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Next step to get in a relationship with a girl you've barely talked to let alone fucked? Early-stage oneitis bro, and it can only be fixed by going out and approaching girls, many of them.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 07:13 PM
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Laugh it off mate, you take shit too serious. The mistake was talking to her after you were rejected. Yes rejected, because an interested girl would've made time for you. Plus who cares, she's already bitching at you before you've even been out. Work on your alphaness and try again, with another girl obviously.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 07:03 PM
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You're not getting what you want out of the arrangement and you gave in to her shaming your need for sex. Now you're hamstering giving away your commitment for free. On top of that you have oneitis and aren't pursuing other women. Your can only blame yourself for going a month without sex here.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 11:30 PM
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If she's so perfect why do you need to convince us of how great she is? Nice hamstering post disguised as a question.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 02:07 PM
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Who gives a fuck? Why do you insist on sticking your dick in crazy?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 01:10 PM
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I hope you're not looking for dating advice from women. That's what we're here for.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 12:43 PM
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You've answered your own question. The safe move is to not, but that would be a waste of a good opportunity. Imo yes do it, but don't let it keep you from getting training done.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 10:15 AM
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Just make sure you're not seeking validation in the form of laughs
/r/askTRP24/01/16 10:11 AM
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Make her FWB. Don't ditch your plates. You said yourself she's not LTR material. You don't have to go from giving zero commitment to a hundred.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 10:07 AM
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Combine their general crab in the bucket mentality towards life with the fact that they want to have as many betas around as possible and you have your answer. Don't look for logic in womens' actions.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 05:49 PM
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Stay the fuck away from other people's lives. You seem pretty invested in this "plate" of yours. There's nothing to be gained from playing captain save a ho.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 05:45 PM
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am I suppose to act There's your problem right there. You should be more concerned with how she's going to act to not bug you with her bullshit. Unless ofc you're content being that supplicating beta. Go ahead and eat her out while you're at it.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 12:01 PM
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This aligns well with RP theory when you think about it. Unpredictable and wreckless behavior is a massive tingle generator. Women love chaos, men like order. It's something about wanting to secretly 'fix' these men, kinda how they will try their best to turn alphas into obedient little betas.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 11:54 AM
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Your looks aren't holding you back, your game is. Be more of an asshole to them but still playful.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 11:48 AM
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Actions not words buddy. Women like to be subtle about being a slut, helps them hamster and whatnot.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 06:34 PM
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Pretty straight forward mate. You either value your friendship over your ability to hear or vice versa. If your friends aren't willing to compromise and go to just a normal bar are you losing that much anyway? Don't fuck around with your health.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 06:19 PM
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Read about the fucked up shit around here women will do to (beta) men given the chance. Nothing wrong with not being exclusive to a plate lol. Likewise if they're true plates you shouldn't have a problem with them fucking other guys either. Rubber up.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 03:58 PM
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Don't commit so much it becomes a LTR. Act on the IOI's and fuck asap.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 03:48 PM
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You waste your fucking time lol. What do you have to gain?
/r/askTRP21/01/16 09:46 PM
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Jealous? No, just ready because it seems like a branch swing waiting to happen. Assess whether she's keeping him around as an option. Dread as necessary.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 06:27 PM
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Don't expect a girl to love you like your mother. Hell, don't even expect your mother to love you like a mother as a grown ass man. All love to you is conditional now. "The love of your life" will branch swing if the attraction fades. If you're looking past red flags that's oneitis and you don't understand abundance. Women are disposable, as are you.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 02:31 PM
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Building habits for the sake of habits will leave you feeling empty af inside and thus make you quit them eventually. Set goals and work towards them; habits will come as a part of that.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 02:27 PM
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You're 19, you don't know what you want out of your life just yet. The pressure from your family is annoying af but you need to detach from that; take an honest look at the pros and cons yourself. Take it from someone with no education, you only get one shot at it. Invest in it now and reap the rewards for the rest of your life. There will be plenty of time to do drugs and slay poon when you're sitting on fat stacks of cash after you graduate. The sheer amount of money you make from your profess…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 02:23 PM
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Would she like talk like that to Brad Pitt? Keep your bitches in line.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 02:03 PM
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It's a sliding scale of AWALT more present in some and less in others.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 02:00 PM
