way our relationship is now. Then change the subject. If she pushes, say, I'm happy with the way our relationship is now. Then change the subject. Women aren't dumb, they know the game.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 12:36 PM
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Messy sentence No shit. Move on, she already has.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 12:33 PM
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Imagine being a woman's therapist. A woman should be bringing joy and comfort to your life, not drama. Nice use of headings and bold section titles though. True story: I was heading back to my place with a woman who was going through a divorce from her alcoholic husband. We'd fucked, been on dates, etc. Well she starts griping about the guy, the divorce, whatever. I tell her, "hold on a second". She says, "what?" I tell her, "I don't want hear this." She pauses a second, then replied, "Thank you…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 03:55 PM
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Mature post noted. Now that I'm older I value a woman who keeps the drama away (they all bring it and one has to deal with it periodically, but that's part of the fun) and more importantly, makes me laugh and feels good to be around. I'll make sure the sex is great, she just has to earn her way to that point.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/23 01:44 PM
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quality post for those getting into regular dating. “Hey, I had a tonne of fun but feel like the chemistry wasn’t quite there. I’m really glad I got to meet you, all the best.” The "chemistry" text - when I was a kid we'd say that in person. It's code and everyone knows what it means.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/23 01:40 PM
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she backed up and asked me how do I imagine our relationship. Shit test. I told her that we are not kids anymore, that if we like each other enough we will find a way. You failing the shit test. She smiled then told me that she is afraid of liking the kiss. Her telling you that you failed the shit test. We moved on, talked a bit about our colleges, plans after etc, then excorted her to bus. You *really failing the shit test
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 12:56 AM
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scanned for a tldr and saw this gem and stopped reading: If you want a lot of lays, you’re going to have to walk around checking girls out constantly – pretty much non-stop. except I scanned one more time and found this nugget: Sometimes you trying to kiss a girl will creep her out a bit. That’s totally normal – it’s par for the course. I've never been denied a kiss and never been called creepy, and I've been kissing girls since about 1979. You're doing something wrong, buddy, and you shouldn't …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/23 02:46 PM
1

this should be a response to a post, not a post in itself.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/23 12:54 AM
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For us it's more where we live rather than who we live with. I don't want to walk out my door every morning and see trash, unwelcome groups of people, shuttered stores. Many people are okay looking over that sort of thing. I'm not. That said, I have a friend whom I'm immensely jealous of because she can afford, thanks to work from home, to live in Spain half the year, and Chicago half the year. I would do something like that - Europe part time - in a heartbeat if I could afford it.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 11:27 AM
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works for you. I happen to be fairly well travelled and think that, geographically, the USA and Canada are the most beautiful places on the planet. I've been fortunate to live in many parts of the US. The Rocky Mountain Range is incredibly gorgeous. A day long drive across Oklahoma or Nebraska is one of the most relaxing things you can do in a car. And I get to see the Smoky Mountains every day when I walk outside my door. That said, culturally the US is absolutely in decline. Taxes and regulati…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/23 06:15 PM
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Andrea Long Chu then goes on to explain that her decision to transition was heavily inspired by “Sissy Tumblr Pornography” and that pornography feminizes men. There was a major study in this a few years back that was then suppressed. The Federalist picked it up, but it never seemed to gain traction. Search the internets for "social contagion transgender study repressed the federalist" and it should come up first. tldr: single mothers, no father, excessive internet usage including tumblr and yout…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/23 03:09 PM
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I'm starting to fall in love with cold approach. Search my post history for one called "ditch 'cold approach' ..." I'm literally getting better talking with EVERYONE, Because you are ready to level up with talking to total strangers.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/23 03:03 PM
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You're just wrong. I'm in the best physical shape of my life, second only to when I was playing football in HS. I lift, I hike, my hobbies are physical. My confidence is through the roof. I have not gone more than a week without getting laid in the last six years. And my weenus is working just fine (drink a half gallon of home-brewed green tea every day - you're welcome). I am doing hobbies that I love, that people admire, and that get me involved in the community. I see a lot of men my age who …
/r/TheRedPill17/05/23 08:01 PM
1

For all you "stackers" posting, I've tried them all and none work. The only "stack" I've ever needed was a half gallon or more of home brewed green tea a day. Keeps me hydrated and keeps the old weener working better now than 15 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/23 01:56 AM
2

Don't get pushed into the "muh younger women" meme if you don't want to. I've dated them and it's just not my thing. Mid '40s is my prime dating range. I don't mind a few wrinkles or age spots on the chest if we can go out and dance to late '70s/early '80s music together t.57 years old
/r/TheRedPill16/05/23 01:53 AM
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rule of thumb: if a girl calls you an "asshole" and laughs and hits you on the arm, you're in. Oh wait, you kids don't actually interact in meat space anymore. Your loss.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/23 07:26 PM
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The fact you listed a bunch of things that are just basic parts of a active and healthy lifestyle as if they are these upper echelon tasks is unnerving. Have you gone outside lately and looked at the general state of humanity?
/r/seduction30/04/23 08:08 PM
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To make a long story short, I don't think you understand what that means. Also, But nothing compared to the feeling of videoing the backshots and sending them to the ex the day I left town. Grow up.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/23 03:31 PM
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yep. One is ageing out of consideration (I'm in my late '50s, she's a little older but still smoking hot body and personality); and one moved to Florida. Last time I saw FL I threw out, "give me a call next time you're in town" but that's all the effort I'm giving it.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/23 02:53 PM
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I've got two exes that I would take back in a heartbeat. One as a fuckbuddy, as she was the best fuck so far in my life. No gf because she was insufferable to spend time with. One as a top line girlfriend because I genuinely enjoyed spending time with her. But she didn't like my philandering ways and I wasn't going to change for her. The rest of the bunch? Meh.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/23 10:45 PM
1

Why do you, mfkers from America, drink in a bar and then drive back home with your own car? Whose else's car would I drive home with?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/23 12:31 AM
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You can't feel confident 24/7/365, at some point you will have a doubt or you'll just fumble b/c you encountered something for the first time and don't know how to approach it . This. Especially when you're in a field/area/situation that is foreign to you, but familiar to others, who then have the internal confidence in their knowledge/surroundings that you lack. Quick point: I started umpiring high school baseball a few years ago. A kid will run to first base and it will be a close call. The fi…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/23 04:13 PM
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he was gonna ask her “what they were” I've literally never had this conversation with any woman, other than my ex wife. Just go on dates, see each other, set some parameters, and the world keeps spinning. The more you talk about "what are we" or "what are we doing here", the worse it gets. First, keep them in limbo. Women are actually surprisingly good at living in uncertainty. Second, if you set a limit, she will instinctively push back. No limit, no push. Third, if you set the limit too high, …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/23 12:50 AM
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It's a minor compliance test and gives the woman a feeling of purpose beyond just showing up. Women like being given tasks to do. Lurk more and read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/23 09:17 PM
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No, "Sammy" was a sociopath who was unable to predict and appreciate the consequences of his actions, and who did not care about the consequences if he was able to do so. Classic sociopath being described.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/23 09:05 PM
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No examples from fiction or lyrics I get the lyrics one, nobody my age wants to be subjected to the music these kids listen to nowadays, too loudly I might add [shakes fist angrily]. But as an avid reader of older English and American literature (1950s and earlier), there are some incredible examples of how red pilled we used to be as a society. There are red pilled characters, and entire novels where the protagonist starts out as a beta and learns the exact lessons of the sidebar then triumphs …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 10:05 PM
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askTRP got shut down by reddit.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 05:33 PM
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sometimes people need to see something worded a different way for it to sink in. sometimes people are not at a point in their life where the information is properly processed, so seeing it when the time is right is critical to understanding and frankly I doubt most people use the "search" function to find the information. Primacy and recency. People remember what they saw/heard first, and what they saw/heard most recently. Everything in the middle might as well not exist.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 05:32 PM
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part of the problem is that the "askTRP" sub got shut down so a lot of the noob postings wind up here.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 05:29 PM
1

Good post. I'm older too and seen enough beautiful women to not be enamoured of them anymore, and the thought of saying anything so directly complimentary goes against my nature, so that's were my comment came from.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/22 08:27 PM
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I have been fortunate enough to never have to rely on cold approach for a relationship. I've had women approach me which is frankly unnerving sometimes but it has worked out. More to the point, I spend my "social" time developing my network and have parleyed that into my romantic relationships. Even if it's just a friend saying, "Hey _do_not_, my wife has a cute friend that I think you should meet" takes a huge burden off the initial relationship because you've both already been prequalified. "W…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/22 06:40 PM
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I have posited that we should shun the phrase and goals of "cold approach" because it's too goal oriented, where the goal is so unlikely to occur as to be meaningless. This also jibes with your idea of "practice" for future life success. Search for my post called, "Ditch "cold approach" in favor of "learn how to initiate conversations with strangers" without having a goal other than the initiation itself." Because a stranger is just a friend you haven't met yet.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/22 06:36 PM
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And noone has been able to debunk any of the Logic I gave. I'm guessing most here didn't read past your first few sentences to see that you have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:33 PM
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Women know immediately when you cold approach them that you’re only there for one thing. Didn't read past that. Grow up. Search my post history for the one called, "Ditch "cold approach" in favor of "learn how to initiate conversations with strangers" without having a goal other than the initiation itself." And lurk more.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:30 PM
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Just assume they're lying and act accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/22 09:59 PM
2

less of being a simp
/r/seduction02/11/22 11:57 AM
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Translated: "if m'lady has the patience I will be at her beck and call in the evening so that perchance I can reply to all of her texts instantly" Don't be like that. It's simping to her need to be constantly replying to her texts. You asked how to get out of being a texting buddy and your reply sets you right smack dab of promising to be her texting buddy. I told you how to get out of being a texting buddy.
/r/seduction01/11/22 07:10 PM
2

Hold out until December. too late. I held out until 3:00 though.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/22 07:06 PM
1

"Hey I'm going to [venue] to listen to [name of band] on Thursday about 7. You should meet me there." The real secret is that I am going to [venue] to see [name of band] anyway, even if I go by myself as I mostly do (bring your kindle and hang out or whatever your thing is). If she shows up, cool. If not, well, you're doing what you were going to do anyways. Zero chance of losing, and a definite chance of improving your already cool evening.
/r/seduction01/11/22 05:34 PM
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Wait half a day at least and then: "hey little vampire, I'm not a big texter. See you thursday for the beer then you can ask me whatever you want."
/r/seduction01/11/22 05:29 PM
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even if you're not "feeling it" during longer periods like that, send out just some random picture of you doing something fun from whenever ago, and no matter her response, don't feel like you have to follow up her response, in fact don't.
/r/seduction01/11/22 03:02 PM
1

you want objective advice from someone who knows what he's talking about, or do you want a pat on the head telling you everything you did was perfect even though she no longer wants to talk to you or see you, let alone fuck you?
/r/seduction30/10/22 04:37 PM
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>wall of text title >wall of text post >wall of text relationship >do I just acknowledge to her that I think I've done too much, and that it's her turn now ... My idea with this is that it makes it clearer what my intent is from now on and that I'm not just going to keep overbearing her, Back off, man. And scolding her for not replying sure isn't going to help. This one is done, learn and move on.
/r/seduction30/10/22 04:23 PM
1

My brown leather almost-a-loveseat (fits two: one on the bottom, one on top) has often seen vigorous action, although I mostly use it for reading.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/22 07:33 PM
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A few days after my post, it occurred to me that I was raised from a home that was always well decorated, clean, and had the best things like food in the fridge, soaps in the bathrooms, carpets, plants, pictures on the wall. Often I forget that not everyone was raised like that, or that such "common sense" things like clean towels in the guest bathroom are all that well-known. Overkill on many items. Re-write to get back to basics then this could be a good post for the youngsters, and not attrac…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/22 07:31 PM
0

The fact that you seem to honestly believe that sucking a clit as hard as you can is something that women want, lets me know that you have no idea what women want.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/22 10:23 PM
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Your apartment (in my case) should reflect who you are. That said, a concession to having a women come around that I make is those coolie-wipes they sell for babies' fannies. Keep a pack of them, unscented, on the back of the toilet so the woman can clean herself up before you do the deed.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/22 10:19 PM
18

And a MacBook. Don't forget, you have to get a MacBook.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/22 10:18 PM
131

Holy shit. tldr My apartment is set up for my enjoyment and comfort. /thread
/r/TheRedPill09/10/22 01:40 AM
10

I've had the opportunity recently to try a bunch of dirty stuff. Most of them time it ends up being sub-optimal from a pleasure or orgasm standpoint., but I really love that the girl wants to do it, or can be convinced to do it, or enjoys it, etc, me getting off just seems like aside-quest. This for me is the fun in "sex". It's the dominance I assert over her. It's being able to make her crave me. It's having the power to make her orgasm and lose absolutel control over herself. That said, in all…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/22 12:40 PM
5

Seducing a woman, the art of raising her thermostat, takes far more skill, especially from a cold start. And that my friend is where all the fun is.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/22 12:37 PM
8

If you're not sexually compatible maybe she's not the right woman for you. When I was like 14 years old, dating a nympho sounded like paradise. Now that I'm 50+, not so much.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/22 12:36 PM
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This is the correct answer. Although it has been said there are two kinds of men: "thrill of the chase" and "let's just fuck" or some such phrase. I'm a thrill of the chase guy. I enjoy the seduction process, either with my current main gf, or trying to get a new woman nude in front of me. For the 20-40 minutes of actual penetration and orgasm, I like to stretch the process out as long as possible.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/22 12:34 PM
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First, every single woman does shit tests. It's genetic, and it's lifetime. So get past this "my ideal women won't shit test me". Second, maybe she really just wanted to break up. Reaching out after a week was therefore meaningless to her.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 09:37 PM
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When she said “im falling for you”, he should said ”that’s cute, if I were you I would fall for me too.” When my current gf first said "I love you" I replied, "I know". It was during the lockdowns, were were having at-home romance night. Candles, wine, and we were dancing. Perfect time for me to say "I love you too" but I couldn't resist. I got a laughing "you're an ass" type response. If you're getting those, you're golden. She's come to love my harmless smart alecky responses since then. Mix i…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 09:28 PM
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Learn to be alone with yourself in peace and quiet, before you learn how to be with someone else. Once you know the contentment and peace from this, you'll lose your need/urge to have someone else sitting in the room with you. There are no better days for me than sitting in my favorite leather chair in an evening reading, doggo by my side. If she texts me, great. If she doesn't well that's great too.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 09:07 PM
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I don’t know who thinks this is some sort of recent development, It's called "goldbricking" in labor law jargon, or "work to rule" if we're being formal. Been around forever. "Hey I need you to move that pile of bricks from over there to over here" "Okay" carries one brick at a time as if they each weighed as much as a gold brick so that the job lasts longer than it should and worker gets more hours. Former labor lawyer here.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/22 05:57 PM
1

Now I want to know what a "bellend" is.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/22 02:32 PM
2

Thanks for saving me the time of asking "what is this shit?" in response to OPs post
/r/TheRedPill21/09/22 07:03 PM
1

You can approach women without lying to them. Keep your integrity. Like virginity, once lost it's rarely regained. Look for my post called: Ditch "cold approach" in favor of "learn how to initiate conversations with strangers" without having a goal other than the initiation itself" for how to do this. There's a thousand ways to open a conversation with a stranger that do not involve lying and that are true to your values. If you've ever had a woman use "direct" approach to you, you know how abru…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 09:18 PM
1

Because I filter for compatibility I'd rather talk to a woman for a while to see if I can even stand being with her for the time it takes to have sex. I'm not a "one night stand" type of person. If I'm going to give a woman a time commitment, that is, spending non-sexual time with her, I want it to be worth *my* while so that I get something from her besides passionless, unconnected sex two or three times, then eject. I've had plenty of "first dates" where I probably could have had sex within th…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 05:52 PM
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What is this nonsense? Never go out for the express purpose of trying to "pick up" a woman. It's offputting to them and they can sense this shit like you can't believe; and it devalues your worth as a man because it makes you seem desperate and that you have nothing better to do with your life. Also this: ";)" and this "u" Stop using cartoons/emojis to communicate unless you're Seth McFarlane. Men speak with words and actions; children and girls use cartoons. And you had time to type out every o…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 05:41 PM
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Green tea. Brew your own, drink about a half gallon a day. I've tried all the supplements, none worked except this. It won't motivate you but it will get your peen working better, escpecialy as you get older Also lay off porn; nofap is worthless if you're still looking at porn. And remember: the point of nofap is not to markup the weeks and months you haven't fapped; it's to build up the sexual energy in your body to the point that you go out and find a woman to fuck. but still no motivation to …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 12:28 PM
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thanks for saving me the time. the post sounded like a cope anyways.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/22 06:23 PM
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Cue another shit test - how many girls you've been with, blah blah blah. I said "I stopped counting. More than 20 but less than 200" "really? You must have so many STDs" "yeah, it's like Pokémon. Gotta catch them all." Holy fuck this is awesome! Way to be.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/22 03:01 PM
1

it's like anything, the more reps you get, the more comfortable and skillful you get at doing it. Way to be.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/22 02:58 PM
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The $10k per month is documented in the reddit post. I only actually had one $10k month. So ... *not $10k per month, but $10k in only one month. Try to be truthful dude.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/22 12:26 PM
1

thousands of approaches over 7+ years, I think I've crossed 5 figure # of approaches Holy shit dude. Everyone needs a hobby but that's an obsession. I use social circle, women at my apartment complex, and the occassional approach at a local brewery or music show. In the last ten years I've never not gotten a first date. Instead of along assed, check-marked list of *her criteria, just approach for attraction then screen for compatibility. Being mostly a serial monogamist looking for something alo…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/22 12:23 PM
1

You can just smile and say "no thank you" and move on with your life. People are trying to be nice to you, appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/22 07:57 PM
1

I've dated girls in their 20s when I'm in my 50s. One girl was really sweet and I wish it had lasted beyond her alcoholism, chronic tattooing, and panic attacks in the middle of the night. I just have no attraction for them. I can get them, I just don't want them. Don't fall for all the memes on this board "muh 10/10 dime" just go after what you're attracted to.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/22 01:21 AM
5

This guy gets it. You get it. There's more to life than having the latest, newest model. I happen to like my-age women, that's what I'm attracted to.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/22 01:20 AM
8

You made a choice today, and that choice was to log onto the Internet for the purpose of insulting me, for personal choices that I made that only effect my life and have nothing to do with yours. Why did you do that?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 01:58 AM
11

Being older, I tend to want to date my-age women; and I also just tend to wind up in networking or social groups with them. There is truth in that no matter how they got their-age and single (spinster, divorce, widow) they are all looking for "someone to spend the rest of my life with". I have yet to meet the illusive "Cougar" who is out on the prowl just looking for young cock. There is an overwhelming loneliness in the older women as they see their lives closing out. I could take advantage and…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/22 10:19 PM
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i have had fun with so many young ,tight boxes way out of my league, you are the prize, not them. Have some confidence
/r/TheRedPill21/08/22 10:07 PM
10

maybe you should have done a better job writing it then.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/22 01:25 AM
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I am currently only able to bench press the bar due to a shoulder injury. I'm working on getting my range of motion back. If you saw me in the gym would you go online and rant about me being in *your* gym and only bench pressing the bar? Don't be so judge-y of other people. Do your own lifts and don't worry about mine.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/22 01:09 AM
1

If only someone had written a well-liked post about learning to talk with people with no other goal in mind. Oh, right, I did. Can't link in TRP but search my post history for "Ditch "cold approach" in favor of "learn how to initiate conversations with strangers" without having a goal other than the initiation itself.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 12:56 PM
-5

I don't need you to feel sorry for me. I'll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/22 04:20 PM
13

We find peace in grinding, lifting, studying, caring about the nature of ourselves and the universe, brainstorming, and becoming wise due to hard work, discipline, and dedication. Yates-Brown was showing in part the effects on individuals and societies of a purposeless life. Or rather, a life devoted to a purpose that does not fulfill the individual or the society. People are sick in the West, society is sick because its component parts - the people - are sick. What we all are feeling now is not…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/22 04:19 PM
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Ghengis Khan had an army to do his work for him Mao had an army to do his work for him Stalin had an army to do his work for him Muhammad, Jesus, had disciples to do their work for them Napoleon, Alexander, Hitler, all would be nutjobs screaming in their basement if they didn't have armies and legions of sycophants to do their work for them. None of these men did what they did on their own.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/22 02:07 PM
21

Telling your child that "you can change a society" is setting him up for failure, but we keep saying that to them anyway.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/22 12:34 PM
1

I'm in my mid '50s and started fucking regularly when I was 18 years old. Do the math on how many more times I've fucked than you have.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/22 03:41 PM
1

Oddly, I've never banged a hot yoga chick. Picking up students is generally frowned on. Never met a female yoga teacher who wasnt bonkers so that's out of the question.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/22 03:35 PM
3

this. once they're out of the their safe "college" bubble, and not constantly drunk, you need to establish comfort that you're not going to chop them up for dinner.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/22 12:11 PM
9

So, not a boomer but thanks. Their demographic is actually reaching mid '60s and older now. And you're right about feminism but that's been ongoing since the early 1900s. Learn some history.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/22 01:24 PM
17

I've banged exactly one '20s women since I've reached this age and she was everything you youngsters said she would be, BPD, tattoos, ego. She was a real cutie, a hot fuck, but a drink and a head case. short answer, I don't know if what I do would work with the younger crowd, that's not my thing.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/22 01:22 PM
1

You, sir are a gentleman and a scholar.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/22 09:42 PM
34

Top quality rant Concise. Good vocabulary. Right to the point. I've been playing a "game" the last few years. I'm in an LTR and am not interested in straying at this point. But something I noticed a while back: we're running out of good looking women. The game is: spot a good looking woman. And I'll tell you, I can go a few weeks without seeing one. Kind of scary.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/22 12:14 AM
8

>pretending you're going to be ten minutes late to get a response >pretending to be sincere >pretending
/r/TheRedPill30/05/22 03:06 PM
4

Imagine asking a girl on a "date". "I'm going to be at X tonight watching this cool band play. Come join me about 7:00 if you're down for it" Whether she shows up or not, I'm out, I'm doing what I want to be doing, and it's something I would be doing regardless of whether m'lady deems to grant me her presence. Also, I'm talking to other cuties at the venue, if possible.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/22 03:04 PM
0

Imagine waiting 1 hour after your agreed upon, scheduled meeting time. Also, did she agree to this extra hour, or did you just kindly grant it to her, m'lady gets extra time to mount her pedastal? I wouldn't even wait an hour for a paying client.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/22 03:01 PM
1

Offering a compliment to a women who fields twelve dozen compliments a day goes against every approach method I've ever read or talked to anyone about. >you have pretty hair >I know, the last 3,000 men who came up to me told me so. But you're different so I won't keep walking without even looking at you.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/22 10:55 PM
1

Dude, really? Think about this: when you look someone in the eyes, *either you or the other person* has to look away first. Lurk more, post less.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/22 06:39 PM
17

Dude said he's 14 years old. Give the kid a chance.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/22 04:05 PM
2

Nice thoughts on talking about your passions. That's why your priorities in life should always put your mission/passion first, everything else after: Mission / passion health earning walk in the woods with your doggo do manly things alone or with your buddies like go shooting women Women last, notice. If what you're doing at any given moment doesn't fit into one of these categories, why are you doing it?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/22 01:15 PM
1

