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| 3 | STFU results in, "I know what that means." | Field Report | the_Zambony | /r/askMRP | 21/08/15 07:39 PM |
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| 2 | Need advice on divorce or working on marriage again with MRPyou think that you can negotiate attraction. Not sure where I gave this impression? | /r/askMRP | 27/06/16 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Need advice on divorce or working on marriage again with MRPGoing through the divorce process, your stbxw figured out the better deal (path of least resistance) is staying with you rather than going on her own; post wall, kid in tow, low wage living, sifting through the spectrum of men with a low chance of finding one to support her in a lifestyle she is accustomed/entitled to. Here is your biggest takeaway from her recent behavior. Once she agreed to your terms to get you to recommit ("I said I'm OK to try again,"), she immediately starts shit testing t… | /r/askMRP | 27/06/16 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Sexy Wifeyou should be gawd damn ecstatic to watch her progress. Ops problem was his wife is now entertaining other people with her new found confidence via raised smv and does not know how to deal. becoming more outgoing and wanting to hang out with friends etc... Indicates having a higher smv alone is not working for him. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/16 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Is Dread Working?My 12 year old son came to us with his understanding that his life will not be complete unless he got to go to DL. Of course, the wife was immediately on board, me not so much. "We will take a look at the possibility but no promises." A little research of the costs, the current fiscal situation/budget, and a 1 year plan was put in place to raise/save for a family trip to the magic kingdom. Separate account established. Small percentage of earnings (mine, wife's, kids) diverted. Kids tasked with … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/06/16 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Absolutely love my LTR to death. Not as a women but as a human being. But she doesn't sexually satisfy me. She fucks me everyday but I'm still not satisfied and still don't know what to do.Ive brought it up enough times. This is a big part of the problem. Suggest reading The Sex God Method by Daniel Rose. I can validate cheating in my own mind No such thing, cheating is pure lack of character. If no head is a deal breaker, then man up and end the relationship. Short story; my current ltr refused head when we first got together. Claimed she was forced into it by asshole date. I never brought it up, continued eating/fucking her for almost a year. Once she understood/became comfortab… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/16 02:33 PM |
| 0 | Adding a Dildo to the Bedroom Arsenal. Alpha or Beta ?If you are sliding the dildo into her pussy at the same time you are sliding your cock into her mouth, then not beta. Get a dildo same size or smaller than you. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/16 02:19 PM |
| 5 | girl suddenly takes 1-2 days to respond to my texts to meet up"Since you did not get back to me, made other plans. Maybe next time. " | /r/askTRP | 28/05/16 10:35 AM |
| 1 | "What are you thinking" ltr asks"I am thinking of you; naked, tied up, with whip cream covering your tits and pussy." | /r/askMRP | 25/05/16 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Caught wife on Dating site, found out she is seeing someone.The only thing you've done right is contact the posom's wife. Trying to influence the piece of shit other man is a waste of time. Showing your wife you will not tolerate infidelity (i.e. you hhve back bone ) is much more effective. Look up 'the healing heart -the 180. Read it, understand it, internalize it, and implement it. Contact a lawyer and get separation papers and custody agreement drawn up that heavily favors you. Get this done asap. Spend s much time as you can get with your son, ignore… | /r/askMRP | 25/05/16 12:22 AM |
| -3 | How do you get another guy off advancing on your girlMy pat answer... You can fuck my girlfriend, but only if I am fucking you in the ass | /r/askTRP | 18/05/16 04:29 PM |
| 4 | Game Calibration for "Good Girls"? Withholding sex on 3rd date after 2nd date lay.For your next date, I would not try to recreate the 2nd date, i.e. same places, same activities. Go for something different with similar components (energy, fun, light, sexy.) | /r/askTRP | 17/05/16 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Insufficient boundaries or absence of attraction?Her words, justification of her behavior is meaningless and until you stand up for yourself, she will continue to disrespect you. Her actions are her way of seeing how much of her bullshit you will put up with. Look up the 180, understand it, internalize it, implement it. Show her your willingness to end the marriage. She may or may not respond as you would like, but that is not the point of the 180. Good luck. | /r/askMRP | 13/05/16 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Insufficient boundaries or absence of attraction?Easy. If it is so harmless then it should no problem to cut that shit out. Delivered with a smile. | /r/askMRP | 13/05/16 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Insufficient boundaries or absence of attraction?You can not control other guys behavior but you can control the situation. If your wife is responding inappropriately to advances from other guys, it is time to leave with your wife. Be polite, pleasant, and firm. Honey, it's time to go. No need to explain why. If she gives you a hard time or outright refuses, remain firm. The bottom line is she leaves with you or she doesn't come home at all. Have divorce papers drawn up heavily favoring you and ready to sign. | /r/askMRP | 12/05/16 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Insufficient boundaries or absence of attraction?Flirting with other guys in front of you is a show of massive disrespect (in my book anyway.) Disrespect = lack of attraction, i.e. she could care less about you. There is nothing you can do about other guys flirting /hitting on your wife, how her behavior should be addressed. Set boundaries (no flirting with guys) , the consequences for crossing them (the marriage is now an open one or terminated, your choice) and enforced (you actually follow through. ) | /r/askMRP | 12/05/16 08:43 PM |
| 1 | [Update] Confronting wife about emotional affairLook dopamine vs oxytocin for some insight on the addiction withdrawal your wife is going through. Chad was giving her some major tingles and will take some time to get over. That is of course she maintains no contact. | /r/askMRP | 09/05/16 03:53 PM |
| 2 | My dick is brokenHave your T levels checked. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/16 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Question about activities that can substitute liftingIt's not really a substitute but swimming is the best all around excersize as it uses every muscle in your body. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/16 09:14 PM |
| 2 | GF broke up with me. Not what I want. Calls next day 2x times. Not sure how to proceed.she calls me two times, first just to bullshit, second to bullshit again, She wants you on the hook. Go no contact. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/16 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl with boyfriendLast thing I need is a girl trying to get the upper hand for free stuff. Another thing to consider, if she is interested, you escalate, and the boyfriend finds out. He could easily extract some revenge on you by informing your other clients of your "piece of shit" ways. Best advice, don;t shit where you eat. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/16 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Shit test..?She does not want to honor her wedding vows, marriage , so if you break them, she is off the hook. | /r/askMRP | 19/04/16 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Good books to help with comedic/witty talkDouble your dating by david deangilo | /r/askTRP | 18/04/16 05:07 PM |
| -3 | How to deal with girlfriend trying to make you jealous and mentioning other guys texting her.he's so annoying Take her phone and reply back to him, "you can come over and fuck me, but only if my boyfriend can fuck you in the ass at the same time." | /r/askTRP | 18/04/16 05:04 PM |
| 4 | New guy question: income disparity.Dollar wise, my wife earns 3x what I do. Does this mean I should grovel at her feet and worship her highness? Fuck no. | /r/askMRP | 15/04/16 04:41 PM |
| 12 | Girlfriends ex coming to town for 10 days. She's meeting him.Girls don't meet up with exes they don't still like. Conversely, a girl with a high interest level in you, would not be meeting up with an ex boyfriend. So is there a way of preventing this Follow u/chief_slap_ahoe 's advice. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/16 12:17 PM |
