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the-don-carlo/r/MGTOW06/06/21 08:16 AM
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the-don-carlo/r/MGTOW206/06/21 08:06 AM
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Best friends? You can’t be best friends with a wife. Shes a wife not a partner or buddy. You lose frame that way
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/26 12:25 AM
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Lmao at these whamen blowing up families so they can ride the cc. Good luck finding “your person” with three young kids. They really are children. Don’t look back and go enjoy your life, being single is a gift!
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 06:57 AM
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Just go to Asia and blow off some steam. Dont waste your time on those apps
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/25 04:43 AM
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Sucks. But you definitely have the wrong mindset regarding her and her saddo boyfriend. Think about it
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/25 01:00 AM
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I think she just dumped you to have her wild phase and then married you. Sorry man.. this is quite common. I know one like her and she did the exact same only to dump safe her husband after two young kids to go back riding the CC. Many such cases. Serve her or she will serve you.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/25 10:03 PM
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If you’re already here then you know what to do. no kids , less than 5 years married. Get out now. Serve her! Over 5 years married will cost you more
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/25 05:21 AM
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The problem is you guys all think your wife is your best friend no she is not,and it’s not supposed to be that way and no amount of therapy will convince you of that. They are not partners , they’re supposed to be wives when you realize you’ll understand loneliness is only in your imagination
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/25 06:32 AM
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You win my man. … you’re in her head and her new finance is a cuck who can only get a single mom and she probably resents him for that. Take the high road and just smile and savor the win!
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/25 11:15 PM
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You’re right. Tell here straight up you don’t want anyone who isn’t a professionally hired mover there. You have kids and she already has a new dick. Many such cases though. They can’t help themselves, new boy ain’t much better and if he had an ounce of decency (doubtful) he won’t get involved with the move. Good luck 👍🏻
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/25 10:19 PM
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How long have you been divorced?
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/25 12:35 AM
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Enjoy it. Remember it. You don’t need a woman around 24/7. 1 hour will do. Being alone is in your space is incredible. I’m on 5 years now. It’s bliss 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 09:05 AM
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Good for you. But , just divorced and already in another relationship.. some of you guys just can’t be alone. Hope you learnt your lesson and don’t get married again 😃
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/25 12:17 PM
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Yikes. Can’t listen to a needy woman for two seconds. Probably why I enjoy being single so much
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/25 11:45 AM
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You can’t be best friends with a woman, even your wife. You lose frame. She actually told you she wants to be fucked hard and rejected you. Say goodbye to her, she’s gone!
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 07:43 PM
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Why would a a 30 year old bang an old women that age. I’m in my early 40s and wouldn’t go near an old women of 50. wtf 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/25 10:23 PM
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Many such cases Sorry man, sounds like she’s got another cock on the go or ready to go.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/25 08:14 PM
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Do not reach out on her birthday That will give her and in to work you over. Ignore. Move on
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/24 04:51 AM
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Big mistake. If you’re lonely You’ll jump into something serious or find yourself being married again. You need to take time and do for yourself. Forget these ho’s
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/24 11:22 AM
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This is thialand hehehe Some of the ladyboys are better bodies than most of the women in this US
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/24 08:41 AM
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Nice one. I’m a bit younger and I travel to BKK often as possible. Have lots of friends there now, And lots of girlfriends who will stay with me for two hours or two weeks , have some regular girls too, but they can get clingy when it’s not transactional. Always a great time there. it’s always up to me what I do. And that’s how it should be!
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/24 12:09 AM
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What a bitch .. but this is what they do, blow up a family , make your life hell,while they don’t miss a beat. Give it a year and she will be very sorry , single moms have little value in the dating marketplace. In a year you’ll be a better & stronger man. Believe it!
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 05:06 PM
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🤣
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 05:02 PM
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Bangkok. Go solo. Make friends Great nightlife and girls with beautiful smiles who are approachable without the shitty tude!
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 03:48 PM
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Speculating here, but, Maybe her new guy is not keeping his promise and now she may need to falll back to you. Serve her asap and don’t let her back in the house!
