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Bye. I don't want to be with a girl that thinks bragging how much alcohol she can guzzle is attractive.
/r/seduction11/02/18 04:54 AM
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"Easy there, I haven't even decided if i like you yet."
/r/seduction10/02/18 01:41 AM
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Details are important because that's usually where seduction actually goes down. It's important to remember the details, every guy I know who has gotten great at game dissects their nights some go into great details, others just reflect. Reflection is good. Keep doing it.
/r/seduction05/01/18 07:20 AM
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Fashion Here are some fashion sources I've used, this stuff goes way beyond r/malefashionadvice. http://masculine-style.com/ http://www.wellbuiltstyle.com/ Game Here's a resource I've learned SO much from, this podcast has been pivotal in my own development. It's not free, but with other 100 episodes and amazing insight it's worth the 7 dollars a month. Fucking subscribe and listen. It will help you with business, social skills, girls and improving your mindset and attitude towards life. https:/…
/r/seduction30/12/17 08:37 AM
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Congrats on the success, but don't get it wrong there was no game displayed here. I'm not trying to be a dick and get you down, in fact I want you to succeed past the losers who can only use Tinder. Tinder is not game, you don't learn game off of Tinder, you don't improve yourself as a man by using Tinder. She already swiped right on you, she thought you were attractive and agreed to come over to your place. There's no game here. You could have fucked her in your car. Even that wouldn't be game,…
/r/seduction28/12/17 02:11 PM
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charisma has nothing to do with being a smooth talker.
/r/seduction28/12/17 01:57 PM
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I'm going to stick up for this book because it was written by a guy that has spent a lot of time developing me and helping me improve my life. A) Petapixel is wrong, they've never read the book and are just trying to get clicks and ride on the sexual assault bandwagon. B) There's no "fakeness" to this, there's nothing about shoots or faking interest C) The writer has probably bedded more woman than this entire sub combined. I don't care if anyone reads the book. Often times the "hive mind" and w…
/r/seduction27/12/17 05:24 PM
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Completely disagree. That's not to say you can have higher quality of woman the more status you have, of course you can. But you can still have quality on game alone. That's another problem with seddit. Not every girl that goes to a bar or a club is a slut and worthless, and not every girl that goes to cafes is quality.
/r/seduction27/12/17 09:22 AM
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Status is great, but it's not mandatory. There are guys with money, looks and personality and they can't get laid because they don't know game. The way I see it, it's the easy way out of actually learning game. "Lift" "Focus on yourself" "Focus on money and career" It's bullshit. If you want to learn game all you need is a working dick and the want to fuck girls. You don't need nothing else but that's not to say you shouldn't improve yourself. You should, because game gets easier when you have y…
/r/seduction27/12/17 09:00 AM
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If you're looking for a moderator, I'd be down. I think I can provide a unique insight into women and game that's different from a lot of stuff out there. I would love to give back to the community what I've learned.
/r/seduction27/12/17 05:41 AM
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Disagree, for the most part. Don't put off meeting women until you get your shit together, just get your shit together and also put effort to meet women. There's no need to wait. Just do it now.
/r/seduction26/12/17 09:30 PM
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Work less. Use the money that you do make to create something that will move you in bigger directions. And, it's not that bartenders or club promoters get girls it's that to hold those positions you naturally have be very good socially and a connector of people which almost all women will find attractive. But that's nothing you can't learn. Go out, meet people, socialize, learn how to interact and teach yourself how to be good with women. There's no shortcut. Career matters to a woman but only a…
/r/seduction26/12/17 09:40 AM
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Maximize what you have. Learn to wear skirts and heels, if you have an ugly face you better be damn sure you have a good body. If you wear skirts, heels, sundresses and don't live in leggings plus have a feminine attitude combined with a decent body you're going to have guys approach you. In fact, if you did what I suggested you'd be ahead of a lot of women. Also, if you have a very loud and obnoxious "sarcastic" personality drop that shit. Any girl that states herself as "fluent in sarcasm" wil…
/r/seduction26/12/17 09:30 AM
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I don't watch that show, but just looking up images of April and I can say I find her unattractive. Really though, if guys aren't approaching you its going to be your looks. Lose weight, dress better, learn how to dress like a woman and do make-up.
/r/seduction26/12/17 09:14 AM
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You've been reading too much man, all this post says is that you don't really understand how to attract woman but you think you do. It seems you're going through a break-up, you may feel like turning emotions off right now but that's just not the proper way to live through life. Name one playboy that never felt anything. You can't. That doesn't mean they cried and shit, no. There's a difference between having a short temper and crying all the time compared to sharing a tender moment with a girl.
