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Being sensitive does not mean he’s automatically a pussy. Those are two separate things. I like sensitive because it means emotionally intelligent. Being a pussy is unattractive because I’m not lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:40 AM
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28F n count = 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:21 PM
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Absolutely - men have every right to have standards when it comes to sexual past
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:07 PM
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Well then I am judgemental. It’s very unattractive if he has to buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:57 PM
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No, if he can’t get girls in real life I don’t want him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:24 AM
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No because if he needs to pay for sex then he’s obviously not very attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:57 AM
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Well said!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:10 PM
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Excellent post!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:46 AM
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Not accceptable. I would not date someone who is so pedantic about splitting 50/50. It’s unattractive to be a scrounge and there are many men who are generous. Rather be with a poor but generous man then a rich stingy one, any day! Ps yes I stopped dating a man who insisted on splitting dates 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:47 PM
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I would not date someone who is so pedantic about splitting 50/50. It’s unattractive to be a scrounge and there are mama men who are generous so I’m gonna go for one of them instead. Rather be with a poor but generous man then a rich stingy one any dayz
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:46 PM
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Cross post to r/redpillwomen to get more responses. Essentially your husband is totally out of line and has in fact crossed the line to abuse. Financial abuse is a very valid form of abuse as well as the fact he wants to take away your ability to self-determine your life in any way, shape or form. You are completely in the right here!
/r/RedPillWives27/10/22 02:49 PM
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Asking bluntly like that is a strong signal of autism. You get to know her and use your own brain to figure out what she’s bringing to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:24 PM
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What makes you think you 'hit the wall‘? I‘m curious since I am now (27) objectively more attractive then I was at 22-23.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:55 PM
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Woman here. I am 27 and the quality of men I’m dating now is sooo much higher then when I was 21-26. At that age 'men' intimidated me and I always went for 'boys' who were my age. I went for the type of guy who I knew was super lucky to even have the chance to date me. I guess I purposefully dated 'down’. Anyone over the age of 30 was old too me then. They were usually students, poor and not very secure in themselves. Suddenly since I turned 27 I am attracted to actual men for the first time and…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:59 PM
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Yes of course it’s an advantage. Being established and financially successful is very attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:47 AM
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This is the most neurotic thing I’ve read in a long time lmao
/r/TheRedPill19/09/22 03:22 PM
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Wow this is disgusting. 2 times in 2 weeks is revolting. Even 2 per week is bad. Should be once daily minimum!! I can’t imagine the smell. How you sleep next to or have sex with this man is beyond my comprehension. Imagine the bacteria entering your vagina or mouth everytime you have sex. Horrific!! Show him this post and the comments. It’s actually showing a massive lack of respect towards you that he can’t be bothered to maintain hygiene. He is putting YOU at risk for UTI’s and sore throats et…
/r/RedPillWives04/08/22 06:54 AM
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I’m waaaaayyyy more attractive at 27 then I was at 22. Why do you feel you went downhill? I haven’t aged yet but still managed to lose baby fat and my bone structure became a lot more prominent in a good way. My teeth are now straightened and white and I’m way more confident overall.
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:51 AM
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HAHAHAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:22 PM
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I love FDS and was even a 'strategy coach’ for some time on the subreddit. My dating life fun. My ex and I broke up in February however we are still friends. I‘m dating new guys and really enjoying the process. It’s summer, I’m in Europe and the amount of beautiful men is such a pleasant surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:57 PM
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Abortion was incredibly dangerous and many women would die in the process. It was also illegal and completely against the church. Pregnancy = children nearly 100% of the time back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:23 AM
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Because he created the child. You’re clearly a genius…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:08 PM
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These average guys dated average to below average women. Today average = fat. So these guys either have to improve or accept that they will date fat girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:43 PM
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I’ve never seen an attractive beard unless it’s stubble or a 5 o’clock shadow. The way the men on Reddit grow their beards it looks like facial pubic hair. Gaming is unattractive to women. If Netflix is equivalent then switch to that as it’s less of a turn off. Only women attracted to gamers are also gamers and I’ve never met a gamer girl in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:45 PM
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Right but so are women. I’m a tall woman myself and this restricts my dating as well. Is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:08 PM
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Lmao. But seriously if this resonates you have concrete things you can do to change. Shave the beard (it’s unhygienic) go to the gym, stop gaming (it’s not attractive) and become ambitious or get into self improvement of some sort. It’s hard but also simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:07 PM
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Women settle. Men complain about that as well thought Lmao. If you don’t want her to settle be a catch so she won’t be
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:38 PM
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I met that guy on Reddit and we talked for around an 30 mins before we shared pics. We ended up meeting a even though he wasn’t really my type in real life I already had that emotional connection that we had built online. That allowed the physical attraction to grow organically
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:49 PM
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I’ve dated a guy who was not conventionally attractive. However and this is important he made up for it by being funny, witty, flirty, outgoing and super emotionally intelligent. Also he was my height and not shorter. If you aren’t attractive you got to make up for it in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:26 PM
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Lmao your last example is a girl crying vs her with full make up and photoshop. Neither of those pics is an accurate representation of what she looks like. Go outside and see whether you spot more attractive women or more attractive men. The real world is not the internet and the answer is very clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:15 PM
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The female face is inherently more attractive then the male face. You can see that when you Google average faces. Also I’m aware of lots of cases on Reddit where guys complain that they don’t want to date these so called date average girls. So men do the same thing you accuse girls of doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:09 AM
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Most men are rated below average by women because most men ARE below what we consider acceptable. Take for example Russia. Google the average Russian woman, now Google the average Russian man. Do you seriously think they are evenly matched? Nope. The woman is gorgeous and the guy looks like he’s had too many cigarettes and has a drinking problem. Most women don’t wanna date the average man because the average man is not worth dating. We would rather be single. On Reddit (mostly US users) it’s th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:04 AM
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Ottermode for sure. 2nd choice would be fit. Lean but muscular is the most attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:22 AM
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Oh there are some famous American writers for sure. We spent months studying To Kill A Mockingbird at my high school. My meaning was more that in England, a professor of English or History at Oxford or Cambridge for example is a very highly respected position. These are EXPERTS of the enlightenment and the many great historical figures who shaped modern western thought. Most people would protest heavily at the thought of getting rid of these departments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:11 AM
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Yes this is probably the case in America. But in England and Europe they are most definitely cultural keepers. The literature tradition is also much more respected in Europe thanks to genius’ such as Shakespeare and Goethe and Schiller. The USA doesn’t have a cultural tradition to the same extent owing to it being a relatively young country.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:00 AM
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And yet if we lose the English and history departments we also lose an important part of our heritage. We lose some of the most important keepers of Western Culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:41 AM
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You are
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:15 PM
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A queen 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:02 PM
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Lmaooo this is an entertaining essay for sure 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:43 PM
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Why lower my standards when they are working for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:03 PM
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The term plates is meant to indicate that she’s disposable. The approach lacks humanity in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:53 AM
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Plate spinning. Women aren’t plates for starters and secondly I think a lot of guys pretend to want a relationship until 'the plate breaks' which is the term redpill men use to describe the moment a woman realises she has been used and played. It just ain’t right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:17 PM
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No, being a living public toilet is not my idea of fun. Fun for me is a romantic night with one man that I love adoring my body.. Fun for me is feeling cherished. You should try it sometime, it feels amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:54 AM
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I know you are a woman but you are very unusual with many of your opinions and lifestyle choices. Essentially you are not a good example of the normal woman. Many women including myself see our bodies as precious and don’t want to be accessible to most men. Just a few men who do the work and prove themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:27 AM
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I love sex. But only when there are emotions involved and it’s someone I care about. Sex for me is an emotional exchange. I know for men it can be either purely physical or a mix of both. Think of it like hugging. You enjoy it when you hug someone you care about. But if you knew every person in a crowd of hundreds wanted to hug you, you’d pretty quickly be over it and not want to do it even though you still enjoy hugging theoretically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:03 AM
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But they do go back to normal. So how would you ever know if she had a hoe phase 10 years ago? Her vagina certainly won’t tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:41 AM
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I hope you’re joking but in case you’re not: Vaginal tightness has nothing to do with how many dicks she’s had. That’s a biological fact you can look it up. The vagina is a muscle and would actually get tighter the more it’s used.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:40 AM
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Exactly! Men saying they can 'sense' how many people a woman had slept with is straight up bullshit. Nothing else to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:49 AM
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I‘m slim, attractive and college educated. But see you what I‘M looking for? That would be very tall (since I’m model height), attractive , athletic and adventurous, witty, intelligent and adventurous. Oh and well educated of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:39 AM
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No he actually prefers them - said it in an earlier comment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 08:07 AM
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They all 6 foot. A damn miracle baby 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 08:18 PM
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Yay I’m very happy for you! This is such a great feeling and you are right, we don’t realise we’ve been missing it till it it happens and then it becomes (hopefully) the new minimum 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:21 PM
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Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:53 PM
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True my brother got 600 matches on tinder in a few weeks. He is a very very attractive guy and I also tweaked his profile for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:28 AM
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Imagine if we called men scrotes in bed as often as men call women sluts...keep it up ladies 👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:53 PM
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Wow. Pickmes as therapists now...what next?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:43 PM
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But it’s men who are paying these girls their 'hard earned’ money 🤡 Don’t hate the player hate the game
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 08:31 AM
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Problem happens when he does cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 07:05 PM
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I LOVE YOU QUEENS SO FUCKING MUCH!!! So proud to be one of you 👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:26 AM
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Bobble heads 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:38 AM
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Because sex is something women give and men take. This is also the reason it is only women who can sell their bodies. (Yes there are exceptions however none of these disprove the overall point.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 08:10 AM
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You don’t want to wait forever? Dude it hasn’t even been a week and for all she knows you cheated. Get some fucking humility and give her time. That’s the least you can do.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/21 08:16 PM
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Aftercare is a joke. The fact you need ‚aftercare’ should be a warning no? Sex is not a fucking boxing match lmao ... If sex is truly a great and positive experience you shouldn’t need to be reassured that you have worth as a human being afterwards...lmao. BDSM combined with aftercare is fundamentally just your classic trauma bonding. The bullshit about your brain coming down off a ‚high‘ is complete and utter pseudoscience - a cope for those not wanting to admit that their subconscious is not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 04:30 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction10/02/21 12:02 PM
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Down syndrome increases with the fathers age at a similar rate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 11:40 AM
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It depends on the woman. Early menopause is possible but it is an exception. 40 is fine for most women. I even had a kindergarten teacher who had her 3rd child at 48 years old - without IVF. An accident
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 04:20 PM
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Teenage marriage is rare - teenage pregnancy certainly not rare
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 02:02 PM
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Well it is actually. It starts after the first period and ends at menopause. Pretty on/off to me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:50 PM
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25 year fertility window - age 15 to 40 on average
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:05 PM
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😂😂facts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 03:09 PM
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You just described me wow!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:09 AM
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Stone cold facts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:44 PM
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Lmao this was entertaining! Very good points
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 05:50 PM
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The way we can know we’re doing something right here on FDS is because men hate it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:12 PM
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This is animal abuse and it’s disgusting!! Much worse than any of your stupid DMs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:42 PM
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Probably she’s from India
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 09:45 AM
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Currently I’m living in Austria and i am very happy here. The thing is travel is so easy - i can be in Germany in half an hour or in Italy in 7. Of course learning the language can be a big effort, but you will probably find it very interesting after New York
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 02:53 PM
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I’m not American and moved to Europe two years ago and love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 02:51 PM
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Europe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 02:26 PM
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It’s a cultural thing. Women in the upper classes have been governesses (educating kids) for centuries often from the very best of families. Retail was for working class girls only.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 07:13 PM
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A kindergarten teacher is totally acceptable for middle and UM class. It’s very different from retail assistant or bartender for example
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 06:22 PM
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Confidence (I personally like if it’s bordering on arrogance), ability to tease, flirt, say things without worrying about the consequences, make her laugh. Be good at listening and remember the stuff she tells you. Make her feel heard. If you can do that she’ll fall in love
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 08:34 AM
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Yes it is. However the VAST majority of incels do meet the minimum by a mile.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 03:29 PM
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This is not my experience. Conversation is a perfect opportunity to increase attraction, in fact I’ve never felt attraction from looks alone. Women are holistic creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 03:29 PM
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Sure. My point is really for incels who claim that looks are the beginning and end of all that is required for men to be successful getting casual sex. This is simply not true. Looks must be at a minimum - however these men need to make up for their lack of physical beauty in other areas if they want casual sex and that’s the part they find unfair...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 11:56 AM
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For women: existing For men: at least a minimum of looks and a ton of personality or a maximum of looks and a minimum of personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 07:43 AM
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I’ve seen interviews of Meeks and he is below average intelligence to put it nicely — the guy is actually dumb no joke... What was she doing with him in the first place?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:31 PM
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Yea I know what he’s saying, I just don’t believe he’s being honest with us or himself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:30 PM
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You literally said it’s a punch in the gut each time she meets a new man...lmao that doesn’t sound like an unbothered platonic friend. It’s more likely that you want her but know she is out of your reach so you’ve settled for being best friends with her. It’s likely the women you meet see through that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:17 PM
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you literally write that you are jealous of her relationships .... lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:07 PM
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Your post history says other things....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:02 PM
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To know him is to love him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:17 PM
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Great job! Onwards and upwards girly 🥰💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:16 PM
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Socially....
/r/seduction21/11/20 11:39 AM
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This is not normal. Your sex life boring?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:41 AM
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Make a police report. I doubt this was his first incident and I’m sure it won’t be the last.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:51 PM
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BEST POST EVER WRITTEN ON FDS! I am in awe. Please add this to the handbook mods!!! Incredibly valuable piece of writing. Thank you so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:28 PM
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Yes the advice to only text for logistics is honestly the worst advice I’ve ever heard in my life!! I actually told this to men on TRP a few years ago when the sub was still really active and no one believed me lmao. For me it is such a turn on if he can flirt and tease well over text. Texting can be a definite source of attraction of you’re good at it. That’s the point though Be Good at it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 12:09 PM
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Don’t have sex till he tells you he wants to be with you and asks for a relationship... if you assume you can change him you have already been played
/r/seduction06/11/20 10:43 AM
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Your lesson then, is never assume. Oh and if a guy wants to show you his place don’t pretend you’re naive and don’t know that it will likely lead to sex. Accept responsibility for your actions and assumptions. He just let you believe what you wanted to believe.
/r/seduction05/11/20 03:36 PM
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The amount of time doesn’t matter, what matters is how close you were. Had he said he was looking for a relationship? Did you ask if he just wanted casual sex? Did he give you any indication that you were only interested in more than a hook up? Did you have any deep conversations? Did you ask about exclusivity? Disbar even tell you he liked you beyond your physical looks??? These things can be assumed. If you didn’t then what happens is on you for not being careful enough
/r/seduction05/11/20 01:56 PM
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You can’t change him - should have made him wait for sex. Best thing to do now is either run or give it a shot and accept you’ll most likely get hurt
/r/seduction05/11/20 01:28 PM
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Yes of course I want that too. Usually if I say that outright people call me naive and idealistic so I stick to more concrete attributes like personality and initiative. A lot of people don’t even believe in the existence of spirit or a soul, so I say it in a way that most people can understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 12:19 PM
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Nah, I’m tall though (5’9) and one of them was 5’6.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 10:57 AM
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Nah my ex’s didn’t have nice bodies. Bodies were average. They were interesting people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 10:55 AM
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Im sorry you’ve had that experience, personality is important to me so I want it to be important for my partner. That’s all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 10:15 AM
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Yes if he complimented option based things it would be much better. Of course you only have looks at first, but in the latest instance we already knew a lot about each other and had been talking a lot. He had even said he loved my personality etc. only for him to then say that he thinks that my lips are actually much bigger and sexy than they look in photos. Idk maybe I’m overly sensitive but it made me feel like a show animal. I felt that he hadn’t really "seen" me. He just saw the wrapping pap…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 10:13 AM
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I think a certain class of women definitely sail through life on their looks alone. But that automatically excludes them from being viewed as more than their looks anyway because they don’t even see themselves as being more than their physical body. All the women that I admire in my personal life strive to become more human, to develop their abilities and to add something of substance to the world. I strive to be live them too, and it’s difficult for me when I‘m talking to a guy who I think like…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 09:48 AM
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It is mainly caused by women not needing to develop themselves? What do you mean why this? I didn’t say I want someone to love me like my mommy and daddy. I said I want the sort of relationship that my parents have with one another. I want a man who loves me like my father loves my mother. For who she is. You completely misinterpreted that. Their relationship is my role model.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 09:29 AM
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I want my beauty to be the bonus. He appreciates me for who I am as a human being, as a spiritual being and my physical beauty is a bonus. Of course sex is great. A partner should be more though. He’s my partner in life, my spiritual companion. Sex helps the bond, it is not the reason for the bond. My parents have this love, it exists. It’s very hard to find. Maybe it’s even crazy to wait for it but I want to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 09:11 AM
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If a man cares how big my lips are he obviously doesn’t recognise "me." Never will I prove my looks to a man, or try to show how 'hot’ I am. To me it is humiliating - completely beneath me. Of course it’s nice to have a healthy, attractive body but in the end it doesn’t actually matter because the body is not ours to keep - it belongs to the earth. It is soooo temporary. Probably you think this is dramatic idk For me it’s very real If you think all I am is my physical body you haven’t recognised…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 09:03 AM
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So if I love a man for who he is, his personality, his ambition and drive - that feels bad??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 08:04 AM
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That to be primarily liked for your beauty doesn’t feel good. In fact it makes me feel like a farm animal. It hurts even. I want to be recognised for who I am and the skin I’m in is not truly who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 06:42 AM
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I don’t even know who this Hassan guy is but the point is to get women you have to be a reasonable person. If that’s too hard than women are not your biggest problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:25 PM
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That’d only because men are thirsty as hell, not because fat women are attractive. Obesity is gross on anyone. If you want to have an attractive partner you’ve got to be attractive too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:14 PM
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Yes exactly! I love FDS thank you for the warning
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 08:51 PM
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She’s trash though, definition of LV. I mean her most famous song is literally about objectifying women as nothing more than our genitalia. It’s low....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:55 PM
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That’s great, congrats! I do want someone who is ambitious with a bright future too, I find it very attractive. :) Lack of ambition, lack of lofty goals and no drive to succeed is something that I am not be able to accept in a partner. Only because I try and always uphold these standards for myself too of course!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 03:48 PM
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Good for you! Definitely what I’m aiming for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 03:22 PM
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Sure, unfortunately you can only ever get a certain amount of money from working. Real money comes from making interest on money you already have - money makes money....that’s just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 02:31 PM
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Obesity is attractive to no one. A little bit of chub is forgivable. You will ALWAYS be more attractive fit than fat.
/r/seduction14/10/20 11:18 AM
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Attractive classy women don’t do this ever. Attractive trashy women do this if you’re Jason Mamoa. That’s your only chance
/r/seduction14/10/20 10:57 AM
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Of course it matters. It has always mattered. It’s one of the reasons I didn’t date the last guy I was in love with. There is no good future for your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 10:48 AM
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Any girl with social awareness has had this experience. Beware tho the men on this sub take any girl they can get so the concept of having two to choose from is completely foreign to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 12:20 AM
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It doesn’t make me turn me on per say but it does make him VERY attractive in a relationship sense - a giant among men. Who would say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:22 PM
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Empathy is never too extreme. I mean there is no such thing as Empathy extremist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:43 PM
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I don’t have a sob story I’ve been very blessed. Empathy is something we should all strive towards
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:14 PM
1

Well she was used and abused by men from the day she was born. A childhood filled with abuse by the men who should have protected her - that can’t ever lead to a good and happy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 03:57 PM
1

Because men use women to an extreme degree- it’s nice to see women getting back their own for once
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:47 PM
0

Between what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 11:39 AM
6

'Ex-virgin' HAHAHAHAHA this is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 09:49 AM
6

Yes of course it’s a human trait. Men just can’t admit it because it hurts their ego. They like to pretend they are more virtuous than women. It’s very entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 09:47 AM
23

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA the brain cells on this one!!! This girl is the one the other pickmeisha’s pray to for guidance 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:16 AM
5

FWB’s is what that is. Be honest and say that’s what you want, just lay it out.
/r/seduction12/10/20 07:01 PM
1

Ok well you are welcome to send me screenshots of your profile if you want constructive advice. My brother went from a couple of matches here and there to over 100 matches in about 3 weeks, after I edited his profile and wrote a bio etc.
/r/seduction12/10/20 05:22 PM
1

Try tinder but get a friend that’s a girl to take all your pictures (different outfits) and help you set up the profile.
/r/seduction12/10/20 10:25 AM
2

I wouldn’t say that extroverts are always more fun - sometimes yes but I know some very interesting introverts. It’s more about whether you are an interesting person or a boring person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 10:41 PM
1

We respect everyone as human. However they shouldn’t go into only women spaces as they are not really women. They were not born as women so they can’t just chose to be a woman. That’s not how it works. You can’t just choose to be Black or Asian either. You can’t chose the truth. Truth is absolute. Otherwise you end up with politics not science.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 08:47 PM
1

Let’s be honest for a second. The majority of modern liberal feminism is more about progressive trans rights / pedophilia as a 'mental illness’ instead of a crime then it is about women. Massive sections of society (including large parts of reddit) believe in that bullshit. So yes there exist vast swathes of indoctrinated humans who are further indoctrinating their children. That’s modern society for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 08:42 PM
1

Trans women are not biological women and no matter how often you say it - their DNA will always remain male. Sorry but that’s science.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 08:36 PM
1

Since when are you the authority of who constitutes a feminist? Yes I know they are pro-abortion - however they are genuinely on the side of women, not using women as a tool to push a political ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 08:21 PM
1

I’m referring to Radical/gender critical feminists. The men on this sub hate everything that has anything to do with women. Most don’t even manage to get sex anyway so it’s not like they can use women as slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 08:07 PM
1

There are much better strains of feminism including radical feminism. At least radical feminism is actually about what is best for women- unlike liberal feminism which is about manipulating women into being sex slaves for men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 07:49 PM
2

Because they have been indoctrinated with liberal ideology from media, social media, school etc for years on end. Liberal feminism is about socialism much more then it is about actual women. That’s why we see ridiculous stuff like the pussy hat marches.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 07:45 PM
1

Every human being is different. That’s great. Liberal feminism however is not about women - it’s about advancing a progressive liberal ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 07:43 PM
0

Abortion is murder. It is not the woman’s body. If it were the woman’s body being cut out she would die. The fact she doesn’t die proves that it’s not her body it’s someone else’s. How is casual sex enjoyable? A man is using you for sex but doesn’t view you as being worth committing to. I will never understand women who don’t find this offensive to their pride. As for porn it is the biggest contributor to human trafficking on the planet. Guess who the victims of human and sexual trafficking are?…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 07:37 PM
3

