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You can be polite and still maintain an alpha frame. Saying "thank you" deliberately in a clear voice with a strong tone is fine when the clerk at the store hands you your change. Saying "oh, thank you so much" in a feminine, upspeak kind of way is the type of thing that makes you seem like a fag. A strong masculine man tends to move through the world treating people with respect. It signals a frame of self confidence. In my opinion "ladies first" should only apply to orgasms and saying "I love …
/r/askTRP11/06/20 12:14 PM
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I've never heard the lion story. Can you give a synopsis?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 12:07 PM
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What I have to ask is what is your guard up for? What are you protecting? Your ego? Your pride? I can't speak for the OP. For guys like me who have had a BP mindset for decades and have listened to all of the romcom bs and lovey dovey songs through the years come from a mindset where spilling your emotions, fears and weaknesses is supposed to make her love you more. For guys like me who are trying to improve ourselves into stone cold, goal achieving Chads, it is important to keep TRP in the fron…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 02:13 PM
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Quit video games. Completely. I did this about 1.5 years ago and it has had a profound effect on my life. I wasn't even a video game addict or anything, but I found it was easy to just waste my time with them. Cut our browsing anything on reddit that doesn't either help you in your mission or help you find that mission. Read. There is a pack of something like 50 TRP books floating around this sub somewhere. Set an alarm on your days off. Make yourself wake up and eat breakfast. As another commen…
/r/askTRP21/09/19 10:58 AM
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Could you dumb this down for me so that I can train my girl to want sex at specific times?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 06:25 PM
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I went from 1-2 a year to 2+ a week not long after taking TRP. Some of us just need to dress better and learn the basics of how women act/react and how to be around them. Then you start to sprinkle in some success and improving your body on top of that and a new chick every week is easily attainable for some guys who are new to this.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 10:51 PM
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If you need to grab her hand and force it onto your dick, you're doing escalation wrong.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 07:42 AM
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Doesn't this contradict humansockpuppet's guide on training your bitches? When she behaves in a way that we like/does things to please us, aren't we supposed to give her a cookie? It seems like withdrawing attention after she gives you a random blowjob in the car is not the best way to get more blowjobs in the car. What am I missing?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 08:44 PM
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My philosophy for noobs is, maintain MVP, start getting laid, and then go focus on being a 1%er in your career trajectory. I am glad to see an EC say this. There are so many people on TRP ramming shit down noobs throats about not fucking bitches and just focusing on becoming a millionaire or some shit. Become a viable option in the SMV, then focus on all of the improving you for yourself and not for women stuff.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 04:59 AM
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You have a defeatist attitude. If you aren't willing to better yourself and let go of the story about yourself that you've made in your head, then there is nothing anyone can do for you. The OP seems to be an attempt at laying the blame for your failures at the feet of our culture. This TRP stuff doesn't work unless you take action.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:14 PM
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This comment says it all. You are trying to do all of your approaching through the highly competitive and shallow world of tinder. You certainly do need to be at least top 20% but probably more like top 10% to get any kind of steady success on tinder, unless you are ok with HB5 and lower. If you are invisible to women IRL, you are doing it wrong. You need to be a presence. You need to get their attention with well crafted game. I know it is hard to approach. That is where you will get the bigges…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:09 PM
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I'll take the HB10 autist
/r/askTRP24/08/19 05:54 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:46 PM
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I agree, but that doesn't mean that if something isn't in the sidebar it is worthless. One of the top posts "Talking to women - always DARE, never DEER" was top quality. I was hoping to find some more gems like that.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:33 PM
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I didn't really consider this. I know she is really grossed out by it. We had sex last month when she was in her period but it was on the last day or two when she was barely bleeding and I had to really turn her on before she would even do that. Maybe I need to get a vibrator on my way there. I'm all about eating her bloody pussy but i know there is no way that she would be able to get over the self conciousness enough to enjoy it.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 06:50 PM
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Coach red pill is an annoying turd. His tone, the off rhythm to his speech, everything about that guy just screams "I'm a lying turd".
/r/askTRP21/08/19 06:41 PM
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This is exactly what I do. I just don't know how to stop speaking and writing that way. I'm at least aware of it now though. On a side note, do you think the wordy descriptive speach is good for telling stories to keep it interesting for those reading or listening?
