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astrogatorjones/r/askMRP30/07/18 05:09 AM
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oh I'm stupid please ignore
/r/askTRP17/12/18 06:39 PM
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date 2........possible LTR....... you are doing it wrong bro, go spin more plates
/r/askTRP17/12/18 04:03 PM
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I’d say you’re treading a fine line. She might be a good girl who simply doesn’t want to put out too early, in which case I guess you could give it another shot. Or she is simply getting validation from your attempts to fuck her, which would be a next for me.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 10:13 PM
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this is insane
/r/askTRP16/12/18 06:37 AM
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oh my god it’s almost like you’re an adult or something
/r/askTRP16/12/18 06:36 AM
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TRP is sexual strategy, and sexual strategy is amoral. You create your own morals. It feels like you're looking for validation while being vague so you can justify doing something that you don't consider right.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 12:54 PM
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if having no social life bothers you then do something about it instead of coming here looking for more excuses
/r/askTRP05/12/18 12:51 PM
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Read No More Mr. Nice Guy. I think it’s just because their lives seem so easy to fix spoiler: no, it's not
/r/askTRP05/12/18 12:50 PM
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looking in the mirror at myself You're autistic. admittedly most of them were from different countries Oh so you were just using them for validation These girls have all stopped flirting with me and showing me interest, I have a severe lack of motivation for life See? I told ya if I feel undesired by women and my body does not anticipate I'm going to get laid, I lose most of my motivation for life You stated your problem right here, you are deriving your self worth from woman. Did you even read …
/r/askTRP05/12/18 12:47 PM
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If you care about guys so much maybe you should go to Grindr, faggot.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 12:32 PM
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You won't get better if you delete your post and stop people from giving you feedback you pussy. People shitting on you is exactly the most valuable thing in this place, and you ran away from it bc your ego couldn't take it. If everyone is telling you you're an idiot it means that you just found something about yourself that you can develop. Take the criticism and grow from it you retard.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 12:28 PM
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man, it’s astonishing that you managed to develop this level of self awareness. While you may be a pathological lier you managed to at least tell the truth to yourself, which is fucking hard to do. Go see a therapist, keep going until you open up and tell everything. Write it down if you need to, you can do this.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 10:25 AM
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OP is a confirmed autist. How old are you OP?
/r/askTRP05/12/18 12:59 AM
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"Hmm , err, you know, it's not you, it's me.... and also all that crazy talk about babies you crazy bitch" Idk man, just keep telling her you're busy and when she confronts your pussy ass you tell her you're just, like, not feeling it anymore.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 11:41 PM
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Yup, basically don't be butthurt and don't get in her frame. If she starts acting out don't waste your time.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:38 PM
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You did pretty good. I would wait for her to reach out and check if her behaviour improved or next tf outta here
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:34 PM
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Does the concept of evolution apply all over the world?
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:32 PM
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Next and start spinning plates until you become a man.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:31 PM
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You already know the answer. GTFO is the safer route, but of course your hamster is trying to find a way to keep fucking her. You're playing with fire.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:29 PM
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got it, thanks for sharing it was good insight
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/18 05:24 PM
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had you ever been in a LTR before this one?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/18 03:05 PM
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hate to break it to you but you have feelings for this girl. someone’s gonna get burn............
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:14 PM
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This is a non issue, I’d say you’re overthinking
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:08 PM
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What do you want that for? So you can masturbate to a picture of yourself without feeling guilty? You’re a ten!! Do your thing sister!
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:54 PM
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Don’t go sociopath, it will fire back at you, read my comment. Also, your work won’t be lost, you’re not thinking straight. Chill the fuck out, it’s all life experience if nothing else. Calm down and make plans, everything will turn out fine.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 10:18 AM
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Hey man, this is a fucked situation for sure. You will get trough it though. I just wanna say, since you want the abortion and she doesn’t, be real careful and thoughtful about your words and actions right now. If she ends up having the baby she may end up using everything you said and done against you, either to get custody or to make your kid hate you. I think in the end it will probably be her decision so think real hard about what you can control to make your life better.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 10:15 AM
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I think fiction is really important for self development. It gives you material to exercise your imagination with regards to your ideas about deep questions like morality, human behaviour and values. It's like you can use the hypothetical plots, interactions and choices made by the characters to think about your own story, interactions and choices, and I believe that can be very enriching. Of course there's good fiction and bad fiction, but I see a lot of value even in stories that look simple l…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:27 PM
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no it doesn't
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:18 PM
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man I feel the same way if you find out let me know
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:16 PM
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Stop being a fat fuck.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 04:57 AM
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Tell your “buddy” that he needs to be careful not to ruin his asshole, because that’s where the money is for males in porn.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 04:57 AM
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Yes now that you fucked her you’re allowed to be her emotinal tampon and provide her the feelz she so desperetely needs. Is that what you wanted to hear?
