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LTR/MARRIAGEthe-food-historian/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 05:20 PM
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I never thought to put nutmeg on the spaghetti squash -- that sounds amazing!
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 05:14 PM
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Chicken nuggets of any kind are the best.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 05:13 PM
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Grilled salmon with crazy hot Cajun spices; sushi rice (in the rice cooker on a timer); overcooked carrots (intentionally, in the slow cooker on high all day); kimchi from a jar. It takes about 20 minutes of active cooking after the prep of setting it up before coming in to work. Even then, it's mostly heating the grill and just making sure stuff doesn't burn.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 05:13 PM
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We also live in a part of the country (US) where even the universities are conservative. Thank you for the perspective, fellow historian.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 09:22 PM
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All of these are solid ideas. I appreciate the thoughtful reply.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 09:21 PM
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Before this weekend, we had a great friendship, and a lot of shared interests. A week ago it was a different outlook for me. Heck, Thursday of last week it was a different outlook for me.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 09:17 PM
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He doesn’t have much, but he does have the audacity! This made me laugh. Thank you for this comment.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 09:15 PM
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I was once on a flight from New York City to Tokyo, and the plane had to turn around when we were halfway there -- over the Aleutian Islands! -- because a volcano erupted and was spewing ash in the air which could cause the plane's engines to die out. It wound up being a 15 hour flight from Gate C-170 to Gate C-21 at the same airport. I then spent another 15 hours the following day, once the volcano subsided, actually flying to Tokyo. My life got "derailed by a volcano weird" this weekend for su…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 08:44 PM
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A lot of my family are human train wrecks, and I've worked hard to not be that. Within myself, I've got that going for me. I am working with a therapist on my anxiety issues. A lot of the anxiety is side effects from cancer meds, but perhaps subconsciously it was from living with a husband who was lying to be about so many things. We will have many things to discuss at this week's session. Thank you for the comment, and the kind words.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 08:19 PM
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Thanks for the comment! I already have a therapist who was helping me with my anxiety, so I've got one thing covered. :D
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 08:14 PM
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Thank you for this idea. I hadn't considered going to our church community. We both belong to a small Southern Baptist church in our very small rural town. But with all the Coronapocalypse stuff going on, we haven't attended in person in a long time. We are also roughly 20-40 years younger than most other members. I like these people, but I don't know if I feel close to them. It sounds crappy and uncaring, and I know it's selfish of me. His family lives 2,000 miles away; mine lives 2,500 miles a…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 08:13 PM
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My husband and I have a dog! His name is Rusty Shackleford and he's a Rhodesian Ridgeback. We also have 6 cats. All are rescues. I am worried about missing them when we break up; I know 4 of the cats will stay with me, but 1 of the cats was his before we met, and he may take another cat and the dog. I love all the animals quite a bit. I realized while writing (and re-writing) the original post that it was sounding super insane. But it's what my life is. I really do have cancer, a career, a disse…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 08:06 PM
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I realize this sounds like a weird soap opera or trolling, but it's totally not. I am a real person and this was my craptacular weekend. I love the RPW community, and have followed much of the advice I've read on here, and thought I could get perspective from other RPW on this.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 07:57 PM
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Thank you for the compliments and the perspective. I was being an absolute idiot and really looking at myself from HIS perspective, but not necessarily the perspective of anyone else. Theologically, I believe we are all sinners who can be redeemed and God sees us differently than humankind, but that's my philosophical/religious bent on things, which is also not how my husband has been seeing me, but rather someone who gets in his way and derails his progress. I am an intense person, which isn't …
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 07:27 PM
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Thank you for your thoughtful comment and the book recommendation. I am grateful for this perspective, and for how to be able to deal with thing productively and not falling down into a hopeless rabbit hole.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 06:57 PM
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My husband never met his father, as his mother divorced his father while pregnant so she could live some weird Mary Tyler Moore single career woman fantasy. We don't have children. I got diagnosed with cancer shortly before we were going to start trying, and now I am unable to have any. I was supposed to deploy to Kuwait for my job for a 16-week tour. As soon as I returned, my doctor was going to put me on fertility treatments since I'd be 38 by then. A week before the deployment, I was getting …
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 06:52 PM
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Thank you for the reply. I wish this WAS a troll post. My life literally came crashing down around me this weekend. I live in a teeny tiny town without many female friends nearby, but I've enjoyed this subreddit, so reach out here for advice. I think leaving is likely my option, but I need to get a few things legally and financially in order before I do. Edit: deleted a word, fixed the intended meaning
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 06:44 PM
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Thank you for making me laugh out loud. Yes, I imagine that a smaller house and the distinct absence of a husband who cheats would make my life a lot easier. I have certainly considered it. I may spend time this week looking for job openings elsewhere.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 06:38 PM
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Thank you so much for a candid and humorous reply! It's like I literally fell into the Twilight Zone. I've helped him with his business and know it's not going to make millions, but he seemed to enjoy it. I like my job, so didn't think anything of it. Even if it was not strictly traditional, I was okay with it. I didn't care if I was earning more money if he wasn't messing around behind my back. He has a small business and I thought he was working hard at it, though likely a part of that time wa…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 06:35 PM
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Thank you for your insight and comment. I am not sure who to attribute this quote to, but I read recently, "When you look at someone through rose-colored glasses all the red flags just look like flags." The idea of being his mom is a weird notion. His mother is a bad person, and my husband was raised by his grandmother, who was one of the kindest, most wonderful people I've ever met. His grandmother, though, worked her whole life until she retired, so it's not like he's unfamiliar with women hav…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 06:27 PM
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Thank you for your reply. I am grateful for an outside-looking-in viewpoint on things. It reminds me of the one Whitney Houston lyrics: "I'd rather be alone than unhappy." That may indeed be the path I need to take.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 06:19 PM
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I appreciate the perspective. He would be thrilled if I dropped the doctorate, or at the very least, focused on a dissertation topic that I could do from work (if it relates to my job, my boss is totally thrilled I would do a dissertation topic that overlapped). If I hadn't walked in on him having unprotected sex with another woman, it was honestly a conversation I was willing to have. Because my health could limit my income and working potential, like in a mobility sort of way, I am hesitant to…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 06:13 PM
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I used to work in the Biophysics Department at an an Ivy League, and it was interesting as a non-scientist interacting with those that were. I knew of no one from that job that was into any sort of politics. They were big on meritocracy, objectivity, and fairness, but in the 2.5 years I worked there, I do not remember anyone mentioning politics, even in passing. Is it possible that he focuses on specific policies rather than politics at large? Perhaps you could gauge things by speaking about par…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/20 04:16 PM
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Oooooohhhh, this is a good realization. I tend to do the same things, even when I don't have any interest in what he's proposed we do.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 12:56 AM
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Just shoved the whole thing in there, and buttoned the duvet closed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 08:47 PM
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I bought a new duvet cover, and then stuffed an old comforter into it. It's crazy warm, and easy to clean.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 06:56 PM
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Aww, that's sweet! My husband loves to hear stuff like this, so every so often I do the same thing. I also like to email him with a running list of things I love about him. My love language is service and gifts, but his is verbal and physical, so I have to remind myself a lot to do the stuff HE likes.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 06:55 PM
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