I am meeting up with a girl who i know is dtf. i am about 3 smv higher than her. We made out heavily previously and she almost gave me a bj, which i turned down because i told her "nows not the time", when in fact it was because i had not shaved my pubic hair which is quite hairy. I have told her i offhandedly that i have experience, when in fact i am a virgin who has no actual sexual experience except from heavy touching and making out. I have no idea what to do when i visit her house on wednesday, and would love advice on the following worries i have: Will i come too fast, if so how do i pace myself? How long should i last? Should i shave my pubic area? Which position would be easier for someone inexperienced? Any extra advice would be really appreciated. I also want to thank this community for the positive impact you all are doing for the mental health of us guys.