| 1 | When is Reconciliation Worth it?maintain the leverage I have as the one that took her back. This will not last beyond you saying you will take her back. You will be living a constant battle of suspicion, paranoia, and regret. What you thought you had in a marriage and wife prior to discovery, is gone, long gone. The woman who is now begging at your feet is not the same woman. She is no longer the woman you met, fell in love with, married, and started a life with. Don't tolerate shitty behavior, be on top of my game, and truly … | /r/askMRP | 11/04/16 12:21 PM |
| 1 | When is Reconciliation Worth it?how to be a successful drug dealer Success is only temporary in the drug business. | /r/askMRP | 11/04/16 12:04 PM |
| 6 | LTR submitting to me more, but feels uncomfortable.Read "When I Say No, I Feel Guilty." | /r/askTRP | 09/04/16 11:59 AM |
| 3 | To Pick Up, or Not to Pick Up?so I told her if no one else could do it I will do it. Sounds like a commitment, is honoring your commitments important to you? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/16 12:50 PM |
| 4 | Should I end a 2 year LTR over unsatisfactory sex?It's not very good anymore. Suggests the sex was at least satisfying at first, indicates loss of attraction. we also only see each other weekends, 1.5 hrs away Long distance relationships are a bitch to maintain. If the LDR is going to continue for an extended time period and you cannot turn around the sex (SGM,) then it is time to pull the plug. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/16 12:37 PM |
| 2 | I installed software on LTRs phone about 6 months ago, recently she started trying to talk chad...Look up Dopamine vs Oxytocin and The Lover - Provider Dichotomy. http://raymondinegypt.tripod.com/articles-04/love-chemistry.htm | /r/askMRP | 06/04/16 11:57 AM |
| 0 | On Ovulation Dependent Libidoshe says sex is painful when she's not ovulating Ever heard of lube? "not fucking her is stupid as fuck." QFT. | /r/askMRP | 04/04/16 06:53 PM |
| 1 | What is life like for a true RP man as he gets older?Check out The Blackdragon Blog. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/16 12:24 PM |
| 10 | Red Pill Toolkit: Digital tools to help wash down that jagged pillCurious. Why is owning a dog (unless it is a pitbull or doberman) a red flag? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/16 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Does she actually enjoy giving BJs?My chick sheepishly explained (unsolicited) it this way, "It is something I know you like and it's fun." | /r/askMRP | 28/03/16 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Interesting cheating question - ltrshould i even bring it up? Why, what do you gain? IMHO, all you will do is make yourself look weak. get the truth out of her? Trickle truth and DARVO is about all you will get. so it would count as cheating So this means you are willing to enforce boundaries by breaking up with her. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/16 12:06 PM |
| 3 | How do I look? No, really, is it ok? Are you sure? Are you sure that you're sure?Tell her, "You would look better in this." Then pull out some of her lingerie. | /r/askMRP | 23/03/16 05:06 PM |
| 2 | What comes next?My biggest Achilles heel is STFU and maintaining frame. In the face of a separation/divorce, look up "The Healing Heart - the 180" as a way to deal with disconnecting from your stbxw. other guy is just in her daydreams, how to I combat that? This is referred to as the "affair fog." Your wife has been getting dopamine hits/rushes from this other guy. It acts the same as a drug addiction. The other problem is that most affair partners are viewed within the context of a fantasy world they have crea… | /r/askMRP | 22/03/16 12:26 PM |
| 3 | FR: California"Yeah, when I realized my approach wasn't working, I just stopped." When you can demonstrate that you know the game, the truth comes out. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/16 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Quick question: I play the guitar, thoughts on singing semi-blue pill songs to GF? Good, bad?Learn to play Romanza. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_6RkGvZ9zGo I saw an interview on Howard Stern show with some magician and his hot girlfriend. One question to his girlfriend was, 'why are you with this guy?' Her response was, 'his hands,' as she was running hers up and down his arms with that DDB look. Message - it's all in the hands/fingers. | /r/askMRP | 18/03/16 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Quick question: I play the guitar, thoughts on singing semi-blue pill songs to GF? Good, bad?Bang Your Head! | /r/askMRP | 18/03/16 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Looking for guidanceHave you heard an apology for treating you like shit, for disrespecting you, for cheating on you, for lying to you, for damaging the marriage, for hurting you in one of the most hurtful ways she could, for continuing to contact the POSOM? She has backed off a bit too and shows more affection. Typical act to keep you in line. Contact a lawyer and look at what a divorce would look like for you financially and custody wise. If she is the high earner, she might have to pay you alimony and child supp… | /r/askMRP | 17/03/16 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Looking for guidanceThe main point is how your wife matches up. Is she exhibiting behaviors of real remorse or just giving you enough of what she thinks you want to hear in order to placate you for the time being? | /r/askMRP | 17/03/16 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Looking for guidanceI cannt blame anyone but myself Whatever faults you own in the marriage, it does not justify her affair. That is entirely on her. Check out The Chump Lady - Real vs. Imitation Remorse. You will need this information to determine if your wife is truly remorseful. Without remorse, reconciliation of the marriage is next to impossible and you will end up spending years in false reconciliation only to end up divorced anyway. All your improvements are fantastic, but they are for your benefit, not to s… | /r/askMRP | 17/03/16 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Girl wants to go on holiday to spainNo, since you'll be fucking other chicks, while she is out fucking Spaniards. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/16 01:31 PM |
| 10 | GF Broke up with me because I fell asleep and didnt answer her texts shit test.Her: were done Me: Ok Her: Liar, you didnt fall asleep You: We are broke up. Her: I dont care You: We are broke up. Her: Just tell me the truth You: We are broke up. Her: You dont have to lie to me You: We are broke up. Her: Plus its not the same anymore You: That's because we are broke up. I probably should have stopped responding after I said "ok". No shit. | /r/askMRP | 17/03/16 11:36 AM |
| 1 | My awakening | How do I enforce boundaries over phoneCool, calm, collected, in other words... in control of your emotions. | /r/askMRP | 17/03/16 09:55 AM |
| 1 | My awakening | How do I enforce boundaries over phonea troll post NFW. Required: IDGAF attitude, strong frame, and no compromise. Setting boundaries is a great thing, as long as she knows you will enforce them. | /r/askMRP | 16/03/16 02:49 PM |
| 1 | My awakening | How do I enforce boundaries over phonehow do you practically enforce the boundaries when over phone? My wife would call me at work to bitch about shit that I had no way of resolving over the phone. It resulted in arguments, resentment, and distractions from my job that took a while to recover. Until I set this boundary, Unless there is an emergency that requires me to leave work at that very moment, do not call me at work. | /r/askMRP | 16/03/16 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Sex, speed and staminaIf you have a fast recovery time, fuck her the way you want for round one, then go for round two. Going 90 mins will require lots of lube if all you are doing is hard, fast pounding. Look into Tantric sex. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/16 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Girl cancels twice but offers to reschedulenothing specific. This is not a chick who is interested. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Girl cancels twice but offers to rescheduleoffered to reschedule Clarify, did she offer specific date/time or some nebulous bullshit? She seems interested but then again if she was she'd make time Actions do not meet words. Loose her number. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Need help saving my family. AWAAALLLLLTTTTT!If you are trying to break up her affair, you are going about it wrong. Post on Talk About Marriage - Coping with Infidelity, but be a little more coherent. If you are trying to reconcile the marriage, then you need to break up the affair(s), see above. The key ingredients for reconciliation are your willingness and her remorse. Check out the Chump Lady - Real vs Imitation Remorse If you are done with the marriage, then see a lawyer to understand the process, costs, and obligations you will face… | /r/askMRP | 10/03/16 12:39 PM |