Because it promises us that It’s empowering to make porn. It’s empowering to have one night stands. It’s empowering to have your baby sliced out of your womb. It’s empowering to pay for men. It’s empowering to sell your body. That’s manipulation because it’s false. It’s getting women to contribute to the porn industry for example, which is the biggest contributor to human trafficking on the planet. Guess who the victims of human and sexual trafficking are? Women and children. When women make por…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 07:33 PM
3

It’s anti-women because it claims to empower women when it actually disenfranchises us. Liberal feminism promises us that It’s empowering to make porn. It’s empowering to have one night stands. It’s empowering to have your baby sliced out of your womb. It’s empowering to pay for men. It’s empowering to sell your body. All of that is a lie. A very toxic lie and it’s anti-women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 07:27 PM
2

The irony of liberal feminism is that it is anti-women. It’s manipulating women for objectives that do not benefit them in any way whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 07:19 PM
0

Exactly it is genuinely a good counter to the whole breakdown men seem to have about 'divorce rape...I mean even the word is disgusting - comparing divorce to rape. The two are not even in the same universe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 07:15 PM
2

I mean I understood what she was getting at - women do become very vulnerable when they have children with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 07:05 PM
8

Oh yes I liked the last one. Nice and refreshing to see a woman complain about men for once! So tired of hearing men going on and on about women being out to get them. PPD men seem terrified of gold diggers despite the fact they literally have no gold. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 06:59 PM
3

FDS is anti - liberal feminism. If we are honest liberal feminism is horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 06:50 PM
1

Oh I haven’t seen any.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 06:49 PM
1

What is a redfem?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 06:45 PM
3

And all men need to do is shower regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 06:43 AM
1

Luckily not all men are lost. We’ll look harder and longer. So be it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 06:41 AM
2

I wasn’t really using it or hardly at all till last week then I moved to a new city and country and since there is apparently a pandemic it’s hard to meet people in real life...so yea I’m learning a lot about people I guess!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 10:54 PM
5

Good for you man. Hope the 8 found someone on her level. That’s why dating our equals is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 10:52 PM
1

How are you this normal and on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 10:29 PM
6

He didn’t ‘love’ her per say, he was enamoured with her and wanted to chase her, charm her and get her to like him back... She took away that possibility by making herself completely available to him at any time, anywhere. There’s no fun in that and It’s also super unattractive. It’s extremely normal not to be into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:50 PM
2

Wow you such a refreshing voice on this subreddit. Keep it up! A normal healthy man is so so rare on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:46 PM
3

Yes you are exactly right. ALL women know this feeling. Many men are like this girl you are describing. We call those men ‘nice guys.’ You have experienced exactly the reason we don’t like ‘nice guys’ the feeling you have is like you are trapped or need to escape. These ‘nice guys’ are constantly there, texting, replying, calling, asking to hang out - it’s like a bad smell. You can’t get away from it. And it’s actually even worse as a girl because you genuinely fear being stalked, harassed, assa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:32 PM
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Thank you for posting this. It’s what I know instinctively and have been saying for years only to have men constantly tell me that I don’t know what I’m talking about. The part of the brain responsible for chasing is 2 times bigger in the male brain. You can’t fight biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:23 PM
1

I’ve risked my life to save a dog TWICE (separate occasions) so I think i would have no problem doing the same for my own CHILD!! Men are also the ones who were designed to protect being physically stronger. Modern men seem to have completely lost this instinct. Women do all the same jobs that men do...they are soldiers, they are fighters, they are police officers, they are criminals - every dangerous thing me do but now women do it too. My point is that in the past most men were brave, today mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:20 PM
3

Most men can’t get hot women, that’s what most posts on this sub seem to be complain about in any case. When they do get someone decent they hang on for dear life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:13 PM
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You doubt it? Well I’m a woman and I would die for children (my own or someone else’s)! Men as a group have become so weak that women are now the strong ones. That’s a modern reality. Modern men are cowards. Name one thing that is dangerous that is only done by men. I’ll be waiting ...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:10 PM
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Oh yes I agree. No one wants to feel like they are settling and her actions prove lack of personal pride. However most men of reddit would tell you this is exactly what they want. It’s very interesting because many men (the ones who struggle with women ) actually don’t actually know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:06 PM
1

Nope. Women would die for their own children without question. Most would die for any child in fact. Men? Not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:03 PM
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So you love her but still lost interested after sex? How long have you been in love with her and how long did she make you wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 08:38 PM
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When getting to know a man I try to be completely open and make no firm judgements. Enjoy the process. However I make sure not to invest in anyway until I have consistent evidence of their intentions by way of both words and actions. Also I have pretty clear ideals about my future so it’s quickly obvious whether someone is a serious option or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 06:10 PM
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No just no. This is such an off-putting concept I have no idea how you can entertain it. I’d rather be single and celibate for the rest of my life. Easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 05:03 PM
3

Caste because it’s a final state where as class has a more movable connotation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 04:59 PM
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Generally men will try and marry the hottest woman they’ve ever dated. That’s hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 04:08 PM
1

Casually I wouldn’t care, in terms of husband...ya he’s gotta have good genes. I care about my future kids after all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 04:04 PM
2

The role of men is to be protector they have failed that completely and utterly. Women never had the role of protection as men are physically stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 03:59 PM
2

99% of Modern men are not capable. They might value women but they are cowards especially in the face of death.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 03:39 PM
1

Cool. I want my man to be willing to protect me. That’s half the reason to even have a man in the first place. Otherwise what’s the point t of having a man? I’d die for anything I truly love so I don’t see why it is so parasitic to require the same from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 02:59 PM
2

There are many things I would die for...including but no limited to political ideals like freedom, I would also die for any child - no matter whether it was mine or not. I would also endanger my life to protect or save an animal - I have already done this btw! I would also die to protect my parents or my siblings. A husband is not gonna stand out as an anomaly on that list. I care about many things more than my life. I don’t care if the child or animal would die for me in return that’s really no…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 02:36 PM
2

Sure it’s idealistic. But idealism can lead to action, just look at every revolution in history. I‘m also the sort of person that would die for the political ideals I believe in. So yes if it’s not obvious yet, there are many things I value more than life itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 02:20 PM
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For me, I come from a very close knit family. I would die to protect my parents or my siblings no problem. They would do the same. I’m sure of it. The point is that you all hold a bond so strong that you are there for each other WHATEVER the cost. That’s an amazing thing to know and gives you a lot of strength to face the world because you have such a solid backing. It’s not to say I know exactly how any event would go down or who is responsible for what - that’s not really the point anyway. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 02:09 PM
2

What do you mean the general reality of the situation? These things are not planned. I literally just stated that I would die for husband and/or child without a second thought - for me it wouldn’t even be a question. I am actually shocked that there are men who consider women parasites for holding this view. Genuinely, I’m shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 02:05 PM
1

Of course! That’s not even a question I have to ask myself. I would do it in a second - there is no other option.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 01:58 PM
1

The point is that she would also die for you. As a man you should be brave. Instead of admitting modern men are complete cowards you are blaming women for wanting a man who can protect them. How interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 01:56 PM
2

No it’s not. Men are the protectors or they used to be. They‘ve lost their purpose to a large extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 01:53 PM
1

No I don’t want it to happen, but if it does I sure hope it’s not just an idea!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 01:52 PM
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Of course not, that why you want a brave man and not a coward. Men these days no longer have the concept of checking the door when they hear a noise? Too dangerous? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 01:48 PM
2

Every man that has died protecting his home and family, every man that has ever sacrificed for love. Kind Edward VIII of England even abdicated the throne to marry the woman of his dreams, Wallis Simpson, an American. There are lots of ride or die examples, even crazy ones like Bonny and Clyde. Edit: it can be something you want to know exists but don’t want to happen. For example you don’t want to die but you do want life insurance in case you DO die so your kids are looked after. The two are n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 01:47 PM
3

It’s not an idea, it’s a reality. Our history is littered with examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 01:33 PM
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You DON‘T want them to die! You love each other so much that your love is worth more than life. The point is they would die for you not that they will....how is that hard to understand???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 01:27 PM
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I said 'obviously this feeling is reciprocated.‘ Do you know what that means? In case you don’t - it means that I feel the same way about him i.e I also would also defend him at all costs. That’s the whole point!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 01:24 PM
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The point is a love so genuine that he would defend me at whatever cost. The point is not that I hope he dies how do you even make that mistake?? The point is you are the OPPOSITE of disposable to him, he values you more than his own life. Obviously this feeling is reciprocated. That’s deep love. Unfortunately most love these days is a form of self-love / seeking validation. We love the version of ourselves that we see reflected back at us from the other person... The much rarer sort of love is …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 01:09 PM
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Yes the idea that humans are instinct driven with no capability for individual and moral choices is very wide spread in the pill communities. It’s like people have never lived and seen the many who live outside of these so called norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 10:11 AM
3

Height is just another grievance factor that men love to blame women for so that don’t feel personally responsible for their inadequacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:37 AM
2

Exactly only to rich guys in power and those guys are not victims and they also aren’t your competition so stop comparing their situation with yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:36 AM
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No one goes to the effort of sleeping with a dude they despise to fake a relationship for what?! That they can leave him??? Lol Most people need some form of motivation for their actions...having sex with a guy who disgusts you is not the kind of motivation that gets most women going ...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:13 AM
1

I myself am 5’8 (or 178cm) so 5’9 is fine for me. However I live in Northern Europe so the majority of men here are 6’0 ++
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:06 AM
1

Thank you. If anything women are far too easy and accept far too little and that’s actually a problem because standards of dating go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 08:54 AM
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Above average can mean that you are more intelligent, it can mean you are really talented, or you work hard or you have a really interesting job or are the life of the party or a very good looking or are a very warm and genuine person that makes others feel good. Above average is not a hard line in the sand...it just means you are trying to make something of yourself. It means you hustle. It means you try to live actively instead of passively. That’s not out of reach for most people it’s just ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 08:21 AM
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Yes they can find a replacement. That’s how it should be. It’s like that in every other area of life and men have no problem with it. If your friends treat you badly then you find new friends, if your job is bad then you find a new job...no one is going to leave great friends who care about them and no one is going to leave a job that they love. The solution then? To be a great boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 08:18 AM
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Being above average is not hard....I have no idea why women’s standards seem so unattainable for the men of PPD. I honestly think they are often far too low...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 07:47 AM
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From your writing alone I can tell that you are very self-aware and intelligent. Thanks for this great post - saving for future reference!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:08 AM
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“But, but it’s so much easier for girls” Waaaah I want my mummy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:28 PM
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She did exactly the right thing. Men who cave to social pressure are weak, and HVM are anything but weak. Our girl reacted perfectly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:38 PM
3

Play stupid games win stupid prizes. If you’re busy don’t respond but trust me we can feel these games immediately. Don’t do it, she‘ll know. Be genuinely busy.
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:49 PM
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Oh I was thinking more of Troy...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 11:31 PM
2

I absolute agree with you. I’m very ambitious though and that translates into all areas of my life including love :) Only the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 11:30 PM
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How is it insane? Plenty of men have died for women. Whole wars have been fought over women. Poems, symphonies, art all in the name of women. Inspired by the love these men had for women. That’s not insane. That’s history. As for modern society - there are few of these sorts of people but they do exist. Highly evolved human beings. Ones that aren’t slaves to their most base drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 11:11 PM
1

You can grow a beard. Also very effective. But make it 5 o’clock shadow not Santa Claus
/r/seduction06/10/20 10:53 PM
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Why is that a good criteria by which to judge a man? Because I want him to value me as much as he values himself. Would I be willing to die? If I ever find him then yes. I’m not gonna be viewing him as a ‘sex partner,’ (because sex partners can be easily replaced). He’s a lot more then a sex partner, he’s a part of my soul. He’s a fellow being who consciously decided to accompany me on the journey of life, spiritually and physically. That’s not replaceable. It’s like trying to replace a limb. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 10:46 PM
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I partially agree. The pressure/competition though comes from the fact is that the majority (90%) of men are low value types. They want you as a trophy, as a toy and a servant. The competition among women lies in finding a truly high value man, a giant among men. They are few and far between. Someone who adores you, someone who would die for you and someone who values your being, not because of what you can do for him, but because he understands it. I’ll concede that for the majority this sort o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 10:24 PM
1

I spoke with a male friend the other day who is with a girl that is objectively 3 times hotter then him (he’s only managed to LTR her because she was young, didn’t know her value yet and accidentally got pregnant.) This has obviously gone to his head and he now believes he can get this level of girls if he was single (Lmao zero chance mate!) He also wants to do a lot of weird sexual stuff which as a young mother of two she doesn’t have the time or energy for. I honestly feel so sorry for her and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 09:51 PM
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Hi can you dm me the insta page of your business please I’d be super keen to see it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:38 PM
2

And I’m telling you that I disagree and I’m not the only one. I’ve yet to meet or see a man in their 50s who I consider remotely attractive. Uptick in attention when he’s 30? Hahahah keep believing this. The women are wanting a permanent mate they’re not into casual sex anymore. The men that struggled to get women in their 20s did so because of their personalities. Those personalities don’t change when they turn 30. Women get more desperate, the men are not more attractive. In fact they suffer w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 05:49 PM
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I don’t have the need to change men at all. My dreams are for me to dream and for me to achieve. It’s got nothing to do with men as a whole. Also I don’t go into meeting people planning to change them - ever! If I could change one thing though it would be to eliminate ALL male pedophiles across the planet. That would be the majority of all pedophiles because most pedos are men. Many of them are on reddit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 05:43 PM
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Lol. How on earth are the results bad? Please explain. My mum found an amazing person in my father. He‘s handsome and earns really well to boot. I don’t understand why people shouldn’t aim for the best of both worlds?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 05:21 PM
2

Ewww. Luckily not all men think like this. Also I’m single and free so guess you’re wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 08:48 AM
1

Yea I don’t watch porn. It is the primary contributor to human trafficking globally. Of course for many men their little dicky is more important then the lives of countless women and children being trafficked into modern day slavery. That’s on them and always will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 08:08 AM
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Believe what you like if it helps you feel better. As a young woman myself, old men are not attractive. Ever. Here‘s a Thread on it: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/j1ly1q/not_even_an_unpopular_opinion_just_one_that/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 08:05 AM
2

It’s very good. I’ve been very blessed and I very grateful for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 08:03 AM
2

Actions means that if they don’t propose after two years you leave. Proposing is the action. If he’s making promises but not following through you leave. It’s not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 08:02 AM
2

The guys who marry them which is a fair deal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:54 PM
1

Why are you planning on marrying a divorcee though?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:44 PM
6

The thing is that there are a lot of them. But the guys that want them could never get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:43 PM
4

For some it never comes up. Point is men in the real world are not using n count to look for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:40 PM
5

Men always talking like virgins don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:35 PM
10

Eww don’t be weird mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:34 PM
3

Exactly, reddit is obsessed with this topic however. You’d think it’s the main focus of most guys if you didn’t know the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:30 PM
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I‘m young, I don’t have a massive past. Obviously stuff like how you grew up and what your family is like comes up quite naturally when you get to know each other. However no partner has ever asked about my n count or ex boyfriends. Sometimes I’ll mention something if it‘s relevant to the topic but no, the guys I hang out with don’t interrogate me about the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:28 PM
0

Thank you. Amazing how anyone can misinterpret that badly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:22 PM
4

Young men should be dating young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:21 PM
0

The point is hypocrisy. In reality no one cares what some jealous beta male thinks. Here on reddit double standards thrive unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:53 PM
3

If it comes up naturally in conversation sure. Out of the blue? Not my style.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:37 PM
3

If they care I hope they would ask. Otherwise that’s their problem
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:29 PM
5

Actions > words always
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:22 PM
6

Everyone wants a nice partner. Apparently men are allowed to want young and pretty but women are absolutely demonised for wanting handsome and rich. Funny that. God forbid if some low class girl steps out of her place and marries well!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:18 PM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:14 PM
5

They don’t ask because they don’t care. I’m very transparent, always have been. Obviously you don’t want any secrets between you and your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:14 PM
8

Asking the real questions 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 08:41 PM
11

I agree that women look for a man with a good future. So far I’ve never had a man ask about my past so I don’t think that part is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 08:35 PM
4

I think people are becoming steadily more depraved. That’s obvious is everything from the rampant consumption of extremely violent/torture porn to the promotion of new types of sexual identities. I think pedophilia will be pushed as a mental illness instead of a crime and even now we are seeing massive efforts to decriminalise it. The nuclear family? Yea no one will remember what that was.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 08:26 PM
1

Never less then 3 1/2 months. 1) No it’s stayed the same. 2) Yes, very much. 3) One man I never slept with despite the fact I was in love with him, he loved me and we were dating. I hope I’ll see him again one day. 4) currently single and planning to stay like this for the next while.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:32 PM
6

Pieces - definition of HVM!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:20 AM
8

Respond with ‘Lol’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:04 AM
69

Pickmeisha queen bee. Poor thing has no hope of a normal relationship in her lifetime at this rate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 10:49 AM
1

Of course it’s fun but it’s not healthy and that’s the point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:36 AM
2

Well I’ll happily leave you to date the gamers. You have a sad asf hobby btw
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:15 AM
1

No it’s like me saying that everyone who eats fast food is a slave to their tastebuds at the expense of their health. This is actually true. Same with women. Oh and my username is a Game of Thrones reference nothing to do with that pathetic ideology. Don’t make assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:22 AM
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No they don’t shit test their porn...How did you get to that conclusion?? lmao. Men look at porn because they are slaves to their dick. A man that is a slave to his dick has no power when it comes to women. None.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 11:54 PM
1

Ok gamer. Point is I’d never date someone that plays games. Men here seem to have a problem with that lol. I wonder why
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 11:51 PM
2

Sure but that doesn’t make it anymore attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 11:51 PM
2

I have no idea about games because it’s a waste of time and unattractive asf. I also don’t know any gamers irl except one guy who is the son of family friends and spent his 20s playing all day and night and got massively overweight. He finally got help for his addition and has become a doctor. He’s never played since and is now fit and attractive (not as attractive as before being a gamer though). Gaming almost ruined his life. Also I find it to be a very childish and embarrassing hobby. I’d be …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:59 PM
2

That’s exactly my point - there are practically no strong men. I know a couple in real life (thank the lord) but to suggest that men can shit test while they are slaves to their drives is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:56 PM
2

Yes. All men that regularly watch porn are weak. Why? Because they are slaves to their drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:48 PM
2

There are so few that it’s irrelevant. It’s like finding a man who doesn’t watch porn. Almost impossible. And here you are suggesting I could fail a shit test. Lmfao. No honey, men are weak. Far too fucking weak
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:46 PM
2

All men are thirsty and weak. If it’s a woman they want, they are her slave. This is a fact - I know it, you know it. men are slaves to their drives. It’s the reason RP exists in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:43 PM
2

Yes only women have shit tests. Men are not capable of them they are too weak & easy to manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:39 PM
2

I do get to decide who I date mate and it’s not a gamer
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:37 PM
9

Omg I want to vomit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:26 AM
4

Lots of ways to de-stress like doing a physical activity or even just taking the dog for a walk, all of which are infinitely more attractive then sitting on the couch and staring at a screen. Oh and talking on the phone is real life - it’s a living breathing connection to another living breathing being. I don’t date gamers and never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 11:16 AM
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Cheers but the road I’m on will get me the result I want so it’s alg m8
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:47 AM
5

This is greatly distressing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:12 AM
4

Ask him to make ME lunch lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:55 AM
1

It’s a disgusting fetish and I feel so sorry for those women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:47 AM
8

Woman 25 - Depends if he’s doing something stressful like desperately trying to make a deadline and hasn’t even managed to eat breakfast. Then yes I would, of course. If he’s playing video games and sitting on his arse? Hell no. P.s.I don’t date men who play video games anyway but you get the idea
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:40 AM
4

Exactly... the results speak for themselves in any case
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:29 AM
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Idk what your point is. 20 years ago porn was only something that dirty old men watched. Now it’s hard to find a man who doesn’t watch it. To pretend that this has no effect on the sexual culture of the entire planet is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:27 AM
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It’s extremely common. There are entire subs on Reddit dedicated to it. And its all thanks to porn. Think for a moment about the prevalence of this fetish prior to porn...? Yep that’s right.... unheard of, almost non-existent. Now? Well your next door neighbor is probably a cuck. This is no surprise of course to anyone that analyzes porn in an objective way. I mean, at the end of the day, what is porn? Watching other people fuck girls you like - I.e. watching strange men cuck you. Consider the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:19 AM
65

Negative value definition lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:01 AM
60

Yes completely. He’s a druggie, he’s a full time 'stay at home' dad (I.e. unemployed) with a nanny and they have now delayed the wedding...I wonder why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:23 AM
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In times like this it pays to read the words of men wiser then yourself. Ghandi is a good start. We should be the change because we can be the change
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:07 AM
7

An impressive analysis. You’re right on I believe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:05 AM
8

Hahahahaha fucking lmao. This is very creative
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:04 AM
0

Just because the media does it for political reasons doesn’t mean that you also need to group human beings and deny their individuality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:58 AM
39

There’s stuff about it on social media but no one has published anything. New Zealand is a very small country and word here spreads FAST. Everyone one knows everyone in nz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:38 AM
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Rumor has it that her partner Clarke Gayford got the nanny pregnant last month...two Diplomatic Protection officers have confirmed it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 11:17 PM
12

Yes but you’re not an animal you’re a self aware human being. Therefore you can overcome biology. #mindblown
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:06 AM
1

Most western countries ban it? Lol. The US is not 'most of the west.‘ All three countries that I’ve lived in to date have been Western and had legalized sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 10:58 AM
1

Actually this argument is weak. Sex work is completely legal in 53 countries worldwide and limitedly legal in a further 12 countries including the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 12:07 AM
1

Of course nature matters. But we are human beings, the difference to animals is that we can consciously choose to overuse our instinct, forever and always if we want. That means while nature matters it is not the be all and end all. In fact, for a developed, disciplined person nature is a predictor of nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 12:02 AM
1

Bravo. Attractive level of intellect on display
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 12:30 AM
2

Yes this!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 12:48 AM
2

Whether a man cheats, depends 1000% on the temperament & character of the man. No other factors. None. It had nothing and never will have anything to do with the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 12:14 AM
9

Well each boyfriend (3) has been a significant step up from the last one...so it’s been a benefit if anything. However I still haven’t met someone I could imagine marrying. This is because I have high standards that most of the human population don’t reach. However I’m not going to lower it so I can be in a relationship. Single life has served me very well (and no I don’t sleep around, I mean it in the sense that I’m happy and feel most like myself when single.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:36 PM
2

Yes plan to get married. It means working together to make the world a better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:50 AM
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This would be supremely epic. That’s funny! Since you sound genuine I’ll bite. Politics, economics, philosophy and maths are all great hobbies and definitely HVM. Drinking as long as it’s not binge drinking and you Only drink socially and keep it classy - don’t lose your self- control or dignity. Honestly the only LVM hobby you have is gaming - I can elaborate on the ‘why’ if you want me too but there is already tons on FDS. If you can I’d try to replace it with some sort of sport/being outdoors…
/r/askFDS29/04/20 04:34 AM
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Hahahaha. Yea it’s never gonna happen
/r/askFDS29/04/20 04:15 AM
2

