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Ty brother. Did the absolute same just apologized to him, offered to apologize to the girls if there were some complaints, and walked out.
/r/seduction28/07/21 10:00 PM
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And actually no btw, I don't have any such groups of hang out spots. I am literally day gaming in the middle of the street in and around bus stops and shopping malls in the more populated parts of the city! Do you suggest I go to meetups to meet the kinds of women I'd be into?
/r/seduction03/08/20 06:43 AM
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Very helpful TY! :)
/r/seduction03/08/20 06:41 AM
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Fantastic comment, REALLY helpful especially with so many variety of insecurities and ticks that we have when it comes to our experiences in dating/appraoching etc.
/r/seduction01/08/20 02:04 AM
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Thanks, brother, I liked the feedback. I Will read up more on these topics. If you know of any super specific articles or videos or podcasts to listen to about my issue specifically then that would be highly appreciated! :)
/r/seduction04/07/20 04:47 PM
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Thanks for the advice guys, going to give it a final comment! Just had something to say as an observation however. We are all on this forum to learn and get better. Like it is LITERALLY... A self development forum. James Bond's and Todd V's don't need self dev in this field at their levels. It's just those that are either out of touch (myself, been out of the game because of a 4+ yr long relationship) or folks that have no experience trying to learn and get better. As much as I do genuinely appr…
/r/seduction28/08/19 07:28 AM
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Thanks. Yeah you're right I'm actually not worried or thinking I did something wrong at all. Everything was and has been super smooth up until this point rn. Folks calling me out on the flirty labels, I only escalated when she did so first and convo has been super smooth and flirty prior to this so far.
/r/seduction27/08/19 10:46 PM
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This is my part. She was complimenting me and called me honey prior to me saying anything, so I'm fairly certain I didn't jump the gun on that one.
/r/seduction27/08/19 10:18 PM
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Interesting. Haven't texted her since this, which was last night, think tonight is good or need I wait longer?
/r/seduction27/08/19 10:16 PM
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Details : - She's been TOTALLY into me so far, and I hate to admit it but I'm really keen and into her as well (too fucking soon I know, can't help it she just seems to have that attractive a personality). We've been going on about this date since I met her this Saturday, this was a Monday night date cancellation, which we were both looking forward to. I haven't replied back yet and don't quite know how to. Any advice/thoughts?
/r/seduction27/08/19 08:08 PM
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Very good advice thank you!
/r/seduction25/08/19 07:35 PM
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Happened to me literally yesterday and I posted about it too.
/r/seduction25/08/19 07:55 AM
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Bro just take a break from your current life if you can and if women and interacting with women is what you want take a month or 3 long vacation/trip to Thailand. Nice chill vibes, everyone's hsppy and enjoying themselves, cheap place to live and female interaction EVERYWHERE!
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:43 PM
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Legit not even kidding when I say this, I maybe should have taken my shirt off at some point when I got home and we were getting comfortable. Could possibly have given the physique card an attempt to sway things in my direction quicker lol. I couldn't figure out how to get anyone to chase me though, or maybe I just didn't have the confidence this first time to have them chase me or who knows. Like my value was high but I don't think I got any girl to chase me for much if anything.
/r/seduction24/08/19 07:22 AM
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Good to hear brother, I am going out solo tonight. Hopefully I get to improve on myself and most importantly enjoy myself. Not going to lie, getting a pull would obviously be the best outcome, but I at least need to start off the process rather than worry about the end result rn.
/r/seduction23/08/19 09:32 PM
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How about you buy us the first round, interest/impress me with your company (make this sound smoother) and the next round's on me.
/r/seduction23/08/19 09:29 PM
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IO What does an IO mean? EDIT : Also I was contemplating going out solo tonight and tomorrow or just tomorrow, but I think your comment sealed the deal for me and I should be going out both nights. Best of luck to me, hopefully the same happens with me as it does with you!