| 3 | When a girl asks you what you do for a jobMoving to Montana to become a Dental Floss Tycoon. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/16 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Complimenting my wife as part of gaming?Tell her with your eyes. | /r/askMRP | 08/03/16 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Do i need dread game?she'd rather do the fun things with her friends. Add in reduced/no sex = Loss of interest level (attraction) in you. Read the /r/marriedredpill side bar, starting with NMMNG and MMSLP and The System by Doc Love. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/16 11:12 AM |
| 1 | My independent wife, is she wrong or I'm too jealous?"you don't own me While this is true, she is also married to you and with that comes a set of expectations on behavior of working towards the benefit of the family, not one against the other or just for the benefit of one over the rest. friends who actually wants her wives to work Regardless, it boils down to how she treats you and if she is working towards the benefit of the family, not just herself. If she is out for only her and you cannot turn it around, then it is time to cut her loose. EDI… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/16 05:55 PM |
| 1 | My independent wife, is she wrong or I'm too jealous?She says, she's tired, or that I'm too fat No attraction. the rest of your post Your wife has no respect/loyalty for/to you and is looking for an exit out of the marriage. Or worse, she is looking for you to provide for her basic needs, while looking for her "independent" needs elsewhere. It is probably too late, but go to r/marriedredpill, read the side bar, starting with No More Mr Nice Guy and The Married Man Sex Life Primer. Also contact a lawyer to understand what divorce looks like for you… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/16 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Book suggestion: "The Erotic Mind" by Jack MorinWithout a barrier, there is much less excitement. Being a Doc Love disciple (The System,) Challenge = Increased Interest Level. The description of Barrier (aloof, attention, energy, availability) is very similar to Challenge and Excitement is a direct correlation to Interest Level. Not having read TEM, it sounds like the same concepts, just different words to describe them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/03/16 02:26 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants threesome, am I being cuckholded plus tips for holding frame?"Interesting, I never had a guy and a girl sucking my dick at the same time." "Only if I can fuck him in the ass, while he fucks yours." | /r/askTRP | 05/03/16 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Should I seek revenge against ChadIf you tell chad, you are doing her work for her. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/16 01:17 PM |
| 3 | bros i've been failing shit tests this entire timethe usual sign she wants to fuck Then fuck her. she keeps farting IMHO, farting is a sign of disrespect, IF she does not excuse herself or she purposely moves over to fart in your general direction. Edit phrasing | /r/askMRP | 02/03/16 01:10 PM |
| 2 | CinemaHave her wear a dress with no panties. Finger fuck her during the show. Fuck her in the parking lot. | /r/askMRP | 02/03/16 12:57 PM |
| 1 | What's your gf's n-count?I would be interested in reading the study/tests. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/16 03:43 PM |
| 1 | What's your gf's n-count?From what I read on telegony, it was never proved and basically a bunch of stories used to scare women. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/16 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Blind...need help seeing the lightShe stopped taking them when I started to man up and become a rock for her to lean on. Maybe your girl will feel the same once you stop being such a whiny pussy. Huh... experienced this myself, but never associated the two. Thanks, for the insight. | /r/askMRP | 25/02/16 03:57 PM |
| 0 | Ex does 180 turnsmack to the face To add, you initially broke up with her, this is her way to return the favor. IME, it isn't over until she, says it is. Was with this chick for a year, things started going south, so I ended it clean, no contact. Three months latter she is full force after me saying she can't live without me, blah, blah, blah. Get back together. Three months later, she dumps me hard by hooking up with some random guy at a party we went to. Never spoke to her again. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Any examples of men that you think exemplify the ideal man according to trp?Clint Eastwood, most of his fictional characters (High Plains Drifter, Blondie, Josey Wales) and also in real life. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 01:42 PM |
| 1 | How to move forward when I'm conflicted.using a similar analogy with her during the hysterics and it fell on deaf ears. Logical reasoning during a shit storm never works. Otherwise you handled the situation right. Your decision on staying or leaving, but you are also right to take a few days to get your thoughts in order. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/16 06:42 PM |
| 5 | Why do feminists hate the PUA community and 'game' yet actively support the idea that womem can fuck as many guys as they like without being labelled with a negative moniker.Women hate PUA stuff because it allows lower quality men to appear to be much higher quality I was going to simply post that women who hate PUA see them as a Con man. Your explanation is better and spot on. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/16 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Should you fuck any hot girl?I just want my first time to be with a girl who I actually like. Advice I received during a high school dance, "Who cares if you like her or she likes you. Take her out back and fuck her!" | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 01:02 PM |
| 6 | "My GF fucked another guy on my birthday but she is very 'impressionable when drunk'" [X-post]This was my post to this guy. I got the same impression that he was trying to find some way to sweep this under the rug because ya' know, they had the perfect relationship. she wanted to stay with her friends for a little longer. It was at this very point that you were out. She choose her "friends" over you. A loyal girlfriend would have gone home with you. A girlfriend with a high interest level (attraction) in you would have gone home with you. A girlfriend with integrity would have gone home … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/16 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Met a Very Promising Girl on Tinder. She mentioned she's 5'8". Without shoes on I'm 5'3". Advice?she once mentioned she's 5'8"... I'm apparently 5'3" This means that when you are fucking her, you can suck on her tits without bending your neck. Always look on the bright side. edited | /r/askTRP | 05/02/16 04:09 PM |
| 2 | LTR and Video GamesWhile I agree with this 100%, I also agree that shutting down the wifi should be done in conjunction with the above kick in her rear end. | /r/askMRP | 04/02/16 07:43 PM |
| 18 | Girlfriend wants to go to a poolpartyI don't want to give her an ultimatum because that is a desperate sign of powerlessness, but if she goes I don't need her in my life. You set boundaries and expectations of behavior that you have for any chick you "commit" to. Example: girlfriends do not attend naked pool parties without me. You have consequences for crossing those boundaries. Example: Girlfriends who attend naked pool parties without me, are no longer my girlfriend. You enforce consequences for crossing boundaries. Example: Sin… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/16 01:38 PM |
| 8 | Drug DealerWatch "Requiem for a Dream" with your buddy. If that does not scare him off this chick, nothing will. Warning! It is an excellent movie, well done all the way around, acting, directing, writing, but the movie is a total mindfuck, so be prepared to be fucked up for a few days. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/16 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Okay to re-plate and ex-plate? Or is this borderline oneitis?A "Returning Fox" is one who has shown no previous interest in you or rejected you, but who has "returned" and approached you after you have forgotten her. This puts you in a temporary position of power. With a Returning Fox, you should ask for whatever it is you want from her at the point of return. If she does not come across, she likely never will, and you can send her packing once again, repeating the process as many times as you have to each time she returns. For example, if she turned you … | /r/askTRP | 03/02/16 01:21 PM |
| 1 | What has getting in to you?Do the bar. Then next time do a little more. This is how I started. Something that always stuck with me, G. Gordon Liddy had a radio show that I listened to. One time he was talking to some dude on the air about getting into shape to pass a physiacl for some life insurance. The guy was whining away when Liddy set him straight. "Tomorrow morning you get up and you do one push up." You do that for a few days, then start doing two pushups, then three and so on until you are doing a hundred pushups … | /r/askMRP | 02/02/16 03:21 PM |
| 38 | Wife asked if I need her, fireworks ensueThe version I got was; Wife, with big smile on her face, "If it wasn't for me, you would be all alone in a cave." Me, with a big smile on my face, "Believe what you want to believe." Puzzled look on her face was hilarious. Never brought up again. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/16 08:45 PM |