I would disagree only slightly, an approach can be contextual. Say you're at a networking event, everyone generally starts out with a handshake and a first name. Or say you're meeting some friends and there's a few new women in the group. "Hey, I'm do not read this" is perfectly fine.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/22 01:13 PM
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Here comes my awesome pick up line again... and Hey, you guys have a tissue?? This is so cringe. But up vote for you getting out and trying. Did you notice that your friends were *not* trying to meet women? You're already ahead of them. Just get rid of the mentality of the first quote, and get rid of canned lines.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/22 10:56 PM
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He wants you to take her into "mud" trucking dates, The Burning Man and whatever shit you have access to. Enjoy your 4 hour+ date with someone you just met and know nothing about. Especially the ride home after realizing three hours ago that you actively dislike this woman.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/22 10:53 PM
1

On my attraction scale, I have 3 main levels-- hot, cute, and fuckable. I'm a little more binary: would or wouldn't
/r/TheRedPill04/05/22 01:23 PM
1

What are your thoughts? I made a post on why you should be talking to absolutely everyone, every chance you get. The prep to your first "cold approach" starts long before you see a thot you want to talk to. The gist of it was learn how to initiate mini conversations with people; and learn how to talk about nonsense for a minute or two. Get over your fear of stranger/danger
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 06:33 PM
1

I have been getting a lot of dates the past two months off OLD There's your problem right there.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/22 12:18 AM
10

Getting laid is nothing more than a positive by-product in your pursuit of leveling up. Mission Lift Build something / break something Earning Spending time in the woods with your dog Women In that order. You'll soon find, as you work on the first five, that "women" really should be last on the list, not first. You'll get to a point where women will sense your success in the first four, and give you clear signals or even approach you. Happened to me today at the gas station, halfway through this…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/22 07:51 PM
1

It's like fishing. If you try to catch a certain fish, you'll almost always be disappointed. "I'm going to catch *that* trout over there" But if you fish just because you enjoy fishing, you'll enjoy the whole process *and* never be disappointed.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/22 07:54 PM
3

Read the sidebar, read the blogs, internalize the lessons of those who were successful before you.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/22 01:09 PM
1

Just write, man. Look for opportunities to get actually published if that's your goal (not blog shit, that doesn't count). For some of my magazine articles I met the publishers just socially, engaged with them after the networking event, asked if they needed me to write something. Have a relevant article in mind that you want to write, and that is appropriate and in the style of the publication. Be able to write in different styles. For me it was business law, and tort law topics. Be able to ban…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/22 12:51 PM
2

do you mean I should start the chapter by explaining the purpose of the chapter? Well, you see, that's more structural in the form of the work, and it's your choice to make. You've given us an excerpt that's out of context. There's so much that you may be saying elsewhere in the book in other ways, so you might not need to be explicit with your "theme", "here is the purpose of my chapter:" like you did back in 7th grade composition when you were just learning. It may be that you hinted at the to…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 05:33 PM
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I'd like to know the purpose of the book, and the theme of the chapter. It was well written and carried my interest, but I didn't quite know what I was supposed to be getting from it. We then had sex. I would actually omit this because (a) it doesn't add to the lesson you try to explain afterward; and (b) as a reader I would want to know how this silly power dynamic played out in the sack, so that's what I was thinking of when you were trying to explain the philosophy, instead of focusing on you…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 05:17 PM
8

There's lots of info on the interwebs about calibration and safe words. Short version though. Calibration is knowing what's working and what isn't, whether in bed, when approaching, giving a public speech, etc. and then adjusting based on this input. You have to read the other person's mood and reaction, then "calibrate" that is, change your approach to meet that mood/reaction, if something isn't working. A "safe word" is a word you give to a woman before you have sex if you're going to engage i…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 11:47 PM
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Thanks PA. A lot of this comes from me being a simple person in all things. Other yoga teachers: "Reach down into your core center and press the energy from the universe through your crown and down through your heart center and along your neural pathways into the Earth ..." Me: "Stand at the front of your mat."
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 09:04 PM
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The logistical process of becoming a yoga teacher was I called the studio I liked taking classes at and signed up for their teacher training, which I then undertook successfully. Most studios nowadays have them because they're money makers. The life journey I took to get there is a lot more complicated and it's a sort of unwritten rule you don't ask people about how they came to yoga (there's too many people who come to yoga all kinds of broken and abused. The practice in the US is a real mess a…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 04:07 PM
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If you can effectively lead a woman she’ll remain in her feminine state and be more than happy to follow along. I like this. As you level up, though, expect more shit tests. That's why calibration (and safe words) are so important.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 01:51 PM
10

How do I proceed? Find the next woman in line for you and stop being such a pussy about the last one.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 03:20 PM
18

tell us exactly how it's really f'kn dumb on her part. women need men. That's basic biology. women attract men by being young and fertile and attractive a 50 year old woman is not young or fertile and most often not attractive (I happen to like them - the pretty ones - but I'm an old-head) Therefore it's dumb for a married 50 year old woman with a partner to do anything that cannot be redone again, i.e., attracting a man for a partner using her youth, fertility, and attractiveness.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 03:17 PM
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Read my post on how to practice meeting new people. Check my profile and the post is called: "Ditch "cold approach" in favor of "learn how to initiate conversations with strangers" without having a goal other than the initiation itself"
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 09:24 PM
2

Don't shit where you eat generally applies to your gym. especially knowing that 99% of these females at the gym are seeking validations with their skintight leggings. This should not be a concern of yours. Ignore.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 09:22 PM
7

Dogs are awesome for opening women who are also with dogs. There's built in chatter: what's your dog's name where did you get him how old is he why did you pick that name does he do any tricks and so on. And the dog will start the introduction with the woman's dog for you. Because that's what dogs do.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 09:20 PM
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I'm old enough that I no longer care about rejections, get embarrased, feel shame or ridicule. Whatever, world keeps spinning. Meditation helps with equanimity in these situations too. So I guess my advice is: get old, and meditate.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 09:18 PM
2

Something else I recommend too is doing self-assessments on your approach. I do a "post game" sometimes after an approach. "Jeez I should have said this instead" or "Next time have better eye contact at *this* point". Also, practice when it doesn't matter. Sometimes I'll just get numbers to get numbers. Sometimes I'll approach out of boredom, or just generally I like meeting new people. Sounds corny but "Mind if I sit here?" next to a pretty girl almost always works. Then I say "I promise I won'…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 09:16 PM
2

I suspect a lot of us have done this - well, maybe not as bad. But have learned what *not* to do next time? Have you implemented that knowledge? I did this with one women who I'll be honest I really just enjoyed being around. No where near as bad as you though. Banged her once, did the simp / beta thing, and realized a month later she was never alone with me again after that. The ony saving grace was that I was banging two other women at the time and frankly didn't have the energy to push this o…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 03:27 PM
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sounds like you still haven't learned your lesson.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 03:25 PM
5

the issue is approach aversion and social ineptitude. What can I do to develop approach aversion and social ineptitude? Does it work well?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/22 04:46 PM
14

you meet women doing groceries for example, I never picked up at the grocery store but I used to flirt just for practice. That changed a few years ago when I noticed that, and in a very literal sense, there are no attractive women shopping at the store. I go to different grocery stores (there's like a thousand in my town), different days, different times. And I've seen this elsewhere, too, Be at a brewery on a Friday with 100 women, maybe one or two are passably good looking.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/22 04:45 PM
8

What are your thoughts? Do the kids even still play with magnets these days?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/22 04:43 PM
8

Start saving / investing money right now. That $50 you spent Friday night on booze could have been in a bank account or the stock market. Sure, you need to go out and have fun, but did you also need to spend another $50 on Thursday and Saturday?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 03:34 PM
2

Get a good quality toothbrush Fuchs "Record V" natural bristles. You'll never use a nylon toothbrush again. My teeth have never been nor stayed cleaner between dentist appointments. Make sure you get "natural" bristles.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 03:32 PM
1

A power move is rejecting a woman before you have sex with her. It sends a very strong message to the woman and to yourself. Most men will put up with her bullshit then pump and dump. This is funny. I can put up with some bullshit for a few pump and dumps, it's not that difficult to just smile and let her shit flow past. Making a "power move" on some Stacy I don't really know or care about just to reveal my power level is juvenile. She acts like a bitch and disrespects you... What are your thoug…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 02:54 PM
2

Yeh women can get sex way easier than men, that’s why they gatekeep sex. I think part of this is a fallacy that men create to explain away why they're not, in fact, getting sex themselves from "there's this one girl ..." As men we also have multiple opportunities for sex, but would we take them? Would you fuck every fatty and stinkpot that came up to you? Getting sex, and wanting to have sex with a particular person, are two different things. Women may have different motivations for having sex, …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 02:48 PM
7

I've only said this once in my life and that occasion is right now: this is the best post I've ever seen on the internet. especially "1. Fitness" it's abso-fucking-lutely spot on. And finance - something I never did and always regret - find a way, *any* way, to regularly put away money as a young man. Even $50-100/week is $5200 at the end of the year. And figure out tax avoidance behavior early and often. Don't waste money on shit like $150 jeans. Find your own simple style and stick with it. Lo…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 02:40 PM
3

I've never had a boomerang, ever. Frankly, I've never wanted one, and that must come through when I've ended relationships. I've usually moved on, bored or just tired of the last woman. Sure, there's a few I wouldn't mind banging again, but generally once I'm sick of having a woman around, it's time to move on. Sort of like when you toss out a beer can that you're done drinking from, you don't fish it out of the garbage and take just one more drink from it thinking it will be as good as the firs…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 01:42 AM
14

I started lifting in the late 70s. Thanks for checking in, Pops. Kidding, I'll be one past 55 next week. I must have started in 79, 80, myself. My cousins who lived by me both played Big 10 ball so they had full weights in their garage, and a kegerator, so I'd work out with them in H.S. I lift regularly, but unfortunately if I go heavy I inevitably hurt a tendon, usually in my shoulder or elbow. I'm content to work out, go heavy for a guy my age especially compared with most my age who lift noth…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 01:27 AM
0

Beyond that I don't really care if my semen is white or not, or frankly how much of it I shoot out this is the correct answer
/r/TheRedPill11/12/21 01:04 PM
9

and it tastes better. you're not supposed to eat it, Cap'n.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/21 01:00 PM
1

what effect does the lecithin give in terms of sexual stuff?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/21 12:59 PM
1

The only thing that has truly helped me with erections is (a) quitting porn; and (b) I drink about a gallon of green tea a day (c) when I think of it, about a tablespoon of bee pollen taken over the day. 55+ years old, not getting any complaints. I did "formulas" for a while like Gay recommends but I felt I was focusing too much energy on that shit. I suspect but don't know that the hydration portion of his regimen contributes the most. Beyond that I don't really care if my semen is white or not…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/21 12:58 PM
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What exactly do you mean? Me: "Hey baby, meet me for a drink at [place] tomorrow night at 6" her: "maybe" *strike one* Me: "there's some good live bluegrass playing there" her: "I might have to work late" *strike two* Me: "Blow it off, work will be there in the morning" her: "I'll let you know" *strike three*
/r/TheRedPill06/12/21 02:06 PM
3

Really, this. The older I get the more I realize what a lot of nonsense some of this stuff is, not all of it - for us older guys. The younger dudes with the energy, it's great for them to teach them the skills. But as I get older I only use those skills I need to fit my need. I'll push against some resistance because that's how the game is played. But I won't push against a lot of resistance because, after 40+ years of chasing women, none are worth begging for. But having been in and out of tons…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/21 02:04 PM
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Another example of how men and women behave differently. Men will, stupidly I think, approach a woman and tell her beautiful/sexy/cute he thinks she is. That's like background noise to them But women won't do that because, well, they're women. Men and women are different. A woman will give signals like a smile, a touch on the arm, a shy look away followed by strong eye contact. That's how they show attraction.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/21 12:22 PM
2

New high school football (American) referee checking in here - signed up last year but covid shut down the season. This season is on edge already but I'm ready for Friday Night Lights this week! And yes, there is a shortage of football referees in [my area] for some reason. What that means is that instead of working JV games for a few years, I'm being thrown into the lion's den of high school football in the mountains - the fans take it pretty seriously up here! But the men who I'm working with …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/21 01:44 PM
3

"Superman Complex" It's a thing and you have it.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/21 05:53 PM
7

stop all porn learn to breathe. I find that dirty-talking quietly during the deed helps a lot. stop all porn. that means no bikini pictures on instabook, "R" rated movies, anything even remotely sex-related. stop all porn shit happens don't worry about it.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 01:19 PM
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Old school beta tactics don't work - that's why we're here. Example - "give her a kiss on her doorstep at the end of the night" By then it's usually too late. There's a point during many "first" dates where you're both looking at each other's lips wondering "should I kiss her now" and "is he going to kiss me". That's when you do it. And don't do a "make out" kiss. Give her a short ~2 second, closed eye, closed mouth kiss. Get it over with. Smile, don't even talk about it, and just get on with th…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 07:56 PM
1

I go to networking events and also "meetup" type events for stuff I'm interested in. I meet lots of people. I get to know some of these people well because we're all going to the same events, over and over again, and that's why you go to the events. These are people in my "social circle" - that's what we call people you know kind of well and see fairly regularly. Some of the people I get to know well at these events are women. I have relations with the aforesaid women. It's a longer-term game be…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/21 02:57 PM
13

I don't know that I've ever gotten laid from pure cold approach. I know women have approached me and gotten laid, LOL. I honestly think social circle game - done right - is the way to go.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/21 02:28 PM
1

The vas coming from your nards is left free so that the sperm leaves your nards, into your scrotum, and is absorbed back into your body. The vas going into your body, in my case, was clipped with titanium and also seared shut with a small heating element not unlike a soldering iron. This blocks the free sperm in your scrotum from entering the upper section of the vas back up into your body. They also take out a piece of the vas deferens so there is a gap between the cut ends.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/21 01:00 AM
4

I was always at ease brother.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/21 12:01 AM
2

Exactly the same as before. There is literally -zero- difference. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 06:11 PM
2

Big blocks of text, I admit I ignored them. But the QandA parts are spot-on. The first day, I just stayed in bed the whole day. I didn't even need to rest the same day. Jerked off a few days later and shot a blood load. Perfectly normal. New vasectomy techniques are painless. The biggest pain I had was the tiny little needle injecting lidocaine into my skin/scrotum, which truly was less than a mosquito bite. I brought my kindle and did some reading during the procedure. Didn't even need a tyleno…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 05:23 PM
16

Dance like no one is looking at you.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 05:16 PM
9

They cannot debunke [sic] what i said Maybe we just don't want to. Just because you say we have to, doesn't mean we have to.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/21 08:03 PM
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"If anything I ever wrote convinced one guy to talk to girls or go to the gym, I consider my time spent here a success." Even up to the very end, giving pithy and relevant advice.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/21 08:00 PM
20

this is how I have lived for longer than most of you jerks have been alive. Older I get, the less I give a shit about a lot of things.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/21 01:48 AM
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Let’s compare that to my Tinder pictures… The preselection is strong in you ...
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 07:32 PM
3

Many BKs aren't *necessarily* attributable to bad business models, keeping in mind that cash flow and credit are always the business owner's responsibility. I do a lot of work with construction contractors, and often an owner's failure to pay or late pay knocks down the general and lower tier subs like dominoes, if they're not properly capitalized (of if they hadn't done their ground work on the credit worthiness of the owner). Pay when paid means the subs only get paid when the general gets pai…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 04:27 PM
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Bookmarked to finish reading later. Great post. Great. Also this: sending heart emojis, Men speak with words, not cartoons. Unless you're Seth McFarlane And this: 6) End the conversation first. And know when to end it. Texting with a girl a while back, after a couple of short texts that day she texts "I loved the way you choked me last night I can't wait to do it again it was so hot" and I didn't reply. I knew she was at work, I knew I was seeing her that night. First thing she said was somethin…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 04:46 PM
4

girls who say they "don't give blowjobs" ​ girls who say they "don't give blowjobs ​ say Watch their actions not their words.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 10:27 PM
3

Thanks. I play with words for a living.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 10:26 PM
21

Train her ? Yes. Read more. Comment less.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 04:24 PM
14

The value is to study how other cultures have dealt with many of the issues we're discussing here. Go over to *ask and see how many posts are "she won't give me a beej should I dump her" or "gf refused a BJ" or some such shit. Those noobs certainly want some discussion on the subject. Different points of view can illustrate different solutions. It's a current, and also ancient, topic.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 04:23 PM
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Up vote to counter the down votes. Agree or disagree, an ancient text from a culture that's known for having studied sexuality over the course of thousands of generations certainly must have something to teach. Having read it, but not "studied" it, it's a good text - not great (probably because it was written so long ago), but there's some truths in there.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 04:21 PM
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It's not some Alpha thing. It can be very dominating if you're doing it right. Many men, myself included, also see it as a leading indicator of a woman's enthusiasm for the task at hand.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 04:19 PM
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Different cultures are fascinating, with ancient India of course being a favorite both culturally and spiritually. I'm not against the idea of one woman for "household" duties, another for "bedroom" duties, of course with much overlap and joining in. The modern day problem is that certain cults and churches have made such arrangements too weird. _________ For whatever the reason, I don't "enjoy" BJs anymore, in the sense that I get sexual pleasure from them. My ex-wife *cough* years ago is still…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 04:17 PM
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Can confirm, anecdotally. Like most men, I'm constantly looking at women when I'm out. I started to notice this a few years ago, I could go to a bar, brewery, grocery, networking, see some music, and very literally there would not be one attractive woman there, of any age. I could go weeks without seeing an even marginally attractive woman. I live in a small mountain city, but big enough that there should be some cuties.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 11:20 PM
5

That accords with the "binary" system of TRP that many of use -> bang -> wouldn't bang If bang, must initiate.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 04:08 PM
15

