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All advice here must come from RP perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/17 08:16 PM
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What to do When Your Captain Won't Lead
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/17 07:57 PM
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OP, you must contribute to the comments on your post if you want it to remain active. There's a rule in this sub about that.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/17 07:55 PM
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I've looked into this and sent you a PM.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/17 01:12 PM
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Could be that the post was just not relevant to the sub.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 03:28 PM
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Marking this NSFW, better safe than sorry!
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 06:21 AM
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I'm not sure, I've never had that happen. My guess is that it was removed for not following the subs guidelines? But I really don't know, this sounds like a very specific problem.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 04:45 AM
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You are looking for /r/theredpill and/or /r/asktheredpill.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/17 03:07 AM
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No bashing the community or its members. There are plenty of liberal-progressive members here, that's not why people give you a hard time.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 09:35 PM
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I think this discussion had gone as far at it can and is devolving into personal attacks. Post locked.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 03:38 PM
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No personal attacks. Don't assume you know why her boyfriend for our didn't want to know things.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 03:33 PM
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we might need to move this to another thread or to PM Yes, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 05:52 AM
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Off topic. Posts removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 05:34 AM
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Oh, a new orbiter, how wonderful. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 09:47 PM
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RPW promotes commitment and exclusivity before sex.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 09:43 PM
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Its more than fine, your question was asked genuinely, I believe, and I think its generating some good discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 05:50 PM
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You've already asked this question in a post.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 05:03 PM
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FWB is not something we encourage here. Your advice must be from a RP stance.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 04:54 PM
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PLEASE KEEP YOUR LOCATION APPROXIMATE AND DO NOT INCLUDE SPECIFIC IDENTIFYING INFORMATION. There is a strict anti-doxxing rule and anonymity we need to keep here for everyone's safety IRL. Anything deemed too specific will be removed by the moderating team. Thank you for your cooperation.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 04:45 PM
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I've gotten a few reports about this post because of the 'no feminism' rule here. I'm going to allow this post to stay for discussion's sake, but let's keep it civil and remember to follow the community's rules. If this devolves into bashing each other or RP, it will be locked and/or removed.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 04:38 PM
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You could say that. Thank you for your question.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 05:38 PM
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If you look at our side bar it says that it's a sexual strategy, hence the emphasis on sex.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 05:31 PM
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We don't insult members of this community or our parent community, aka TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 05:30 PM
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And next I'll ban you.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/17 02:13 AM
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Advice must be from a RP stance.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/17 10:51 PM
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BP advice, and not great advice at that.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/17 10:50 PM
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Aaaand banned.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 09:14 PM
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I'm sorry my answer wasn't helpful and I'm sorry you're so aggressively opposed to our cult. We'll brain wash you one way or another, sooner or later, all will bow to the all mighty patriarchy.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 07:12 PM
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Red Pill is a sexual strategy that helps men discover their true nature, not what feminist media would have you believe masculine nature is. It helps level the playing field between men and women. Women don't need a guide because we already have the upper hand. RPW is for women who want to better themselves despite their nature. Don't lurk here, this space isn't for you. Learn what you can from the men at TRP but don't get wrapped up in the anger phase with some of the men there. Learn from thei…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 06:56 PM
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Then that's what we'll do.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 06:25 PM
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It goes against the rules of the sub. If it's something you want to talk about, purple pill debate would probably be a good spot for it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 06:22 PM
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Comments and posts must be made from an RPW perspective. RPW's official stance is monogamy in relationships. Post removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 06:17 PM
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lol, hit the REPORT button or tag one of us by using the /u/ method. Or use your rape whistle.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 04:18 PM
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You can consider this strike one, pal. We want men's input but women are not going to come here to have men shit all over them. We love /u/JackGetsIt and /u/Loneliness-Inc, /u/VigilantRedRooster and a few others I'm forgetting. They're honest, they're tactful, they're red pill. Real captains I'm sure women would be fighting over if we knew them in real life.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 04:15 PM
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This is a discussion post, not a solicitation of advice post, notice the flair.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 02:38 AM
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This is not PPD, if you want to have a civil discussion that's fine but don't detail the conversation from the OP and respect our posting rules. Please and thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 02:33 AM
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You need to learn to play nice with our community members. Take 24 hours.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 02:26 AM
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It is not, we have a pretty strict anonymity rule here due to the sensitive nature of our sub.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 02:31 AM
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We do NOT allow the sharing of personal information of this sub. This is your only warning. Do not solicit personal info about people!
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 02:15 AM
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If you're not a fan of these posts than scroll past them.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 02:37 AM
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Just trolls trolling! 😊
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 02:36 AM
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Let's all play nice...
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/17 02:10 AM
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Bye Felicia!