| -1 | Nice tryShe said yes to going again on the weekend. She agreed to some nebulous request. Easy to do, no real commitment, and just as easy to flake. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/16 04:04 PM |
| 7 | Advice for my brother in law who has blue pilled himself to jail.Actually it has sunk. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/16 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to get a girlfriend that is both your girl and friend?My current ltr and I are complete opposites, personality wise. However we share some common backgrounds, interests, and values. The most important are: Religious background - while we both are basically non practicing Catholics, we have agreement on moral issues and share a common upbringing that sort of "bonds" us. Music - even though I like a variety of music and tend towards jazz and classical, we both love rock from the late 60's to early 70's. In other words, you can have different musical … | /r/askTRP | 27/01/16 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Noob's FR: How I used TRP to get laid, then fell in love and fucked it upi then constantly talked to her about sex. We don't talk anymore Apologies, but that was funny as shit. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/16 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Gaming 18-22 year olds as an older (30+) guyFWIW I used to play bass for a local band. We had gigs every other weekend and every weekend during specific seasons of the year. My band mate and good friend went through a horrible experience with his wife who became sick and after 5 years of wasting away to almost nothing, passed away from the disease. After this he went on a binge for several years; sex, drugs, and rock & roll. Every weekend he (40's) was banging some hot 20 - 25 year old because, they were reading, willing, and able to go h… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/16 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Ask "do you have a boyfriend" ?Never ask. IME it is on the chick to let you know about any "boyfriends." Reason being; it only matters to the chick you are talking up. How soon you hear about a boyfriend will tell you what her interest level is with him vs. you and how loyal she is. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/16 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Red DespairNumerous posts about the immense difficulty to get laid and how modern-society is to be blamed "...has led me to this sorry fate, and yet I blame society, society is what made me what I am." "That's bullshit. You're a white suburban punk, just like me." | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 03:05 PM |
| 2 | [FR] [Advice?]I'm thinking of MMF fantasy with you in it. As long as I am fucking him in the ass while he's screwing you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/16 02:24 PM |
| 2 | I can't fake it.The unfortunate thing about it is she missed out on a great life with me. Yeah, you get over it. The older you get, the easier it is. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/16 12:02 PM |
| 1 | I can't fake it.It took me about 6 months to get over some chick that fucked me up and over. (your mileage may vary) I was with her for a year and a half and thought we had something going. Unfortunately, she had other plans. Stay on the path you are, understand that you define your existence, and soon you will realize that you just do not care about this chick anymore. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/16 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Where can I find TRP entry level dating material?The system by doc love. It is not a pick up book but it has excellent dating advice. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/16 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Pushing and Pulling RPWhat should i do? Pay attention to her actions, not her words. Why is she doing this? She does not want to commit. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts On Bring Your Own LunchI am lucky in that there is a frig and microwave at work. I keep dry goods in the office and salads, sandwich making food, milk, juice, and fruit in the frig. In the morning I have breakfast in my office as I read the mornings emails, lunch is made on the spot, snacks include a yogurt and/or fruit. The only meal I eat at home is dinner. Saves me a ton of money as eating out for lunch costs between $6 & $12 depending or about $40 a week. Groceries for the month cost about $40. | /r/askMRP | 14/01/16 08:33 PM |
| 0 | On the popularity of cuckold pornYou do realize that cuckold porn is pure fantasy, i.e. they are actors, not actual married couples? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/16 03:54 PM |
| 2 | "How Did You Find The Red Pill?"Long Version: Way back, I was typical beta husband with politician wife who was being wined/dined and surrounded by high profile powerful men while I took care of the house, kids, and a job. She lost a close election and went into a 6 month funk, shutting down completely. Then health problems manifested and she was a complete bitch to me and cut me off sexually. Started looking into affairs (found none) and realized I needed to change my ways or loose just about everything I had worked for (kids… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 03:28 PM |
| 3 | "How Did You Find The Red Pill?"Short version: While giving advise to fucked over guys in r/relationships under u/mabden account, started getting called out/flagged as "redpill." Never heard the term before, so googled and found The Married Man Sex Life website. Eventually found r/theredpill. Soon after I was banned from r/relationships. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Have any of you men dumped by your gfs, wives? How did you feel? How did you recover from it?After a bad break up with this one chick; I went on a road trip to hang with some buddies across state. We spent a weekend, drinking, smoking, eating steaks, hustling chicks in bars, fighting chicks' boyfriends in bars, and got a tattoo on my ass. YMMV | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 03:01 PM |
| 5 | I have been a beta orbiter for 5 months now, and just discovered TRP. I know what to do, but my desires are making me weak. What should I do?tell her to fuck off You do not have to tell her this. In fact do not tell her anything other than, you are busy. She kind of depends on me for emotional support The only way out is no contact. I cant surpress my desires Refocus those desires towards other projects, like sports, education, work, hobbies (not video gaming) and of course other chicks. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Should I stop going out with my friend?If you are doing all the work, but he is gaining all the benefit, then yeah stop going out together. feels like I'm already at a disadvantage by him just being there. Drop the loser mentality. He can;t fuck all the girls at the party and if he is on his own, then lack of game will be his disadvantage. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 02:39 PM |
| 3 | How do they get over it so quickly?They only care about how you make them feel Asked and answered. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/16 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Hard Next - She wants to have lunch with me and friends.Tell her you do not do group dates. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/16 01:08 PM |
| 1 | (on Reddit's frontpage) Guy's GF fucks his dad, begs for second chance and threatens to do it again if he doesn't forgive herDenial that it happened. DARVO - deny, attack, reverse victim and offender Acceptance that it happened, but denial of key details that make it worse Trickle Truth Refusal to accept any responsibility. Lack of Remorse Playing down the significance of the act. Rug Sweeping Attempt to use any sort of emotional leverage she still has over the man to regain control. Basic female behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Question on wife cheatingOne time, maybe, with true remorse an indicator for possible reconciliation Two times, no fucking way. | /r/askMRP | 10/01/16 02:26 PM |
| 5 | [Field Report] Social proof gives the best tinglesMy take is this is more mate guarding. Oh oh, other chicks are noticing and giving my man attention, better up my game. Kitty kats kompete. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 11:10 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate to sex/BJ??Vin Decarlos escalation ladder | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 12:22 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys get rid of belly fat?Lost 50lb in 6 months. Belly gone, abs in. Have maintained 6'2" 205lbs since 2003. For the record this is not eliminating carbs, just reducing them. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/16 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Wanderlust in young women. Why?They want some fun and excitement in their lives before they settle down with mr beta, kids, and routine of family. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 03:49 AM |
