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youscum/r/askMRP04/08/17 05:07 PM
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Your wives want to be sluts. What's funny is that this fact is often lying out in the open, right in our fucking faces. I know it was for me. Just pay attention to what tv/movies your woman watches. What she reads. They tell us every day how slutty they want to be.
/r/askMRP29/03/19 10:44 AM
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Ahhh...finally some good content to read. 🍿🍿🍿You fuckers were starting to bore me.
/r/askMRP28/03/19 06:42 PM
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Do you share how much you earn? Yup. We have joint bank accounts so she can see my direct deposit going in every payday. Do you tally all of your expenses? Yup. I keep our budget on an excel spreadsheet. As bills are paid, I remove the item from the total of bills due to give us a sense of what our net cash flow will be for that month. If I notice spending gets out of hand and would put us in the red (negative cash flow), I notify the wife and tell her to reign it in. Do you disclose how much yo…
/r/askMRP14/11/18 04:12 PM
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We are very new still in the relationship This is why your oneitis hasn't hurt you yet. She is too high off her brain juice (dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, endorphins) to be able to recognize your faggotry for what it really is. Once she builds a tolerance to you, as one does when exposed to a drug over a long enough period of time, she will get bored and lose attraction and begin to resent you.
/r/askMRP13/11/18 07:42 PM
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Frame is not something you can just simply acquire by reading a few comments from the fags of this sub. Frame is acquired like building an immunity to a disease. You don't just suddenly get it. It takes time, discipline, and hard work. The question is what work have you actually done? Cut the shit, bitch. Stats or GTFO.
/r/askMRP07/11/18 11:52 PM
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Being jacked like the Hulk is not what drops the panties. It helps, most definitely, but it is not the most important criteria to getting a wife/LTR to become your slut. I was a sexy bitch with visible abs long before I swallowed the pill. It wasn't until I learned about frame, shit tests, outcome independence, convert contracts, etc. that finally started to turn my sexual relationship with my wife into what I always wanted. It sounds like you got the lifting down pat. Focus on improving the oth…
/r/askMRP06/11/18 12:35 PM
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I'm going to make sure I pass the rest that come up. A key element to passing shit tests is having the mindset that you don't give a shit if you pass.
/r/askMRP05/11/18 10:28 AM
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Uh...wut? Grade-A trolling. Haha I love this post.
/r/askMRP31/10/18 12:47 PM
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part of my long-term plan if my wife doesn't respond naturally to the changes I've made/am making is to try for some sort of marriage and/or sex counseling What part of "the stay plan is the same as the go plan" did you not understand? If she doesn't respond to your improvements, counseling won't help either. Here's my advice: Less thinking and giving a fuck, more lifting.
/r/askMRP29/10/18 09:33 PM
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Your post is vague as shit so I'm not sure how much help you will get from us. It could be that (1) your wife is just throwing typical shit tests at you and you keep failing them like a faggot, (2) you just suck at leading or have such a shitty track record that your wife is justified not to trust your decisions, or (3) your wife is a monster-sized cunt and you should have nexted her yestersay. My money is on 1 or 2.
/r/askMRP25/10/18 10:39 AM
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Hold on, brb. Need to grab some popcorn before I watch everyone here rip you a new asshole.
/r/askMRP19/10/18 04:26 PM
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My God, what a shit show your house is. wife went into the basement to get the cloth diapers and change out laundry for 5min. Just she left the 1 and 2 year old upstairs. Where were you? What were you doing? Why was it her responsibility to watch the kids? I ended up calling her out and saying that was a poor parenting decision You stated the obvious and placed all of the blame on her. Unless you clearly communicated who was responsible for watching the kids at that time, you both fucked up. How…
/r/askMRP17/10/18 04:54 PM
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Take what you want. Next time you or her are about to bang, get on top and straddle her chest like you are about to titty fuck her. Put your dick in her face and if she swats your cock away, declines, or gives some bullshit excuse, just smile and say "OK. Maybe next time." Put your clothes back on and leave the room. Let her know you don't need a blowjob from her. She'll get the message loud and clear. I used to tolerate shitty, selfish bedroom behavior. I don't anymore. Just make sure you have …
/r/askMRP16/10/18 10:14 PM
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she tells me she felt scolded. Aww. You hurt her feelings. Classic shit test to see if you will hold your ground. I owned that and apologized. This was your fuck up. You should have said the scolding was only part 1 of her punishment and that it was now time for her spanking.
/r/askMRP15/10/18 11:16 PM
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This isn't the right place to seek this kind of advice. The only thing we know how to do here is lift and smash.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 07:46 PM
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As others have said, lawyer up. You should have done this yesterday. Next, pretend as if everything is fine. Escalate when she cries or gets emotional. Tears make for great lube. Finally, get back on the mats. Join a jiu jitsu gym and choke some dudes.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 07:02 PM
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If I don't wake up when my alarm goes off at 4:45am, my wife will nudge me and say verbatim "Go lift, faggot." I have given these instructions to her. My first mate clearly knows what her role and responsibilities are and knows what's important to me, does yours?
/r/askMRP10/10/18 06:58 PM
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it's hard to do much with her. I'm not suggesting you plan date nights, faggot. Being fun mainly refers to YOUR mindset, attitude, and demeanor. You come home to a harpy cunt, so what? That shouldn't change your emotions or ability to have a good time. Tease her and game her regardless of how she is behaving. There is a word for this. It's called frame. Maybe you read about this once or twice in your 3 years of lurking?
/r/askMRP10/10/18 06:52 PM
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When you are married: being fun > being attractive. You got your SMV in check, but where's the rest?
/r/askMRP10/10/18 06:38 PM
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It's a numbers game. Especially when you are a chump with no game.
/r/askMRP10/10/18 11:21 AM
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I imagine you are Michael Scott doing dumb shit around the house in a desperate attempt for attention. Your wife is Jim who awkwardly looks at the camera to signal her awareness of how dumb her husband is.
/r/askMRP10/10/18 10:52 AM
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She told everyone to shut up This is where you calmly get up and ask your wife to join you in another room away from kids. Insist it is urgent and that you just need to tell her something. This is not a discussion. When she joins you, sit her down like the child she is. Look her straight in the eyes and say something like: "Although I don't know why, I understand you are upset and frustrated. Regardless of how you feel, you will not talk to me or our children that way. I don't know what kind of …
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:01 PM
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no access to a gym The fuck is wrong with doing push-ups, pull-ups, burpees, etc? If you make up excuses in life as much as you do in a single victim-puke, there's no wonder why you feel like a bitch. You are one. I have no safe people to talk to... Spoken like a true woman. Women need to "talk out their feelings". Men don't talk. They get shit done. Look at yourself in the mirror. Smack yourself for being such a pussy all these years and say goodbye to that faggot you once knew. The time for fu…
/r/askMRP05/10/18 02:50 PM
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I would tell you to drop this chick like a flaming bag of shit, but I know your pussy ass won't do it. Oneitis is a powerful disease and it's got you bad. Thankfully for you there is a cure. Here's what I would do: - lift more, eat more. At 6'1" and 165lbs, you are a skinny bitch. Bulk up. Become a fucking Viking. - Acquire plates. At least 2. Strange pussy is a great remedy for oneitis. - Cancel the counseling appointment. Tell your "wife" that you won't be going. Do not provide her with a reas…
/r/askMRP02/10/18 08:12 PM
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First of all, don't take everything that you read here as gospel. Many comments you see will be from fake alphas trying to be Mr. Billy Badass behind a keyboard. Frame is really just your world view. And having a strong frame means nothing will alter or manipulate your world view. Ex 1- I know I am an attractive man. It would be foolish to think that every woman wants me. But rejection is funny to me because of the knowledge I have about my own value. In my world view, I am awesome and rejection…
/r/askMRP02/10/18 02:25 PM
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I get it. I have kids, too. Doesn't change the fact that this mindset is an indirect form of oneitis for your wife. I want my family to remain intact just like you, but my wife knows I'm willing and ready to burn it all down in a moment's notice. Are you?
/r/askMRP02/10/18 10:27 AM
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Don't sweat the small stuff. Everything is small stuff. some cunt from this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 10:04 PM
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I desperately dont want to lose her Fix this faggotty mindset that you have. The rest won't mean shit until you do. Only when you are content to lose her will she start to desire you again.