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 03:38 PM
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Been single 2 years. It’s staying that way 😎
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/24 10:00 PM
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Haha no.. I have tried tinder and plenty of pigs .. sorry fish. Absolutely would not get involved with anything I’ve seen on those sites. I do visit Asia two or three times times a year so tinder works very well there. As long as I’m in the US I will never date , just find a FB here and there and put in zero effort. I love my life how it is.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 05:11 AM
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Haha poor guy. 2 years divorced also and absolutely love my peaceful life. Having said that ex was not anything aggressive like that and is a nice person. But I’m quite content over here 😎
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 09:13 PM
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Bingo. I love myself Step off ladies 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 07:48 PM
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lol never learn. Be happy. Why get the government involved 🤯
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 07:46 PM
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You could be on the hook for the another man’s kid! Guys how many times do I gotta say it .. stay away from single moms. Don’t marry them anyway!
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/24 11:53 AM
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Yup a 46 year old divorced single mom is going to be practice for some pretty desperate youngest guys , for now anyway, 50 is coming soon
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/24 06:14 PM
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Tip off to Thailand for a few weeks will definitely be worth it , beautiful woman and beautiful sights.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 10:13 PM
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Brilliant post this
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/24 07:40 PM
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So much truth in this post. Absolutely spot on. Read a post where the guys new serious relationship wanted to thrown down with his still legal wife. Lmao!! I’ve been divorced two years now and I absolutely love my life and the peace, also just doing whatever I feel like. Sure I’ve had a few women I was seeing as Fwb but all of them eventually wanted more even wanted to know if I want kids & marriage. I had to end a good fwb thing last week.. which is fine because I got a few more lined up & have…
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/24 06:52 PM
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Jesus. Gluten for punishment 🤣. No pussy is worth the headaches, you set strong boundaries and work on yourself not jump into a serious relationship with a woman that wants to fight your ex.. they both sounds like lunatics. Good luck with that. I’ll be chilling with my whiskey & cigar awaiting your updates.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/24 07:34 AM
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Sounds like she was seeing if her new guy was gonna commit or not. She kept you on the side burner. They all do this Monkey branches and manipulative af. FF boys , never buy the cow
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/24 09:34 PM
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Definitely could be all in the head. Do you watch a lot of porn , or have a lot of nudes in your feed? This can kill the drive big time.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/24 08:28 PM
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It will be. But being in an any kind of a relationship always leads to them wanting more commitment then marriage. Every single time! Just had to end it with a girl from Hong Kong , fun, great sex , lots in common. Was only meant to be a FB situation, but then she wanted a serious relationship leading to marriage. Had to say bye bye. She still keeps texting me.. Careful out there
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/24 03:19 PM
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She did you a favor.. you were starting to fall in love and probably headed down the same path again. Being single is the greatest. You’ll embrace it soon enough.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/24 12:51 PM
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Totally crazy. You guys are divorced What does she want, get back together to divorce you again. Mental cases!! My ex wife is alway prying into my pvt life and although i have nothing to hide because im not dating or looking for a gf, either way its not her business, i never ask about her pvt life. They just want the security, you clearly do well for yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 05:53 AM
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Your best friend ? You can’t be best friends with your girl she won’t respect you. You’ll Learn and don’t get married again ffs
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 06:43 AM
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Female mid life crisis we never hear about. This should be a big warning to any guys contemplating marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 04:41 AM
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I could never wife up a single mom. You asked for it, I’ve heard nothing but nightmare stories about them and their kids. Hopefully you learned a lesson here and divorce this woman asap
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 06:54 PM
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Women didn’t stick around anymore. Why bother trying. Hit & quit The podcast story is probably bullshit, she prob got some new D. Lesson learnt
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 04:54 AM
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Dating a lot. Met a lot of great guys, who … pumped & dumped. If they were so great she wouldn’t be meeting you. Don’t meet her again, you’re feeding her.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 09:56 PM
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It does guys. Currently in Bangkok after a week in Tokyo. Off to Seoul next. We deserve this. Go!
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 07:21 PM
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If loyalty is the only thing that matters to you. Well then I guess you should know the next step. Texting the side dude while you’re together with family. Nasty
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 04:15 AM
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If you think you can’t do better than an obese woman you definitely have major confidence issues. Tons (no pun 🤣) of fish in the sea! If you’re thinking of divorce it’s because you’re not happy Looks like you can get away lightly. I’d advise you serve her before you end up knocking her up. Then it’s game over
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/23 05:33 PM
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I don’t have to. I read yours. She sees you and you can’t actually move on, she’s getting new dick and trying to make you jealous. She has no respect for you because you still live under same roof. One of you has to go. Ridiculous situation
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/23 06:51 AM
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Living with ex wife. wtf. And all ready have a girlfriend and her fcuking some other dude You two sounds like immature kids. 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/23 06:31 AM
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Do NOT take this bitch back. Ex doesn’t want her , he just wanted some ass and probably filled her head with lies. He needs to dealt with also. Now she’s back because she has no other options and your her meal ticket. They are all the same bro. Serve & Divorcé aggressively now!