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You can never prevent her from cheating if she wants to. What you can do is be prepared to walk the second you find out. Stop being possessive and make her wonder if you're cheating instead.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 01:58 PM
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Stop hating women. I'm no SJW but your attitude is doing you no good. Do you want to fuck these girls? Then fuck them. If not, go find your cream of the crop women elsewhere. You set your standards, not us.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 01:49 PM
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Nothing works unless you do mate, and a pound of theory is worth an ounce of action.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 01:46 PM
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but I've not had the chance to make my intentions clear Wrong, it's your job to go for what you want. Create that chance. A.k.a. stop BB'ing her with study advice and only text for logistics.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 01:42 PM
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No, you don't need to be that extreme. Just use dread game appropriately if women "misbehave" to put them back in their place. If they push the limits and are shitty to you on a regular basis, go ahead and next. This is why abundance is key.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 01:08 PM
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Oh, yeah, I'd invite her over
/r/askTRP20/01/16 11:42 PM
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Underrated comment.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 11:14 PM
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Don't shit where you eat and only text for logistics.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 11:04 PM
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I have no leverage here Wrong, walk away and don't put up with shit behavior.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 11:01 PM
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Women will be hypergamous, dodge responsibility, etc. no matter what society you put them in. This is visible in all societies. Contemporary society just brings it out more.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 10:59 PM
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You caved, expect her to branch swing from your beta ass eventually.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 10:44 PM
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Idk what you're asking mate. Don't stay in relationships that aren't worth it. A failed relationship is one where you aren't happy.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 05:58 PM
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Rearrange and you reward shit behavior. You already had the date planned. Imo suggesting another time is only ok if it's in response to your suggested time. It's a tinder girl, go ahead and next.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 05:55 PM
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This is scarcity mentality mate. You don't need us to tell you that the obvious TRP answer is don't, but you seem thirsty enough to go for it. Up to you.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 05:26 PM
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Cringe. Nothing good can ever come out of "showing off" your TRP knowledge like that. Brush it under the carpet if anyone brings it up.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:36 PM
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I have a very close friend whom I've had very strong feelings for almost two years. Shes known that... Shes known that Shes known She Stopped reading mate. Wrong subreddit. Good day.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:31 PM
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A man's struggle is to become a man. A woman's struggle is to stay a woman. The only area you don't have an advantage over younger guys in is looks. You should be miles ahead in other areas and can make up the "loss" that way.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:24 PM
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Ok, it's not ideal but women have imperfections too. You work with what you've got. Putting on muscle will help your situtation. There's fat dudes and guys with tiny dicks out there who still smash so you don't even have it that bad.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:17 PM
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You competed but how did you place? Play to win, set realistic goals of how well you can do in competition and achieve them.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:07 PM
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"Yeah, we'll cuddle and sleep alright" and proceed to escalate. She keeps putting up LMR? You go cold and show her the door. No reason to let her stay at that point.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:04 PM
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Women are programmed to look for a masculine leader and be repulsed by beta behavior. Lurk around here more.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:57 PM
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Don't hate on nature. If you leave a juicy steak on the dining table and leave the room, expect your dog to try and eat it. Read more on women's nature, what they do and don't find attractive and pinpoint the mistakes you're making.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:54 PM
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This so fucking much. What is there to gain?
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:50 PM
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What the fuck are you really asking? You know damn well she's damaged goods and your oneitis is making you look past her flaws entirely. Come on mate, don't allow yourself to consider anything remotely resembling a relationship with this girl. Next.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:47 PM
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Shit test? Not really, just her pouring out emotion into her tampon. Don't be a tampon. She doesn't seem completely repulsed by you sexually so you can still pursue her, but for the love of god stop texting unless it's to arrange a meet.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:38 PM
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All this shit's in your head. Jacked dudes have big asses and women love grabbing them. Own it.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:33 PM
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No, YOU set your standards for the women you date and sexual preferences in general.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:21 PM
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Good shit, help her rationalize.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:19 PM
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Plenty of guys have been dealt a worse hand. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and take control of your shit. If you really want to do something, you'll find a way.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:09 PM