Bible! Every word is true!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 08:50 AM
1

I never expected it to be easy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 07:17 AM
11

I’m still too young for marriage. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:56 AM
12

I care about his opinion because he cares about my opinion. It’s called mutual love and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:56 AM
6

my mum has been a SAHM but her interests and businesses have always been wide ranging and interesting. Of course a father should teach how to vet for good men -by example!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:09 PM
4

Honestly all are about equal 1st place - if a single point is lacking I can’t date you. The only one I would compromise on is background- as this often doesn’t define people. Also genuine ambition can make up for lacking in wealth/status. Looks: don’t have to be a model but I must find you attractive. Personality/vibe is probably most important of all!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:06 PM
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Because they know they failed to teach you and prepare you to vet for the kind of men that is ok to be a SAHM/W with. Hahahaha that is some bullshit. It’s because they love their daughters beyond the fact she is a female. (Hard for you to imagine I’m sure) They want what’s best for her on a human level. Being a SAHM is fulfilling no women’s spiritual, professional or social potential. If she has a choice this is not the best option and good men know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:00 PM
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Excellent point. My father is the same - an amazing man who always supports me to reach my full potential as a human being irrespective of my sex. He wants me to work hard for myself and my development, have a fulfilling career, travel the world, have a beautiful life. He’s disapproved of my past bfs who were not real go-getters. He wants a man for me that he himself can respect. This is true love from father for daughter. I would never accept anything less from a boyfriend either. I’ll only mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:53 PM
1

I never cared what men thought about post wall cc riders. Nothing to do with me. Men can date who they want and marry who they want. Just don’t complain when it doesn’t work out - it was your free choice to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:46 PM
1

I don’t care about how men feel re women and the CC. The difference between men and women here is that men will date these CC women anyway and women will turn male loosers down. So many men (far too many) are weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:21 PM
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Assuming you're his age) Would you date Bob? Lord no! Never in a million years - would rather die a cat lady. Would you be flattered that he eventually chose to be with you? Seriously? How is this a question? You think women have no sense of self-worth or something? Honestly... it’s much more likely I’d be offended that Bob thought he even had a chance with me. I mean the audacity is unbelievable! Or would you feel disgusted by his past even though he has matured (his claim)? Yes grossed out. Cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:13 PM
1

What do you mean ‘have the green light?’
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:11 AM
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It’s hilarious to see that you can’t admit you judged her completely wrong. You thought she had a high n and instead of apologizing you jumped around the topic: Let's drop the discussion about your n-count since it's unproductive. It’s funny cause that sort of argument style makes you the definition of a weak man. I guess she’s onto something!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:16 AM
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I would and do always ignore random men that try to talk or get my attention in public. Never have I experienced a guy that doesn’t try to hit on me, ask me out or creep me out with a weird vibe. Men don’t stop you to ask directions - that’s just the excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:58 PM
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Such a beta mindset. I want someone who believes in themselves and is cocky enough to believe that’d beat the competition. If this is the true reason men want low n then I’ve lost all respect for the position.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:43 AM
4

Well that’s completely true and very logical to boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 12:05 AM
4

Yes he’s a loser and you know it. Be ruthless it’s good for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:04 AM
6

How are you feeling torn? He sounds like he’s missing a few marbles. That’s not normal. Don’t walk, run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:43 AM
5

Clearly you’ve made a name for yourself 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:39 AM
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Well I have massive issues with both TRP and the doormats at RPW so I’d probably strongly agree if he’s criticizing either of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:39 AM
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Creepy. Twisted way of thinking. Why do you care more about your penis then the woman you love? That is all In a healthy relationship both Sex and romance are given freely out of emotion for the other. None of this yucky shit about pain and degradation. Eww. Oh and degrading yourself for someone else’s pleasure is the most fucked up thing there is. Degradation is not the destruction of pride (Pride is a sin actually), degradation is the destruction of human dignity. A right and a major component…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:43 AM
8

Your comments literally refresh my soul
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:34 AM
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Spitting facts. Also the ego that they could even attract a genuine gold digger is astounding. Like If she’s a gold digger she’ll go after much much bigger fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:32 AM
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That‘s what all these tradcon men fantasize about. They want the 50s American dream. Why else to they tell women we won’t find anyone at 30? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:12 AM
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You want a young girl to dedicate her life to servicing you and bearing your children. No thanks. Women before me have given their lives so I am not forced to do this. Instead I can explore, live an adventurous life, take risks and fail. I want to live my potential and that involves studying, learning, growing and NOT spending my fucking 20s doing laundry, dishes and nappies. Never in a million years honey! Staying in a small town, marrying some high school bf who’s doing a trade, having 3 kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:56 AM
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If we had children I’d stay together but I’d never have sex with him again. He failed the conditions so he’s out of the running. the children would be our equal responsibility and that’s what I’d put first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 09:09 PM
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Its also always the same men who’s main 'hobby' is video games lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:53 AM
7

This is pretty obvious but I’ll explain. It preserves the ego for men to imagine that a woman is having sex with someone else because otherwise he has to face the fact that she’s rather go without sex then sleep with him. Nothing is better then him. That’s more painful to accept then the idea she found someone she likes more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 11:21 PM
2

Well you see I’ve done this before and every time a salty man comments on why fds is actually very very bad, 🙄 I try and ward them off a bit ahead of time nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 07:29 AM
1

That’s literally what OP asked for...opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 07:17 AM
2

Actually many including myself are still pretty young and haven’t dated much yet. I want to ensure I make no mistakes in my choice of men and always put my own interests first. It’s smart and that scares lots of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:30 AM
2

Female Dating Strategy is the name of the sub. It is great for women during the dating process because it is very ruthless about proper vetting. Even if you are married it is useful for ensuring you are still getting a great deal!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 05:59 AM
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It grew quickly because it filled a vacuum. Women have been dealing with worse quality men with every passing year. TRP, PUA, MRA, MGTOW, incel and seduction subs etc. cater to the male imperative only, speak horrifically about women and teach manipulation techniques to very angry and therefore dangerous men. Redpillwomen was about as pathetic a response to the manosphere as is humanly possible! RPW actually has 40k plus followers - god knows why 🤮 Finally, the gods answered and along came FDS. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 05:39 AM
2

You should develop your own opinion and frame. Who the fuck cares what some horny old men are telling a young woman? Stop listening to them, decide what you want and start observing the real world around you. Trust no man and never be naive. Aim to win, back yourself always and life will be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:23 PM
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Of course there are unicorns, my father is amazing as are all the men in my family but I’m not naive to the way men behave towards women who they do not love. It’s fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 08:51 PM
2

It’s emotional as much as it is physical. Men don’t have my best interests in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 08:41 PM
12

Women want to believe we can trust men. Nope, not one bit. The only men I trust, are my own blood. Any man that is romantically and/or sexually interested in me, I trust about as far as I can throw him, which means not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:31 PM
10

It’s facts honey
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:16 PM
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Cause men chase and women choose. A chooser doesn’t buy gifts for her chaser.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 01:19 PM
1

I‘d encourage you to check out the 'male depravity‘ flair on FDS. It may open your eyes to what women are dealing with and why it’s necessary to employ the strategies we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:48 PM
1

Please tell me where I say that. I’m looking for the opposite - I literally run when I see low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:24 PM
1

Eww
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 10:40 PM
1

If you want a woman with low self esteem who puts up with the bare minimum and accepts LV men, yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 09:00 PM
3

maybe one woman in a million
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 07:27 PM
1

I’ve seen a lot of the endorsed contributors say it too and it always makes me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 07:25 PM
1

Well exactly, I’m doing both of us a favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 07:24 PM
1

If a man only texts me for logistics I cut him loose. It’s the worst advice given on TRP. Being able to tease and flirt via text is a real asset for men that are good at it. I only date men who text or call me every day. Anything less and it’s boy bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 06:45 PM
1

So for relationships you agree with my , that your attraction is holistic. Hook up culture is a pretty new phenomenon and something I have no interest in. I’m different to you in that I don’t do casual hookups - never have, never will. Also I’m attractive to the point that I can get any man I want to commit to me and there is not a lot of punching to be done on my end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 08:26 AM
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It’s not more virtuous then men. It’s just different. Men move from the outside in and women move from the inside out in terms of developing feelings. It’s complimentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 08:21 AM
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This is also true. I read every bio and have swiped right on men who I wouldn’t usually go for purely because their bio was good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 08:17 AM
2

100%. Most women who read my comment would absolutely identify with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 08:11 AM
1

How is that even a virtue?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 11:26 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 10:41 PM
1

The fact you’re spending your time coping and pasting memes is kinda pathetic ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 10:12 PM
1

Hmm while I agree that my looks are my biggest asset, they are not who I am. I don’t want a man if he’s in it for my youth and beauty. He can find that same thing with a million other girls all over the planet. There is nothing unique about youth. As to beauty, it exists in plenty of forms. I‘ll be with him only if he loves me for who I am, my 'being‘ and that’s the same when I’m 27 as it is now, or hopefully somewhat more developed! As to getting back together with my ex, he did things directly…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 10:08 PM
1

Well you’ve got a point. 4 men have fallen in love with me. I‘ve been in love 3 times but only slept with 2. I‘m training to be a concert violinist and that means 8-10 hours practicing per day. With the 2nd boy I broke it off because I moved to Europe to further my career (he stayed in Australia). The 3rd boy I met over here in the middle of last year. I’m still love with him and i broke my own heart by ending it. It’s been very hard because each time I have sacrificed the relationship for my mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 09:11 PM
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It’s best to do these things non verbally. Escalate with flirting but don’t outright tell her you like her. Then something many develop. Or you know, she doesn’t find you attractive personality wise or physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:01 PM
1

Nope. Not at the stage of life where I want marriage yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:59 PM
6

Yes exactly! I can appreciate a good looking man but it’s like looking at a piece of art. There is no desire to have sex with it. That’s built through the human connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:47 PM
1

Well on tinder the only thing you have to go off is someone's looks - it’s impossible to get a feeling for someone’s vibe through a photo. Of course you then are forced to choose purely on attractiveness. For a guy who’s very average in looks but has charisma and charm, real life is a far better bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:38 PM
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I’ll take that as a compliment:)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 05:54 PM
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You can and lots of relationships begin this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 05:53 PM
3

It applies to the large majority. Of course if a woman gets fucked up by porn or abuse then her sexuality is no longer in its natural state.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 05:13 PM
5

Yes and this is exactly why rape is so horrific. It’s a violation that affects a woman’s entire being.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 05:12 PM
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Physical preferences must meet a minimum, after this who someone is as a human, is the thing that attracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 05:08 PM
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Firstly if he’s that ugly he‘s not even in consideration as a potential sexual partner. To be in the race at all, a minimum level of attractiveness is required. If I’m embarrassed to introduce him to my friends and family because of his appearance no amount of personality will help him. He gets disqualified before he can even show me who he is. If he’s really ugly (say 1-4 in looks) he was never in the race. You can only lose if you’re in the running in the first place. Therefore the scenario yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 04:55 PM
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Exactly right. The male physical body on its own is not attractive to most women. The sex act for women (unlike for men) is a very holistic experience, in the sense that it involves the whole body. The same goes for the way we are attracted to men. It’s a process whereby I fall for his 'being‘ i.e. who he is as a human. I’m not attracted to flesh itself. Men on the other hand could see disembodied breasts or an ass and be physically attracted to the meat itself. This is a completely foreign conc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 03:31 PM
2

Because I don’t want to have sex till I’m in love with a man apparently means I’m a prude. Also the fact that I don’t care about n-count and would never disclose mine to a partner (it’s none of his business) makes me a slut and whore. Altogether I suppose that makes me a prudish slut? 🤔 Throwing these words round as a way to insult women regardless of the facts is trashy. In comparison you’ll see FDS use the label of Low Value constructively and only in relation to specific examples of such beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 02:23 PM
2

Thats not the question though. the question was what do men vet on, my point is men don’t vet. That’s why it’s hard to believe the RP guys when they tell me that no man wants a woman that’s been around. They wish that were the case but that doesn’t make it true. They just sound jealous. Most men are thirsty and so therefore weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 02:16 PM
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But not the same man in the same sentence, is my point, which is what tons of the guys around here do with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 01:13 PM
5

Literally so many many men that I love and admire. Funny thing is I’m often accused of being a man-hater for following FDS. Lol. It’s not about whether someone’s a man or woman - I admire specific human beings regardless of their sex. Would still love to marry someone like Edward Snowden or Chen Quishi (human rights lawyer in Wuhan), their bravery is beautiful and rare. Also Rumi (poet), all the greatest classical musicians and composers, thinkers such as Christopher Hitchens, Rudolf Steiner and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 01:00 PM
2

Wow I’m genuinely impressed! A man on PPD who actually knows what he’s talking about and isn’t coming from a place of insecurity and misogyny. Mind blown.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 12:50 PM
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FDS is about ensuring you’re not treated like crap by men. Give me an example of the hate because I’ve yet to see any. Spoiler: You won’t be able to find any cause it doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 12:09 PM
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Give me an example then because you’re making a false claim. I call some men LV and others HV but not the same man in the same sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 12:07 PM
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Exactly! And just my opinion but falling in love in the space of 3 dates is next to impossible. Sure it’s happened, but the chances are probably one in a generation. 3 months is much more pragmatic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 10:25 AM
3

If you’re not creative enough to think of anything besides restaurant dates then you’re not high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 10:23 AM
3

Exactly. Finally a man who gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 10:23 AM
2

That literally makes zero sense bro. What am I doing that’s the same as calling a woman a whore and a prude in the same sentence??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 10:20 AM
2

I don’t hate men. I refuse to be treated as disposable that’s all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 10:17 AM
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Please let’s pin this! I want to see the lurkers crying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:26 AM
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Men should vet for N count but they don‘t. It’s one thing to not like it in theory and another to have to act on it in real life. I could lie and tell a man I’ve slept with 100+ guys and he’d stay with me. Guaranteed. Men don’t vet, they take what they can get and if you’re the best they’ve ever gotten they’ll put up with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 09:10 AM
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Nope. I don’t find people attractive unless I know them. This is healthy for a normal human being. For some reason it’s now defined as 'demisexual.‘ fact is I’ve never seen a man and wanted to sleep with him immediately just because of his looks. I’m not attracted to flesh itself. It’s the whole package that interests me. I love being like this too. It’s much more satisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 08:20 AM
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Men that don’t like the buildup are the ones that prefer to 'fuck' meaning they view sex as degrading and can’t get hard without sadism. This strategy is excellent for finding the men who enjoy making love instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 08:10 AM
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Exactly. How would you define the difference? This is the reason why women should not sleep with men who use the term 'fuck‘ to describe sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 08:07 AM
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truth can hurt I understand
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 08:06 AM
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Strawman. Marry a virgin all you want I have no issue with that. However I would bet my bottom dollar you view sex as degrading and that is what makes you a bad choice as a father, not the virgin preference. If your preference for virgins was either religious or because you view sex as a sacred act then you are high value. Let’s be honest though it’s because you believe any sex a woman has, even when she’s making love to her husband, is somehow degrading and that’s your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 08:02 AM
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Well I’ve noticed zero difference in the type of men that use or hinge vs. tinder. Many times I actually see the same guys on all the apps lol. In my experience men see them all as hook up apps with a different name. My only option is to meet men in real life then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:57 AM
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Many men view sex as inherently degrading. You can see this very easily by checking porn trends. Most of the NSFW subs on Reddit are also focused on degrading women. It’s caused by men viewing women as objects because objects can be used up. It’s something you have to vet very carefully for when dating. They’ll often compare women to cars. They do it on this sub too - second hand vs. new cars. Lol. This sort of thinking always goes hand in hand with a Madonna/Whore complex too. These sorts of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 12:05 AM
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I really enjoy it. By the time we have sex I’ve usually fallen in love with him so it’s an amazing first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 11:40 PM
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The boys who fall in love with me and there’s been a few of em, have no problem waiting If you wanna make love, you’ve gotta have the love before the sex. It’s impossible to fall in love with someone by a 3rd date so I wait 30 instead. Oh and your labels are meaningless. You label women as whores and prudes in the same breath. Trashy honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 11:39 PM
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Because: 1) I Don’t do ONS. 2) Don’t want a needy, nerdy boyfriend. I want a confident, ambitious hottie. Best to find these guys in real life because if they meet you via tinder they label you as a ‘thot’ and despite who you are you’ll never be in the relationship material in their mind. Men are very black and white in their thinking. We have to work around that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:41 PM
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The date sounds great and i think you are fine to go. He was being presumptuous but it was probably because it’s something thats already been on his mind for a while. The fact you’re only looking for short-term means i’d give that comment a pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 10:35 PM
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FDS gal here, It’s around 30-35 times hanging out. It’s not always a traditional date. sometimes we went hiking, sometimes played music together, went sight seeing, cooked meals and also on dinner dates of course. Also from the first few weeks being pretty platonic it gradually escalated physically during that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 08:07 PM
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I’ve always thought this! Demisexual is the normal state of a healthy human being, somehow thanks to porn it’s now become a specific LGBT orientation... Humanity has become so depraved. 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:48 PM
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Unable to cum and going soft while inside are the definitive symptoms of Porn addiction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 04:24 PM
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Exactly. OP there is literally nothing in it for you in staying with this man. You take all of the risk, al lot it...how is that fair?? Honestly there are tons of lovely men out there who want to get married. If I were you I’d say to him that marrying is a dealbreaker for you because you want children. If he’s not prepared to change his mind then you walk away and never look back. Put yourself first, the greatest gift you can give your future children is their father! Make sure he’a someone that…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 02:35 PM
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Nope you’re not. He could leave at any time and you don’t even have any legal protection. Personally it’s inconceivable for me to have children outside of marriage. I mean you’re doing the opposite of traditional if you have children out of wedlock. You could do easily become a single mother and then what?
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 02:01 PM
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Well it’s either video games or porn. The fact he still wants sex points to video games
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/20 02:19 PM
1

Bro there's zero thing manipulative about this. That's literally flirting and explicitly showing you what they want. Negging is the definition of manipulation. Insulting someone in the hopes that they will attempt to then earn your validation is psychological manipulation. It’s sick. The reason PUA’s also always push for physical contact is because it breaks down a woman’s barriers - again when these things are done inorganically with a specific goal, it’s manipulation. I’m very comfortable soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:20 AM
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Personally I have no problem with it and even think they are savvy if they don’t show their faces. Much smarter then doing porn because they are still getting well paid. They can stay anonymous if they prefer and best of all they don’t have to interact with the animals that are male porn actors! Is it bad for society? Yes because we are living in the age of porn and they are adding to it. Do I like knowing that selling pics is always an option? Sure. It’s a safety blanket to protect me from ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:45 PM
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Ok I’ll bite. It’s nice to trumpet my own horn sometimes. I’m educated and currently doing my masters in Europe. I’m cultured, know my history and philosophy, am an expert in classical music (play violin and piano), have travelled the world (24 countries and 4 continents so far) and am very skilled in several sports especially Equestrian (showjumping). My family is incredible and anyone would be lucky to know them. I’m loyal and have never cheated. I’m great with people, animals and kids. I’m be…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:12 PM
2

An endless list honestly and he knows it too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:58 PM
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In a thread yesterday I explained why I love FDS. What can I say, we defend the things we love! Oh and no one has an easy life because life is not easy. From around 18 (I’m now 25) I began getting approached on a nearly daily basis by men on the street. They all followed a predictable and standard pattern, always trying to use the same manipulation tactics. They would approach me, compliment and/or neg, ask for my number and then push some kind of physical contact by attempting to hug or a kiss …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:53 PM
1

Solid 8-8.5 with potential to be a 9 if I were to put in consistent effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 04:53 PM
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Luckily we don’t wanna be with a man who views us a car either. Oh and if you want a virgin they exist, you do have to be a valuable match though cause why else should she choose you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 02:39 PM
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Women are not a monochrome. We are individuals....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 02:38 PM
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He’s a monster because he forced it on her, not because of the abortion itself - although that’s also horrible.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 02:31 PM
2

FDS existed long before Reddit. Its the same thing as The Rules, a book that’s been out for around 60 years. Women have always known that if you want to keep a man you lock him down before sex. Trust me, it’s what our mama’s taught us. Men like to compete, they like a challenge, I’ve yet to meet a man who doesn’t like the hunt. Give him what he wants easily and he won’t value it. It’s human nature. Maybe he’s got some plates but I don’t care about them because I’m not competing with them. I’m no…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 02:28 PM
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You are conflating two things. Yes women want chad of course we do! He’s hot and healthy and wealthy. Men want Stacy too! However this is what you get wrong. Women don’t chase, we never have. The only ones 'chasing Chad’ are ugly chicks who needs the validation. Chasing is against the natural instinct of women how many times do I need to say it. We give you openings and opportunities but I’ve never chased a man in my life and I never will. FDS is all about not putting out without investment and …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 02:16 PM
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Of course for normal people this is true. This man did not even care that it was his own child though, he clearly has no empathy so I doubt seeing sliced up baby parts would have changed his view. Monsters don’t have normal reactions.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 02:09 PM
2

Exactly! This is what FDS is. You got it 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 02:03 PM
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FDS is not new, it’s traditional girl game that has helped women for generations. He commits before we put out. It’s what your grandmother did because it works. Don’t hate the player, hate the game honey
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 02:01 PM
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Even if he thinks it’s just BC, he did not give a shit about his wife’s needs, feelings, hopes or dreams. He traumatized her for life and refuses to even acknowledge it. He’s a piece of shit and an abuser.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 01:56 PM
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Yes exactly it’s a gift and should be honored as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:33 AM
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You are confusing Chad’s different life phases. FDS women have no interest in being a plate. We are the women that these men marry. High value and aware of it. Chad’s actions towards women is very different when he is building his life compared to when he wants to settle down. We are only interested in the latter. When he’s courting his wife he has time, he chases her, he flirts with her, takes her to concerts and dates. He falls for her. We at FDS are playing the long game. We are not attemptin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:16 AM
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Except you refuse to believe the actions of FDS because it’s not consistent with what you want to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:08 AM
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I just described AlphaBucks actually (money and looks), whereas Chad is AlphaFucks - only sex appeal. And nope, Chad is a confidant man and therefore loves the chase. Only insecure losers need women to do the chasing! Women want to be desired, it’s our biggest turn on. A man that we need to chase does not desire us. I’m attracted to a guy who can go for what he wants which is a man that doesn’t need the girl to do his work for him! FDS gets me there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:04 AM
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Who said you can’t have both money and looks in a man? You’re just salty cause you’ll never be either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:56 AM
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You’re not a woman, you don’t know what we want. Literally you just regurgitated RP theories word for word without an original thought of your own. Anyway I’ll explain for you. For women the truly ideal man is an AlphaBucks! A combination of the best traits of both AF and BB. FDS theories get us one. No woman ever wanted to marry an Alphafucks because it’s hell. Women fuck him, he’s not and never will be marriage material. FDS is incredible at weeding the dirt from the gems. It also gets us a fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:29 AM
1