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:09 PM
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Well when speaking to other men outside of a business setting... who cares? I do. Being a better communicator and signaling status is part of my journey to become a better version of the man I am right now.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:53 PM
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That's very helpful, especially the point that people can ways ask for clarification. It just feels like I'm missing some context or not getting my point out there if I were to write it the way you suggest, it just feels robotic. Looking at the sentence you wrote I can see it's not though.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:44 PM
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I'm not specifically referring to speaking to women. If anything this is more of a concern for me outside of sexual dynamics. Btw I'm not a millionaire Chad and I routinely send my plates a message saying "come over" and they usually do.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:40 PM
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Do you think my post above is too wordy? It seems like there is a more succinct way to say it, but if I were to cut it down it would seem lacking context and information.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:24 PM
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Damnit I almost said that exact thing but then thought, "I don't want a blowjob, I want to fucking fuck" so I just said what I said without any more thought.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:37 PM
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I've thought about it but I work on an oil rig that I live on that is a 45 minute drive from civilization. I work 13 hours a day of physical labor, 7 days a week for 2 weeks. If I want to eat right, sleep enough, and lift, I just don't have enough time in the day even if it was just to drive straight to a hotel room and fuck. On the flip side I have 2 weeks off after every 2 weeks on where I spend probably too much time approaching, dating, and fucking. On my 2 weeks off I have sex at least twic…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:29 PM
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On the other hand, you don't get to walk into the candy shop and demand it. That breaks the rules and has consequences. I needed to hear this
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:23 PM
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The same way I think. I care about all of my plates quite a bit. If it was just some slam-pig I would just tell her that I'm making other plans, but I don't really spin them. If I do that here the plate might break. Not like a plate breaking is the end of the world but I prefer to keep them intact when possible.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:21 PM
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Thanks for the help and guidance
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:59 PM
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Very possible, but that is a different issue
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:56 PM
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No, I'm the kid that was on his way to the candy store getting told that he could have some candy after he got all of his chores done. He worked for weeks to get the chores done, sometimes thinking about how good that chocolate bar would taste to give him a little boost in motivation. Then when he was 5 minutes from the candy store he was told, "you don't actually get that candy today. We can just talk instead" all while the kids blood sugar is so low that he probably can't hold a conversation a…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:54 PM
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I got rid of my social media (I only had facebook) about 2 years ago. There has been no downside from it. I see so many BP guys I'm around at work trying to game women via social media and it's really pretty pathetic watching them get all giddy sending dumb selfies back and forth, thinking that it's a guaranteed lay.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 08:33 PM
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This was an amazing read. I am so thankful that TRP had shown me the nature of women that I never wanted to see in my BP days, but then I got to a point where I needed to love then anyway. The plates I spin are not just warm wet holes that I use for sex. They are all people that I love to one degree or another. We have relationships that enrich my life and theirs. We have sex that is always getting better as we get closer to each other. I think that many of the harsh truths are valuable and shou…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 02:54 PM
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That's not the anger phase, that's just being angry.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 11:59 AM
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Don't just ask for her number. Ask her out, then after she says yes, you say "let me get your number in case we need to change the plan" or something along those lines. Then go to create a new contact and hand her your phone so that she can enter the number herself. Don't just ask for her number without her first agreeing to a date, even if a specific date/time isn't established.
/r/seduction20/08/19 11:33 AM
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If you want to spend your time with her then do it. I would consider going out for drinks but I wouldn't go out to a movie. If she is talking about watching a movie at home, that's pretty much a guaranteed lay. If you aren't interested in going out somewhere with her the don't. Tell her you guys will have drinks while staying in. As long as things are escalating I wouldn't drop her because she hasn't let you fuck yet. Some of my favorite plates didn't let me fuck them until date 3. If you don't …
/r/askTRP20/08/19 11:26 AM
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I did all of this except for the losing weight and getting a watch part. Instead of a watch I started wearing a bunch of jewelry (leather braid bracelets, rings, beads, gold chain, gold bracelet, etc.) and I started spending money to get a good haircut. I followed the style guide that is somewhere in the sidebar. I went from not being noticed to constantly getting compliments and attention from women. It's like the whole world changed the way it interacted with me. Gaining muscle has helped but …
/r/askTRP19/08/19 01:15 PM
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I still don't see how that is going to help you. Fear can also be an emotional response to being in a fight but that doesn't help us either, it just makes us look like a pussy. If the anger is back up by dishing a beatdown I can see it being a good response. I think more appropriate than anger, though, would be amused mastery. Not trying to play it off like a zen master, but just looking at the fucker and laughing, knowing that you could get angry and respond the way he wants you to, but you are…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:05 PM
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How would getting angry help you in the situation where a guy shoved you?
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:19 AM
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Wouldn't it be better to, in a cool headed manner, tell them that they crossed a boundary and that you will retaliate?
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:15 AM
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This is not fact, but from an evolutionary psychology perspective, approaching can get you killed, or at the very least keep you from creating offspring. I have heard that this is the reason why approach anxiety is such a universal reaction to attractive women.