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Of course you want to know but directly asking her shows weakness. If sexual past comes up in conversation, let her run her mouth. She'll tell you all you need to know.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:05 PM
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Perfectly? OP's obsession got the better of him and he ended up fixing something that wasn't broke. Yes, she turned out to be more damaged than he thought but he had a good thing going and lost it over some unnecessary bs. Oh well, on to the next.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:00 PM
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You've got a good thing going but if she no longer does it for you, then go ahead and fuck other girls. Get that dog dick outchu man.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:56 PM
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Is it possible? My friend, the entirety of TRP is about recovering from your BP past. Tips: Lead the situation Escalate better Don't get oneitis Always assume attraction until she resists You had contact with her after and haven't pursued her further since, you're somewhat beta to her now. Stop hamstering and move on.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:51 PM
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What's the definition of insanity again? Find your flaws and change up your approach.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:41 PM
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Beta move obsessing over her n-count. You can never know the real number, so why make her lie to you and ask about it? Wtf are you doing going through her phone like that anyway? Not because it's invasive to her privacy, but because it shows a shit ton of neediness/insecurity on your part. Doesn't seem like you had reasons to believe she was cheating or whatever. Massive loss of frame and wasted opportunity.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:20 PM
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Tell the others you think he's a dick and you don't want to hang with him. Alternatively, crush his confidence by roasting his ass out of the group so he doesn't want to tag along anymore.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 06:23 PM
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Help her rationalize as necessary when she needs to hamster having sex with you. As long as you don't give actual commitment away that easily.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:56 PM
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It will only make you more attractive to her and possibly make her step her game up. However, the way you handled it messed you up more. Sending her the wrong message wasn't the mistake, openly panicking about it to her right after was beta af. Play it off, subtly let her know you're fucking other girls and if she goes shitty? Then you dread/next her. Plates break all the time anyway.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:52 PM
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You know how women have defects too? Flat ass, small breasts, shit personality, you pick. Chances are you don't fuck 10/10s all the time either when you go out. So why are you worried about these girls not getting their dream man with a dick down to the floor that ejaculates money? You only need to be alpha ENOUGH. Now stop fucking making excuses.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:45 PM
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Right you are. I remember it being said that "girls will move mountains for the guys they're interested in". Chad would've crushed ass the same day he was rejected and not thought twice about it. Either way, I hope you pursued other girls over the break. It's obviously better to approach girls in person, but why are you still after her? She's already said no.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:31 PM
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Not in the same way. E.g. to you it's not a turn off if she's broke, unemployed and feminine. Turn the tables and see what happens. You should have standards though for the girls you want to fuck (too fat is too fat) and ones you're considering LTR'ing (don't housewife a ho).
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:25 PM
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String them along if you want to keep them around, say you want to move slow and "see how it goes", all while fucking them of course. They take it as a next if you let them know upfront you have no intentions to LTR. Remember that women would have no qualms about withholding sex and using you for your time.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:20 PM
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No problem. Whatever you're currently doing doesn't need fixing. Dread game is just for when you notice that attraction starting to fade.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:13 PM
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Women hate being called out on their bullshit. Tumblr feminists a million times more so.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:11 PM
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Only if you want to be attractive to her. Then again, you work for the same company so I hope you're not trying to fuck her. Don't shit where you eat, mate.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:08 PM
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Don't belittle women. You still have some learning to do. I'll have IM drop some knowledge on ya: MAXIM #19: “All past sacrifice is null and void if your continued association does not provide her with a tangible benefit." When women "love" you, they are honest about that feeling IN THAT MOMENT. The second you start showing weakness (beta behavior/insecurity) is the second they will jump ship a.k.a. branch swing. This function is instilled in women to prevent them from fucking betas. Women absol…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:03 PM
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Key words: female psychologist. Her advice is classic female solipsism - not able to see past her own perspective. You know how a woman's value depreciates over time? Of course it's logical for a woman to try and marry as young as possible to lock down that provider when her value in the SMP peaks. The decade is no doubt defining - FOR WOMEN. As a man you have far more leeway in when you choose to marry. Women get baby rabies, men don't. Don't buy the bs idea that men should somehow be hurried i…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 04:40 PM
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Let the relationship progress into an LTR - don't instantly grant her it; she has all the reason to rush things, you don't. Commitment is your bargaining chip, remember? To keep attraction, dread appropriately and make it clear you have options. The more she sees other women want you, the more she will want to have you to herself.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 04:28 PM
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Classic AMOG, his attempt to raise SMV in the eyes of women/alphas. Shoot him down, don't let him have his fun.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 11:13 PM
