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Conversationthatrandomcupcake/r/seduction28/04/20 10:04 PM
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Inner Game thatrandomcupcake/r/seduction20/06/20 04:00 AM
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Given the way you describe the women in your life it seems like you have difficulty respecting women. It may help to try having some friends who are girls. It's a great way to meet women you will share some interest with you
/r/seduction29/03/21 06:03 AM
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I think you're taking them being charismatic and kind for flirting
/r/seduction29/03/21 05:55 AM
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You may want to leave her alone for a month. Maybe after a bit of time apologize for coming off so strong and just ask for her name
/r/seduction01/02/21 01:21 AM
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At the gym it's best to approach women in a casual fashion. While it's a great place to meet women who about fitness as much as you do. They're also trying to work out and probably dont want to be hit on
/r/seduction29/11/20 03:40 PM
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If you've never talked to her you need to ask her on a date first and try to know her. After maybe 3 or 4 dates if things are still looking good than ash her to be your girlfriend.
/r/seduction27/11/20 03:06 PM
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Not necessarily
/r/seduction08/11/20 03:19 AM
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She's probably just being friendly. In what way would she even be playing you?
/r/seduction31/10/20 05:48 AM
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Have a cute dog or cat
/r/seduction30/10/20 03:26 AM
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No, she's probably just ranting
/r/seduction21/10/20 01:30 PM
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No, it's not. No where does it say that this subreddit is just for males to get laid. If he's trying to get laid he's barking up the wrong tree
/r/askTRP14/10/20 02:05 PM
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Why can't they just be friends ? What's wrong with men and women being friends ? Maybe she has a hot friends she can introduce him to
/r/askTRP14/10/20 02:06 AM
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Why cant that be an option? What if she friendzoned him?
/r/askTRP14/10/20 02:03 AM
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Yes. But why can't that be an option? What if she just needs a friend and she really likes him as a person but isn't attracted to him
/r/askTRP14/10/20 01:59 AM
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What if she likes just hanging out with you? OP added the making out part after my comment
/r/askTRP14/10/20 01:41 AM
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Congratulations!
/r/seduction13/10/20 02:36 PM
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You've been married since you were 14?
/r/seduction13/10/20 02:28 PM
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Being a kind person
/r/seduction13/10/20 02:09 AM
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Everyone else is weak becuase you're not attractive or appealing enough to get laid. It sounds like natural selection is doing its job.
/r/seduction12/10/20 03:02 PM
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You were passive aggressive after and clearly we upset after or she wouldn't have asked you if you enjoyed having sex with her. Clearly you're still upset and she's picking up on it. It's not going to go away if you ignore it. Your girlfriend didnt do anything unacceptable. Your reaction will be probably hinder your relationship in the future.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:37 PM
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If you dont tell her how this made you feel that's not fair to her. Choking and fucking someone hard isn't unusual. Asking your girlfriend to not spit your cum on you isnt unusual. But I think you're blowing this out of pro]proportion
/r/askTRP02/10/20 02:51 PM
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You're being a sensitive asshole. You butted in her mouth and she spit it out. It wasnt like she spit it out in your face. If you've cum on her tits why should she see it as odd to spit it out onto your stomach. Yes it's odd and I can understand how it would be gross. However, if you can communicate how that made you feel without being a passive aggressive, you shouldnt be in a relationship. Take a second to just think about things from her perspective. Then talk to her.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 02:36 PM
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Being laid back and relaxed a great way to have a casual conversation with anyone. That's awful advice when taken literally. That just loops back to my first point
/r/askTRP02/10/20 11:34 AM
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Those were his exact words. How did you take it?
/r/askTRP02/10/20 11:19 AM
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If you talk to a grown women the same way you talk to a child, that shows a lack of respect. No women will want to be with a man let alone talk to a man who cant even talk to them like an adult.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 11:11 AM
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That's exactly how you end up on reddit complainly women don't want to talk to or fuck you
/r/askTRP02/10/20 04:59 AM
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I would argue that socail media made attractive people more narcissistic. Men and Women are exposed to photo shopped goddesses that would cripple the self esteem of anyone. The world would be better if everyone got off their phone every now and then and went outside
/r/seduction30/09/20 01:59 AM
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I have a friend who is the same way. I would consider it an addiction. He, himself, considers it an addiction. It's your kink and everyone has their kinks.