/r/askMRP01/10/18 09:58 PM
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You couldn't protect me if there was a break in. "Couldn't...? Or wouldn't?" My father has manlier hobbies than you "Fair enough, but I'm banging his daughter so I win." You're not manly enough to ride a motorcycle "Why would I ride something fast and dangerous when I can get one to ride me instead?" ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) It doesn't really matter what you say, so long as you don't take it seriously.
/r/askMRP01/10/18 04:27 PM
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Ignore. Not saying anything is usually the best response to a harpy bitch.
/r/askMRP27/09/18 10:39 AM
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How would you handle all of this? I would probably just bang someone 10 years younger and hotter than my wife and then see how I feel about things afterwards.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 06:47 PM
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Talk s l o w l y. Slower than you think is necessary. It will portray confidence and allow you to avoid fumbling your words. Also, remember that no one cares about you. Do you remember that one dude's presentation last week and everyone could tell how nervous he was? No? Me neither. Everyone is so worried about themselves they really won't notice your fuck-ups or even care if they did.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 04:23 PM
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Next.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 04:19 PM
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I see your point and don't disagree with it entirely. But there comes a point when enough is enough and giving the SO a taste of her own medicine is in good order. If you do it with a IDGAF mindset without anger taking control, I would argue that it is not breaking frame. His woman thinks he is a pussy and doesn't have the balls to stand up to her. She needs to be corrected ASAP.
/r/askMRP25/09/18 06:20 PM
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People want what they "can't have." Build it up over a few sessions via dirty talk during sex. Tell her only good girls get to swallow and that she's a filthy, naughty bitch. Let her know you want your cum all over her face, but she doesn't deserve it. Do this over a month or two and before you know it, she'll open up and say AHH on demand like you're her dentist. This worked for me and my wife hates bodily fluids. She gags when I brush my teeth next to her. Stems from her childhood. Whatevs. No…
/r/askMRP25/09/18 04:20 PM
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Before I took the pill, I discovered my wife was reading all of those dumb 50 Shades of Gray novels. I foolishly asked her if she wanted to play around with that kinda shit in the bedroom. "Oh no, I just think its dumb mindless reading material. I really AM NOT into that stuff." Fast forward to now, guess who loves to be choked, restrained, slapped, called names, etc? Don't listen to their words. Pay attention to their actions Stop asking for permission. Take what you want. Read up on DEVI from …
/r/askMRP24/09/18 10:09 PM
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Not the right sub. Take this over to r/askmrp.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/18 09:39 PM
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"I fucked up and I am sorry. I know how hurt you must be and understand if you want to leave me." Done. Broken record if she keeps bringing it up. Beyond that, there isn't much else to say. If she asks you "why" just pressure flip "is there any excuse for my fuck up that would justify my actions?"
/r/askMRP24/09/18 09:27 PM
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Your wife is 340lbs and calls you a fag? When was the last time you put her in her place? I mean, like, really REALLY put her in her place? I know we say talk is cheap around here, but the moment your fat cow of a wife disrespects you, you should verbally slap that bitch so hard she would have a second case of PTSD to treat.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 04:52 PM
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What advice do you want us to give when you can't even take the time to post your stats? Lazy fucking post from a lazy fucking bitch.
/r/askMRP23/09/18 09:51 PM
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I would say shut up and lift but your numbers are pretty solid. That fat boy strength never goes away, does it?
/r/askMRP20/09/18 02:02 AM
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Who the fuck has been talking about Fight Club and invited this tool here?
/r/askMRP19/09/18 11:31 PM
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You're overthinking it, man. If she says she misses you three times, say it back once. Enjoy your free time away and stop acting like you are playing a game of chess with her. If I do this, she'll do that You aren't playing a game of chess with her. Instead you are the chess board that you so graciously allow her to play on. If I was there I'd hold you right now. Haha what a fag
/r/askMRP18/09/18 11:19 PM
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Upvote for not your normal
/r/askMRP18/09/18 10:19 PM
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Expect comfort tests. Provide comfort. Then tell her to send nudes. Text game for feelz. Once you're back at home, leave the texting for logistics.
/r/askMRP18/09/18 10:15 PM
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You are currently passing through Ramboville. Population: You. We've all visited this place before. Just keep driving and don't stay for too long.
/r/askMRP18/09/18 09:58 PM
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Why would I be mad? What makes you think something is wrong? Pressure flip. This worked well for me when my wife assumed I was butthurt after rejection. If you are mad, let her own hamster figure it out.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 02:16 PM
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AM - Amused Mastery. The fact that you couldn't find the answer to this question on your own makes me wonder how much work and effort you are actually putting into this shit. Stop being lazy.
/r/askMRP12/09/18 07:05 PM
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Women rate men on a binary scale Well said, sir.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 07:03 PM
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"Only when you are clean will you know my power."
/r/askMRP07/09/18 01:54 PM
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So you're not willing to be a man and lead your girl to a proper fucking because you're not horny enough, yet you come here to whine to a bunch of internet strangers about your blue balls... yea, we'll see you in 6 months when you post here about how you walked in on your girl getting pounded by Chad.
/r/askMRP01/09/18 01:38 PM
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threats to leave Welp, she knows YOU aren't going anywhere so expect this behavior of hers to continue. If I were you, I'd extend your stay for another week for "personal time" and let her know that if she continues to make threats regarding your family unit, you'll have papers for her to sign when you return. You have to make her understand that you will not hesitate to burn the ship to the ground if she continues to disrespect you.
/r/askMRP30/08/18 02:43 PM
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Translation: "Dear AskMRP, how do I get my woman to stop acting like a woman?"
/r/askMRP29/08/18 06:19 PM
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The question shouldn't be "why did this happen?" but rather "why do you care?"
/r/askMRP17/08/18 10:23 AM
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Who cares? A shark doesn't wonder why the tide goes in and out. It just wakes up and starts looking for shit to bite.
/r/askMRP14/08/18 01:46 PM
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Act as if. Lead with an assumptive close. That is, make plans with the assumption they are going. Don't ask for their opinions or permission. "Hey everyone, we're going to do x, y, and z today. Reservations are made and I have our tickets." That's OK honey. I'm going to stay home today." "We leave in 1 hour. Everyone needs to be dressed and wear comfortable shoes. See you in the car!" If they aren't ready in an hour, you leave without them and do all the shit you had planned solo. Just make sure…
/r/askMRP14/08/18 10:45 AM
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☝this guy fucks
/r/askMRP10/08/18 06:47 PM
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Step 1: Give less fucks about what anyone thinks. Step 2: See Step 1
/r/askMRP10/08/18 10:41 AM
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The fact that you allowed a dead bedroom to exist for FOUR YEARS speaks volumes about your character and value as a man. You have much work to do. Get busy.
/r/askMRP08/08/18 10:46 AM
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What would you be doing right now if you were single? Do that.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 12:38 PM
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sniff, sniff. "That's our communication that I smell? My bad, I thought that was the baby's diaper." Who cares how you respond, so long as you aren't taking her tantrums seriously.
/r/askMRP02/08/18 08:07 PM
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You are being a needy, mate-guarding bitch. You're so caught up on what-ifs it's making you crazy. My wife works in a male dominated profession and I know for a fact has several orbiters dying to get in her pants. She goes away for business conferences pretty frequently and could easily cheat without me ever knowing. Maybe she already has? This is the cost of being with a high value woman- men what to fuck them. What can I do about it? Absolutely nothing. You need to come to terms with this fact…
/r/askMRP02/08/18 06:55 PM
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Dude, sometimes bitches are just crazy. You apparently have an extra crazy one. If I bought a piece of shit car with over 100,000 miles on it, that has been in multiple wrecks, and was siezed by police for investigation of a meth operation, would it be retarted of me to spend hours on the internet trying to understand why my car didn't purr like a kitten? Your question is 100% focused on your woman. Stop worrying about her. Focus on the one thing you can fix: yourself.
/r/askMRP02/08/18 01:20 PM
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only about a year in And yet you didn't know what OI stood for? Work harder.
/r/askMRP02/08/18 10:53 AM
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I commented earlier, but deleted it since many have already said what I wanted to say. But at 5'9 and 205lbs, I highly doubt your BF is at 16%. Are your abs visible? If not, make it so.