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Sounds like a lot of this is in your head. Have the girls actually said anything about it?
/r/askTRP18/01/16 11:00 PM
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You said you can pull a new girl everywhere you go. What's the problem?
/r/askTRP18/01/16 10:58 PM
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She's much more to you than FWB lol. You care about her too much.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 10:55 PM
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Ok. Idk about you but where I live, to pay a month's gym membership I'd have to work minimum wage for 5 hours a month. 5. Look into working very low hours then or cut your other spending? Seems to me it's the type of thing you can find the money for if you really want it.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 10:24 PM
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To put it bluntly, you're just another cock on the carousel, so don't feel too bad for fucking someone's girl. Might as well have your turn with her. Obviously don't do it on purpose as some guys will flip shit when they find out and try to mess with you.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 10:14 PM
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Put your foot down, tell them your answer (Law 38 if necessary) and to stop bugging you about it. You're not responsible for THEIR expectations of you. Be a man and don't let yourself be forced into talking about shit you don't want to talk about.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 08:17 PM
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We tell you how shit is, not what to do about it. You don't want to be a beta? Do shit on your own terms. If it's a big enough deal to you, consider moving to a country where the laws don't allow for divorce rape and the women aren't encouraged to be complete sluts socially. This is one option. The other is to roll the dice, stay where you are and try to find a decent enough woman. We all know what is said about unicorns, so a hell of a lot easier said than done.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 08:11 PM
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Keep swallowing that pill. You're not fully unplugged yet. Get over your ex, because you still have (negative) feelings for her. This is going to hold you back for as long as you let it. Drowning in a bunch of new pussy wouldn't hurt. Learn to be indifferent about the actions of women. All the new things you started doing should be for yourself. Not because the big boys on TRP said you need them for self-improvement. Do them because you genuinely want to, which is all the explanation you need wh…
/r/askTRP18/01/16 08:02 PM
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Your neediness in that conversation was the nail in the coffin. Who cares why she misses you? In those situations don't answer the text or lightly deflect/validate in your reply. And for the love of god don't reply at a 1:1 ratio. Women like to talk for the sake of talking so you need to ignore her every now and then. Next.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 07:53 PM
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You can learn from them but alphas will shit test harder than other friends to make sure you can hang (not lower their SMV). In my experience the friendships can feel more like work because you need to constantly keep up and hold frame. On the flipside, alphas will invite you to cooler parties and shit so up to you.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 07:48 PM
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Why are you taking orders from a coworker? If you're not paid to do it, don't fucking do it. I know the workplace isn't always this black and white but learn to say no when someone tries to manipulate you.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 07:41 PM
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Always be in control of birth control. Don't say you weren't warned when she mysteriously gets pregnant with your kid or worse, Chad Jr. Also if she stops doing what you want in bed, next her.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 07:38 PM
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Stop committing so much. You come off as needy. Use dread game.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 07:32 PM
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There's no excuses for not lifting mate. You're strapped for time? Then cut out the fluff in your routine. You could very well get by on as little as 30 minutes per session (compounds only with little rest) if that's what it comes down to. Even if you want to spend all your free time studying you'll still need to exercise for health reasons. Work with what you've got.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 07:30 PM
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Life's not a movie mate. When people die, life goes on. Be good to them while they're alive and have no regrets.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 07:19 PM
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You can still get that woman but it will be on different terms. Forget unconditional love, since a woman never truly loves you, only the things you do for her. In a society where hypergamy is rampant, you're better off assuming she will cheat/otherwise break your heart eventually. When SHTF, be ready to bail. You can still enjoy women.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 07:14 PM
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If you insist but be ready to walk when you're not getting anywhere
/r/askTRP18/01/16 07:05 PM
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Anywhere you normally approach girls. Bars, clubs, tinder - you pick. Remember that all plates eventually break: you either commit to the point they move up into LTR/FWB or you're too distant/hard to get and they lose interest. So give away just enough commitment to keep them around and have your fun.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 05:52 PM
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She's already cut contact to you a.k.a. she ain't interested mate. Would you really wanna deal with this type of behavior anyway?
/r/askTRP17/01/16 05:27 PM
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Here's my $0.02: Don't fool yourself into thinking you'll become some higher power because you fought the urge to wax your carrot. There's a ton of pseudoscience about how it will boost testosterone, give you better energy and so on. I'm not convinced about any of it. What can improve your life though is giving porn, since a lot of guys use it as a crutch to not go out and talk to girls.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 05:24 PM
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Only you can help yourself here. Game comes with practice and you're not practicing because you have self-esteem issues (feeling of not being good enough). Women don't give a fuck about the self-improvement you do (reading, meditation, diet). What matters to them is if you generate tingles. So get out and approach, escalate and close. Your SMV is high enough to get started.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 05:13 PM