/r/askTRP29/11/18 04:55 AM
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I feel you man. It’s super hard to untangle yourself from manipulative people. Make up your mind and don’t look back. You will thank yourself in three months.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 11:44 PM
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Your friend is a really toxic person and you already know it. Also, you’re in his frame, faggot. I sympathize with you because I had this kind of relationship with my ex-girlfriend. But at least I was fucking her every once in a while.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 11:27 PM
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Alright, I see your point. I’ll try to give you something new to think about. The whole reputation thing could be all inside your head and no one will care. Or maybe it’s real but guess what? I won’t matter the slightest bit one or two years from now. I can’t tell you how many opportunities I wasted when I was your age because of shit like that. If you think she’s cute go for it man, I guarantee you won’t regret it. Plus if you learn how to frame it and be confident about it could definetly boos…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 10:49 PM
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That’s great. But how is asking a girl out messing up your status? Is your “status” that fragile? If she has such a low smv go find other girls that actually interest you instead of coming to a web forum talking about her. You sound so arrogant but yet you’re here asking for advice on how to talk to a girl that is so much below you that if you actually managed to hook up with her it would tather your awesome reputation.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 09:04 PM
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Solid advice, case closed.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 08:03 PM
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Go ahead and try out your lame ideas you pussy. You have to fail before you can succeed, no mather how much you read you will never be prepared. The only way to learn and get better is to take these ideas you have and actually try them out. Yes you may fail, but you also may end up fucking her.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 08:02 PM
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I think you are on the right path. You are owning up to your mistakes. I have two pieces of advice for you: 1- Go looking for new things to read and learn so you can continue your journey of self-improvement and getting your shit together. (The sidebar, buddhism, stoicism, philosophy, psychology, self-help books, mark manson, jordan peterson, joe rogan, anything and everything counts, do your thing) 2- Learn to forgive yourself even when you are in the process of taking ownership of your mistake…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 07:58 PM
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Make actual concrete goals instead of abstract ones. For instance: go out on friday and approach three girls, instead of “be more social”. Write down long term goals and then break them down all the way to actionable baby steps, then start checking them off your list. Read 12 Rules for Life by Jordan Peterson. EDIT: Go ahead and PM me if you want to talk more and get to the specifics, I’ll help you out.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 07:52 PM
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Don’t overthink this. If she answers and you can still accommodate, go. If she answers and you already have other plans or it’s way to late for you to even bother, then don’t bother.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 07:46 PM
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Oh boy, I’m gonna try to streighten you out. Here’s the big secret: I don’t actually think you are a homossexual. You happy now, snowflake? I’m just throwing insults around because that’s how man go about helping out other man. I’m giving you my take on how to improve your behaviour while making fun of your shortcomings because I trust that you will own up to your mistakes and fix your shit without loosing your dignity. Why the fuck are you so triggered because of my opinion of you? For all you …
/r/askTRP28/11/18 07:38 PM
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There you go. You can probably do way more than 185 with that background, all you need to do is slowly push yourself so your body can learn how to use it’s power.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 07:28 PM
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hip mobility is most likely not the issue, don’t waste your time focusing on this. Just follow a regular strech routine. You have just started training, you don’t even know how to push yourself yet. Keep going until you start to fail then try harder.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 01:20 PM
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You can definitely do that. But if that’s what you want you don’t need to be here bitching about how you can’t find true love.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 12:17 PM
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Oh I’m so sorry, let me rephrase it. You’re gay as fuck.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 12:15 PM
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I’m sorry to be the bearer of bad news but this probably means you like dick
/r/askTRP28/11/18 09:35 AM
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Either ask her out and find out or suck it up and don’t shit where you eat. The reason you’re concerned is because you care too much because you’re a faggot. You’re in her frame, bro
/r/askTRP28/11/18 09:27 AM
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Than go ahead and marry her, whose judgement are you scared of?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 03:51 PM
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Oh and you wanna tell me that everything that you do doesn't have a purpose? Care? (Trying to fuck), cooking? (trying to fuck). Sexual strategy is amoral for both sexes, not just for males you dumbass. Woman, just like man, are programmed by evolution to act how they act. This is the nature of human beings, learn to appreciate and love people for what they are, not for what you wish they would be. Being cynical about woman only shows your buried butthurt.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 03:50 PM
