Men, who would you rather marry?

PMmeareasontolive · 2024-05-24T16:29:33+00:00

Option 2 is absurd. If she hates you, she isn't going to give you "the hottest sex of your life". She's going to give you, optimistically, the most mediocre sex of your life is the more realistic scenario.

Zabadoodude · 2024-05-24T14:54:47+00:00

Neither? Both sound like a miserable marriage. But if was forced to choose, then option 1.

TheGreatBeefSupreme · 2024-05-24T15:14:31+00:00

Probably 1.

shadowrangerfs · 2024-05-24T16:03:03+00:00

This actually a tough one but not for the reason you think.

If number two is a good looking woman, then I don't think either is a bad choice.

I have a woman who loves me with all her heart who will be there for me through tough times and we can go through life together. Plus, I know that she'll never cheat or leave me for another guy. I can give up sex for that.
I got a hot chick then I can band whenever I want and I don't even have to be nice to her and she'll never cheat on me. I can walk around with her on my arm and even though other dudes try to hit on her, she'll reject them all. I don't care if she lusts over other men since I know, those men have zero chance with her. Plus, in order for this scenario to work, I have to be rich.

Questions:

1-10 how pretty is each woman?

Will number two leave if I cheat on her?

In number 2, how rich am I? Did I hit the lottery or do I have to work long hours still to maintain it?

Will number 2 do any sexual thing that I want? Will she do threesomes if I want?

wtknight · 2024-05-24T15:12:43+00:00

I would rather be with a gold digger than be forever sexless.

CradleCity · 2024-05-24T15:29:03+00:00

Neither, I've said "Goodbye to Love" already.

AnalSexIsTheBest8-- · 2024-05-24T16:12:47+00:00

Neither. If these are my only two options, I'd rather stay celibate.

Necessary-Ask-3619 · 2024-05-24T16:40:20+00:00

Being truly loved for who you are >>>> Sex, anyday.

bifewova234 · 2024-05-24T15:09:55+00:00

You didnt say 2 would leave if I had another girl, but you did say 1 would leave. You also said 2 only values me for my money and wouldnt cheat on me. If all she wants is money then she wouldnt care if I had another woman. Marry 2 (with a prenup) and get a side girl who loves me.

Ultramega39 · 2024-05-24T15:32:02+00:00

Girl one is literally perfect. Where can I find someone like her?

biscuitcatapult · 2024-05-24T15:21:03+00:00

Number 2.

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Silver_Past2313 · 2024-05-24T16:32:06+00:00

TheEgosLastStand · 2024-05-24T16:33:52+00:00

I mean they're basically both nonstarters but at least #1 wouldn't be horrible to be around like #2 would be.

BrainMarshal · 2024-05-24T16:38:33+00:00

The tree, thank you very much.

MisterFunnyShoes · 2024-05-24T16:41:10+00:00

There’s no point in marrying either of these

Difficult-Ad-2866 · 2024-05-24T16:42:21+00:00

Neither, Plenty of fish in the sea.

Sargeras13 · 2024-05-24T16:43:58+00:00

Neither, they both sound like absolute hell, seriously, where do y'all come up with these outta pocket scenarios

NockerJoe · 2024-05-24T16:49:42+00:00

Neither of those are a relationship worth considering. 1 is a friendship and 2 is just sugaring.

IAmTheIron-Manlet · 2024-05-24T18:05:18+00:00

What the fuck are these options? Give me the third one, where I hang myself with an elastic cord while my nuts are clamped

edgyny · 2024-05-24T15:09:45+00:00

Number two, spend lavishly and hide money overseas, divorce when destitute. Hit the gym, rebuild and move on.

peteypete78 · 2024-05-24T16:06:23+00:00

expects you to have a sexless life; but she genuinely loves you as a person.

An oxymoron.

IndependenceSad9300 · 2024-05-24T16:19:53+00:00

Adventurous-Fox-62 · 2024-05-24T16:23:23+00:00

As asexual, I see it as an absolute win😆

Velor22 · 2024-05-24T16:33:52+00:00

1, no contest.

thedarkracer · 2024-05-24T15:06:33+00:00

So answer me this, if you truly love someone but you force your choice on someone, do you love the person or the power you have on that person? Is that actually love?

Neptune-Jnr · 2024-05-24T15:46:57+00:00

Cheat but don't get caught.

Tobor_Xes240 · 2024-05-24T17:10:42+00:00

Option 2 easily. If you’ve spent most of your life jumping from dry spell to dry spell, the prospect of consistent and high-quality sex with an attractive woman is enticing.

Sure I may be missing out on a rewarding, loving relationship but I don’t know what that would feel like since I’ve never been in one.