"Fuck yes I gave him my number I hope he calls!" Men lead, women follow. There have been posts on other sites - can't recall right now but the basic red pill sites - where giving a girl your number and waiting for her to call was analyzed (some of these dudes even do spreadsheets) and it was determined that women likely will not instigate overtly like texting first.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 03:11 PM
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"I'm new in town." "Give me your phone, I'll show you the sights some time" [enters his own number in her phone and hits "dial" to be sure it's in there]
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 12:45 PM
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If she text, I'm in. If not, she wasn't that interested. I'm going to disagree here. Men act, women react. If you wait for a woman to hit you up you're waiting for her first to fold her laundry (never), clean up her bathroom (never), do the dishes (never), get her car washed (never), put air in her tires (never), get her Resume together (never), pay her bills on time (never) and so on... It's up to you to interrupt this cycle of her doing nothing and posting about it on instaspam, to motivate he…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 12:43 PM
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I didn't know that about Statham. Respect. Swimming isn't as easy as people think, it's a tough, technical grind. One of the few workouts I wish I could keep doing. There was a pic of John Cena in the news the other day - I hadn't seen him in a while, he used to be "bald" but now he's got a full head of "hair" LOL looks like a rug. Each his own, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/21 11:32 PM
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Patrick Stewart Bruce Willis Jason Statham Vin Diesel The Rock ...
/r/TheRedPill02/06/21 11:43 AM
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Not even close champ. But thanks for playing. Maybe when you're older and more experienced it will make sense. Go over to /ask and see just how many spergs are interviewing women about their past relationships, n counts, breakups, cheating, trying to sneak onto their phones to see if they're "talking" (in the parlance) with Chadley ... before they've even kissed the girl. There's probably three posts a day like that, "Her n count is x is that good should I dump her I've never kissed her but shou…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/21 11:31 PM
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Father of her child works for me - assuming she knows it's actually him. You want to be treated like you live in the ghetto, keep speaking like you live in the ghetto. Or try to improve yourself and speak like a civilized adult. Not trolling, just trying to help some people grow up.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/21 08:34 PM
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Meta is part of TRP, there's literally a flair for it when creating a new post. We can discuss strategy and tactics, but I'm giving you meta, you're arguing tactics. Not giving a fuck is basic TRP, like first day, first semester. I've had multiple great relationships the past ten years and I honestly couldn't tell you more than three things about any of their past dating history. I know that my current main gf of two years was married in her '20s, and I guess divorced, that's two things about he…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/21 05:18 PM
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you have as much chance at having a successful LTR with a recovering drug addict prostitute versus a Mormon virgin provided there is no discernible difference in current behavior. If the recovering drug addict prostitute fulfills all my current needs in a relationship, and does so for five years, who cares that she is a recovering drug addicted prostitute? And don't project your needs of a relationship onto me in answering. You may need to be able to tell you friends that your current girl is a …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/21 04:36 PM
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(but then we are talking existentialism) That's the point of my post. It's meta, not granular. In 100 years none of this shit will matter. So who cares if some rando cheated on her boyfriend in high school 25 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/21 04:26 PM
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Light Switch effect. It's over there -> in the sidebar. Breakups are always the man's fault, according to women.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/21 04:21 PM
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And if they're that old and still dating she expects them to have messed up their lives just like she did. She's putting expectations onto people she's never met then rejecting them because of these made up expectations. She had her hopes up that he would change her life. And again. Covert contract and now she's mad at him for not fulfilling expectations she never told him she had of him ​ living with her baby daddy, Still banging her baby's daddy. FIFY. Also, "baby's daddy". Speaking like a gro…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/21 04:19 PM
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My premise is not that people evolve over time. Most do as they get older. The premise is that you should focus on how a person is effecting your life here and now and not worrying about some shit that someone you barely know did ten years ago. Who cares if your girl was a thot, how's she treating you today?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/21 12:54 AM
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But woman with experience already have a shape. So do women without experience, they have a shape too. What matters is what "shape" she's in when she's with you. Take a woman who five years ago was a raging alcoholic, but now she's five years sober, meditates, has found God, and wants to be - aspires to be - a perfect wife. Take a woman who five years ago was religious, aspired to be a perfect wife, knew God - but now she's a raging alcoholic. Both have polar opposite histories from five years a…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/21 12:44 AM
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Great. So you found out she cheated on her boyfriend two years ago. What's she doing for you now should be what you're focused on. My post was directed at the spergs who post things like "she took 10 minutes longer to reply to my text than usual is she cheating" or "she liked some chadley's instaspam post is she cheating." If you really didn't give a fuck, then who cares? Assume she's cheating, will that change your current behavior to her? No, we both know the answer is no. So explain to me aga…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 11:56 PM
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If you have standards, fine, probe for these standards and hold yourself up to them. My post was to those anons who fret over n count before they've even kissed a girl; and those anons who claim to have standards, and really really like the girl for who she is now but then dump or fret about dumping her because of a violation of some ambiguous, ill-defined n count or other behavior. The best predictor of future behavior is relevant past behavior. Keep that in mind when you're in your '30s dating…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 11:46 PM
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That's fine, and yes, some information about the past is necessary to make an informed decision. But I see posts here and at $ask where the OP is asking about n counts on a first date vetting for LTR before they've even kissed. Who cares? At my age I assume every woman I bang has had 10, 20, maybe 30 partners. So what? I like her here and now. That's good enough for me.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 11:43 PM
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You always have the choice to accept a person as they are and as they present themselves to you, rather than projecting your expectations onto them. This guy gets it. Live for the here and now. If she's treating you like a prince, cooking, taking care of business, makes you laugh, all your friends like her, who cares what she did ten, 15 years ago. At least, in that moment. I get the comments about "past behavior predicts future behavior" but there's too much focus on past behavior on these boar…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 11:40 PM
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Dude you're welcome to sperg out at literally the most basic shit test on the planet, like first semester, first day "how to be a woman" school basic. More chicks for me. Also: - ignore - agree and amplify - tease or my favorite, "doesn't even slow me down" and keep talking This is shit-test response 101 man.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/21 07:35 PM
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Just don't care. Don't focus on the outcome, focus on the process and having fun. Get laid or don't get laid, it's all good. And get *real* good at getting "rejected" (I don't look at it as rejection, more like, the timing just wasn't right). Just play it off as a shit test and keep playing the game. So long as she stays there and is still talking with you, until she walks away, you're still in the game. If you're pushing "man I gotta get laid but am I being a creep" you won't be having fun or p…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/21 02:39 PM
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Shit tests are innate to female nature. That's literally coded in their DNA. If you don't want to deal with women as they are, you're on the wrong sub. The whole point of this sub is how to deal with women as they are. Also "IHAB" is a basic shit test, I mean basic kindergarden stuff. If you can't deal with the basics, man...
/r/TheRedPill29/05/21 02:35 PM
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Hey, a bj is a bj, amiright?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 05:56 PM
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Older I get, the more important it is to me to actually have someone I like, beyond sex, that I can spend time with. Doesn't mean I'm not still out there, but I guess as an older-head, an hour of sex a few times a week is not my main motivator with women.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 12:21 PM
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Good post, solid. Bullet points, quick explanation. Hey can you type more words on this, not sure I understand what you mean, maybe give an example: Take away the filters and talk to her with no filters and straight up, she will love it.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 12:19 PM
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Western civilization is undergoing a massive, decades long shit test, and it's failing miserably. Women are emasculating men, literally turning boys into girls. Men are afraid of cancel metoo culture so they've become bigger pussies than ever. Women wanted "equality" in the workplace, never understanding that they're not physically nor psychologically designed to have a career over 30, 40 years where they advance, continue learning, get promoted, run a business. They're just not built for that. …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 01:56 AM
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It's a broad statement but read it in the context of the OPs post - a man wouldn't risk his career for a quick jolt of excitement at showing someone his ass; a woman would. Again, broad statements. Sure, they care about some aspects of their reputation, but not necessarily the ones that a man would care about. A man with multiple partners is a stud; a woman with multiple partners a whore. That's an example where a man would want the reputation, a woman wouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/21 01:33 AM
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So didja? Seriously though, women and men are built differently. Women aren't always the best at predicting or analyzing consequences of their actions, and often they just don't care. They live in the moment, they live for telling their friends "this guy at the store asked me about my tattoo and complimented my ass" giggle giggle. She easily could have been fired for exposing her buttock to you. You guaranteed would have been fired for doing the same thing. But you wouldn't do that because you v…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 07:16 PM
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*against the rules. Something about TRP being quarantined and they don't want posts here leaked out into the wild Blue Pilled world. Too much potential backlash from white knights, I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/21 07:05 PM
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If your goal is to initiate a conversation, and you initiate a conversation, then you've won. You've taken the first step at being good a interpersonal communications. Once you get used to doing that, you can add in getting digits, if and when appropriate. These guys that do high number approaches just trying to get digits, not paying attention to the actual person they're talking to, gets them into the trouble where they wind up dating/banging women they're not necessarily compatible with. Thus…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/21 07:04 PM
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When I used to do more litigation I'd sit through depositions where the usually young and inexperienced associate would run through all his questions he wanted to ask the deponent, without listening to answers. I'd sit there thinking things like "You expected him to say 'yes' but he said 'no' yet you kept on asking him questions without acknowledging this new thread of information that conflicted with the narrative you thought you were weaving." I can only imagine the look on the partner's face …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/21 04:50 PM
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"Bummer. HMU when you're feeling better."
/r/TheRedPill27/04/21 11:55 AM
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redditslayer. I was agreeing with you.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 04:10 PM
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He seems to be in the "muh women are beautiful and gentle and flowers and should be worshipped and adored and hasn't been laid since never" phase.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 12:29 PM
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It's okay to jank it every now and then. Just recognize that when you jank it, your sexual motivation might tank for a day or a few days (as you get older); and that jank will tank your desire to approach new women, or clank the one you're seeing now. The problems people are trying to solve with "nofap" are actually pornography addiction. I stopped pornography in December of 2019 and my decade long ED was gone in two weeks.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 06:14 PM
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That is amazing, how did you do it? Turned 50. Don't laugh, you'll be here one day.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 06:11 PM
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My experience, and talking with buddies, is that cutting fees gets you nothing in return. If clients feel you're "cheap" they'll treat you like you're cheap. If they know they're getting charged $100 for a 20 minute phone call, they'll respect you and your time more than the client who is always looking for freebies - the "Hey I got a quick question" client whose quick question takes three hours of research to answer, and then gets pissed you charged him three hours to give him the right answer.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 06:06 PM
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Everything I do is billed hourly. I've been doing this long enough that I know fairly certainly what a particular transaction will cost. I always tell them up front so they know, and if it goes over my estimate I let them know in advance before I spin the wheel. I've never really had a problem with clients' attitudes about my fees, I assume because of my openness and - wait for it - my willingness to walk away from the project if they object. Couple of deadbeats over the years but that's because…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 03:10 PM
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LOL like going to zerohedge: Read the headline, get outraged, go straight to the comments and ignore the article.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 11:58 AM
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Short version: Ultimately we all die alone.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/21 09:47 PM
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I posted this before I read your comment: As a lawyer, my goal is to get the client out of a jam as quickly and cheaply as possible; or get the transaction done quickly and cheaply. I realize, after decades of doing this, that no one ever said "I wish that took longer and cost me a lot more money." That's just who I am as a person. And happy clients make good return-clients, and make good referrals. Sure, it's against my fiscal self-interest. But prolonging the process just to make more money is…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/21 09:45 PM
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I don't understant that thought process. As a lawyer, my goal is to get the client out of a jam as quickly and cheaply as possible; or get the transaction done quickly and cheaply. I realize, after decades of doing this, that no one ever said "I wish that took longer and cost me a lot more money." That's just who I am as a person. And happy clients make good return-clients, and make good referrals. Sure, it's against my fiscal self-interest. But prolonging the process just to make more money is …
/r/TheRedPill21/04/21 09:44 PM
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We all have "that one girl" that somehow gets under our skin. I don't know if it's chemistry, situational, brain malfunction. But I guarantee you even the ECs have "that one girl" that they can't forget. The one that got away. Recognize it, deal with it. Your post can also be a lesson in "the Wall".
/r/TheRedPill21/04/21 09:33 PM
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There is a rule against noobs posting, but honestly I liked his enthusiasm and how he sort of cut to the heart of the matter of not giving a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 02:59 PM
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Don't get too caught up in playing the "reply time" game. First, people live lives outside of looking at their phones. They work, sleep, go in the woods, etc. Second, try to get them to meet in meatspace as quickly as possible. Be different than all the mopes sending dozens of messages and getting nowhere. Last, and most important, learn to talk to people - everyone - in real life. Nowadays that will set you apart from pretty much anyone your age. Show them your smile as you tease them - somethi…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 02:58 PM
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The first rule of fight club is you don't talk about fight club.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 02:55 PM
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If you view this page on a computer, over on the right side there is a column with multiple red pill articles and links. that's called a "side bar"
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 02:54 PM
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It's not one or the other. I've seen Mods and other senior TRP members argue about which one it is. This is the description of this subred at the top of the page: The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. It seems to encompass both sexual strategy, and self improvement. Use it for sexual strategy for yourself. Or Use it for self improvement for yourself. It's all good Red Pill brother.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 02:53 PM
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I used the tactic: how can she impress me? If she doesn't then why waste my time with her? Give her time between her messages find something else to do Out of the mouths of babes.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 02:51 PM
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Yeah that doesn't make me want to do OLD any more either. I actually enjoy meeting strangers IRL - check out my post here on how and why to talk to anybody (search for this: Ditch "cold approach" in favor of "learn how to initiate conversations with strangers") It's weird - I can go a few weeks without seeing an actual pretty lady. I'm a free facer in my mask state so the only places I can go are the grocery and a couple of breweries that honor the "medical exemption" to masking, and that have o…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 02:47 PM
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Older dude here. I've never done OLD and this makes me not want to. I don't know how you people put up with that nonsense. Lately I've been thinking of giving it a go because my liberal city is in a hard lockdown so my pipeline is all but gone, but jeebus it does not seem worth the effort. Thankfully I've got a roster going but I'm just getting bored with it.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/21 01:54 PM
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Every single one of them. And tell them they've been a bad girl.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/21 01:57 PM
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Sure, but you don't find them. You make them Could have stopped there. Women are Wonderful This is what a *lot* of people here don't get. They have not learned to enjoy women for their womenhood. Shit tests, emotional outbursts, crying, the happiness, the days when she just wants to make you happy, the way they smell, the curves of their bodies - it's all great and Men are built to enjoy those things. "Putting up" with the emotional roller coaster is not enough. You need to really enjoy it to be…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/21 01:45 PM
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how on earth could you have been dumb enough to not pick up on the signals He wrote that this was in his blue pill days, before he became red pilled.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 09:14 PM
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... if only there were an entire sub-reddit devoted to this very topic, with years of searchable posts, a sidebar, links to other blogs on the topic ... If only.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 09:13 PM
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Go for No!
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 06:28 PM
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Real life examples FTW. Women are subtle, they are indirect, often they're not even aware of what they're signalling. But man, once you learn to "read" them, this whole interactive thing can be so much fun! They'll say things like, "Have you been to ______ restaurant?" is her giving you the go-ahead to invite her out to _____ restaurant.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 05:07 PM
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I’m done holding doors Literally the title of your stupid post.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 06:53 PM
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Thanks for the advice, kid. I'm doing pretty good so far, though, without it.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 06:51 PM
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"I'm done being a polite member of society." tl;dr
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 05:22 PM
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There's tons of 411 on why not dinner on a first date. A starting point is that you need to be able to bail out of a disaster quicker than a 60-90 minute dinner. That's why coffee or a drink. Finish your coffee or drink, "Oh shit I forgot I told Buddy I'd help him move" or fake an important text message that requires you to leave, if she's a chunker or boring. Dinner instantly puts you into the traditional Blue Pill role of "dating" and "boyfriend/girlfriend" where she might expect you to pay, o…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 12:35 AM
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"Are you free Friday" "[Oh shit he's going to ask me on a date but he's unsure of himself so he's already looking for an excuse out of it. What a pussy.]" One of the first RP things I took to heart because it jibed with my lifestyle is that I'm out doing cool things, and she's invited to come, or not, with but either way I'm still going out doing cool things. You're giving her an opportunity to do cool things with you, is the way I approach it. She can say "no" but she needs to know it's her los…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 12:26 AM
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This. Because of this: "Are you busy Saturday afternoon?" "No" "Good, you can help me move." Nobody likes open ended "invitations". The only correct answer to "Are you busy ..." is "Tell me why first then I'll let you know". Short circuit that shit, "I'm going to see a cool band Friday night. Come with, we'll leave here at 7" or some such.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/21 07:58 PM
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How about just: have a vagina
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 04:12 PM
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DATING ADVICE FROM WOMEN Flowers - check shower, brush the teeth, and cologne - check clean the car - check put on fresh, ironed clothes - check dinner at a white tablecloth place with reservations - check don't use a groupon - check hold the door for her - check pull out her chair for her - check don't do a good night kiss because loser - check go home and tug on your weener like every other night, but $100 poorer - check
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 12:27 AM
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Would there be some way to ... embellish ... my background check? I dunno, add a few attempted murders, maybe an arson.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 12:23 AM
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There's some good in OP, I do something similar but for different reasons. I do it to let the girl I'm with know I'm checking out other women. "Look at that ugly pink purse" as a huge, firm set of tits walks by. "Wow I like that cool '70s pattern on her shirt" as some slim, braless model jiggles past. A little jealousy on the girl's part never hurt a relationship. Let her know there's competition.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 01:36 PM
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I love no-makeup women. Just give me what you got, honey, and I'll decide if I like it.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 01:33 PM
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Cut off the online attention. Put her into decision tree: "This is great but let's do it together in real life" even if it's just the two of you "masturbating" in the same room (LOL), "hey you know what would be hot is if you come over and do that on my big leather chair while I watch" Then cut off all future digital contact except to get her over to your place. She's getting what she wants from you (attention) and you're getting jerk off material.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/21 01:30 PM
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Start building your brand today. Do at least one thing every day to to get **your own** clients. A phone call, an email, take someone to lunch or coffee, put a short blog post on **your own\** web site or even a two line note on your linkedin page, "Great hearing in court today on a commercial eviction. Did you know not all commercial real estate contracts are the same? Call me if you want me to review yours." Don't be a bitch about it, e.g. don't ask a co-worker's client to lunch. But do spend …
/r/TheRedPill25/02/21 12:50 PM
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That's exactly my point. You learn by doing, not by reading about doing. And it takes time and failures (good thing you didn't fail at swimming) and successes. And if you're smart, you watch other people do and fail and succeed and learn from that. But you have to do it for yourself. The "I'm an old man I know better" was more of a literary device and a sharing of my individual experience that seems lost on some. There's plenty of blue pill codgers out there, and plenty of red pill kids of 20, 2…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/21 12:43 PM
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I am agreeing and expounding on your point.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/21 12:38 AM
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much like Neo in the Matrix. Remember the scene where everything slowed down to a crawl and Neo was able to dodge the slow motion bullets? That's how I see many things - law, women, etc. - now that I'm older and have experience. I can see things coming that my own clients may not know are inbound. Same with women. See them, see them clearly, and in slow motion. And, I know that I absolutely would have missed them ten, twenty years ago.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/21 12:37 AM
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Keep reading and practicing ... and failing and succeeding and watching other men read and practice and fail and succeed....
/r/TheRedPill25/02/21 12:30 AM
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Whippersnapper! [shakes fist at cloud]
/r/TheRedPill24/02/21 07:43 PM
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Reading his responses ... he's just here to argue.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 05:40 PM
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I wish I had read the comments before making my own - I stated almost this, exactly, except I said "neebs" instead of "noobs" by accident. Also, seeing the OPs responses, this thread is a time waster.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 05:40 PM
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.nvm I should have read OPs responses before posting. He's just here to argue.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 05:35 PM
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He's trying to make the point that you don't have to adopt "what's normal" just to get along. Breaking people out of the mold society has put them in.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 03:17 PM
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I've always had a thing for odd looking girls, especially odd looking facial features. My ex wife had a big shnoz. My last ex LTR had really wide-set eyes. My current main girl has "asian" shaped eyes but they're blue and she has a big head of wild curly '80s kind of hair. "classic beauty" never appealed to me.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 03:15 PM
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I didn't have the kind of guidance you talk about, when I was growing up. My dad was a classic beta who very literally gave me -zero- advice on women and relationships. It's taken me years and literal internet searches for "how to be a better man" before I found some answers that resonated with me and tuned me into my already existing internal skill set that I was unwilling to use in a BP world. But to the point, yes, try what sounds reasonable and is within your own skill set or ability to pull…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 09:47 PM
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What exactly is gross about it? Your post seems to lack a reasoned basis for "this is pretty gross". Men like young women, that's a real fact.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 08:54 PM
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Tolerate, at this point, is where I'm at. I think it's a good tool, but that's about it.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 06:19 PM
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No, those are good points. It's just that a lot of what's discussed by the pros/ECs on these boards is the opposite of "snooping on her phone while she's in the shower OMG she's snapchatting with someone !!!" Your girl is getting hit on, even if she's a fatty. Your girl is getting messages from slobs, chads, her girlfriends who are bad-mouthing you, old boyfriends, future boyfriends. There. Problem solved. Now there's no need to have to verify it by snooping. I dunno, kids these days.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 06:08 PM
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Yeah good points. This is me though, the last year has made me disgusted by how my social media I was doing. I've really tuned out a lot of it.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 06:05 PM
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I don't. Because that has nothing to do with the conversation at hand. And that's because ECs like you are constantly harping that TRP is a sexual strategy, nothing more or less. Someone threatening me with a knife has nothing to do with my sexuality or my sexual strategies. Your response is a fallacious argument. You're the EC, I asked you to reconcile two apparently conflicting RP theories. Your initial post that I replied too seemed to indicate that it's okay to sneak around like a little bit…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 06:03 PM
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I dunno man. Seems like a lot of effort to find out something that (a) you could probably assume is happening anyway; and (b) there's nothing you can do about; and (c) you should probably have better things to do than sneak through a girl's phone; and (d) do people really use the social media that much anymore?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 01:01 PM
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Yeah for a guy that doesn't condone phone snooping he sure has some highly specific advice and lists probable results.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 01:00 PM
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How do you resolve "don't give a fuck" with "sneaking through everything on her phone while she's in the shower geez I hope I don't get caught, like a little bitch"?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 12:59 PM
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I fail to realize how in God's name if you had plates available this girl was on your radar for more then the pump-n-dump with ''obvious red flags I ignored"... Some women just get under your skin.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 07:02 PM
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When I get into a more ... committed ... relationship with one over another, I'll just keep seeing the other/s until they naturally break off. What I do on a Thursday night is none of my Saturday girl's business, and I've had good luck the last few years finding Saturday girls who respect that I like to go out "by myself" other nights of the week. LOL they seem to forget how I used to only meet them Thursday nights. I'm always on the lookout and still do "first dates", and being a not-gay, mid '…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 06:55 PM
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Paradoxically, having several women makes for healthier relationships with each of them. There's definitely merit in the "abundance" theory - I'm all for it. I may occasionally "lose frame" but ultimately and truly don't care if any particular woman leaves my life. Just between the rona making everyone depressed, trying to keep my business in business, and getting the bills paid, I don't have the energy to babysit two or three women at a time. Maybe when sanity comes back to my area.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 06:50 PM
11

For me the big one is "spinning plates". I'm older, I'm not super focused on sex all the time, and I'd rather have one woman I can rely on and **get along with** and have great sex with, than trying to manage 2 or 3 plates that maybe I don't like that much. I tried spinning plates a few years back and I just didn't have the time, the energy to deal with needy women, nor the motivation. I've got other shit to do. I'd rather do serial monogamy, with the occasional overlap and the occasional fling.…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 02:02 PM
75

Everybody likes lists. #2 is an old trial lawyer trick - bring a nervous witness to see and feel the vibe of the courtroom a few days before they testify. Second time they come there it's "normal" because it's not new and scary anymore.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 12:57 PM
4

Depending on the girl, Eh. Older model, kind of a mannish face but really nice hooties. Thought I'd take her for a test drive if it felt right, but it just got me out of the mood. complains that that the neighborhood is too white. Literally, racist. Will probably join the local government and start importing non-whites. Her neighbors plowed her driveway for her without being ask Coming from a big snow city in the midwest, I know that the "snow blower guy" on the block has been itching to use his…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 12:47 PM
30

Don't change her mind, change her mood. tldr
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 12:42 PM
3

Unconscious bias is a legit thing. No doubt. But I'm talking about inherent bias, not unconscious bias. You don't get to change my argument in order to prove me wrong. But with that said it is important that you consider your own bias and are aware of it. You really don't get to tell me how to think or behave. Take care of your own business, I'll take care of mine. I don't see "unconscious bias" as a problem. Overcoming them by applying purposeful effort is difficult and separates the men from c…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 02:45 AM
10

I'm still shocked by how censoring has become acceptable, and how discourse of differing ideas can get you ostracized. This is from 1963 but it dates back to early communism. The 45 declared goals of communism. They've been doing this to our society for a hundred years now; it's just finally reaching critical masss. We've been losing for decades. Here's just a few: 17. Get control of the schools. Use them as transmission belts for socialism and current Communist propaganda. Soften the curriculum…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 02:42 AM
10

Yep. I never really believed in "evil" and I've spent years trying to be a good person. After this last ten months, both of those are out of my system. Evil exists. I'm no longer a good, compassionate person.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 02:37 AM
5

Yep. After this last year, I don't even engage people in political discussions anymore. Everyone has dug in their heels and no one is changing their position. Unfortunately, now that the Left has succeeded in making everything political, it's tought to just chit chat with people anymore. If they try and push politics I just smile and change the subject, "Do you like pickles?" except one chick last Fall just wouldn't stop with the politics. She got a polite hug at the end of the night and went ho…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 02:35 AM
36

Critical Race Theory hinges on inherent, irreconcilable racial differences I was told by "the media" last summer that as a white guy I was inherently a racist. "Inherent" means it's innate, cannot be changed: "existing in something as a permanent, essential, or characteristic attribute" according to my dictionary. That means that no matter what I do - reparations, take a knee, suck a big black dick - I will still be racist. No one could answer the question, though, that if I cannot change my inh…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/21 06:23 PM
2

Yeah don't "block" a cold lead just in case the lead turns warm again down the road. #kidsthesedays
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 03:28 PM
1

Lessons learned my man. Generally if the question is "should I text" the default answer should be "no" until you've had time to really think it over. Personally I would have brought her back for a few more lays, unless the sex was so bad it wouldn't be worth the effort.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/21 03:33 PM
2

writes a novel when four words "maybe some other time" would have sufficed Edit: That way at least you're keeping her online Wants to stick it up a girl's ass on the first date and sends a pouty text when he can't Dude... Also, if the sex is bad, and you're in the room, it's your fault.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/21 01:56 PM
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Is this TRP or Literotica? LOL.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 07:32 PM
1

It does give fodder for conversation.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 08:33 PM
10

A bane of modern societies is a decline in birth rates, requiring them to import people in order to keep society - and drones - at a certain level. Just finished reading beau sabreur from 1925 - it's explicitly stated that population decline in France required them to colonize North Africa in order to be able to import labor.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 08:00 PM
1

LOL talking politics and social issues with prospects. I couldn't tell you what my last ten plates' politics were, and don't care, and they couldn't tell you mine. Good luck. I like my response better.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 07:56 PM
8

Getting "triggered" is for snowflakes and homos. I'm neither, I'm a grown man. Try it some time.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 07:55 PM
5

When they toss you some BLM crap, just raise your eyebrows in disbelief and say "Oh really?" and whoever speaks next loses.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 06:44 PM
7

You know this is a reddit about male sexual strategy regarding women don't you?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 06:43 PM
25

I'm angry because I still have to deal with retards like you.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 06:42 PM
61

Pretty much. It's all too pervasive to not be a deliberate destruction of Western society. Libs have made absolutely *everything* political, and as a consequence, have ruined absolutely everything. Like your point, Rush has been saying that young white college chicks are prime targets for the brainwashing that's going on, for whatever physiological or psychological reason. That's why BLM protests = mostly young white chicks and their beta boy followers. I've seen this coming for years, the inten…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 04:07 PM
2

Not sure what country you're in, but here in the USA the CDC has stated that only 6% of the reported deaths due to "covid" have been solely from covid. The rest were likely caused by the other illnesses the people had. What's that mean? Not even 10,000 people in the USA have died from the covid, it's something like 9,000 to date. So your "tens of thousands" statement is wrong. Get a life and start thinking for yourself instead of doing what politicians tell you. The government is putting the dat…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 03:34 PM
6

LOL sucker. Are you wearing your mask?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 06:42 PM
1

He didn't spend 250, that's the point of the article. He promised the girl (sample size of one try) 250 then didn't pay her.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 06:41 PM
7

Do you think no one is lying about this global covid scam? That all these world leaders and vaccine manufacturers are telling you the truth and the whole truth? Grow up, son. Lying is a perfectly valid survival strategy.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 04:54 PM
3

I've never understood how guys use a sock to jerk off. A post on that would have been more helpful to me, as it would have satisfied my curiosity into something I've wondered about for years. Oh, to be young and anonymous and carefree again, without having to worry about, say, my face being plastered all over the interweb in my small city and risk losing my hard-earned reputation and career.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 04:51 PM
15

That's why there's no "cruise speed." Married red pill is red pill on hard mode. That's why the best way to deal with shit tests is to enjoy them as part of a game - and if you're getting the blow torch treatment, it means you're winning.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 11:38 AM
37