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Thank the gods that she fell for your lame text and stop trying to fuck this up. Stop trying to be witty and clever and just go fuck her like a normal person.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:22 PM
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Texted to much and proved her you’re a faggot, now she expects you to keep being a faggot. Answer her whenever you can and for christ’s sake arrange a date or give up already.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:19 PM
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Whoa, I thought you were completly clueless until you mentioned number 2. See, you’re still a faggot but at least you are self-aware. Go fuck different girls until you create abundance mentality and outcome independance.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:16 PM
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In my experience you have to talk the girl through what you’re going to do before you try this, otherwise she will get overwhelmed before it gets really good and ask you to stop. Also if she is about to squirt she’ll feel like she has to pee, which again means she’s gonna ask you to stop. Since you have to talk about it and do it repetitively it becomes kinda mechanic and not that hot IMO. Maybe if you’re in an LTR it would be good to change things up a bit, IDK. But my guess is that it probably…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:13 PM
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Look inward, and maybe you will eventually find it is yourself that you truly hate, young grasshopper. But seriously, go see a therapist.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:07 PM
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So nobody in your village gets laid without being on an LTR? Or is this just a bullshit excuse you came up with?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 01:10 PM
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Open up to the possibility that you will screw things up, several times, before you get it right. You either start trying and face the consequences like a man or die a pussy never knowing what could’ve been.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 01:06 PM
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Weather it’s math, engeneering or building businesses, there’s plenty of money to be made. Choose whatever YOU enjoy the most, stop letting other people decide for you. Accept that you will be the one to blame weather it works or fails and make your decisions. Basically all you gotta do is stop being a little bitch.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 01:03 PM
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Stop overthinking this shit. Use this time when you are “weak” to thank the lord that a faggot like you managed to get laid.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:56 PM
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You can send me a pic. But it’s probably not your looks, it’s because you’re a faggot.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:54 PM
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omg my bf like, attends to every single one of my demands, and, like, bends over backwards and will even go as far as to tie my shoes for my but he is soo not beta
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:43 PM
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The ginger think is retarded. You can fix your weight if you make a plan and stick to it. I recommend you read 12 Rules For Life by Jordan Peterson. I really think it would set you on the path to solve your problems.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:52 PM
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Find someone who YOU value. How fucking insecure you gotta be to purposefully look for an uglier girl to date?
/r/askTRP23/11/18 05:22 PM
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what does violates mean?
/r/askTRP23/11/18 05:18 PM
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aren’t we all
/r/askTRP23/11/18 09:46 AM
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Listen to 300h of the old episodes of the Joe Rogan Experience and try to make something out of it. Be humble and try to learn from the guys you interact with. Try to develop real friendships and talk about your shortcomings with your peers.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 02:03 PM
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Someone is insecure he doesn’t have any tattoos. Just get one already son
/r/askTRP22/11/18 01:58 PM
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When you’re seeing more than one girl at any given moment, and have the option to fuck whenever you want suddenly that question won’t be hovering around your head anymore.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 01:57 PM
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The best cheat code for this situation is finding yourself another girl. Earlier this year I ended a six year relationship and even though I was already reading a lot of RP material back than I still got really clingy and insecure about every girl I met. The solution was everytime I got my mind stuck on a girl I would make an effort to go and talk to a different girl. That will fix your head real fast. That was my first step towardsactually developing abundance mentality and becoming less and le…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 01:56 PM
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I don’t think you should try to emulate other people’s taste in music or their idea of fun in order to become “alpha male”. Maybe you should just stop thinking about how to become “normal” altogether. Who the hell defines what normal is anyway? It will change completely in different demographics, for instance. IMO the point of TRP is developing yourself, cultivating your own style, sense of taste, basically defining your own reality. That is what makes you attractive. Obviously you gotta be awar…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 01:48 PM