/r/seduction29/09/20 03:23 PM
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She's trying to figure out why you don't initiate anything. I don't think it's needy. It's more of honestly curiosity and maybe a bit of insecurity
/r/askTRP28/09/20 01:32 AM
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How do you know she wants you to notice her? What if she just wants to get to know you or give you another chance? Maybe she's reconsidered or is seeing you in a different light. If she's not getting attention from you she'll get it somewhere else. That still leaves you alone.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 04:08 PM
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As a female, I'm just going to say that not all females are in relationships for pure benefits. For example, there are men who cheat on their wives countless time and the wife stays. There's also abusive men in relationships. Some females are in relationships becuase it makes them happy and even when shit gets rough they stay for their partner. It's unfair to say that females are selfish when you admit you have little experience with them. Yes, females keep their friendships for the same reasons…
/r/askTRP26/09/20 01:12 AM
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If you read the description it says nothing about being only for men to get laid. You're gate keeping my dude
/r/seduction26/09/20 12:14 AM
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Im female and happily in a relationship. You're the one who cant take criticism.
/r/seduction25/09/20 11:59 PM
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This post is why. The mindset you have towards women is toxic. You're for one generalizing all women. Also, there's nothing wrong with making a man more confident in himself and more comfortable with talking to women. However, you're training men to manipulate women that's not making strong relationships, that's creating a toxic relationship.
/r/seduction25/09/20 11:46 PM
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Ask her how the assignment is going. Is shows the you remember the small things and care. She may be busy but dont be discouraged
/r/seduction24/09/20 02:40 AM
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I feel that it's a hard line to cross. If you do feel the need to ask out a client be prepared to offer them an alternative to your service. Your client may not want to see you anymore
/r/seduction22/09/20 04:23 PM
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Attractive females don't only look for looks in guys. If you only view females as objects, they aren't going to want to be with you. The majority of females don't want to be with someone who only wants them for their bodies.
/r/seduction12/09/20 02:29 PM
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Socail media has altered the expectations of both men and women.
/r/seduction02/09/20 01:54 AM
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Accepting a partner who doesn't treat you fairly because that's that you believe you deserve
/r/seduction02/09/20 01:25 AM
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That's fair, I misspoke. I just feel like there's this stigma that just becuase someone in overweight they should date down
/r/seduction02/09/20 01:08 AM
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What is your post asking? If you think fat women are just as good as skinny women and well men and women are good, then your post is essentially asking : why do women reject men on dating apps?
/r/seduction02/09/20 12:54 AM
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I read your post and it seems to be that you're generalizing all women. Based off of what seems to be 2 maybe 3 relationships. That's not fair to women or to yourself
/r/seduction02/09/20 12:52 AM
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Im female but continue please
/r/seduction02/09/20 12:46 AM
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It sounds like you may be a shitty guy who can only attract shitty women
/r/seduction02/09/20 12:43 AM
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What's wrong with overweight women for one? What qualifies as good men?
/r/seduction02/09/20 12:42 AM
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Ask her to hang out, say something like, "I just got a few beers, wanna join?"
/r/seduction01/09/20 02:09 AM
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You don't pull her on your side. This would be a great time to respect her decision and stop trying to seduce her. A female friend is a great thing to have, it may not be what you wanted but who knows what good things can come from it.
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:55 PM
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But she told you she didn't want to go out with you because she was seeing someone else? Maybe she wants you as a backup, either way she's rejected your advance.
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:38 PM
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Sometimes women are afraid to reject men in fear of retaliation or maybe she just wanted to be friends with you
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:26 PM
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She said she wasnt comfortable with it and you should respect that. The majority of females don't use I'm seeing another guy as a challenge. Rather females tend to use that as a please leave me alone.
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:20 PM
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I know that it's needless to say, however I've been approached by guys who often corner me or refuse to take no for an answer. Often it's said that confidence is key but if someone isn't naturally confident than just be your friendly self.