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 11:46 AM
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For 6 months marriage. She doesn’t deserve shit. Have that marriage annulled
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 01:10 PM
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Lmao then average profile in America. Land of The entitled single mom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/23 01:12 PM
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So you married a single mom. Mistake number 1 Now this woman who has a kid with another man is going to take your home & you’re going to probably pay support. Guys ffs stay away from single moms. They are not your problem!
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 03:40 AM
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Annulment now
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 11:35 AM
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I was like that in my 20s and most of my 30s. Now that I’m in my 40s divorced , I love being single and doing my own thing , females are for fun now and can be friends too. You don’t need to sign a contract to be happy. You’re being incredibly naïve. I’d you want kids with this woman do not sign a government contract & if she doesn’t agree to that say goodbye
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 05:07 AM
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Dude you’re divorced, what are gonna do, start dating her , remarry her and divorce again 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 02:27 AM
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Jesus. Coach red pill warns against single moms and is spot on. I banged a few but will stay clear after your reality
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 06:38 AM
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Sounds great .. if that were true 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 09:17 PM
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Millions of pussies in this world and you’re worried about one. Ooooh Seriously though , you’ll look back on this and laugh sooner than you think , especially if you start tapping some new minge. Deffo don’t let her see you stressing it
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 09:17 PM
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Oh don’t sound like a misogynist now 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/23 04:26 AM
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Disney land. Leaves for two days Hmmm all suspicious af. Get out now before she ruins you financially and alienates you from Your family. Sounds like a Nightmare. Don’t marry or cohabitate lads
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/23 04:10 AM
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Found out yesterday my papers were stamped a few weeks ago and my lawyer didn’t bother to reach out, he did however send me a bill the other day.. good thing I called to ask wtf is the hold up. Scammers. Didn’t celebrate. Just went to the gym knowing I won’t marry or cohabitate again!
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 10:55 PM
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This is the way. A few months ago I decided the same thing. Wasn’t on a dating site but was dealing with needy/moody women! Now it’s me number 1, do what I want when I want. Back in the gym. Back playing golf. Feels fantastic. No woman is getting anymore than 10% of my attention again! I think all guys out of a bad relationship/ divorce should do this for a while, we don’t have to be tied down!
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/23 12:36 PM
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18+ is just for fun not a relationship. 25 -30 max if you want a serious relationship that may leads to kids. What’s the point of dating a 35-40 year old women of you want that , and most of them already had kids/ divorced. At this stages us divorced men should be looking out for number 1 and just having fun.!
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 01:40 PM
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25 to 28 if you want to have kid, 18-30 if you don’t! 50-70 if you don’t wanna be worrie about knocking them up 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 11:44 AM
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She’s ghetto af.. and she refers to the kids as her kids. Hope this guy ain’t a stepped on dad and paying child support for some other guys keeeeds.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/23 11:15 AM
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I got to the gym 4 nights a week. The feeling walking out of the gym is incredible, it’s addictive and it’s incredible for your well being and frame of mind Try to have a FU attitude and listen to Iron Maiden 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/23 01:24 AM
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RIp 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/23 04:47 PM
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Good for you and the win & the new trim Just don’t cohabitate or wife her up!
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/23 04:33 PM
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Top post! They want it all and give nothing in return. Let them have it. Go on YouTube and listen to women cry on tic tok about men 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/23 11:22 PM
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Wow painful. You know next time to watch out for yourself. They only want one thing and that’s a provider for them and their kids Was seeing a divorced single mom very casually , mostly hookups. Had to ditch after she kept pressing for something more serious. Saying the usual how she wants her forever man, knows her worth, even a man who would love waking up to her & her kids, marriage! Sounded repulsive to me. Nothing against them, just not mine. Btw she walked away from her marriage with young…
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/23 01:29 PM
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Sorry dude. Sucks , so the divorced single mom now with a track record of using men to eventually destroy with divorce grape is getting rewarded by this system. The whole system is a disgrace. Stay away from single moms guys and pretty much any wahman these days
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/23 11:18 PM
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A woman cannot be alone 🤣. They’re always plotting their next victim. You’ll soon find out!