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I was in a relationship for 6 years. Started out full beta and got maybe a bit better in the first 5 years. Found TRP and started changing. She can’t handle being around a secure person and breaks up. The thing is when she broke up I was ready. I was reading the books and fully commited to becoming a better person, so the only thing I asked her was “are you sure this is what you want?”. She said yes and I absolutely didn’t look back. Now is three months later and she still sends me whatsapp mess…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 01:59 PM
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she was waiting for you to make a move and is getting pissed that you didn't
/r/askTRP19/11/18 12:29 AM
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Yes. I think this insight is the way out of the anger phase.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 02:11 AM
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You can care as much as you want, as long as you don't judge others who don't.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 02:03 AM
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I don’t think you should try to clear things up. It’s up to her to decide whether she wants to see you again anyway. With that said, I think you could also allow yourself to reevaluate if you really want to keep saying shit like that. I agree that your first comment sounded a bit racist and the second one came off a little weird. Of course it’s up to you to decide, be your own judge. But I feel that if you stood behind your words a 100% you wouldn’t be here. So I just want to say that taking soc…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:49 PM
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That’s really great to read man, congratulations on your success. To people who are criticizing him for leaving TRP: not everyone has to go through the same path. TRP is not the answer to all of life’s problems, it’s just a useful set of tools that you must use at your own discretion.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 05:26 PM
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That’s really great to read man, congratulations on your success. To people who are criticizing him for leaving TRP: not everyone has to go through the same path. TRP is not the answer to all of life’s problems, it’s just a useful set of tools that you must use at your own discretion.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 04:58 PM
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holy shit dude it doesn’t matter what the fuck happens you are already killing it. I think TRP is about taking matters into your own hands and putting yourself out there, being willing to face failure. You already won.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 11:04 PM
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read 12 rules for life by jordan peterson, I’m pretty sure it will help you a lot
/r/askTRP26/10/18 11:30 AM
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... it’s scarier this way. You can’t guarantee the absence of the sting of rejection. This is a really important point. To lead you must take the risk of being rejected. Owning up to the possibility of failure with confidence is what makes you attractive.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 08:58 PM
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Week #10 Stats 24 y/o, 178 cm, 165 lbs, don't know my BF%. SQ 325, DL 430, BP 225, OHP 135. Read The RP Sidebar, the Wiki, Jack10's comments, SGM, NMMNG, WISNIFG, The Book of Pook and MMSLP. Currently reading The Lean Startup and The Way of the Superior Man. GF also 24 y/o, dating for 6 years and living together for six months. I think I'm finally shifting the focus to myself and away from my GF. Right now she seems to be responding, until she doesn't again. Whatever. This shouldn't matter and I…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/18 09:29 PM
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Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/18 11:46 AM
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yes, I’ve read it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 12:27 PM
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Your OYS was really insightful for me, thanks. Previously in this scenario, I would’ve been distressed at the situation, gotten out of my car and followed her to ‘try make everything better’ to relieve that anxiety. Instead, I note how I’m feeling and take stock of the situation. I definitely saw myself here. I've been in that state of mind so many times. Again, I remind myself I cannot control her actions or her emotions. I’ll just do me. I really need to learn this.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 01:42 AM
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Week #9 Stats 24 y/o, 178 cm, 160 lbs, don't know my BF%. SQ 305, DL 430, BP 225, OHP 135. Read The RP Sidebar, the Wiki, Jack10's comments, SGM, NMMNG, WISNIFG, The Book of Pook and MMSLP. Currently reading The Lean Startup then I'll get back to The Way of the Superior Man. GF also 24 y/o, dating for 6 years and living together for six months. The journey continues, I'm feeling good this week. This has been a constant battle of seeing progress and finding out more flaws. Fitness Doing great, fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 01:31 AM
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thanks, that helped.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 12:45 AM
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I've never had the balls to stand up for myself and I know 100% that I'm the only one to blame for this. But along the way she treated me like shit and yes, I'm pissed at that. I'm pissed at her acting like a bitch all the time, complaining and nitpicking at every little thing. Maybe it's my fault and she is just responding to my weak frame, but it's not any less annoying because of that. I don't even want to break up. I just want to have the balls to do it and then choosing what I want without …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/18 02:22 PM