You sound like a happy person
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:24 AM
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Yes abusive is correct. Also cruel, selfish, cold and hateful.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 01:42 AM
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This truly breaks my heart, you poor thing. It honestly sounds traumatic beyond words. A tragedy I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy. Horrific you weren’t allowed to keep your little baby and that he has no concept of what he has done. It makes me so angry that he has selfishly inflicted so much suffering. As your husband he vowed to love and protect you, instead he has destroyed you. I don’t even know this man but I hate him for what he did to you and your child. So so sorry and wishing you lots …
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 01:11 AM
2

Well I’m skinny....my first comment was not a personal response, it was a reaction to what I perceive as male hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 12:26 AM
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What a lovely wholesome post! Bravo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 12:18 AM
3

Sounds like a lot of work honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:13 PM
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Don’t blame your inadequacies as a man on nature. Accept that you’re lacking in some important areas, which whilst unfortunate for those that encounter you, is not normal or healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:57 PM
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What a cringe reply dude
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:55 PM
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The only women who 'go out for cock' are unattractive ones who need the validation. An attractive, classy and high value woman who knows her worth will always make a man prove himself first. It shows alarmingly low self-esteem to give yourself to a stranger in the most intimate possible way just because they are good-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:51 PM
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Exactly. You seem kinda off yourself btw
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:35 PM
1

It’s Reddit, why should I filter what I say
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:21 PM
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Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:06 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:55 PM
1

Was it a lie though?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:50 PM
1

And not every woman is pretty, giving the advice "be pretty" is like telling every guy "be high value". There is always room at the top, just nowhere to sit. It’s very possible for most women to become pretty. Good hair, skin, teeth and being slim takes you 90% of the way there. This is achievable for anyone who puts in the work. Beyond that if you are very unfortunate surgery can do wonders. Same for men to become high value, excluding a few outliers, it’s completely possible for most if they p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:45 PM
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You have major issues. Need therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:01 PM
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Nope a lot of incels are genuinely way way below average in looks and also have very creepy vibes. I’ve yet to meet a woman with a creepy vibe. Women are also rarely truly ugly. On average the female sex is significantly more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:58 PM
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Fat people know this because their brains and eyes work. Clearly it’s not helping them however.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:55 PM
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Exactly! You’re a least at getting good money which proves you value both your time and vagina. This girl has serious problems however that Reddit will never be able to solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:54 PM
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I’m not American I’m european thank god
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:36 PM
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Because he only sees you as a hole. You’re not good enough for him to date. You’re only good enough to be used a a temporary hole for his dick. When does your self-respect kick in? You could be any other woman in the world and it would make no difference. He doesn’t care about you, he doesn’t like you, he just wants to use your vagina for a night. He doesn’t even want to use you, he wants to use your vagina. That’s all. He probably won’t even need to buy you dinner to nut inside it - a free pros…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:13 PM
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Well have fun getting used for your vagina and not even getting money for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:01 PM
2

Except career achievement increase your value as a person while eating a burger just makes you fat. Patronize me all you want, it pays to put yourself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:30 PM
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Have some fucking self respect woman! You’re bringing shame on our sex. Don’t sleep with him immediately. What are you, a prostitute??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:19 PM
1

Well if like yourself, men have no character, then yes you are only useful for your wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:11 PM
5

Well all the best with your cum brain. Sucks to be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:04 PM
1

Honestly never seen anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:39 AM
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Let’s be honest though, men are the only ones who ever complaint about obesity because they think women exist solely for their penis. We literally never hear a woman complain about fat men. You know why? Because women realise that humans have value beyond whether she personally finds them attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:36 AM
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Let’s be honest women don’t make anywhere near the same level of drama about fat men. On the other hand men love to rant about fat women. Hypocrisy angers me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:22 AM
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Well the answer is pretty obvious. Because they are lazy and/or depressed. Some people’s lives suck and they don’t have the will power to get out of it for whatever reason. Shaming has a very limited impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:13 AM
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Why make this sort of post? It irritates me to no end that men feel personally offended when a woman does not appear sexually attractive to them. It’s not her duty to make your dick hard ffs The audacity and the ego is astonishing and horrifying. Disclaimer: I am skinny but despise hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:04 AM
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The opinion of incels like yourself is about as relevant as your dick i.e. not relevant at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:54 AM
2

Exactly. So my point is that women are much more reasonable about attraction then men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:11 AM
1

Actually every professional milestone and achievement is your career telling you it loves you. Very fulfilling actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:56 AM
1

Classy way to concede the point. Don’t expect anything less from an RP man. 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:36 AM
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Tactics that work. The only self improvement that TRP spouts is to go to the gym. Wow, mind blown Women realise looks matter - it’s the way we get ahead in the world....I don’t need yet again to be told what every media form has drummed into my head since I was a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:23 AM
1

Oh so what exactly is a femcel then if she’s not hideous? Genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:23 AM
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you can't negotiate attraction. If TRP men actually believed this then they would be a lot less misogynistic...but the proof is in the pudding.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:21 AM
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Women are socialized from birth to be beautiful. You would be struggling to find a woman who doesn’t know this. Some may reject it but to think that women could be as oblivious as men on this topic is incomprehensible
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:17 AM
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You are arguing that no one is having sex then? Because as long as someone somewhere is having sex the woman carries the risk. Of course FDS benefits me and I personally enjoying defending it but that’s not the point of this debate. Men complain endlessly about the existence of FDS because they know it works on them. The real reason you don’t even try to defend TRP is because TRP is indefensible. It’s bad people behaving badly, what a shock.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:15 AM
1

Surpassed women in what? Women are more educated then men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:55 AM
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Men don’t have to know about the 3 month rule either. It’s very easy to work it in with him being none the wiser. I’ve done it very effectively myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:53 AM
1

Wow men are finally human. They. Is expect a reward for being decent instead of depraved. Lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:51 AM
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TRP actively advocates plating all women. Quality women don’t accept this and never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:45 AM
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Women have power because men are weak when it comes to sex. it’s the reason men have tried to squash and control women for thousands of years. Everything can be traced back to men trying to control women because they are trying to control sex and access to sex. Mostly they don’t see women beyond our vaginas. We‘ve accepted it though and so we play men using their weakness for sex. It makes me really despise men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:43 AM
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I can say the same of TRP. They’ll get women, they just won’t get women they’d want to marry. See it works both ways :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:36 AM
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Idk where you got all that from...literally everything you wrote is the opposite of what I said and what FDS aims for. It doesnt sound right because it sounds regressive and has 'wifebeating and being walked all over' connotations. It sounds bad because it is. It is regressive, sexist and oppressive. This is why I hate RPW. I’ve alresdy explained that. Oh and please explain how I strayed from FDS principles?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:34 AM
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They techniques do get men because dick is so fucking abundant. Men will jump through hoops and we love to see them try.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:09 AM
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Also I think this is why many men get turned on by degrading women. They are afraid of the weakness of their own sexuality and destroying women gives them back some a feeling of control. Fucking sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:00 AM
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If they meet and genuinely fall for each other both people will make compromises as is needed. Obviously relationships involve compromise, adulthood involves compromise. The point is more that it’s not one person taking and the other one giving (like RPW or TRP), it’s a two way street, both take and both give. This is why it’s healthy and healthy is always achievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:51 PM
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The main FDS aim: To be a passionate, career-oriented, independent women with strong life goals, that is monogamous with a similarly passionate, career-oriented, independent man with strong life goals. Essentially the ideal is a power couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:36 PM
1

Wow even PPD is scared then! FDS is growing so fast though, I don’t blame them 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:33 PM
1

It’s a game too though, if you always play nice it’s boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:32 PM
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Amazing and sad how much you can control men using their sex drive. So much power. I love being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:24 PM
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That‘s always the first and most predictable Of the butthurt RP responses. Thanks for proving my point! 👏 Yea there are 50,000 women on that sub and yes all of them are hideous. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:21 PM
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They are very very different. RPW treat dating as though men are doing us a massive favour by doing anything more then a pump and dump. It’s exceedingly degrading, which is why the TRP boys get such a kick out of it. They also advocate for settling, giving up their careers for men and having a shit ton of children before 30... FDS on the other hand, gives women the tools not to be used by men. Men add value to our life but they are not the meaning of it. For RPW, men are the meaning of their exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:18 PM
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Thats what PPD is for. No one has managed to disprove it because it’s true. You are welcome to make a post though and give it a shot!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:09 PM
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Literally don’t know what you are talking about and I visit the sub daily. If you can think of an example I’d love to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:56 PM
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For people who apparently are not threatened TRP sure is fucking obsessed with FDS. Exhibit A: r/FDSSuperFans The reason I love FDS is precisely because TRP hates it. I never trusted RPW because TRP men get such an erection from seeing those pick-me RPW‘s prostrate themselves at the feet of the male mods on that sub. It makes me want to throw up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:53 PM
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You don’t game him. FDS (unlike Trp) does not give any game advice whatsoever. All it says is to set a standard of behaviour for how you want to be treated. If he starts treating you like shit, you walk. Why is this notion so offensive to men?? Perhaps they are sad they can’t get away with their lazy excuses anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:43 PM
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When I was around 18 (I’m now 25) I started getting approached on pretty much daily basis by men on the street. They all followed a pretty predictable and standard pattern, always trying to use the same manipulation tactics. They would approach me, compliment or neg me, ask for my number and then push some kind of physical contact. This got me to researching PUA‘s because I preferred being able to predict the next moves of these men, as it made me feel less vulnerable. Sometimes I’d let them kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:34 PM
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Of course you’ll be able to love. The difference is you’ll give your love to someone worthy. Not someone who takes you for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:14 PM
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TRP men don’t like FDS because they find it threatening. You must remember that when something is threatening for people, its because it has power. When a theory has power, it’s proof that it contains truth. The truth however is painful and inconvenient for a lot of people. So they attack but they’ll fail to disprove it. As the old saying goes the truth will set you free. In your case it did exactly that too!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:08 PM
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Hahahahah well that’s some bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:05 PM
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So how did men cope before sex before marriage was a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:05 PM
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Actually FDS is always preaching to immediately drop and block all LVM.... Of course we approach everyone with an open mind until they show us which type of man they are. Do you have examples of how FDS teaches manipulation? I haven’t seen any.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:49 PM
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More so then the average man. I’d bet money on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:46 PM
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meaning that they are monogamous to a similarly passionate, job-oriented, independent man with strong life goals. This is the FDS goal exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:39 PM
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If they are self aware, yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:37 PM
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The same is true for you Nope it’s not because I actually care about this issue and it had relevance for my life and behaviour. I‘m not doing it for the sake of arguing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:58 PM
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Well your tone certainly suggests you think it’s an unreasonable request to want the best of both worlds. Clearly you care somewhat or else why are you commenting? Is your life that boring...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:54 PM
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I don’t really see a lot of feminism. I agree with most of what’s posted however.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:47 PM
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Exactly and I want you to agree that this is a fair request 1) it is and 2) I’ve just spent ages explaining why it is fair and not at all entitled like TRP likes to pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:44 PM
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Well they can either work on themselves to reach the top 20% or get a guy who’s their equal. That’s not settling its paring off with an equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:40 PM
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It is so much fairer, that it is fairer for women than for men. I disagree but even if it were so, it’s about time the pendulum swung the other way. Men have had the advantage for thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:36 PM
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If he didn’t have the guts to pursue me he’s not my kinda man. Now don’t worry if I give em plenty of opportunities, I flirt well and he will always realise I’m interested. He still needs to make the first move. That’s the feminine and the masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:33 PM
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The benefits of traditionalism as they were, were never a fair trade for women. I mean men came up with them so of course these 'traditions' always favoured men. What we have now is actually a much fairer trade. In comparison to the old trade it’s probably a shock to men who were used to having the upper hand. What we have now (when men pay) is much closer to equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:30 PM
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Yes actually! For example if he paid on all the dates he’s likely serious about her and therefore less likely to be a dead beat father. As to assault, he just put effort into winning her over, being gentlemanly and has proved he respects her and her time by paying. Someone that genuinely respects you is never going to rape you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:23 PM
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Setting your own frame is actually part of being a healthy adult human being whatever your sex. If you can’t set your own frame, you do not own your own life. It was a traditionally only a masculine prerogative because men take all female power away. Frame is actually a human trait and thus also a feminine trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:16 PM
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Women carry most of the risk when it comes to sex: Pregnancy, STI’s (you’re more likely to catch these as a woman) and assault. The least men can do to equal this playing field is to pay for her dinner. It’s also proof that he’s serious and not just there because he’s too cheap to use a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:13 PM
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Well funny you say that. He can’t fuck it which also means he can’t destroy it 😂 Get your degrees ladies!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:04 PM
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So you want to be rewarded for your little acts of 'gentlemenship' by having a woman spend her life inside...what a fair trade! Lol The fact women carry 99% of the risk when having sex is not an excuse, it’s the truth. Back in the 'good old days' these women were not having sex till marriage. Yet men still paid on all the dates!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:54 PM
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Gentlemanship is just normal human decency like opening doors, pulling out a chair, taking a coat...none of that made up for the fact women had to spend their entire lives in the house...and to imply so is an insult. As to paying on dates, there are countless posts on FDS as to why we expect this and why it’s fair. The fact women still carry 99% of the risk when having sex might have something to do with it too... In any case if you don’t pay, there is always someone else who will. Oh and career…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:45 PM
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Are you talking politically? I’m right wing and FDS...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:30 PM
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FDS teaches women to be masculine and go after theirs. I don’t know what the fuck you’ve been reading but this is the opposite of what FDS teaches. The golden rule is never never ever pursue a man or show interest first. The point is that you cut the losers by demanding a standard of treatment. But you don’t go out into the world and announce this lol, it is covert and that’s why it works. You set standards for yourself and expect others to also be able to meet them. Femininity is power because …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:28 PM
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Love is a two way street. Once you know the rules you can selectively break them. Once you have a genuinely HVM, you make it work. Settling though will only sow resentment and that leads to horrible dead bedroom marriages. There is a lot of low value lazy men that women have to weed through and FDS is a resource that helps us. FDS is not the be all and end all of someone’s entire identity... Please!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:23 PM
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You can hate but it’s true. Obviously if you spend your entire 20s developing your career it’s an ambitious one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:21 PM
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Redpillwomen reaks of desperation. Most of them are Pick-me‘s and proclaim the positives of settling....No thanks. They are bored with their stepford lives and pretend that they got the better deal or else they‘ll have a break down. It’s an attempt to be the unicorn that TRP denies exists. I mean grow some fucking self-esteem. Seriously. FDS is actually the true female equivalent to TRP. If you genuinely want to know what it feels like for us women to read TRP, then look no further then FDS. Yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:02 PM
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This 'really’ tall dude is 2-3inches taller then me. Apparently the equivalent of a 5‘8 woman is a 6‘1 man so yep I’m well within my rights to go for these dudes. Also they are not harder to 'land' then a short dude. Men are men, they’re all the same and they chase me. Where I am in Europe (Germany) they are definitely not as rare as Reddit pretends they are. Probably 1 in 4 men is 6‘‘0 +.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:27 PM
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We‘re not turned off by hot guys being nice, in fact we love it. We are turned off by unfortunate looking men using the fact they are 'nice‘ as a reason we should sleep with them. 'Nice' is not a virtue, it is the default. Also it’s offensive to think women are so stupid that we can’t see the blatant fact that these guys are only nice because we have something they want. That’s not actually nice it’s a cringe worthy manipulation attempt. Oh and the reason we don’t go around saying we only want h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:24 PM
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I‘m 5‘8-5‘9. Men still lose their minds when I say I only consider someone 6‘0+...according to my inbox this is an unacceptable requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 12:55 PM
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Men around here seem to absolutely hate it when women want hot men. Sure we do - but you’re not allowed to say it otherwise he’ll have a meltdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 12:54 PM
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I once made a comment saying i wanted a man taller (im 5’8 already) and physically bigger then me. You should have seen the shit in my inbox telling me why that is wrong... Apparently wanting someone educated, intelligent and ambitious etc. is fine until you also start saying they must be good looking too. I’m very pretty so why shouldn’t I get a good looking man? Unfortunately TRPer‘s lose their fucking minds at this suggestion
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 12:44 PM
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Very nice list! Most RP men would freak out at how unreasonable and unfair this list is for them. Truth hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:03 AM
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Of course you can help him study that’s behind a supportive partner. But always ensure he’s also doing something of equal value for you in return. Needing each other is fine as long as it’s a give and take. A two way street, honey. Bob the builder are girls that give everything in the hope that he’ll love her for it and then are washed up shells when he inevitably goes for a new chick. Just make sure you’re not getting used and you’ll be fine. Usually you can trust your gut on that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:25 PM
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If you are giving more then you are receiving, then you’re a ‘builder' girlfriend. You should always be getting equal or more then him out of the relationship. That way even if it ends you’re in a better position for having had the relationship. Essentially it’s minimizing risk and looking out for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:34 PM
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Right so men are killing themselves because women are studying...sure. It’s not domination, to want a physically handsome man lol Emancipation has been wonderful and I’m very grateful for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:29 PM
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You’re fucked in the head lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:07 AM
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Well if she ever found out and she’s quality she’d ditch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:12 PM
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Well according to that logic, your mum is a slut 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:11 PM
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If you drop them all immediately then she was never a plate...she moved straight to exclusive I.e. girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 07:54 PM
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If she doesn’t understand she’s a plate and she really is quality she will leave the dude the moment she finds out. If he’s lying that’s evidence of his own low value and no one wants a boyfriend that’s a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:55 PM
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This! If she‘s fine with being one of many to a manwhore she‘s not the monogamous type in the first place. A plate will never become the wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:53 PM
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If she accepts being a plate in the first place she‘s a slut. End of.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:52 PM
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Don’t meet. Block and delete. Value yourself You know you should cancel it, or else you wouldn’t have even asked the question. Be strong and do the right thing for future you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 04:36 PM
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Exactly! What she should have done is locked the door and immediately called the police! The police would have arrested him overnight and she could then have taken out a restraining order against him the next day. The fact she went outside and confronted him was incredibly dangerous and stupid. He could have hit her back or even worse, had a weapon with him. Never ever risk your life to confront some low value piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 03:19 PM
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It’s not a judgement of your worth as a person. Most people would agree however that domestic violence is trashy behaviour, no matter whether it’s committed by a man or a woman. I’d suggest seeking therapy, this sort of stuff usually has underlying triggers and issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 12:53 PM
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Not gonna lie, this sounds like a Jerry Springer episode. Low class would be the kindest way I could describe it. His behaviour was trashy, your behaviour was trashy too (breaking people’s noses is domestic violence...). Both of you acted incredibly Low Value. I would suggest a lot of self-reflection and at least a year of being single before you start dating again. Once you lift your own value you’ll start being able to filter men more effectively and avoid a repeat of this shitshow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 12:48 PM
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Yes! The amount of misogynists on here seems to be steadily increasing. Also the 'reasons' for their frustration with women are all incel indicators. A shame really.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 11:04 AM
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You sound fun as fuck I think a lot of the men in this thread have been intimidated lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 10:22 AM
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What part of the process are you asking about? I’ve rejected guys from the first approach to after 3 months of dating. The reasons are obviously different at different points.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:36 AM
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Why do these traits have to be physical? We are strong mentally (stronger then a lot of men actually) and women are empowered through education, careers etc. Wanting to feel physically attractive and sexy is a completely separate thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:33 AM
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Well that’s not gonna get you anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:43 PM
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Makes me feel feminine, delicate and sexy. What’s not to love? Compare to a short guy? Makes me feel masculine, awkward and less attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:24 PM
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Very nice point. Many many LVM would not even know the meaning of 'support my growth as a human being.' The concept of developing yourself, spiritually and intellectually is a completely foreign concept for like 85% of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 03:21 PM
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A high value man is quite easy to spot if you’ve met at least one in your life. There is a difference between a LVM who falls hard for you and therefore temporarily displays HV traits to seduce you and a genuinely HVM. It’s not hard to distinguish them, the probpem is much more that people don’t have access to or have never even met a quality human being in their life. Of course they have a harder time recognizing genuine value from the fake. Compare it to a person who grew up around a lot of qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 03:18 PM
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Who are 'these‘ men? How about, Prince Andrew, Alan Dershowitz, Jimmy Saville, Kevin Spacey, Bill Clinton, Jeffrey Epstein, Les Wexner etc, etc. the list is endless. Thank you I know European laws honey, I’m in Germany. A 16 year old does not have the brain development of an adult and the fact you think she does, is not only fucked up but completely unscientific. Women who are very attractive don't have issues with men and sex. Another one of your twisted ideas. Attractive women have the most is…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 01:55 PM
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I haven't followed the Epstein thing. I have a life. But a 16 year old girl is not a kid. Oh you have a life? Lol is that why you post on PPD 24/7? Hahah give me a break. You haven’t followed Epstein and admit you know nothing about the case but are confident these men are not raping kids? How about you educate yourself on the facts and then tell me that I’m crazy. A 16 year old is definitely not old enough to consent to sex with a 50 year old pedophile and you’re depraved for thinking so. Don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 01:24 PM
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Take a look at the Epstein children...were they paid? Nope. They are freaking kids! 11-16 years old, raped by countless high profile men. That is sex trafficking and it is evil. It’s obvious you hate yourself when you degrade your individual human worth to what you can do for men. That sort of thinking can only come from a place of severe self-hate and usually abuse. Truth is you are worth so so much more then whether men want to fuck you or not and that is the root of your issues gimpgirl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:28 PM
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Yes, this is why refusing to date women with high N count should be the norm and not a thing for shaming men. It’s men that can’t stop themselves dating high N count women. Shaming has no impact, the reason men fall over themselves to date high n count women is cause they are weak and think with their cock. Yes the SMP would be a much more equal place if men could keep it in their pants but they can’t so they should stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:20 PM
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Human sex trafficking is not prostitution. It’s forced sex work of women, underage girls and even children. It’s all part of the same sick tapestry. Maybe you did but you still hate yourself. Something went very very wrong along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:03 PM
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Wow you realise that some of these victims are babies and children? You’re gonna tell me that Child Pornography doesn’t exist either? Seriously you have the most twisted mind and I genuinely feel pity for whatever you went through that took you to that place. Most would probably not have survived it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 11:46 AM
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Beautiful post! Can’t wait to see the hamsters working in overdrive The other logical option LVM have, is of course to work on becoming HVM....BUT that’s beta cuck behaviour so of course they prefer to wank into their screens.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 11:40 AM
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Nope it’s done to fight human trafficking which is a very very real problem across the world. Annually a $40 billion dollar industry. Men buying women. Buying human beings. It’s disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 08:43 AM
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Because she wants you to still be a head taller when she is wearing heals. This means 8 inches taller is ideal because she can wear 4 or 5 inch heals and he’s still towering above her. What’s so hard to get? It’s not an excuse...it’s honesty!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 08:28 AM
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You are amazing! Pride is an FDS’ woman’s greatest attribute. It will protect you from debasing yourself for LVM. Stay strong, you’ve got this. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:37 PM
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If you both start achieving more, doing more, being more as a result of being together. This is probably like 5% of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 12:20 AM
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How old are you? You sound like a lovesick teenage girl. This man does not care anymore and you have to acknowledge it for your own healing. Don’t go back there. Value yourself more. He’s a big boy, if he had felt the same about you he would’ve let you know. Your feelings and intuition are wishful thinking and projection. Watch and listen to his actions, not your own emotions. Lets look at the facts: Did he ever come after you? No. Did he tell you he loved you? No. Did he say he wants a relation…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/20 10:59 PM
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Completely understand how you feel. What if you took it as just meeting a new person? No need to kiss him just enjoy yourself and the date. Nothing to feel guilty about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:04 PM
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Yea I find him more attractive if he’s taken. Always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 03:44 PM
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Next time she says something like this, act really confused and go "I don’t get it...? Can you explain?” The wind will go right out of her sail and she’ll be super awkward. She’ll have to acknowledge that she thinks insulting you is funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 02:37 PM
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Yes! ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 02:34 PM
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Of course he must say it first! No question you will lose power otherwise. Why are you trying to do his job for him? He’s a big boy, if he loves you he can tell you. Oh and please re-read the FDS handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 12:41 AM
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The funniest part is he actually started it all to get back at an ex-girlfriend who burned him, which proves just how obsessed men are with us! Everything is done because of women, due to women or done for women 😂😂😂 Take any action in a man’s life - you can be sure there was a woman at the front and center of that decision. We as women are the meaning of men’s entire existence, their complete sense of self, the meaning of their life! Once you get over how fucking sad that is lol you start realiz…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 10:08 PM
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Yes men mature more slowly then girls...but surely not THAT much slower?? I have been self-aware, disciplined and hard working since age 12... I also know plenty of men who at 18 were much more mature then what you’re suggesting - intelligent men from good families. BUT if he grew up poor, is uneducated and hangs out with trashy friends...yea I can see this happening. Then again, I would never date a guy like that anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:48 PM
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Hah he wouldn’t be my boyfriend anymore from the moment I found out. Honestly i wouldn’t have even dated him in the first place. He’s clearly lacking in self-awareness, discipline and IQ which for me, are non-negotiable in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:40 PM
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Winning, so much winning 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 09:07 PM
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Yes I would. Immediate dump and no questions asked. That’s not even hypergamous because it’s abnormal to be so uneducated. Hypergamous means going for the best! Expecting someone who can do the most basic maths is not going for the best it is going for normal. I mean the intelligence of my children and the future of humanity depends on women choosing men with a at least a baseline IQ. If that upsets you, you’re delusional. One time I dumped a guy who I had invited to the Opera. Halfway through i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:11 AM
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Then just get a vibrator - no health risks & no chance of becoming some guy’s free prostitute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:30 PM
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Why not just go for a boyfriend? It doesn’t have to be a long term one. Short term relationships of around 3 months exist, in fact they are far more common! This way you won’t be used for sex and you’ll be able to do all the fun stuff that men only do in relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:12 PM
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Nope nope nope. This is so wrong dude. Hypergamy is not a feeling. It is objective and measurable. Once a woman has a top man she does not cheat or branch swing cause she knows he’s the best that exists. It’s why women don’t cheat in Hollywood only the men. Men on the other hand will keep sleeping around cause they do have an instinctual feeling they want to explore -polygamy. It’s the reason Ariana Lima got cheated on and the reason Tiger Woods cheated with women a million times uglier then his…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 09:08 PM
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Bahahahaha crying He wants a free prostitute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 08:57 PM
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The most incredible father I could ever wish for. He is still my biggest supporter and cheerleader. Knowing how much he has given to my life has really motivated me to try and find someone even half as good for my own children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 08:31 PM
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Nope. First one broke up with me. 2nd one it was mutual. 3rd and most recent ex was more complicated because he broke up with me and asked to get back together the next day. It wasn’t working though and I didn’t want to enter one of those on again off again toxic relationships so 5 days later I ended it for good. I’m still in recovery from that one 4 months later. Going well though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 07:51 PM
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Because hypergamous means the best of the best. 10 guys are not gonna be all equally as good as one another. There will be one that’s better then all of em and thats the only one the hypergamous girl goes for. If she sleeps with all of them she’s not hypergamous. She just promiscuous, I.e. polyamorous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 07:42 PM
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It’s WEAK as shit. It’s unhealthy because instead of digesting your emotions and the break up in a healthy self-reflective way, you run from the pain. It is far better to use the time to examine why the relationship didn’t work, what you personally need to work on for future relationships to work and where you went wrong in choosing to date the ex. What’s the purpose of relationships in the end anyway? Ultimately they help us grow as human beings. If we don’t use them to grow but instead as a wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 07:34 PM
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This is correct! Each of my ex’s has been better then the last guy. Because why would any sane person date or have sex with someone worse than their ex?? On top of this, it takes me a while to find someone better (obviously) so between the last three ex’s there was at least a year’s break, sometimes two years. During that time, I’m celibate and focus on self-development, my studies and career.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 07:10 PM
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it’s crazy if you think about how many aspects a child’s father affects, it goes way beyond height. Exactly. It affects absolutely everything in a child’s life and future! Tall women have an easier time then short men though! Just look at catwalk models, many are near 6 foot. Then you look at short guys and they truly struggle in every aspect and really have to make up for a lot with personality. If you’re short and your husband is tall your kids will probably be somewhere in between. My father …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:22 PM
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I’m a tall woman - 5’9. This makes me taller then many men. I once dated a guy who was 5’7. The height difference was the reason it didn’t work out between us. It bothered him a lot because he didn’t feel masculine and it bothered me because I want my future kids to be tall. I’d hate for my future son to be short because it will make his life a lot harder. In that sense dating tall guys is not only about my own preferences but the genes of my future children! As the saying goes, 'the greatest gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:05 PM
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HVW - the kind that get HVM are intelligent. If she’s daft enough to open her mouth or show him her posting history then she doesn’t deserve a HVM. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:00 PM
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Whats the difference between long hair on a woman’s head and hair between her legs? Most men like one shaved and the other not. Dumb question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 02:58 PM
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Well if the HVM is your brother he’s probably not gonna run away 😂 Seriously though, incest is gross. Please get help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 11:24 PM
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You‘ve learned a lesson we’ve all had to go through: don’t be naive, do be ruthless. And trust me, a month and a half is no time at all. Dating is the process of weeding through a lot of dirt to find the gems. Don’t expect to find your husband tomorrow and try to find the process entertaining. Also try spending time imagining your future in terms of your career goals, travel goals etc. all the stuff that doesn’t include a man. It’ll give you a stronger sense of self. You’ll be fine! Guard your h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 10:28 PM
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This is excellent and very effective. There has been only one guy in my past who refused to wait. I said ‚ok let’s be friends instead‘ We were 'only friends' for 6 weeks and then he found that even harder so was happy to wait while dating me again. Sometimes ya have to think outside the box.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 10:11 PM
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This does not work! He starts thinking he’s a lot hotter then he his because look who he got and then cheats. It feels a lot worse when a loser cheats on you too. Hot and ugly men cheat so may as well get the hot one cause that’s a least a tiny positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:23 PM
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Aim to date high income instead. It’s possible and many women have made it up the class ladder this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:31 PM
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I think this has gotta be fake. Highly entertaining though and made me feel positively virginal, which was nice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 06:18 PM
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Yes anyone who indiscriminately has sex with hundreds of people is making their body public property. It’s disgusting and shows no self-respect, whatever the gender. Sexual performance is not a standard, nor is it a competition. It’s an expression of intimacy, love and pleasure. It’s the way life itself is created. Creation is a miracle, not a competition. 🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 12:07 PM
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A man that loves women. They’re easy to spot, they have that roving eye. For example I was on a second or third ‘date’ with a guy and some people from our friend group. It was a pretty casual place - pizza bar. One of the girlfriends from another guy arrived wearing a very revealing red dress. She was definitely less good looking than me. Somehow he couldn’t stop staring. The colour red can really stop some men in their tracks. Anyway I knew from that moment on that this guy would never be longt…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:49 AM
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That is so disgusting, I have no words. She has truly made herself public property and public property is never treated well. Nothing to be admired, a lot to be pitied.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:43 AM
3