/r/seduction16/08/19 10:44 AM
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I'm 6' and 185. I hit 193 about a month ago but got lazy for a few weeks and didn't eat right. If I slip up my gains melt away quickly. I probably didn't look as good as you because my legs are naturally so big. At 190 I have a slight 6 pack and good looking shoulders, but still skinny arms.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 10:39 AM
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I don't understand why you're telling me to stay in my lane. My bones aren't thin though. I just have a fast metabolism. My legs are naturally pretty big and muscular. I have to work hard to keep anything on my upper body though. It takes a shitload of calories just for me to maintain the gains I do have, let alone to gain more. The great thing about being so defined is that the gains I have made look amazing though. If I can hit my goal of 215 without increasing my bf% there won't be a pussy th…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 09:01 PM
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So this below average looking, low smv, nice guy is friendzoning his way into a bunch of pussy, AND they fall head over heels for him? This smells funny...
/r/askTRP05/08/19 05:54 PM
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The usual advice is 2:3, do you find that 1:3 works better or was that a typo?
/r/askTRP05/08/19 03:29 PM
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I've always been skinny. I had some extremely toned muscle from doing intense physical labor though (slight 6pack, vascular biceps, etc.) but you certainly wouldn't call me built. Most women wouldn't give me a second look. Gaining 20lbs of muscle changed that (still want to gain another 25-30). Believe me when I say this. Most women would rather have a guy who is slightly chubby but has muscles, than a guy who is skinny. Women look at skinny guys the same way that we look at fat chicks.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 12:41 PM
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It's from the candies hot tamales. It's a good reminder to me of where I was before taking the red pill and lifting/eating right. I can't forget about being a grown ass man sitting in front of my computer for hours eating multiple boxes of hot tamales, playing zombies, and intermittently fapping. How far I have come in such a short period of time. I can't wait to see where I will be 5 years from now. I don't let the negativity get to me. One comment from an EC giving solid, actionable advice is …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/19 03:39 PM
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It depends on context. It has worked very well for me in the past, I just applied it wrong here. I know when I was more of a beta, if a chick said that with a smile and twirled around playfully, it would make me chase her. I just royally fucked it up this time because of my timing and delivery.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 02:11 PM
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I like this post, even though it is written above my reading comprehension level. The Book of Pook doesn't get enough love. It's the best book out there on game and getting pussy imo. On my best day I am that free bird that he refers to just going "wwwhheeeeeee!" through my encounters with women, and it always results in strong attraction. On my worst days, I'm the robo-sperg emulating alpha behaviors. Part of what makes that book so great is that it doesn't overcomplicate things. He shows you t…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 01:05 PM
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I think a lot of you guys are taking something from my FR that I didn't mean to put in it. It's not like I constantly have all of this chatter going on in my head the whole date. Sure I can get in my head too much sometimes, but it's not like I'm trying to break the whole interaction down into formulas in the moment. Some strategic thoughts might come here or there, but they are infrequent and they become less every time. This date was just spontaneous and I was already in an introspective place…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 12:37 PM
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I have read MM, though I didn't take it too seriously. It gave a helpful picture of some of the dynamics going on in an approach. I do a decent amount of approaching, but I already spend so much time banging the plates I'm already spinning and meeting people through dating apps that I'm not setting more than a few hours a week aside for approaching. I do approach throughout my day if the opportunity presents itself.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 12:21 PM
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I don't have all of this stuff running through my head in the moment. Sure there is a little bit of thought, but I'm not the way you are imagining. I have plenty of confidence. One of my missions is getting better at pickup and spinning plates. I do that by looking back after and thinking critically about what I have done. You call it what you want though. When I started really applying this stuff about 6 months ago, I had been nothing but a serial monogamist for the past 14+ years and couldn't …
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 12:18 AM
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Cocky funny
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 12:02 AM
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/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 12:01 AM
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Should've playfully pushed on this to try to determine her true feelings ie: whether she was not yet comfortable taking the next step or more likely just putting up resistance like she was the whole night. I did tell her to finish and she just changed the subject quickly. I figured it was a guaranteed lay if I didn't fuck it up in some major way (which I obv did) so I didn't really care. Too much pull. She has her own ego to consider. Running back to you again would be a big step on her part. Th…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 08:09 PM
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Yeah that would have been much better. The whole last few minutes were just a complete shitshow. It was probably the worst autist moment I've had on a date since I started this journey. It's not like I really cared about losing a chance at a lay with an average bumble ho, it was more just that I lost the game in a pretty pathetic way that got to me.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 08:00 PM
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Thanks, I usually just do that throughout my day normally anyway. I had to make that a constant, day to day, habit to break out of the silent brooding personality that I've had my whole life. It has probably helped my game more than anything else. It's becoming more natural, but yesterday I was just in reading mode and by the time we made plans and I showered I barely made it to the venue on time. I appreciate the advice, I'll make a point to do that before my date tonight.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 07:54 PM