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You don't have serious enough goals. If you stop being on the computer and do nothing with the extra time, you'll just get bored and go back to your old habits. Until you find something meaningful to do with that extra time that is. Don't do things for the sake of doing them (e.g. cutting sugar). Have purpose.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 05:06 PM
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Don't use monk mode as an excuse to procrastinate. It's only for those who desperately need it and have no SMV to begin with. You're not going to emerge out of it some sexual god. You already had a girl, you can get another. Don't blame your failures on lack of SMV. So what do you do? That depends. Wanna spin plates? Spin plates. Want an LTR? Get an LTR. Personally I wouldn't try to LTR girls off tinder though. Oh and really assess if you want to do LDR's at all. Chances are she is getting more …
/r/askTRP17/01/16 05:01 PM
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Lifting is the most valuable tool for looking better, but it shouldn't define your masculinity. Understand this: Most guys in the world in the world who fuck don't lift and the ones that do, don't even do it well enough to achieve decent results. I love to lift myself but it gets too much emphasis around here. Most guys need the most work on character, game, dominance and so on.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 02:23 PM
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You come off very needy. Fake it (abundance) til you make it and learn how to escalate on your dates.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 01:50 PM
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You genuinely don't want to spin plates? No problem, do things on your own terms. Explore FWB/LTR's then, just be honest about what you want and then go for it.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 01:39 PM
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Learn how to assert yourself better. Holding hands without escalation is one way you fucked up. You want to take a party girl on a date? Don't be a time ho, man. Points for actually being out there in the field. You know your mistakes, now get more practice.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 01:35 PM
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You don't have Cristiano Ronaldo -level SMV so don't try to pull this off. You already come off needy by having asked her for reassurance of not fucking someone else. Time to move on.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 01:25 PM
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Only you can fix your problems. You clearly don't want to ditch the wizard hat hard enough. So, the solution? Find motivation, because no one else will do that for you, or accept that your situation will only continue.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 01:19 PM
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Textbook oneitis bro. Approach new girls and learn abundance. Fill that emptiness inside you with some strange. Also, why did you want an LDR in the first place? You're still plugged, lurk around here some more.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 01:13 PM
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If they're in your class/study programme that's where you eat. You're playing with fire and a crazy enough girl can try and fuck with your study success. You're in college mate, use your imagination. There's more parties every weekend than you can hit up to find your ONS's. Get out of your comfort zone.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 01:08 PM
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Yeah you did get out-alphad in her eyes by being too nice after he was rude and then leaving the situation after he "took over". At least you had enough abundance mentality to move on to other girls right after. Also, that thing you thought - just say it next time. Speaking out may have let you hold frame here. Anyway, have Jen make a choice between you and him e.g. "Do you know this asshole?" and if she's insistent on talking to the guy then you weren't alpha/high SMV enough, in which case move…
/r/askTRP17/01/16 01:03 PM
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Don't take banter too seriously, as long as it's all in good fun. If someone pushes boundaries too often for your comfort after you make it known, cut them off and don't let em back in. Otherwise you lose frame and therefore respect.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:37 PM
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Don't try and game them all at once. Pick one, isolate her and do your thing 1-on-1. If you meet those girls again the preselection will only work to your advantage.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:30 PM
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Can't fix it? Then don't try and maintain the eye contact. No one wants to see that, male or female. Plenty of other ways for you to be dominant.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:26 PM
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Go ahead and make use of the SMV boost, but don't fall into the BB category in their eyes.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 09:10 PM
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You decide if the time's worth it. Just remember that commit too much and the pussy dries up.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 09:06 PM
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Ultimately it comes down to SMV. Society determines SMV to an extent. Different society different standards. It doesn't help that TRP overemphasizes looks and lifting over other SMV factors. Remember that most dudes in the world who get laid don't have that impressive physiques at all.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 09:03 PM
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You need to state your terms and stand by them. If she doesn't comply, show her the door.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 08:56 PM
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Or accept what you can't change and use it to your advantage.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:16 PM
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Wank less and watch less porn.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:04 PM
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It's now what you wear but how you wear it.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:02 PM
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You know you could've done better. You can't always win though. Use the preselection to your advantage and tell her.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:00 PM
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This is where the value of your time gets decided. Are you the type of guy that will let a plate reschedule on him, twice? Btw I really hope it was at least a day in advance, otherwise that's just straight disrespect.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 05:53 PM
2

