-Beginning:
This question recently came when one of my friends discovered The Red Pill. So, following the standard route this community often propagates, I guided him to the sidebar.
Over the course of a month, a lot of material was read, some observations of common situations made, also, personal goals were set up and now he is following them to increase his SMV. Although, he is already buff and has a personal style developed, when it comes to game, women and approaching, he still operates from a bluepilled mindset, postponing game practice as if he is not ready (common answer: I need to work on myself more). I understand that this is natural for a beginner who has barely started rewiring years of social programming, but in such thinking, I noticed that most men progress slowly in seduction, and that there needs to be a random breakthrough, with at least one woman, while they are aware of TRP, which prompts them to take more action. So how can this breakthrough be achieved for beginners without knowing the many complexities of game?
-Body:
Imagine a man full of theoretical knowledge on how to game women, but zero practical skill. His first few times gaming women will go bad, he will fumble, be very nervous no matter how well he knows theory and he will definitely forget to use most of the stuff he learned because of his anxiety. This man still, on a subconscious level, believes that game is bad and that those YouTube videos he saw of infield footage are cool, but he is not fully convinced that it works. We would say to this man that he is lacking experience in practicing game, obviously, but that will not affect his results until he reaches a breakthrough because his blue pilled beliefs are holding him back.
By doing research on primal psychology, I've learned that a breakthrough can be achieved with only knowing 4 concepts on a simple level: Frame, Congruence, Leading and Indicators of Interest (IOIs).
Those can be developed without having game at all, simply, by being brutally honest with others and a small quantity of theory on the fundamental IOIs.
For this to work more smoothly, a man would need to approach a yes girl. The opener doesn't matter as long as you say "Hi, I'm [insert name here], what's your name? ". What you are looking for in a yes girl, is that she steps closer to you when you approach her and holds strong eye contact. Anyways, look for those and lead the conversation by asking about whatever comes to your mind for a minute or two. After that, drop the real reason why you approached her: 'We should hook up' or 'I want to hook up with you' - do not ask this because asking for something sexual is not leading. Look her in the eyes and say what you truly mean. (If she is with a friend, whisper that statement into her ear)
-Ending:
If she's interested she will say something along the lines of: what? right now? To which you will answer yes and you will figure out the rest.
If, by failing to notice those IOIs you come upon a no girl, she will answer your statement in a simple "no, not interested" and that will be it.
If, however, she is a maybe girl, there are two responses. The first one, after saying no, she will provide excuses (no, I don't sleep with strangers that I just met) to which you can reply by pushing the idea of you hooking up more. The second response is usually dramatical as in 'I am a lady and you are rude! Bla bla bla!). These latter maybe women require you to have a really solid frame and they will test you hard. So, for beginners, I would recommend just bailing from the interaction.
This concludes my guide on how to achieve your first breakthrough in seduction, so that you could actually start practicing and fully believing in game which will help you to convert those maybe girls into yes girls.
If you have any further questions, do not hesitate to ask.
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