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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 30 | At a loss | theChad-2303 | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 06:18 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Possible infidelity is living rent free in my head.Hey amigo, I’m in a similar situation. Almost sounds like the last year and a half of my marriage before she left. STBXW I’m for sure was cheating on me for at least a year. She hid our daughter’s pregnancy from me for 6 months and until I got a paternity test I finally got closure that she is my daughter. She even had the 3rd party take a paternity test 3 months before I found out. She provided that in her divorce papers. I struggle with the thought of her and this guy being together. But while… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | At a lossThank you all for your amazing support through this nightmare I’m going through. I thought I’d post again and clarify somethings. I suppose I miss typed my original post. I was not in criminal court. I was in family court. I’m not too familiar with all the legal language yet lol. The judge DID side with my STBXW. She lied the whole way through her testimony. I’ve read some other people’s responses and it does seem like the judge was covering her ass. So at the end of my court session on last Fri… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/25 04:13 PM |
| 1 | At a lossI did start a journal. Same day Amazon delivery is a great thing! I must say, this has been very therapeutic for me. It’s just one entry but I feel a lot better. I addressed it to my children and I will give it to them at some point. I had thought of making a box for them with pictures, my wedding ring, and other items that I saved for them from my marriage. I hope one day they appreciate it and see their mother and I did love each other at one point. As a child of divorced parents seeing photos… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/25 09:04 AM |
| 2 | AITA - Seeking spousal support from my soon to be exGet it! | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/25 08:55 AM |
| 3 | I have the kids yet Ex is hen pecking. What do I do?I feel like I’m at point A with your journey. I caught a bogus DV accusation based on my STBXW lies in court. It’s cost me everything. I completed my first court ordered “parenting” class over the weekend (I was in court Friday) and I have my first monitored visit with my children tomorrow. I’m hoping for a just resolution for your situation. I don’t have any input for your questions but I hope I can learn something from your situation and from others stories. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/25 08:53 AM |
| 1 | At a lossFunny I do scrap metal on occasion lol. Thankfully for me I run a family construction company. But I agree, this could have an effect on me if the business folds and I have to job hunt. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 10:57 PM |
| 1 | How did you make it work?While my situation is in its infancy, it’s been an astronomical financial burden on me. I’ve been fortunate enough to have family help me with my legal fees. But I’m considering filing bankruptcy at the end of this. Particularly one major mistake I made was renting a condo suited for myself and my children BEFORE my DV hearing was over. As per my previous post, I do NOT have overnights yet. But I guess the money I’m spending on rent and surviving on is worth it because I’d probably have to pay h… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 10:33 PM |
| 5 | At a lossWow, I just googled it. Exactly what happened to me. Un-fucking-believable… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 09:28 PM |
| 2 | At a lossMy son is 6 years old who was a “witness” to the alleged DV. When my STBXW was on the stand they allowed her version of his statement to stand but when it was my turn it was “hearsay” due to his age. He knows what she said isn’t true but I could never ask my child to sit on the stand at that age. I’d fall on the sword before I let that happen. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 09:11 PM |
| 1 | 🎉 Success: 50/50 Custody Secured 🎉This is exactly what I needed to hear today. I’m on ground zero of what you went through. I felt like I was reading my own court story. You have opened the curtains to this hell I’m living in and I finally see light. Thank you, I will overcome this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Kids’ extracurricular/sports scheduling apps are a toxic narcissistic woman’s wet dreamDid we marry the same person? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Outside of the gym, what are some healthy habits I could form to get me through this?That’s the one thing I miss post separation. I miss the good morning texts/calls, calls from the kids, or just to call and say what’s up. Granted, most of that ended months before separation but that’s what I long for in a future relationship. I hope one day find that again. Especially someone who isn’t like my ex! | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 06:57 PM |
| 2 | At a lossYes, California | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 06:46 PM |
| 2 | At a lossNo, it was family court. I wasn’t arrested, no jail time, and I’m not exactly sure if I was “convicted”. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | At a lossYour story is heartbreaking. I just can’t walk away from my kids. I love them too much. I wouldn’t be able to live with myself knowing I walked away. I know every person and situation is different. I just can’t do that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 06:08 PM |
| 1 | At a lossAs terrible as that sounds I can believe that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 02:46 PM |
| 1 | At a lossI just don’t know if I can finically support an appeal. The debt from my marriage, my attorney’s fees, now child support, classes, and just living is overwhelming. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 02:43 PM |
| 1 | At a lossMy children are 6 and 10 months old. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 02:37 PM |
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