/r/askMRP01/08/18 05:30 PM
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Yea, we get it. Nice analogy and everything, but I think you should go lift something heavy until your vagina stops hurting.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 09:12 PM
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if I follow my biological desire to fuck other woman. You have my blessing. Go smash some strange. And as a result, you'll discover that you're still putting pussy on a pedestal, its just not your wife's. When you have a hot chick ten years younger riding you so hard you think your dick might break off, you might think to yourself "This is great and everything, but at the end of the day pussy is just....pussy." *Note: I cannot confirm nor deny that I have had any adulterous experience with said …
/r/askMRP30/07/18 08:49 PM
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I have a similiar problem. It's not that I don't find my wife attractive anymore, its just that the carrot has moved. I found the red pill over a year and a half ago after looking for ways to improve my sex life with my wife. I wanted dirty, passionate, animalistic sex that we had before marriage and kids. Now that I have that, and in some ways have a better sex life than we ever had, I'm thinking..."now what?" When I used to "communicate" with my wife about my sexual needs she used to say "noth…
/r/askMRP30/07/18 08:09 PM
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Not married, no kids? You can have all the sex you want, it just may not be with her. That's her choice. Stop being a pussy and go live life.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 01:02 PM
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Leave her alone for a good hour or so and then interact with her as if you didn't even notice she was upset. It's amazing how quick they get over their shit when you don't engage.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 10:41 PM
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Being careless is different than having a DNGAF attitude. If my boss told me that I "didn't give a fuck", I'd be a little worried about my future employment status.
/r/askMRP26/07/18 10:00 PM
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Hilarious. There's a bot for everything.
/r/askMRP26/07/18 06:58 PM
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Cool. No one cares.
/r/askMRP26/07/18 06:52 PM
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My wife has worked for large private firms in high-stress environments and has also worked for small, care-free government entities with zero pressure. Regardless of where she works or what her paycheck is, for as long as I've known her, once or twice a month (if not more) she will have a "rough day" and will come home to cry, complain, or just need to bury her face in my chest. Sometimes I'll crack a bottle of wine open and have her tell me all about her day (her courtroom drama stories are fun…
/r/askMRP25/07/18 08:20 PM
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Define "love".
/r/askMRP25/07/18 07:54 PM
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how do I know I've gotten the best wine out of these grapes? You won't. You can't predict the future. Just like Wall Street can't predict the stock market. If I sell a stock today, the price might sky rocket tomorrow. Hindsight is 20/20, as they say. But in the investment world, we make decisions based on information that is available. Your wife is a bore in bed. She was a bore before you even married her. Sure, she might be a cum gargling sex goddess who just hasn't been properly unleashed yet,…
/r/askMRP25/07/18 04:22 PM
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What do I do? Get off Reddit. Dad hard. Come back when the baby is 9 months old.
/r/askMRP24/07/18 11:46 AM
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Well I would leave but then who is going to take care of the house and cook your meals? This is where I would have escalated. "Aww, baby, I don't need you for THAT." starts taking off her pants Keep liftng. STFU more. Game your wife and be fun. This shit isn't rocket science.
/r/askMRP23/07/18 02:45 PM
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but she takes medication daily So does my wife. And my brother's wife. And my brother-in-law's wife. And one of my best friend's wife. Sidebar. Lift. STFU. Repeat.
/r/askMRP23/07/18 12:12 PM
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Do you think your woman is some sort of special snowflake because she has depression and anxiety? All women are fucking crazy in some sort of way. Sidebar still applies. There are no short cuts.
/r/askMRP22/07/18 10:17 PM
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Mate guarding is not attractive. If she wanted to jump on Chad's dick, there is nothing you can do to stop her. What you can do is lift, read, and be awesome so if she does cheat, you can laugh at her as your boot swiftly kicks her to the curb.
/r/askMRP20/07/18 06:55 PM
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I'm kinda forming these thoughts as I type them. Get a diary and GTFO. Come back when you have something valuable to ask/discuss.
/r/askMRP20/07/18 01:24 PM
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Mmmm. The smell of sweet ass nectar.
/r/askMRP19/07/18 10:12 PM
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A wise man once told me: A bottle of rosé makes the panties drop. Get her a little tipsy and then try. A little booze always helps to lower my woman's pesky ASD. Keep fighting that good fight, my brother. Just remember...no means no. Lol.
/r/askMRP19/07/18 10:06 PM
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The more I understand the female imperative, the more I feel sorry for them. They really are prisoners to their emotions and have no control over their irrational anger. When my wife is angry, I have found that ignoring her or responding with AA or AM just adds fuel to her rage. She will say that "I never take her seriously" or that "her needs aren't important to me" or some bullshit like that. Not that I care if she is angry with me, really, but with two young children I'd rather not have a fir…
/r/askMRP19/07/18 02:13 PM
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she'll stop me from touching her and say I'm disgusting. "You're god damn right I am." (and smack her ass hard) Own it with dominance. Dominance is key. Your wife may never let you fuck her in the ass, but the fact that she is teasing you about it tells me otherwise. So be patient and introduce other less-invasive ideas into the bedroom first (toys, porn, cameras, restraints, etc). If you aren't doing kinky shit already with your wife, you need to play in the baby pool for a little before you ar…
/r/askMRP18/07/18 08:21 PM
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She wants anal, you just haven't taken down her anti-slut defenses yet. Don't talk about it outside of the bedroom but if she brings it up or teases you about it, own it completely and unapologetically. Don't AA or deflect, she wants to know how serious you are. Her: You never wanted butt stuff before... You: Maybe you're right, but that doesn't matter. What matters now is...(walk up to her and whisper in her ear)...that I can't wait to be inside your ass. Something like that. Let your freak fla…
/r/askMRP18/07/18 06:43 PM
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Yup, she is using her pussy to manipulate him. Because of his newly found desire to lift and STFU, she thinks he is starting to check out of the relationship. I'll just fuck him good and tell him I miss him. That'll put him back in line for now.
/r/askMRP18/07/18 04:24 PM
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I fucked up like this once. Got carried away with commenting on this sub (as I do from time to time) while my wife was looking over my shoulder. I got careless. She asked what I was writing on Reddit... Fuck. Panic. What do I say? Initially, I told her it was none of her business but she wasn't having it and I knew I had to come up with a lie. Before I swallowed the pill, I've had discussions with my wife about our sex life and how I'm not happy with it (typical beta behavior). So I told her I w…
/r/askMRP18/07/18 02:42 PM
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Some fellow MRPers will say to never apologize, but I don't treat this shit as gospel. There are a few guys here that go hard in the paint with this redpill stuff, but have failed or failing marriages. So, obviously, pick and choose what works for you. I don't think there is anything wrong with apologizing depending on the severity of the issue. Minor fuck up: "Oops!" Medium fuck up: "Shit, my mistake." Major fuck up: "I'm sorry for ____."
/r/askMRP18/07/18 01:32 PM
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I disagree. To me, thats owning your shit. By avoiding the question or saying it's off limits, it sounds like you are scared of something. Or makes you seem like a pussy by trying to maintain some false sense of honor or respect for your poor little wife. With a smile, confidence, and direct eye contact, you can say whatever the fuck you want. You do you. Just do it with a strong frame and the panties will drop regardless. But this is why I comment. To recallibrate myelf.
/r/askMRP17/07/18 10:07 PM
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Be honest, but don't go on and on with a never-ending sob story. Dates are supposed to be fun, not depressing. One or two sentences is all you need to say and then change subjects. Something like... "Well obviously my marriage isn't great, but divorce laws don't exactly favor men. I want to remain a daily influence on my children, but don't want to sacrifice my own happiness in the process. So here we are. Mmmm, this stout looks good. What do you like to drink?"
/r/askMRP17/07/18 09:46 PM
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You're so deep in eveyone else's frame its sad. Who gives a fuck what a bunch of neckbeard strangers on the internet who don't get laid think? Apparently, you do.
