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RedAsBlood/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 08:32 PM
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Girls just want to have fun. Even the most sophisticated girl doesn't want to have deep conversations all the time. You just have to find what works for you and how you bring your own fun / unique style into the conversation.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 02:14 PM
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Thanks for sharing your story. Mine is quite similar. I recently realized that my parents were a very large part of my issues, mostly from my mom being a narcissist and my dad being an absent enabler. It really fucks with your head when you have parents like that. You end up very socially stunted. But all you can do is look forward and try to fix your issues. Cut toxic people out of your life.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 01:49 PM
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Good for you for setting boundaries. You are on the right path. Now you just need to polarize asap after you meet them and this won't happen any more.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 02:09 PM
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TRP is just a collection of ideas. Its not a guide of how to live your life. Just a collection of things that worked / didnt work for other guys. Your friend gets girls cause hes a bad boy drug dealer. Certain types of girls love that shit. The point I was trying to make is that you should try to get girls NOW. Most of your issue is just your poor self esteem manifesting in your subconscious behaviours. In order to get good game you have to practice. So start now! Getting "ripped" won't fix your…
/r/askTRP11/03/17 08:33 PM
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She was rejecting you. Never ever see a girl who says she has mental issues and is seeing a shrink.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 04:07 PM
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If you consistently fail to make friends the issue is you. Based on how you describe what you want out of others (just people to do stuff with occasionally) you probably fail to make any sort of lasting connection that makes other people want to hang out with you. Friendships need to go both ways. You need to provide others witha reason to want to hang out with you.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 04:05 PM
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Monk mode is just a buffer for you to prevent the sting of rejection. You probably aren't low value. You just have shitty self esteem and really really bad game. My advice would be to embrace rejection. Go talk to every girl you see. Its really not that bad. Ask your friends for help with girls. Ask them what works for them. If they do actually care about you they will give you decent advice. If they don't, find new friends who actually like you.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:50 PM
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You probably start letting out the beta qualities when she is fishing for comfort. Lets put it this way: comfort (your time and attention and all the good things that go along with it) should only be given out as a reward for good behaviour. If you freely give out comfort without good behaviour from her (sexual intimacy) she loses respect for you. All good looking women just do this innately. They probably don't even realize what they are doing. They are just good at manipulating losers to get w…
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:41 PM
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You need to polarize early so you don't end up in this situation. Don't be a chicken! Make a move.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:28 PM
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Be a man. Take responsibility for your actions. If you keep relying on your mom / grandma for everything you will never be happy. Get a real job and move out.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:21 PM
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Nice catch
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:20 PM
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The only thing you have to do is have a good looking body and take care of yourself well. If you don't work out, start now. Girls with the best looking bodies are the ones who do yoga and lots of cardio. Maybe a bit of light strength conditioning. Don't go overboard with upper body though. Have a feminine sense of style. Don't go overboard on the makeup. Other than that, be approachable. Talk to guys who come up to you.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:12 PM
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You seem like a smart dude. You are probably just doing some social faux pauxs that you don't realize you are doing. Apply your intelligence to learning about social skills. Here are some recommended books: how to win friends and influence people, charisma myth, no more mr nice guy. Plenty of others out there. Also: talk to everyone. Get more used to listening to people than always trying to put your side out there. People like people who listen to them.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:04 PM
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Personally I don't think it really matters. She was never interested / attracted enough to actually meet up with you. I don't think she will really care. Probably too busy with other guys. I wouldn't waste any further time on girls like this. You would be much better off using this energy on other women.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 02:58 PM
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Unfortunately theres really not an easy solution to this. You will have to do a lot of soul searching to find the reason why you are so negative towards other people. Try meditating. You might be lacking in social skills as well. Some frequently recommended books are: how to win friends and influence people, charisma myth and maybe no more mr nice guy if you have that issue. Try to be honest with yourself and take responsibility for your actions.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 02:54 PM
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Pure gold right here
/r/askTRP11/03/17 02:50 PM
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Girls just like to have fun. Keep the conversation / flirting fun. If it starts to fizzle, don't over invest and stick around. Go talk to other people. Kino is good, but if you try to do it when its unwanted you will come off as a creep. Girls really notice if you are very social and are able to talk well with others. They especially notice if other women find you attractive as well.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 02:47 PM