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Week #8 Stats 24 y/o, 178 cm, 160 lbs, don't know my BF%. SQ 305, DL 430, BP 225, OHP 135. Read the RP sidebar posts, the wiki, Jack10's comments, SGM, NMMNG, WISNIFG, The Book of Pook and MMSLP. GF also 24 y/o, dating for 6 years and living together for six months. MRP has been a long journey of finding out how much of a bitch I am. It's been a rough week but I'm moving forward. Fitness Got a bad flu this week so I couldn't train up until today. I'll focus on hypertrophy until the end of the we…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/18 04:18 PM
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Okay... You're 24. Probably out of college, working in a new city, broke, and generally working to figure all this "stuff" out, and there is a lot of stuff. Spot on except I don't have a college degree. Because deep down you know something is wrong Yes, every time you mention it in your replies it hits hard. When you say stuff like this all I see are excuses I know. I do have a lot of stuff to sort out if I decide to break up but it's all perfectly doable, it's just not possible overnight. STFU,…
/r/askMRP01/08/18 07:37 PM
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Man, when I think about it I’m still with her because she is an absolutely great girl outside of our relationship. She brings a lot of value to the table. Works hard, is super responsible with money and life in general, knows how to let go and have fun at the right times, etc. She displays only a little bit of her mom’s behaviour, to the point where it doesn’t bother me. Now, things are different in our relationship, and I suspect that it’s because I was such a bitch during the last year. I real…
/r/askMRP31/07/18 04:21 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I think I’m in a similiar situation and I’ll try my best to be patient and stop panickig.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 04:08 PM
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yes, I’m stupid.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 02:29 PM
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I think during the entire last year she realized I wasn’t owning my shit. It’s been really tough the recover from that. I started my first business an year ago and left my parents house at the same time so reality came crashing really hard and I couldn’t handle it. I developed anxiety disorder and started having panick attacks. Obviously I dumped all my feelings on her and got mad that she wasn’t appreciative of all the effort I was putting in, etc. So I became weak in her eyes. The company almo…
/r/askMRP31/07/18 02:28 PM
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Yes, at least from my perspective this is spot on. I saw a bit of progress in myself and got all excited so I went right back to the Dancing Monkey Attraction Program. My take from this post is that I need to be patient and realize that I’m not entitled to shit and I got to keep doing the work, especially on my frame. It was something like “Oh shit she’s treating me way better! I must be doing something right, I managed to hold frame in so and so situation!” and then I went straight to “But then…
/r/askMRP31/07/18 02:20 PM
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I did get it checked. The total T was fine but the free T was kinda low. So I took a guess and started taking vitamin D to maybe help out with that. I had been having anxiety problems for an year leading up to that and it just vanished after I started taking the vitamin, but I’m not sure if it’s placebo. Anyway, be it the vitamin D or the fact that I’m more focused on hypertrophy it seems to be really working. My numbers are shooting up fast and I’m seeing a lot of progress in the mirror. So in …
/r/askMRP31/07/18 02:10 PM
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Thanks man, I’m trying hard to find the right track. Your input has been helpful.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 02:06 PM
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That was really good. I got completely wrapped up in the fact that I’m trying to get better and started to feel entitled because of that.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 06:29 PM
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Thanks for all the advice. I’m not ripped, you would never guess my numbers by looking at me. Everyone I train with mentions that. Maybe it’s because I used to do crossfit and oly lifting, which don’t really favor hypertrophy. But I’m hitting the gym and seeing progress now.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 06:27 PM
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well, throughout the relationship the sex was really good, with me leading and dominating. After we started living together it became starfish. The last two times (after a dry spell when I started RP) were great like the old times.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 03:48 PM
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Yes. I feel like a bitch after reading the comments. I was basically in the process of stripping myself of whatever resemblance of a frame I managed to pull together so far. Then I would start begging for sex.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 03:17 PM
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holy shit man at least I can admit I have no clue wtf I’m doing
/r/askMRP30/07/18 02:13 PM
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ok, that makes sense
/r/askMRP30/07/18 02:07 PM
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Where in RP literature does it discuss asking for sex? Nowhere. I was caving to my hamster. Im starting to game her but I suck at it and get still get butthurt when it doesn't work and stop trying.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 01:23 PM
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I am certainly scared of ending this relationship. I realize that. I need to get rid of the onetis and the fear. I don't want to break up without fixing myself first. If anything this relationship is good training for not being such a loser. Does that make sense?