First of all the real number could be anything. You can never know the real number, so don't bother asking. However, the fact she's already admitted to a high n-count would suggest she gets around. Around the CC. Tread carefully, hold frame, and stay the fuck on guard.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 05:46 PM
2

Lack of sex. This is the biggest tell. If there's no sex, you're just being used for resources. Make sure you're getting your end of the deal. You're still meeting in person every few weeks so you still have a slim chance of making this work. Don't assume this to mean shit. The hamster will hamster when it feels like it. Don't get needy and start probing her with questions about other guys etc, because chances are she will just tell you what you need to know anyway by hinting at shit. Be on guar…
/r/askTRP16/01/16 05:39 PM
1

Nah mate, it's more like loading all six and praying to sweet baby jesus the gun jams. If you don't want the kids, why even consider go any further than an LTR?
/r/askTRP16/01/16 02:44 PM
1

You aren't. Have her figure her shit out and for the love of god do not reward her with attention.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 02:41 PM
2

Have you even fucked her? You gave away a ton of commitment to a tinder girl and she lost interest after she had her fun with you. You invested too much too soon.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 02:29 PM
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What do you care? She's a plate.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 01:58 PM
2

It's better looks = higher SMV = better offspring. Abs are an obvious part of looking good. Who gives a shit though? You have them so use to your advantage.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 01:52 PM
1