Hahahaha that woman is the opposite of a Stacy. Old, dried up and desperate to look sexy. Looks like she’s a hooker, does drugs and hangs out with creepy bald men. Nope nope nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:21 AM
1

Because ugly guys usually also have ugly personalities. Since we can get the hot guy, why go for the ugly one? He’s usually confident and doesn’t have all these weird, autistic and fucked up ideas like in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:11 AM
7

We love it in different ways. Men here love the physicality of sex which means they can have it with just about anyone and anything. Whereas I love the intimacy of it. Intimacy is gained over time through trust. It’s much harder to come by then a hot body. Does that mean I love sex less then men? Fuck no. We love different aspects of it though and that changes our behavior towards it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 10:11 AM
5

Yes, he worshipped me. I knew he wasn’t my future husband though, so I ended it to save my future self from a badly broken heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 12:42 AM
7

Why do you think that none of them want to commit to you? You’re giving them your body, they should need to do more for that privilege then just shove their dick into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:34 AM
1

I would ask you to say it again, while recording you and post that shit. Absolutely creepy, disgusting and frankly scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:34 PM
7

We’re no longer together. If we’d met 5 years in the future perhaps....I doubt we were ever gonna grow old together though. As to how we treated each other? Always with the utmost respect. We were in love, it was bliss. And the sex? He told me that we fucked like gods. So I guess he was happy... Even during the break up actually, respect was evident. Always classy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 09:08 PM
27

I fucking love sex. I also don’t allow myself to be controlled by it. Impulse control proves maturity and is an important indicator of future success. Making a man wait is an excellent way to vet for these qualities. P.s. I made him wait 4 months. He knew I’m the best he’ll ever get, so he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:44 PM
5

That’s it right there. These girls exist, they are attractive too and they stay away from creeps. Of course this truth destroys a lot of redpill narratives so easier to pretend these girls don’t exist. There is also a class component involved here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 06:13 PM
18

He’s handsome too! Congrats on finding a rare one. 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:30 PM
9

The amount of men that can’t even comprehend that virgins do exist is fascinating. A very interesting disconnect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:27 PM
1

Women don’t sexualize men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:34 PM
7

Men are just as hypergamous as women. Why would he be romantically interested in a below average woman? She’s gonna ask herself the same thing cause as I said she’s smart and self aware. Self awareness is one vital quality that women have to a far far higher degree then men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 01:27 PM
16

Because she’s self-aware (unlike most men) and doesn’t want to be pumped and dumped. Seriously a stupid question
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 12:55 PM
2

This is truth and people find the truth confronting. Thing is, it’s very hard for many people to love themselves, they think it’s easier to find someone to do the job for them. Got keep up with the self work and you’re already ahead of 90% of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 12:10 PM
1

N-count is physical. Means that if it’s over a phone or a tablet it doesn’t count. Otherwise camgirls would have an n-count of half a million
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/20 08:50 AM
7

Proud of being broke? Seriously?? The cringe is only matched by the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 01:28 AM
4

Of course sexting is not adding to your n-count!! Most ridiculous thing i’ve ever heard. Especially if you’ve never even met them.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/20 01:23 AM
-2

Sure thing, will do!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 12:17 AM
9

I made him wait. 4 months to be exact. In the mean time? I brought a fuck ton of value, shared experiences, interesting world view and good personality. It was completely the right decision to wait and he asked me to be exclusive during that period, although I refused because I wanted to be sure about him before i committed. We went hiking, he came and visited me in a European city on two occasions during the summer and we explored it together. We had wonderful conversations and got to know one …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:17 PM
21

Yes! TRP is 100% projection. They lack the self awareness to realise it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:00 PM
2

Definitely not too late! Just think about how many women do not have the self control to ghost a man they once loved. 3 days or two weeks it still makes a big impact. They hate it because they feel powerless and wonder whether you ever cared about them at all. That’s the revenge.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/20 06:37 PM
14

No need to explain yourself. In fact it’s better not to. Men want and need closure, it’s human nature. However if you can go without closure yourself, your silence will say more then your words ever could. This means there is NO final conversation. Crickets. 👻 On your end remember it’s a grieving process. You are allowed to mourn them because to you, he is dead now. When it’s time, pull yourself together and delete all messages, contact numbers, photos etc. You can think about him all you want b…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/20 06:13 PM
13

Lmfao, the audacity never fails to shock me. Give him a simple: ‘yea that’s not my style, but good luck!‘ Short, sweet and cold as ice 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 03:38 PM
2

Obviously chose to ignore the facts I stated and just focus on the last point which was the only anecdotal part. A woman that reaches sexual maturity has already lost 70-75% of her eggs. It’s not a shock that after a further 15 years she’s down another 15%. In fact I think those odds are quite good! Personally I’ll be risking them in any case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:23 AM
4

By age 30 nearly 90% of ovarian eggs are gone. This is so incredibly misleading, I’d call it a lie! What you fail to mention is that women are born with about 1 million eggs. By the time a girl has her first period at age 13 or 14 she only has around 300,00 eggs left. This means that before her period even begins and her body is even capable of reproduction, she has already lost 70% of her eggs!!! Even if with age thirty, 90% of woman’s eggs are gone...so what? That’s still a FUCK ton of eggs. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:21 AM
1

Wow this is incredible! Would love to see it pinned. Thank you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 05:32 PM
11

This is AMAZING advice and I hope OP sees it. This is the most genuine and helpful contribution I’ve ever seen from a male lurker on r/redpillwomen!! My last relationship had exactly this problem. Going in it seemed fine because he was very ‘grateful’ to be dating me. However the consequence was that we could never really approach things equally. The power dynamic becomes extreme and I was unable to fully commit to him because I imagined what my family etc. would think about him as a future husb…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/20 10:57 PM
9

isn’t NoFap just a meme? No it’s not just a meme, but good to see you’ve really educated yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:39 PM
9

Educate yourself about sex then. Even at 21 year old as a virgin, I was an expert on everything to do with sex! I knew all forms of birth control, all the most common STI’s, knew how to give myself an orgasm and bought myself a vibrator. Do all of the above and sleeping with a man won’t really make that much of an impact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:37 PM
4

You should be waiting 3 months to have sex! No excuses. In your case because you always get dumped, i’d say even more like 4 months. Why do you have no self control? Is it a self esteem issue do you think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:22 PM
2

You’re argument is that if a man wants a relationship don’t have sex with him. Or st least not for a very long time. Is that correct? Why most people are confused is because they presume that if a man wants to date you, he‘ll also be happy to have sex. I agree though, women should make a man wait 2-3 months minimum if he says he wants a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:22 AM
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believe his actions not his words
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/20 09:18 AM
1

You're confusing a necessary condition and the result. Lol you‘re confusing sex as a necessary condition. It is not necessary. Not at all. The fact you even portray it as such is proof of AMALT. Men could choose to abstain from sex but 99% can’t even comprehend such a thought. That’s AMALT: men being unable to exist without sex, whatever the cost. Look at how the male octopus and spider will mate despite the fact he will be eaten by the female afterwards (both her date and dinner lol...) Of cour…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 03:06 PM
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The problem with this theory is that the abortion industry is a direct result of the actions of men. Who’s doing the impregnating of all these women? Irresponsible men who only care about getting their dick wet. That was my point all along...getting their dick wet at any cost, murder included, is AMALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 11:31 AM
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This is disgusting and incredibly disrespectful. Would you draw your genitals as a thank you note? Fuck no because this is not normal. Something is deeply wrong with this person and I suggest you don’t stay to find out more. It’s super low class. I’d scrunch up this filth and flush it down the toilet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 11:26 AM
26

You are wasting your time and you know it in your gut. Don’t be the forever girlfriend. Men know when they want a woman and will propose within months. The fact he’s not sure after 5 years means he’s not interested in marrying you but likes having a girlfriend. He’ll say just enough to keep you around too. He may be one of those men that marries the next girl he dates within a year. Plenty of em exist and you were just the ‘bob the builder’ girlfriend. Look at the facts and leave him or regret i…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 10:11 AM
10

Trafficking of underage women and children is a $100 billion dollar yearly industry. If that’s not proving male nature, I don’t know what is. AMALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:06 AM
5

Exactly, so when they finally do get married it’s A Massive accomplishment for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 07:44 AM
9

Because people are individuals. Just because members of your sex do one thing doesn’t mean it applies to everyone. Many many men (probably 85-90%) would have sex with a 14 or 15 year old if they were guaranteed to get away with it. Think Epstein, Bill Clinton, Kevin Spacey, Harvey Weinstein, Bill Cosby, Jimmy Savile, Prince Andrew etc, etc. These men are above the law and that’s when their true male nature shows. AMALT. Some men however (hopefully 10-15%) would be sickened at the concept of havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 12:30 AM
2

although I don't consider it trafficking if the women are of age and consenting... it's just a politically loaded word Umm the term trafficking means that it’s done against someone’s will! That’s the reason we even use the term...Otherwise we’d just say prostitution. Prostitution is very different to trafficking and as you clearly didn’t know that, I suggest you should do some research. Sex for money (Prostitution) is legal in my country and is not trafficking! Trafficking is when women or child…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 12:09 AM
2

Men love drama too. It’s human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:40 PM
1

I love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:39 PM
18

Show her FDS instead. Otherwise her greatest accomplishment will be getting married which is fucking sad. Help her have higher ambitions then that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:35 PM
-2

Nope don’t believe it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:34 PM
37

Because he can’t imagine what sex is like for a woman. It’s a very vulnerable thing to open yourself up to a man, and many many men can’t comprehend this. So they make excuses like losing attraction that they can understand from first hand experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:31 PM
1

Of course it’s bad, it’s horrific. Hope you find help and are working on yourself. The world has enough fucked up mean men.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/20 10:21 PM
1

Dude thats your karma. Of course men like you exist, they always have. Many men get off on suffering. Men who enjoy perpetrating degradation, pain and humiliation are very very common. Look no further then Jeffrey Epstein, Bill Clinton, Prince Andrew, Harvey Weinstein, Jimmy Savile, Alan Dershowitz, bill Cosby, Kevin spacey etc, etc. Many, many men are depraved. AMALT. You are far from uncommon. Once men get into power they no longer have to abide by the limits of the law and become pedos. If we…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 08:03 PM
11

He’s an evil person. His use of Facebook as a data collection database is sickening. He’s as far away as you can get from a HVM. Successful of course but what’s the point if you’re morally repugnant? Take a deeper look into him, his interests and his companies. It’s a dark world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:08 PM
2

Lol as a woman I wouldn’t even consider dating a man like you. What’s the point of success if you don’t use it to live too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:54 PM
1

Okay for you sex is not a spiritual thing, whatever. Still even if you view it purely as a physical act you must admit there is a fundamental difference between loving the woman you’re sleeping with or, viewing her through a screen as an object with breasts and a vagina. One is extremely degrading, the other is beautiful...let you figure out which is which.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:38 PM
1

It becomes a problem when men have never had magical sex at all. They view it like they do porn then: degrading, objectifying and abusive. That’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 08:32 AM
1

Because the sex act, a sacred expression of intimacy and love is subverted into entertainment. You can be sure the men watching do not share the love the couple have, instead they are viewing the woman as an object for their penis. That is degrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 08:14 AM
1

No men are not at fault at all for seeing the world only in relation to their penis. Most are complete animals like that, you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 08:11 AM
2

Actually love changes the experience, interpretation and meaning of the sex act. Love is all powerful. No they are not all sick - thankfully! But you most certainly are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:13 PM
1

But clearly the mortar is getting banged around a lot more. Not if they love each other ;) And if the magic isn't there, you see reality for what it is This is why you save sex for the ones you love and don’t have it with misogynistic men who can only see you in relation to their penis. Avoid the sick ones basically. Reality doesn’t mean you need to fuck perverted men. Unfortunately the shocking state of men means perverts are the majority these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:08 PM
3

You still have to poke it in there still. A miniature act of violence. Hahaha wow. What if she puts it in herself? Does it become some sort of self-violation? Seriously you’re fucked dude. Accepting the subordinate role is still being subordinate. So inviting someone into your house is being subordinate? Lol. Can’t you see that the two compliment one another. It’s beautiful not degrading. I tried not thinking about such things during it, it's nicer. If you’re making love you don’t need to think …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:01 PM
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It's also necessary, to get it in. No force is necessary if she’s turned on. The point of that is that it's subordinating her. Unless it’s rape, she is actually inviting him in. Nothing subordinate about it! She’s accepting the man into her body, opening herself to him. That’s love, trust and intimacy. When you invite someone into your house is it subordinate? Fuck no. It is an honour for your guest. It's a white lie. WTF? You‘re seriously sad and twisted. I’ve had the experience of becoming one…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:47 PM
3

It is the male animal putting the female animal down so he can force his penis into her enough times to impregnate her. If you think of yourself as an animal, you become one. We are not animals and the sharing of love is not degrading. Why is he forcing his penis inside? That’s rape. Sex is a beautiful thing, it is the most intimate two humans can be, two bodies become one. No one should be putting anyone down. That it intend to impregnate the female, which cripples her in many aspects, makes it…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:34 PM
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Of course it’s not inherently degrading! It should be a beautiful and powerful physical expression of love. That’s what sex is, the physical act of becoming one with another human being. The reason why sex abuse is so vile, is that it’s taking something so sacred (the physical expression of love itself) and using it to cause immense suffering. That’s evil. Porn is degrading. There are many unfortunate men (and women) who think of sex in terms of what they see in porn. In reality porn is a perver…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:24 PM
12

This is disgusting and misogynistic. The fact you can only see and think of women’s worth in terms of your own penis is truly horrifying. They do not respect women's degrees because they cannot fuck them. This logic actually means you don’t respect her in any capacity whatsoever because anything beyond her sexuality is useless to you and you don’t even respect her sexuality because you think it’s inherently degrading. It‘s only misogynistic men who view sex as inherently degrading for women. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:01 PM
1

Few reasons: lacked financial stability, atheist, came from a very different culture (South America) and he was also shorter then me. We never discussed our height difference but it was a sore point for us both. Not as good looking as I’d want the father of my children to be and he also loved women and I knew in the long term that would mean he’d likely cheat. Wonderful person though, taught me a lot and loved me. We were just different people with very different approaches to life. Our physical…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:12 PM
1

An excellent point. If only TRP were self aware enough to realize this obvious truth. It’s less confronting to blame the ‘evil women’ though. In a way it’s good for us girls, easier to differentiate between the gems and the dirt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:00 PM
1