What I do know is that I have a great network of friends through school, jobs, and hobbies. In this hypothetical scenario, I’d just keep doing me while forking over some of my paycheck to this gold digger to keep my tummy full and my balls empty.

qwertyuduyu321 · 2024-05-24T17:14:10+00:00

Neither.

If someone pressed a gun to my chest, option 2.

Anti_Thing · 2024-05-24T17:18:56+00:00

Right now I'd go with neither, but if I was older, & unable to accept a lifetime of childlessness, loneliness, & virginity, I'd marry #2 just so that I don't die a childless, lonely, virgin. That being said, I hope that, no matter how desperate the situation, I wouldn't settle for #2, but rather come to terms with dying a childless, lonely, virgin.

Ok-Dust-4156 · 2024-05-24T17:23:38+00:00

I'd stay single.

CraftyCooler · 2024-05-24T17:39:06+00:00

I would go for 2 and become a redpiller.

jay10033 · 2024-05-24T17:44:54+00:00

What type of ridiculous options are these? and why is do nothing not an option?

mobjack · 2024-05-24T17:45:23+00:00

It depends on how #2 behaves the 90% of the time we aren't having sex.

Will she just ignore you and let you do your own thing, or will it be fighting all the time.

KentuckyCriedFlickin · 2024-05-24T18:02:26+00:00

I guess I'll just become a monk and live a full filing life.

I want kids if I'd ever marry though, so idk how that's going to work.

The_Better_Paradox · 2024-05-24T18:31:50+00:00

1st anyday

berichorbeburied · 2024-05-24T15:28:03+00:00

Both.

My emotional side would want one. And that would be fulfilling in its own way.

But when I’m ready to start a family. I’m going to have to either leave her or she would have to change her mind.

On the other hand if I’m thinking non emotionally.

The second one. I don’t know what you mean by hottest sex.

As long as I put the effort In and want to have sex and expend high amounts of energy the sex is always the hottest.

So from that perspective I’m assuming you mean that this is just the most sexually attractive woman in the world to me. Because that’s the only way the sex would be the hottest to me.

If that’s the case and she will never cheat. Then I would marry her. It really doesn’t matter.

Most sexually attractive genetic markers facilitate reproduction and childbirth in either a beneficial or neutral way.

So theirs a high chance my offspring will be viable.

High chance I will always enjoy sex.

If she just wants money and I have money then theirs a high chance she will be happy if I prioritize her needs.

Don’t really see the downsides to that.

My bestfriend is like the first one. But she won’t give the abundance of emotional connection/affection I want/need.

That’s the only reason I’m starting to push for sex with her.

Because we used to talk everyday and I never pushed for sex because my emotional needs were getting met. Even though she offered.

But this sub is always teaching me something related to her. So I see why I’m on this sub.

And it’s funny but gold diggers actually are loyal in an honest way.

You know why they are there. What they want. And what they’ll do to get it.

It’s just honesty in full display.

Which could hurt you emotionally I guess. If you are an emotional person.

KayRay1994 · 2024-05-24T15:38:28+00:00

Ideally neither, but if i had to pick one i’d pick A - the sex may be non existent but there is room for actual companionship there (even if it will probably break apart), option B sounds like a miserable life

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2024-05-24T16:22:24+00:00

2 for me. I would have my strictly transactional relationship with her, and then a real relationship on the side with a mistress who actually does care about me (since it doesn’t sound like my wife would mind).

Barely-moral · 2024-05-24T15:03:40+00:00

Woman one. Sure she does not want to have sex with me but she does not expect me to change my lifestyle to be loved. That balances things.

Woman two is not that bad. The only problem is that she can't keep the ugly aspects inside herself. If she was able and willing to keep the bullshit to herself and play her part in the same way I play my part then I would pick her.

Opening_Tell9388 · 2024-05-24T15:08:22+00:00

I'll go with neither. If you genuinely love someone you don't limit their needs and hang a ultimatum over their head.

obviousredflag · 2024-05-24T15:47:29+00:00

I'd marry woman #1 and then just have affairs that she doesn't know about.

stats135 · 2024-05-24T15:24:25+00:00

I care about action, not thought.
I care about what she does, not what she thinks.

So, I'm going to take the woman that has sex with me, not the women who has good emotions for me.

Background-Map-7243 · 2024-05-24T15:29:24+00:00

1 and cheat on her back

Solondthewookiee · 2024-05-24T15:50:31+00:00

Neither.

Why are these hypotheticals always so ridiculous?

meshflesh40 · 2024-05-24T15:19:59+00:00

Woman 1. If she loved me as described. .... She would give me oral enthusiastically

gntlbastard · 2024-05-24T15:10:02+00:00

I don't consider marriage as a viable option for me.

Title	Men, who would you rather marry?
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Date	May 24, 2024 2:48 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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