/r/askMRP17/07/18 03:37 PM
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When I try to fix something around the house, I almost always have to search google or youtube for help (I suck at being handy and fixing shit). 99% of the time the instructions or tutorial I find will be for a different version or model of what I'm trying to fix. The step by step procedure doesn't apply to my exact problem but the foundation is there and it helps me determine the solution. MRP is a toolbox. Not all tools need to be used. Pick the ones that you think will work and don't be afrai…
/r/askMRP17/07/18 03:33 PM
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Revaluate your methods of getting shit done. Some ideas.... -Get a home gym. I lift in my garage. Bench press, squat rack, pull up bar, barbell, plates, dumbells, kettlebells. You can have a nice little "gym" at home for easily $500 or so which shouldn't be too expensive for someone like you. -Change your schedule. For example, I used to get my lifting done in the garage at night. This was a problem for me for several reasons (less time being a dad and husband). Now I wake up an hour earlier (5a…
/r/askMRP16/07/18 11:12 PM
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Damn, dude. You need help. I'll sometimes fold my wife's laundry if I have the time and if I feel like it. In the 10 years I have been married, I have never heard my wife bitch and complain about a favor I am doing for her. The moment she complains is the moment I stop doing favors. Stop doing her laundry right fucking now. If she wants something done right, she can do it herself. Don't say anything about it, just don't do it. If she asks or says something about it, just pressure flip and ask a …
/r/askMRP16/07/18 09:56 PM
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I'm 36 and a BJJ brown belt. I lift 3-4 times week, train BJJ 2-3 times per week. What I haven't seen commented here yet is diet. I've had some minor, nagging injuries here and there. Would normally work around it, lower weights, roll lighter, stretch more, etc. but some of those injuries just wouldn't go away. Specifically, I had this hip/thigh pain every time I did squats. Squats are a must, so I just powered through the discomfort. Then summer arrived and I started to cut for bikini season. I…
/r/askMRP16/07/18 09:14 PM
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As your SMV improves, your wife will (likely) follow suit. If you ask her or tell her to own her shit, she will probably resist or resent you. She needs to come to this decision on her own. Women want to feel like they are in control and don't want you solving problems for them. Recently my wife literally asked me if my SMV was higher than hers after her co-workers were teasing her about her "hot husband". All of the sudden she is doing squats and lunges with a kettlebell before bedtime. Don't u…
/r/askMRP16/07/18 08:44 PM
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fuck what she says! Truth. Before I swallowed the pill, my wife read all those dumb 50 Shades of Gray novels (and others). When I brought up the idea of tying her up, playing with toys, etc. she would always say "No, I'm really not into that stuff. I just think the books are dumb, mindless fun". Then I swallowed the pill and was angry at myself for how foolish I was. Been about a year and a half since I swallowed the pill and guess who's wife loves to be dominated, choked, restrained, slapped, s…
/r/askMRP16/07/18 07:48 PM
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Also- being fun and spontaneous is not just about planning dates and vacations. Taking the lead as a boring person doesn't do much for the ladies. A few ideas... -Put her in her place more often. Women love it when their man refuses to take any shit from her. Look for opportunities to stand up for yourself and don't be afraid to come off as an "asshole". Women fuck assholes ALL THE TIME. Emotions, whether good or bad, are what you want to tap into with her. -Be more dominate in the bedroom. Surp…
/r/askMRP16/07/18 07:32 PM
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Dude- reply to the comment so we know who you are responding to.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 07:15 PM
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DEER much? I once read this quote on this sub and it stuck with me. When men masterbate, it says NO ONE WILL HAVE SEX WITH ME! When women masterbate, it says HEY LOOK! I'M SEXUALLY AVAILABLE! Jerking off isn't attractive. I understand you gotta do it every now and then, but be discreet about it. Would you fart around your woman if you could avoid it? I try to remind myself that everything I do with my wife is a date. If I'm on a date and trying to get laid, I'm not going to display any unattract…
/r/askMRP16/07/18 07:08 PM
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She is super unattracted to you and not just physically. You can get ripped and upgade your wardrobe all day long and she still won't get wet for you. Why? Because she thinks you are boring. You are not fun, you don't give her the tingles, you aren't exciting or spontaneous. Sounds like you got the fitness in check. Get to work on the other stuff. And yes, do not talk about her issue with sex. Never, ever talk about sex. How will discussing this problem improve her desire for you? It won't so ST…
/r/askMRP16/07/18 06:25 PM
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Why am I an insecure bitch? Probably because your true mission and purpose of your MRP journey is and has been all for your wife. You are doing this all for her and you evaluate your progress based on her responses to you.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 01:22 PM
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Loyal as in stay in the marriage and be a loving and supportive father and husband? Yes. Loyal as in not getting any strange on the side? No.
/r/askMRP13/07/18 12:35 AM
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Boundaries. Rambo. Comfort. DNGAF It's cool that you were able to pull some terms from the sidebar and quote them as your post's title. Made me think there was something valuable in here. I didn't read anything about boundaries that you set or want to set, didn't see much Rambo as he typically applies MRP concepts to the extreme (obviously not what you are doing), didn't read anything about a need to provide comfort or that you provided comfort, and you CERTAINLY give a fuck. Way too many. You g…
/r/askMRP12/07/18 06:40 PM
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How can I enforce this boundary? After she has cooled down (a few hours? maybe a few days?), tell her to sit down and that you have something important you want to tell her. Don't give her any warning or heads-up and be careful with your words. Don't say you have something you want to discuss with her. This is not a discussion. Be assertive and make it a big deal to demand her attention. When she sits down, you remain standing. Do not give her the impression with words or body language that this…
/r/askMRP11/07/18 06:32 PM
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I think a response via text is warranted here. It's a comfort test and in order to pass you need to provide comfort. She's analyzing her text history and trying to find some paper trail for proof that you love her. Sure, you can continue to be Mr. Billy Badass and either ignore her text (since its not related to logistics) or reply with some witty AA, but I think you would benefit more by just telling her you do love her to get her to shut up. She is thirsty for some feelz and is probably close …
/r/askMRP11/07/18 04:27 PM
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I feel like there is some information missing here. She asked you to leave simply because you failed her comfort test(s)? That doesn't sound right. What are you not telling us?
/r/askMRP10/07/18 10:12 PM
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I'd rather fuck a passionate and enthusiasic 6 who will gladly swallow my cum than fuck a lazy, starfish 9 who thinks she is "doing me a favor".
/r/askMRP10/07/18 08:58 PM
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I'm not a business owner, but I'm guessing hiring people is a good thing if employees are needed to get the job done. It sounds like your business doesn't need employees, but you want them so YOU can feel needed. Is that accurate? Sounds like something a woman would say...
/r/askMRP10/07/18 08:49 PM
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Pretty sure he was being sarcastic, buddy.
/r/askMRP10/07/18 08:45 PM
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If you've been here for over a year, there is no advice in this thread that you haven't already read many times over. You know what you need to do. Here's a dumb "mental" trick that helps me take action on my to-do list: make a "promise" to yourself about something that needs to get done. Pretend the promise you make is to someone really important in your life (like a child you do not want to disappoint). If you made a promise to, say, your girlfriend's little sister, you would be damned if you …
/r/askMRP10/07/18 06:31 PM
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My wife's grandmother died on Christmas day last year and her health was in a downward spiral for some time before she passed. While my wife wasn't as close to her grandmother as I'm sure your wife is to her father, the course of action for you is no different. Provide comfort, be patient, be a good a listener, don't say anything dumb. Since your father passed of cancer, you should be able to relate to what your wife is going through and have an easy lay-up for giving your wife some feelz. Tell …
/r/askMRP10/07/18 02:37 PM
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I think fogging is the best course of action here, which will allow her to see how dumb she is being through her own self-discovery. "How did I disrespect you?" By snapchatting with other girls! "Can you help me understand how is that disrespectful?" She won't have a logical reponse. Whatever she says just respond with something like... "Hmm. That's interesting you feel that way." (this is how to properly STFU). If she persists, you can shut it down by saying "I have acknowledged your feelings a…
/r/askMRP05/07/18 02:06 PM
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I sometimes feel guilty for the cows who are factory farmed for human consumption, but then I remember burgers and steaks are delicious.
/r/askMRP02/07/18 01:34 PM
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"Whew! It's a good thing that's ALL you found." Then walk away. Nothing you say or do will somehow magically get her to trust you. She wants to fight about this. How do you get her to drop it? Make her bored. Just don't make it a big deal and eventually neither will she.