I am going on a shaman led ayahuasca ceremony next month. These things help you get in touch with your own sense of meaning, purpose, existence, love. Quite cool, but I think this is the easy way out for self development. The real way would be to get there by developing yourself spiritually through self work, meditation, soul exercises, prayer etc. as opposed to doing it via a substance. It’s much harder and slower but it’s also real. It’s the same way that jumping into bed immediately is a fast…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:01 PM
0

Nope. Don’t drink alcohol, hate coffee and tried a puff of a cigarette at 17 but couldn’t stand it. I agree that there are far worse things, which don’t get prosecuted (Epstein and his pedos come to mind) Still, I’d far rather there are no class A druggies in my community. They are in an altered state and that makes no one safer. Also drugs are always a sign of desperation and that’s just a fucking fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:46 PM
1

It’s beyond trashy either way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:29 PM
1

Fuck no. Never even a chance. Why date a violent drug addict when there are responsible, intelligent, kind and handsome men no felonies? Why eat your food from the floor if you can eat it off the table...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:01 AM
2

Why the fuck are drugs ok? You serious? Or are you also an addict
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:00 AM
14

You’ll have to make your own decisions but I’ve been exactly where you are. I was unsure about a new guy and almost ended it after a month cause although i liked him things were missing. I ignored and thought I’d give him a chance cause ‘potential'. I finally ended things 4 months later by which time I was in love with him. I knew that he wasn’t someone I wanted to marry. It hurt like hell and honestly would have been easier a lot easier to pull the plug the first time. Trust your gut. If it’s n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 10:24 PM
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Trust me, now is the easiest time to leave. You’ll face the least amount of negative consequences if you do it immediately. You’ll have to end it anyway so best to do it asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:29 PM
7

He booked us a trip to Spain. I loved him but also knew that I didn’t want his children or to ever marry him, so we parted ways. He was a wonderful person and I wish him all the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:21 PM
51

It’s a start but god lord this man sounds awful. He should never get sex with any woman ever. Amazing how many men think they have high libidos but the effort of showering is too much. 🤮🤮 For your own sake please start demanding men do more then take a fucking shower. Even if this loser had agreed to a wash his balls for you, that shouldn’t equal sex on any planet. Don’t be giving your body and your most intimate parts to these creeps sis. Trust me it feels amazing when you’ve never even slept w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 09:08 PM
5

Of course you can bond with another man!! You’re a woman, your genes have literally evolved so you can fall in love as a fucking war bride and now you think you won’t get over a break up with an abusive douch? Clearly he‘s destroyed any semblance of self esteem you might have had. Come on, yes you’re sensitive but you will be impressed just how strong you are. He’s clearly got major major personality flaws and incompatibilities. Do the right thing, break up and find a better man. Do absolutely N…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 12:32 AM
6

Don’t even touch RP men with a ten foot pole. 🤣 Either they hate women or they’re completely obsessed with us. Both are dangerous
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 12:06 AM
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The guy is gross, has a god complex, an appalling lack of self awareness and is a truly horrific writer, taking pages to expand on a simple and usually stupid concept. Or another way to put it, why is he cringe while trp as a whole is not? RP is not a personality cult (although Rollo would to think it is 🤮) RP is only useful to the extent that reading theory can cause people to become more conscious of intersex dynamics. However, to suggest RP is any sort of a recipe for life or love is dumb at …
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 11:52 PM
3

Go to female dating strategy they have excellent resources that you clearly need
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 09:05 PM
66

You behaved like a complete pick-me with him. Men know almost immediately if a woman is who they want. Unfortunately the low value ones (yes that was your man) pretend they have to figure out their feelings first so they can keep getting laid. It’s selfish and weak. Calling you a ‘good woman’ is the same as us women, saying a man is a 'nice guy.’ It’s not a compliment and don’t take it as one. It’s an attempt to let you down gently and not make himself feel like a jerk. If he really thought you …
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 08:40 PM
2

Thankfully I don’t live in America! I moved to a Western European country that has the tallest men in the world 🙌 score Your dad being super wonderful doesn’t mean you’re entitled to a high value man. No but it’s given me a damn good sense of what to look for and most importantly be able to quickly weed through a lot of dirt for the gems! I’m warm, physically attractive, intelligent and doing my masters degree. Extremely well travelled, come from a great family and am very cultured. For the type…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 07:16 AM
2

I think it’s a shame that it’s a basic of this sub because everyone should always strive to be the exception! My father is 6‘6, a top medical doctor, obviously intelligent, good looking, fit and the kindest man you ever met. Spiritual too. Why should I accept anything less then that in a husband...? My mother also didn’t have me, her first child till 36 and her last at 42...according to redpillwomen my entire family life is an extremely rare exception lol so excuse the fact that I take TRP theor…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 09:38 PM
1

Of course being alone is not an option for some people. I’ve got the most amazing family anyone could ask for and a truly fulfilling life task. It’s asking a lot of any man to live up to these standards and either he’s out there or he’s not... As a child and teenager I considered entering a convent - being alone has always been a thought I’m comfortable with.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 09:15 PM
1

Just because you settled doesn’t mean other women have to. I’m currently 25 and much better looking then I was at 19 or 20. My mama managed to get an incredibly high value man, i expect the same. Then again I’d rather be single then settle for a low value guy.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 07:27 PM
1

Very interesting analysis!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 07:01 PM
5

Yes exactly! That people aren’t embarrassed is what confuses me, I mean it’s Jerry Springer stuff as you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 03:07 PM
3

2 ex wives and working on a third is the antithesis of class. You’re trying to paint the feminist revolution as trashy? Seriously?? 😂 human rights are not about class. Of course it’s a bad position to be a baby mama (god I hate that word) as a woman. It means they picked a low quality man. Even so OP has twice picked badly - 2 ex wives that’s a lot of consecutive mistakes. It’s trashy, plain and simple - Jerry Springer shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 03:00 PM
5

Class is culture and culture is tradition. Class has always been about the noble within us. Certain choices (including baby mamas) run contrary to honour and accountability - both signifiers of class that will never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 09:33 AM
4

guy in his 60's who owns junkyards and has 15 kids. That sounds low class as hell, actually my personal definition of low class 😂 proves my point exactly! Money most certainly does not guarantee class. Class cannot be bought, you either have it or you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 09:19 AM
127

See if he gets hard from making out - if not, he’s already got ED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:20 AM
46

Don’t 'hook up' (that word comes from hooker) with random stinky, fat losers because you want dick. Have more self-respect then that. Please! Firstly you buy a vibrator and if you still need a man you go to a bar and pick the hottest fucking guy there because if you’re demanding zero for sex at least demand good hygiene. (FYI: prostitutes demand basic hygiene and money!) I tell him I am at a point in life where I want my connections with people to be meaningful This should be the case at every p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:11 AM
8

Ok country boy, point is you’ve made bad decisions - that’s what 'baby mamas‘ are...they’re physical evidence that a man is irresponsible, ruled by his dick and most certainly low class. Why would a woman who genuinely has a lot going for her, settle for that type of man? Truth is, she doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:39 AM
11

Wow she’s dating a man that has kids with two separate women who he calls baby mama #1 & #2...ghetto much? I’m sorry but she’s not doing too well in terms of taste in men. Genuinely HV classy women don’t date those sorts of men because they can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 06:50 AM
2

They are rivals to humanity? Are you fucking high??? LMFAO 😂😂😂 Seriously this is the kind of crazy I meant. Men that are intimated by kind and beautiful animals. You realise horses are the reason humanity is where it is today? They are the most important animal in the development of human civilization... They helped us grow food, they were our main transport for centuries and the most valuable assets in war. If it weren’t for actual men who loved them deeply too, like Alexander the Great, histor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 09:23 AM
3

Ok well a lot of men find horses intimidating. Women love them, but a lot of guys are genuinely scared of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 10:56 PM
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You don’t like horses because it’s expensive? Or because you feel threatened by her horse?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 10:33 PM
3

Roaming eyes 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 10:03 PM
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Obviously it’s not over, hopefully you still have another 40 years but brad Pitt is no longer attractive and that’s just a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:56 PM
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Basically the wall is fertility which goes till 50 aka when men become unattractive too. Thus women and men have the same wall. TRP is about 90% revenge fantasies anyway lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:40 PM
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This is harsh but honest. If you’re just gonna get rid of it they do have virgin auctions and some of these girls are getting hundreds of thousands of dollars, one was even offered a million. Obviously the best thing to do is wait for a man that deserves it and treasures you. BUT if you’re gonna throw it away on a loser I’d at least make some serious money in the process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:23 PM
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Yes exactly, they have it much more pronounced then women too! They hate the fact they’re slaves to their dicks and can’t do anything about it. Reason 1 that being a woman is the bomb 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:41 PM
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Lots of women don’t wear makeup. You only care because it’s the hottest ones that do wear it and they’re the ones that catch your attention. I’ve had guys tell me they don’t like makeup and prefer the natural look. What a yarn. It’s when I’m wearing makeup that they can’t get enough of you. Your brain wants one thing, your dick another and we all know who wins that war.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 05:29 PM
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Powerful stuff. Yes the tragedy is that the world views women as property and private property is treated better then public property. Many women are forced to make that choice and as sad as it is, you can understand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:53 PM
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When people wait for marriage to have sex, they get married fast and by that I mean fast. 3-6 months. Maximum I’ve heard is a one year engagement for virgins. If he’s thinking of waiting YEARS to marry you with no form of sexual intimacy, you walk - no questions asked. It means he has either a) zero sex drive in which case you will get a dead bedroom or b) he’s got something stopping him like a micropenis. Have an honest conversation about marriage timelines, it will give you a better idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 10:44 PM
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Much rather have him leave because he’s unhappy. I’d rather him discover he’s gay then leave for another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 01:32 PM
3

Hahahaha you think men don’t reject women based on their looks? Seriously?? They do it far more then the other way around. As a tall woman (5‘9) I’ve noticed shorter men are actually always more self conscious about our height difference then I am
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:13 AM
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No high-value man is going to put up with a woman who bitches and moans about how stupid men are. They are not moaning about high value men, they’re moaning about low effort ones. Many high value men share similar sentiments. Also c‘mon , ladies aren’t dumb they’re not gonna be saying the same things to the men they date! Lol single person where is wasn't completely obvious to everyone else around them why they are single. Literally no woman on FDS has ever claimed she couldn’t get a man. That’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:29 PM
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How does this theory account for the fact that my feelings for each partner have been consecutively stronger than the one before? 3 in total ...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:50 PM
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it’s funny because I think by putting in effort you are actually proving the opposite. That you like me for my being and not just my vagina. Women only like men for your beings. We don’t find you irresistibly attractive ever, that’s female sexuality. The reason we sleep with you is because your personality and being itself are what we find are drawn to and find attractive. Unfortunately women don’t get that same security, many times all men want is our body and couldn’t care less about the perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:27 PM
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Many of the women on PPD are in their 20s and are still figuring out what it means to be dating outside of Highschool/college. We need the guidance because most men will happily take advantage of naivety. Everytime a man is abusive the woman is blamed for choosing badly, so we are determined to choose well. Obviously this takes time. Life experience life, maturity and confidence. A genuinely high value man needs to be caught, all the while you let him believe he’s the one doing the catching. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:21 PM
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Women's need to bond and lack of interest in casual sex is a myth. Ah I see, my need to bond and the fact I’ve never had casual sex is a myth. Righto great debate. Lmao you just sound delusional. You’re a man, telling me as a woman, how Women think. Right on mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:14 PM
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Thing is i‘ve made every man wait and I have girlfriends who have done the same thing. It’s not that crazy of s concept. Only fools still think women are waiting around for good relationships and not getting off every week. How many times does it need to be said? Women are not men. We don’t have sex for the sake of sex, we want to bond. It’s a bit sick to be bonding with strangers every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:56 PM
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And if she’s never fucked on a first date but has made every man wait, you’re still not happy. So don’t pretend that’s the real reason. The real reason is you just want sex without effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:11 PM
1

Very informative! Nice post
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:43 PM
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At the end of the day a human being is a human being regardless of sex or gender. I really hope you can overcome your rape obsession and become a clean minded, healthy human being again. Just so you know, thoughts have an aura. If people are repelled by you it’s because they can sense your mind and your thoughts are sick and diseased. Hope you get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 09:56 AM
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If beauty is the only qualifier of value in women then why make such a drama that we‘re not working on ourselves lol We‘re already pretty. Women realise from childhood (unlike TRPers who need to learn that fitness is important lol) that looks are everything. We are already good looking. Smarter too? Sure seems like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 09:45 AM
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Women are always in demand by men. Always and forever. The problem is that a lot of those men are very low value. But like a moth to a flame you attract everything, gotta cut out the gross ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 09:43 AM
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Clearly you have none of them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 09:38 AM
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Wow you are really sick. Wish you healing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 09:37 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e2gjzi/the_characteristics_of_a_high_value_man/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:02 AM
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Nice response. You are mature and I like your thinking. Of course with the right man this is my goal. For me at this point in time FDS is very helpful because so many men are just out to use and abuse women for their own gain. You may not believe it but I’ve seen it. When I look at older women around my mother‘s age some are happy and some are terribly unsatisfied. It is always a result of their man. The ones that picked well are loving life, the ones that choose their men only for love, discoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 11:32 PM
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By making others uncomfortable? Yes, no question about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 11:08 PM
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I mean that’s quite creepy though isn’t it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:59 PM
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Requires photo and voice verification. Strictly for women only
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:54 PM
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Actually a high value woman is one who expects to be treated with respect. She allows the man to pay for her meals because him spending his hard earned resources is proof of his investment in her. She values her body and therefore waits to sleep with him until she is sure he is serious and they have the chance of a future together. She is engaging and interesting in all conversations but she never chases after him and instead allows him to come to her. Men who know they can compete find this irr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:52 PM
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We are constantly hassled by male trolls and lurkers and are very aware of an ever present male audience. Our discord server had whole discussions dedicated to self improvement, beauty, fitness, career the works. Women are incredibly self aware, much more then men. We keep these things a little more private, that‘s femininity for you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:41 PM
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What makes you believe we are not constantly working on self improvement? Because we are and have been our whole lives as any healthy human being does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:32 PM
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Lets be honest though that is not the user base of TRP. It’s mostly incels or men with extreme social anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:29 PM
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Your disdain for yourself scares me just as much
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:21 PM
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My father for one ticks every box and more. Many of the men in my life tick them too. You want a source that these women are not spending their days fapping off to porn? Well I’ve got news for you: women don’t do that shit. We have an FDS discord server many of the girls have good jobs, are pretty and a lot are in their 20s like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:17 PM
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Your mother had game and self esteem. Unfortunately she clearly failed to pass either on to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:13 PM
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She’ll be able to get high value men exclusively though if she refuses to entertain the fuckbois. Awareness of your own value is extremely powerful for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:12 PM
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I already am attractive to men honey. That’s a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:09 PM
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You are the definition of a female doormat. If you can’t value yourself a man is not gonna do it for you. Hope you get help
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:08 PM
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My mum is not the prettiest woman but got my dad - extremely successful, intelligent and handsome. Why? Cause she had insanely high standards. She was the antithesis of a pick me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:07 PM
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Your disdain for women scares me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:05 PM
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You should seriously see a therapist and work out why you think of yourself as a piece of meat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:05 PM
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I enjoy discussing dating dynamics just as much as dating itself. Also you can be sure that anything gimpgirl says is antithetical to the interests of her own sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:00 PM
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this is packaged as wholesale advice meant for everyone, so Im going to treat it as such. Most women I know have their lives together. TRP was made for men who cannot get laid. Now, if a man can’t get girls (casual or LTR) at all, it’s already a sign of quite a significant personal issue. The women using FDS have no problem getting men, which proves they are already on another level to TRP. How many items do you think we expect of you? A lot if you’re looking for a wife. And I wouldn’t want it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:48 PM
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Your mistake is assuming these women are not making an equal effort. This is false. Most of these women already put a lot of effort into their appearance, have good careers and active hobbies. They are not depressed and pornsick like the guys that need TRP. They‘ve had issues dating because they’ve been settling for men that don’t deserve their efforts. Men that refuse to commit to relationships, don’t propose and cheat. Once a woman is attached it’s hard for her to block him even for such horri…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:34 PM
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Lol I’ll give you that one. Thing is men still seem to chase even if they could go after easier options.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:11 PM
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The motive is not control, it’s the preservation of our own value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:00 PM
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Controlling anyone other then yourself is morally inexcusable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:30 PM
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Yes women slut shame because we don’t want the value of sex cheapened. If she sleeps with a man straight away i view her unfavourably. Men slut-shame for more sinister reasons, namely control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:14 PM
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An object with a lot of worth In any case taking my time let’s me weed out the men that think of me as an object
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:56 PM
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My body must be earned
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:48 PM
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Does he treat the Earth that he works on with respect? Does he have a spiritual impulse for the work he does? If so yes i think a farmer does a lot for humanity. I grew up on a farm so I know the lifestyle. It would be hard to find a compromise with my career path though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:45 PM
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Yes it would actually, it would prove that he’s addicted because his answer would be that he’s unable to give it up forever. The same strategy can be applied to cigarettes or coffee
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/19 05:42 PM
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My name is a GOT reference. I post to their sub sometimes when I feel sorry for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 04:29 PM
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What was so funny then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 04:25 PM
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Nah we’re real :) glad you think treating the women as human beings is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 04:19 PM
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Dude you have problems and I’m not gonna be able to help you with them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 04:15 PM
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I’m FDS lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 04:13 PM
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nope. A lot of jobs have zero impact beyond corporations and money. By impact I mean improving humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 03:30 PM
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No that’s no what I mean. Sex is amazing and I think of it a lot too. The reason we have sex though is because of the human connection it allows us to experience. Beyond reproduction and physical pleasure the reason sleeping with another person is so much better then masturbation is because of the intimacy and connection. Can’t really see that happening if you think of her as a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:56 PM
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Because the body is sacred and to think of her in such degrading terms makes you unworthy of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:34 PM
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If you think of her as a hole, no money or effort in the world should give you access to her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:14 PM
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For me he is a partner who I can grow with as a human being. Someone who is constantly working on himself, courageous, strong, kind, loving and loyal. Someone making an impact in the world. I want us to be striving for the same ideals, humanitarian and spiritual ideals. Sex can be a great aspect of the relationship but sex is not the foundation of a relationship like that. It’s foundations are much deeper then sex. If he wants me mainly because he wants regular sex then he can find a thousand ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 01:30 PM
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If you couldn’t drop it forever on a whim, you’re addicted.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/19 01:22 AM
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I think this is true for 90% of men. I also think it’s tragic and that it’s proof that 9 out of 10 are LV. There are some who are motivated by their own ideals and those are the HVM
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:54 AM
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Mother Earth 🌎 the divine feminine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 12:49 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:47 AM
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Why is it that men can always blame women for absolutely everything including their own weaknesses? If they don’t want to succeed in life for their own sake and need sex to motivate them, they aren’t high value in the first place. For a high value person (man or woman) the drive to succeed comes from a desire to fulfill their unique potential as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:45 AM
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Because I think I’m special and want someone to have to earn me with a lot more then money
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:05 PM
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So he got her tinder gold? Personally would never pay for that and I don’t know how many likes I have because my free tinder version just always say 100+ but I must say I’m skeptical of his ‚Chad’ rating too I might swipe left for 15 mins before I swipe right... And no I don’t think it’s caused irreparable damage whatsoever. If a guy is interesting and has confidence to approach me in real life he immediately has miles above an anonymous man on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:55 PM
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Men can’t message on tinder you unless you both swipe right on each other. If this is true she has swiped right on 1500 profiles in two hours. No normal person does this, weird weird story...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:49 PM
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Well yea I’ve thought about it all so much it’s become a narrative but it’s my life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:13 PM
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Lol my parents are sick of hearing about it and my friends too so now I’m talking to the internet. I like the fact you think it’s fiction, I’ll take it as a compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:43 PM
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Oh right. 1st guy was my first boyfriend, was never gonna work. 2nd one I fell out of love with. 3rd one I moved to another continent and our LDR efforts failed after 3 months. And the 4th guy my feelings for him were crazy strong. Most I’ve ever felt for someone. That’s why it scared me and I knew that it would kill me when it didn’t work out. I tried not to fall in love but I’ve currently got my first ever broken heart and I never even slept with him. The feelings were there, the other stuff w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:52 PM
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Despite crazy chemistry our personalities weren’t compatible long term which became very clear after the 3rd month.The sex would have been great but would have only kept us together maybe 2 years maximum. I knew I would fall in love with him and be broken by a break up. I didn’t want to damage myself so ended it after 4 months, before all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:30 PM
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‘I may have lost my heart but not my self-control’ Honey this is gold. My life motto so far <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 07:09 PM
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3 actually 4 (but I never slept with the 4th one in the end)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 06:56 PM
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I mean if the guys are waiting 3 months + we clearly not too bad ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 06:53 PM
2