Women test you to see if you're the man you're pretending to be, or if you're a little baby beta. Look at it this way: would you rather they test the welds on the wings of the airplane while it's on the ground before you embark and take off? Or would you rather they be tested - and potentially fail - at 30,000 feet? From a woman's perspective, she's testing your "wings" while you're on the ground, before she commits her one asset to you, that is, her body. She doesn't want to commit and then you…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 02:12 AM
17

Tumblr but I have to pay? No thanks. LOL people pay for nudes anymore?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/20 04:50 PM
26

Executive summary for us oldsters who don't know what "onlyfans" is used for and why I should care.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/20 03:17 PM
42

Who the hell is 'JESSICA' and why am I not having sex with her?
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 08:27 PM
0

Maybe if I ever become gay I'll try it and let you know if it worked.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 12:37 AM
1

Eh. It was always some b.s. like , "here's some starving puppies but see it's a happy video because they're getting rescued."
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 07:57 PM
2

And if you ever wondered where "spinning plates" comes from ... The Bozo Show: https://youtu.be/2MNL2r3Vg_c?t=58
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 06:55 PM
5

Women want to meet you at the Finish Line when you win so they can "share" in your victory. They don't want to watch you run the race. Especially if you lose or don't make it to the Finish
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 06:47 PM
2

You openly display your weakness. Don't get suprised when your weakness is targeted. I get this, now. I didn't quite understand it at the time. It was a few years ago. Lessons learned.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 06:41 PM
2

I don't get deeply emotionally attached to women so that's not a concern. And if they're sociopaths, but they behave normally with me, then to me they're normal because that's what I see. The real problem is that soy-boys and simps have been letting "their" women get away with bitchiness, acting spoiled and bratty for so long that it's become the default behavior for many women. I check that shit at the door and everything's fine.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 06:39 PM
0

Eh. I was getting bored of both of them, it would be nice to still have them around to bang but it was getting tedious.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 06:36 PM
1

"gf" stands for girlfriend. I have one that's my main that's been around for a while and with whom I do most of my stuff; and just depending on the season, one or two on the side. Those would be side gfs or "plates"
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 06:34 PM
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Don't tell them where it hurts, because that's exactly where they'll hit you. When I was just learning TRP I made the mistake of telling two women a soft spot I have, I don't like seeing animals in distress. Well I'll be darned if one didn't start sending me video links of you guessed it animals in distress; and the other kept telling me stories about the same thing. I told the second one that I had literally dumped a woman for doing that (I did) but she kept doing it and she got dumped too. Sel…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 03:34 PM
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Last night my main gf was crying on my shoulder about the covid stuff and she said, "I wish I could be like you and take it all in stride and not let it bother me," and in that dark room I quietly high-fived TRP. --------- I pulled her close to me and kissed her on the forehead. She eased up and latched on to me like a lost child. Don't change her mind, change her mood.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 03:06 PM
1

It's literally never happened to me.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 03:50 PM
7

LOL that's good. ABC right? Women will literally tell me, 'I like that I don't have to make decisions when I'm with you."
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 12:25 PM
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You really think a bitch that can't decide what to eat can proactively get the man they want? Hell no. They don't even know who that guy is, or how any of it happens. LOL classic frame loss conversation. Classic. Man: "What do you want for dinner?" Woman: "I don't know, what do you want?" Man: "Doesn't matter to me." And so on. I've caught myself in this loop before - it's hard to recognize when it's happening but when you do catch it early it's fun, you're like, "Oh, right, Red Pill" then out l…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 03:39 PM
20

In the very near future if not already, no one will be able to run for office without first having gotten a visit from a friendly state spy agency, letting the person know that they have their entire internet history, and that they may need a few favorable votes at some point. Blackmail, I'm saying. Blackmail. And pretty much everyone will be vulnerable to it. I have no doubt it's going on already.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 11:16 AM
4

Dude if you can't figure that out you probably shouldn't be having sex in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/20 10:59 AM
2

Just remember to lead. Women are degenerates if left to their own It's not your job to follow her into degeneracy, it's your job to keep her out of it.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 06:22 PM
9

To look pretty and do what she's told to do.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 06:19 PM
6

That's why tl;dr. Also, never apologize: Homer Simpson on Apologies
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 11:59 AM
7

It's your job as the man to keep it exciting. If it's not exciting, you're not doing your job.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 11:31 AM
17

The first time a girl said "choke" me it kind of freaked me out. But I choked her and she came almost instantly. Ever since then I don't even wait for them to ask. None have ever said, "don't choke me" or "don't spank my ass as hard as you can" or "don't spit on me" or ... well, the OP makes the point. I think one might have said "don't do that" and I laughed and kept doing that, problem solved. This post, although a bit of a ramble, nails it. Fuck like an animal, fuck for yourself, give them va…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 11:26 AM
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This guy gets it. The first paragraph is David Deida's "The Way of the Superior Man" in a nutshell, which is a great but advanced read into how to behave as a man in a relationship. Just like you test the structural integrity of an airplane before you get to 30,000 feet when a failure would be catastrophic, a woman will test your integrity before she commits her precious goodies to you. We call that a shit test. LOL how many potential relationships has the OP bailed on because he got butt hurt o…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 02:47 PM
10

Don’t want illegal aliens to vote? You’re racist This always cracked me up. "So you're saying that 'illegally entering a country' is someone's 'race'?" usually followed by another insult. And I’m working on one of them. TRP.red and Forums.red are the life rafts I constructed Good luck. Did you read the part you wrote about gab-dot-io? You'll get a following from here, but will the goog show your site in search results so that you'll get a new, constant stream of noobs? What happens when you can'…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 05:11 PM
2

Maybe you should learn to communicate better, then. That's not what you wrote. And I don't care what government you have, this is a global problem. Jesus man, you've been locked up for months, have you not taken an hour to find out why, and if they're telling the truth?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 06:36 PM
1

Maybe if she didn't put off a year's worth of writing obituary reports, she wouldn't have had to write them all in a single day. Start thinking for yourself. The information is out there but your government has goals other than public health which is why they're not telling you the truth.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 06:31 PM
2

LOL all you homos downvoting me because you like having your daddy-government tell you to stay in your basement and wear your diaper on your face because it makes you feel 'safe' from the big bad virus with a fatality rate for people under 45 that's statistically 0%. Yeah, you're all real men.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 04:47 PM
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You probably enjoy wearing your gay mask. Reminds of you of when your boyfriend chokes you. Oh, and here's the latest - from a virologist: "“For people younger than 45, the infection fatality rate is almost 0%. For 45 to 70, it is probably about 0.05%-0.3%. For those above 70, it escalates substantially.”" That means for a kid like you, you're not going to die from it. Jesus man, if you're an American you've had four months in lockdown to fucking look this shit up, what the fuck have you been do…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 08:01 PM
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You seem really angry that someone would disagree with you. Maybe you should figure out why my telling you the truth and showing you how you're being led around by a leash through the corrupting of our language makes you feel this way. Is it because you've been pretending to be a real "man" all this time, but it turns out you're just another sheep blindly following your leaders?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 07:28 PM
-29

There's a pandemic. You're being told there's a pandemic. See the difference? Start thinking for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 06:51 PM
43

Yes, except most of them are genuinely psychopaths.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 06:38 PM
3

This four month lockdown is an exercise in sociopathy at the highest levels of government, right down to my local city council. I'm the guy that follows the golden rule, the unspoken Judeo-Christian morals. And I'll tell you - the last two weeks I could not give one single fuck for anyone except my girlfriend and my last LTR. Something changed in me when the statewide mask order was issued. When they basically have tried to cut me off from food. I'd had enough. I'm heading toward the "me first f…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 06:37 PM
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The general principle being shown is Women would rather share a good man than settle for a bad one I've seen it in my life, I'm sure others have. His field report is more of a humble-brag though.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 01:06 AM
1

Okay kid. I'll be sure to take your advice.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 03:28 PM
2

I'm guessing you don't get a lot of second dates, with that anger problem. It's not "setting up a date" - you never, ever "date" a woman. You do really cool things with your life, and invite women to come with when you want a woman to come with to do something cool with you. That's why it's "I'll be at xyz bar Thursday around 8 p.m." and not "gee would you like to maybe I dunno, maybe if you're not busy, you know, maybe meet me sometime for something" like you usually do - because you're doing s…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 01:13 PM
9

Nope. Compliments, i.e., positive attention, is your currency to spend with a woman. It's what they want from men. Using your example, you just handed her a $20 and potentially got nothing for it. That's what chumps do. Get something, then pay for it. This one is perfect. Yep. Not my format, pretty much a basic TRP format for "asking" a woman out. You're already doing something cool. If she wants to be cool too, she can join you. If not, you're already doing something cool and it's no skin off y…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 06:10 PM
5

"I'll be at xyz bar Thursday around 8, you should meet me there and tell me your secret to a long marriage" with a grin and a wink. The pre-assumes she's bangable, of course.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 04:42 PM
26

Basic decision tree. a/k/a put up or shut up a/k/a fish or cut bait a/k/a ... https://www.yesware.com/blog/get-to-no/
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 04:38 PM
2

I started doing one meal a day and for most of the day I feel great - alert, awake except for my afternoon nap (LOL), not weighed down. No matter what I eat, I fall asleep about 30 minutes after a big meal. So I've just made that meal right before bed. During the day if I get hungry I'll eat a T. of olive oil and a T. of peanut butter. Fills me up, gives me calories. I might do that 2 or 3 times a day. I try to eat / fast at least 3, 4 times a week. I feel better when I'm not eating / snacking a…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:23 PM
5

Dude they all love being choked.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 11:21 AM
18

My doctor told me they don't routinely check for the herpes because the test is so inaccurate as to be useless. Too many "false" positives, so people might think they have it but not really have it. Not sure how they know it's "false" positive though. But if you have symptoms - sores - they can test those and that's an accurate test.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 12:08 PM
43

Was this a catered affair? You know, with that many people in the room ...
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 05:13 PM
4

Down arrow for you. You didn't fuck her. False title. I want my money back for having to read this shit twice to see if I misread the title. Get a life.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 12:02 PM
3

Why would you not have feet if you only lost fingers?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 02:20 AM
2

Up-vote because that's what I do on pretty much any website. Headline -> comments That's where the real value for my money is.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 02:20 AM
21

If she only wants to go to obscure places that she has to pick, this is suspect. Not as much weight to this point What the fuck dude, this is the *whole* point. It shows you had *zero* control in that relationship. Lessons well learned though.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 08:47 PM
11

Grown men speak with words, not cartoons.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 04:41 PM
35

Why would *you* ask a woman for an LTR? Trying to lock someone down is beta shit. Just have a fucking relationship and let it run its course. Never talk about the process ... should be a fucking rule.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 01:00 PM
30

If you don't promise monogamy, it's not cheating if you fuck other women.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 02:24 PM
18

Thanks man. I try to offer a different perspective within the RP framework. The Deida book "The way of the superior man" really opened my eyes on how to act in a non-superficial relationship and how to understand and appreciate true gender-specific behaviors. I've learned to enjoy everything about women, including their beautiful moodiness. You can't have women without them.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 01:04 AM
0

Wait - you just copy and pasted this shit verbatim from another website? What the fuck dude, grow up. Plus it's fucking stupid. Major down arrow for you.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 06:37 PM
2

LOL the groceries in my small city were about 70% men shopping before the outbreak, now it's up to 90% men! And rarely a good looking woman. I notice shit like that - patterns and stuff. Not sure why that is, I live in a very emasculated city so maybe the women are all working.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 06:33 PM
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Change her mood, not her mind - David Deida Good post. Part of the problem, though, is knowing what is an appropriate frame-reaction. The answer only comes from experience. Note though, that being a good listener can quickly lead to a pattern where she just gets habituated to the kick of pain because she knows you'll entertain it. In that case, you have to spot it and break the pattern or put a boundary to that - being present means being aware of reality. Every now and then my main girl just ne…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 04:42 PM
2

Good stuff V. Useable takeaways. I was just pondering getting a collar for my main girl this morning as I was looking at blindfolds too. My first time getting a collar for a girl. But rather than just spring it on her, your post showed me that there should be a nice process building up to it. Tease her during sex; make her beg me to get and put a collar on her; make her measure her neck even though the collars are adjustable. Heck, usually when I put my belt around her neck I make her do it to h…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 09:55 PM
0

I currently have three. Bitches, not dogs. Non-exclusive, you know. Can I pick which one you get?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 07:20 PM
0

"I have a boyfriend" is considered a classic shit test. She may have a boyfriend and is saying she's exclusive so buzz off. She may not have a boyfriend but wants you to buzz off. Either of the two but she wants to see if her rejection will effect your frame and maybe just maybe she'll give you a chance. Two out of three of those situations, you're wrong with your "implied contract" (that still LOLs me). This is like pickup 101, I didn't make that up, it's a long-standing RP principle And I've t…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 06:37 PM
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"Covert contract" Look it up, this shit's in the sidebar. it's not a fucking agreement unless you both agree to it. You want to quibble about terminology while creating a fucking agreement in your head without telling her about it? This shit: "implies exclusivity" What the fuck other terms have you made up out of thin air to control the relationship? Pay attention and learn something son, instead of making shit up that you hope is true because you know deep down "your" girl would never commit to…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 05:01 PM
-7

You're an idiot. "Always"? It's not fucking "polygamy" it's being in more than one relationship at a time. Been going on since relationships were invented. That's what's fucking normal, not getting attached and clingy and possessive to the first woman that touches your weener. Holy fuck this is basic dating information. Good luck getting cucked every single time you agree with yourself that she wont' cheat. Holy shit why do I argue with kids on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 04:43 PM
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No, it doesn't. It never does. What you describe is a covert contract that you made up in your own head and that you'd be an idiot to expect to hold her to (a) without actually talking about and agreeing to; and (b) in any event she'll bang other dudes if she wants. This is basic shit dude, read the sidebar. [edit: literally "covert contract" is in the definitions]
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 03:37 PM
-13

If you don't commit to exclusivity you won't be cheating when you bang other women. If your woman doesn't commit to exclusivity she won't be cheating when she bangs other men. That's the real reality of relationships and has been for since forever. (also, it's never cheating when your woman bangs another hot woman, LOL).
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 02:05 PM
4

The continued de-masculization of Western society. Can you imagine something like this in the 1950s?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 01:13 PM
1

There was a post a week or so back that got deleted with some good practical SM information. Riddle me this: how does one work SM - insta is my favorite and I'm too old to use or care about the rest - to attract the women in the first place? That is, photo tagging, hash tags, whatever. After that last post I went back and # a bunch of my older pictures that didn't have any. Got a lot of random likes on them, but nothing after a few hours - they must have disappeared into the endless scroll. So s…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 12:51 PM
3

I say whoops or head's up or excuse me. If it's a cutie I'll say something clever like "I hope you don't drive your car like that" or something. I'm not "sorry" about it, it's just a fucking accident. And I meant this as just an example of routine Beta pattern behavior, not as a whole topic in itself.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 09:01 PM
3

Great post with usable tactics. There should be a "Tactics" flair for these posts, versus "Theory" posts. I never had trouble, generally speaking, with confidence. But all the little behavioral cues that society ingrained into me as "right" and "correct" had to be shed before I first really felt the power of TRP. Even little Beta shit like saying "sorry" when I bump someone at the store. It all had to be shed, but it also had to be replaced with something. And for me, anyway, it was finding and …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 07:08 PM
2

why assholes confidence gets laid and you dont FIFY.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 04:34 PM
3

I might be in the minority but I get uncomfortable with women buying me "things" or spending too much money on me. Oh sure, I don't mind if they bake cookies and bring them over, or if there's a show they want to see and they buy the tickets then invite me with (I kind of like this as a display of their desire, it's cute when they want to do nice for me). But buying actual stuff like presents and clothes and such, I'm just not into that.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 04:32 PM
5

I was embarrassed for him. When I first tumbled into TRP and would observe how all the theories played out in real life, you know, spotting dudes at bars or in stores doing it all wrong, I'd see things like that and feel bad for the brother. But they keep fucking doing it with no self awareness or intent to improve. They ain't my brothers anymore. Every man for himself, I say. That’s my life: I tell girls to suck my balls and they thank me for it. /king The first time a woman actually thanked me…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 04:27 PM
21

It's not "abundance mentality" it's actual abundance. One is a psych job, the latter is something inherint in having abundance. Just clarifying.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/20 12:11 AM
13

We all have to walk our own path.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 03:20 PM
20

That's a beautiful love story. Romance, excitement. True love. LOL is he raising Chad's semen deposit too?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 03:15 PM
47

I'd qualify your statement with "quality guys don't want to marry ..." We all have that beta friend that fell madly in love with and married the first girl who touched his weener, despite all his friends knowing of her bicycle status.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 02:53 PM
15

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 02:50 PM
10

That's my point. Make a list of the top five things in your life that are important to you. I assume "relationships with women" will be on the list, but it shouldn't be any higher than 4 or 5, and it shouldn't be above your dog or your mission.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 02:47 PM
10

You joke, I'm in my low '50s which is grandkids territory for a lot of women around my age. Mathwise women can be "grandmas" in their low 40s even. I've only dated one that had 'em though, she never told me her age although I suspect it was high '50s or low '60s. She had a tight, tiny little body, big soft hooties, a sexy Nebraska country-girl accent. When she put on jeans and cowgirl boots and a snap up flannel that was never snapped up high enough ...
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 02:42 PM
95

It's being alone that they fear. It's having to care for themselves that they fear. Love has nothing to do with it. We as men de-prioritize intimate relationships, so it's not in the forefront like it is with women. Plus we can take care of ourselvses. And of course if you're high value, even as older men there's always that 70 year old we can bang.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 11:19 AM
1

Maybe. Being older I save my burst of energy for the end, LOL.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 07:30 PM
-4

Downvote me all you want, my weener is still bigger than yours. LOL.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 07:25 PM
1

Interesting. When I do it, it's usually missionary, slow and steady, not too deep (although one old plate used to ride me so I could scratch her deep itch, LOL). More difficult to do in my opinion because hard and fast sort of numbs things down there, slow lets the sensations come through.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 07:23 PM
-6

Don't discount having a giant dick. Which I do.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 06:06 PM
1

Definitely do not submit this to Literotica. It's missing any description of the THOT. LOL.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 05:52 PM
-8

you aren't likely you make a girl cum with penetration alone, The vast majority of the times I fuck, I make the women cum from penetration alone. Doesn't happen every time but who cares.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 05:51 PM
7

Obvious question: is she hot, and if so, make your move Champ! She's been burning up for six years!
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 06:18 PM
3

Quick disclaimer, this submission is by no means a blackpill/incel post. I did and stopped reading at that point too.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 06:35 PM
2

My online skills stopped when instagram came out, LOL.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 08:43 PM
9

Shit I thought you were being funny. Double LOL!
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 08:30 PM
48

this LOL'd me out loud: Instagram/Snap stories of how she has no vegetables Also my $1200 is going straight to Visa.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 07:48 PM
9

Why aren't you? I am. Variety is the spice of life, though. I just didn't want to take up hours explaining my life's story to make a simple point. I just wanted to make the point that age doesn't necessarily disqualify someone from getting fucked. It's situational. I would never encourage a 20 years old to bang a 50 year old. But to people who read this blog and don't understand context so well, it helps to explain a few things rather than just spouting absolute unbreakable rules like "never fuc…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 06:06 PM
1

Assuming USA, this statement is not even close to being the truth. She paid rent, she's a tenant, she's entitled to be evicted by the rules. And if she keeps offering to pay rent? LOL have fun OP!
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 04:36 PM
2

LOL, okay buddy. Enjoy your trip to housing court.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 04:06 PM
25

I recently banged a 56 year old mother of two, for about six months. The kids are in their '20s so it's not like they're "kids". She had a decent body for a 56 year old, and what she lacked in firmness she made up for in enthusiasm. That said, I'm 54 years old so ....
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 03:51 PM
1

LOL she's paying half the rent. Good luck evicting her when the sex dries up.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 03:49 PM
21

It's up to the man to lead the relationship. That means to keep it interesting. Do new things. Stay in shape. All these posts on asktrp "she's a dead fish in bed she doesn't give beej's the way I like wahhhhh" and the obvious response is to fucking lead and teach her what *you* want instead of begging or doing nothing and wondering why. Etc. it's all in the sidebar. I get what you're saying about slippery slope into comfort and routine. It's even harder to stave it off as I get older. I like rou…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 03:40 PM
33

Everyone is going to need groceries eventually. Be the guy who takes the lead and plans out how to do this for your family, friends, and or your community. Be strategic. Be bold. Tell people what to do. Go to the store and get groceries. What the fuck?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 07:39 PM
3

Women test men's frame. It's what they do. It's not that you "allow" them to do it; it's second nature with them. You should welcome them, it means the woman is still attracted to you and wants to see your dominance. Women want a man with a strong frame, but they don't just surrender to the first guy that comes along and passes a shit test. Marriage is not some miracle sure for shit tests. That's why they say "Marriage is TRP on hard-mode"
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 12:28 PM
1

You're welcome to cower in fear and do as your government overlords tell you to do. You don't have the right to drag me into your delusion though. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 02:56 PM
2

It went well, thank you for asking.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 02:48 PM
1

Next time I'll just bang her through the phone, lol.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 02:48 PM
0

So because New York is having problems we need to shut down all the counties, cities and towns in Wyoming? Also, do you even understand what this means: "a 0.00074% chance of actually dying from it." Idiot. Go sew some more useless face masks with your mommie.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 02:44 PM
3

No I'm one of those people who look at facts, not emotions like a girl.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 11:44 AM
2

I know what I'll be like. I'll be like, the guy who fucked all your girlfriends while you were playing video games and tugging your weener. What a bunch of muh monk mode pussies.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 03:16 AM
1

Holy fuck are we getting downvoted on this one! Check out all the pussies who posted "muh monk mode" Holy fuck, what this board has come to!
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 03:14 AM
-7

Does this course explain why a state of 10MM people is on lockdown because less than 4,000 people "got" the virus and only 74 people died of the Coronahoax this year, total? That's a .04% chance of any one person in my state getting it, Mr. NumberCorrector. Oh, and a 0.00074% chance of actually dying from it. Does it explain why you seem to be rooting for there to be a global catastrophe instead of letting statistics lead your conclusions? Whatever, you can stay home and tug on your weener, real…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 07:30 PM
-10

And for all you pussies that want to argue: flu deaths are double corona deaths in the state where I live, and the total of both combined is still under 250 in a state of 10MM.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 06:38 PM
-8

This guy gets it. Meeting a new potential plate tonight. Barely had to game her, she reached out to me, probably a total of five texts to her. I met her once maybe a year ago, bumped into her waitressing about six months ago. Total face time maybe an hour. She knows everything is closed so there's "nothing to do." Probably go for a short drive in the mountains then figure some shit out. LOL "muh monk mode please delete my post"
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 06:35 PM
-4

There's so many posts here these days from dudes who seem joyful and relieved that they don't have to muh chase women. What the fuck? First and foremost, stop worrying about banging chicks. They will be there when this is over, and it will be easier than you ever imagined for reasons listed below. Just get that shit out of your head and focus on the real opportunities at hand. I'm meeting a new potential plate tonight, a chick I met once a year ago and don't even remember meeting. She reached ou…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 06:32 PM
3

Thanks for your thoughtful and insightful post. Also, you're wrong.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 03:54 PM
14