/r/seduction23/08/19 09:27 PM
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Very useful and very accurate. As someone that lifts (and I feel most of us that lift care a lot about our physical appearance just because we have started to invest so much more into it as a hobby) even though statistically and realistically I am better off and more attractive than most others, I never necessarily feel it or at least don't feel it as a point/advantage in my corner/arsenal because it never really gets told by others. I generally go out of my way to tell my guy friends if they're…
/r/seduction23/08/19 09:25 PM
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Thanks for this brother, I appreciate the time and effort you put in to not only read but also to respond! You're right it's a self-limiting belief and I have to just shove it out of my head regardless. My cold approach has definitely gotten better from before (before I had terrible approach anxiety, now not so much, there have been days where I have felt nothing but pure confidence and for lack of a better word purely alpha in myself) but I DEFINITELY don't manage to or really even concentrate …
/r/seduction12/08/19 06:00 AM
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You selling them or just giving them out? I'm interested if it's the latter.
/r/seduction12/08/19 03:17 AM
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Thanks man I needed to read this.
/r/seduction12/08/19 02:48 AM
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I am sad to hear about your tinnitus and the fact that you can't enjoy night game by yourself, but can I pleAse ask if you have some resources or advice for a guy thatr has NEVER done night game and is going to have to experience it solo by himself?
/r/seduction12/08/19 12:27 AM
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You seem to have understood me and my situation quite well from the post. I don't necessarily have any problems or issues with anything else in life, but this fact of not having and or not getting success with women is SERIOUSLY affecting all other aspects of my life now in a very negative way. What's the worst part is that women/other people aren't even that important. Like if I had women it wouldn't add any major value to my life, but NOT being able to get them is affecting myself because I fe…
/r/seduction12/08/19 12:18 AM
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As someone that isn't from Ca and has no clue about the nightclub/bar culture here, and heck I have never been a bar/clubbing kind a guy in my entire life. I NEED to start going out to bars and clubs to solo game on girls. How and where do you suggest I start or look into? Like I walk in alone into the bar, I can grab a drink and then just wait at the bar and talk to people closeby? Do you talk to only solo women? There's a group of women at a booth together, how do you get in and start talking?
/r/seduction11/08/19 05:36 AM
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Well it's really hard when you are living the life that I am living day to day man. All I hear is the same stereo typical jokes about guys going Bob & Vagene (I'm in school rn so yeah kids around) plus the fact that anytime a fucking Indian male dating/discussion topic comes up anywhere it's all about fucking rapes happening back home. My friend that came to Ca like 5 years before me and 3-4 years before this worldwide nationalized case never had any of these issues. Since that day it seems this…
/r/seduction11/08/19 05:20 AM
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I wouldn't know to be honest but are there any dating apps and websites for people with special conditions etc? I'd assume that would be a congregated spot for all similar kinds of women
/r/seduction12/07/19 05:00 PM
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I think you're misunderstanding my intent. You needn't know or get to know everyone. You just continue on with your own life but make yhs effort to make small talk while you're walking around to the bank, to and from the gym at the bus stop whatever. It's not for some ulterior motive to get something out of someone else rather it's more to make yourself a sociable person. Everybody remembers someone they've even had the smallest conversation with if it went nice without wanting something from th…
/r/seduction11/07/19 04:02 PM
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Good job done mate. I am in a similar boat to you, maybe only about 4-6 months ahead. Also remember this is real life, there is no one sentence or line that will always work, not everyone is always attracted to everyone and there is a lot that can factor into sexual availability. To work on approaching females, you work on approaching.... Human beings. Make small talk with ANYONE and EVERYONE , whether at a bus stop, at the mall, just give a girl a compliment and walk away. As you get more comfo…
/r/seduction10/07/19 08:51 PM
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That's the way to go. It's not about the end result, but more about the process. Gjdm! As the numbers go up so will your execution and process in general. And it will do WONDERS for your self esteem anxiety and other things.
/r/seduction10/07/19 06:59 PM
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I second this, don't allow yourself to be on her snaps especially after this experience where it clearly seems she wasted your time just for her own self validation.