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Good post. I am having a hard time with one of my best plates right now because she so badly wants this from me. Every 3-7 days I get a frantic text or she throws a tantrum when I'm with her because I won't give her what she wants (a committed, monogamous relationship that would soon lead to marriage). I think I handle it alright by responding to her "I can't do this anymore, I can't share" texts with "ok, do what you need to" or just ignoring her in person tantrums. She is addicted to my dick a…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 05:13 AM
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You weren't making an arguement, you were giving advice. It's not red pilled advice. I'm not trying to attack you, I'm trying to tell you to stop giving advice in TRP if you have haven't taken the red pill or at least read the sidebar, which you obviously haven't given the advice you gave.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 04:12 PM
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Just because they are obsessed with it doesn't mean you need to be also. They most likely aren't seeing it as a red flag that you don't have IG. If they say anything about it that makes you think so it quite possible it's a shit test. Her "You don't have social media? That's kind of weird." You "I was getting too many people confusing my personal account with my jiggalo service page so I just decided to delete it." Even my youngest plates find it intriguing that I don't have SM, though they don'…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 04:05 PM
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Don't give advice if you haven't at least read the sidebar. Delete your post. It's not even blue pilled, it's the advice a woman would give to one of her girlfriends.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:49 PM
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I second the possibility of befriending Rick. It depends on a lot of things, but if you could see yourself being able to have fun hanging out with him I think making a friend can't hurt you. I think there is a strong possibility that giving you shit is his way if trying to make friends with you. Him and his friends probably riff in each other all the time and he doesn't know how to turn it off. Or Rick is just a giant douche and deserves little more than a funny look when he pulls this shit. It …
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:42 PM
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OP you need to make yourself more extroverted. Do this by talking to people throughout your day. It doesn't need to be much at first, just a quick "what great weather we're having" or ask a question to someone in line at the store about something they are about to purchase. Do this every day, any time you are in public. If you're really shy start with old people, they love attention. Talk to the big fat middle aged guy. Talk to the 5 year old waiting in line with his mom. Make it your mission to…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 01:52 PM
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FORD? Do you think asking about her career goals gets her pussy wet? How does asking if she has brothers or sisters stimulate her emotions? Telling someone with social anxiety not to overthink things doesn't help them at all.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 01:33 PM
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It depends on the situation, the girl, how I appear, etc. My go to in a vacuum is the female opinion. I wear a decent amount of jewelry so I will usually ask "Can I get a female opinion on something?" Then hold out one arm so they can see my bracelets and rings. "This one?" Then the other arm "or this one?" This one is good because it can gauge interest. If she just says "that one" with nothing else she doesn't have very high interest. If she starts saying things like "well what kind of vibe are…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 01:17 PM
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I'm not a fan of all the "just say hi" advice here. That's so bland and doesn't start the approach stimulating her emotions. I think a lot can be learned from the PUA stuff from last decade. Direct is fine with a girl who is telegraphing IOI's but a large portion of women won't be. Going indirect and approaching as if you have no interest whatsoever in fucking her, then throwing a neg and disqualification can be powerful. Opening direct tells her you are hitting on her like every other guy befor…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:42 PM
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I agree. The examples might not be the best, but the underlying point is good advice. This attitude should be applied everywhere in life. Of course you should exercise control on things that you can and want to change, but do it with an attitude of stoicism.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 10:27 PM
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You need to re-read the first part of the op
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 10:22 PM
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I fucked her. I definitely see that texting my plates too much is one of my biggest weaknesses. I really need to work on that.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:11 PM
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Yeah I have a few plates and I'm not really worried about losing her. I'm still getting good at this pickup/plate spinning thing though so I'm trying to learn what to do when I get to this point.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 04:16 PM
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I also gave up video games completely, about a year ago. It was kind of tough at first, but it was one of the best things I have done to improve my life.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 10:48 PM
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Spin more plates. Re-read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 10:42 AM
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The guys who have too much anxiety to just kick themselves in the ass and go out and approach are instead supposed to walk up and say "wanna fuck?" Seriously?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 01:09 PM
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Yep you caught me, I guess I'll go back to beating off and playing video games
/r/TheRedPill15/07/19 12:02 PM
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Thanks. How do you identify which ones crave the aggression and dominance and which ones don't? Is it just something you get a feel for over time? I think I'm screwing it up with a 22 HB8 because, among other things, I've been too dominant.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/19 08:50 PM