/r/askMRP30/07/18 01:22 PM
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yes, that’s what I thought
/r/askMRP30/07/18 12:58 PM
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Okay, obviously I have a strong case of oneitis or I wouldn’t be stupid enough to be living with a girl at 24. I can think of several times where I wanted to break up with her but just couldn’t, just from being a pussy. But right now I’m at a different city, I have just started to support myself but I’m still broke and have a contract for 1,5 years of rent. It would be a huge pain in the ass to break this up, and I still have the feeling that I would find myself in the same situation with a diff…
/r/askMRP30/07/18 12:42 PM
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yeah, I feel I’m slower that a lot of guys around here. And maybe I do have to dump her, but I guess it makes sense trying to fix myself before I make that decision
/r/askMRP30/07/18 12:08 PM
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ok, thanks. And maybe I really am on a freight train to nowhere, I hope not. I’m trying to accept that aswell.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 12:04 PM
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Thanks man.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 12:00 PM
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Got it
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/18 11:41 AM
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That's what makes me think that I'm the problem. She actually tries to get me to choose where we're going. The times I was actually able to keep it together and not be a bitch she acted perfectly nice and seemed happy to be led. So she is basically asking to be more submissive and being way more respectful towards me since I started RP, but she is trying to be dominant and bitchy in regards to sex. So maybe she will give in soon. I'll do my best to fix myself and see if she comes along. But I'll…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/18 03:36 AM
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This is ridiculous but I was dead scared of her judgement. I'm almost free of that but if I'm being honest no, it's not completely gone. My frame is not rock solid yet but I'm certain I'm making a lot of progress and I'll continue to do so. Thanks for pointing it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/18 03:30 AM
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Thank you for that. We've been together for 6 years and at least in my country that's almost the same as being married, both legally and culturally. I don't think I could be "divorce raped" though. She does expect me to be submissive. Her dad is completely submissive to her mother, I've always found it really sad to watch even way before learning about RP. Your relationship sounds like one giant Yelp review. She's the eternal critic, and you would like just one quiet meal. That is probably true.…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/18 01:57 AM
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OYS #7 Stats 24 y/o, 178 cm, 160 lbs, don't know my BF%. SQ 305, DL 385, BP 215, OHP 135. Read the RP sidebar posts, the wiki, Jack10's comments, SGM, NMMNG, WISNIFG, The Book of Pook and halfway through MMSLP. Still completely free from anxiety. I don't feel so lost in regards of my relationship anymore, things are starting to make sense. I feel good. Fitness The effort is starting to pay off. I'm pretty sure I'm getting bigger and it seems like my abs may be finally starting to show. I decided…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/18 03:01 PM
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well, I guess developing basic self respect does pay off then
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 11:13 PM
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OYS #6 Stats -24 y/o, 178 cm, 160 lbs, don't know my BF%. -SQ 305, DL 375, BP 205, OHP 125. -Read the RP sidebar posts, the wiki, Jack10's comments, SGM, NMMNG and WISNIFG. Finishing The Book of Pook. So my confidence has been slowly improving and I have been free from anxiety since I started taking vitamin D which is kinda shocking for me. I'm definitely becoming my own mental point of origin and it feels really good. Fitness/Nutrition I've always neglected my upper body, since I was a crossfit…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/18 03:24 PM
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don't know my BF% I will go do a physical evaluation this week at the gym and get an accurate number. I don't have absolutely anything to measure with at home. No excuses I'll get it done, going to the gym is never a problem for me. Although thinking about it, I do fail to plan in other areas of my life, a lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 05:44 PM
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OYS #5 Stats 24 y/o, 178 cm, 160 lbs, don't know my BF%. SQ 305, DL 375, BP 205, OHP 125. Read the RP sidebar posts, the wiki, Jack10's comments, SGM, NMMNG and WISNIFG. Next up is MMSLP. Fitness/Nutrition Doing good, although I let myself go with the food during the extended weekend. But it was a holiday and I'm ok with that. Making good progress with boxing, 5-3-1 and BBB. This week is gonna be shitty because I'll travel for work like crazy, but I'll try to get at least 4 workouts in. Social T…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 02:27 PM
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yes, you’re definitely right. I seek validation in other people a lot. Since realizing that I’ve been improving a lot and will continue to do so.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/18 04:45 PM
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OYS 4 Stats 24 y/o, 178 cm, 165 lbs, don't know my BF%. SQ 305, DL 375, BP 205, OHP 125. Read the RP sidebar posts, the wiki, Jack10's comments, Sex God Method and NMMNG, currently reading WISNIFG. It seems to me that I'm starting to get a few things right. I'm excited to read more of the sidebar and see what happens next. Health/Fitness Doing great, progressing on Wendler 5/3/1 and noticing small gains at a steady pace. Still haven't found my abs though. Need to eat more at home so I need to st…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/18 02:48 PM
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yes...