/r/seduction12/07/20 06:00 PM
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Wow u/sundaysermon way to speak on behalf of women. Being approached is fine as long as you're friendly and you dont expect anything out of the encounter. Everyone likes compliments. My advice to just act normal. If you like a womans shoes maybe ask her where she got them from becuase your sister or mom are looking for a cute pair. You know no matter how attractive is they're human. No matter what you're entitled to nothing from someone your approach.
/r/seduction12/07/20 04:50 PM
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You should pursue if you plan on staying with her afterwards. I personally never had no interest in talking to my first ever again. I also know a girl who went bat shit crazy about the guy
/r/seduction04/07/20 02:30 AM
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I think you're reading too far into this
/r/seduction29/06/20 01:27 AM
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I've been to counseling and it help out a lot. This is just something I have to push myself through. When I drink I become very flirty, however drunk me is also an amazing cock block
/r/seduction20/06/20 04:30 AM
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Do you have a photo? I like dark serious men
/r/seduction14/06/20 02:08 AM
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If someone calls you creepy, it's best to apologize and walk away. It's a bad opener unless you can pin point what about them interesting
/r/seduction13/06/20 08:51 PM
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Has this happened to you or is this a hypothetical? Also I don't know if I would take being called interesting as a compliment.
/r/seduction13/06/20 08:17 PM
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Can you please provide an example?
/r/seduction13/06/20 02:22 PM
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That's awful. If someone is calling you creep that means you're making them uncomfortable. Insteading of acknowledging the issue you're going about which some how makes it worse. Shit if you're going to joke at least make it a good one
/r/seduction13/06/20 02:15 AM
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If they have any loyalty to each other the best friend wont go for you
/r/seduction06/06/20 04:04 PM
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There's no way of knowing that she sent it to just you. I mean if you do jerk off to it, I don't reccomend telling her.
/r/seduction26/05/20 04:03 PM
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If she sent it to you with the video for you to jerk if no. If she didn't and you two are just friends than yes.
/r/seduction26/05/20 02:46 PM
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Either you're attractive, great in bed, or a lair.
/r/seduction26/05/20 02:18 AM
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That's also a great way to catch STDs! How many girls have you gotten to stick around after you fully vet them?
/r/seduction25/05/20 06:15 PM
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No, I don't think I would do all of that on a first date. I would defintlety use a condom of a first date, I don't know what the guy has.
/r/seduction23/05/20 05:37 PM
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Yes you took this personally. It was a joke that wasn't funny. As a result you're going to the internet to trash her as a person
/r/seduction23/05/20 02:13 PM
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You can compliment her or ask her a question. Try to be as nice as possiblen
/r/seduction23/05/20 04:06 AM
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Is this a joke?
/r/seduction23/05/20 03:01 AM
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Because 18 year old men have all their shit together
/r/seduction16/05/20 03:30 AM
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I love how you're telling me what my relationships are like with my male friends. I have guy friends who treated me as a friend. We got food together and hung out but he never bent over backwards to me. We've been great friends and after we graduated. We'd both grown as people and I realized that he could be a couple. When we first met we wouldn't have been right for each other.
/r/seduction15/05/20 12:01 AM
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As a female I think the other guy said it best. It is possible to be friends with a female because you guys aren't right for each other at that time. Maybe another time she'll see you in another light or there may be a time she wants to be comforted by a friend. Being friends with a female doesnt mean you're in the friendzone. Females can have male friends who they would fuck but they currently aren't fucking. If you friends with a females then she'll probably introduce you to her other female f…
/r/seduction14/05/20 11:17 PM
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She's responding to you when it's convenient. It means nothing other than you're not her #1 priority
/r/seduction13/05/20 06:12 PM
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Girls hate unsolicited dick pics
/r/seduction12/05/20 06:57 PM
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Try messaging her and asking her to hang out. Please dont send her a dick picture. That'll secure the fact that she wont talk to you again
/r/seduction12/05/20 06:57 PM
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You can't conquer a girl. Given that you've only kissed her, you never conquered her in the first place. Just because she sleeps around doesnt mean she wants to sleep with you. She may like you but you've acted like a child and then ignored her there's a chance she won't want to fuck her. Start by treating her with respect and then she may want to sleep with you.