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Thanks for pointing this out. It was fun this time, I actually liked her orbiters, but if I have to deal with that shit all the time I'll be nexting her ass fast.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/19 08:48 PM
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I agree. I was wrong in my original statement. I still think a guy can do much better than approaching with your name though.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 01:26 PM
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I don't want to say because I don't want to leave breadcrumbs in my post history for someone to dox me someday. I will tell you it's dirty manual labor that pays well.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 01:59 AM
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Possibly nothing, possibly everything. If they are swallowing your nut on the daily and doing what you tell them, but they keep trying to pin you into a relationship... you're doing it right. If she is withholding sex because you aren't in a relationship then it's because she doesn't see you as the alpha and is putting you in the beta box of her dualistic mating strategy. This would be an indicator that you are doing everything wrong.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 10:01 PM
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Just nitpicking, but I would use a different opener on the first one. It's better for her to ask your name as it is a very strong IOI. Walking up to a slit and saying "Hey, my name is fucktard" is about the same as "hey, can I buy you a drink?" It's the same shit she hears from every AFC who approaches her. Why should she give a shit what your name is? Edit- Thanks for sharing the report. Well played on the second one
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 05:13 PM
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This is a tool to be weaponized.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 04:57 PM
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I have had the same thought before too. I love Rollo's writing but when I saw a video of him for the first time I couldn't believe my eyes and ears. As time has gone on I have seen how very real all this TRP stuff is though so I don't really worry about it. I think all the getting big, looking good, voice tonality stuff is important, but frame is everything. If you have a rock solid frame, pass shit tests like they are nothing, and have fully internalized all of the TRP stuff, then you win the g…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 04:39 PM
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Give them the best sex they can get. If you make bitches scream and squirt they tell their friends.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 04:25 PM
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From what I see reading through this place, it's probably higher than 0.01%, but I will not argue that most men here will never be dripping with pussy. There are too many that get lost along the way and go mgtow somewhere along their journey and give up. Or they think if they sit in front of a screen reading field reports and giving bad advice to noobs that they will eventually just get what they want. TRM is about gender dynamics, wtf does it have to do with becoming a millionaire?
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:15 PM
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No, there are plenty if guys who are all theory and fit into your desceiption. They read and read and maybe even contribute something borderline worthwhile eventually. It is a stretch to say they have taken RP'd though. The guys who make it are the ones who get on here and take in everything they can, then stay off here for a while except to ask a question now and then or get a clarification. Then, after some time, they can come back and hammer out the kinks in what they have learned. Rinse and …
/r/askTRP09/07/19 12:53 PM
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The Rational Male- for seeing the whole picture The Book of Pook- for building an organic game foundation
/r/askTRP08/07/19 06:07 PM
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I owe my amazing sex life to SGM. I think if you are a virgin it might be a good idea to just breeze through it and just have bad virgin sex a few times before you start trying to apply any of it. You don't want to overthink it.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 05:59 PM
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Damn dude. You failed that shit test hard and by the tone of your post it sounds like you're her plate. Instead of getting on here and making a post about "my feels", make a post asking what you are doing to be such a beta. This girl is not your problem, you are. The medicine is TRP.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 05:49 PM
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He can't explain because he is making shit up. The sidebar tells you what to do. Continuing to fuck her is not abundance mentality. She is toying with you and you are letting her. "But we have such good sex!" is just oneitis talking.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 05:38 PM
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Don't listen to any of these guys telling you to fuck her. Go without any pussy at all if you need to, but drop her. Read the sidebar, something like, "Don't dig through the trash. You get messy, people see you, and what you started looking for was never as good as you thought once you find it." For my first couple years around here I was fucking my ex. It wasn't anything serious, just her sending me a text "come fuck me". I got on here and asked the same question you are. When everyone told me …
/r/askTRP08/07/19 05:31 PM
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I've done LSD a handful of times. Don't expect it to change your life. Like others have said it can give you a new perspective on things, but I have found with many hallucinogens that you just think you understand the meaning of life. People feel like they have some new perspective on things and have an "a-ha!" moment. I think for the most part it isn't a true change of perspective though, it just feels like it. Then when you try to reintegrate people try to latch onto that perspective but can't…
/r/askTRP08/07/19 05:17 PM
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I have pretty much put all of my hobbies on hold. When I'm not fucking I'm on a date with an HB I'm trying to spin or out cold approaching. The little bit of me time I have I spend reading about game. I know that this isn't exactly healthy but I live in a new city and don't have any guy friends. Once I got my own harem of plates I started having more fun fucking and gaming. I would like to continue to do things to better and enrich my life, but right now I'm having a fuck fest to make up for los…