You're still BP as fuck. You had no frame in the relationship to begin with. 2 hour sitdown to talk about feelings? Need I say more? She's been dread gaming you hard and you took the bait each time. You want to call her out on her actions? Which will do what exactly? She's already hamstered all her behavior away. Get over your oneitis or enjoy dealing with this bs until she branch swings/cheats/whatever.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 01:49 PM
3

Losing it will become increasingly awkward the older he gets. There's no comforting answer because you can't get good at sex without doing it. How you feel about it personally is up to you but socially it will be weird if you're well into your 20's with your cherry intact.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 01:28 PM
2

Only help those who want to be helped. Don't rescue him out of the situations he gets himself into. Let him learn his lesson and eventually he'll be ready to snap out of it.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 01:20 PM
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You can't promote having plates and fucking multiple women, and then complain they are whores at the same time, while praying one day you get the virginal bride. That's not RP. RP is understanding women's nature and then doing what you want with the information. an overwhelming amount of this shit on here is hypocritical and just adding to the problem The world is amoral, my friend. You want to be a hero and fix things? Go ahead, but you're fighting a losing battle. Why is it that an entire gene…
/r/askTRP16/01/16 01:06 PM
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Why should I have to prove myself to a woman Because that's how you generate tingles and make her want your seed. You haven't found your comfort zone in how you attract women yet. Keep working on game.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 12:56 PM
1

Just have them talk about themselves. They'll tell you all you need to know. Obviously lead them into confessing shit.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 01:23 AM
1

You just can't help everyone. Perhaps some men are truly content with their wives getting some on the side. And whatever else she has planned.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 01:21 AM
1

Chad doesn't know why he drowns in pussy. Nor does he care.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 01:13 AM
1

Alpha widow, you didn't measure up. Next.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 01:11 AM
1

You're overthinking shit. Why would you not fuck these girls? Don't gerbil your way out of swiping your V-card for some false notion of having to "earn" it. Do you think Chad and Thad feel the need to earn that DP with the hot cheerleader or do they just show up and smash?
/r/askTRP16/01/16 01:07 AM
1

Hold off the LTR. Don't wanna be making hasty decisions with ex's around. Treat like a shit test, have her know you will walk if she disrespects you by conitinuing to talk to him.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 01:00 AM
1

Nothing hidden about that sexuality mate. Denial is a beta trait though, yes. Are you wrong? The world is amoral, feel bad if you want lol.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 12:55 AM
1

Earth to atticusfinch, you're still firmly in orbit.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 12:52 AM
1

Keep getting head then lol. Be grateful for having kept this one 4 months, most plates break before that. Then again yours sounds more like FWB. Use dread and for fuck's sake, spin more plates.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 12:49 AM
2

TRP tells you how the world is, not what to do about it. TRP, like the world, is amoral. how would you suggest handling the bitterness and hateful discussion-tone/climate that seems to be part of TRP? Don't be a lil' bitch. Jokes aside, take what is useful and leave the rest.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 12:44 AM
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You seem plugged in still. Why even reply after rejection? You can't get what you want from her so on to the next. I have this hope that maybe after months of no contact we can forget about the past Lose it, because in her eyes once a beta always a beta. Yeah, maybe you can salvage some pity pussy a couple months down the line but who cares.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 12:38 AM
2

Want to become more unplugged? Read less and apply more. You don't need much more than the sidebar and the occasional lurk for that. Nothing will unplug you like witnessing AWALT firsthand.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 12:29 AM
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Like anywhere else. Approach and don't be needy.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 12:25 AM
1