/r/askMRP30/06/18 03:49 AM
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What a rambling, bumbling mess you are. If this is how you communicate at home, it's no wonder there is chaos. You clearly haven't done any work. Your diet and lifting schedule is probably non-existent, isn't it? Go ahead and get started on the sidebar but by the time you start making any actual improvements, the divorce papers will be signed. Your wife doesn't want you. You came here too late. You can't save your marriage. But you can still save yourself.
/r/askMRP30/06/18 03:37 AM
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Fix what? What's done is done. Next time, don't ask her to kiss you a certain way. Show her. Lead with your actions, not your words.
/r/askMRP29/06/18 07:11 PM
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Have I made a fuck up of setting this boundary? Yes, you have.
/r/askMRP29/06/18 06:29 PM
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True...unless your (ex)wife was a lazy cunt who wouldn't hesitate to hire the first scumbag off of Craigslist. My rule of thumb: if it involves your kid, it involves you.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 05:46 PM
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1) You are a busy man. It should be rare for you to not have something on your calendar. If she is asking you to take the kid, that should mean you have to cancel something from your schedule. This can be acceptable on occasion but if you do this enough times, your ex will take advantage of you and see that your time isn't important or valuable. If I were you, I'd give your ex the number to a trustworthy babysitter and let her know you already have plans. 2) You shouldn't be any more or less fri…
/r/askMRP25/06/18 04:56 PM
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Help in any way possible when it comes to the kids. Be there for them and pick up your wife's slack, if you have to. Be as much of a positive influence on the kids as you can. For anything else, ignore it completely. Don't offer any help or advice or guidance for your wife in any way unless it somehow benefits your kids. If what you say is true about your wife, I wouldn't piss on her if she was on fire. Let that bitch burn. Afterall, she is the one who lit the match.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 04:20 PM
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slow clap
/r/askMRP25/06/18 01:08 PM
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She treats you this way because she believes you can't do any better than her. Can you?
/r/askMRP25/06/18 01:00 PM
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had anyone else experienced anything like this? Yes. Your woman is not unique. Lack of sex ✔ Lack of respect ✔ Puts others before you✔ Welcome home, faggot. Now get to work.
/r/askMRP22/06/18 02:58 PM
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How to improve OI: long method- lift, sidebar, internalize, patience, repeat short method- bang a hottie 10 years younger and suddenly realize your wife's vagina is one of many and not special or unique in any way
/r/askMRP21/06/18 03:55 PM
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Read up on DEVI from The Sex God Method. I would focus more on the EV and I for right now. Once you get her panties off regularly, start subtly adding the D (pun intended). Your chick will have a hard time resisting dominate behavior when you are inside her. Over the course of several weeks/months, increase the intensity of D when fucking her. I have found that once my chick started regularly submitting to me in the bedroom, she was much more likely to follow my lead in other areas of our lives.
/r/askMRP20/06/18 02:06 PM
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What are you doing to withdraw affection? If all you are doing is saying "Ok" and then going to sleep after a rejection, that is not withdrawing affection. That is simply just going to sleep.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 12:19 AM
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Yea it sounds like you're going a bit Rambo. Saying "no" because you think you HAVE to, not because you actually want or need to. Regardless, you need not engage in her bullshit. Remember when you were a kid and you would ask your parents for something and they'd tell you no? Then you'd ask "why?" How would your parents respond? Do these words sound familiar: "Because I said so." Parents don't DEER or engage with children. It is a waste of energy and regardless of your explanation, no matter how…
/r/askMRP18/06/18 08:31 PM
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Asking you to get her a beer and then being pissed off about your answer is a shitty comfort test. Its both a shit test and comfort test. She is shit testing you to see if you hold your ground, but then comfort tests you (crying) upon the realization that she is losing her beta bitch errand boy saying "you don't care about her". The only thing I would have changed is how you said "no". She intrepreted it as some act of defiance because she is not used to hearing that two letter word come from yo…
/r/askMRP18/06/18 07:44 PM
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A year into this shit and you're still trying to negotiate desire? Let's say your wife did agree to fuck you more because she doesn't want a divorce. Then what? You have a wife who starfish duty fucks you more frequently just to shut you up. Is that what you want? A wife who regretfully fucks you out of compliance? Negotiating desire (or crying like a baby because your wife won't fuck you) is probably THE worst thing one can do for their sexual relationship. Smack yourself hard in the face and p…
/r/askMRP18/06/18 02:36 PM
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This comment is gold. Saved.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 08:46 PM
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Yes, it is DEERing. The reason it is bad is because you are providing a legitimate answer to an illegitimate question. "Are you gay? You seem totally gay." I'm definitely NOT gay. I don't like dudes, I like women. I don't know why you'd think that. That's ridiculous. (do you see how gay that sounds?)
/r/askMRP14/06/18 07:37 AM
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Damn, dude. Can we get a TL;DR next time? Fuck. Here's my analysis: Tues- you failed her "I don't need another kid hanging on me" shit test. You should have AA'd it by tugging at her dress and pretending to whine "But mommy, I haven't seen you all day and need attention!" and then continued to kiss her, fuck with her, etc. Something to that affect. She took your silence as butthurtness. STFU doesn't mean "be quiet". Wednes: You Rambo-ing. Thurs: More Rambo-ing. You aren't gaming your wife or bei…
/r/askMRP11/06/18 07:26 PM
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Your hair: This isn't working out. I don't want to be in this relationship anymore. You: Baby, no! Please stay. I love you. I'll do anything! Just please don't leave me 😭. Your hair: Stop crying. I have to go now. Good bye. Maybe thats a dumb analogy, but you get the point. Fuck your hair and everything it stands for. Shave that shit!
/r/askMRP08/06/18 06:16 PM
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First off...you have a 6 month old daughter? If so, that means you swallowed the pill during your wife's pregnancy? If that's the case, SLOW DOWN. They say you shouldn't be doing much of any MRP related shit (besides lifting) until the baby is at least 1 year old. With that said... I had similar problems when I first started (swallowed the pill about a year and a half ago). My wife is an attorney who loves to be in control of shit and it took her a while to get on board with my new mission. At a…
/r/askMRP07/06/18 09:15 PM
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Talk to a lawyer about a revocable living trust. The money goes into the trust, you name yourself as the trustee who controls how that money is spent, invested, etc. You have full control and ownership while you are alive, just like you would in a regular individually owned bank/investment account. You can name your wife as the beneficiary if you die or your children or both or whoever. The kicker is you also control the money from beyond the grave. Once you die it becomes an IRREVOCABLE trust, …
/r/askMRP07/06/18 02:31 PM
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Being that this is ASK MRP, I assume you have a question?
/r/askMRP31/05/18 06:38 PM
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that is not happening again. You (while laughing): Maybe not from you.
/r/askMRP25/05/18 07:43 PM
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What did you come here for? You have no specific question for anyone to help you with. You are basically asking internet strangers to make a major life decision for you. That's not what this sub is for. If you want decisions made for you, visit here
/r/askMRP25/05/18 07:21 PM
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Yea, of course it CAN work. Buying a lottery ticket can also make you a millionaire. But I guess it depends on what "out of the blue" really means. If you have applied the principles of MRP throughout your daily life and your woman knows she is with a valuable man who takes what he wants...I wouldn't really call that "out of the blue". At that point, your woman has been conditioned to spontaneous and bold actions from you. She expects those from you. And if she knows you can easily obtain a hott…
/r/askMRP25/05/18 01:33 PM
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Your woman wants to spend HER money on things she enjoys and would like to enjoy your company while doing so? How dare her. If you feel bad for allowing her to spend money on you, then you must not think you are worthy or valuable enough. This is about your insecurities, which is unattractive. Instead of being a whiny bitch, take pride in the fact that you have a valuable woman who is not into you for money. Have fun with it. Tease her for being your "sugar mama". After she drops some cash for w…
/r/askMRP25/05/18 11:11 AM
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You are more clueless than I thought. How is kino used here overt? Did you make it known throughout the day that you were going to fuck her later? If not, then it is covert. You had a hidden agenda so stop lying to yourself. When I first started the simple act of me lifting was a covert contract ("If I get big muscles, surely she will fuck me then!") When you start making kino a normal part of who you are and do it day in and day out, not because you are hoping to get laid, but because you are a…
/r/askMRP24/05/18 08:19 PM
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Let me help you... Convert contract = doing something with the unspoken goal of getting laid You kino'ing your chick "all day" was for the sole purpose of getting your dick wet. A covert contract. And when it didnt pay off, you got butthurt and went to go cry in the guest room.