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/18 11:12 AM
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Fuck man, but the thing is that when we do have sex it’s never vanilla and she seems to really enjoy it. That’s why I’m confused about that. Although during my butthurt tantrum she realized that I wanted sex and told me that “maybe if I gave her more orgasms she would want to have sex with me”. So maybe I really did that shit without even realizing? I have no idea
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/18 02:45 AM
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Alright, Book of Pook is next. I don’t understand how the second link applies, can you help me out? EDIT: By the way, about the first link, I could definitely be more fun and mysterious. Gf has told me on a few occasions how I’m “totally predictable”. I’ve been focusing really hard on improving myself and my business for a long time and maybe I really am boring to be around all the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/18 02:10 AM
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OYS 3 Stats 24 y/o, 178 cm, 165 lbs, don't know my BF%. SQ 305, DL 375, BP 205, OHP 125. Read the RP sidebar posts, the wiki, Jack10's comments, Sex God Method and NMMNG, currently reading WISNIFG. This whole journey is way harder than I initially thought. I'm halfway through WISNIFG and it's making me realize how much of a non-assertive pussy I have become. During the last year I undertook a huge challenge business-wise and it took a toll on me, as I became anxious and had a few panic attacks, …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/18 10:49 PM
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Gotta learn how to pull that off, but I got the spirit
/r/askMRP21/06/18 01:28 AM
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yes, and this is happening again and again and I’m not sure I’m dealing with it correctly. she tried make me carrying her bag and got mad when I refused -she was saying goodbye and said “bye give me a kiss” she didn’t then got closer to the door and said “come here and give me the kiss”. I laughed and ignored while she complained when I tried initiating she refused then said I can’t even carry her bag, don’t care about her etc etc I’m trying to fog and negative inquiry but I’m not sure this is t…
/r/askMRP20/06/18 09:59 PM
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will do, thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 10:33 PM
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thanks, I really need to work on defending boundaries with actions, and not words.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 09:18 PM
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added the goals
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 06:24 PM
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OYS #2 24, 17%, 165, SQ 305, DL 375, BP 185, OHP 125. Read the RP sidebar posts, the wiki, Jack10's comments, Sex God Method and NMMNG. I never thought that posting here would have such an impact on me. So after my first posting here last week and on /r/askMRP I gathered that my focus should be building and maintaining frame. Also stop DEERing which I've been doing a lot. I started reading WISNIFG yesterday to try and address that. I feel like I'm tearing myself apart and rebuilding everything, …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 02:06 PM
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Yes, it all goes back to how to say no I guess.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 12:30 PM
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Okay, I think I see it now. I got hung up on weather I interpreted the situation correctly but it doesn't really matter because it's not about that. In the end all of this is about me feeling guilty because I didn't get her the fucking beer. Which really is a non-issue when you put it like that. I think I get it. WISNIFG is already the next one on my list, thank you for your time man.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 12:06 AM
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Yes, especially this part exactly captured the things she said after: She intrepreted it as some act of defiance because she is not used to hearing that two letter word come from your mouth.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 11:48 PM
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My guess was that I took a comfort test for a shit test, therefore I should give the comfort she was seeking afterwards. I say this because before that fact I was only getting shit tests and after I started getting only "you don't care about me". So if I double down on alpha behaviour I might be missing the mark. EDIT: I'm starting to wrap my head around what /u/SteelSharpensSteel said. He is right, especially on the DEERing. I got butthurt because the only thing I wanted to know initially was i…
/r/askMRP18/06/18 11:41 PM
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okay, but where do I draw the line between maintaining frame and being a manipulative asshole that is ramboing his way through every interaction? if I make a mistake I should just double down on that and not give two shits what my girl thinks? I would like her to respect me more. But I definitely don’t want her submitting just because I was more dominant in our interactions and being scared to stand up when I’m acting like an idiot.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 10:30 PM
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Saying "no" because you think you HAVE to, not because you actually want or need to. Yes. Regardless, you need not engage in her bullshit. I will work on that. I think it all relates back to keeping frame and I really need to work on that.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 08:37 PM
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The only thing I would have changed is how you said "no". Got it. I think even though I said no I was second guessing my self and wasn't really confident. Thanks for the examples. In this particular case she was asking for me to get her the beer because she wasn't comfortable going by herself. We were at my clients house and people were way older than us so she gets a little shy. That's why I think I should've just gone. But I think I get what you're saying. When I say no I must really mean it a…
