| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | To the men here who believe relationships = friendships + sex | Question For Men | texafornian04 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 06:37 AM |
| 11 | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter? | Question For Men | texafornian04 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:23 AM |
| 10 | Men, who would you rather marry? | Question For Men | texafornian04 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 02:48 PM |
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| 0 | There’s really no point to every man doing self-improvement because women have relativist attraction. There will always be a hierarchy of reshuffling winners and losers even if men have objectively raised the floor.i don’t get why so many people think that just because they’re driven by base instincts, everyone else must also. “people want love and sex and want to avoid death” wow man you’re such a philosopher. you can have dreams and ambitions that go beyond these too as i’ve said, don’t associate me with you if all you’re willing to do is have sex and not die | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | There’s really no point to every man doing self-improvement because women have relativist attraction. There will always be a hierarchy of reshuffling winners and losers even if men have objectively raised the floor.i have interests in material science research and aerospace engineering, because i’ve always been fascinated by planes and how things are made. i want to be in fitter shape because i want to play rugby. i want to explore different countries and learn new languages. none of those have anything to do with sex. now you may claim that they do, but it doesn’t change the fact that i’m not driven by sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 05:56 PM |
| 0 | There’s really no point to every man doing self-improvement because women have relativist attraction. There will always be a hierarchy of reshuffling winners and losers even if men have objectively raised the floor.don’t assume shit about me. i’m not driven by the sole objective of having sex. i do stuff for myself that goes beyond hormones. not all men are the same, and don’t lump me in with such pathetic people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 05:41 PM |
| 0 | There’s really no point to every man doing self-improvement because women have relativist attraction. There will always be a hierarchy of reshuffling winners and losers even if men have objectively raised the floor.how sad. imagine everything about your life being about getting your dick wet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 05:29 PM |
| 1 | There’s really no point to every man doing self-improvement because women have relativist attraction. There will always be a hierarchy of reshuffling winners and losers even if men have objectively raised the floor.do you have no drive in life apart from chasing sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 05:08 PM |
| – | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter?i’m not taking about happiness in life. i’m singaporean myself. i know it has issues, but there’s nowhere else id rather live. most people in my country and my school who’re good at academics just put more effort into their lives in general, and that shows outside the classroom, including on romantic and sexual relations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 09:06 AM |
| – | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter?Fat ≠ unattractive. i’m a bit chubby, but i’m as strong as an ox and i have notable muscle mass, and that helps with my looks. and maybe that fat guy had charisma, or something else that boosted his social standing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 08:41 AM |
| – | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter?in the school and country where i grew up, academics isn’t easy, especially since i did the ib. those with good daily schedules and commitment to improving and maintaining their academic performance were the ones who did well. those people typically also out in effort in other aspects of life, including sports and social connections. the “small, loser nerd” trope doesn’t really exist in the school that i learned in. if you did well in the classroom, chances were you did well outside the classroo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 08:38 AM |
| – | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter?Ah. I'm Singaporean-Indian, and in the Anglophone world, America refers to the country USA. We have North America and South America for the continents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 06:46 AM |
| – | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter?that’s funny. every man i know who fits that’s description has no trouble with women. what’s more likely the case is that a lot of men online lie about how attractive they are, and it isn’t their personality, but rather their attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 06:44 AM |
| – | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter?Because they have no social incentive to say the truth, at least not in America. Just recognise that they're liars and move on. If you're shocked that women lie about this, you've likely never tried dating as a pre-teen/teen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 06:03 AM |
| – | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter?I'm not a woman. I'm saying the if you made friends and tried dating as a pre-teen/teen, you should already know that looks matter. If women lie, let them lie. Just don't believe their lies ffs. It shouldn't be a shock that women like attractive guys is what I'm saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 06:02 AM |
| – | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter?Hmmm. I do currently live in the US for college, and I have noticed this attitude more amongst my friends here than in back home. But even here in America, a significant number of my female friends are quite open about the fact that looks matter; although I do hear more of that "it's only your personality" bullshit here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:59 AM |
| – | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter?I'm turning 20 this year. That's still really young. How old do you need to be till you learn basic social truths? The only way this makes sense to me is if most other men here have been so socially inept that they have no clue what women are attracted to and cause an uproar when they realise the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:53 AM |
| – | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter?Fair enough, I should have stated that I'm not American. I'm not saying you're stupid for believing women. I'm saying you're stupid for believing women when you know that they're lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:51 AM |
| – | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter?As I said in a previous comment, my experience might be different because I wasn't raised in "the West", but the women I know never say that looks don't matter or that personality is what's holding you back. And even if they do lie, if you properly socialised and tried dating in your pre-teen, teen years, you should already know that looks matter the most for initial attraction. So what if women lie, are you really so stupid that you'll believe those lies? Especially when you know the truth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:46 AM |
| – | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter?Perhaps it's because I'm not from America, but I don't know any woman my age (I'm gen z) who say that looks don't matter, or that personality is paramount for attraction. The rule goes: looks get you through the door, personality keeps you in the room. I used to be a pretty below average dude till I started hitting the gym and gained muscle and some good structure to my shoulders. I was not the least bit surprised when I started getting more attention from women because the fact that looks matte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Men want fairness in mainstream culture and discourse, not any female subjugation or violation of women's autonomy.i live in singapore. all singaporean males are required to do military service. women are not. i can guarantee you that singapore is one of the best countries for people to live in in general, including women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 04:18 PM |
| 1 | The problem with modern marriage is that there are 0 repercussions for cheatinggenuinely curious; like what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Red pillers see women as dishonest / out to get them / subhuman / only good for sex, because due to RPers own behavior / attitudes, they only attract bottom-tier, psychologically damaged women, which then reinforces their attitudes and causes them to attract even more of the same in an endless loop.sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 02:49 AM |
| 3 | To the men here who believe relationships = friendships + sexa lot of people didn’t hear of adhd or autism some decades back, doesn’t mean it never existed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 12:36 PM |
| 2 | To the men here who believe relationships = friendships + sexwhat makes you think sexuality doesn’t exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 11:28 AM |
| 3 | To the men here who believe relationships = friendships + sexDo you believe two asexual people in a relationship are just friends cosplaying love or that they're actually in love? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:29 AM |
| – | Men, who would you rather marry?genuinely, that’s shocking. i imagine retired F500 CEOs to have practically inexplicable wealth; and you’re telling it’ll only last 5 years ⁉️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 05:01 PM |
| – | Men, who would you rather marry?First woman is 8/10. Hot, but not strikingly ethereal. Imagine the hottest, most insanely drop dead gorgeous woman of your dreams. That’s woman 2. Woman 2 will never leave as long as you financially gratify her. Buy her whatever she wants and decorate her and she’s ok. You’re a retired CEO of a Fortune 500 company. Let’s say multimillionaire. Enough to retire beyond comfortably, but not unimaginable wealth. Anything the law allows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 04:07 PM |
| – | Men, who would you rather marry?Interesting. If you marry a gold-digger wife in general, wouldn't you still implicitly be aware of their greed? Even if they don't let it be known? Do most men with gold-digging wives delude themselves or just stay quiet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 03:29 PM |
| – | Men, who would you rather marry?Fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 03:26 PM |
| – | Men, who would you rather marry?I suppose a point is to be made about ultimatums. However, the first woman is asexual, she's not denying you pussy for any other reasons. Now you could say that she should let you step out of the marriage for sex; but would you let your wife cheat on you for sex, and only sex, if you couldn't satisfy he in bed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Alpha Sux, Beta FuxPerhaps they do, but they rationalise their hatred with 80/20, AF/BB and gold-digging, without realising their hypocrisy and unattractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 03:20 PM |
| – | Men, who would you rather marry?Because circumventing the questions dodges the choice between love and sex. Basically, what do you value more from a woman? Love or sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 02:58 PM |
| – | Men, who would you rather marry?Sweet, but that wasn't my question. If you had to marry one, who would it be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 02:55 PM |
| 15 | Alpha Sux, Beta FuxThe thing you gotta realise is that this sub is full of men who want nothing but sex from women and have a specific self-hating yet also self-aggrandising mindset where they're angry that women are having sex, but not sex with them in particular. They have a one track mind view of women, and any woman who says otherwise must be lying whores who should give up pussy for the greater benefit of men around the world (but if they have sex then they're skanks who don't deserve respect because sex bad,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 02:41 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallBecause to most men here, living a fulfilling life with non-sexual achievements has no meaning. It's all about sex, and if they can't get sex from a woman; she's worthless (unless she's family, and that too depends on the man) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 01:32 PM |
| – | Why is being a "bitch" equated to being trendy/popular in Western Culture?makes you realize how truly insane people online can be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 01:05 AM |
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