24, 17%, 165, SQ 305, DL 375, BP 185, OHP 125. Read the entire RP sidebar posts, the wiki, Sex God Method and NMMNG. Been reading the subs since last year but I posted for the first time last week and things started changing a lot since them. So, I think I started having comfort tests but I'm not sure I'm even doing this right so I decided to post here. Since last week I've been focusing a lot on frame, developing my mission and my goals and expressing that to the world, etc. Also, I think I did a good job on not adhering to covert contracts or trying to negotiate attraction. Since last Thursday I started getting the feeling I was passing shit tests, I went out with my girlfriend and we had a great time. She tested a bit but I blew it off and it wasn't a big deal, at times she got a little annoyed but I held frame and she came right back to being happy and enjoying herself right after. Then comes Saturday and I was leaving for a work travel. She was acting really pissy that she worked all week and now had to clean the house etc. She also said I wasn't cleaning anything since I was traveling so I said "hey, I think I did my fair share of cleaning during the week and I can't help you to day. If you don't want to clean don't clean, but don't try to start a fight either". I said goodbye and left in a good mood. Then at night I was invited to stay at a friends house and have BBQ in the city I was in for work. I invited her to come by bus and she immediately agrees, which was a pleasant surprise. So she arrived the next day in a great mood and everything was going fine. I kept passing shit tests (in my estimation) and she was really pleasant to be around. Then during the BBQ she asked me to go and get her beer to which I complied. Then she asked again and I thought she was testing me so I said no, she pushed and I used AA so she went and got it herself. I thought it was all good but she started bringing it up how I wouldn't even get her beer. Then she looked at me and asked real nicely "heeey can you pleeeease go and get me another one? pleaseee" and that's where I think I fucked up. I said no again and she seemed really hurt by it, almost cried on the spot which I though was really weird. After that things derailed and she started acting like a bitch. On our way back we had a fight over it and she started saying that I don't care about her, she came all the way here for me to treat her like that, etc. I tried not to engage but failed a bit. So I decided to give her comfort and it seemed to work, I took her out to dinner when we arrived in our city and she started acting nice again. When we got home she invited me to go to bed with her and we started making out but she wasn't really into it and was just laying there so I called it off and tried my best not to make a big deal about it (I think I succeeded). Today I give her a ride to work and she starts saying that she doesn't wanna have sex with me because I don't care about her or the relationship. Basically saying on repeat that I don't care for her and don't do anything for her. So I resisted the urge to say all the things I do for her even though she pushed me to. I said I wasn't listing anything because I do things to support her, not to get credit. She brings up the beer again. I figure she still wants comfort so I shut up and before she leaves I hug her, tell her I love her and that we shouldn't be fighting for something so trivial, that maybe I should have gotten her beer but I'm not always perfect and even though she may not have noticed but I'm trying really hard to support her and make her happy. So, am I reading this right? Am I approaching redpill with the right mindset? It seems to be working but I still feel really lost sometimes and I really don't want her to be unhappy because I'm stupid and can't deal with my shit.