| 0 | How do you guys get rid of belly fat?Cut down on carbs. Beer, pop, pizza,pasta, bread. 3 meals a day with no more than 60 grams of total carbs. 2 snacks in between meals with no more than 15 grams of carbs. Combine with working out, swim, bike, lift. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Increasing immersion - sex god methodEliminate distractions. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Is it worth fighting for? (Puke, puke everywhere)The roommate is gone, right? | /r/askMRP | 28/12/15 04:29 PM |
| 1 | The David Beckham RuleThe advice/approach is straight out of doc love's the system . | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Broke frame big time... Dont think theres a way back after this one...she cant deal with me asking questions about what shes doing all the time and who shes with... and that its to much and i'm being emotionally abusive... DARVO - deny, attack, reverse victim and offender - classic cheater behavior, do not believe a word out of her mouth. | /r/askMRP | 19/12/15 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Need help to lead wifeMy wife's home office is a complete disaster area of clutter, shit that she doesn't need or won't clean up. I personally have no idea how she can function in that mess, but that's my problem. The rest of the house is clutter free because I keep it that way. I am OC about it. If it bothers you, clean it up, recycle what you can, and throw out the rest. If she has a problem with it tell her there is a simple solution, she can clean up. | /r/askMRP | 18/12/15 12:34 AM |
| 1 | FR: "You treated me so nice tonight"She liked that you did not put up with her shit. | /r/askMRP | 17/12/15 01:29 PM |
| 3 | FR: "You treated me so nice tonight"Most women will not throw away a ten year relationship because you acted like a jackass for a night. However, in this instance, the Op's girlfriend rewarded him for being a jackass. | /r/askMRP | 17/12/15 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Wife unintentionally giving IA to other men. How do you respond?My wife and I are out at a local festival. A friend of mine that I work with, sees us and comes over to say hi. I introduce my wife, we talk, then split and head out in opposite directions. I notice my wife is all smiles, but does not say anything except when introduced. As soon as this guy is out of ear shot, my wife gets on her tiptoes and whispers into my ear, "So are all the guys you work with that good looking or is it just him?" I cock my head and say, "Why do you need a date for tomorrow?… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/15 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Kicked gf outthey are just friends For some insight on this common phrase, read, "Not Just Friends" by Dr Shirley Glass. am I being to harsh here? Fuck no. You have boundaries. They become useless if they are not enforced. I feel that by trying to tell her who she can and can't speak to, reduces my power over her. Honestly, you have no power over her anyway you look at it. If she wants to cheat on you she will and nothing you do or say will stop it. What you do have are boundaries (no talking/seeing exes) an… | /r/askMRP | 14/12/15 10:04 PM |
| 16 | Wtf is up with girls from tinder inviting you to hang out with her and her friends?Decline group dates. Offer to meet up for coffee in a public place. If that fails, move on. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Post wall behaviour from a 19 year old + wtf orbitSuggest reading 'Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man' by JWS, DC, & Franco. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Post wall behaviour from a 19 year old + wtf orbitBeta orbiter has no boundaries and/or willingness to enforce them. Ex knows this, so free ride on the carousel, then off to comfortville with beta orbiter, now provider. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Best book to buyThe System by Doc Love The Way of the Superior Man by Davide Dieda Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man by David Claire, Franco, JWS. | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Let's say a potential LTR shows a bad behavior. Is it any use to scold them? Or simply observe and keep/drop as appropriate?Soft next. Do not respond to any attempts by her to contact you. If she contacts you after week or so, act as nothing is wrong. If bad behavior continues or resurfaces, hard next. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 08:28 PM |
| 33 | How to respond to being called cute?"That's right, I'm fucking adorable." | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Your view on obvious IOI's from girls with boyfriends.They all collect fallbacks Like baseball trading cards. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 08:17 PM |
| 48 | Girl I was seeing seriously for the last few months just stopped talking to me out of the blue. Called her a few times and texted her but no response over the weekend. People just stop talking, just like that? Is that normal? What would a red pill do?for some reason it sounded like she hung up on me Her boyfriend walked into the room. What would a red pill do? Lose her number. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Girl I hooked up with last night hit me with an unexpected question."I like your lyrics, you have a good beat, and your easy to dance to, so I will give you an 8." | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 11:11 AM |
| 6 | The Inevitable "Are You Sleeping With Anyone Else??""I actually just ran downstairs and fucked the neighbor while you were in the bathroom" This is pretty funny. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 07:22 PM |
| 2 | "you are probably getting extremely annoyed" testthis is the 3rd time in a row where she ends up not meeting up but not suggesting an alternative. Should have nexted after the first time. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 07:21 PM |
| 1 | There is no such thing as chemistry... It's lustNo chemistry = Euphemism for describing dry pussy syndrome. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 06:38 PM |
| 1 | LTR: What is the right way to deal with suspicions of cheating that are based on circumstantial clues and diminished sex life?Keep your mouth shut and your eyes, ears open. If expectations, boundaries, and consequences are not communicated/understood/accepted, then make sure they are. Consequences are only as real as your willingness to implement them. prevent myself from becoming insecure and weak in a relationship Abundance Mentality, kill oneitis, and accept a willingness to walk away at a moments notice if the relationship does not suit your expectations. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Someone slap some sense into meIn the club scene, it is a numbers game. Meaning the numbers you get produce a low hit rate so just keep getting numbers and following up. If you give up on following through, then find some other way to meet chicks. Standard practice (at least in my day) get the number wait a couple of days, call to set a meet up. If the blow you off, lose the number. If they can't meetup in the time/date frame you have and offer no counter offer, then lose the number. If they offer a counter offer, AND IT FITS… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 01:58 PM |
| 2 | What's your favorite RP quote?I can apply this to every girl I met/dated/fucked. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 01:37 PM |
| 3 | LTR 2yr; she just asked for spaceTruth. | /r/askMRP | 30/11/15 07:03 PM |
| 1 | LTR 2yr; she just asked for spaceshe doesn't feel she took enough time to just be single after getting divorce Wanted to get the first marriage out of her system with sex, drugs, and rock & roll. Or as you guys call it, 'the carousel of cock.' she is feeling smothered and doesn't have time to miss me since we see each other all the time. The first part is true, the second part is bullshit. You are no challenge to her anymore. Read The System by Doc Love. Another man started texting her a few weeks ago Unclear, so is the "time t… | /r/askMRP | 30/11/15 06:58 PM |
| 0 | Why do many women seem to get bored and branch swing when the man is too loving, respectful, devoted, etcBetaization – The slow process by which a woman transforms a man she’s in a relationship with from an Alpha to a beta, usually by means of drama, demands, rules, sex (giving or withholding), or threats. Betaization is a completely natural part of a woman’s biological makeup and is usually not done from a place of malice (though there are exceptions to this). A successful Alpha 2.0 consistently avoids betaization; AFCs and many Alpha 1.0s eventually succumb to it and become betas (or at least ver… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/15 12:17 AM |
| 2 | How does a 50+ dude beat the blues and oneitis caused by mate dumping him.says she wants "more. The late, great Sam Kinison said it best, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cV1dyV9d_1k | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend isn't ove rher ex- dealbreaker?Whenever there is an ex lurking in the background, it always spells trouble. She is lying to you, hiding shit from you, and disrespecting the relationship. Tell her thanks, but no thanks and walk. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you like going down on women?Sixty-Nine Is Divine. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 02:18 PM |