/r/seduction10/05/20 09:16 PM
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Is Chad a good thing? Is that what your goal is in life, to be a Chad?
/r/seduction07/05/20 05:27 AM
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As a female I strongly disagree with this. Some women are busy and have a life or they like to just talk over text sometimes. If a guy isnt willing to text me than things aren't going to work out.
/r/seduction05/05/20 02:44 AM
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It would be weird if I set up a date with someone and they just stopped talking to me. Talk to her like you normally do. If she likes you for you than the odds are small you'll mess things up.
/r/seduction04/05/20 01:53 PM
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If you dont know the what the right moves may be let the female take initiative. The only wrong move in my mind is just whipping your dick out. Everyone gets lazy, it's understandable
/r/seduction04/05/20 04:56 AM
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She probably won't cum from that given you're clearly putting your satisfaction first. Dont walk into hookup with plan,just go with the flow. I do recommend some sort of foreplay that benefits the female. Also dont just whip out your dick.
/r/seduction04/05/20 04:41 AM
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If she's tired ask what's preventing her from going to bed. If she's hungry what are her options for lunch. It's more or less expressing your thoughts over anything else
/r/seduction29/04/20 06:02 AM
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Unless they have a Daddy/ Little Girl fetish most women like to be treated like women. But go ahead and try that approach and let me know how it goes
/r/seduction28/04/20 04:35 AM
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No. Where do you find shit like this?
/r/seduction28/04/20 03:32 AM
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You need to get mental help. If any of what you said is true than you have some extreme trauma.
/r/seduction27/04/20 01:23 PM
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You could say. "Hey I think you're pretty, could I get your snapchat?" It states your intentions and your still complementing her. It comes off as weird , I dont know how to explain it
/r/seduction27/04/20 03:13 AM
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That made me cringe. You know start with a bit of small talk before you try to get someones information. Also the last part was not needed and made you seem like a creep.
/r/seduction27/04/20 02:54 AM
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Okay, fuck that dude
/r/seduction26/04/20 07:32 PM
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Are you Zac Efron? Do you have the body of a god? If not than why are your standards so high?
/r/seduction26/04/20 07:29 PM
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I don't need validation. I honestly hate when guys tell me how they prefer when girls wear no make up or dont know how to cook. I just need attention. But thank you becuase this would be a great time for self improvement. That was actually really helpful
/r/seduction26/04/20 07:24 PM
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$10 and a blow job says you're a "nice guy"
/r/seduction26/04/20 01:28 AM
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Go at whatever speed you're comfortable with. Those articles just objectify women, but not all of us are the same. Do whatever you are comfortable with at the speed you are comfortable with.
/r/seduction24/04/20 05:06 PM
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She didnt want to make out with you in front of her friends. That's just being polite. She's probably into you, just waiting for the right moment.
/r/seduction24/04/20 07:16 AM
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I got bored and read your profile. Given the extravagant stories you enjoy telling, you seem to really want to impress strangers online. Just ask an interesting question and hope for the best. You could also meet people in person.
/r/seduction24/04/20 04:55 AM
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I currently have 300 mates on tinder and well over 20 messages. I dont want to sit down and reply to all of them. Maybe you're just not interesting
/r/seduction24/04/20 04:41 AM
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Female here, a lot of females have self confidence issues as well. Just because females dont reply it's nothing against you. Females have lives outside of dating apps too Im guessing you blueidoit are a nice guy. Girls are too shallow to ever give you a chance and instead they go for assholes
/r/seduction24/04/20 02:52 AM
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In my experience with online dating I get a lot of matches or likes to the point where it can be overwhelming. I know it's like this for most females. With online dating sometimes women dont take the first step becuase they feel they dont have to. With females maybe you come off as too nice. What I mean by that is that your kindness may be viewed as you putting on a face. It could honestly that nothing is wrong with you and you just haven't found the right person
/r/seduction24/04/20 02:36 AM
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