/r/askMRP18/06/18 08:06 PM
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Well, I'll try to read this later on because maybe I'm missing something. It seems like you're shitting on my post because of the last line. I really don't want her to be unhappy because I'm stupid and can't deal with my shit. I wouldn't want any girl to be unhappy because I'm an autistic asshole. So I'm not sure why this is a display of onenitis. If she bails I have at least two girls I could fuck tomorrow. According to your comment I'm doing absolutely everything wrong. It could be true but I'…
/r/askMRP18/06/18 07:54 PM
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well, alright. Thanks I guess
/r/askMRP18/06/18 07:43 PM
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I haven’t read it. I was thinking of reading WISNIFG next, maybe I should go with MMSLP? Search old posts for comfort, and manufactured drama. Thanks a lot
/r/askMRP18/06/18 07:37 PM
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Sounds like you’re too logical and too much Alpha. You’re not providing any beta traits. If she’s being a good girl and dtf, show some comfort faggot - golden ratio. Thanks Learn Game for fucks sake I'm a complete retard for game, I don't even know where to start but I'll keep that in mind
/r/askMRP18/06/18 07:22 PM
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Maybe I don't have frame, I'm aware of that and working on it. I just don't want to derail and go rambo like some dudes in here. Your comment didn't help at all, it seems like you're just insulting me.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 07:21 PM
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Got it, thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/18 10:29 PM
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I was just listening and agreeing, but as soon as she started being rude I got noticiably butthurt and asked why she was acting that way. She gave a lame excuse (“you didn’t really pay attention to what I tell you or you would have understood already”, something along those lines. So I said “well, if that’s not good enough you can go talk to someone else” and got into the shower. But I was showing anger, since I was thinking how could she do that when I was being nice and listening to her. After…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/18 07:25 PM
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Man, thank you so much. I kept postponing posting here because I didn't think it would have such an effect on me. There's a lot of shit I wasn't noticing and probably there still is. Your links were eye openers for a lot of stuff I need to work trough. I'll keep posting on the OYS thread, your input is welcome.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 03:58 PM
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Things were doing pretty good an year ago, when we first considered moving in together. We’ve been through some rough shit together and I have no doubts about my relationship when I think in terms of long term or big life decisions. It’s the everyday stuff that I haven’t figured out yet. In the case I can’t figure it out with her I’ve got no strings attached. I would have a hard time watching her suffer but if I need to end it so be it. EDIT: also, from what I gathered I’ve gathered I have a lot…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 10:49 PM
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cool, let’s see how things go this week. I’ll implement that
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 09:28 PM
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Thanks a lot for the input. It's frustrating that I let those things happen without realising at the time but at least I'm starting to see. Second, and pay close attention, you literally cannot take anything your wife says about her emotions or the relationship seriously. Well, this will be a tough one for me, even though I'm ready to accept that rationally. It's something I'll have to work on for a while.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 07:48 PM
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My rationale is that she's supposed to treat me with the same respect that I give her. So for instance if I'm talking to her and she starts to tell me about her day it would be disrespectful to start giving me shit for not understanding some detail of what she is saying or not remembering some specific thing that she told me one week ago. Now I'm thinking that even this would be a covert contract. Is that the problem? Regardless, I'm realising I do way more of that then I initially though. This …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 07:08 PM
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thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 05:09 PM
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Don't engage with the negativity, she is just dumping it out. Got it. going to resolve as your MAP progresses. Be patient. Got it. Big DLV Got it, I will work on that. You don't see this giant covert contract right here? I didn’t see it, but you’re right. It’s stupid and I’ll pay more attention. If this keeps happening maybe I will read it again, let’s see. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 02:30 PM
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by sidebar you mean the books suggested on the sidebar?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 01:49 PM
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First OYS 24, 17%, 165, SQ 305, DL 375, BP 185, OHP 125. Read the entire RP sidebar posts, Sex God Method and NMMNG. Background: Been dating the same girl since I'm 18, only learned about the pill 6 months ago during a huge fight when I turned to reddit to figure out why I wasn't having any sex. Things got better real fast after the first few months so I decided I didn't really need TRP but here I am again. Only this time I decided to get serious and really go for it. Either things improve or I'…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 10:09 AM
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