/r/seduction26/12/17 06:54 AM
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It depends on the girl, there is no one size fits all. Some girls are into a deeper conversation as long as you are teasing her, making it fun and revealing yourself in an interesting way. For example, I've talked to girls and talked about how in nature I feel so free, I learn so much about the world and then I ask them what they think about society and technology changing the way people interact. This almost always ends up in a decent conversation, then you just teaser her. Let's say she says "…
/r/seduction18/12/17 04:33 AM
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Classic move I've done before is when you exit the club, palm a 5,10,20,50 dollar bill (depending on venue) in your hand and walk up to the bouncer. Say thank you for tonight, shake his hand and let him take the bill from your hand. It's a good way to get on a bouncer's good side, which leads to better treatment down the road. The best thing about this is it works anywhere, even if its a shitty college club giving the bouncer a 5 on your way out is a power move. No other college chode is doing t…
/r/seduction17/12/17 06:33 AM
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Respect women, but don't make them a priority in life. Even if doing so gets you laid because in the end you will feel empty. The problem lies is most men think respecting women is being a "yes" man and sacrificing who they are for them thinking it would be sexy. Or respecting them by never challenging her. Challenging her(if you're in a serious relationship) "No, we're not going to do X thing. We're going to do this." when you challenge like that you are basically establishing boundaries which …
/r/seduction15/12/17 08:26 PM
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Sure, It's really straight forward, you write 3 pages of stream of concious writing every morning. They're called "Morning Pages". And you write about anything, today in mind I wrote about my ex, the new job i started, how I might try to fuck my co-worker tonight, and a few other small topics. The idea is you don't want to censor what you write. The reason these pages help is they help clear your brain of random thought fragments and issues that are in your subconcious. You're de-cluttering your…
/r/seduction15/12/17 08:14 PM
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Write 3 pages of stream of concious writing every day, don't censor what you write. If you write "I feel like killing my whole family and friends and spitting on their graves" don't censor it let if flow. Also, don't re-read the pages. You'll find that the first two weeks you will be writing "I don't know what to write" and then after about the 2nd week mark you will start going into deep topics. I've been doing these pages for two years, it changed my life.
/r/seduction15/12/17 06:05 AM
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First thing is first, You have to look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you want to change and that you are going to change. Then once you do committ fully, you won't need advice from others because you will be taking action.
/r/seduction15/12/17 05:25 AM
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Yes, because Tinder doesn't teach you how to approach, attract a girl and deal with the myriad of social situations that game puts you in which will make you stronger. Let's say you see two cute girls at the bar. Whats your move? How do you deal with the friend if the other girl is into you? The thing with game is that when you work on it you not only get laid but you also vastly improve your social skills and ability to assess body language as well as environments. This can lead to not only get…
/r/seduction14/12/17 09:25 PM
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You could be similar to myself, I'll tell myself that I need to work on business ideas and other shit, essentially shutting myself in my room for one-two days. The first few days are great, I get a lot of shit done but then after that, I start feeling depressed. I wonder what's the point of life and other sad shit plus I become very lazy and sleep most of the day away. I'll then catch myself in this loop and remember all of the other times I've felt this way and how I fixed it. The solution I've…
/r/seduction14/12/17 01:39 AM
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I have. The thing is with social awkward and anxiety is you've given it power. You identify as socially awkward and anxious so therefore if you were to remove those things, you would feel like you have lost your identity. And cynical, that's a one-way ticket to not getting girls. Girls aren't that evil man, and when you get more into the game and advance you will notice when a girl is genuine and when she's just whoring for attention. I used to be anxious and somtimes it creeps in. My mentor who…
/r/seduction10/12/17 08:35 PM
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Woman don't rub their thighs if they aren't feeling something. Rubbing is a tension reliever AND she might have been subconsciously getting you to notice one her best features. Especially because you got enticed by it and she obviously knows you did. I'd say it was a lost opportunity and it takes being a certain type of girl for her to open first many woman will not, especially in that environment. Missed opportunity.
/r/seduction09/12/17 06:16 PM
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hey man, thanks for the history lesson.
/r/seduction08/12/17 01:07 PM
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The reason you won't get laid is that you've wrapped your whole identity in it. That's why film, literature and nature are great because they help free the trapped mind. Your mind opens up. Once your mind is open and you've seen the various perspectives then you can begin to relate to the world in a new way, one that is more open to living. You cannot seduce if you don't live. You are so far inside your own head that you cannot live and therefore you cannot seduce. When I read Narcissus And Gold…
/r/seduction08/12/17 01:00 PM
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Not at all, hell sometimes I don't even have my phone with me and if I want a girls number I'll pull out a little notepad of mine with a whole list of others numbers and tell her to write it down. She also can't stalk you.
/r/seduction08/12/17 07:56 AM
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Girl game bro. Whenever a girl asks some stupid question or seems to sit close to you despite lots of seating being available she's almost always interested in you. She's lingering around because she wants you to talk to her.