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:55 PM
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Yeah the OP was a good read and is good to learn something from, but I like having a soul. I think he has some points about the cold approach PUA stuff not working like people claim it does, but I have still learned some very valuable lessons from PUA books and discussions. I think much of the best game advice can be found in its simplest, purest form in The Book of Pook. I know it is an older one but his simple approach to game is the best imo and should be the foundation for anyone trying to i…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 11:21 PM
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I am tall and fit. I'm not a sperg. All through my 20's I would try to get laid. I would go out to the clubs/bars, I would go to public events. I was constantly chasing pussy. I fit the description you keep throwing out in this thread. I wasn't a total incel, but I would go through long stretches without any pussy. Occasionally I might land a fat chick, or some girl who was so trashed she would fuck anyone, but I barely got laid. Game is how you get laid. Part of game is looks, but there are ple…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/19 03:29 PM
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Man women do not like lanky. They like tall, yes, but skinny guys are to women what fat chicks are to men. Your thoughts on game lead me to believe you have never put in any work on your own game, or that you haven't spent much time in the field. Even short guys, ugly guys, whatever. They can all get laid. I suggest reading the stuff about game in the sidebar and getting your ass out there to work on your game. It won't improve sitting on TRP lamenting about how only lanky guys get pussy.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/19 03:11 PM
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His point is who gives a shit if she is? Spin more plates, work on yourself, enjoy the ride. If you are worried that she is off sucking some guys dick, then the op is for you.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/19 03:00 PM
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I think you hit the nail on the head where you said that mommy pretends to love them unconditionally. I think that is the missing piece here. The arguement that OP is wrong because men are looking for the same unconditional love mommy gave them falls apart when you look at it this way. Society tells women that no matter what you must love your children unconditionally. Women are scared to death to appear any other way than "my kids are my world and they are the best thing that has ever happened …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/19 02:36 PM
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I have the same problem. I gave up drinking about 5 years ago and I have been a social retard since. I still haven't fixed myself, but I am working on it. I have found that the best way to fix this about myself is to just go put myself around people and talk to them. Talk to people in line at a store, talk to cashiers, anyone that is unfortunate enough to cross your path you should talk to. At the beginning of each day tell yourself that you will talk to anyone you get a chance to. Go to coffee …
/r/askTRP07/12/18 12:41 PM
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The problem the mainstream has against TRP is the fact that it teaches us to go against the feminine imperative. Any other reason is just a symptom of that fact.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 12:04 PM
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The sidebar says that you are supposed to read it before participating in discussions on TRP. There is alot there to read but it is all required and necessary to understand TRP.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 11:47 AM
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Then make the time. The OP sounds like you are trying to get people to tell you "oh you have such a stressful job that keeps you so busy, don't worry about lifting, lifting is for people with easy jobs and free time." You can make the time. Now go do it. You will be a better man because you made yourself do what must be done.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:19 PM
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My job was my excuse to not lift for a long time. The fact that I wasn't lifting made a mental barrier for me that kept me from really swallowing the red pill. My job is brutally physical work on the ocean, out in the elements, 60-80 hours a week. I finally stopped making excuses for myself and went to the gym. This has been a turning point for me where I can truly start to internalize TRP. Before I started lifting TRP was all just mental masturbation. I am not telling you this to brag about how…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:46 PM
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I try to keep this in mind. I never did before reading The Sex God Method though. I just know that with a girl I bang several times a week I can't usually enjoy it much if she isn't. Call me a softie, but I get off on her getting off.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 08:21 AM
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Thanks this was very helpful. I'll read my secret garden. My girl definitely likes being forced and choked and shit, but as I've recently learned doesn't want to be humiliated.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 08:18 AM
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Well, tonight I tries tying her up. She was into it, but then when I said, while banging her, "do you like being fucked like a whore?" She went silent. Then she made me stop, and proceeded to tell me I have to be nice. So I guess calling her my slut and calling her a whore are no good anymore. We talked for a few minutes and I learned she doesn't like being degraded. This is going to make it harder to come up with things. I guess I have to read this book AGAIN with a slightly new perspective. On…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 01:11 AM
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That's part of the problem, I try to think.of things when I'm by myself but I just keep coming back to the same "you're my little slut" "take it you bitch" "suck it like you mean it slut" stuff. It's like I have no ability to be creative with this stuff. The emotional talk is just as hard. All I can come up with is the same basic shit.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 06:54 PM
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I believe you need to set some goals. There is a guide in the sidebar for this by u/bsutansalt Actually take pen to paper and write them out. This is crucial. Take time to really look at where your life is, and where you want it to be. If you have a hard time coming up with goals, make one of them "make more goals". For guys like us it can be hard to know what the right path is when you juggle it all around in the chaos of your head. If you write it all down and have a map to where you want to g…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 01:21 PM
