something i just kinda reflected on.

so long time ago i was with this chick and we were on 2nd date and went to my place. i had been pretty supplicative in terms of compliments the first date, not so much the second, and we go to my bed and she says she just wants to cuddle and sleep. i pester for sex a lil more but she holds ground and told me eventually we will. i was like 19 years old (24 now) so its another life ago basically, but still was just wondering about it in retrospect. was this a shit test where, if cards played right, I'd have had sex that night? Or was this the woman's attempt to secure commitment/attention through sex by ensuring I would have to give her future dates to get what I wanted?