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/17 02:03 AM
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Compare that with you sneakily getting pregnant and telling him it is his. That shit is just plain evil. This was unnecessary.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/17 01:59 AM
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Putting BMI in the posts is not a requirement and it will never be. If you think it's relevant, ask, but we aren't going to mandate that a woman include it if she doesn't want to disclose that kind of information.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/17 01:53 AM
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Everyone is here to learn something and there is no official RPW stance on pornography.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 01:11 PM
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No petting the unicorns
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 01:10 PM
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And I get it, but it isn't one that women are going to appreciate.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 04:52 PM
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If you found things helpful then that's great. However this conversation is overrunning the comments section of a post and really isn't on topic to the post. Please continue this conversation somewhere else.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 04:51 PM
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Mm, mostly because this is a woman's forum and women won't find that funny.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 03:17 PM
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Low effort response. Come back with a fully fleshed out comment to contribute.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 03:37 PM
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Witty sarcasm we can deal with and appreciate but this is just bad.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 03:27 PM
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All posts and comments here need to be from a RP perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 03:25 PM
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We aren't here to come up with solutions for you to shoot down. If you did all of this well, you wouldn't be having a problem. If you're having a problem, it's because you aren't doing it nearly as well as you think.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 03:09 PM
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Yes there is a red pill parenting subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/17 12:24 PM
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Actually the rules decide what's on topic, not me and not you. Take 48 hours to read the guidelines for posting. See you in two days.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/17 04:59 PM
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You need to go to the sidebar and read the rules for posting as a man on RPW... Take 72 hours to look it over and absorb it all...
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/17 01:40 AM
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Take it to TRP or MGTOW...
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/17 01:38 AM
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Your opinion and your standards, not a golden rule.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/17 01:38 AM
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Funny, but off topic. Take the one man show somewhere else....
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/17 01:37 AM
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OP, you have now asked your SMV/RMV questions in two different posts and received comments and answers that range from hilarious to helpful but have only proved to be argumentative in return. This is what our community has for you, whether you find it helpful or not.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 04:38 AM
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OP, you have now asked your SMV/RMV questions in two different posts and received comments and answers that range from hilarious to helpful but have only proved to be argumentative in return. This is what our community has for you, whether you find it helpful or not.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 04:37 AM
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Do NOT ask for photos or identifying information on this sub. It's a rule and you will be banned if you break this rule again.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 04:29 AM
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Do NOT ask to Skype or meet people in our community! This is an anonymous place and is a direct violation of a subreddit rule. Given the sensitive nature of our sub it just isn't safe for anyone to reveal personally identifying I formation.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 12:43 AM
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All right! Time to bag me a BB sucker!
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 07:47 PM
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If you have something you want to say, say it. But follow the posting rules.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 06:47 PM
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RPW is for women. I will refer you to TRP which is for men and advise you to read the sidebar material for your curiosity before asking or posting in either sub as most of your questions would be answered.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 05:15 PM
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While some of your post is gold, some of it is unnecessarily harsh for a healthy discussion. Please read our (posting guidelines for men)[https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/4n3o19/commitment_or_gtfo_guide_for_men_considering/] and edit your post. Then I'll approve it. Thank you so much.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 06:39 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 06:26 PM
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TRP does not endorse "treating women like shit". Also, insulting the community is not allowed here.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 06:22 PM
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Feel free to debate here, but please do not generalize about TRP. We are not to insult the community of its members.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 06:20 PM
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Just to clarify, TRP and MGTOW are two separate movements. While there may be some over lap in thought, let's not lump the two together. They're distinct from each other.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 06:18 PM
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burden of proof This isn't court. This is a place for debate and discussion. If you think he's wrong, throw your opinion in the ring.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 06:16 PM
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Sure, I need your country/state and major city you're closest to.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 10:04 PM
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Do not insult community members. First and last warning.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 09:55 PM
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Hello, I am currently compiling a confidential database of cities and places of RPW in hopes of arranging meet ups in the future. If you could PM me, I'll add you to my list.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 09:27 PM
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LADIES AND GETS, PLEASE report the trolls after you give them a hard time!
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 11:59 PM
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Take your questions over to TRP. No petting the unicorns!