You're the "rebound guy". If not you it would have been someone else. She's not his, it's just your turn. Your job in this situation is to only be the guy she's fucking, and fucking hard and dirty. Let her get her anger out on you, and you do the same (LOL). You need to watch out, though, because getting-divorced women are starved for emotional connections. Their beta ex-husbands never gave it to them. Don't fall into that trap. Seeing a getting-divorced woman last Spring, we were driving to my …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 01:59 PM
3

Why the downvote hate? I think tats on a woman can be sexy, too. Just depends on the woman, like everything else. Doesn't mean I also don't recognize them as red flags.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 11:36 AM
76

Still, DTF. Most lezbos are immature women who have given up on men because they're surrounded by soy boys these days who aren't worth their effort. The problem is most lezbos also have made themselves look too ugly and/or mannish to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 11:34 AM
2

Great story. You can actually take a lesson from the try-hard's efforts too. You saw what didn't work, what not to do. Frankly, I'm cringing at this: openly saying how much he wanted to fuck her and eat her out. I'm sure it violates some basic tenet of TRP about never be overt, it's a turn off.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 08:24 PM
2

Just look at how many posts in the past month relate to how the corona virus (covid-19) is changing the sexual market place.; how plates will all break and how tinder thots are going to flood the internet in desperation for some sort of attention and validation. The posts aren't about how coronahoax is "changing the sexual marketplace" but rather there's been a rash of posts from incels who are fundamentally afraid of women who are now using this as an excuse "muh Monk Mode" or "muh thots aren't…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 01:01 PM
1

Your post got removed because you're such a pussy that you're looking for any reason not to have to deal with *cry* women *cry* and looking for other soy-boys to agree with your "decision" to stay home and tug your weener instead of being a man. Get off the Internet, son, let the grown ups play.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 11:46 PM
-1

Bullshit. The boys who are cowering at home in their basements tugging their weeners because "the government" told them to, are the ones who will be the pussies when "the government" tells us it's okay to go out in sunlight again. The odds of you catching this bullshit virus are infinitismal, less than the regular flu. Think for yourself. I for one am working on keeping my pipeline filled. Sure, it's tougher and the rules are different. So what. I've got two new potential plates just in the last…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 12:36 PM
2

The only winning move is to get explicit about boundaries and collapse some wave equations. That's like the opposite of what you're supposed to do. The exact opposite. Never be explicit with women. It's none of one woman's business what I do when I'm not with her. I could be working, sleeping, hiking, fucking three other women in a twelve hour orgy every sleepless night. None of her business. [Edit: ] Of course, my main squeeze now likes when I tell her "stories" about the other women I fuck, wh…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 07:19 PM
-15

You wouldn't say that if you had a big dick. Trust me, it's the size of the dick.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 07:58 PM
-1

I meant, what is this shit, turn on all the lights blazing, pull out a magnifying glass and give the girl an inspection for STDs. Dude doesn't need to worry about getting rusty, he's never getting laid in the first place. "TURN THE LIGHT ON, MAKE IT BRIGHT AND CLINICAL." LOL, what is this shit?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 05:26 PM
-2

What the fuck is this? --------- 5: Keep talking to women. Why bother, you're never getting laid with this process.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 01:45 PM
13

What kind of douchebag would even show up for something idiotic like this?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/20 05:51 PM
1

This post made me LOL out loud!
/r/TheRedPill22/03/20 10:43 PM
2

"Virgin Birth." Immaculate Conception is the concept that Mary was born without original sin, because the mother of Christ should be pure.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/20 11:53 AM
7

Clearly you've never met my mother.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/20 04:19 PM
3

tl;dr: yet another "here's how to get laid" post.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 06:29 PM
133

Eh. Women can be great companions if you find the right one, and for certain purposes. But never give up your basic TRP principles. You can go for a hike or out to dinner with your bros. You can go for a hike or out to dinner with a woman. Two entirely different reasons for you to invite one or the other. "Feminine energy" is a great thing to have in your life at certain times. It's more than just sex. Women are healing, nurturing, soft and they smell good. But never give up your basic TRP princ…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 04:20 PM
30

I wouldn't have gotten married and I would have tried to bang as many young chicks as I could. LOL dude, you have to walk your own path.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 04:17 PM
29

There can be temporary, mutual love between men and women, regardless of age. Because I'm older, I don't mind older women. Can't speak to way younger men with older women because I've never done that (married until mid '40s). My prime spot is women in their '40s, although I've dated as high as late '50s (I'm mid-'50s myself). Older women are their own thing, there's no comparison to younger women; that is, they're not better or worse, just different and good in their own way. Some guys like chic…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 12:36 PM
20

The best way to get over a woman is to get under five more women.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 12:32 PM
505

There's an old joke: Why do newlyweds smile so much at their wedding? He's happy because he thinks he's getting unlimited lifetime blowjobs. She's happy because she doesn't have to give blowjobs anymore.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 12:29 PM
1

Different names for the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 01:40 PM
5

Get out more brother. Like this, but not this exact machine: https://www.technogym.com/us/lat-pulldown-machine-pure.html
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:27 PM
25

Dude tonight at the gym had six plates on the lat pull down machine - per arm. Got himself a head of steam, threw his whole body into it and used momentum not control for each set. Whatevs, not my problem.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:37 AM
3

The chief differentiator between the genders is upper body strength. What the fuck? I thought it was our weeners.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/20 12:31 PM
2

The only thing holding you back is you. Find some videos online and do a 10 or 20 minute class for a few weeks, build up to going at the local gym or yoga studio. It's good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/20 03:07 AM
6

I first realized something had fundamentally changed in me when I started saying to myself, "I could fuck her, but I don't want to" for whatever reason, looks, personality, my mood. But I was choosing whether to have sex, rather than just taking pussy because it was there. It was an interesting feeling the first time I did it.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 09:20 PM
4

I disagree. Even the most natural soldier studies tactics - the how of getting things done. New methods and tools. Natural athletes still study the theory of their game and practice new techniques or try out the latest equipment. But we can leave it at that. What works for you.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 09:14 PM
0

I can take name calling, and I can dish it out as well as anyone. But I'm also a grown up which means I act like a grown up. If you want people to treat you like an adult and take you seriously, act like one. Adults don't call people names to make a point. Adults explain their point then move on.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 08:13 PM
2

Someone can be red pilled but not naturally have all the great techniques that are discussed here. Also, I like to know the theory behind things - why do we do what we're doing, and why does it work or not work. I've found that I do a lot of techniques discussed here naturally. However, in the last years I've also found blue pill things I've been doing, that I've worked on avoiding, because I've read about them here and I understand why they work or don't work.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 08:09 PM
5

LOL good luck. I'm not "enabling" something that's genetic, that's been bred into women for thousands of years. Also, you don't need to call me names. You can disagree without it. Grow up.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 07:56 PM
8

I for one like field reports (good ones, not "I talked to a girl on the bus!") There's theory, and there's application. Field reports show the theory in action. Everyone likes examples of theory in action. Except you.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 07:51 PM
4

Let me be the first to downvote this and say "read the sidebar." AWALT is not a "phenomenon", it's actually proven to be the natural instinct of women. LOL good luck though.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 07:46 PM
9

So, long answer to a short question: I've never used my position as a yoga instructor to get laid from a student in my class, or even try to get laid. Teaching is one of my missions so I don't want to queer that up for myself, plus I could possibly lose my teaching gig and get a reputation in the small city where I teach, thereby killing my mission, because as I note below, a *lot* of people know me. That said, I'm not against trying to bang a student, and there's no set rules for/against it; it…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 07:27 PM
2

Betas males are deeply, horribly haunted by their own insecurities. I question if this is true, at least for the younger kids I see nowadays. So many butter body kids out there, half-girl kids, and outright pansies (do they still say "pansies"?). It's almost like they revel in dressing and acting this/close to being outright flaming gay.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 06:41 PM
8

Oh I have no interest in teaching my competition what they're doing wrong, but as a fitness dude, that was obviously your job to do. But in a pure fuck / no fuck situation, I'll always choose fuck over hurting the little boy's feelings, because as I noted, if "your" own girl doesn't care about you, why should I. I'll shorten my post from above for clarity: "If your skank of a girlfriend is giving me hard IOIs ... It's my turn." LOL to that.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 06:39 PM
4

"I could tell you my hourly rate, but that won't tell you what this project will cost you. My rate reflects the fact that I've been doing this 25 years, and have probably seen something similar to your problem before. Instead of wasting hours figuring that out like some noob in my profession, I can use my experience to home in on your issue and go straight to a good solution that's customized for you. I might be able to do this in three hours, what would take someone else five hours, because I'm…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 06:34 PM
20

I'll be honest, sometimes I feel bad AMOG'ing these dopes. But when I just taught your cute, skinny skank of a girlfriend a yoga class, and she can't stop staring at me during class, and makes a point of walking across the studio to stare directly into my eyes and thank me and keeps staring and smiling while she's turning away to leave, while you're standing there rolling up her gear for her like a good little boy, honestly dude, you don't exist to her *or* me at that point. I'm going to do what…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 05:24 PM
-2

LOL my gym is 24 hours. Had the entire place to myself last night. Hard rock on the speakers. And I know the owner won't be closing any time soon.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 05:22 PM
1

(prolly cause you read I'm a woman and stopped reading there) Violates Rule 10, read the sidebar and play by the rules please. This is why people are disgusted by your "movement". I have yet to meet a woman who is disgusted by my being an assertive, confident man. If that's not your thing because you're manly enough for yourself and your boyfriend, that's cool too. You don't have to like everyone on the planet.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 08:04 PM
1

Your end goal should be knowing someone and loving them You seem like a nice girl. You're telling me everytime I gargle a ball sac its possible the thing has had diarrhea on it But you might be a little advanced for the intended reader of my post.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 08:04 AM
15

I’ve got this hot little Latina from Miami calling me from the end of the bar to play truth or dare with her and her little friends. That's the take-away from this post.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 03:15 AM
1

I've been winning for 50-plus years Babycakes. And I don't see an end to the streak any time soon. Including earlier tonight. Say, what have you got against teaching young guys how to be confident and how to go up to women and talk to them? Seems like you have something against people being friendly to each other. That's what my post is all about.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 03:13 AM
-9

We have a lot of work to do, but we're working with previous flawed foundations. LOL the generation of "nothing's ever our fault."
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 02:58 AM
2

It's easy, isn't it? When the goal is just initiating the conversation, rather than number/kiss/fuck, the conversation itself has less pressure on it because you've already achieved your goal. Then later you can work on steering the convo to number/kiss/fuck if and when appropriate.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 04:48 PM
1

My biggest problem has been talking too much, and too much about myself. Lately though I've realized that when a cutie brings up a topic (movie/show/food/vacation), she wants to talk about it (meaning, talk about herself) not hear me talk about it. "Tell me why you like [topic]" is a great canned response to that that I'm trying to use more.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 04:46 PM
1

"Hey, we're over here having some drinks and watching the [sports game]. You and your friend should come join us." #superhero level RP to your friends because they're all too pussified to initiate, which is one of the hardest parts.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 04:43 PM
1

I do know about severability clauses and I know that they're not included in every contract. But you can be right and have the last word and tell me how that's wrong too.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/20 05:34 PM
1

Finance contracts have late payment provisions. Construction contracts, and the law developed for the construction industry, allow for deviations. Don't confuse your 45 second internet search with my 25+ years of experience working with commercial contracts. But thanks for playing.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/20 01:29 PM
2

go out and fucking talk to people. That's the whole point.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/20 01:19 PM
1

I just wish I could change the title - I started with the title as the premise but changed it as I started typing. LOL.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/20 01:18 PM
2

The best way to get over one woman is to get under five more women.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 12:54 PM
2

I went from being employed at a business where all I had to do was work and cash paychecks; to being self employed where if I didn't get new clients, I didn't eat. I also had some life problems with family going on that had me depressed and uninterested that I resolved myself out of.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 12:35 PM
2

"nobody gives a fuck about your life and here you come Mr charming chatting up a storm, you realize nobody does that?" Do you really want to spend time with someone whose default is unfriendliness? Great story about the waiter, same thing happened to me a few weeks ago, just being friendly to the dude.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/20 03:20 PM
2

Fuck your feelings, you want to get laid don't you? having anything to say That's why you have some canned, situational chatter, that you can pull out whenever, like the [sports team] one or something clever to say to the cashier.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/20 12:51 PM
2

Do the kids today even know what this means?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/20 12:48 PM
3

Try to push through the resistance by being persistent. That doesn't mean in every interaction push them until you get a good response - it means be friendly every time you see the same person on campus or off, even if it's just to say "Hello" every time you see them. Interaction 1: "Hello, cool pink backpack." Interaction next: "Hey pink-backpack girl, how was class?" Don't ever stop being friendly no matter how many times you get the no-eye-contact-grunt in response. By the end of your term, e…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/20 12:46 PM
4

Interesting info. I never really studied the genre except for a few blogs, ROK, Blackdragon sort of thing. So yes, I'm unfamiliar with the body of work of PUAs. I'm just saying this is how I do it. I come here to get that last 10% of refinement, get rid of or temper some Beta behavior that I'm comfortable doing, but as a tool it's better not to do; and pick up techniques and methods. TBH when I went single after my last LTR ended three years ago, I've had no problem with women, I think my longes…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 09:37 PM
3

Realize that 90% of the communication you'll do as an adult is superficial nonsense. Don't fight it because that's the reality. But it's the lube that greases the gears of a complex society and keeps everyone from going ape-shit on each other. Whether with your roommates, a clerk at the library, the guy putting tires on your car. Nonsense. Yes, perservere through a pointless chat because most chats are pointless. Plus you'll learn how to keep a smile on your face no matter their reaction. I don'…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 08:23 PM
2

I don't talk to everyone. Sometimes I'm just not in the mood. "I'm offended" is a shit test. I dated a 20-something chick a few years back who said that every time I teased her. "Too bad" I told her, unreactively, and moved on. But I had "Daddy" game going with her. Talk to the "offended" ones. You're doing it to build your skills, and maybe you'll figure out a way to push through their shit and get a real relationship going. Ignore "I'm offended" or any other response, and keep persevering.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 07:40 PM
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"I bet I'm the rudest person to walk in here" ... with a wry smile and strong eye contact. It's just fun man, make 'em react! I'm sure they appreciate the break from the tedium. Or, come up with a half dozen of your own canned chatter for ordinary situations you see every day. Do what works for you.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 07:08 PM
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I'm not writing that cold approach is bad, I never mentioned it being bad in my post. The point is that "just fucking do it" doesn't seem to work for a lot of people posting here and at /ask. If your "just fucking do it" guy went fishing 300 days in a row and didn't catch a fish, it might be time to back away from "just fucking do it" and start breaking down the process he's using to see if somewhere along the line something's not working properly. And if he's fouling his line with every cast, h…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 03:38 PM
3

Yep. Think of it as practice. "Cool name. I had a cat named [her name] when I was a kid, LOL" or something.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 03:32 PM
2

Find what works for you, Champ. The broader point is that it doesn't have to be complicated. Simple and superficial is just fine.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 01:43 PM
6

I bet it's Downward Facing Dog Absolutely do *not* say this.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 01:02 PM
1

Better yet: "Hey I'd like to talk more about [topic you were discussing] but I have to get going. Let's get together later this week" ... as you hand her your phone. Or something similar.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 12:57 PM
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Cold approach just for the sake of it is so cringy It's how grown ups behave when they're out in public. They make small talk with each other. Turning your back to ask for her fav yoga pose, really? Works every time. Don't be a dick about it and don't just blurt it out. "Hey funky color yoga pants! What's your favorite yoga pose?" Do it just like that. Don't forget to smile. Channel Vince Vaughan in "Swingers", be loose and casual
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 12:55 PM
3

Most things is b/c you have learned patterns ...and to overcome them you need to unlearn them, and then replace with more beneficial ones. Samskaras, in Indian philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 12:51 PM
4

IOW you want men to learn how to cold approach mixed sets and be social without looking like a player. Correct. Learn how to open anyone, without nerves, without a set goal in mind other than being friendly. The pick up skills come later. The post is for people just starting out, who are having trouble even talking to strangers. I read advice like "pretend you're lost" [in your own fucking home town] and ask for directions" and it makes me actually feel bad for the women who are subjected to thi…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 12:39 PM
3

Thanks GLO.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 12:26 PM
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Haven't read "day bang". It'll feel the same once you initiate the hot girl Dang I wish I wrote this. You get it. That is, you won't have the nerves popping up because it will be natural already to do this because this is who you are, it's what you do.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 12:23 PM
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Yep. But I wanted to explain the theory behind why shooting the shit is great practice to get rid of jitters for when you are opening a cutie; and give some examples because people need examples not theory. And also try to hit points (a) through (c) in my OP: (a) situationally appropriate, (b) get their attention and interest, and (c) be geared to get a response; although even "how about this rain" works when there's nothing "clever" coming to mind.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 12:18 PM
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That's why you smile when you say it. You're having a great day and are just naturally spreading that feeling. Don't say something stupid and you won't piss off anyone. And if you do, that's a "them" problem, not a "you" problem. "Often when I try initiating conversations I’ll get stuck in my head and be deathly afraid of messing up the conversation." That's why you do it all the time, everywhere you go. Reps is the whole point of the article. Get the feeling of messing up burned out of your sys…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 12:16 PM
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They're not unnatural because every one of them has naturally popped out of my mouth at one time or another in the last year and they always get a fun response. Being friendly to a waitress is unnatural? Most are ad hoc, the [sports team] and yoga pants ones are in the can. Got the [sports team] one from my uncle, having seen him use it all the time. And they work. Always. Convo Initiated. I gave "canned" examples just for that purpose: as examples of how simple the initiation can be. Also, try …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 12:11 PM
3

Technically I'm a few years too young to be a boomer.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 12:08 PM
22

Everything comes back to DGAF and outcome independence. Everything. The post is just another way of going about it, with real world examples.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 11:55 AM
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It's such a load of horse shit that there's no point in giving "counterarguments". Every single word is wrong.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 01:44 AM
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women are incapable of being interested in things that do not have any practical role in their pursuit of security and comfort. What is this shit? Also stopped reading at this point because it's empirically wrong: women are incapable of being interested in things that do not have any practical role in their pursuit of security and comfort.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/20 11:56 PM
11

You mean *telling* people, "yah, I'm an Alpha."
/r/TheRedPill01/03/20 12:41 PM
38

A twenty minute video to list five things? Pass.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/20 12:39 PM
1

One party's contract terms violation doesn't typically automatically terminate a contract - Actually, yes it does. It absolutely terminates a contract. That's like first week of law school stuff there.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 12:27 PM
1

It's an extreme example of the real life outcome of the nonstop feminism / womym's rights / equality bullshit that's constantly being shoved down our throats.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 12:18 PM
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We should really try to be figuring out why so many boys - mostly boys - feel the need to pretend they're women. To me that's the problem.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 12:15 PM
6

LOL.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 12:00 PM
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If you never promised her monogamy, then fucking other women isn't cheating. Basic sidebar material over on the Asktrp sub, ""Are we Exclusive: handling the talk"
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 05:25 PM
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Every now and then I'll overhear the womens talking about men in private, and it's basically this. My favorite was last summer by the pool i overheard two near-wall whales talking about how they can't find a decent guy, they have to take charge of everything, they have to lead, etc. As they shoved yet another corn chip and sugar soda down their gullets
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 05:28 PM
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Because I can't be everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 12:55 PM
3

The problem comes when you're fully drained, can't stand people around you, but still would like some social interaction with someone. Then what? Grab your Kindle and go to a bar or coffee shop and read. You'll be around people but not have the imperative to interact with them.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/20 12:04 PM
5

Talk to everybody. Even if it's just "have a nice day" to the checkout lady at the supermarket, say something to a stranger every chance you get just to get used to initiating talking to strangers, and reading responses. Build from there: What's your favorite team? If you see someone with a ball cap or shirt with your team's logo on it, smile and say "Go [your team]" and when they smile back, ask about the team - how are they going to be this year, boy they stunk last year, do you think they'll …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 04:57 PM
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Clearly you've never met my mother.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/20 09:49 PM
3

preselection Literally in the sidebar under "glossary of terms"
/r/TheRedPill16/02/20 03:47 AM
2

5.The Red Pill is not for getting laid. Now I'm confused because I got into a discussion with an EC who made it absolutely clear that they started the red pill for the sole purpose of getting laid, and that's what TRP is all about.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 12:32 PM
5

Because linking with no summary violates the rules; and linking to one's personal blog to garner clicks for one's ego, without posting the content here, is fucking rude to our hosts and wastes my time when I click a good titled post, but then have nothing to read and have to click another spambait link to maybe get to the content.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/20 10:24 PM
2

Dude you have way too much free time. Pretty much anyone I've met that's concerned with their "status" in other's view, have been douchebags. Be a fucking normal person. Who gives a fuck what fucking "logo" is on your fucking clothes? I wear black T-shirts from Kohl's and Lee jeans. Maybe if I shopped in the ghetto I could get a sweatshirt that's covered in giant "tommy hilfinger" logos like the hood rats wear. It's nobody's fucking business what credit cards I use to pay with. The only reason t…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/20 06:09 PM
2

You have to talk to absolutely everyone - men and women, young, old, pretty and ugly - you meet so that it becomes second nature. Your approaching can't just be the once a week approach to a pretty girl you see on the bus. That's why you're struggling, because you don't practice. B/c I teach yoga I meet lots of new people every week; I always try to interact with the new students, even if it's just asking their name and thanking them for coming. That's got me comfortable, mostly because I'm the …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/20 12:58 PM
2

Not a bad system, now that you've explained it. I'm mid-'50s so I date up a few years, and down into the '20s. My sweet spot is low-mid '40s though. They seem to be the best behaved
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 07:52 PM
1

Just throwing this out for discussion, and yes, I get bored fucking the same woman. But this: " I have heard all their stories" I make a point of creating new experiences as frequently as possible with women. I don't really care about their past or their stupid stories; they're here with me for my present fun. If she's fun to be with and can make me laugh, she'll last a lot longer. Current main chick is almost at nine months (most last two, tops). She's fun to be with, doesn't pressure me to mee…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 07:39 PM
5

It's not meant literally. It's a metaphor for "we're not equals"
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 01:32 PM
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Opposite. Get into relationships, fall in love over and over again, get burned by it over and over again, and the desire to fall in love will be seared out of you eventually. That's how you do it "naturally" - through experience, not through reading on the internet. Getting older helps too - on the day I turned 50 I stopped giving a shit about a lot of things.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 01:13 PM
1

Bingo. Well said. One woman I'm seeing now knows this, but seems perfectly happy with it. Loves following my lead because women are naturally followers. The one's I've left floating in my wake the last few years are the ones that wanted to be in charge and who coincidentally are miserable. The burden of manhood isn't so much that you can't love a woman, it's that you can't show that particular weakness - and yes, it's seen as a weakness. Manhood means constantly leading the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 01:11 PM
6

See, there's this place they invented called "the internet" ...
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 12:59 PM
13

woman will never love you the way you want her to, Stop wanting this, and relationships will magically start getting easier.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 12:58 PM
13

but you need to find the one "There's this one girl ..." No, there isn't.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 12:56 PM
13

^This guy gets it. Older Man Game. Who gives a fuck if they last 4 months or 4 years. Older I get, the less I care if a woman walks. Ironically, the older women get, the more they want to find "true love" and "their soul mate" and live happily ever after with one chump. I just met with an ex like this last night - 50+ years old, fell in love with the second guy she dated after me even though they've only been on three dates. Happened to another older woman friend late last year too - fell in lov…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 12:56 PM
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I'm a pretty quiet guy in real life, so I appreciate the non-response. Good examples. A raised eyebrow and a sly look, then move on.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 07:53 PM
6