Be attractive don’t be unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 03:45 PM
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I expanded for the whole story to show that tallest guy is not always the most attractive. Obviously you can’t be the shortest either. If I was trying not to sound shallow I wouldn’t have even made the comment dude 😂 Obviously I’ll go after the guy I‘m most attracted to. Human nature honey
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 03:26 PM
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That woman is batshit insane, always says the weirdest shit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:32 PM
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Exactly. Some men know how to do it without being taught, I guess they watch their peers or something. To think that they have to work on this stuff is unattractive, yes. I don’t care if he learns it on the internet though as long as he’s not still practicing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:15 PM
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He wasn’t the tallest guy in the room and actually shorter then me but he clearly had the most confidence, most experience with women and had the strongest 'game’. His looks were good for the room and average in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:02 PM
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Its not psychic, just I know that for some guys I wanted to feel something and couldn’t and with other men even though they were less good looking it was electric. I think that’s called game, and it’s something they have innately. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:59 PM
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Woman, 25. Last time I was out at a party. I rarely go out so this was about two and a half weeks ago. Best looking guy in the room so I flirted with him all night and then when I left he asked for my number. I wasn’t seriously interested but I would have been surprised if he didn’t ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:32 PM
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Hmm I’ll believe it when I see it. If he’s got game I can feel it in his blood sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 11:40 AM
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It does though. We didn’t have a long term chance, I knew he wasn’t going to be my husband so I broke it off. I’m still very cut up about it but that’s all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:11 AM
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I ask myself this a lot. We were very different people in terms of hobbies, backgrounds and future plans. Even though I found him super attractive I tried to follow my brain instead of my heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:36 AM
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I’ll eat my organic bullshit lol while you and the rest of America gets obese. I think people and the planet were a lot healthier before all of our ‘superior’ technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:33 AM
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Nope. I’ve never been as attracted to a man as I was to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:21 AM
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Lol as I said he’s an ex. Yea none of your predictions happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:15 AM
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I already sexually desired him a lot at that point and honestly only noticed an increase as time went on. Female sexuality doesn't reward servitude and early investment. Which is why money spent on dinner dates is safer. It’s more neutral, less invasive and just as attractive as least until she’s sure that she likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:55 PM
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It made me feel attractive for inspiring him to do something like that, which in turn made me more attracted to him. I also found it lovable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:40 PM
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*low value men i.e. 90% + He‘s not getting any sex from me before we‘re exclusive! I only sleep with him after we are in a relationship. Furthermore I don’t agree to exclusivity till he’s clearly proven himself and his value to my life for at least 3+ months. During the vetting period he’s a free man still. That’s the FDS strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:33 PM
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I just relayed a story about my ex doing an act of service for me when I first began dating him. I said I found it hot and you agreed...or was that sarcasm lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:25 PM
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That’s exactly what FDS preaches actually. If I refuse to be exclusive with a man then he can sleep around while he continues to try and win me over. It‘s a great deal and im not jealous because I haven’t given him anything yet. If he proves he’s HV and is crazy about me I might consider an exclusive relationship in which case he drops the side chicks in an instant. Fat women can diet and go to the gym and will then be hot. Whether they want to or need to is another question. Men are thirsty and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:10 PM
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Money is valuable because it’s a limited resource, and it’s gained by giving up time, our most finite resource. By spending his money on you a man is providing physical proof that he values you. Other limited resources that have the same effect include acts of service, gifts etc. all prove his level of investment. This is how we gauge his value and whether we want to sleep with him. Its a way of safeguarding our own interests and it also signals he can provide. Essentially it’s not as much about…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:04 PM
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I’m a wonderful partner in every way. It sounds simple and obviously we’d need to be compatible because everyone has slightly different needs but for the right man, yes I’m the dream girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:43 PM
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He can sleep with other girls until I agree to commit but till then I’m not sleeping with him. Thing is, most women can be hot if they try. It’s not like men have crazy standards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:39 PM
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We’re in the same boat lol just gotta trust that person is out there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:28 PM
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Yes physically attractive, although the last one was shorter then me. Men that you will want to continue fucking and won't deadbedroom,cheat on and be miserable with? It never got to any of that and i’ve never been tempted to cheat. He doesn’t have to pay 100% of the time. That’s not what it’s about. The money is a symbol of his investment because it’s hard earned, that is all. If he can show me investment in other ways I’m equally flattered and FDS agrees on this. For example while in the early…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:25 PM
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Those sorts of people are rare anywhere because they don’t use sex for validation which means they are more likely to have had a good upbringing which is a very rare thing in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:13 PM
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I’ve never had a problem getting men to wait for sex and these were attractive men too. I don’t know where the idea that men won’t wait comes from because to date it’s not been my experience in the real world at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:07 PM
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I never asked my ex what his number was but I prefer men that don’t engage in casual sex. Most people here don’t really care about n count though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:01 PM
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You’ve got to play the game. For a man to chase you’ve got to run. But every once in a while you have to let him think that he’s nearly caught you. I believe you when you say you’re attractive, the problem is probably that you are too nice. Nice is boring. Read the book 'Why men love bitches‘
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:57 PM
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These strategies actually eliminate the possibility of getting burned because they are traditional strategies. The ones my grandmother taught my mama and my mama taught me. They are tried and tested for generations, they are not new. We lost them a bit during the sexual revolution but they’ve always existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:53 PM
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This is a red pill fantasy, nothing more nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:47 PM
1

Lol middle America honestly sounds fascinating and a little depressing too. Would be interesting to visit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:31 PM
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Hahaha if he’s chasing he obviously sees some value ;) You didn’t really engage with my comment, in any case the point of being a HVW is that you do offer a lot. That’s not our problem, our focus is on weeding through the mud.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:25 PM
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Lol Germany is where I‘ve spent a lot of time. Not many fat people that I’ve seen
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:23 PM
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I know as a child (early 2000s) my parents were always attending marches and protests against GMOs. At the time America seemed to just accept it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:19 PM
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You think Europeans sleep around more then Americans? Definitely not. The whole concept of rotational dating and an 'exclusivity talk‘ is an American one. In Europe exclusivity was traditionally presumed when dating someone for example, although this has changed due to American cultural influences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:17 PM
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Yea people are much more conscious about what they are putting into their bodies. I was raised on an organic vegetarian diet which I’m now super grateful for
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:15 PM
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but then aren't tough enough to handle backlash and insults. What’s your evidence for this? The reason we ban men from commenting on FDS is that they would overrun the sub and the value to our women would be lost. We do sometimes open threads for male commentators. Would you want your man to value YOU and not ALL women ALL the time at EVERY time? Ah yes...it’s called monogamy and I happen to be monogamous. Besides being judgy... what exactly does a HVW do? I know you meant it disparagingly but o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:09 PM
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I believe you completely, your story was mine for a long time. The mirror doesn’t lie and you have enough self awareness not to be deluded about your looks. Learn to play men at their own game, increase your standards for men and you’ll see a big turn around. Men love bitches, that’s the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:36 PM
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Yes exactly. I also think it’s an excuse as to why they’re single/alone, because of course even in those places not 100% of people are fat and ugly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:30 PM
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I‘m currently in Western Europe and I see maybe one fat person per day, granted I live in a student city so 90% are young and fit. Still from the way PPD talk about fat American women, it sounds rare to see a skinny woman over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:59 PM
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No because Ethiopia is a 3rd world country. Western Europe is more first world then the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:55 PM
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Personally I haven’t been to the UK yet. I’m talking France, Germany, Switzerland, Austria, Poland, Italy etc. are all places where its rare to see fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:53 PM
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Hahahah so good 😂 crying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:44 PM
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Come to Europe everyone is skinny. Can’t promise you’ll be able to get a girl though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:41 PM
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The shortest time was 6 weeks. We met on a week long working holiday and I slept with him when he flew to my country to visit me. I then moved in with him a couple of months later. Casual sex is not something I have any interest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:34 PM
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I came to do my Masters in Europe, that was my foot in the door, now trying to build a life. The student route was very straight forward:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 12:24 AM
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Don’t expect to immediately feel attraction for other men. Give yourself time. You will feel it again though, i promise you. Just don’t expect to be over it in the blink of an eye, 3 months is nothing! Something that might really help you move on and see your value is a trip abroad or moving cities. Leave him behind, open a new page and discover new sides to yourself. I’ve moved across the world in times of crisis and it really helped my healing. Be generous with yourself <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 12:08 AM
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So casual and disrespectful. My mama always said that the way people talk about sex is a sure sign of their class (or lack thereof as the case maybe!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 11:50 PM
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Yes exactly, it reduces them to their sex organs, disregarding them as individuals. A farmer talking about his cows would use the word 'females’ but you can be sure he wouldn't refer to his daughter as a ‘female.‘ The word 'bitch‘ technically means female dog. Again, it’s an animal term that’s being used to insult and dehumanise women i.e. comparing us to dogs. When you think about it like that it’s so gross that some women allow men to call them bitch during sex, like sis, he is literally calli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 11:48 PM
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Because 'female' traditionally referred only to animals. For human beings we use 'Women' (plural) or 'Woman' (sing.) It is an insult intended to dehumanise us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 11:03 PM
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No accountability what a surprise. This is the exact attitude of men who bad in bed 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:31 PM
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Yes it’s always a woman’s fault. How about men accepting responsibility for being shit in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:30 PM
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Yes there are men that don’t watch it at all but if it makes you feel better about yourself to believe that being depraved is normal, totally understandable:)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:59 AM
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Armenians are closer to Arabic then black
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:57 AM
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Are you kidding? No they are fucking not. Their mother is white and their father was Armenian.... not black in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:56 PM
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Alphas are not some distinct species lol Men are men and 90% of you are all the same
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:50 PM
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The Kardashians are not black.... Back women also have the thighs to match, the Kardashian’s don’tY
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:49 PM
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Completely agree, great post. Suggestions for filtering pornsick men from the dating pool? I refuse to have a another relationship with a man who watches porn even occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:47 PM
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Don't have pleasure, having pleasure reduces your ability to please other people". Errr, okay? Why should I care, again? Because being able to have sex for hours is fucking amazing for a guy too not just the girl 🙄 The reason sex is worlds apart from porn or masturbation is because it’s a shared activity, it’s bonding at the most intimate level. It’s not about pleasing someone else above yourself. Sex with a partner is a physical expression of your love for eachother it’s not work!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:42 PM
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How does that matter to me anyways if I am low value to begin with? Because regardless of your outward attractiveness, as a human being you still have innate worth. Spending your time watching other people have sex on a screen is not a healthy or worthy use of the limited time and energy you have on this planet. That’s my perspective in any case 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 05:42 PM
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It’s not a symptom, it’s a drug and it’s addictive. Also a warning: excessive and prolonged porn usage causes male hair loss
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 05:04 PM
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This this this! They give up before they even fight
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 04:53 PM
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Girl I love you! Role model right there PS would love to see you give some field reposts like this over at r/femaledatingstrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 04:46 PM
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Umm no. Please read the sidebar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 03:32 PM
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Actually needed this just now! Thank you so much. I’ve been thinking today how much I miss my ex who I broke up with 2 months ago but your post made me realize it’s the validation of being adored that I miss.... not the man himself! We need to become self sustaining vessels of love. There should be no difference between our happiness when single or in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 03:30 PM
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Yea so amazed by the amount of men who seem to find it attractive honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 12:41 PM
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If he states a time and place and then you don’t hear zilch from him for an entire week...yea don’t turn up. Usually there are always a few details that need to be confirmed on the day so if he doesn’t text at all, you have every right to ghost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 09:56 PM
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I like to text but keep it very light and witty. Texting about your hobbies, job, how your day etc. is really boring to me so banter is a great compromise. Banter, witty chat builds attraction, gives you the security that they’ll turn up to the date and it leaves the more personal stuff for talking in person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 09:42 PM
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Hahahaha omg I cant breath 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 09:10 PM
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He had game, looked like his pictures and was confident
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:38 PM
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It doesn’t turn me off them if that’s what you are implying It makes me feel protective of him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:37 PM
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When I see a man crying it makes me instantly want to hug and comfort him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:17 PM
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This makes sense!! Mind is blown 💡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 02:11 PM
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Bravo 👏 impressive stuff!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 02:09 PM
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Heard from friends. At first it was a joke to kill time. We thought it was cringy as teenagers do. Yes now I use it. Wanted to talk to people when I moved across the world and it’s nice to feel attractive. Met about 8 guys altogether from the app. Only one of them have I ever been attracted to once we met up. Overall, I enjoy the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:47 PM
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If you mean like teeth straightening, correcting an overbite etc. it’s not an issue for me at all. However I’d feel uncomfortable with anything more major because I want to know what genes my kids are getting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:06 PM
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What makes a porn addict: Someone that couldn’t instantly give up porn forever at the drop of a hat. Essentially this means all men that watch porn are addicts. Similarly to how most smokers or coffee drinkers couldn’t just quit cold turkey. How to identify: 1) See whether he gets hard from a steamy makeout session. If he‘s pornsick, he‘ll need to almost start having actual sex before he can get hard. 2) I’ll bring it up in conversation st some point very subtly and with no judgement and just se…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 09:46 AM
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This is inspiring ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:20 PM
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By dehumanizing women, they dehumanize themselves. This is the greatest truth and one we must all learn in life. The way you treat other people is a reflection of you not them. Beautiful, wise and philosophical. An amazing post! Deserves to be stickied! Thank you so much, this analysis is incredible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:00 PM
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The mans face is most important for me. Apart from that i like him to feel stronger/bigger than me. So whether it’s from a bit of Chubb or it’s muscle has the same effect. Skinny is not attractive for me, although I’ve dated a relatively skinny guy before and didn’t mind so much as he had a beautiful face and found his intelligence sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 10:55 PM
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You would have married her because of the fake boobs or would you have wanted to marry her anyway? And regarding the RP lifting advice I genuinely think it’s the best part of an otherwise toxic sub. I definitely like a fit body, gym bods are attractive till they get to the 'bodybuilder’ level then I start finding them unattractive. But for me there would be a huge difference between a guy who lifted weights and one who got surgery. However men don’t seem to care whether a woman gets a good ass b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 10:48 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:49 PM
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It’s probably their style of humour. Obviously they click 🤷‍♀️ live and let live i say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:25 PM
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yea exactly and the 'no makeup, makeup look' they love it cause they think you’re bare faced 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:14 PM
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Yea exactly it’s the same with makeup. Lots of men say they hate it but their actions show that they love it when you wear it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:08 PM
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More likely it’s for when their clothing is off no? Because they could otherwise just stuff their bra (my grandmother used to do this :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:04 PM
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Hmm I think a hate fuck sounds horrific but people are getting weirder lol Ok sort of like tattoos then? i Don’t understand any of that self modification stuff but maybe I will at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:02 PM
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Ok so you’d be doing a ‘hate fuck’ sort of thing by getting off objectifying aspect. Makes sense because that’s exactly what porn is. For a wife though, fake shit would be a turn off no?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:52 PM
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Can you please link me the blog? Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:33 PM
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It’s hard to describe but the way the boobs ‘sit’ is more ‘on top’ instead of part of the body...like someone stuffed a filling under the skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:26 PM
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I recently learned that if you get cremated they turn into a soggy mess that needs to be cleaned up separately from your ashes 😂🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:24 PM
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But boob or nose jobs are usually incredibly obvious. Yet to see a boob job that I didn’t recognize for what it was straight away. Same with asses- the Kardashian look is also very obviously fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:13 PM
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Interesting. Are you the sort of guy that likes makeup or prefers ‘natural’
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:12 PM
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Use it to your advantage. The more you know the more power you have
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 03:38 PM
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Pornsick dick and brain
/r/askTRP06/12/19 02:14 PM
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Watch for the slightest sign of power/ego tripping, I’ve yet to meet a cop that doesn’t love the power dynamic of their job which is in itself a red flag. Watch interactions with animals especially dogs (is he being overly dominant/controlling instead of loving and kind?) How does he treat wait staff? What does he think about the negative sides of his job? Giving speeding tickets for barely over the limit, if you’re in the US cops shooting innocent people, does he acknowledge that cops are often…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:13 AM
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Great post, thank you 🙌 The first point is my current challenge for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 09:50 AM
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Hmm I don’t date them at all but as you already are, i would just advise you to stay vigilant and be prepared to kick him out at the drop of a hat. Remember whoever cares less, has the power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 09:41 AM
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Go and check out the top posts of all time on r/NoFap and r/Pornfree and all those support subs. There is a lot of good advice and info backing up your decision. Depending on your boyfriend, men that are addicted to porn (newsflash: if they watch it they‘re all addicted) can become very very defensive, the moment you broach the topic. It’s like asking someone to give up coffee or cigarettes for you, they will pretend it’s all under control and not that big of a deal. He needs to want to do it fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 09:37 AM
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Yes and I think there are only 2 explanations: 1)he’s just not that into you Or 2) he’s playing a game because of insecurity or manipulation tactic. Result: neither one is worth your time or energy. I let them run free and send em outta my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 09:22 AM
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As a woman though I don’t want to sleep with anyone except a boyfriend. I’m a very monogamous person and it would break my heart if a guy I was dating told me he wanted to see other women. Personally it’s not for me, but I’m sure there are people who would agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 12:24 AM
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Omg yes and they can only think about sports or their dick 🙄 Seriously that’s exactly what I did, one way flight to Frankfurt for $800 AUD. Never looked back ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:59 PM
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Wow don’t want to imagine the state of Queensland. Don’t even try and date there is my only advice. Work on yourself and wait till you get to Melbourne, otherwise it’s just a waste of time to try unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:55 PM
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Yea most guys in Aussie are LV honestly, I moved to Western Europe a year ago and it’s been amazing to see some intelligence in action. Have you considered moving? Otherwise Sydney or Melbourne innnercity are your only hope and even there the pickings are very very slim....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:48 PM
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Yes! A year ago I went on a tinder date, we had organized to cook a meal together and when I arrived he was probably 20kg (like 50 pounds) heavier then his pics. I was shocked but didn’t know how to bring it up so didn’t say anything. We made dinner and then I excused myself and went home. He was a nice guy and I could tell that a few years earlier he would’ve been very attractive and exactly my type...kind of a shame really. He continued to message me for several weeks afterwards and I half hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:36 PM
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Pornsick prick....another one bites the dust 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 07:21 PM
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Hahahaha this is amazing and hilarious and just makes so much fucking sense honestly! Bravo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:17 PM
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Don’t demand answers from him, demand answers from yourself! Why are you letting this shitbag treat you so horribly??? He sounds young, immature and clearly won’t be going far in life, that’s a guarantee. You are MUCH better off without it and you need to start believing it because it’s true! Even I can see it and I don’t know you, sis. Yes it hurts, that’s the nature of love and heartbreak but the facts remain the facts! In your case that means accept what has happened, learn from it, move on, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 05:32 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 02:05 PM
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A small basket of those sweet little Christmas pies. A classy bakery will usually make delicious ones, and you can enjoy eating them together while he is giving you your Christmas present.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 10:04 AM
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OP is talking about men in the West, you're talking about Central Europe. Europe is the West though. Long before America was even discovered Europe was the birthplace of Western Civilization so to speak. I agree with the rest of your comment though, that a lot of the stuff men complain about on this forum is actually an American problem, not a universal difference between the sexes etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 09:03 AM
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Honey I didn’t sneak that line in that’s why it’s in brackets 🙄 porn is the premise of the entire study...yes Porn Addiction... Check the title if you don’t believe me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 08:40 AM
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Love you last response!! So good 🙌 Did he have a comeback for that? Or just not reply 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 11:51 PM
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If she’s a normal healthy woman it’s pretty unlikely that she will be single for 20 years of her adult life...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:12 PM
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You are very intelligent and self aware. That’s obvious from your post and probably also one of your greatest strengths. You can always rely on yourself, and you will be able to find someone who is crazy about you. With him you’ll always wonder if he leaves the moment he feels a better option is on the table. If cold, selfish and cruel that he dumps all his doubts on you... My advice is once you break up you may need to be smart like booking lots of dates to keep you distracted etc. but you defi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 07:02 PM
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Wow men here always gotta make some sort of personal attack, don’t ya. I’m glad you found something that works for you. I find hi to be frustrating and don’t respond to it, that is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:43 PM
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Yes!! Pin it <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 06:09 PM
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A healthy woman can have as much sex as she likes Of course she can! What you’ll find though and at least what my experience has been, is that if she’s healthy she won’t want to go out there and fuck every Tom, Dick and Harry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:32 PM
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Agree with everything you say because women do have for options to ‘glow up’ however I still think they are by far the ‘fairer sex’ so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:27 PM
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Idk you’re the man, not me. I mean I can objectively see most women as being attractive and can imagine if i was a man I’d be sexually attracted to 80% of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:21 PM
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Both, women make more of an effort sure, but even if humans lived without civilization, I think the female form is simply breathtaking. Sometimes I’ll be looking in the mirror naked and just think wow lol Then again, sexually I’m attracted to men, albeit only a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:16 PM
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ED shows up during real sex not masturbation. If you can only get hard for a few mins and then go soft again, it’s ED. Also if you find yourself only getting turned on by more and more extreme things, again it will be affecting your dick too. That’s what we had on that thread the other night when one dude told me he can no longer get hard at all by touching a woman’s boobs or butt and he is only 23. Ps If i was a man I’d be worried more about my brain then my dick but whatevs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:11 PM
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Brain damage...as detailed in my first comment. Also for some, ED.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:02 PM
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Hahahaha amazing!! Thank god i have you ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 04:55 PM
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No my argument is that women are just so much more attractive that they are on a different scale. The female 5/10 is equivalent to the male 8/10. Personally if I were to find a looksmatch for a 5/10 male I’d put him with a 3/10 female and call it equal because it would be. A male 5/10 with a female 5/10 would be punching, guaranteed. It’s obvious to me why men find most women attractive....because they are! And why women find only a minority of men attractive because most men are ugly. They exis…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:50 PM
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Yes, yes and yes. In Russia too it’s amazing they can share the same genes sometimes cause the girls are just so beautiful and the men ugly....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:43 PM
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A lot of men watch porn on a daily basis...if they can’t go without it then it’s addiction. Same with smoking or coffee. The way men so aggressively defend porn also makes me think they couldn’t live without it. Edit: here is the wiki definition of addiction: Addiction is a brain disorder characterized by compulsive engagement in rewarding stimuli despite adverse consequences. I think it fits perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:39 PM
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It’s an interesting thought, perhaps it’s something to do with people becoming ever less spiritual/religious. If people are no longer striving for anything higher then themselves, then there is also no incentive to fight the worst and weakest aspects of their nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:36 PM
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That’s often a pretty fine line and let’s be honest addicts are brilliant at lying, especially to themselves...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:31 PM
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Yes men almost always think they are dating an equal even when they are clearly punching. I’m in central Europe and almost everyone is skinny. Still I see beautiful girls daily (I’m straight) and maybe a beautiful man once per week. So many men on here rant about modern women refusing their ‘looksmatch’ however the women they think are their ‘looksmatch’ are almost always guaranteed to be 2 points above them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:28 PM
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If you honestly look at the young women who having a lot of casual sex, it’s very likely you will find they lacked a healthy family home life and have extremely poor self esteem. You need to be quite secure in yourself to constantly turn men down and deal with being pressured from your peers in your friend group, male and female. Often with maturity comes a little more backbone and these girls sleep around less. Personally I never did (thanks mum and dad) and now I’m at the age where I’m strong …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:16 PM
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I think this is likely true, the thing is that porn is a negative for whoever is viewing it. The negative consequences for men are also worse due to the fact it porn can cause ED. I also think it’s much easier for women then men to stop using porn. For us imagination, reading erotica etc. is actually an equally good experience as actual porn because we are primarily mental when it comes to sex. Men being more visually aroused means for them porn is much more addictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:06 PM
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No, I’d date a woman (I’m straight), before i’d date a trans person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:02 PM
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I agree with the premise BUT if you really do it for health reason it is obviously better to use your imagination to jack off, or if that’s too hard read some erotica, look at a photo etc. all much healthier then porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:01 PM
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Completely agree with you that a high N count damages the female brain. I think that’s pretty obvious too once you look at real life examples of exceptionally high n-count women. Most are very damaged in some way. In the same vein it’s obvious massive amounts of porn clearly damage the male brain (and dick). To quote one study; A significant postulate of this commentary is that all addictions (of which porn is one) create, in addition to chemical changes in the brain, anatomical and pathological…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 03:43 PM
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Crazy that it’s seen ok to go from porn to video games and back to porn...they’re zombied out. Must avoid at all costs lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 03:29 PM
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I don’t date men who play video games period. I’ve yet to meet a HVM that’s into them. You’re never allowed to voice this opinion publicly though, but don’t date them or god forbid marry them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 03:18 PM
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That’s just not true, he waited because he believed he was in love with me. His options were brutally obvious once he moved onto a rebound 5 days after I ended things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 03:13 PM
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Sorry you’ve experienced that, I’ve had similar stuff happen once and it was horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:39 AM
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Well then they should take a break from OLD. I do this regularly, stops one getting bitter ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:31 AM
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I never message first, and I’ll not dance for them but I’m always witty and interesting in my responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:30 AM
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To quote the opening paragraph; A significant postulate of this commentary is that all addictions (of which porn is one) create, in addition to chemical changes in the brain, anatomical and pathological changes which result in various manifestations of cerebral dysfunction collectively labeled hypofrontal syndromes. In these syndromes, the underlying defect, reduced to its simplest description, is damage to the “braking system” of the brain. They are well known to clinical neuroscientists, espec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:00 AM
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Right exactly! Great to see that you have high success rate with responding to something from their bio... it would appear the other men in this Thread have only read the graphs and never actually tried this on actual Tinder. And of course you don’t have good convos with most, I’m the same way. 2 out of 50 conversations are actually interesting to me and they are the ones I meet...that’s OLD for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:54 AM
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Honey I’m not asking for original prose. I’m asking for anything beyond hi. Yet men can’t seem to even give that minimal of an effort. My best tinder date so far opened with ‚senoritaa, where you from?‘ that’s not even extra effort but it shows a hell of a lot more personality then hi... PS I’ve never in my life bothered to text someone a hi, why even type?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:44 AM
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I think they'd be perfectly capable of meeting her expectations if they really wanted to. 👏 wholeheartedly agree. The thing is that there are men that do want to meet them, and they are the ones we consider. If you’re not, you’re not even in the game. Why should women cook and clean for a man if they are only dating? He’s getting a much better deal then her and nobody wants to get the shit end of the stick...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:33 AM
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Ok but explain this then: Even when I respond to the hi the conversation is inevitably boring as hell, usually followed up by a ‘how are you?’ God, I prefer a neg to something that predictable. Usually when I respond to an unusual opener the next question is guaranteed to be just as interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:27 AM
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If you just wanna get your dick wet you’d make a shitty sex partner anyway. Good sex is about human connection, bad sex is using another person to masturbate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:25 AM
0

