Guys I need help asap

Woke_Normie · 2018-10-27T20:44:32+00:00

damn you went from 0-100 real quick lol.

congratulations.

CanYouEvenCount · 2018-10-27T20:41:09+00:00

Don’t overthink things! Text her when you want an answer, which sounds like now. So send her a text confirming where you want to go and the time, then go see her.

KevKev423075 · 2018-10-27T20:57:25+00:00

Just text her when you want to. Don't be so outcome reliant. Best way to text her is a call back humor then just logisitic. If you can't do a call back humor then text just logistic like "hey, this is (name). When do you get off of work and when/where should I pick you up?" Treat her like you would treat a friend. Don't put her on a pedestal. Have fun together like you would have fun with a friend. Most of the time, it's your body language and kino that separate you from being a friend. It's all about the subtle tone for girls. She's thinking about sex, you're thinking about sex, so no need to make it obvious with words. If she likes you, she'll make time and let you touch her and push her boundaries. Just don't pressure her too much and she'll eventually let you sleep with her if you're someone she feels like she can have fun with and trust.

Tip on kino: she'll stop you when she feels uncomfortable or she'll pull away. Go slow so that she has time to stop you, but keep going till she stops you. Don't pressure her more, just back off a bit and build more touch comfort till she eventually let you go there. Best to follow that 2 steps forward, one step back to build tension.

Good luck!

justarandomguy15 · 2018-10-27T21:42:21+00:00

The good old text game.

Here's some advice that you might use.

Build rapport Let your first text take her back to the moment of the approach. Find something interesting/funny that happened while you were talking to her and casually mention it in the text. It could literally be anything. It just has to be something that happened between the two of you and only the both of you relate to. As for the time when to do this, it doesn't really fucking matter. Leave her a text before she finishes her job so she can text you as soon as she's done (if she's that interested).
Mirror her texting game. Look, every girl has different texting game. Some girls would start typing paragraphs about why their cat is depressed last week. Others will send you pictures of their new dresses and newly-adopted puppies. Some girls will only keep it short to finally squeeze you to get on with the logistics. Doesn't matter what game she's playing my friend. Your goal is always to end the conversation with both of you agreeing on when and where to meet. If you texted her and she answered in 2 hours, wait for an hour and reply. Always wait half the time she took to answer back. Why? If you answer instantly, it shows you're more invested in the relationship before it even begins. If she answers in short bits, shoot back in short bits. If she writes long text, then write her back equally or less long texts. Always remember that you can always get off the script.
The final objective: getting her comfortable When you text a girl, like on approaching, you need to make feel comfortable. Don't send weird pics or texts. Keep to the point and try to keep your texts light and flirtatious. Don't take anything she texts seriously. Try to flip it and make fun of it all the time.
Holly shit, did you really drive 80 miles just to game girls? I wish I had your balls.

nummas · 2018-10-27T20:55:08+00:00

I wouldn't worry too much about texting if the dates on the same day. I would have texted her in front of her so she has your number and you see her get the message, that way you know she didn't give you a fake number.

In this case, just go and see if she shows up. I usally give 20 minutes and if she hasn't arrived or sent you a text that she will be late, it's time to move on.

Chat to other people while you are waiting if you can. If she doesn't show, think nothing of it and do something else and delete her number, don't text her asking where she is or being all but hurt she didn't show. You're the prize. Her loss.

If she does show, you know what to do.

Auvergnat · 2018-10-27T22:01:56+00:00

100% approach-to-number-close ratio lol..

Don't sweat the texting too much. Remember to be your own mental point of origin. You have to establish your frame and get her into it.

In other words: What are you in town for? What are your plans for tonight? Are you staying over somewhere or driving back? Does this mean you plan to drink or stay sober?

If you have zero plan and are only acting in whatever way is necessary to bang that girl, what's going to happen? You're going to text her too much. You're going to ask her what she wants to do and when she wants to meet. You're going to abide by her schedule. And she won't get attracted.

In contrast, if you have the Frame in place, the texting will sort itself out. You'll text her at the right time (that is, when you feel like it or when it suits your plans) to let her know what you are up to and where and when you suggest you could meet. Leaving her just enough wiggle room to accommodate her needs (when she's off, the time it'll take her to go home, get a shower, change clothes, etc.).

astrogatorjones · 2018-10-27T23:04:45+00:00

holy shit dude it doesn’t matter what the fuck happens you are already killing it.

I think TRP is about taking matters into your own hands and putting yourself out there, being willing to face failure. You already won.

SAPPHIREAURA · 2018-10-27T22:13:18+00:00

Enjoy this post, and thread but surprised how “nice” all the replies have been. Anytime I ask a question here it’s mostly savage digs back to back...

Andgelyo · 2018-10-28T03:38:42+00:00

Lmao if this is real kudos to the OP, he leveled up from 3 to 25 in a span of one day

wobbleelbbow · 2018-10-27T21:39:41+00:00

who gives a fuck how hot she is. All women are LIKE THAT, they all have their inner sluts in them and can bang any dude on the spot, provided the opportunity and right circumstances.

Stop thinking about her hotness, she's not special and 80 percent of women in certain countries can be called "hb7" so that's... do not put her on pedestal, man.

I suggest you read more in the meantime of female hypergamy, anything from RationalMale blog, will help you a lot to understand what women want (need) and how to have a proper mindset.

In short, you should ignore her beauty. It is your number one thing for now that you should internalize. The less you text, the better. It's just for logistics, always.

P.S. the trick is to seduce her, not become her friend, so you may ask a few questions, make a few jokes, but the essence of the game is Kino Escalation and indifference to the outcome (IDGAF attitude).

CanYouEvenCount · 2018-10-27T21:03:46+00:00

Don’t wait text her now

coofster55 · 2018-10-27T21:06:53+00:00

don't over think it dude you got it. You got passed the hard part. During the date just be yourself, have fun, ask open end questions. Get to know her. Really my thing I do is not to take things so seriously and have fun with it. Its fun meeting new people and getting to know someone.

shuritsen · 2018-10-28T00:10:24+00:00

Damn props.

drnaline · 2018-10-27T22:06:56+00:00

congratulations. Read masculinedevelopment he got some free texting tips and red pill site.

MrIncreible10 · 2018-10-28T01:36:57+00:00

You should watch First Dates by CoachRedpill. It is a good video to get that first date right.

MaliciousMack · 2018-10-28T02:57:22+00:00

Leave your name in a text so she has your number. Then hit her up tomorrow and see if she can hit up a bar with you. Wish you the best.

DreamPolice69 · 2018-10-28T10:14:53+00:00

Proud of you buddy. Action triumphs everything.

HurricaneHugues · 2018-10-28T15:14:19+00:00

Text her right now. Text her a time and a place to meet you at. Nothing more nothing less

ghjklzxcv123 · 2018-10-31T22:54:53+00:00

Op is fast af. He will be a chad in a few months if he continues like this

Velebit · 2018-10-28T00:16:18+00:00

Great but take into consideration success is random and more often than not (80%+) of women will reject you, especially if you don't care about approaching only those who have IOI.

Just find a place with a couch and music quiet enough to talk, when you send the message is irrelevant.

Title	Guys I need help asap
Author	H0tTamal3
Upvotes	141
Comments	64
Date	October 27, 2018 8:32 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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