Nuh uh uh. Always be in control of birth control. Wrap it up or enjoy what she's got in store for you.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 12:23 AM
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I decided i wanted to tell her that I forgave her for everything she had done to me What the fuck did you expect? She's playing games with some other dude and you let her get away with it, surely you understand this. The respect is gone. Your flaw is not willing to walk away and developing oneitis.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 12:18 AM
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Bring her back down to earth. Here are some classic replies: "don't flatter yourself honey" "bitch you ugly, you look like a kneecap" (one for the DT's, use with caution) "who said they want you in the pictures?" you get the point
/r/askTRP16/01/16 12:05 AM
1

Confidence? Put work into your social game until you can feel entitled to be confident. Awkwardness? Get comfortable around people. Learn how to banter.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 11:57 PM
1

I feel so sad right now The world doesn't give a shit mate. Approach women and raise SMV. Will it all come in due time? It will come when you've put in enough effort in the right places, see above.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 11:49 PM
1

I seem to attract the girls who are just looking for beta orbiters and validation Make no mistake these girls are ultimately looking for alpha dick no matter what they say. Just don't appear beta and you'll be fine. The RP thing to do about your disability is do what you can lifting-wise and maximize SMV in other ways. Life ain't fair so deal with it.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 11:42 PM
1

she told me a couple of time that I was looking arrogant Without knowing more details I can only assume that was a shit test of sorts. As long as you did nothing autistic to show that arrogance don't worry. Bottom line is don't let her opinion change your behavior.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 11:31 PM
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Life ain't the movies mate. Women won't openly drool after you until you project high enough SMV even if you're hot. Good thing is you don't even need them to. Just approach and play the numbers game with the ones you want to get inside. Until you reveal your SMV (status, money, masculinity, good looks) you're just another dude on the street, so don't seek attention. Leave that to the women.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 11:25 PM
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Started off with the intention of being friends with a girl You didn't approach fast enough and you're now an orbiter in her eyes. Especially now that you've spent nights over and not fucked, etc. "I can't really say, as I only see you a as friend" As the big homie Patrice would put it, she used you as a Time Ho. He has a radio bit on this and your behavior is textbook. Also, if you have to ask, no you cannot (@ the fuccboi thing). She gave you tons of IOI's and you acted on none of them. You no…
/r/askTRP15/01/16 11:14 PM
1

A man's struggle is to become a man. Contrary to what some of the comments suggest, mistakes like yours here fucking suck and you shouldn't make them. Obviously though, they're unavoidable and are just part of the struggle. Learn from them and move on. Read more on the nature of women and internalize AWALT. You're dating again, so make sure you know how to spot red flags. Next if/when necessary. "I thought my ex was the most innocent and sweet and perfect girl ever" Don't expect to find unicorns…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 10:52 PM
1

Solipsism. The truth is what they make it. For as long as there's a hole in my ass the female hamster will hamster.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 12:18 AM
1

Never allow her to "have" you. AKA don't commit too fast, keep raising SMV and make it clear she's not your only option. Always be willing to walk if needed. "Hey, I got this guy, lets see how much better I can do." Hypergamy 101. This one's not gonna go away regardless of what you do. TL;DR be a guy that can cheat but doesn't (necessarily).
/r/askTRP13/01/16 11:29 PM
2

Tinder is Domino's for pussy for guys with good looks/high enough SMV. You don't seem to be one of them. Work on your game, approach in person. Learn abundance.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 11:08 PM
1

No such thing as text game. You get girls to meet you? Ok, but that's barely your foot in the door on your way to fucking her. It's your job to go for the kiss and touching etc. If you have to ask, no you can't. You're on tinder btw so the goal is to fuck, not LTR. Keep progressing.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 10:54 PM
1

That's crab in a bucket mentality buddy. Learn to use others' success as motivation or ignore and improve yourself.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 10:44 PM
1

No sex? Then cut the commitment. It's either a shit test or she's looking elsewhere for dick.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 10:33 PM
2

Don't major in the minors. You want to master game? Stop reading and start approaching.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 10:23 PM
2

Your hamster is showing. Unless you can stick your dick in her long-distance I don't see what you get out of that LDR. Back to reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 10:04 PM
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