Dear Redditors,

I've [24/M] met this girl, we started of great, we just clicked.

About this girl [23/F]. Shes a WoW gamer, she doesn't go out often and if she does it's with her ladies. Her previous relationship was with a guy who didn't allow her to go out often and cheated multiple times on her.

Now, like i said, we started of great, but all of a sudden she collapsed. She couldn't handle it the way i threaded cause i was too kind, she never had that before. She started having doubts and said she needed some time to cooperate with al this.

But she keept pulling me even when she said i shouldn't wait on her. Every time i was with her she was happy, had sex,.. Then she's alone and the doubting starts again.

After a period of letting her go. She comes back and texts me if i want to come over. We had a great chat and she keeps repeating she has troubles cooping with the situation cause of her previous relationship.

Now, i'm not initiating anyhting, but we then went to a christmas gathering where she took my hand spontaniously. So i hold on.

All goes good again, but she keeps saying i shouldn't push her so i don't.

Then she sends me this random text, saying i shouldn't wait for her, cause she wants to catch up with the stuff she missed, she wants to go out with her ladies more often, and i'm like yeah no problem you can, and she doesn't expect this answer.

I know she doesn't want to go take a ride on the dick caroussel cause she told me her best friend tried to hit on her and she felt like she cheated.. Now its not her friend anymore.

So it does sound like she loves me but she keeps pushing and pulling me..

What should i do? Why is she doing this?