| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Remaining friends with girls that I've broken up with?Really wasn't trying to insult you, you gave your opinion and I gave mine back. But in the end do whatever makes you happiest, and if not being friends with any women is what does that then go ahead. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Remaining friends with girls that I've broken up with?This post perfectly describes the way I feel about it. No need to burn bridges unless there's a reason to be salty. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Remaining friends with girls that I've broken up with?Yeah, most of the girls I end things with are never due to anything horrid. I just dont see them as someone I want to commit to anymore. Nothing more nothing less. Once everything cools down, I always reach out to them a couple of months later and see what happens from there. Some of them hate me and never want to talk again, but most are cool with being friends and have been pretty easy hookups. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Remaining friends with girls that I've broken up with?Waste of fucking time. Women you're not fucking are not worthy of your time. If you're following them around being their emotional tampon then of course. But I've found keeping girls around who are obviously subtly into me generates great social proof. Just because someone is a woman, doesn't make them a useless human and friend. Most of the girls I end up being friends with after a breakup tend to put much more effort into the friendship than me by getting me nice gifts, helping me with little … | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Should I hide the fact that I play video games?The best way to excelling at "beta" activities is to seem like it doesn't matter to you that you're great at them. Nothing is worse than a fat, sweaty, ugly nerd, who walks around with his World of Warcraft shirt on. Every conversation with him is about his top ranked guild in the online world. If you're somewhat of a chad elsewhere in life, and also happen to be super great at video games without even seemingly giving a fuck, people will respect that. They will look at all the other nerds, who … | /r/askTRP | 24/11/17 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Confused about my Ex's behaviour - oneities or did I throw away a good woman?She wasnt waiting for marriage, probably around the 4 month mark (which felt like a long ass time even after 6 weeks) | /r/askTRP | 24/11/17 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Do I go for it with my orbiting friend's girl?Was in pretty much the same situation as you, smashed her, and lost an entire friend group. Showed me that friend group was a bunch of pussies so I'm not crying over it, but in hindsight I would have just fucked another girl instead, even if that meant not having a girl to fuck for a couple months. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Soft-nexting a girl whose acting distant?Thanks, I wasn't looking to girlfriend her quite yet but was maybe thinking about it further down the line. I guess I was seeing her in that way to try to come to some sort of a middle ground. I assume any woman wouldn't want to fuck me if I only had sex with her and that's it. If she invited me to something (a movie theater in this case of the date I cancelled), and I actually wanted to go to it, I would just go. However it slowly became these kind of dates only, and no sex at all. Was about 75… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 04:35 AM |
| 1 | We went exclusive and immediately after she puts in no effort - softnextable situation?How do I word demoting to a plate to her? We are "exclusively dating", and dont define what we have as a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 01:46 AM |
| 1 | LTR wants to go study abroad without me.We went backpacking through Asia and Europe so were getting our girls from hostels bars and clubs. Any experience abroad, solo or with a friend is great. Even if you dont end up having a crazy sex adventure, you meet a lot of really interesting people. You also learn to grow and adapt as a person, because you are exposed to so many different cultural norms and expectations so regularly. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 06:48 AM |
| 3 | LTR wants to go study abroad without me.I agree, travelling abroad was one of the best experiences in my life and would recommend everyone reading this to try it. I am not too concerned with my pussy supply walking out the door, I usually try to keep girls on the backburner for situations like this as I don't really spin multiple plates. Thanks for the words of advice. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 06:44 AM |
| 1 | LTR wants to go study abroad without me.Lots of people from lots of different cultures, all with no social responsibilities. Apart from getting arrested, you can pretty much do whatever you want and not have to worry about any "meaningful" judgement, since person around you will be gone by next week. Leads to a lot of insanely slutty behavior from girls, and extremely reckless behavior from men. Its really fun and I would recommend everyone try it at least once in their life. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 06:39 AM |
| 3 | LTR wants to go study abroad without me.Thanks, I will give this a try. I really am not angry, rather just a little bit uneasy about everything. It's her life and she can do what she wants; me trying to stop it will just make things worse. She was fun to date so it wasn't a waste of time. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 06:36 AM |
| 1 | LTR wants to go study abroad without me.Glad to know you're an advocate of spinning plates. I on the other hand prefer to have series of monogamous relationships, and dump them when they pull shit like this for another girl. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 06:29 AM |
| 1 | LTR wants to go study abroad without me.Thanks for the input, I was kind of going to put it that way implying we should take a break from 'dating' while shes gone and probably just plate her. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 03:42 AM |
| 1 | LTR wants to go study abroad without me.Maybe my experience abroad has been different, but from what I've seen its a mostly sexual experience for college students our age. She can go if she wants, but I sure as hell won't date her while shes gone. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 03:41 AM |
| 1 | I feel like a damn predator around younger girlsIMO an 18 year old can reasonably hookup with anyone under 35, and not bat a regular person's eye. At 23, most of the girls I hookup with are between 18-21, and they seem to prefer it to other 18 year old guys. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 08:44 PM |
| 1 | I'm 31 and I'm going back to school. Should I lie about my age?I'm in a college program composed of mainly 18-22 year olds, yet one of my friends is somewhere between 30-40. He won't disclose his age and always has little 20 year old trying to "figure him out". He slays harder than anyone in the program. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 08:35 PM |
| 3 | getting laid when you live at your parents..I still live with a parent while going to college, and I've just made it clear to her that I bring girls home. I bring them back to my place at around 10 or 11 when my mom is in bed and take them to my room lol. Simple as that. If you're a guy and you're bringing girls home a girl to fuck, your parents wont complain and probably be proud. Usually I'll text her and let her know I'm bringing home a girl that night for a heads up though. If the girl runs into your parents that night, it can be a li… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Hard Next vs Breaking things off with someone i'm "dating" but have to see every dayTried this and she refuses to even make eye contact, so I've just been walking past her like shes anybody else. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/17 12:56 AM |
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