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Thanks for your contribution. We must always hold frame.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/18 08:29 PM
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So much misunderstanding in this thread. It's flooded with posts from incels and most of the EC posts are buried at the bottom. I hope I can learn what I need to from this place before it gets overrun by know it all 19 year olds.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/18 02:58 PM
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Dude, you know what you did wrong. The thing about escalation (at least my understanding of what I've read here) is that it is progressive. You don't need to jump right into face fucking her. Start with brief touches on her arm and build up from there. This is what kino and escalation is all about.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 01:29 PM
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God strike me dead if I ever turn into this guy.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 01:19 PM
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Because I humiliated her in front of a group of her/my friends. I was at a party. Got a BJ from a mutual friend of the accuser. After the BJ I passed out in the guest bed where it took place. I woke up to a 250 lb walrus on top of me fucking me. I stormed out the bedroom to where people were and began very loudly saying things like "what the fuck guys why did you all let that nasty pig go in there with me?" And "I just got fucked by a hippo" etc. She heard it all as well as all of my buddies lau…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 12:44 AM
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The only way for a rape accuser to suffer consequences for a false allegation is if they openly admit that they made it up. I was also a broke 20 year old who was now in $6k+ debt because of all the costs for my lawyer/PI. Spending more money on a lawyer for vindication just wasn't an option. The accuser is the daughter of one of the local police sergeants who has been on the force in my small town for 25+ years. The local cops were not fair in their investigation, to say the least.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 10:28 AM
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I was falsely accused of raping a girl when I was his age. The shit they wrote about me in the local paper made me look really bad. In the court of public opinion I was already guilty. Then, thank God for my expensive lawyer, during my trial he caught her in a big lie about who was on top. If it wasn't for the thousands I spent on a good lawyer and PI, I would be a sex offender right now probably just fresh out of prison. Did the papers write anything about being wrong about me? Nope, just a 1 l…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 08:55 AM
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Its not that I didn't understand the power of the sidebar, I wad just wrong about how to take that information in. I thought it would be more beneficial to read some of it every day to really try to understand and digest each part as I went, all while putting that information into practice as I learn it and making mistakes as I go. From what I have read in this sub and in the sidebar, that was my impression of the correct way to learn this stuff. I'll do it your way though and just read through …
/r/askTRP04/11/18 08:41 PM
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Ok I will. I didn't think just going through the whole sidebar was the right way to do this thing. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 07:23 PM
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I've been reading the sidebar and I am applying the things I am learning there, but it's alot to digest. There are also alot of people advocating for getting out there and applying these things instead of just sitting around studying TRP theory all day. I'm reading some things from the sidebar every day, but there is alot of information there. So I spend some time reading, some time lifting, some time approaching, etc. If you could point to a specific part of the sidebar that would help me under…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 07:15 PM
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I'm still learning this RP stuff so I can't offer advice for how you should have held frame or anything like that. I can tell you though, once he pushed you that should have been the moment you started pounding him. If he pushed you then it was self defense, pure and simple. If you aren't willing to be make a stand physically, then just move next time. I think this may be the difference between acting alpha and BEING alpha.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 05:16 PM
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Trim, don't shave. You don't want to look like a 10 year old. Make sure you fuck her rough (not necessarily fast, but rough). The moment you feel like you are even approaching climax, shove your forearm into her mouth and tell her to bite you. If it doesn't hurt like hell, give her a light smack on the face and say "I said bite me!" The physical pain will help you last longer, as well as make latter pleasure intensify. Edit- make sure to be vocal, in deep tones. When she bites you hard make sure…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 01:25 PM
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Most chicks probably don't even notice your eye bags bro. You're just mind fucking yourself. On these days that you speak of, where there are no bags under your eyes, I guarantee you are carrying yourself with more confidence. Bitches can tell if a guy is insecure from a mile away.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 11:54 AM
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Yeah, but she had hours to do that then rescheduled at the moment we were supposed to meet. I would have just said no problem and said I was down for breakfast, but I thought the guides here advocated for ghosting when a girl flakes. The whole thing just seemed like she didn't really want to see me that bad, so I thought that was what I was supposed to do. She sent me a few texts saying how she wanted to see me another time, then after I ignored those the final text she sent was "can I at least …
/r/askTRP28/10/18 07:15 PM
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Because we had plans to meet that night when she got off work. Then she bailed at the last minute. Edit- I may send her a message in a few days letting her know that I will be in town next week and ask if she wants to join me doing something that I have determined beforehand.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 04:45 PM