/r/seduction10/07/19 06:54 PM
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Why would you, you only learn the BEST from your own mistakes. It seems obvious in hindsight (seemed glaringly obvious to me reading) but it's ok I wasn't in your shoes and wouldn't have expected it either, especially if we had fucked numerous times prior. But yeah it seems pretty clear, she's using you, a 'safe option' as opposed to picking someone random up at a bar, just to make this new person feel jealous. Which finally shows what kind of a demented human being she is, so be careful and alw…
/r/seduction10/07/19 06:52 PM
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Please teach me thy ways! (seriously!)
/r/askTRP26/04/19 02:59 AM
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Read my previous thread I just made man. I went out clubbing for the first time with a triple/quadrupple whammy against me. There were a lot of goods and a lot bads but I wouldn't have enjoyed the good moments and I would have never realized the mistakes I'm making and learn from them if I didn't have the bad moments. I agree with what others are saying. Don't go in with the mindset of 'getting girls'. Just go in there to make friends and have fun. Both guys and girls because everyone is always …
/r/seduction25/04/19 10:59 PM
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Perhaps. But you're looking at it with the wrong perspective. Don't hate the player (the girls) hate the game (the way they/we as humans behave.). You can't change the rules of the game. No one can. You can decide to 'take your ball and go home' or you can decide to best prepare yourself for the game, and game the system itself.
/r/seduction25/04/19 10:46 PM
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Dude, it's so infuriating especially because you are helpless in an online scenario (a LOT more than IRL game at least!). Like I am a transformation coach myself(so in very good shape, witty, 6'2 etc etc), and I helped one of my clients who has now become one of my best buddies, he's 19, lost about 30 pounds and got jacked along the process as well. This dude, my pothead skinny video gaming every class failing roommate, and one of our common friends, and pretty much anyone that I know on Tinder.…
/r/seduction25/04/19 10:38 PM
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When i look at my 6 matches compared to my friends' 250+ matches in the same time span, it gets really disheartening. I start thinking more and more often that i'm not attractive and lose confidence. But I know that's not the case, the app is completely different from reality. Literally the EXACT situation I'm in. Cold approached 6-7 girls in the past week and got a LOT better interaction out of them IRL than I did online. It REALLY packs a punch to your ego and your self confidence when you KNO…
/r/seduction25/04/19 09:49 PM
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That's alright man, learn from your mistakes and pick yourself up. Beating yourself up (like I've done many times) gets you nowhere but feeling worse about something that only you and her know. Just make sure to do everything to avoid feeling how you feel right now, the next time!
/r/seduction25/04/19 08:19 PM
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If you believe a beautiful stranger is out of your league, I'd advise you to work on your self-esteem… I agree, this is so important and has been one of my limiting factors. What's more annoying is I am cognizant of the fact that I have 'sucess' in most if not all other aspects of my life as well, from looks, to physique, to charm, wit, humour, intelligence, career etc etc. Yet STILL because I have been out of the game for so long and the fact that I never went ALL IN to game/approach developmen…
/r/seduction25/04/19 08:17 PM
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Yes but there's really no way to tell until you approach and find out whether they are friendly/into it or not. If not they'll just say so and you walk away wishing them a good day!
/r/seduction24/04/19 03:05 PM
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bruh
/r/seduction24/04/19 02:57 AM
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Genuinely never thought about this, but a very interesting POV.
/r/seduction24/04/19 02:44 AM
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Bro, I've been beating myself up HARD this past 24 hours. I found this amazing tall asian girl just walking by herself and walk past me. She was walking so fast that I had to run/jog behind her to catch up and try and chat with her. She had her earphones in and wasn't able to hear me I guess and at the last second I just gave up.... But I hate myself for just giving up and walking away instead of at least just engaging in conversation. If she was busy or uninterested she would have just told me …
/r/seduction23/04/19 10:13 PM
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Alright I will look into it and search up on it a bit more! Thanks for you advice!
/r/seduction23/04/19 06:09 PM
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Alright, thanks for the advice and the support! I just haven't done too many of them yet, getting back into the swing of things myself and learning and improving my game from here on out.