| 1 | She's on to me at every turn, like she knows of the matrix better than I ever realizedExcellent fucking post! | /r/askMRP | 20/11/15 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Girl got caught?stop wasting my time Correct. She comes back then It is on your terms. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Girl got caught?Returning Fox. A Returning Fox is one who has shown no previous interest in you or rejected you, but who has "returned" and approached you after you have forgotten her. This puts you in a temporary position of power. With a Returning Fox, you should ask for whatever it is you want from her at the piont of return. If she does not come across, she likely never will, and you can send her packing once again, repeating the process as many times as you have to each time she returns. For example, if sh… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 01:29 PM |
| 1 | how to answer the "is that where you take all of your tinder dates?" questionWhat always worked for me with the, "Do you always 'do whatever' with all the girls?" shit test... "Only the one's I like." | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 01:13 PM |
| 2 | She's not that kind of girl anymore - QuestionSo she got played and now regrets her behavior, thus assigning all blame onto you (or the next AFC that comes along.) Do i just 'go on a date or two Make it a challenge for her to "date" you. Have very limited windows of availability for you to go on a "date" with her. Cancel at least one "date" on her. Make her pay for any "date" you go on. In the mean time, keep the calls/text frequent but very short and sporadic. Stay busy pursuing other chicks. If she plays along, good, but if she loses inte… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Good enough for shirtless photos ?Lift! | /r/askTRP | 16/11/15 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Feel bad/guilty about being the AMOG."when my position is being challenged with typical male banter" There may be an implication, but it is not explicit. Either way, when you react in a negative way, you are acknowledging and stepping into their frame. A & A would seem a better way. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Feel bad/guilty about being the AMOG.Agreed. Truth Table: Cool (Alpha) Guy = Looking for the Win - Win (everybody wins) Asshole (Sigma) Guy = Looking for the Win - Lose (you win at expense of everyone else) Nice (Beta) Guy = Looking for the Lose - Win (You lose at expense of everyone winning) Loser (Omega) Guy = Looking for the Lose - Lose (Everyone loses) | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Did I burn the bridge?access her social circle Unless it contains some extremely hot girl friends or career opportunities... wants to just be friends Loose her number. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 04:26 PM |
| 5 | When a woman breaks off the engagement?To me its providing and being there for someone everyday. Look up The Lover-Provider Dichotomy to understand what is wrong with your statement. Shes been sending me texts to come and spend more time with her and my daughter. Her A plan fell through, so you are the B plan. Keep things civil for the sake of access to your daughter, but decline her invitations for anything more. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 04:22 PM |
| 1 | New GF still texts her ex boyfriend and hangs out with himMaybe get a last fuck in. And when you do, do whatever you want, no holds bar. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/15 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone hired social proof?attract some women to act as ur plate when you go out They are called escorts. Try the yellow pages. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 01:26 PM |
| 4 | What will happen if I start telling a girl about me fucking other women, and stories about it? will it friend zone her? make her upset? make her want me more?Correct. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/15 02:49 PM |
| 16 | What will happen if I start telling a girl about me fucking other women, and stories about it? will it friend zone her? make her upset? make her want me more?You can sub-communicate it, but never tell them directly. Thinking and knowing are two completely different things. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/15 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else think that the red pill giving young men false hope and painted an unrealistic picture of adulthood?Check out The Blackdragon Blog. This guy was a married blue pill beta, that was fucked over by a cheating wife and divorce raped. He found the PUA community (mASF, now PUA_Zone) and turned his dating/sex life around. He claims to be an average at best looking guy, but his approach that he developed with dealing with chicks rocks. Read through his posts and see for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Too early to incorporate TRP in HS?nofap https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/ http://www.nofap.com/porn-addiction/ | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Girl from work flaked on me and gave some excuse. I didnt respond. What should I do?What should I do? Lose her number. If she asks anything, tell her you are busy. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/15 07:46 PM |
| 1 | I'm concerned my change in jobs will change how my LTR views metaking on a low paying part time job A part time job is better than no job, as long as it is only temporary. If this drags on, then yeah, her image of you will correspondingly worsen. The other important aspect is whether you have a plan of action or just winging it. If the part time job is part of the plan, then fine, but without a realistic, long term goal, you will appear rudderless and attraction will quickly dissipate. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Showing emotionswomen want us to BOTH be strong AND sensitive. Truth. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 04:24 PM |
| 2 | What was that!? (wife fucks me without wanting orgasm and doesn't complain)Coming from the seduction community, the adage that if you can consistently make chicks come, they will want to keep coming back, be more loyal, and a lot more pleasant to be around. EDIT Not saying this is right or wrong, just the perception. END EDIT | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/10/15 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Red flags or paranoia?Am I just reading things into this where nothing really exists, or is this cause for concern? If you gut is telling you something is up, follow it. Could be nothing, could be everything and you won;t know until you do some investigation. Keep your mouth shut and your eyes/ears open. Get two voice activated recorders for the bedroom and the car, keylog the computer, gps the car, and download the contents of her phone. Texts come in all flavors now and most apps do not show up on the phone company… | /r/askMRP | 19/10/15 01:44 PM |
| 2 | How do you stop a partner from cheating?From then on I took the instantly tell the girl if I cheat stance... It is only cheating if you promise monogamy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/15 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend used to have raw sex with ex bf and let him blast inside all the time, ended up getting an abortion. Now doesn't let me do it.she'd get a Mirena coil. From what I have read about Mirena coils, they have some bad side effects. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend used to have raw sex with ex bf and let him blast inside all the time, ended up getting an abortion. Now doesn't let me do it.Dont freeze it yourself, I guess I will have to dump the ice cube trays in the freezer then. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 02:27 PM |
| 2 | I'm shit at reading IOI'sRead up on body language. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 02:24 PM |
| 9 | An alpha widow laments her inability to enjoy sex anymore.all she did was lay there like a corpse. Flip her over and spank her ass as you drive home. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 05:12 PM |
| 2 | An alpha widow laments her inability to enjoy sex anymore.The late great Sam Kinison said it best in "Sexual Diaries." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=guDAUHirgDQ | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Woman boss. How to handle?As a subordinate you just can't be alpha all the time, IMHO, you can be alpha, as long as you show respect. I worked for a Type A female manager who was groomed and passed up the line far too fast in order to fulfill gender diversity goals. She was typical modern corporate women warrior in a male dominated environment. But she was pretty hot, tall brunette, with nice proportions. Always dressed the corporate way, just with high heels. Whenever we interacted, she was almost eye level with me (6'2… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 12:42 PM |