You seem like not a shitty person because your user name says so.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/20 05:22 PM
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I would prefer to see a write-up on the techniques themselves, and how you have successfully implemented them with wimmens - war stories - than a broad reco for the book that I already have no interest in buying. Personally I'm immune to "sales" techniques inasmuch as I don't need or want lots of extra stuff in my life, so I give that part of my personality short-shrift when it comes to business. People can hire me or not, I'm not going to scare them into it. But a few extra horses in the tank w…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/20 02:08 PM
1

Whether someone respects you or not has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with who they are as a person.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/20 12:25 PM
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You don't say you have a million dollars, you don't buy fucking $500 dinners and treat a dozen people to them if you can't afford to, don't buy a fucking $5000 watch if you don't have the money - that's all faking it and lying. You act with confidence, that's all.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 06:45 PM
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There's an adage I live by, "Act like you've been there a 1,000 times before," that's done me well to not look like a rube in many a circumstance. There's a feeling in one's body, mind, reactions, thoughts, that can be learned, just like old Beta habits can be unlearned. But in order to unlearn the habits, they have to be replaced with something. "Faking it" brings your conscious thought to those old behavior patterns so that they can be broken and replaced with the "Alpha" thought and body patt…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 06:08 PM
2

Buddhism, yoga, Christianity and other similar Eastern religions all developed about the same time. They obviously borrow theories and techniques from each other. It's not bad or good like Metallic implies. Study them, take what works, put the rest in your pack. Don't reject them outright because you may want them later. You might not need a car jack today, but you may need it some day, so keep it handy.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 01:08 PM
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Buddhism, Yoga, Christianity all developed about the same time. Study them and you'll see lots of cross-over concepts. Plus, does it really matter if it borrowed and incorporated concepts from other sources?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 01:02 PM
1

I've been meditating and practicing mindfullness long before the internet took off, I started in the mid '90s. I don't tell my friends about it, and it doesn't make me feel sophisticated. You seem to make a hobby out of being wrong. Not sure your point about the truck, maybe stop and formulate your ideas more clearly before you post next time.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 05:00 PM
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Calling me names only devalues your message, which frankly isn't that clear to begin with. On this internet, typed words on a screen that are meant to be rhetorical don't always come across as rhetorical. That's poor communication on your part in not understanding the medium, not a misunderstanding on my part. If the OP isn't within the scope of the subreddit, delete it, you're an EC.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 04:58 PM
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Not everybody has a filterless view of reality. Society, religion, family, personal history, the education system in the West, the media, have all clouded the general population's view of what's what. That's why.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 04:29 PM
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"I am not ignorant of what you're talking about," Then why ask me about the breathing and spirituality, if you already know everything about it? I don't have to drown it in pablum and repetitive nonsense adjectives and mantras Great that you don't need this. But some people do. The OP's post was written for those who do need it, in a manner calculated to lead at least some of those people to understanding. His style doesn't work for you, that's cool. Accept that you didn't connect with the artic…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 04:20 PM
1

"AWALT" teaches you to accept women for what they are, not the fairy tale that society, religion, your upbringing or past history tell you they are. "Outcome independence" teaches you to have no expectation from an interaction - a text, a cold approach, a job interview - other than to have the interaction without getting invested in the result to the point where disappointment - "suffering" in Bhuddist terms - happens. These are mindfulness techniques that have been around for centuries. They're…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 04:08 PM
5

Meditation and mindfullness are two different, albeit related, concepts.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 03:37 PM
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A corollary to acceptance is getting rid of, or tempering, one's expectations. Disappointment in unrealized expectations is another source of suffering. "I expect this new job to be great" and when it inevitably isn't, your new co-workers suck and the boss is a dick, you're disapointed and suffering. "This one girl is perfect for me, I'll be happy forever" and when AWALT and she cheats, you become disappointed and suffer because you didn't see the reality of female behavior. "If I only had a mil…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 03:35 PM
7

LOL nobody answers the phone anymore. Even in business I have to schedule phone calls with people because offices no longer have receptionists to direct calls, everything goes to voice mail.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 12:52 PM
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"Text for logistics only" is what they tell noobs who constantly show up on asktrp asking for interpretations for this or that emoji the girl sent, or wondering if their return text was right or wrong because she didn't respond in five minutes. It's a hard reset to break lifelong simping behavior. Today's reality is that texting is here and if you're in a relationship of any duration, learn how to do it properly. Use it as another tool in your seduction toolbox.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 12:51 PM
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There's a certain reality that texting is here to stay. Might as well use it as one more tool in your seduction toolbox. The examples, at least as far as I read, are not meant to entertain. They're meant to show indifference, and set you apart from the other simps messaging her. "Hey this guy's so fun in text I'd like to see him in real life."
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 12:48 PM
9

Point taken. Kids these days! [shakes fist at cloud]
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 01:45 AM
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The only thing wrong with the "flow" thing is your topics/texts shouldn't go on long enough for there to be a flow to the convo. You've got better things to do. Talk about that shit in meat-land, not electron-land.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 01:37 AM
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The older I get my eyes can't focus so well every time, and my new phone's keyboard is a size I can't get used to, sometimes I make mistakes in texting. Fuck anyone who doesn't understand that texting is an unnatural way to communicate in so many ways.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 01:35 AM
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Haven't finished reading yet, but I would add, never, fucking never send an emoji to a woman, you're a fucking man, you communicate with words not fucking cartoons like a fucking little girl. And the they're so open to multiple mis-interpretations. Just don't fucking send an emoji to a woman. The exception being when a chick texts me an obvious blow-off, sometimes I give them a "thumb's up" just to be ambiguous if it's really okay or not, keep communication open for future.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 01:26 AM
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This is fucking gold. Bookmarked to finish reading later. Never be fucking serious, concerned, emotional, needy. When in doubt, make a joke. Always, make a joke. I even tell women "I don't text serious anything." Lots of the advice works in meat-space too. Her IRL: "My Christmas was horrible, like a Netflix movie: Me: "Let's get a drink, I want to hear all about it." It's called, "she's giving you an opening dummy, take it!"
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 01:21 AM
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Not even clicking on the link. University of California at San Francisco.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/20 05:55 PM
2

LOL plus I think they've taken all the men's jobs so the men are out wandering during the day, hanging at coffee shops, at the groceries...
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 12:38 PM
3

Dude women fall out of the sky into my lap. I just notice patterns. Get a grip.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 12:37 PM
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It only works for women because they are the only ones in demand (thanks to unprecedented amounts of thirsty desperate fawning loser betas online) Shit everywhere I go it's a sausage fest. I started counting just for fun a week or so ago and it was so depressing I stopped. Like this morning at the coffee shop: ten dudes, three fugly chicks. Something's not right - we're running out of women.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/20 07:46 PM
2

Yep. Older I get, the more my workout depends on how my body is feeling that day. I'm not as rigid in my routine as back when I thought things like that mattered to life.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 10:55 PM
1

There's a lot of different theories on how to do sets. I'm old school, three sets of 6-12 and maybe a burn set after, short break in between sets.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 10:28 PM
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My lifting takes me 40 minutes. One, I don't sit on a bench playing with my phone. Two, I do just the big basics: dead, bench, some kind of row, shoulder press, bi and tri, plus maybe one more depending my mood. Three, "30 - 45 seconds between sets" means fucking "30 - 45 seconds between sets" not two minutes to bullshit with someone or check your phone. That's about 6 -10 deep breaths
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 07:02 PM
15

Act like you've been there a 1000 times before. In all things.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 06:58 PM
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Listen kids: I'm fifty-*cough* years old. I lifted heavy in high school, again in my '30s. I started lifting heavy again about a year ago, joined a gym last March because I ran out of iron in the apartment "fitness room." About five months in, all of a sudden women started touching my arms, my shoulders, for no reason. One lady grabbed my ass at a freaking business networking event! Now, I'm a grown ass man, and these are grown ass women who know how to behave. But it's almost like you can see t…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 06:52 PM
5

Some days you're just not in the mood.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 11:14 PM
1

You tried to go for a relatively quick homerun tactic and it didn't work. Third date is "quick"? LOL.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 12:22 PM
12

Too few people seem to be discussing this issue, however, and we should see an uprising of mothers talking about how the school system is attempting to abuse and destroy their sons. The US has multiple examples of parents speaking up at school board meetings or teacher meetings for the rights of their kids. Guess what: the parents almost always lose. Why? Maybe because parents / society abdicated their role of raising their own kids to the Supreme State a century ago. They let the state choose w…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 05:54 PM
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The only difference is culturally. I think there's something going on environmentally that's fucking up the children. There's no other way to explain why there's so many pansy looking boys, and mannish looking girls out there. I think there's something in the food supply. Everyone I know can no longer eat wheat products without pain or internal distress. Half the country is fucking obese. 98% of the food in the grocery store has mostly flour or mostly sugar, if not both, as the main ingredient. …
/r/TheRedPill01/01/20 11:33 PM
2

Uhhhhh .... lots of work for a satire website ... Too funny though.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/20 04:29 PM
3

You're blindly accepting these premises as if they're true, despite the rest of the article being superficial, vapid, and un-researched.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/20 01:14 PM
1

The first rule of Red Pill is you don't talk about Red Pill with others - and showing Red Pill literature to a woman is like a double foul. In fact, the entire point of this post is that in the linked article, the author of the article sets out all the common misconceptions women have about Red Pill. You seemed to have missed the point that women don't always see the theory as beneficial, as the stupid vapid article shows. That's why he "attacked" you - you haven't bothered to read the foundatio…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/20 01:11 PM
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The linked article calls TRP followers "terpers" apparently making up her own nickname for it (I've never seen it referred to like that); also the University of Maryland teams mascot is the Terrapins, and they refer to them as "terps". Take your pick.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/20 10:34 AM
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There's a lot of really fucking angry far left leftists in my town with a lot of free time. I was on two other local boards speaking up for manly men and our rights but unsubscribed because one made a snide comment to me about something way back in my posting history - like it would have taken them ten minutes of scrolling to find it - and then asked me a question that if I answered would have clearly given out my identity. I'm relatively fearless and will defend my online positions - online - b…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/20 12:19 AM
10

Watch out for that doxxing shit. Remember the two guys who owned the coffee shop in my little city, and their interweb bragging about all the MILF customers they banged somehow got made public? They had to leave town. Sell their business, and leave town. Liberal revenge is real.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 11:09 PM
18

There's three kinds of people in this world: those that are good with numbers, and those that aren't.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 10:18 PM
14

That's why you only post on the internet for logistics.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 10:09 PM
13

I thought about it and all I came up with is you're a retard.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 09:50 PM
112

^ This guy gets it. Should get a point for that post.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 09:50 PM
101

We're known as "terpers"? I though that was U. of Maryland fans!
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 08:54 PM
2

... which is how liberals argue because they can't win with reason, logic or facts.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 01:19 PM
2

The hard part is figuring out a way to bill for the two hours of brainstorming you did out hiking in the woods that resulted in a 15 minute project for the client.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 12:57 AM
10

Thanks Dad. FYI I write for a living, I know how long it takes to write something and do a good job of it.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/19 10:47 PM
7

Changing ones beard is not a break in frame. Fuck her if she doesn't like it. Here's the real problem: the girl actually admits her reaction was totally irrational but she can't do anything about it. She also apparently has tons of free time, to write a fucking 1500 word article about it. Yeah I counted, because I just submitted a similar length article to a real business magazine actually published on paper, and mine was about a serious, real business topic, not someone's fucking beard. Took me…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/19 09:40 PM
3

Power and money, and having drones to do all the grunt work to glorify those who feel they are destined to "rule" us because we can't do it for ourselves. Keep an eye on liberal politicians' langauge, how they talk about "ruling" instead of "governing", there's tons of examples. The basics.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/19 03:14 AM
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I want to note two other things your post brings up: Only problem was; she wasn't very smart. Who cares? Do a fun activity with her, it's been a rare occasion in my 50+ years that I've needed to have an "intellectual" conversation with anyone, let alone a woman. Save the smart talk for your classes, women are meant to be enjoyed. She tried to get me to go to meditation with her to “get me out of my head” She's leading the relationship. Maybe if you led her better you'd have more fun with her. Br…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/19 01:11 PM
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You're starting to come eye to eye with the purposeful degeneration of white / native European and Western society. I doubt there's any of this feminist, men are bad propaganda in Africa, India, China, South America. It's all part of the communist agenda to demasculanize males, and masculanize females. Men - real, masculine men, can't be led and certainly won't put up with the communist bullshit. Women, on the other hand, can easily be led and become strong members and advocates of being part of…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/19 01:06 PM
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Nope. If I ever publish it, the text could be traced back to a post here and dox me.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/19 03:16 AM
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LOL, it was "done" when she got relocated for her job, not a year later when she stayed out - no doubt for the very first time - until 3 a.m. Live and learn, brother.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 06:54 PM
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Every now and then one gets through the armor. Happens to the best of us. It's okay to reminisce, but not to pine of a broken heart. Guaranteed she moved on in about 12 hours, if that.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 06:50 PM
13

You should be three months into your next three relationships. The best way to get over a woman is to get under another.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 06:11 PM
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and the survival of their offspring. Clearly you've never met my mother. The point is never to find a good girl or a special girl and hold on to her. It is to enjoy your life. If she’s aiding in that goal, she can stay. If she’s impeding that, she must go. This is my current attitude, to the extent I make this point in a book I'm writing. You can go to a ballgame with (a) your buddies; (b) alone by your self; or (c) a woman. All will be fun. But a woman is only 1/3 of your possible options, not …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 03:49 PM
2

It's like owning a house - always leave it in better condition when you sell it, than when you bought it.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 01:03 AM
24

If a girl is good in bed it's because some feller taught her what to do. Next time you're getting that great BJ, thank a RP brother for it. Also, you're welcome.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 12:53 AM
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This. Those three native boy cocks she took on her yoga retreat to Costa Rica? Don't count because she was studying yoga. The College football team? Doesn't count because it's college so it's a freebie. Worry about whether you can stand to be around her, the sex is good, and she's clean down below.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 12:50 AM
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If the sex isn't good, it's always your fault.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 12:48 AM
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LOL you didn't include a checklist to fill out too? Dude you're *way* overthinking it. Is she good in bed, and is she clean. That said, nice use of section headings. Others could take a lesson on that.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 12:47 AM
1

Holy shit. I mean, holy shit. This is what I see whenever I go out. Lonely dudes everywhere, eating alone, shopping alone, everywhere. The coffee shop is the worst these days - I'm wondering if a few of them are gay-coffee shops, there's so few women and it seems like every time I go some dude sits right on top of me instead of the empty seat three down. Holy shit. What's going on in this country? Where's all the women at? Staying home getting fat?
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 09:17 PM
0

This made me LOL out loud.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 05:52 PM
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Nice field report. Getting over that fear that she'll lash out or leave you if you say "no" to anything is really hard. But once you do it and see her reaction it's gold. And if she leaves you, whateva.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 05:08 PM
2

Scroll through my posts for "eh wheres all the broads at" it won't let me link to it. It's about where's all the broads at. Not necessarily older guy TRP.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 12:31 PM
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The more RP theory I read, the more I realize all the little rules, aphorisms, techniques, are interrelated. This great post emphasizes that the effort one puts into any one particular woman (LOL "write a poem") should be minimal in the context of both not giving a fuck about any one particular woman and also making yourself a better man. These two other principles are unstated in the post, but the post makes no sense without understanding them, at the same time. Good stuff. Makes me want to wri…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 03:39 PM
2

Your mission should always be more important to you than women. RP men live for their mission - it's what separates us from blue pill worker drones who go to their shitty job then come home at night and sit in front of the t.v. wasting their lives, getting fat and lazy. Which do you think would be more attractive to a woman - RP mission man; or shitty t.v. man? Women are just an accessory to your life that you invite to come with to enhance it on occasion. You can go to a baseball game alone; wi…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 12:32 PM
3

Yeah I still regret not asking that cute my-age model in line behind me for her number. Regret is always worse than failure. At least give yourself a chance to strike out. Social circle / networking have been good for me, who cares, I flirt with all the women at the networking events. My city is not super formal that way and for a lot of us, the networking is part of our social. YMMV on that one. Women in my apartment complex, got a new one that showed me some IOIs the other day, LOL it's funny …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 03:06 AM
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This LOLs me, the "dating advice" blogs say go to the grocery store and chat up single women. I go to the grocery and all I see are dull looking, lonely single dudes looking for all the singe women.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 01:37 AM
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Wgat was YOUR contribution to the problem. One, relationships are not meant to last "forever". It's literally impossible. Two, when you stop leading, as the man, the relationship always fails. The woman has to take up "leadership" duties, which they're not built to do. It makes her resentful and angry that she's doing her job and yours. Read Deida's "The Way of the Superior Man" which was a great influence on me for more on this.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 01:34 AM
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It's regular game, but don't go to nightclubs. Use being older to your advantage. Look the look. I'm not saying wear khakis, a striped shirt, a blazer and loafers everywhere you go. But look conservative and respectable. Be calm, speak slowly but with authority. Your default face should be serious, or a wry grin. There's a thing called "gravitas" which is just like it sounds - be the grown up, be serious, but affable. If there's a fire in the building, are people looking to you for the way out? …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 10:08 PM
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have a short supply of fit men to choose from I live in a small city. People in the range I look for are mostly paired up at this point. Acceptable single-ish women are few and far between. That said, yes. Be the only Alpha in the room. It's easy for me, I live in a liberal city that doesn't have a lot of actual grown up men. Plenty of soy boys and ageing soft hippies.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 10:02 PM
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being a divorced guy in your 50s. It can be the time of your life. ​ The women sure aren’t any different, Yep. I married my college sweetheart from the '80s back when no one was getting laid all that much, so I had to learn lots of this from trial and error. At one point a few years back I literally searched for "how to be a better man" and discovered the manosphere, which has changed me for the better.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 09:28 PM
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Yeah it's mostly a recap of the basics. But 5 years LTR and being mid-20s, your mindset, "recent" experience, and body are a lot different than 20 year LTR and mid 40s. Even simple shit like kino and escalation I had to learn - the last time I had to use it on a new woman was like 20 years before I went single again, in my low '20s. Shit was easy back then. No self doubt, no anxiety. For you the chase is still fresh in your mind and mostly easy. For us codgers it's like getting out of jail, ever…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 09:24 PM
3

Yep. Kind of iyengar, flow, vinyasa, ashtanga are all of a kind at this point. Let the experts quibble about the differences, I just wanted to give some guidelines for the newbie.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 06:47 PM
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Better yet, don't give a fuck that she dumped you because you already knew that all relationships are temporary and you didn't get too emotionally invested in her like a silly boy. "I'm breaking up with you!" "Okay." Even better than that, you should have had three plates that, if you weren't at least fucking on the side, you had them ready to go. The best way to get over one woman is to get under another. If you're doing TRP correctly, you should never be more than two weeks out from getting yo…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 01:28 PM
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I've beend doing yoga probably 20 years and teaching six. To add to your thought: There's two kinds of yoga that could be helpful. "Vinyasa" also called "flow" or some such, is more of a dynamic, moving stretch that also can build strength (not in everyone - I lift so the strength strength gains I get are minimal). It'll make you sweat and get you stretched, upper and lower body. It doesn't replace lifting but is a good supplement. Maybe better for lifting, though, is "yin" yoga - find a pose an…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 01:21 PM
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I've been doing yoga 20 years and teaching it almost six years, and I've fucked more women this year, including your mother, than you have in your entire life.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 01:17 PM
1

Women exist to do their 1/2 in propagating the human race. If they're unattractive, they're not doing their share. You must be new here.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 12:59 PM
1

When I lived in ID a few years back, I noticed that everyone seemed almost dessicated - dried out. It can be sexy, but on a lot of women it, too, isn't.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 12:58 PM
5

That was me ten years ago. You have to do the hard work. Start by reading all the material. Then read it again. Scroll through Blackdragon blog, Return of Kings, for the background material and yes, science and statistics of seduction (e.g., don't kiss on the first date increases odds of a second date fuck). You have to work out and get in reasonable shape. If you don't care about your body, neither will a woman. Better if you get muscular and pumped. Again, you're older so it will be a differen…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 12:56 PM
1

https://blackdragonblog.com/2011/08/15/how-to-get-laid-seduction-as-point-system/
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 12:51 PM
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When you have the nuts to open them and they don't, which frankly is the hard part, get them a little warmed up, then your "buddies" pounce. Why it's easier to just go out alone.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 12:42 PM
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And his move? "I really want to touch you." I was out with a woman over the summer, doing the "small town" thing where you go into the local shops. Ran into an older dude we both know who's getting a divorce. I go to pee and when I come back my lady is smiling, we get outside and she says "[dude] asked me 'when are you going to go out with me!'" No skills, not even borderline smooth about it, no recognition from him that she was on a date and it was inappropriate, she had zero clue for over a ye…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/19 08:56 PM
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Dude was so thirsty and unpracticed that he just blurted out the first thing on his mind. If he had hundreds of openers under his belt, and did the hard work of study and self analysis, he might not have splooged all over "this one girl".
/r/TheRedPill21/12/19 08:53 PM
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tl;dr The best way to get over one woman is to get under another woman.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 12:32 PM
18

Oh man, nothing beats approaching women in real life. Saying hello, chatting, asking for the number, all that shit. It gets ridiculously easy after a while but I still enjoy it.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 12:14 AM
31

They don't think like us. But it's like a game, hit all the right buttons and get predictable results.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 06:15 PM
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See, this is how you link to your own personal RP blog: Put some content in the body of the post, intrigue the readers with your knowledge, then at the end give a link to the entire article. This bullshit of putting a Title then linking to a blog, with zero content here, is getting old fast.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 02:41 PM
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To vicariously experience your emotional ... This entire paragraph is gold.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 02:39 PM
4

Living where I live now is more important to me than women. I lived in a big city for almost 50 years. There's enough women here - I'm finding relationships when I want them - but there's been multiple times I wanted to go out and just find a pretty woman to talk to and practice a little Game and been totally blanked in even finding one.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 08:12 PM
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This is what I've been saying, there's no normal, pretty women anywhere anymore. I've gone to events, networking, the movies, and look around and out of 50 women there often isn't even one that's in good shape and pretty.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 01:17 PM
1

Don’t think the intention of these kids at that age is to reap social rewards. Or maybe it is: https://thefederalist.com/2018/08/31/explosive-ivy-league-study-repressed-for-finding-transgender-kids-may-be-a-social-contagion/
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 12:47 PM
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or even a good theory. https://thefederalist.com/2018/08/31/explosive-ivy-league-study-repressed-for-finding-transgender-kids-may-be-a-social-contagion/
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 12:47 PM
1

The genders are inherently unequal and have been since amoeba developed little peens and vages a million years ago. Ever stop to consider why this hasn't been happening the last 5,000 years? This is just another attempt to show womyn are equal to or better than men, when the reality is we're just different. An attempt, really, to destroy white Western society. Think this shit is happening in Africa or deep in China? It ain't. Hey, here's an eye opener there's a study that shows this transgender …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 12:45 PM
9

Funny how my Brita filters everything on the planet except flouride ...
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 10:51 PM
47

I love breaking "dominant" women. LOL they're all submissive for the right man. /Didn't watch the vid.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 08:46 PM
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Advice: don't develop a life goal. Trying to find something as a mission to last the next 20, 30, 50 years - your entire fucking life - is too much pressure and mostly not feasible. Choose something you are passionate about right now and work on that. Set a three or six month goal for it. Lay out the steps one through ten you need to take to get to it. Start with #1 and work down the list. It's winter, I want to make sure all the animal shelters have enough towels and blankets for the doggos and…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 08:43 PM
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Men go after what they want. Women don't. That's the reality of human nature. You may be great at Jeopardy! but they're not going to fucking call you to be on the show - you have to apply. You initiate with women you're attracted not to try to fuck them, but to give them a chance to qualify themselves as being worthy of you fucking them. If you have true abundance with women, any single interaction won't really be of that much significance. Imna down arrow you for asking such a basic question, y…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 08:35 PM
3