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I don't think its manipulative / shady at all. If he just presented evidence of what these people are really like behind closed doors he is essentially just telling the truth. The manipulative / shady people are the ones pretending to be good workers to their bosses but treating everyone else like shit. Good for him. Your workplace is probably much better off now. Adding a little bit of machiavellianism to your life is a good thing in my opinion.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 02:43 PM
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Thank you for your story.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 06:54 PM
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It just means you are not high value enough for them to go out of your way. You have two options really: increase your value or work on your game. Ideally you should be doing both. Personally, I really couldn't be bothered to spend time with a woman who isn't super obviously really into me. I've got too much other fun shit to do than worry about chasing after a half interested girl.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 04:05 PM
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Yeah very well could be that you left it for so long. She could have written it off as a ONS. Maybe she didnt like you / didnt have the best time. Maybe shes seeing someone else. Who knows what goes through their heads. I would keep your investment minimal with her to avoid looking desperate. Maybe text "coffee?" and thats it.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 04:02 PM
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Hiking / walk in a park are great (free!). If it goes well you transition to lunch / coffee. Ideally, you should do something that you are good at / knowledgeable of / comfortable at and invite her along.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 03:58 PM
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Its all in your emotional state of how you handle it. If its bothering you, it will show in your subconscious behaviour and she will feed off it. I would brush it off and be like good damn you are sooo hot bby. Give me like 10 mins and we can go again. Just spend lots of time on foreplay and keeping her aroused inbetween. Most women get very aroused when a high value man blows a load in her. Ive found some girls moan just as hard when you get off as when they do. Its OK to blow your load man. Th…
/r/askTRP10/03/17 03:55 PM
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They actively try really hard to present the image that they are "good people." Their social reputation depends on it. I think you are overly naiive. Sure there are some good ones out there, but a lot of them are not.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 03:51 PM
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I'd say no. She keeps you around for a reason. Emotional validation and comfort. She will not want to lose that and would potentially sabotage your chances with other women.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 03:48 PM
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You have a weak frame. Who gives a fuck if you look young. What the hell are you doing getting a girls email?? When you ask a girl out, you ask her to do a specific thing on a specific date and time and then get her # / give her yours. Asking for email just makes you look weak and desperate.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 03:42 PM
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Read up about stoicism.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 03:17 PM
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Well, you started dating a cheater. Cheaters gunna cheat. Nexxxxtttttt
/r/askTRP10/03/17 03:16 PM
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As others have said you need to take responsibility for your actions. You got caught with an illegal drug. My suggestion would be to immediately set up an appointment with whichever admin official is responsible for deciding what happens to you and tell them you have a drug problem and you don't know what to do and you NEED help. You will likely have to go through rehab but you won't sacrifice your future. I would also tell your parents. They will be much less upset with you if you admit to your…
/r/askTRP10/03/17 03:11 PM
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Sounds like a comfort test to me. Plenty of info around on how to deal with and handle those.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 03:07 PM
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Life is always a work in progress. I think for me, a huge issue is always having a mind that is way too active. I try to focus on meditating and being mindful, while improving my mental health. I think moderation and variety are also important. Going too nuts on one specific thing or not having a variety of different things to focus on can cause burnout. Hope this helps - not sure if its the answer you are looking for.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 03:06 PM
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I didnt read very much of your post. But I can tell you this - a girl who genuinely wants to fuck you would crawl through a pit of broken glass on her hands and knees to do so.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 03:00 PM
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Its a sign that she does not respect you. Personally, I would minimize contact with someone who does this to you.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 02:58 PM
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You would think at this point that everyone on here would understand this. But theres so many special snowflakes out there that think their bodies are good, yet post on asktrp questioning why they cant get a date / girls ignore them / dont contact them / etc.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 02:50 PM
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I read that story as well. I think its a case of a girl who just banged a guy way out of her league that she could never get commitment from. I doubt shes anything more than a 7 (prob 5-6) based on how she described her body. From the way she was talking it didn't seem that she had the best relationship with her "fiance". She "didn't like" giving blow jobs until she met this guy. And then she swallowed his load several times. Also keep in mind she is probably not as chaste as she said she is. I …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 02:41 PM