| 2 | What are some of your worst shit tests?Light shit test: Her: "Heaven forbid you ever agree with me." Me, laughing: "Why would I do that?" Her, laughing: "Yep." Moderate shit test: Her: "If you hadn't met me, you would be living in a trailer in the middle of nowhere." Me, laughing: "." Hard core shit test: Her, pissed about some bullshit: "Blah, blah, blah, and my pussy was hot, blah, blah, blah!" Me: Six months monk mode. Her: "I can't take this anymore, I want a divorce!" Me: "Do what you have to... I know this is the absolute wrong… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 11:51 AM |
| 2 | What are some of your worst shit tests?3 eyes and 3 legs and 3 arms and she was a spider, "None of the above, spiders have eight legs." | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Relationship Status: It's Complicatedshe doesn't feel comfortable starting a new relationship so soon after her last one Then just date/fuck her. Ask her out for drinks/dancing/music/whatever. | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 08:04 PM |
| 0 | Recommendation on a good book on PUAPractical Female Psychology for the Practical Man. Websites: PUA-Zone BlackdragonBlog | /r/askMRP | 13/10/15 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Not sure how to handle this situationyou owe me "Why do you always expect sex in return for doing something?" how is this my responsibility, etc "We are a team." once again im taking care of things solo "Thanks." i know the game is important to you "Ok." she cant manipulate me by saying she is fine with my decisions and then say she is "burdened." Ignore this. | /r/askMRP | 13/10/15 06:05 PM |
| 6 | "If you want to get laid you will do this for me..."She ended up driving about 5 hours to see me A chick with a high interest level (attraction) will do everything she can to be with you. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 01:31 PM |
| 0 | Was thinking about a comment my wife made to me last night....."i'd probably do better than you" She believes her SMV is higher than yours. I pressed her about it. Bad. You know this already, but refrain. "omg, I was joking!" She framed it as a joke, but the underling issue is not. when i was talking she'd try to talk over me by raising her voice Disrespect. Or just bad manners, but more likely lack of respect. I feel like i lost some ground with her here. You gave her an opening, she took it. Overall this is minor compaired to the underlining problems; res… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/10/15 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Want to see an example of why frame is important?she needed some space Should have included that whenever you hear the above phrase, from your chick, she probably has some other guy on the hook and wants her nice guy husband/boyfriend out of the way. From the two attacks his wife used against/on the OP (unavailable and space) you're right that she used the bullshit first one to get the second one. IMHO, the unavailable emotionally bullshit she dropped on the OP was by design, knowing her husband was a clueless nice guy and unable to deliver an… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Want to see an example of why frame is important?emotionally unavailable Anytime I have heard this phrase issued by some chick, I summized that she wanted emotional feelings injected into her consciousnesses by the dude she was with. So it is, 'I want to feel some emotions, created by you, so I can feel better about fucking you.' | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 12:44 PM |
| 5 | What are you thinking about?"What are you thinking about?" My response, whispered in her ear with a deep voice, to this question from my wife, "You, naked, tried up, spread eagle on the bed with whip cream covering her tits and pussy." Two hours later she was. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Made a big career move, learned a completely new technology and moved to a new company with a 40% raise (63k to 100k) just 2 months ago. Wife wouldn't shut up about how I should not get stuck in this company and should already plan for the next company with a higher salary and better benefits.don't need her advices anymore. She will get over it as long as you maintain consistent, reliable, tangible self improvement. | /r/askMRP | 23/09/15 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Made a big career move, learned a completely new technology and moved to a new company with a 40% raise (63k to 100k) just 2 months ago. Wife wouldn't shut up about how I should not get stuck in this company and should already plan for the next company with a higher salary and better benefits.she constantly keeps giving me career advice whether I like it or not. "Thanks for your opinion, I got this." or "Your right, I always wanted to be a Forest Ranger." | /r/askMRP | 23/09/15 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Viewing hypergamy first hand and it's catastrophic effects.woman who express this care little for the actually men they are trying to gain from Chicks like these were once called gold diggers, then materialistas (from Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man) | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/15 01:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I gain control and sort my relationship out?Words - I love you and want our marriage to work. Action - pushes for separation, moves out of the house. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/08/15 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I gain control and sort my relationship out?I obviously love her as she says she does me still Unclear, but you say you love her and is willing to stick it out and work together, she says she loves you but wants to separate. See the difference? Her actions are not living up to her words. I said last week that if we're not sorted soon I'm just ending it This is the correct approach, however, it should be; 'get home stay home, and then we can work it out or I'm just going to end it.' IMHO, separations rarely promote, "working it out." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/08/15 01:04 PM |
| 3 | [FR] College campuses are daygame heaven + tips"There is a time and place for everything." "It's called, college." | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Catch 22This is the correct course of action. | /r/askMRP | 21/08/15 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Woman leads you on but then says too tiredsaid "fine I will go back out and find a girl who will fuck me". Whoops! My reaction to this was to get up and put my pants back on and say, "Ok." With a smile, then shut the fuck up and go do something else. I immediately apologized and said I went too far and I should not have said it. This is fine. When you fuck up, own it, apologize once and only once, then move on. how I should handle things now? Like it never happened. Continue with your MAP, initiate whenever you want and if you get a har… | /r/askMRP | 17/08/15 03:27 PM |
| 3 | How to handle other men giving my girl extra attentionyou clearly didn't notice her being passed it... True. I stood across the field from the other coach for the duration of the game and shook his hand at the end of it. He was on par with me as far as SMV went and clearly had no respect for me as it was clear my girl was "with me." she liked the look of him you wouldn't have even seen that piece of paper The thing is I did. At the time my chick was the night bar manager for a popular local pub and was hit on constantly. She definitely had options,… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/08/15 05:40 PM |
| 3 | How to handle other men giving my girl extra attentionIf your chick is hot, you have to expect this type of behavior when out and about. Is it disrepectful, sure, but you cannot control how other dudes act around your chick. As others suggest, if you takeover, lead the interaction, then you can minimize the situation, but the initial damage is done so to speak. However, what your post lacks is how your chick is reacting to other dudes hitting on her. If she responds in kind, then this is massively disrepectful and more of a concern than what the du… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/08/15 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Anger and shit-tests"I don't want to have to drive you 2 hours so you can have a vacation." Find some hot chick to drive you or at least tell her you found one. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/08/15 02:13 PM |
| 19 | The Cock Carousel, Beta Bucks, and Polygraphs. r/relationships case file #976224for her to RESPECT you, you have to be willing to drop her at a moments notice and walk out the door. Truth. When my girlfriend and I were contemplating marriage, she asked the question, "What if something happens between us and we don't work out?" My reply, "You can have everything that we have, all I want is my backpack, my sleeping bag, and my dog that I came into this relationship with. I will walk away and you will never hear from me again." Yeah, we have our share of problems, but respect … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 03:52 PM |