/r/askMRP24/05/18 07:38 PM
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You assumed correctly. Simply whipping your dick out would not have produced a different result. In fact, any strategy applied here would have likely been met with a rejection. Why? Because you aren't attractive enough...yet. But no matter how attractive you are, your wife will likely not respond well to you just telling her to suck your dick out of the blue. Or whipping it out in front of her face. Would you do that to someone on a first date? Probably not. It comes off as rude and disrespectfu…
/r/askMRP24/05/18 07:08 PM
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I think he means you should escalate with your actions, not your words. Your woman wants to FEEL like she is in control. If you straight up tell her you want her to suck your dick, she's going to be like "nah homie, I tell YOU what to do. Not the other way around." Her anti-slut defense goes up when you make it obvious like that. By escalating with your actions, not words, you will be more likely to sneak by her defenses and get what you want.
/r/askMRP24/05/18 02:58 PM
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The other week I went to Nordstrom Rack (the store that sells the shit the regular Nordstrom store couldn't), picked out 6 or 7 different pairs of dress pants, tried them on, bought 4 that fit the best. They were like $30 a piece, too, which was easy on the wallet.
/r/askMRP18/05/18 07:07 PM
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I get it. That sometimes happens to me. It's a bj not out of desire but more out of her just fullfilling her duties as a wife (which is not necessarily a bad thing). Depending on the quality of the bj, you might consider taking the same approach as one would with the starfish. Caveman her face. Or...don't finish and instead let her know it just isn't doing it for you.
/r/askMRP18/05/18 01:47 PM
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Would you change your strategy when playing different opponents in chess? Would you alter your approach for different people/personalities when closing on a sale? If I know the mood and mindset of my target, I can adapt my strategy and tailor it to get the best outcome. Thinking you have to be Mr. Billy Badass all the time is what leads guys to becoming Rambo.
/r/askMRP18/05/18 01:15 PM
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I find kino to be a great tool for "prediciting the weather". If my wife is cold and distant to my kino (not smirking or leaning in to my touches), there's a high probability of getting "I'm not in the mood" with a slight chance of pity starfish sex. Predicting the weather, so to speak, allows me to accept the rejection before it even happens. Which makes it A LOT easier to deal with. And sometimes if I predict a rejection on the horizon, I won't even bother escalating and will go do something e…
/r/askMRP18/05/18 01:19 AM
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"I understand you have a problem with the beard. I really like it and believe my happiness is just as important as yours. But, of course, I love you and I am willing to make some sacrifices for the greater good of this marriage. From now on, l'll bang you from behind or blind fold you so you don't have to look at it." (kiss forehead and walk away).
/r/askMRP16/05/18 07:19 PM
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My son asked me how babies are made when he was really young, like 3 or 4. I asked him... "How does a plant grow?" From a seed! "Yup. And where do you put the seed?" In the soil! "Exactly. So babies are kind of made in the same way. Only the dad gives the mom a seed and plants it in her belly" This was enough to satisfy his curiousity. When he was 6 or 7 he asked again... Dad how are babies made? Like, really, how does it happen? "Do you really want to know? Yes. "OK, but you will probably think…
/r/askMRP15/05/18 06:32 PM
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The problem is that you still care how SHE perceives you. If you truly don't give a fuck, you wouldn't have made this post.
/r/askMRP15/05/18 01:24 PM
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I want to kill you until you die from it.
/r/askMRP13/09/17 04:22 PM
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I never notice my wife checking out other men. Probably because I don't give a shit if she did. The fact that you care is probably why you are noticing it- not because your wife has a compulsive problem with eye-fucking other men. In other words, you give too many fucks. Don't.
/r/askMRP08/09/17 05:46 PM
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I think the biggest message to learn from this is that "owning your shit" is attractive. You fucked up and owned up to your mistakes. You didn't give a fuck about the fallout. You're a man who lives with the consequences of his actions. Well done, sir.
/r/askMRP08/09/17 05:07 PM
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60 days in, there are only 3 things you should be doing: Reading Lifting STFUing Or, you know, just keep asking your wife about how good Chad fucked her back in the day and maybe you'll get her to come to her senses and leave your sorry limp dick for a real man.
/r/askMRP05/09/17 09:38 PM
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Relax. Pick up your skirt, grab your balls, and smack yourself across the face. You're being a big pussy about all of this. There was a reason you were in marriage counseling, why you came to MRP- your wife wasn't awesome. You only have room in your life for awesome people. Your wife isn't one. Don't apologize to her. When you interact with your wife, just be nice and overly friendly. Exude happiness. She will hate seeing you happy. And if/when she comes crawling back to you, you can hate fuck h…
/r/askMRP02/09/17 02:01 AM
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is it possible Yes. What are you going to do with this information? Your goal should be making your frame stronger. In all areas. Period. Don't over analyze this shit, dude.
/r/askMRP01/09/17 10:43 PM
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This is the exact mentality that will push her to jump on Chad's cock. She wants Chad because Chad doesn't give a shit about her, does not need her, does not put her pussy on a pedastool. Be more like Chad.
/r/askMRP01/09/17 10:38 PM
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I was in a similar situation as you, but have seen drastic improvements in my sex life since swallowing the pill 8 months ago. Here's a brief outline of what I did: Everything is a date. This is the mentality you should have when spending time with your woman. I don't mean you should be buying her flowers and opening doors for her and shit. I mean BE FUN, BE PLAYFUL, have intelligent and interesting conversations with her, flirt, kino, tease. Do this ALL THE TIME not because you think it will ge…
/r/askMRP01/09/17 04:40 PM
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Is it worth trying to fix? Only you can answer that. This place will not fix your relationship. But it WILL fix you. Sometimes an improved sex life is a side-effect of getting your shit together. Mini field report for you: After marriage and kids, my wife stopped having the desire to fuck me. Boring missionary starfish duty sex 100% of the time. After spending the last 8 months here, reading, lifting, and owning my shit at home, that is starting to change. This past Monday was my wife's birthday…
/r/askMRP30/08/17 07:38 PM
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Ask yourself this- if your fiancé was single tomorrow and Tom Hardy took her to bed, what do you think her libido would be like then? I bet she would fuck him like her pussy was on fire. The point is she wants sex. All women want sex. Your girl just doesn't want sex with YOU. Why? Hint: this is your fault, not hers.
/r/askMRP30/08/17 07:08 PM
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She's letting you know she doesn't need you, but you still need her. Prove it that you don't. Leave her naked ass in the bed alone and see what happens. Edit: this should go without saying, but don't do this as a butthurt retarded Rambo. Laugh off her rejection and then leave to do something fun.
/r/askMRP28/08/17 10:01 PM
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Yes, sir. Their older stuff never gets tired. I'm iffy on some of their newer stuff tho.
/r/askMRP28/08/17 09:58 PM
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Haha go coat your throat That made me laugh. Also, is rocketskates a Deftones reference? 🤘🏻
/r/askMRP28/08/17 09:22 PM
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We give each other a hard time on here for 2 reasons. 1) it's fun 2) to test your frame. It's pretty obvious your frame needs work. Now get to it. Faggot.
/r/askMRP28/08/17 08:35 PM
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I just said there are no short cuts and your response is to "google it"? Good luck.
/r/askMRP28/08/17 08:33 PM
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It amazes me how some guys come on here asking questions when they don't even know what DEERing is. There is no CliffsNotes to this shit, dude. This isn't some high school English test you can just half-ass. This is real life. Do some fucking work.
/r/askMRP28/08/17 08:13 PM
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Translation: Western women won't fuck me.
/r/askMRP28/08/17 07:55 PM
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You're like Indiana Jones, traveling the globe in search of a mythological lost treasure- The Golden Pussy. Let me save you some time- it doesn't exist. AWALT.