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I wish. She flaked, then I went to the bar to practice approaching. I was by myself, got stone cold ignored 6 times and shut down once. Then I decided I had enough for the night. I don't think approaching in bar scenes is the best for a loner, sober alcoholic. I've just got to keep working on my approaches through day game where I feel more comfortable (though it is harder). Tomorrow is a new day! I'll give bar game another shot when I develop a social circle of likeminded men.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 03:56 AM
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Ok thanks I really needed this advice. I almost gave her an x or y option thing in the first place but I was trying to be decisive. Then when she said she didn't know where it was, I figured it was some kind of a ploy because it's her hometown and everyone has Google so how could you not know where it is? Anyway, as I was writing this she sent a text flaking, but inviting me to breakfast so I could join her orbiter club, you called it. I just replied "no thanks" and now I will ghost. This is goo…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 02:04 AM
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I have a long way to go my friend. I got 1 number. I'm still a sperg about approaching. It will take hundreds more until I can claim victory.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 11:08 PM
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Thanks for the advice. We sent a couple quick logistical texts back and forth. I told her where to meet me. She responds with "idk where that is" so I responded "then pick a spot, or use google" and now radio silence for a bit. Was that an alright text or was offering for her to pick a spot a bad move? I thought the sarcasm of "or use google" equaled it out.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 11:02 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I drove 80 miles to improve myself.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 09:47 PM
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Yeah I know that too. It's crazy I've read all this stuff but when the moment comes it's hard to fight that beta inside me. Fuck her, I'm here on a mission to improve myself. If I fuck her then great, if I dont, great. I'll still go home a little bit better of a man today.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 09:43 PM
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Ok I still don't know what callback humor is. I've been reading guides on improving myself and approaching but I know literally nothing about text game. I'll find one when I get settled in somewhere and see what callback humor is.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 09:02 PM
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Great advice, thanks. We didn't talk about a venue so I'll just go where I want, then text her around the time she said and tell her where I am. You guys are awesome.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 08:59 PM
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She told me she gets out of work at 930 so I know I can't see her now, so I'm just wondering if I should wait or what?
/r/askTRP27/10/18 08:55 PM
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If you are "acting" alpha you are doing it wrong. We need to BE alpha to become the man most of us in this sub want to be.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 05:11 PM
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What do you consider major lifts? I have very limited experience lifting, though I have done it for a few short bursts years ago. Yoga is hard because my schedule is literally all over the clock and can change from one day to the next. I have tried doing it with dvd's at home, I just found it was hard to know if I was doing things right as I'm pretty sure I wasn't for a fair amount of stances/poses whatever they are called. I have been thinking about this thread a ton since I posted it. I am ham…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 10:39 PM
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Yeah for sure. Stay in school and think about your future. Dropping out limits your options in life and makes almost everything harder. I make the best of it, but that's because a man like me enjoys a challenge. Most would find life without a diploma pretty shitty, especially boys.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 11:25 PM
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ok thanks for clarifying. The dudes over in r/steroids seem to think test will just make things worse, but that HGH or peptides might help me.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 04:46 PM
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I take Osteo-Biflex (glucosamine+MSM) and it seems to help some. I will give NPP a shot, thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 04:40 PM
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Yeah I am. I wear stiff wrist splints to bed every night and when I'm driving or doing something that hurts them. I also wear softer more flexible wrist wraps under my gloves while I work on the boat. These really help. I also use buprenorphine (subutex) on a daily basis to help manage the pain in my wrists/shoulder. I like bupe because it isn't as harsh on your body and min as most pain killers, and now that I have been using it for several years I don't get any kind of high to chase.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 04:39 PM
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GLO I love your shit on TRP.RED I don't quite follow what you are trying to tell me though. I have heard people say that you won't see gains from test unless you lift, and I have heard people say you will have gains if you don't. It's not like I am going to be sitting on my ass all day, and there is a decent amount of resistance training type of shit I'm doing on the boat, but it's just more cardio than anything. Maybe if I start blasting I will have the energy to make it to the gym a couple tim…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 04:35 PM
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Well I mean I do lift heavy shit all day on the boat, it's just more endurance than anything. Skinny guys go into the military and come out of basic jacked, but they aren't "lifting" while in basic training. The season is year round, but it is slower in certain parts of the year. I will consider your advice, but the slow part of the season is immediately following the "balls out 100+hrs/week" part of the season, so the slow time is when I feel like I need to heal. I do partly expect, though, tha…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 02:14 PM
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Yeah that's where I have been doing most of my research. I just wanted a TRP opinion on the matter.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 02:09 PM
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