Much of the PUA "tricks" are reality and experience based - I think it's Blackdragon blog who tallies and tracks the various methods and their success, and Return of Kings used to have good articles on that. But full-on PUA - the "Mystery" stuff of wearing pink Mardi Gras hats and shit - that's for T.V. and selling books. Like you said, you may get laid once, but you're still just a fucking loser who happened to get laid. You can take PUA for the skills it offers like kino and responding to shit…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 08:29 PM
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An excellent post in response to my excellent post. Women are impressed by the strangest things, we have to remember that female values are not the same as our values. The one mistake you made is equating wealth/salary with "value". Men value high salaries and high net worth. The women who value that highly, you don't want. I grew up with all the money, and I was okay but definitely on the Beta side of things. At some point in my early '30s I decided that having my family treat me and my ex wife…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 08:21 PM
3

Man that was a good blog. I wish he would have sold it instead of shutting it down. I still have a few of the older posts bookmarked.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 04:02 PM
4

doing things 'my way'. This always got me in trouble and I couldn't understand why, especially because I knew, deep down, that "my way" was the right way. My profession doesn't reward uniqueness or innovation, but since I've changed cities, got divorced, become more independent, stopped giving so many fucks about everything (turning 50 somehow helps with that ...) I'm challenging people's conception of my profession, and fairly successfully. When I tell people how I do things differently (code f…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 03:57 PM
7

Sometimes I'll give them a nudge and say, "The only thing holding you back is you." But I don't push them beyond that. Plant the seed today for the tree you want in 20 years.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 03:51 PM
14

It will never come organically. This. The truth is, you either have it or you don't, my opinion. It may not be at the surface for many, like my old self, but it can be teased out. In the words of Judge Smails: "The world needs ditch diggers, too."
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 01:52 PM
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One epiphany for me was when I actually started to screen women, instead of trying to fuck every woman that gave me a smile. Abundance gives me choice in the matter, and although people have always responded positively to my missions **and my independence**, I never realized their importance when it comes to TRP until the last few years. People would always say things like "I admire that you could do that" or "Wow that's great you're helping people like that" but I just shirked it off as balloon…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 01:01 PM
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There's a lot of kids that wind up here after they get dumped, cheated on, send the wrong text. I mean kids, teens and early 20s. Looking for the "cheat code" or "the solution". What was eye opening for me was when women started doing the things to me that we're told not to do here. It's not pleasant getting text bombed. I don't want to set four dates with her before I'm done with this date. I really don't want to "just happen to bump into her" all over town. I don't want our dates to last for h…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 12:53 PM
6

my last LTRs where the girls I was with didn't want ANY type of roughness. This LOLs me. AWALT You were the pussy for not initiating it, not the other way around. I think you know that now, though. and I was a bit turned off. You'll learn. It will become a huge turn on eventually, for both of you (roughness generally, not specifically the choking - there are about 5% that don't like it, LOL). You'll get off on being a real fucking man, they'll get off because they'd never been with real fucking …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 10:26 PM
3

We should make a thread of all the blue pill shit we were taught about how to respectfully have sex with a woman. All that "light candles and spread rose petals" shit they preach. "Make gentle love to her all night", that shit LOLs me.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 07:18 PM
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Imagine my shock finding out women WANT to be pieces of fuckmeat to be pounded into oblivion by alpha males. This was an eye opening moment for many, myself included. The first time it was a girl who said "choke me" on our first time fucking. So I gave her throat a nice squeeze. After that, I put my hand on the throat of the next woman I was with. She told me after that got her off so hard. Another told me she started putting her own hand on her throat when she was alone and pretended it was me.…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 06:47 PM
12

Don't be a pussy and make a girl "commit" to you, and they'll never cheat on you, because they can't cheat on a promise they never made. P.s., that's why you shouldn't be "committing" to monogamy with any particular woman. That's the opposite of abundance. If only there was some place you could read more about AWALT and hypergamy and abundance, some kind of side something something bar something...
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 04:20 PM
8

Way of the superior man resonated with me. This one in particular: Be Gibralter while she is the ocean, she is the waves crashing around you, the tempest buffetting winds blowing this way and that, the hurricane that blows hard one minute, is calm and peaceful the next, and is unpredictable after that. What does Gibralter do when the ocean acts up? Nothing, it's a fucking rock. I actually consciously had to remember this one the other day when Girl was throwing all kinds of grief my way. She was…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 03:53 PM
6

Women are a part of your life *that you let be part of your life*. If you want to go out to dinner and have some sexy curves next to you to look at and touch, bring a woman. Otherwise you've got shit to do and can go to dinner by yourself. If you're going on a hike and think "hey that girl I know is fun to hang with, I'll invite her!" then invite her. Otherwise go on the hike with your dog. If you're horny and want to fuck, find a great woman to do it with. That doesn't mean you need to spend th…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 03:51 PM
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Bit of a ramble but good post. A lot of the TRP advice is "outer game" that is, window dressing, just to get people in the game. It's the flashy paint job, the shiny wheels, the hood scoop and chrome exhaust. But have you ever had an old beat up SS Camaro pull up next to you, flat paint, scuffed tires, brake dust on the wheels, dents in the sheet metal. But you can literally *feel* the engine thrumbling under the hood and you just fucking *know* that car has 400 hp waiting to let go? As a man wh…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 12:51 PM
17

I unconditionally love my dog. So fuck this video.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 12:49 PM
8

I wish at some point there would be a "tl;dr" rule for all these video and blog posts that keep showing up here so I could click on these posts without wasting my time. I'm sick of seven minute videos that, if transcribed, I could read in 40 seconds. And we all know these are just click-bait to drive traffic to someone's ego - I mean, web site.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 12:48 PM
2

What the noobs don't realize is that most women are crazy degenerates, and a lot are drunks. But they can hold that shit together, and spin their wiley spells, for months at a time before showing their true selves. It's all part of attracting and keeping the mate, keep him around long enough to breed or some such pseudo science.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 12:45 PM
5

Don't promise monogamy, don't promise to "be faithful". Problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 02:23 AM
66

"I swallowed the pill, but" Nope. That was just your first step. The "Red Pill" being an overt reference to "The Matrix", one must recall all that Neo had to do to save humanity *after* he took the RP. He didn't just take it and then all was fine.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 01:08 PM
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effeminate way of speaking. I call it the "N.P.R." voice, and holy shit do I hate the sound of it. Lots of this in my small city. I swear, every male under 30 is gay these days. Don't tell me there's not something going wrong with our food and water supply.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 01:03 PM
2

That first link is outstanding. Not even solely directed to female friends, but just game in general. Kudos.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 12:51 PM
2

The video is seven minutes long which is not "short" considering if there was a transcript of the video I could probably read it in 45 seconds. That makes 6:15 of wasted time, if I even bothered to view it. Your title is how feminine men attract masculine woman but does not explain how, which is the main premise of your post I assume. This means your point is not very well written.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 03:00 PM
9

Are you dumb enough to believe you can control other people against their will? Because your post makes it seem that way.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 09:17 PM
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The older I get the less anger I allow in my life. I can't tell you the last time something made me angry, it's been years. Realize you can't control other people, but you can control your reaction to them; realize that it's a waste of time to put oneself into a situation where one may get angry due to frustration; realize that frustrations are a part of life, and finding solutions are the mature way to handle them. In my profession the people who exude a calm authority and deep knowledge get th…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 01:09 PM
18

Women will create drama because they're women. With White Knight constantly white knight-ing them, they probably made some shit up just to give him some jollies.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 03:08 PM
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Before I even read further ... keeps sexually harassing her via text Nope. What did the text say, what was the broader context of the conversation, what was the broader context of their relationship outside of texting. "Sexually harassing" is the opinion of the speaker, not an objective fact that we can all see and assess for ourselves. Without it this entire post makes no sense to me. Ted played it off like it was a miscommunication. See what I'm saying? I'm compiling a rather disturbing list o…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 02:40 PM
5

Which is (a) why I've stopped clicking on click-bait article links here where the poster doesn't even make the slightest effort to describe why I should click on it, just provides a link and a headline; and (b) why there needs to be a rule against posters doing this so I can stop wasting even five seconds of my life opening these posts only to find out there's no description of the article.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 08:44 PM
1

I literally gave two examples in my post that you just replied to.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 10:43 PM
37

For beards, get rid of it, they're for people with weak jaws, lumberjacks or paedophiles. Fuck you. My beard has gotten me laid more in the last two years than before I had it. Pretty much every woman I've banged has commented on how sexy it is.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 12:42 PM
9

Holy shit, have you actually plucked a hair from your nose with a tweezers? That fucking hurts man! Get a good pair of barber scissors at the local beauty supply and trim. Holy shit, fucking tweezers on the nose hair!
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 12:42 PM
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It's hard to adopt abundance mentality. You don't adopt an abundance mentality. You either have abundance or you don't. It's like if you hadn't eaten in three days, adopting a "full" attitude still won't make you not hungry.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 12:39 PM
1

One doesn't attain all the power of the Red Pill all at one time. It's too much for any mortal soul to absorb.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 12:06 AM
2

It's a field report. He's reporting how blue pill he is, and how he now recognizes that.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 11:37 PM
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Betcha a nickel he's raising someone else's kids too. Knowingly raising them.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 10:40 PM
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fear that my marriage might be over just like that, with no warning whatsoever. This LOLs me. Sure dude, no warning, just like that. LOL. This LOLs me too: but they had never dated or been particularly close. Sure dude, they never fucked not even once.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 07:03 PM
0

I kinda feel like you're just in the mood to argue. Get outside man, it's a beautiful day.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 05:32 PM
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Ironically you telling me I win so you can disengage from this conflict is exactly the conflict averse beta behavior we fight here on the red pill. It was actually a snarky reply. I really don't give a shit if you come around to my way of thinking or not, you're just a stranger on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 04:35 PM
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You win man. You're right. I'm going to immediately abandon my 20 years of experience, almost half of which I've spent teaching, because you're persistent. Wrong, but persistent, and that's what wins on the innernet.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 04:10 PM
2

Meditation for personal mental and emotional improvement, and "passive acceptance" as a yogic / buddhist philosophy and/or political system, are two completely different things. Think of meditation as an oil change for your mind. It just helps it run better. Where you drive it is up to you. The modern physical practice of yoga itself - all the "Warrior" poses, "Cobra" pose, such beta names right? - evolved about 150 years ago during British occupation of India. The Brits wouldn't let India field…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 12:15 PM
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I meditate and teach meditation and I'm not peak neetchee ... whatever the fuck you're rambling about. Don't confuse your 30 second google search with 2000 years of experience.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 02:58 AM
1

Thanks I'll check it out. As I get older, things get sorer
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 04:59 PM
3

Think tubs are gay? Watch this: The Good, the Bad and the Ugly (10/12) Movie CLIP - When You Have to Shoot, Shoot (1966) HD
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 04:55 PM
7

Baths with epsom salts are a great way to reduce muscle soreness after a workout.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 04:51 PM
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It's odd you don't even mention the ability to fuck like a master and make women beg for more on their hands and knees on your "sexual" market value scale. 'Cause, that's where I'd get all my points.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 12:31 PM
1

Hey, you can make up your scale, we can make up our own. I'm giving myself two points for having a big weener.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 12:28 PM
2

Every part that contains either a letter or a number. LOL, dude, get outside!
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 12:24 PM
2

It is easy to measure a woman's Sexual Market Value - just look at her. You know nothing about what makes a woman sexy. But thanks for the multi-level, overthought, unneeded scale on what makes men sexually attractive to you.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 12:23 PM
3

"thinning", not "male pattern baldness." Right now it looks good with a Jew cut - what we called "short but not stubby" back in my old city. Plus it shows off the partial gray which looks good. I did bald for a summer but it didn't look good.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 11:59 AM
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I'm a balding middle aged white dude with a bit of a belly. Was more of a joke to show the contrast between myself and the OP, but thanks. I lift bro. I'm huge and tight for a dude my age. Do you even lift bro?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 02:29 AM
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I'm a balding middle aged white dude with a bit of a belly. Bet I get more attention with that outfit than you do! LOL, just kidding. Sounds like a lot of fun. I actually go the opposite - very plain, quiet, conservative clothes. Blacks and greys, straight up t-shirts no decals, regular jeans. Works for me, and I wouldn't feel comfortable with any "flash".
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 10:05 PM
208

I'm going to try "African chief".
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 09:32 PM
42

I don't think you quite understand what "tl;dr" means, LOL
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 05:31 PM
11

It's a process, not an event. Good work K of S.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 12:11 AM
3

The first rule of fight club is ... you don't talk about fight club. TRP is a journey to a realization and fundamental change in their outlook that every man must make on his own.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 11:41 PM
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after 3 years of game i realized that having that "willing to walk away" attitude is not the foundation itself. it's the BYPRODUCT of feeling 100% fulfilled as you are. Good stuff. Could be situational too - sometimes people get so fed up that they just stop giving a fuck. Chicken or the egg, but a good analysis.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 11:38 PM
1

You're absolutely correct, it's a useful perspective for those who are on the journey but not there yet; and also for those who slip on occasion.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 11:19 PM
2

If you don't commit to exclusivity, you can't cheat.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 11:04 PM
3

The only constant in the universe is change. All else flows from that.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 09:53 PM
2

I think the days of traditional marriage in the USA are numbered. I don't know about other countries. Personally I no longer want to be with "the one" for "the rest of my life." I like variety. Others may disagree.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 09:52 PM
19

I don't think you quite understand the purpose of "She's not yours ..." It's a psychological trick for butthurt oneitis sufferers to use to let them know that all things pass, including relationships. Give perspective to the situation. Sort of like "you can't win 'em all" is not advocating losing every time. It's just a reminder. Especially noobs who are in their first, 2nd, 3rd, relationship, they don't get that it won't be forever, their young hormones are working overtime to sabotage them by …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 09:46 PM
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Always be willing to walk away Pretty much every other rule flows from this - and its correllary IDGAF. So much focus on "frame" on these boards, what are the rules of "frame", "did I lose frame" all kinds of spinning. But if you truly don't give a fuck and are willing to walk away, the rest is easy.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 08:23 PM
3

Don't overthink it man. you laugh and toss one back to him, you smile and ignore him*, or you try to one-up the insult on the way back.* If a woman told me it looked like I was plumping up, see bold text above. Literally there's only three possible responses to any shit test, choose the appropriate one. Also, if I was flirting with a woman and getting good IOIs I might agree and amplify just to give her a jolt of feelz, who cares if she *pretends* she doesn't like it.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/19 11:14 PM
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how it got its name. Friend: "You get laid being so short?" Thot: "I don't date short people!" Same shit.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 02:04 AM
4

Dude this reeks of lack of self confidence, and failure to screen early on for a decent woman. There's simple solutions to all this. "she plops her ass down on the couch and starts fucking with her phone until you actually instruct her to do something" Like, don't see your woman when she's tired and just home from work. Only schedule meetings for when you're both at your best. If you have to see her "after work" give her an hour, 90 minutes to go home and settle down and relax. "Hey babe, go hom…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 08:34 PM
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It's funny that when a fellow dude blows you shit, you laugh and toss one back to him, you smile and ignore him, or you try to one-up the insult on the way back. When a woman blows a dude shit, dudes fall apart and don't know how to act. Same shit being blown, totally different response when it's a woman. And when a woman does it it's called ... a shit test. Now you know the rest of the story.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 08:18 PM
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Good points. Response: But society isnt a check anymore. It really is. Most honeys aren't whoring it up in clubs or flashing their stuff on insta. You may be immersed in that crowd so that's all you see. I'm not, I'm in my '50s so I don't club or go to party beaches. But I have family and friends with teen/20s kids and they're all normal, really good kids, their friends are all normal. I also teach yoga to lots of young kids and they're all real nice and sincere and normal. Men became desperate …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 07:53 PM
11

The ones that make me laugh are the ones I've kept around for a while.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 07:19 PM
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They also suck at flirting, since that also requires a good amount of risk as well. Ain't this the truth! The other day I was meeting with a woman to talk about business stuff - networking over coffee, we'd met a few times before at networking events. Maybe a little attraction but I wasn't clear in my head if I wanted to go for it or not so I didn't even flirt with her (might try to bang her next week I finally decided). At some point near the end of the meeting a meetup comes up and I said some…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 07:17 PM
1

How about you do that while I plow your girlfriend? LOL, who "down" voted this? It's classic.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 07:12 PM
3

This time explain what I got wrong logically. ok, keeping in mind that whenever someone says explain it "logically" I've found they're generally close minded and inclined to defend their "logically" derived conclusions no matter what: Logical point #3: Red Pill teaches men how to fuck lots of women successfully. No, it doesn't. It teaches alpha men how to be alpha men. Fucking lots of women is not a basic red pill tenet. Some guys may choose to, some may not. I choose not to, I generally have a …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 07:01 PM
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While men are conditioned to provide for their sexual mate, women are not conditioned to view their provider as their sexual mate. This comment wins the internet for this week.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 04:19 PM
6

Cainprice, lecturing his woman because she's already chosen her phone over him: "If I take the time to grill steaks for dinner, then when I say they're ready, you should put your phone down and come sit at the table. In fact, you should set the table while I'm out back grilling and open a bottle of wine. If you don't know which one to pick, ask. _do_not_read_this_ out grilling, because he knows his woman will do what she's told because he leads, not lectures: "Babe, grab that bottle of wine on t…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 03:15 PM
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I'm seeing a woman that makes me laugh, even in her texts. She's my Saturday night gal. Another one just sits and looks at me like a puppy, "what's next? what's next? what's next?" She's my Tuesday afternoon gal. See how that works for them?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 03:10 PM
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Ain't no "try to fuck" about it, the article says women are openly proposing this to their beta boys. "Let me fuck other guys and I'll still be yours too". In other words, they're leading on the beta letting him think they're in a "relationship" that isn't orbiter, so he can tell his friends and post pictures of himself with his flannel and weak beard and watch cap "carelessly" placed on the back of his head, on Insta, which keeps him happy; she gets Billy's attention and $$$; while she fucks Ch…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 03:06 PM
72

A woman's ability to make me laugh can make up for lots of other faults.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 02:26 PM
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Because they want their cake (Alpha fucks) and to eat it too (beta bux). And because Beta Bux are increasingly more "beta", the women likely think it's easier to get away with this "open" shit and the beta will go along with it. You all know why, I'm not going to go deeper than that.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 02:26 PM
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I'm old enough to remember when "casual Friday" started back in the mid '90s. It was real uncomfortable the first few times *not* wearing a suit to the office. I would still wear a suit, just without the tie. Oh how far we've gone, indeed.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 06:35 PM
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It's so common that in 20 fucking plus years of the internet I've never heard of it. My reaction is that I don't want that shit in my computer's history, I don't want anyone tracking that I went to some shit web site like that. Keep your fucking jerk off snuff materials to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 11:02 PM
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"NSFL" means absofuckinglutely nothing to me.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 10:20 PM
3

This is a video of someone hanging themselves to death. Hey asshole, how about a warning when you link to this shit? Something like, "here is a video of someone hanging themselves to death"? And who is upvoting this shit? What the fuck is wrong with you people?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 07:48 PM
1

You never vocalize "I want to fuck you" after only a few dates. That never works. Once you know the woman and how she reacts to you, you can maybe pull it off, "Hey babe, let's go back to my place and bang one out" with a wry smile. But that should *never* be your go-to move. You still gotta play the game.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 10:19 PM
1

to his credit, his response to my first post sounds like he really wants to learn.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 10:16 PM
6

And to answer your other question: I get just as many women as I want. I screen heavily for compatibility before I fuck them "N" counts, fucking as many women as you can in a year, always seemed kind of silly to me. I'm older though, in my '50s. I'd rather have a few women I don't mind spending time with *after* we fuck, than have a lot of women I fuck that I don't care to spend time with. I understand the theory espoused about "N" counts though, that the more women you fuck the more likely you'…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 04:58 PM
24

I just find "we're at war" analogies distasteful. People use them in my profession and they just sound like idiots standing their in suits and ties up in posh high rises pretending it's a "war". After "anger phase", if you truly get it, eventually you'll find peaceful acceptance of the true nature of humanity, a surprisingly Bhuddist viewpoint. You'll start seeing people as people and not just a collection of preconceived ideas. You'll stop judging people based on scant facts, "Oh he's wearing a…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 04:46 PM
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Much love to all the mods and ECs and the soldiers out there fighting in this pussy war. Men are here to struggle and fight. WTF, anger phase? This isn't a "war" and we're not "soldiers" and we're definitely not fighting anyone. Women are not the "enemy" to be defeated. Believe it or not, men and women are seeking the same goals with each other. We just have different ways of going about it. I would note, you can't control a woman's behavior, but you can control your reaction to it. You seem to …
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 03:33 PM
1

It's spam to drive "clicks" to this dude's (and the few others who do this) web site so I dunno, they get advertising dollars or something? I don't know how this world wide web works. I posted a few weeks ago that I wished they at least would have the courtesy to post a synopsis of their blog post, got no response. Basically when I see on my feed that it's a "theredquest" post I generally ignore it.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 03:16 PM
1

I'm with Mindless - let's just stick to the rules. Who gets to determine the exceptions? I've got some great examples from books I've read recently, I want them to be exceptions.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 03:15 PM
14

You know who likes having their speech and grammar corrected by a random stranger? Nobody. What is this shit?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 11:30 AM
20

I always found either a thumb pressed firmly into one's opponent's eye, or grabbing his larynx and trying to touch my fingers behind it, to be the quickest way to subdue someone. They instinctively back off and try to grab my hand with both theirs instead of using them to fight Granted, I've only used these 3, maybe 4 times in my life. But get jumped on the train by 4 drunks, "grappling" and "MMA" might not be the best option.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 01:36 PM
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There are plenty more things but you get the idea. This LOL'd me. We have been together coming up on two years and have been living together for the last two months This LOL'd me twice as much. Now the fact that she can't do these things isn't the problem on it's own Dude, you're killing me here! she's my rock. Hopefully he'll "do the right thing"tm Kudos to him for *finally* asking for help.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 08:17 PM
7

Do you even know what a vasectomy is? 'Cause it sounds like you don't.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 02:09 AM
5

LOL for some of us 40 year olds are young chicks. And I dig "older" women - again, LOL. There's a maturity and directness that many have which takes a lot of the assing around out of the relationship. Also, there's more to "sexy" than just youth. You'll learn one day. You'll be 50+ and you'll see what I mean.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 05:43 PM
3

Dude likes 40 year old women, so what? It's his thing, he's happy with it, he's getting laid apparently. Leave the dude alone.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 05:40 PM
18

You know who likes unsolicited advice on how to run their lives? Nobody.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 05:39 PM
1

Technically the tl;dr should be at the beginning of a long post, LOL to that.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/19 02:24 PM
3

Shit, by that definition *I* was the "Karen" last night at the restaurant when I complained to the manager about something, LOL. But I got Results! <slams closed fist into open palm for emphasis>
/r/TheRedPill06/10/19 11:52 AM
5