/r/seduction23/04/19 06:04 PM
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Alright will try and make it longer, probably around 10-ish minutes if possible from next time onwards. Will work on the charm/humour game from some of the other examples out there (if you have any suggestions please do let me know!)
/r/seduction23/04/19 05:55 PM
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I will take a look thank you!
/r/seduction23/04/19 03:34 PM
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Thank you for this! As someone that just came out of a 4 year relationship with a girl I thought was going to be the mother of my children it hits very similar and hard. I won't lie that I have been losing confidence in myself since I have been getting rejected (though I have been blundering too, and thankfully only now am I realizing those blunders, plus remembering to not take rejection personally.) I have never gone to bars and clubs to pick up women but I know I will be now. I cold day game …
/r/seduction23/04/19 02:46 AM
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Set on the marriage plan you mean? Hell no. I want to stay as far away from it as possible. I am just unclear of what other options I have. I was actually thinking about making her get her own place on rent in her own name as well. We could live in mine, but she will be working and paying rent on the place in her name the entire time. Yes it would be a 'waste' of money but I'd rather do that and practice it for the next 5 years and figure out where life can go than fuck it up right now. I won't …
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 09:01 PM
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Yes I am Indian, but my girl is Chinese, just from back home, India. I guess one of the 'benefits' for my side is that she kind of has no one really but myself. Her family is an inept bunch of cunts that make her daily life miserable, she has some aunts and distant cousins in Canada who she asked for, for help to get here but they totally shot her down and basically 'imprisoned' her distant grandmother who was willing to cough up for her education and visa to get over here. It's just a complete …
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 08:05 PM
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..... I'm not trying to get rid of her... This is someone that I actually like. I'm just trying to best safeguard myself while figuring out a way in which we can explore living a life together. I genuinely care and do love this woman. I am quite convinced that she won't fuck me over. But I want everything in writing and to make sure that there aren't any fucking loopholes anywhere. She isn't forcing me to do a single thing. The circumstances are such. We love each other, but we are in different …
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 07:43 PM
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Well you don't have to advise her to get a lawyer but then the prenup isn't valid in Canada no matter what she signs... So you really are shooting yourself in the foot right off the bat. Interesting hadn't thought of that. Would also clarify that with my lawyer if required. If you have a prenup in another country I would not expect Canada to uphold it unless you can prove the requirements Canada has for a valid prenup and if you come from a 3rd world nation that is going to be next to impossible…
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 06:18 AM
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Curious as to why/how an immigration lawyer might be able to help me out better than a divorce lawyer for a question on marriage and divorce? Or am I missing something?
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 04:53 AM
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No, it's "You can not lose if you do not play." They have different meanings.
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 04:52 AM
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THANK YOU, this is hopefully going to turn out to be very valuable advice, or at least a source to find information on. Would getting a prenup in Canada be a requirement or would it still be the same if I got the prenup done and made back in my home country? If getting a prenup in Canada is important, how would I figure out a method of getting her to sign a prenup here? Bring her over on a tourist visa, get the work done and then go from there? I guess these are questions to be asking a legal co…
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 04:49 AM
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Well, I don't know how accurate that would be. I don't know jack about legal laws here in Ca w.r.t marriage. That absolute best advice I guess I could probably get would be either someone that has managed to do it already here, OR a divorce lawyer with a lot of experience. I might just end up going to a divorce lawyer to get this piece of advice in the future. But for now I was wondering if anyone knows of others that have done and managed the same or not.
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 04:28 AM
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Apparently TRP means you have to become a cunt of a person to all women. I don't like being a cunt of a person to anyone, including women. I understand most principles of TRP etc but I also don't like to hurt for no reason whatsoever. I am NOT interested in getting attached not one to give false hope, I would rather straight up tell them and know the easiest way how. Apparently TRP means you bang and buck. I would never 'use and throw' a mate who is helping me, similarly I wouldn't like to do so…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 05:24 AM
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When you say read the side bar, that thing is massive which part here applies to him? I'd be interested to give it a read as well.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 09:46 AM
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