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/23 06:49 PM
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Some very good advice in this thread I’ve been there. Got threatened with the same crap, me not committing and her joining a dating site.. so I told her to stay there and that dating sites are filled with 40 year old women like her, dime a dozen. She’ll come back like mine did, that’s when you close the door on them and continue your life, doing and seeing whomever you like. Have no mercy on the selfish!
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/23 04:09 PM
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She has now realized that her market value as an older divorced single mom is zero. She got pumped & dumped , had her tingles but no guy is settling for her. You do you but I’d never take her back. Why reward that behavior.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/23 02:55 PM
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Was it 100K for 6 months because you wife’d up a single mom with two kids/child supports etc Who did she have those kids with.. is she now twice divorced? Hope this is a lesson for all men to stay away from single moms. Never raise another man’s kids, you’ll end up paying child support when she takes off, & she will!
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/23 02:34 AM
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Women today. They are fucking lost. Sue her ass for fraud! Oh and serve her immediately!
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/23 03:21 AM
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Dude listen to yourself 🤣. What do you care who she ends up with .. she’s a single mom and will be seen a fuck for most men. She may eventually trap a simp to take over your old duties , maybe even blend families. Sucks I know. Worry about yourself. Keep fit and bang who you want. No such thing a “9” middle age single mom
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/23 05:51 AM
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She seen you cry… not a good look and not gonna make her panties wet. I think you know the rest
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/23 02:39 AM
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I’d call that a simp tax. Sad af
/r/MensRights04/10/22 12:23 AM
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Serve her soon. Be on the front front. Have your lawyer make her an offer Force her into a quick decision of taking the offer or hiring a lawyer. Keep your video camera on when she confronts you, hidden of course , shirt pocket etc
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/22 05:32 AM
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Dude you’re living in la la land. She’s going to after your money regardless of kids and salary. You earn 3x more. Guess what she’s wants 1.5x of that. Also, you’ve been married 9 years so she’s “entitled” to a payout. You need to listen and pay attention to the advice here about serving her and gathering info etc.. she already strayed and you just want closure. Get that shit after you protect your assets. Wake up!
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/22 05:15 AM
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Lms.. put up with that abuse every month for a few days for the rest of my life? I think you know the answer to that. No pussy is worth the agro
/r/MensRights09/09/22 03:08 AM
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Best she will change her tune when you serve her and offer her bare minimum. Serve her before she serves you .. and so not leave your house. It’s yours. Be careful and always have your phone/cam recording. Good luck … you’ll be fine
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/22 06:54 PM
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If you had kids she would have left you some day down the road for a younger guy. Them you’d be on the hook for kids and probably lose much more. Some good advice here. Get angry and use that as fuel to better yourself. You’re young & dodged a major bullet. Go enjoy YOUR life, it’s short!
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/22 01:33 AM
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Lmao she’s a child! Good for you man.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/22 12:59 AM
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I feel for you bro. But she’s been manipulating you. Clearly she was getting dicked by another dude and he ran the other way when she left you, nows she’s back home & he’s not interested anymore… she closed her legs to you for a year and you allowed that. You cried in front of her. You brought her flowers. You fucked up.! You need get your balls back and file ASAP because this woman does not respect you. Get your ducks in a row .. but don’t tell Her anything.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/22 12:57 AM
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Wow you must have a great lawyer. Congrats, go enjoy your freedom. Let her ride the CC. That’s all they think about.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/22 05:48 PM
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You’re correct, honestly I just want to get my divorce sorted and go about my life. She knows my situation, chooses to be with then starts up this bullshit with me. I know it’s a game but I’m not gonna play it. Stupid of me to get involved again I know.
/r/MGTOW06/06/21 07:37 PM
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No we don’t live together or have any plans to get married. Was just trying to have a fun and normal relationship. I guess that’s not possible
/r/MGTOW206/06/21 05:32 PM
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No I never talked about marriage, I even shot down in previous disagreements. I just said I want a Normal relationship with her. Of course she is trying to force my hand. I’m getting divorced regardless. Also I didn’t cheat on my wife. We separated 18 months ago.
/r/MGTOW206/06/21 04:48 PM
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2know = not knowing is it’s to or too, or even two know
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