/r/askMRP28/08/17 07:32 PM
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I would try to make your rejections into a little game. Make it fun somehow. For ex: she tries to initiate but you aren't in the mood: "What have you done to earn my dick today?" Her: 😳 "You didn't wake me up with a blow job. You didn't wear the butt plug while grocery shopping. You didn't earn it today. Maybe tomorrow you'll do better". I think this type of rejection would drive her crazy (in a good way) and make the rejection more "fun" for her. It also adds some dominance which bitches love a…
/r/askMRP28/08/17 04:29 PM
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"No." If your neighbor borrowed your lawnmower and then told you to come get it out of his garage when he was done with it, what would you say? Stop being a doormat.
/r/askMRP25/08/17 12:35 AM
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OP, what you’ve just wrote is one of the most insanely pointless things I have ever read. At no point in your rambling, incoherent post were you even close to asking a question that we could answer for you. Everyone in this sub is now dumber for having listened to you. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul.
/r/askMRP18/08/17 08:51 PM
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Go away. Don't come back here until you've done some work.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 07:15 PM
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This shouldn't be your move EVERY TIME you get rejected, but every now and then it's smart to leave the house, even on a week night, because it will give your woman a nice heaping dose of dread. When I do this, my wife perks up as if she is suddenly wide awake and starts asking questions: "where are you going? with who? why?" The reason you are leaving is because you are bored and not sleepy. After all you were just trying to have sex, so it's completely logical and doesn't show butthurtness if …
/r/askMRP16/08/17 11:42 PM
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Yup, I hear ya. Been there. See my other comment- you need to start rejecting the starfish mid-coitus.
/r/askMRP16/08/17 09:47 PM
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Your reply should be a lighthearted "Ah, well that's disappointing." Then remove yourself from her presence for a few hours. Take the kid somewhere, do something, anything away from her. She won't like the idea that you think she is "disappointing" and her hamster will go nuts. Right now she doesn't want to fuck you because she doesn't need to win your approval. Once she realizes she doesn't have your approval anymore, she will get her shit together.
/r/askMRP16/08/17 09:22 PM
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I was (and still am) in a similar situation as you- constant starfish from the wife. You know what I do now? Reject that shit. If your wife is anything like mine, she thinks all you really want is to simply bust a nut and then you'll be happy and leave her alone. Well busting a nut into a starfish does nothing but make someone with a weak frame resentful and angry. Next time you get the starfish, just pull out and put your clothes back on and go do something else. She'll wonder what's wrong. Her…
/r/askMRP16/08/17 09:04 PM
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There's a saying in the business world that you should learn: "Telling is not selling." Just because you simply told your wife "I don't need you" doesn't mean she actually bought it. Show her through your actions, not your words, and then she will be more likely to buy whatever it is that you're selling.
/r/askMRP16/08/17 06:02 PM
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First off, welcome to the real world. does the anger abate Yes. I was in the anger phase for the first 3 good months or so. Take it out on the weights, not your wife. Remember- this is your fault. what should I expect next Read. Lift. STFU. Patience. This will be a long journey and at the end you may realize your wife will not change regardless of how awesome you become. MRP fixes the man, not the relationship (although an improved relationship is a common side effect). how soon have you seen a …
/r/askMRP16/08/17 03:25 PM
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was my frame solid in handling this? I wouldn't use the word "solid". It was more like jello. Is jello a solid? My dread game feels like it's all over the place. How to improve that? Dread is a byproduct of being a high value man. You having "dread game" is artificial dread and your woman can smell the bullshit. Improve yourself and the dread will follow. was she giving me one big shit test? I didn't identify any major shit tests in your post. Shit tests are when your woman is trying to get an e…
/r/askMRP15/08/17 12:26 AM
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Yup, exactly. I was testing OP to see how/if he could maintain frame with follow up questions like those.
/r/askMRP15/08/17 12:03 AM
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Not really, though. That doesn't sound like something I'd be interested in. "Why not? Why can't you just do this for me?"
/r/askMRP14/08/17 11:52 PM
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Pop quiz What if your woman's response is: "Why not? Why can't you do it for me?" How would you respond?
/r/askMRP14/08/17 09:03 PM
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This is going to sound foreign to you, but when my wife asks me to do something I don't want to do, I simply tell her "no". Can you believe it? If you haven't used that word before (it means no, by the way) try it out sometime!
/r/askMRP14/08/17 08:31 PM
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Maybe she is finally starting to see you as the alpha? As the leader? As someone who owns his shit? Someone who DOES NOT GIVE A FUCK? Or maybe she is going through some hysterical bonding after fucking Chad while you were away? Afterall, you've cheated on her before, so what's the harm in getting a little revenge on your sorry ass? The truth is we're not mind readers and have no fucking clue. Keep improving and stop questioning every little change in her behavior- you are operating in her frame.
/r/askMRP14/08/17 04:37 PM
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"I understand how you feel, but I don't agree that I was flirting". Her: you were totally flirting and you know it. It is really disrespectful. Blah, blah... (No response necessary. Leave the room/house and go lift).
/r/askMRP13/08/17 10:56 PM
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"Hi, Serious. I'm Sexy. It's nice to meet you." (Sticks out hand for a handshake)
/r/askMRP13/08/17 08:24 PM
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Am I supposed to be flirting in front of her If you aren't intentionally being disrespectful to your First Officer and are truly just being your "nice outgoing self", then your woman is just being emotional and trying to get you to sit like a good boy. You are not responsible for her feelings. You do you. When she tells me to stop flirting in front of her how am I to respond to this? There are many ways to do this. Fogging with AM would be the best route for a noob. "Haha I was flirting? With wh…
/r/askMRP13/08/17 12:09 PM
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Based on your last post, you're not ready for the shit tests that accompanies a good old dose of dread. You're also living in your SO's frame by giving a shit about what she does or doesn't witness. But, here is a suggestion... The next time you get hit on, try to get a phone number written down by the lady. If you get a phone number every time you get hit on, you're going to have a lot of phone numbers laying around written down in cute little girly handwriting. Your SO could find one of these …
/r/askMRP11/08/17 08:10 PM
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Was my wife's breakdown a comfort test? Sounds like it was a a little bit of both a comfort test and shit test. Comfort tests usually begin with "I". I no longer feel useful. Shit tests usually begin with "You". You act like you don't need me. I think you did fine treating it as a comfort test, but you could have done better by being a bit more playful and tried to get her to laugh. When she said "you act like you don't need me" (shit test), a decent response would have been "Oh, you know I need…
/r/askMRP11/08/17 02:35 PM
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When you kiss your wife, do you taste the salty residue of the other men's cum? Can you tell which man's cock she sucked based on the day of the week? "Hmm, today is Thursday, but she tastes like Fred from Accounting. I thought Thursday was Bob's day?" OP- you know what you need to do. Stop being a scared little bitch and do it. Kick this whore to the curb. What kind of example are you setting for your son? What kind of man do you want him to grow up to be? You can't lead your wife, nor should y…
/r/askMRP10/08/17 09:58 PM
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Wife of friend texts you a question. You respond with an emoji for some reason. Wife of friend asks you to answer the question and not be autistic. You post here instead for "text gaming" advice. Text gaming? Really? If I had a gun with two bullets and was in a room with OP, Hitler, and Bin Laden...I would shoot OP twice.
/r/askMRP10/08/17 08:30 PM
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Option 1: who cares If she doesn't have a history of desperately seeking attention from other males, I'd chalk this up to just a luncheon with friends. If it is actually something more than that, there's not a whole lot you can do about it anyways. Telling your SO who she can and can't hang out with will make you look like an insecure, mate-guarding pussy. Just continue being awesome, but observe how your SO acts on the day of the luncheon, what she wears, etc. "Trust but verify".
/r/askMRP10/08/17 03:02 PM
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Can the more experencied MRPers advise... Don't know if I qualify (been at this for 8 months), but here's my answer: The 9pm curfew isn't the boundary to set here. OP was hoping his drunk wife would come home and fuck him with her girlfriends. The curfew was not that important to him. The disrespectful comments and getting PUNCHED IN THE FUCKING FACE are the boundaries to set.
/r/askMRP10/08/17 03:15 AM
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2 hours per day, 6 days per week You might be over doing it. Getting enough sleep?