| 1 | PMS again and 2 shit testsNext time you feel like saying, "if you do that again", just go forward with whatever the consequence is. In this case, you should have just taken the ipad away right then. In the context of this post, the OP was in the process of taking away the iPad (30 minutes time limit was up) when DD started up. The consequence OP imposed immediately was DD lost privileges for tomorrow. Otherwise I agree with you on the point of dealing with kids, bad behavior = immediate consequences. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/08/15 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Tension and the tinglesThat's when the mystery that she so badly craves starts coming back into the picture. Although chicks like mystery, it is because they love drama. Mystery contains the element of the unknown, this drives curiosity, and with it the emotional roller coaster that chicks really crave. The what's going to happen next is the tension builder you are trying to create. This is why new dick (or the thought of it) generates such tingles, the unknown. Keeping them off balance, on their toes, and not knowing… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/08/15 06:14 PM |
| 3 | SMV vs Provider's ValueShe doesn't want to get to know you, no matter how much she says she does. This is correct, but not the way you would think. They really like the 'mystery' of you and look forward to peeling away the mystique, but once they do (if you allow it to happen) they will drop you in a heartbeat. No more mystery, no more tingles, on to the next one. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 02:29 PM |
| 5 | Women know what they want, even when they don’t.No matter how much she wants to say or act like sex ‘isn’t all she thinks about or needs’ she’s a fucking liar and wants to get fucked long and hard by your dick Word. The best advice I ever got was, "Chicks like sex." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/08/15 02:10 PM |
| 10 | The balanced check book of the relationshipMonty Python sums it up nicely. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9foi342LXQE | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/08/15 08:39 PM |
| 5 | RP approach to a pet peeve.At no time did she introduce me to him either by name or as her husband. You introduce yourself, shake his hand, and give him the look that if he ever fucks with you he will be dead. Then smile. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/07/15 02:22 PM |
| 2 | How to handle thisThanks for my first laugh of the day. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/07/15 11:58 AM |
| 19 | New to RP, seeking advice on drunken behaviorAA or divorce. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/07/15 11:46 AM |
| 9 | Repost-a-Rama! The Sex God Method and the Meaning of "Rape"- BPP's 2nd most upvoted (and by far the most downvoted) post of all time)you both agree to satisfy the other sexually ("to have and to hold from this day forth"). "To have someone is for that person to be yours – intimately. For someone to have you is for you to belong to them. This means that I am committing my body to this person and he or she is committing his or her body to me." http://preengaged.com/examining-the-wedding-vows-to-have-and-to-hold-from-this-day-forward/ It is funny that when I first started fucking my then gf, now wife, I used to fuck her whenever… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/07/15 08:02 PM |
| 3 | My Dick Has Become a Heat Seeking MissleBehind the dugout, center field, or home plate where we standing? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/07/15 05:09 PM |
| 3 | My Dick Has Become a Heat Seeking Missleembarrassed of my more manly traits. Never apologize for being a man. I want to Fuck most of the women I meet... This is an exciting reality. But fucking distracting. You will get used to this. Real life example; I used to coach my daughter's 12U travel softball team. In one tournament, we were going through the pregame rituals, when our opponents 'team mom' came over to handle roster lineups. I found myself staring at this 5"10" 120lb brunette blue eyes gorgeous face beautiful tits and all smil… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/07/15 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Slow Start - Long PathWhen I started the weight lose efforts, there was no keto plan, but the I went to a nutritionist who outlined what I told you. What helped me was being able to read/interpret the nutritional info on the packages and portion control. Be careful with reducing carbs that much. There is a reason for carbs and you need to balance out. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/15 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Slow Start - Long PathThe carbs are killers. Keep your carbs to 60 grams (total carbs, not net carbs) per meal and supplement with carb free food. Easy example: less potatoes, more broccoli. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/15 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Slow Start - Long PathIt will probably take me a year+ to get down to where I want to be. I dropped 50lbs in 6 months. Have fluctuated very little over the last few years, so it is doable without compromising your health. Drastic diet change = no more pop, no more vending machine crap, cut carbs to 60 grams total carbs for each meal, 3 meals a day with one 15 gram carb snack between each meal, no eating past dinner, water only ~ 32 to 64 oz per day. I called it the cave man diet - leaves and grass, nuts and berries, … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/15 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Here is a great example of the modern woman’s mentality."You are more than capable of making smart, rational decisions well before 25. FWIW, I did not get my head out of my ass until 26. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 02:23 PM |
| 8 | RP:GF wants to explore her bisexual sideshe wants to have her cake and eat it. Apparently sharing is not in her vocabulary. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/15 08:04 PM |
| 2 | RP:GF wants to explore her bisexual sidewhy? Exactly, she will either blow herself out or blow him. All he has to do is maintain. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/15 08:04 PM |
| 5 | Here is a great example of the modern woman’s mentality.more likely to happen is people ratchet down expectations and become realistic. This would be expected with rational people, however, if we (collectively) don't do this , then it will be forced on us by reality. I've made comments about Reagan, bankers, corporate welfare, NAFTA, h1-b visas and all of that before, Kindred spirits. I could go on for days, so don;t get me started. :) Check out kunstler.com. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/15 06:41 PM |
| 4 | Here is a great example of the modern woman’s mentality.it was all about putting in your time for that big pot of gold at the end of it all. Not necessarily. It is more about that's what men did/do. You provided for yourself and for your family. Pride in taking care of your family, pride in not being a burden on society, (I am not talking ayn rand and the 'Looking out for Number One' crowd,) but old school ethics, pride, and honor. EDIT Right wrong or indifferent, my dad gave it to me, I gave it to my kids. The difference is my dad taught me to think… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/15 06:31 PM |
| 15 | Here is a great example of the modern woman’s mentality.3 kids, 59. I started out of HS with an electrical apprenticeship, trade job in heavy machine tool industry. Once the "Raygun Revolution" hit in the 80's merger mania was in full swing, resulting in loss of job, plant closed and machine tool industry given to Japan and Germany. High unemployment, went to school and got my degree, paid for by... what savings I had and government student loans. Cost of college was reasonable, loan rates and payback period was also reasonable. Once out of school go… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/15 06:19 PM |
| 14 | Here is a great example of the modern woman’s mentality.pretty much willing to do anything to get out of it Sugar Daddies. If parents paid for school, Another change in the "system" when the 60 yo went to college it was affordable. We beat it into our kids that the only way to succeed is thorough college. However, the price of admission today is indentured servitude, either for the parents in the form of giving up their retirement or the kids taking out loans. Side Rant: As my old man used to tell me whenever I fucked up in HS, "What do you want in l… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/15 05:29 PM |
| 29 | Here is a great example of the modern woman’s mentality.Get married, buy a house, have kids, put them through college, get fucked over by employers that rape your pay, benefits, and retirement, then lay you off after they send your job to china. Its called the "amerikan dream" that people (today's 60 yo) bought into it, played by the rules, and then have the fucking rules change. Bottom line, piss off for your comment on how 60 year old people can't manage money. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/15 04:50 PM |
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