I'll betcha a nickel your 10 year sex-less buddy finds himself a "Chaddy" - I just made that up, it's a daddy to Chad's kid - wondering which of the 4 times they had sex last year got her pregnant, and why the kid has the opposite hair color of him. Betch he'll "do the right thing" and marry her, too. Poor sap.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/19 11:50 AM
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This is a great post, have you tried it in the field? LOL see what I did there? Seriously though, the less you speak the less chance you have of saying something stupid. And in today's world of constant butthurt, that's a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 11:07 PM
23

Feminism is one giant sociatal shit test, and we're failing miserably. The goal is "equality" when there can be no equality among any two people, let alone millions. It's also a communist goal, to de-masculanize men and elevate women to positions formerly held by men. Sissy men don't fight back.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 01:41 PM
1

There's a pretty good 100% chance, yes.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 07:04 PM
1

You know she's a hooker, right?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 07:01 PM
3

Yep. Funny thing is, now that I have this attitude I still want to do things to make my women happy, but it comes not from a "I must make sure you're happy all the time or I'll lose you" place, but from a "She's been a good girl lately, I want to reward her with something she likes", more paternalistic. I did something for one the other day, not something I would have done on my own (or could have, it was a thing her kids were doing at school), but I went with her it as a reward to her for beein…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 12:30 PM
11

Cunts. Not you, them. I will continue to jerk off libs on my local forum until I am banned.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 12:25 AM
0

I try to write in a more conversational tone, as if I'm speaking not typing.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 10:08 PM
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"if it makes her happy, then it's worth it" That used to be my default sex philosophy, and also somewhat in non-sex situation ("If she wants to go see this concert, what do I care, let's go.") Red Pill though has started me asking, "what's in it for me"? and if the answer is solely "it makes her happy" then I start to question if it's something I want to do, inasmuch as I'm living my life for me, now. I'm not here to make someone else happy, that's their job. We can enjoy being together and doin…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 08:34 PM
3

There’s so many men now. This. I go out a lot by myself and I'll be at a restaurant that has 2, 3, 4 other lonely dudes eating by themselves. I do it because I just like going out alone and reading and having a drink or dinner. These dudes though all look so lost.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 06:00 PM
4

LOL when I first went single a few years back, I internetted "where to meet women" and "out shopping for groceries" was always like first on all the lists. Literally, I've never seen an attractive woman out shopping for groceries in all that time. Maybe one or two. It's always sad looking middle aged dudes wandering around the store like they're lost.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 05:20 PM
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Curious who Paul Elam is, but not curious enought to bother to look it up. Something struck me when I read it a few years back, and it stuck with me, which you get into here: It's not a man's job to follow a woman into degeneracy, it's the man's job to prevent her from doing it. They'll let their wives and daughters slide deeper and deeper into degeneracy without saying a word. And it's not White Knighting to do so. I think it's strong willed to say "No" when the woman you're seeing starts going…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 04:31 PM
5

... because it needed *even more* content.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 09:24 PM
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I'd say what's the tl;dr but even that would be 1000 words long. Good luck WAAAAAAAYYYYYYY overthinking this, dude.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 09:19 PM
2

I saw a girl for a while that had "meaningful" ink that was well done and on her, at her age, was kind of sexy, and I respected that, but she otherwise had all the other red flags that the OP points out, daddy issues, liked it rough, drinker, etc. Also she was slowly getting a sleave and I don't like the looks of sleave tattoos in general.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 04:14 PM
2

I love how women look without makeup, even. One that I'm seeing now is a completely different person with and without, and frankly without is sexier even though with makeup she still looks great. Literally I've never dated a woman that I think, "Jeez I wish she'd put on more makeup." That said, this is my thing and I don't expect everyone to agree. I respect your and other's experience re: women with ink, because you and others study the issue, take notes, track your progress, etc, and I use tha…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 04:11 PM
2

Don't want to dox myself when the book comes out. I may do it from a different account. But there's a lot of RP in it, so keep reading here.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 11:39 AM
3

Lazy, huh? Pretty much ignored what you had to say because you felt the need to be insulting. Good luck living in your non-Western shithole.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 11:38 PM
12

It would be nice if there was a tl;dr for all these click-bait articles.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 06:57 PM
7

Yep. I suppose one could use politics for teasing, "You must be excited that Trump's getting a second term" with a smile and a poke in the ribs, but I would say don't overdo it if she's like a hyper-lib. They tend to be angry and vengeful, as my reddit posting history attests.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 06:54 PM
1

LOL I just do this anyway, I don't even give them a chance to demand it. I love spitting in women's faces. Make them open their mouth and spit in their mouth.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 06:22 PM
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American women like to be choked, spanked and have their faces spit into. FIFY. And in my experience it's like close to 100%. Beyond that I couldn't tell you the politics of any woman I've dated in the last two years. I don't care and I change the subject if it even comes up.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 06:21 PM
1

It's not what you told her, it's why you told her and how you told her. Women are psychic, don't ever forget that, your words are only one method they use to communicate. They see micro-expressions in your face, flushing, they see your eyes water, they hear the neediness in your voice. I've told women about my shitty marriage, in fact I'm writing a book about it. But I tell them about "my past" (because they all want to hear about it for some reason) in this context: that I'm writing the book to…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 11:39 PM
12

1, it's a great mind and body workout. It's a moving meditation that can build strength and flexibility. 2, I teach it which is one of my missions, bringing (1) to other people
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 02:13 PM
13

There was a super cutie in my yoga class the other day. Sort of Irish looking, young, thin, great body. I've gotten used to - and sort of like the look on some chicks - of a little puff of armpit hair. But the fucking leg hair coming out of the bottom of her yoga pants was more than I have on my hairy legs. And as much as I like a neat, dank yoga sweaty bush, the thought of the jungle she probably had going was such a turn off. Some days I wonder how the girls these days get laid, with all the s…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 11:29 AM
13

Dude should just stop fucking her and taking her out. "Sure, do what you want. You look like a pig. I'm sure you'll find someone who's into that. Buh bye." Then who's the asshole?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 11:25 AM
13

going outside is a good start. It's weird you have to tell people this but here we are.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 01:12 AM
4

Simpsons "I'm trying to get fired"
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 08:12 PM
1

I've been reading a lot of older English literature lately - 1800s and early 1900s up to WWII - and it's curious to see that back then people "fell in love" and got married in about a week, maybe a couple of weeks. And then for the most part committed to it (I know they're just stories ...) A lot of them were also "arranged" in that the male's *or* female's social status was a definite factor. "Does he have a title" sort of thing. I'm not sure things have changed much in terms of female expectat…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 03:15 PM
9

Wow. A lazy cop who was also a dickhead. Probably the only one out there. /
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 02:32 AM
4

Life kicks you in the balls from all different directions, Sally. You can't control what happens, only your reaction to it. Subsitute "impregnated your fiancee" with any tragedy that needs overcoming. You can cry like a little girl like in the OP. I choose to stay strong, stoic and independent. Do you honestly believe the brother just out of the blue, all of a sudden, did this? Or is it more likely that he was a jagoff who pulled these kinds of stunts in the past.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 02:48 AM
9

Amused indifference. A slight laugh and a "good, luck, bro" then move on with your life, minimizing contact with Matt because he's a dick, and I'm guessing they all knew he was a dick long before this happened. It's John's oneitis that's killing him.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 11:23 PM
27

"if" LOL. The best predictor of future behavior is relevant past behavior. "if" you're cracking me up dude.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 11:19 PM
6

You choose the actions, you choose the consequences. And shitty actions have shitty consequences. The parents need to show some leadership though when it comes to their grandchild.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 11:18 PM
1

Doesn't effect me, I'm already born. I'll be dead long before anyone born with edited genes hits the sexual marketplace. They got this already, it's called a vasectomy and if done correctly it's 100% effective. Don't fuck homos, total fucking skanks, or IV drug users and you'll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 01:54 PM
3

To not fuck a woman because somehow you think she is magically attached to some other man because she once had some party and promised some things to some imaginary skygod is literally a mental illness. Yeah but that's not what the OP in the other thread, to which this thread is a response, was doing. His own stated reason for fucking a woman, which he said he wasn't even attracted to, was because his old friend, her husband, became a beta. That's fucked.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/19 03:20 PM
1

No, TRP does not teach amorality. It teaches only that "sexual strategy" is amoral, that is, the animal imperative to procreate is an urge that is without morals. The human instinct to procreate would lead to rape and incest and sex with minors, if left unchecked. ​ "TRP" on the other hand is broader than just getting laid. TRP is about being the best "man" you can be. Within that is the building of a personal, internal morality based on maturity, education, self-reliance, and service to one's m…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/19 10:31 AM
3

No, TRP does not teach amorality. It teaches only that "sexual strategy" is amoral, that is, the animal imperative to procreate is an urge that is without morals. The human instinct to procreate would lead to rape and incest and sex with minors, if left unchecked. "TRP" on the other hand is broader than just getting laid. TRP is about being the best "man" you can be. Within that is the building of a personal, internal morality based on maturity, education, self-reliance, and service to one's mis…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/19 10:13 AM
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Actually, kind of a cool story. Good for you.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 04:38 PM
4

All women are sloppy seconds. Chances are if she's fucking around, then she's not getting it at home and hasn't in a long time.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 04:34 PM
7

It's not that he's fucking beta brides, that's fine. It's that he thinks it's his duty to teach the beta husbands a lesson for being beta, that's what's fucked in the head.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 12:29 PM
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What is going on in this thread with this "revenge against betas" fantasy shit? Sexual strategy is amoral but that doesn't mean you deliberately set out to fuck some other man's wife (which on its own I'm not against) just because he's a beta and for some reason you're pissed at him for it. And it doesn't mean you stalk a woman to try to find a way to fuck her. That's sociopathic. Actions still have consequences and if you can't anticipate those consequences and take them into consideration, or …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 11:55 AM
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"Glad" you fucked another man's unattractive wife solely because you think he's a beta is sociopathic. And the stalking doesn't make you less sociopathic.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 11:51 AM
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First, sexual strategy has no ethics. If two consenting adults want to fuck, their circumstances are their problem. Second, "introduce him to trp" is the exact opposite of the appropriate thing to do. Who's upvoting this nonsense?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 11:49 AM
3

Well he did mention "breasts", so there's that.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 08:10 PM
0

People pay you to tell them to wash their penises? Subtitle of this post should be "what in the fuck is going on with this country?"
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 03:33 PM
1

tl;dr: it's a 2500 word tribute to that old Italian lady that cooks on public t.v., Lidia something.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 04:27 PM
2

So, went out yesterday to run some day game and was sorely disappointed. I've never had any luck when my sole purpose was to meet women. I meet them when I'm out doing my own awesome stuff and the convo / meeting comes up "naturally" (that is to say, when there is a real, plausible purpose to opening other than just being out to open). Women know when they're being gamed and it's a turn off for them. [edit: "I'm trying to get laid" is not an attractive presentation for a man] Not enough hot chic…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 03:15 PM
3

tl; dr: not everyone wants to watch a 20 minute video to find out why it's important to TRP principles.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 12:17 PM
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Not sure what this is, I don't have a little dick so maybe it doesn't apply to me?
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 01:51 PM
10

Maybe he likes horse faced women. Personally I got nothing against them.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 11:54 PM
13

Then why the fuck did she need access to your money? I'm guessing there's a dozen lessons you're learning this week. Dude. Seriously, Dude.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 11:52 PM
2

If you get the right albeit expensive sunglasses, they will have better, clearer lenses, and it's more likely they'll have better UV protection instead of just a sticker saying they have UV protection. The better to see all the plates you're spinning.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 05:34 PM
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In addition, some give a "maybe" thinking they're being coy because they have so many Billy Betas constantly hitting them up over and over - "why not?" or "Come on please?" or "It'll be fun, we can do something else that you like" - and they have learned that this is how to be asked out, or they just like the constant attention. I think giving *them* a soft blow off - "Okay maybe we'll do something cool some other time" - could be so new to them, IDGAF and all that, that they're not used to bein…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 12:38 AM
1

The first time I read about this template I used it four times in a row with four "yes" responses in a row. There's a reason it's a classic.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 12:34 AM
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I finally took the time to watch a video of her speaking earlier this year, holy fuck is that creepy! How could *anyone* have followed anything she had to say, especially when it was so obviously a con job.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 11:53 AM
1

One of the other points in my book is that just being aware of the situation, and talking about it, can actually resolve the situation to everyone's benefit. It doesn't always have to be a bail-out situation (mine was), but it can't fester, that's not healthy. You're not the same people who got married ten years ago. You may have grown together but for most people it's unconscious, they just let life carry them along. You did everything I'm proposing be done in the book.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 05:50 PM
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one of my missions is writing a book about my marriage. A main tenet of the book is that anyone in a bad marriage situation needs to bail as soon as possible. The hard part is (a) overcoming societal programming of "being the good husband" and (b) recognizing that you're in a tough situation. Nothing against her, it was just an unfortunate situation. I don't want to give more deets, lest I dox myself. But good for you. Sounds like your wife needed your leadership.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 04:32 PM
1

French women fucked Nazi occupiers during WWII. You'd think they would hate them, but apparently not.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 12:06 PM
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Dunno why we need to reenforce this You can tell someone something 100 times the same way and they just won't get it. Say it a different way and it's like a light bulb going off.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 12:05 PM
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Ain't no "we" about it, brother. I hold zero blame for having a criminal act by a stranger perpetrated on me. You, on the other hand, were 100% in control of what you did, and from your post you knew you were doing something you shouldn't have, but chose to do it anyway. Congratulations on having a worse stalker story than me. Thanks. Except mine's true, not a story; and you didn't have a stalker, you had an angry ex with poor boundary controls.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 02:51 PM
7

Right? My point exactly. OPs problem is solvable albeit unpleasant, and entirely his fault for violating a fundamental tenat of Chick Banging 101.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 12:28 PM
1

You described a relationship gone bad with a chick who maybe didn't have strong boundaries, not a stalker. I had an actual stalker, some women I'd never met before saw me on the street of the city where I used to live and decided to follow me. Oh, she tried talking to me a few times on the street and I figured she was nuts, homeless, that sort of thing (turned out I was right). She created an entire fantasy world where we were lovers. She befriended people around me - my friends and co-workers -…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 11:47 AM
4

If it means you're kind of an asshole, then yes, yes I do know what it means.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/19 01:49 AM
15

I for one appreciated seeing the thought process behind the texting. Especially in the context of politics which can be a major shit test (which I don't think was the point of the post but it is a great example of DGAF when texting).
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 10:11 PM
3

It's not false. It's a time-proven method that works, and works well, and works most all the time. Or you can keep sending fucking smiley heart-eye emojis to your sweetums while she's laying in my bed naked. Don't matter to me.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 09:28 PM
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Nonstop texting over weeks and months without actually meeting the chick makes it look like you're a pussy *and* that you ain't doing shit in your life. Be man, take charge, make a decision. It's basic decision tree: Will she go out with me? At that point, it's yes or no, question answered. No more fretting over the meaning of every fucking emoji she sends, why didn't she reply right away, what does this or that fucking nonsense text mean. Grow up man, and be quiet. Maybe you'll learn something.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 09:14 PM
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Seriously, she's hot, she's interested, she has a great body. Yes, yes I do think we'd get along just fine. Edit: assuming you have and maintain a DGAF attutude. What do I give a fuck what your politics are?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 09:11 PM
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I dig what you did there. That said, I personally live in a *very* liberal city - lezbo police chief, probably lezbo mayor, it's bad, but the rest of the area is super conservative, and there's mountains. My preference is to leave politics completely out of it, ignore and deflect when it's brought up. That's worked for me, and I've dated a few low caliber feminists. I'm high value so they get the hint when I say I'm too busy to protest whatever the fuck they're protesting, and smile at them, but…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 09:08 PM
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Unfortunately there is no "next stop". Libs have controlled the media, and thus the content being discussed online and on the airwaves, for a hundred years. It's like fascism 101, never let the other guy's ideas even be heard. While our side was out working and trying to be let alone, their side was in the schools indoctrinating the children, in the courts making rules as judges, and in politics making laws.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 11:25 PM
3

LOL I've been banned from every Reddit forum I've joined, including r-sex, except this one. I literally was told I can't talk about sex ... on the internet!
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 11:21 PM
11

You: too fucking bad, we're getting nachos.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 09:19 PM
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Nope. This comes up all the time. "what do you want for dinner" "I don't know what do you want" "Do you need to stop at the rest stop?" "What movie should we go see?" It's been a literal constant in all my relationships: 1. Women can't make decisions. And 2. Women tell me words to the effect "sounds great babe" or "You decide" or "Whatever you want babe." One told me the other day "I spend all day making decisions, when I'm with you I'll let you decide" Women are naturally followers. Fucking lea…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 09:16 PM
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It's super important to be aware of this. It can come up at any time. Ask, and if she's indecisive, make the damn decision. Solid post. Brief and to the point.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 09:13 PM
1

LOL, "Eric" is already buying cute baby clothes, I'm going put this in the "deserves what he gets" category!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/19 04:40 PM
5

This post shows yet again that when men lead women in conversation, the banter can be fun, entertaining, sexy, informative and purposeful. But when women are left on their own to write even 100 words about themselves, they can't come up with an original or interesting thought.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/19 04:39 PM
1

I've literally had dates where the girl brought me delicious food, fucked me, handed me a beer, and left, and I never even had to get up off my couch. So I can't say as I blame her!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/19 04:38 PM
6

yet she is in school to be a doctor psychic?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/19 01:49 AM
11

Probably didn't give any thought to whom she was getting married, either. Until now that is, now that she sees how lazy and uncompromising he is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/19 01:45 AM
1

Holy everlasting fuck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/19 01:44 AM
11

Right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/19 12:58 AM
8

I just figured she spelled "cock" wrong, was looking for "oh and good cock"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/19 11:18 AM
4

Twice she says she's married, there's yer' cuck right there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/19 02:03 AM
7

"Drinks frequently" Wow, really?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/19 02:02 AM
1

Hi I'm a plain Jane. Here's a list of rules for you to follow. Great way to start a relationship. I'll pass, babe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/19 04:53 PM
1

^ this guy gets it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/19 04:07 PM
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LOL who downvotes banging *both* hot 20 and hot 50 year olds? Double your pleasure! Also thanks for the nickname whoever did that, it's fun even though I don't have kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/19 04:06 PM
21

"Also, here's my boobs."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/19 04:01 PM
1

I'm just going to politely smile at your response with the knowledge that in a few years you'll be 50+, and then you'll get it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/19 12:31 PM
4

ipso facto, there has never been monogamy.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 12:01 PM
10

Literally the day I turned 50 I got my first AARP invitation to join in the mail. Come to find out they have like teams of super-scientists working to find out where you live and what day your 50th birthday is on, and what day to mail that first mailer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/19 12:01 PM
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Both. Duh.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/19 11:59 AM
7

Dude, you really want to argue about the difference between "rules" and "guidelines"? LOL
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 11:49 AM
1

What non total asshole would ever tell a woman she's "worthless" after 30? Oh, right, women get to make up quotes that men didn't say, and then get angry at the men for the quote the men didn't say. I see this on the webbernet all the time, LOL, and I always call them out on it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/19 11:46 AM
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Dude I'm in my '50s and date women in their 30, 40, 50s all the time. And obviously I find them attractive. Your biology will change as you get older so that you find older women attractive. And if you're not an asshole about it, you can share many "firsts" LOL like that's the goal of a relationship!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/19 11:44 AM
2

There's never been monogamy. Don't equate pledged monogamy and marriage, with actual monogamy. "Cheating" is as old as marriage, the two go together.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 11:38 AM
1

then it would be fine for women to do the same by extension. Absolutely false. Men and women are wired differently, literally, in our DNA. Do some reading, man, all this shit is out there.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 11:36 AM
3

Do you ever wonder why brides and grooms smile so much in their wedding pictures? He's happy because he thinks he's getting daily blowjobs for life. She's happy because she doesn't have to give blowjobs anymore.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 11:33 AM
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Dude the entire side bar is a set of gay ass rules, and you're a senior endorsed contributor of those gay ass rules. And spinning plates is like the foundation of TRP-relationships. Having a bad day, Gay?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 11:26 AM
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The single highest risk factor for child sexual abuse is a non-related adult living in the household with the child. That's straight out of Dr. Phil right there. Single mothers are prime targets for these guys. Dr. Phil also.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/19 03:27 PM
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Shit I'll say it even though it's not technically "on topic": the picture of the kid pulling its mouth open is like an invitation for ... weirdos ... is what I'll call them. I don't even have kids and I'm totally aware of the risk of single mothers with small children attracting ... weirdos ... Nice work "mom".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/19 03:05 PM
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Down vote me all you want, this is exactly what the OP said: Remember, this post is aimed at beginners who have spend their plugged in lives either white knighting or being the niceguy ... After that, yes, they can practice all your intrigue, mistery, push pull, etc.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 02:27 PM
2

So in other words, here's an easy, four step, simple but unproven method to get laid that works. But the rest of us with experience and know-how have to keep doing it the harder way? Thanks, makes perfect sense. /
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 12:01 PM
5

Aren't they pretty much the same thing?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/19 11:53 AM
7

its not like things can get any worse is it In other words, she recognizes that you guys are the bottom of the barrel, let's see whatcha got.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/19 02:01 AM
11

She's leaving out the $43,000 in credit card debt that's she's been living on since B-daddy went "on vacation".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/19 03:35 PM
6

Or when I'm half asleep. That's how they getcha!
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 03:26 PM
8

We know she's tall, does she really tell us anything else? LOL, what's *your* credit score, Honey?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/19 11:28 AM
1

We should also be concerned that the "media" thinks a dude getting a massage and *maybe* exposing his weener is something that needs to be reported.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 11:11 AM
4

The word "denoument" appears in the quoted portion of your post. I merely commented on my opinion of people who use it. Not you, Jack. The person you quoted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/19 04:08 PM
8

Try this honey: Text: "Hey Chad [not her bf's name] last night was incredible, the way you went from my butt to my mouth without asking ..." etc. Or this: "Hey Babe, remember when we talked about how we don't want kids together ..." etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/19 03:35 PM
1

denouement Who uses that word? Oh, right, pretentious SJW Hahvahd edumacated lefties.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/19 11:39 AM
14

It's just math. Hard to refute, that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/19 11:37 AM
15

What the fuck, that picture?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/19 09:34 PM
3

I am organized, loving, recepting, and an active listener Hey, she is literally the first one of these posts I've seen in a month where she listed some kind of attributes beyond "I need a man!" and "I love cake!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/19 03:19 PM
1

"Don't expect a fuck or suck first meet: ​ "Mamma of 8 beautiful babies" ​ Shit she'd probably get pregnant just sucking on it. Pass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/19 11:26 AM
2

I got banned from posting on the sex subreddit. Literally, I got banned from talking about sex on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/19 07:47 PM
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Sorry honey, I'm a grown man. I don't speak in cartoons. Now swallow the cake that's in your mouth and tell me what you really want. Besides more cake.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/19 02:32 PM
6

Liberal virtue signalling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/19 02:31 PM
1

The price being, of course, just *one* more slice of chocolate cake. Just a little one, though, she's dieting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/19 02:31 PM
8

Getting tired of ... So she's not quiet done with it yet...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/19 02:30 PM
6

Betcha if my profile said I'm an abusive man who wanted to bang by the second date, was a racist, homophobic hunter, she'd be chasing me down the street to bang me. Being tall, however, is always non-negotiable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/19 02:25 PM
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... short guys, racists, homophobes, hunters ...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/19 02:23 PM
5

I've been reading lots of early and mid-century British literature the last year or so, and man, RP/BP all over the place! It would be interesting to trade notes with people on good RP fiction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/19 10:19 PM
1

Oprah and Gayle. You meant to say Oprah and Gayle.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/19 11:28 AM
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