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/16 02:57 PM
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You are being unneccesarily aggressive and rude for no reason. Comments removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 10:56 PM
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I'm not above her, and she's not above me This sentence suggests that you think this sub believes men are better than women. We do not. Men and women have equally important, complementary roles in the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 07:36 PM
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Dread is an accepted RP theory and we do not bad mouth RP or members of TRP here. Edit out your last sentence and I'll approve your comment.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 03:09 PM
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We do not encourage or allow members to ask/send pics or identifying information about themselves. Comment removed and you have been warned. I will ban you if I see this rule broken again.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 02:51 PM
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My best advice would be that if he won't commit, keep being his plate/FWB if the sex is good, but get out there and date other men until you find one who wants the same thing you do! Don't waste some of your best years pursuing a relationship that probably isn't going anywhere. (In all fairness, you should probably tell him that since he has rejected exclusivity, you're going to exercise your option to be non-exclusive as well.) This is not RPW advice. We do not condone these choices.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/16 08:48 PM
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This advice flies in the face of RPW theory. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/16 08:47 PM
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Yes, discussion is always encouraged.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/16 03:08 PM
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She's right. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/16 02:56 PM
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Mmm well rationalize it how you want but we don't allow it here.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/16 03:32 AM
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Its the way you said it. I'm sure you know what I'm talking about.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/16 03:16 AM
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There's a surprise. TRP sucks all the fun out of life like a spider draining a dead fly. Oh he'll never trust her. Under the doctrine of TRP, all women are untrustworthy retarded children. I am unable to grasp why anyone (women), after realizing this would still be ready willing and able to remain and attempt to make a go of the relationship. But then again TRP sort of poo-poos love in general.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/16 02:00 AM
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Your comments are breaking or rules of not bashing TRP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/16 12:31 AM
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RP theory states that riding the CC affects pair bonding and we do not recommend it here, regardless of the exceptions some may have.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/16 12:20 AM
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This isn't relevant to the post or our community. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/16 03:28 PM
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We've been being brigaded by another sub the last day or so. This is most likely the cause for the down voting.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 05:35 PM
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We do want men to participate here. I think the men that contribute here regularly give indispensable advice. It's just the occasional man who doesn't get it. That's what the mods are for. There's also a post on the sidebar that gives guidelines for men who want to post here.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 06:22 PM
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This is not helpful, nice or on topic. Be careful what you post in our community.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 12:40 AM
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The only stance RPW makes is that commitment and exclusivity be made before sex.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 12:36 AM
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As much as men enjoy sleeping around we do not want to marry a women who has slept around. Yes this is hypocritical but you can't negotiate attraction; The RP paradox that most people get hung up on.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/16 04:23 PM
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Please read our posting rules before commenting on posts. Yours is neither helpful nor following the rules.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/16 03:05 PM
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Really solid advice!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 03:19 AM
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I was just about to sticky it as well.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/16 04:48 PM
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As with addressing any problem, one should not use "you" statements ("You make me feel like" "you embarrass me"). State the problem in clear, unemotional terms. Avoid saying things like "I think you should" or "I have seen" because this places you in a position of authority or superiority. However you say it, you must say it carefully.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 09:39 PM
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Welcome to RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 09:36 PM
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While everyone's limit is different, bringing it up unobtrusively and nagging is a fine fine line and what that should be treaded carefully. When men feel nagged, they are going to dig their heels in and be uncooperative.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 09:35 PM
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Appreciated!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 12:44 AM
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I found the only way to try and mend these issues would be to present them to him directly. This is a route one may take however, if he does not take steps to rectify a problem you have brought him it is because he sees it as a non-issue and you shouldn't bring it up again; this is nagging. There is a fine line between bringing your captain a problem and nagging.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 12:36 AM
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Here, on RPW, we do think it's a poor idea to have casual sex or sex without commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 12:31 AM
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Not sure why the automod removed your post, maybe because it was long? Either way, you're all set now.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/16 05:07 PM
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Doxxing is a huge concern, I wouldn't trust reporters to keep my anonymity. But you're also right, they're probably not above making up quotes.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/16 05:01 PM
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No one here is advocating staying with an addict, alcoholic or abuser. These are specific situations in which RP does not apply.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/16 06:06 PM
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Stay on topic, please.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/16 06:04 PM
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This is not RP advice.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/16 08:24 AM
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That in itself will increase your SMV. I just wanted to clarify here that your level of education does not correlate with your SMV. Correct me if I'm wrong but you meant being happy and fulfilled would increase your SMV?
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/16 11:42 PM
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This is not relevant to the conversation. Stay on topic.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/16 07:36 PM
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I just went and approved your replies. In the future please notify the moderating team that you need responses approved. We can't help if we don't know there is a problem!
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/16 03:51 PM
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This sub and the advice and opinions given on it should be from the RPW POV. If you want to give other kinds of advice there are other subs for that.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/16 08:43 PM
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This is not advice, red pill or otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/16 06:05 PM
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Some of your comment is bad mouthing TRP and its practices, something we don't do here. Please be mindful of the posting rules here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/16 06:01 PM
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When posting on RPW please make sure your comments are keeping in line with the sub reddit rules for male posters. Large parts off your comment may be accurate at TRP but are not helpful in this environment.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/16 05:36 PM
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Stay on topic.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/16 01:27 PM
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