Introduction

If you want to improve your lot (girls, socially, life) you need to cultivate righteous qualities, pursue righteous goals and constantly be feeding the right inputs into your mind and monitoring for weakness.

Note: mindset and frame are considered synonymous in this post.

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“We all have good days and bad days.” That’s what we’re told. But the reality is, we have the strong and the weak. The strong are disciplined enough to have a rock solid mindset and rarely waver from that. The weak are constantly fluctuating between highs and lows of emotion, usually dictated by external attachments e.g rejected by girl, sad for 2 days +, walking around slumped over with a pouting lip waiting for someone to console them.

The strong have a mindset that buffer themselves from external disappointment and drama. They do not react and they continue on the path of their righteous goals. If a strong man is rejected by a girl, he is unfazed because he did not put his self worth in the response of women to him (a righteous quality).

Both righteous qualities and righteous goals will keep you a strong man. You need to sit down and think of what qualities and goals you want to cultivate. Blue pill society will tell you that “you are unique and you need to find yourself”. That’s bullshit. “Men are made”, you can cultivate masculine things inside yourself through work.

A good quality to cultivate is “unconcern”. Or unconcern in what others think of you, or do, as a more specific example. Unconcern looks very like confidence and courage, and creates a state of mind where you can ignore the “fluff” around you and stay orighteous goals.

Nietzsche wrote “Brave, unconcerned, mocking, violent… she is woman, and loves only a warrior.” These qualities would be considered by today’s standard “toxic masculinity” but it remains true that these qualities speak to women’s true nature. Think about these qualities within yourself and develop them.

So, how do you do this in practice? You ask yourself “what if I didn’t care about what people thought about me?” or “what if I was totally unconcerned?”. These questions are righteous because they put you on your righteous path. You won’t care about others perception and you will act in tune with your masculinity and your righteous goals.

I don’t like using women’s reactions to me to illustrate a point but today I was at the beach and there was these two hot young girls in thong bikinis swimming in the ocean pools. I went alone and felt myself getting transfixed and reactive to them but I said to myself “what if I didn’t care what they thought”. Instead of being clammed up, I started jumping off the rocks and just having a good time and they ended up opening me. The thought of “unconcern” led to me being “self amused” and giving off the right vibe, because it’s a righteous thought. If I had being perving all the time without approaching and looking needy, that wouldn’t have happened.

Reactivity to others (deference) is the hallmark of the beta male. They are told what to do by others and have no spine or drive that comes from within. To develop unconcern for other’s perception of you is the first step to living a life that is true and in line with righteous goals. The other qualities listed here are important but unconcern is really where you need to start.

Conclusion

Developing righteous qualities and righteous goals is the only way to be a strong and confident man. Monitoring your mindset in relation to these requires vigilance and correction. You need to be putting in the right inputs into your mind for these to take root (if they aren’t natural). These righteous goals and qualities will cut the “fluff” from your life and give you a rock solid mindset. This will improve your lot in life.