Personally I never send the first message because if he can’t message me he wasn’t ever that interested. That said- the homely of either sex has it the worst. I think very unattractive women have it even harder then their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:22 AM
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Everytime a guy has opened with something original I responded. The amount of men that don’t even bother to read your bio is astounding. Considering how hard most men say it is to get a match, you’d think they’d st least try and make an impression beyond ‚hi.‘
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:23 PM
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Well as an attractive 24 year old I’ll tell you that my tinder hasn’t been much better this week. I currently have 150 matches but you know what the last message I received was? A guy asking for nudes.... The rest mostly consist of opening with ‚hi‘. I mean if you come at me with something funny or witty or just straight up unusual you will very very easily stand out... I guess my point is that it’s tough out there for women too. Yes we have options but a huge amount of those options are dead we…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:08 PM
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I mean this is honestly pretty accurate for me 🤣🤣 except he can be 5‘9 (my height) or above. I think it’s definitely possible to find a guy like this if you’re a 7/10 +
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:52 PM
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Ah what i meant is that porn has sort of zombied men into a complacent state. To the point that they no longer have the motivation to find real women. Yes obesity is high but not all women are fat and there are still plenty of attractive ones. I personally see many more attractive women daily basis then I see attractive men... Also can i ask what these unattainably high standards that women have consist of? Personally i think as long as some men are achieving these standards then they’re fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:38 PM
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the list of demands women make today, she has to be beautiful (7/10)+ And if she’s 7+ she can choose from any man, anywhere. Also I’d be curious what you think this list of demands consists of... but men don't want to pay more money for a lower quality product. She doesn’t want to sell herself short either so she’s gonna do the best she can and her best is definitely not your porn addicted average Joe...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:27 PM
1

This exactly! They watch more and more depraved stuff and once their dick stops working (and it does) they’re ruined. It’s horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:22 PM
1

Let’s agree that both are cucked
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:19 PM
2

It’s not scary, just cucked
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:14 PM
0

What's so great about it? Maybe the fact she desires you so much? That’s also apart from the fact that with porn you’re actually watching another man fuck a woman you want....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:12 PM
5

I can’t speak for you but for me the greatest thing about sex is the intense bond it allows me to feel with another human being. You physically become one with their body...for me that’s extremely fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:07 PM
3

It’s the price men have always paid for the chance to reproduce, and for thousands of years they handled rejection as part of life. Modern men can’t seem to cope with rejection at all though and porn tricks their brains into temporary complacency at least till they need their next hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:03 PM
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Right isn’t that exactly what I argued? Honestly it’s a pretty sad existence jerking off to a screen instead of the emotional bond of sex with a real woman but it’s the level many men have let themselves accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 08:56 PM
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Well that’s for guys to answer I guess. If he wants to take himself permanently out of the marketplace that’s his prerogative Also physically they’re obviously very similar but I can’t imagine that porn provides emotional fulfillment the way sleeping with a woman does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 08:54 PM
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What if it's actually men who have become less interested in women, and that has actually been the driving force behind the collapse of the dating market? I think you’re onto something but you missed the elephant in the room: porn. Perhaps men have become less interested in women because they are being saturated with soft core porn on social media and are viewing hardcore porn several times per week to several times per day. What’s their motivation then to risk rejection when approaching real li…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 08:21 PM
9

Hahah 🙌😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 07:24 PM
5

Yes being an animal lover is SUCH a green flag! Vice versa if a man dislikes animals, hurts them, scares them or is overly controlling of his dog, it is a MASSIVE red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 07:22 PM
3

Nope, I’m a size 4 US.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 01:07 AM
10

I don’t have either as a matter of fact. Masturbation though is not the problem! The problem is Porn. I think it’s fine to jack off using your imagination because it won’t damage your sexual performance like porn does. However I do find the idea of a man who doesn’t masturbate at all very attractive!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:45 AM
1

Yea for sure if I really like him I’ll probably give it a second try.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:36 AM
5

unfortunately his dick is broken and will never work for any woman. Its a growing epidemic and it’s really tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:34 AM
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Yes exactly I think it’s that fear of admitting they have a problem that makes many men so angry and defensive, I mean it makes sense as with all other addictions we see similar behaviour. PS there are heaps of support subs for men quitting but I’m sure you know them already :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:31 AM
5

I’m very careful who I date, men who have intelligence, class and decency are rare in any country
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:27 AM
2

I mean I don’t make out with guys (intensely) till we know each other pretty well (around 8 dates) and I’m seriously interested. Generally it’s beyond nerves by that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:23 AM
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Wow you are the first man to agree that porn is a negative! Congratulations on your efforts, you’re already ahead of 90% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:22 AM
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Yea if she’s overweight, unattractive whatever but that’s not the scenario I presented and it’s insincere to pretend it is. I was and am very attractive. I am skinny and fit. He was young, 22, technically should have no problems with his dick, but he couldn’t stay hard without his phone screen...sometimes it really is the fault of porn. Men hate to admit it, I know because ya‘ll will defend porn to your dying breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:16 AM
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You didn’t definite what you mean by “wait” so I will define it as sex on the third date. Any longer than that I would argue is socially unacceptable for a non-virgin in 2019. Hahahaha I’ve made 2 men wait 3 months and one man 4+ months. All of them waited, guess that means I’m pretty high value then ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:07 AM
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Some are still great human beings. When I get down about all the pornsick zombies I read posts like this: https://www.reddit.com/r/pornfree/comments/cuqvn2/i_posted_this_on_the_nofap_subreddit_and_it_got/ Posts that show men describing women as human beings, as seeing us beyond our physical bodies alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 11:55 PM
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Hahaha i liked the last line ;) The fact we cry at all even when we know it’s just acting proves that the brain does react in the same way...albeit without the same intensity. It’s the same with sex and porn. Studies have shown the brain has the same arousal symptoms while watching porn as during actual sex. That’s why once the brain prefers porn, the dick stops working. Also I hear that a lot about porn being fake...but actually it’s still real people having real sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:16 PM
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Yea they’re all off their rocker but they’re all mostly incels anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:10 PM
1

The danger is actually far more that a girl will just get pumped and dumped then that she ends up with an overbearing boyfriend. It’s why smart women wait months to sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:55 PM
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The knowledge that it’s fake has zero impact. We still cry in movies even if we know it’s just an actor... The brain reacts the same way. We should teach kids that porn is unhealthy and that the 'porn is bad' mentality is correct not cringy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:51 PM
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ED is almost completely mental which is why it’s so hard to fix. Therefore when your dick stops working at 22 you’re kinda ruined. The other thing is that by the time many young men realise that they’ve got a major issue it’s usually too late...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:40 PM
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Wow. You say the porn bad mentality is cringy. I think what’s actually cringy is a guy that can’t fuck a real life girl cause he’s rewired his brain to get off to his laptop instead. I’m glad you haven’t noticed anything yet, good for you. But many guys aren’t so lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:33 PM
1

Well that doesn’t sound all that bad. Those are masculine traits and if he’s too overbearing I’ll just let him know 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:30 PM
4

So that’s way too many men I would say. Two generations ago porn was something only creeps watched. It’s truly sad that healthy teen boys are already destroying their sexuality by consuming por from ages 11+
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:26 PM
2

Ok well I don’t know how old you are, perhaps that has something to do with it. Still I think my strategy works because I want a guy that’s super excited about having sex with me. Not someone who’s slept with 20+ women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:23 PM
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Its enough men that I‘ve had to make it a part of my vetting process...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:22 PM
2

And the reason we could never have good sex is because he would keep going soft...next boyfriend was a king in bed in comparison and we had great sex which is how I know the problem had nothing to do with me...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:21 PM
2

So a woman biting your neck and pulling your hair while your hands are grabbing her boobs/butt doesn’t make you hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:17 PM
3

I mean both are sad though and as a woman it’s frustrating that I have to let guys I like go because they’ve been ruined by porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:12 PM
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I said making out which is a concept you don’t seem to grasp. It’s the stage between kissing and hooking up. Hands are involved and it’s intense enough that the body should react like we‘re about to have sex...mine certainly does. If you get hard hooking up you’d probably get hard making out too...so you have nothing to worry about, i wouldn’t kick you to the curb ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:09 PM
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Nope. Erectile dysfunction means going soft before or during the act of sex, and not being able to get properly hard. If he has problems cumming, I’m definitely not one to complain, lasting longer is always a positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:05 PM
1

Well if your cock works congratulations and I’m happy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:01 PM
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Men are responsible for their own cocks, and if they can no longer get hard by the age of 22 because they’ve been watching porn since age 11... well they have a responsibility to themselves. If they don’t care, that’s on them 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:00 PM
3

Or alternatively they are just healthy T men, who don’t watch shit tons of porn, making out with a hot young woman who wants him...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:57 PM
2

Desperate guys who’s dicks don’t work...cry me a river
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:55 PM
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No it’s not death grip. It’s about getting hard in the first place. Death grip cause inability to cum from a vagina, not an inability to get hard. Getting a hard cock is a sign of psychological arousal , if he has to jerk his dick to even get hard we already have a severe problem...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:49 PM
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Yea most do get hard when I kiss them in the pouring rain actually, or kiss them anywhere for that matter and I LOVE knowing their dicks work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:44 PM
2

Well I’m not gonna complain about my looks, they’ve got me pretty far already Perks of being a woman I guess ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:36 PM
0

Glad we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:26 PM
4

Hahaha don’t worry they Love it ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:19 PM
4

His cock failed miserably, that’s why I now only fuck men who’s cocks work. Your bitterness makes me think yours probably doesn’t...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:18 PM
2

Apart from the fact I’m very good looking, why try to have real life sex in that case?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:12 PM
2

I was disgusted enough by your pervy comment that I edited my response. 🤷‍♀️ I don’t think masturbation is disgusting but if he can’t have normal sex he is sick, fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:10 PM
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If a man can’t have normal sex outside of his kink he is no longer sexually healthy. Fact. He had this problem the first time we ever had sex. I was a fucking virgin. We weren’t even at the stage of discussing kinks!! I totally indulged his kink for dirty talk. The solo stuff i was less into due to the fact I wanted to FUCK HIM. He had a problem and the thinking of men like you is exactly why this problem is getting worse. Why else are there so many women on r/deadbedrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:07 PM
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Dude this is crazy. Let me define making out since it seems like you don’t grasp the concept....when I make out with a guy we are fully clothed. It can be against a wall or on a desk or on a couch. My hands are in his hair, he’s running his hands along my body, I’m kissing his neck, maybe biting him. That shit makes most men hard. It’s not just highschoolers 😂 if that sort of thing doesn’t make you hard you probably have low T or porn induced ED...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:03 PM
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I was a virgin the first time and am actually extremely active in bed. You’ve got to the point you’re defending porn as better then real life sex? That’s the opinion of a pornsick zombie
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:48 PM
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Why are you assuming I'm some weirdo that can only get off to DP gangbang rape porn or some shit That’s the majority of men today. Forgive me for assuming you were on of them. The young doctor just raped and murdered in India is currently the highest searched name (that’s millions of men) on Pornhub India....men are hoping videos of her murder and rape will be uploaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:46 PM
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That’s false though because I am skinny, fit and have a more beautiful face then the majority of women in porn... His brain had been rewired to find a screen more arousing then a real life person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:42 PM
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A phone screen making your cock harder then a flesh and blood 21 year old girl? Yea that’s depraved. No other words.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:37 PM
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Yea that’s the problem I had with my first boyfriend...the one who motivated me to find sexually healthy men. First he found it difficult to get hard and then once he was hard he would go soft again every few mins. Only time he could go with any consistency was early in the morning. It was shit. And it was due to porn. He was only 22...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:33 PM
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Well for a boner to go away it would have had to be there in the first place...;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:29 PM
5

I don't believe this at all http://surgicalneurologyint.com/surgicalint-articles/pornography-addiction-a-neuroscience-perspective/ I'm not responsible if a restaurant decides to treat their employees like shit and if I see it, I'll call it out. If it happens, it's because I don't know about it but I'm not responsible Of course it happens and you know it. Your orgasm just matter more to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:27 PM
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By making out I mean grabbing his hair, he might grab my butt or boobs. Attempt to put his hands under my shirt sort of thing. That’s where it ends till we‘re committed, but if he doesn’t get hard from that then it doesn’t go further anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:25 PM
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No I lean against him and feel with my stomach or leg
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:16 PM
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Totally my favorite position lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:16 PM
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Did you expect a naked 21 year old body to be the only thing you had to contribute to the encounter for him to enjoy it? Yes for a healthy man, this is all that’s needed. I was turned on, active and enthusiastic. The only type of guy that would not be enough for is a pornsick dude with ED. All he offered me was a 22 year old body and a cock and i was plenty turned on.... Men are no longer capable of normal, real sex. Instead they need a whole lot of weird and depraved shit to get hard. Amazing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:13 PM
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I mean they’re young men...are they already so damaged that even intense kissing doesn’t allow their dick to work? Women caused this? Wow. How about men find some fucking will power and stop jerking off their phone screens
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:11 PM
2

That’s fine if he can do another round
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:07 PM
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Lol it’s not 100% of the time! It’s after several dates when we like and know each other quite well and then make out heavily for the first time. Maybe we have kissed briefly before. By heavy makeout I mean he’s grabbing my boobs or butt, I’ve got my hands in his hair...intense stuff. If that doesn’t make him hard then he’s not into me or he’s pornsick
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:06 PM
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Well my next boyfriend was great in bed so my experience so far suggests these strategies work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:01 PM
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The rates of YOUNG men - Men under 25 who have problems staying hard is definitely on the rise when compared to a few generations before free internet porn was a thing. They are not as rare as you think. Just take a look at r/NoFap
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:59 PM
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He was the only one I knew! So you wouldn’t be wrong. But again if I wasn’t at all interested or had been put off by him I wouldn’t have talked to him at all. Instead i saw it as the perfect opportunity.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/19 07:57 PM
2

I learned fast, I’m smart and I don’t make the same mistake twice. I learned the signs and have had to drop many men as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:55 PM
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Have never needed to
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:52 PM
3

Nope. if I can’t feel it pressing against me I take it he’s not big enough...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:50 PM
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"Make out" = "being naked"? No. Fully clothed. It’s intense kissing usually against the wall etc. maybe with some boob or butt action. Most men should be able to get hard from that EASILY.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:48 PM
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As i said i am skinny and have a very pretty face. I am usually rated 8-9. There are hot women that men could get hard to on screen but go soft on in real life because they have damaged their brains with porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:45 PM
3

Both are evil and therefore both carry prison sentences as they should. In the same way it is fine to acknowledge that one is worse then the other...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:42 PM
5

Yea tragic. What porn is doing to the men especially the young ones who’s brains are still developing. He‘ll go all his life without a dick that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:38 PM
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Exactly it is disgusting and repulsive and it’s really annoying that such significant numbers of men are becoming porn zombies...makes it so much harder to find a decent boyfriend!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:35 PM
2

http://surgicalneurologyint.com/surgicalint-articles/pornography-addiction-a-neuroscience-perspective/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:33 PM
4

Well I mean I’m wet the moment that i staet making out with a guy. I still enjoy foreplay because of the anticipation, which is how it should be I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:24 PM
6

I’d rather that, then have them go soft before they can even put it in 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:18 PM
6

There are grades of evil...that’s obvious. It’s why for example murder is considered worse then rape
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:03 PM
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Asking a virgin to dirty talk is on another level of fucked up.... Suggesting id like a man to be turned on while kissing me is somehow comparable though 🙄 Also you are missing the point completely: content of the porn was irrelevant. The fact his brain associated cumming with his phone screen is all that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:03 PM
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Seriously your response pisses me off and sounds super pervy. I had a feeling it was with your first question - gross! A young man can’t get hard to a healthy, naked, 21 year old girl who is enthusiastic about having sex with him... and you are suggesting the problem is that she doesn’t masturbate in front of him.....disgusting and clearly a pornsick opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:58 PM
6

Personally I find sex abuse much more abhorrent then abuse in other industries. There is something deeply sickening about violating someone’s physical body ....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:57 PM
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Once you’ve done it a few times it’s pretty easy to tell the difference between a cock and a wallet... That’s really not hard, most girls very wet when making out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:55 PM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:50 PM
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What kind of porn was it? I remember the first time cause I was so shocked...it was a very average girl doing solo. The content is irrelevant though, because the type of porn changed. The thing that didn’t change was that his brain associated cumming with his phone screen.... You grab his dick while you're making out? If a man is turned on it’s very easy to feel it through his pants just by leaning against him with your body as you kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:49 PM
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My first boyfriend who was 22 at the time (I was 21) needed to watch porn to cum or stay hard while we were having sex. I was and am very attractive, fit and healthy. Luckily I was always smart enough to know the problem was him and not me. Still incredibly sad that a 22 year old boy already has ED... Porn induced ED is becoming more and more of a problem. I am now 24 and if a man doesn’t get rock hard the first time we make out I drop him because its obvious that he’s pornsick... porn consumpti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:12 PM
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Never send. There is already enough free porn out there. Don’t compromise yourself, your future or your dignity for him to jerk off. If you are desperate to take nudes as some sort of validation effort, at least sell them and make yourself some money sis...
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/19 05:54 PM
2

Every time i saw him around I’d smile and say hi. Another time we happened to be at the same event and i started talking to him - just normal, friendly conversation. He said later that’s when he knew I was interested.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/19 05:47 PM
3

Well the only thing I can recommend is remember who the fuck you are!! Your pride should never allow you to chase after someone who doesn’t give a shit about you...who cares what goes on in your head (yes it will be torture) just don’t let it seep into your actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 05:44 PM
2

Ok step one: Psyche yourself up and then delete his contact details so that in a moment of weakness you don’t have his number. 2. Download some dating apps and go meet other men. 3. Talk it out with a girlfriend 4. Find your pride and your dignity. It’s the only thing you have after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 05:32 PM
1

If he won’t wait longer he’s just not that into you. I’ve had men wait 4+ months for me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:02 PM
3

Not at all. Every relationship I’ve had has been after I subtly gave him openings to make a move. He still did the overt stuff but would never have dared had I not opened the door for him to walk through...
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/19 04:41 PM
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He made you responsible for his mental health which is not only extremely unhealthy but can very easily turn abusive. You trusted your gut and definitely made a lucky escape. Well done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 03:20 PM
2

Hinge is better then tinder
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/19 08:53 AM
4

Wow get some dignity woman! This is so embarrassing. You are insulting womankind by having ZERO standards. Even a street walker has higher standards then you because she’s getting rent money for what she does. You’re selling yourself even lower. Cut contact with him and be honest with yourself about why you believe you don’t deserve basic human dignity...something is very off...
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/19 08:51 AM
8

Hahahahah they’re all the same. At least he sent words lol some can only be bothered with an emoji 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 07:44 PM
4

Ok so I am 5’9 (177cm tall) and fell in love this summer with a guy who was a good head shorter then me. We never discussed the height difference so I don’t actually know how tall he was specifically but there was a significant difference. I was also a lot more attractive then him. It didn’t work out for other reasons but what attracted me the most about him, was that he was confident, proud and comfortable in his own skin. Also an incredibly warm person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:01 PM
31

Yes beyond help. Some people learn the hard way only
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 05:37 PM
2

Why do you want his friendship if your only use to him is your body? Respect is only worth as much as the person who gives it. He doesn’t sound like someone who’s respect is worth anything at all. Find your pride and let him go.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/19 12:36 PM
3

Have some self respect and move on
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/19 12:29 PM
8

Oh if the affair is hurting you then definitely end it straight away! No question! I was under the impression that it helps you cope with the other stuff...your situation is extremely difficult honestly and I hope you manage to work it out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 12:05 PM
7

The thing is you are using the affair as a coping mechanism. If you cut it off without anything to replace it with you will likely take it really hard. Perhaps you can divorce your husband but allow him too stay in the house or rent a place nearby so he can still look after the children. Then once you’re officially single you can begin dating properly and maybe meet someone decent?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 11:47 AM
2

Hmm yea that’s still pretty young then. What about family in the area? Or maybe you could move closer to family? Just a way to have someone able to help with the children while husband works...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 11:40 AM
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Well if he gets a job he can contribute to supporting the children. How old are they btw?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 11:30 AM
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Please expand this comment into a post!! This is exactly what I’m trying to do. Currently have 3 going at the same time...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 09:23 PM
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Hahaha I’ve done this once at 2am at a McDonald’s... 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 10:14 AM
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I do this and it’s so entertaining and fun. I’m just out of a relationship and not looking for anything, staying celibate too so I really enjoy these games to keep me occupied;) They love negs and I’m getting faster and more creative the more I practice them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 10:09 AM
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For you I would honestly say there is nothing cringe about. You learned much more about yourself, men and dating in the process and are in a much better position now to find what you want then before him. That’s worth a lot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 09:16 PM
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"Pleasure positive" women terrify men at a primitive level, because they think such a woman will start fucking everything that moves (just like they do), get knocked up and they won't be able to assert dominance through paternity anymore. It's why you sooth a man's primal fears when you play "hard to get", even though they claim to hate that. “ Amazing comment by u/whycantweallgetal0ng
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:51 AM
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I think this must be irony, no way could a person of normal IQ be as daft as that guy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 10:39 PM
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Nice article thanks for the share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 06:37 PM
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