/r/askMRP09/08/17 11:06 PM
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I'd either next this bitch or plate her faster than an Iron Chef. OP has already been divorced once. Clearly he learned nothing from that.
/r/askMRP09/08/17 10:40 PM
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But what if you are being a dick? To whose standards? RP doesn't preach to be a dick If you ask a woman, she will say otherwise. Stop thinking like a woman.
/r/askMRP09/08/17 08:40 PM
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I noticed you post to r/deadbedrooms quite a bit. Leave that place. There is nothing you will learn there that you haven't already tried 1,000 times. This is your home now.
/r/askMRP09/08/17 08:36 PM
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Example 1: SO: I hate it when you don't say I love you back! "My poor baby! I LOVE YOU SOOOO MUCH!" (Pick her up with a bear hug and attack her with kisses like you would with a little kid. Go over the top with it and lay on the sarcasm.) Example 2: SO: I hate when you do that shit. You don't know the meaning of loyalty. (Pull out your phone) "Siri, what is the definition of loyalty?" (Listen to Siri's response) "Well there you have it. You learn something every day!" SO: you need to get your pr…
/r/askMRP09/08/17 07:36 PM
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DEER- Defend, explain, excuse, rationalize An example of owning your shit: Her: were you looking at midget porn last night? You: Yup. That was me. Her: OMG why? You: why is the sky blue? A better question would be what's for dinner? See how there was no defending or explaining or excusing or rationalizing? You admit to the fuck up or whatever and move on. An example of DEERing: Her: were you looking at midget porn last night? You: Um yea, that was me. Her: OMG why? You: well I was bored. And cur…
/r/askMRP08/08/17 08:19 PM
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how do I know if I'm doing things the right way or not? What are you goals? You didn't give us much info here to work with. I get confused when to do a lot of things such as agree and amplify. Ignore. Shut the fuck Up. If I'm DEERing. If it's okay to deer when I'm wrong. etc. For the first 3 good months (maybe even 6 months) you should just STFU, lift, and read. Nothing else. STFU does not mean "ignore". Do some research on what we mean when we say "STFU" and you will have a solid foundation to …
/r/askMRP08/08/17 06:41 PM
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My question is should I get back with her if it's on my own terms? No. Got any more brain busters?
/r/askMRP08/08/17 03:58 PM
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Think of your frame as a iron vault. Inside this vault are: your best interests, emotions, career aspirations, desires, personal goals, etc. If anyone breaks into your vault and affects the contents inside, your frame is weak and needs to be refortified. How do you make your frame stronger? TRP- Time. Reading. Practice.
/r/askMRP08/08/17 02:59 AM
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nothing came of it never a word again I'm confused. If nothing happened, how was the "damage done"?
/r/askMRP08/08/17 01:10 AM
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"Damage done"? What damage was done? She always believed you were a bitch, but by deleting the books and not owning your shit you just confirmed her suspicions. I have a "family" account with Amazon. I have my email log in, my wife has hers. I'm not sure if our book purchases are shared or not, I never checked. But I don't care. Only someone with a weak frame should give a shit. Her: "You bought some marriage books on Kindle?!?!?" Me: "Yup." Her: "OMG? Why? Are you not happy?" Me: "Do you think …
/r/askMRP08/08/17 12:12 AM
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Oh man, these are fun. I had a similar story which can be found in my last post. TL;DR wife asked me to get something from her car. I told her "no, your legs aren't broken". She blew up. I held frame. By the the next day I was playing with her butthole 😲 So this past Friday night my wife is complaining about a stomach ache. We're in bed about to start a movie when she says "Oh crap. I left my glasses in the car. Can you pause the movie so I can go get them?" She gets off her ass and gets her own…
/r/askMRP07/08/17 09:13 PM
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I'll also add that you should take her shit tests as a compliment. You should feel good that you are getting them. Why? Because women shit test HIGH VALUE MEN. They don't shit test losers.
/r/askMRP07/08/17 06:15 PM
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Get used to it. Women shit test. They don't know that they do, it's just their nature. Instead of getting mad at them (which tells me you have a lot of work to you) you should be having fun with them, looking forward to them. My girl doesn't shit test me every day, but when she does I think "Yay! Time to try out some of the tools I have acquired here!" If you are getting mad at shit tests, it's because you're not passing them appropriately and your frame is about as strong as a wet paper bag.
/r/askMRP07/08/17 05:49 PM
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And...? Do you have a point? One of the first things I learned here was "when their eyes are wet, so is their pussy". It sounds pretty harsh, but I now know from my personal experience it is 100% accurate.
/r/askMRP07/08/17 05:02 PM
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You have a bad case of ONEitis. Lucky for you there is a cure- strange pussy. Go out and fuck as many chicks as you can so you realize your wife's pussy is no better than anyone else's. "But I'm anti-social. I don't like going out by myself. Blah, blah, blah." The internet is a resource to help poor bastards like you. Get on tinder. Whatever. Just get some strange pussy and ASAP. If you start to feel guilty, just remember your wife has had 60 year old dick in her. She probably swallowed his cum,…
/r/askMRP07/08/17 04:24 PM
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Your response: "All of the answers to those questions can be found in my upcoming autobiography. If you'd like, I can let you be the first to read it. I'll even sign a copy for you."
/r/askMRP07/08/17 03:14 PM
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It sounds like you're being a pussy and not "owning your shit" by just being honest with her. Are you afraid of her? Her: "did you sleep with her?" You: "well, I wouldn't use the word 'sleep' to describe what we did." Her: "When? How did you meet her? How long did you date her? Hamster, hamster, hamster?" You: "Whoa! I didn't realize you were that into her, babe. Would you like me to introduce you?" Go from there. This is an easy way to give your chick some dread.
/r/askMRP07/08/17 01:42 PM
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Whatever you want, dude. You're thinking a bit too much about it. For myself, I incorporate cuddling and massages as just part of my overall game/kino. I mostly do it at times when sex isn't expected or logistically possible. For example- wife and I are watching a movie with the kids, I'll pull her onto me and give her a head rub. Wife is at the kitchen counter chopping vegetables, I'll come up from behind and give an impromptu back massage. If I was to do this in bed after the kids are down, it…
/r/askMRP07/08/17 12:51 PM
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I know mate guarding isn't attractive, but I would have to confront her directly about this. "Hey babe, I was looking at our data usage and thinking about upgrading to a new plan. What do you think?" "Sure, whatever you think is best." "Ok good. Oh, by the way, I couldn't help but notice you were texting this person...A LOT. I don't want to jump to any conclusions here, but I must admit it concerned me. Can you explain?" I don't know. Something like that. Either you steal her phone and go snoopi…
/r/askMRP05/08/17 04:56 PM
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I'm not easily offended and don't take my wife's emotional outbursts personally, but that's a very good point. I had the mindset of keeping things fun and playful, but her saying "fuck you" to me isn't exactly funny and shouldn't be treated as a joke.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 07:13 PM
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Yea, I'm a work in progress. I am certainly guilty of letting my wife walk all over me and be disrespectful towards me. I'm finally starting to shut that shit down, but I don't expect the problem to be fixed overnight.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 05:51 PM
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Here's how it should have went down: Her: "You didn't do shit today." You: "Yea I know, I was saving my energy for you..." (begin to take off her pants) Her: "Ugh, I'm not in the mood." You: "OK, well I guess I have the energy to finish packing then. Come help me." (extend your hand to help her off the couch, you put on some music, and start getting shit done while dancing and singing to your favorite songs together). How hard is that? Just STFU and be fun. Instead you decided to go tit for tat …
/r/askMRP04/08/17 04:43 PM
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This might be the gayest question I've seen posted here.
/r/askMRP02/08/17 06:59 PM
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So what? So she got upset at you once upon a time? And here you are still thinking about it.
/r/askMRP02/08/17 03:44 PM
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Seems to me like she's pulling a little dread of her own by ignoring your text. And you're being a needy bitch about it. If all she has to do is not reply to a text for a few hours to get your dog shit, paper-thin frame to unravel, then you have a lot of work to do. Stop thinking about what she is thinking and how she is feeling- that's not the IDGAF mindset that we preach here. You're being a bitch. Stop being a bitch.
/r/askMRP02/08/17 03:20 PM
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