/r/seduction08/12/17 05:46 AM
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It's an interesting thought, especially if you have a rock solid Instagram. Could try out something like this, DM the girls insta with "Hey sorry, I saw ur Tinder or w.e and I swiped the wrong way" Might have some success. Could also swipe left on all girls, grab their Instagrams and then message them the above opener. Or just message them without mentioning Tinder and run normal Instagame. If you swipe left on a girl, I don't think the same girl will have your profile show up because you alread…
/r/seduction08/12/17 01:03 AM
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Bad hair and beard is kind of ugly. Your hair makes you look younger than you are. You can't change your facial structure, but you can change the way you present yourself. It's important to max the appearance factors that you can change. Once you've done that and you still are ugly, then rock it. Have so much swagger that your ugliness almost makes you look better. Think of people like Serge Gainsbourg or Biggie, ugly dudes but they make it work and ironically are sex symbols. Biggie wouldn't be…
/r/seduction08/12/17 12:53 AM
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Wouldn't read into the "awful things" comment, she needs a reason for giving you the cold shoulder. What else she going to say to a guy she likes? "Sorry I forgot to text you" Girls don't send that if they like you. Of course, life does happen something bad might have truly happened. Hangout, play it cool.
/r/seduction07/12/17 12:10 AM
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I like adding images in my writing, helps with the atmosphere and I just think it helps readability. I can't add images with a reddit text post, which is why everything is on imgur. And I don't want to create a blog.
/r/seduction06/12/17 07:12 AM
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Let her come to you, that's the only way to play it. You already demonstrated a lot of needy behaviours so just chill. She knows you like her, she's not dumb. She also knows you had plans so if she truly wanted to still hang out with you she's gonna text you. You've given all of the power over to her and now it's her move, she either makes one or doesn't. I'm gonna lean on she doesn't and if that's the case it's over. If she texts you four months from now, play it cool.
/r/seduction06/12/17 04:16 AM
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Seddit is level #1, it's very basic And I know I'm going to get a lot of flak for saying that. There's SO much more to seduction than what's depicted here. My advice (and you won't like hearing this) is watch great films, read some classic books and begin to notice the beauty in the world. Spending a lot of time in nature, observing the animals, watching how they interact and how the world interacts with them taught me more about seduction than probably any book or video but you have to prep you…
/r/seduction06/12/17 03:54 AM
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Make a game, let's see if we can find the oldest book in this place. Or take her to the "erotica section" have her read some passages, or try to find the silliest erotica.
/r/seduction06/12/17 03:32 AM
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A girl should turn into a little girl around you. Doesn't work the opposite.
/r/seduction06/12/17 02:50 AM
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Generally open with "hey, hows your night/day going?" Then go from there, cold reads are good when you do them from a place that's genuine. The only time I would go "hey, hows your night?" and then go "you look like a dancer" is if she ACTUALLY looked like a dancer. Otherwise it's just weird. Or let's say you open a girl who obviously is not innocent/good girl. You can say "hey, damn you look like one of the only good girls in here" She's gonna get the joke, because she knows she's not or she mi…
/r/seduction06/12/17 02:27 AM
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Imo, that's a terrible reason to go through all of this work. She's gonna sense that you're insincere and if you're a guy hitting on girls who are working, that's really just signalling low status because you're scared of actually meeting girls who aren't forced to talk to you/be nice. If you responded with a better reason to put in the work, I could see it working. Like you feel theirs a really strong connection. Then that's different because she's gonna feel it and it's coming from a place tha…
/r/seduction06/12/17 02:09 AM
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No, why do you want to go through all of this effort for her.
/r/seduction05/12/17 03:57 AM
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Why do u want her?
/r/seduction04/12/17 11:38 PM
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Are you a chick? I think you are confusing a girl that's interested in you and stops paying attention to you and a girl who's just not that into you or WAS into you but you turned her off. If it's the first, you can either grab another girl that's hot or hotter than her and play the same card she's pulling. You don't even have to grab another girl you can just flirt openly with a hot girl. Shows you have options. If it's a girl who's not into you then you gotta work on your game, lifestyle and a…
/r/seduction04/12/17 08:08 PM
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I think humour is overrated. Yea, it definitely helps but there's a lot more to seduction than making a girl laugh. Also, humour can come out in a variety of ways, you don't have to be cracking jokes to be funny. Think of cats like Steve McQueen does he look like a comedian? Does he act like a comedian? What about Sean Connery as Bond? Sure, he makes witty quips but that's it. He's not a clown. Also, when joking with girls you gotta dumb the content down usually. Most girls won't get really well…
/r/seduction04/12/17 07:51 PM
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You want to make it subtle, especially if she's working. I'd also argue that you should only pick up a girl at work IF you really think the vibe was there. And if you do, make it discreet. Put your number on a piece of paper hand it to her, or when her co-workers are busy. Doing it when people are present puts a lot of pressure on her and she's gotta deal with her co-workers after. I've never once successfully picked up a girl working, plenty of numbers but it never panned out.
/r/seduction04/12/17 07:28 PM
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Man, that's just girls. Don't hate girls for who they are.
/r/seduction04/12/17 07:12 PM
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