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They are just jealous. If any of them actually listened to dan's conversation with joe rogan they'd realize hes a stand up guy who would be super fun to party with and goes way out of his way to help out his buddies. He just gets a lot of hate because he leads a lifestyle most guys can't even imagine. I'd love to party with dan. But then again i'm not a sex starved desperate loser.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 01:58 PM
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You should have invited her over for coffee again.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 04:57 PM
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The problem with your message is you aren't giving her any plausible deniability. You are just outright inviting her over for sex. Girls don't like that. Maybe she wants to date you. Maybe she just wasn't that into you. Maybe you were just weird / clingy after sex. Either way this isn't a good sign. Maybe more of a rejection than a shit test.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 04:56 PM
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Did you ever try a 2nd round? Did you ever try keeping going after you cum? I find even if i nut before a girl i can keep the boner and can keep fucking her until she cums too. Just combine some clitoral stimulation at this point to get her going quicker. Who cares if you cum quick. It will only bother the girl if you show it bothers you. Just brush it off as her being really hot / good in bed. She will be flattered. Assuming you are pretty young, you should be ready to go again pretty quick.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 04:51 PM
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Invite her out to do something fun and active that you are familiar with. Coffee dates are boring and resolve around conversation. If you aren't that good at conversing with women, this date won't go well. Active dates are just way more fun and memorable.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 04:46 PM
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There might be a difference between what you think looks good in a male body vs what women like. Theres a reason why more attractive women aren't into you and its probably not just your chin. Its hard to reflect on yourself and look for things that need changing.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 04:02 PM
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You should have escalated on her in the first place. Polarize early to avoid wasting time.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:40 AM
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It's just typical girl insecurity. Laugh it off and bang her good.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:38 AM
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If you asked her out and she said no without a counter offer, this is a rejection.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:36 AM
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She did not dump you for missing Valentines day.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:34 AM
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You really need to improve your mental health. The shitty thoughts going through your head leech into your body language. Women smell it on you from a mile away and avoid you like the plague. Start meditating. Another thing that really helped me was the concept of mindfulness. Also would recommend reading the charisma myth. You really gotta focus on what's important here. Your health and studies are way more important than getting laid. But I think you will find that once you fix your mental hea…
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:33 AM
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Trust me, you would know if a girl was really into you. If it's been 4 days since the date and she's been out partying it's not a good sign. I would stop contacting her personally. Who knows maybe she will text you. But really what you should be doing is asking other girls out. It's not like you are married to this one.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:26 AM
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She's just playing with you for fun. Kind of like what a cat does to a mouse when it's bored. Next.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:19 AM
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Tell her to get a towel. Almost all women I've slept with are extremely horny while on their period. Just show her it doesn't bother you. If she's still super insecure about it you can still do other stuff like finger her. She can blow you... Use your imagination.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:17 AM
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You are doing it wrong it's sex first then commitment. Before asking shit here you should do your homework. Stop being a lazy fuck.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:14 AM
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I think you lost this one man. If she really wanted you, you would know. Stop torturing yourself over possible scenarios and ask another girl. Good news for you is if you are getting dates there is an initial attraction. You are just losing her with your behaviour on the dates.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:11 AM
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You get picked on because you are an easy target. Good news if you are tall. Most guys aren't and can't change that. If you actually want to get laid, go hit the gym and eat a shitload. It's not difficult, just takes effort. Develop a better sense of style and have good hygiene. Stop having a pity party for yourself, it's not that bad.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:08 AM
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You have a good attitude towards it. In life, its hard to totally avoid toxic people. However learning to identify them and deal with them, while minimizing their involvment in your life is an incredibly useful life skill. Its totally OK to vent and share your frustrations. Just don't dwell on it too much.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 03:01 PM
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This sub celebrates masculinity. Not equality with women. There is nothing inherently hateful or full of contempt about OP's message. He is simply giving a literal interpretation of the statue.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 02:56 PM
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You are on the wrong sub if you are asking about mysogyny.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 03:40 PM
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This is partly due to girls being girls and partly due to your reaction to it. Firstly, girls are selfish. If they aren't banging you, you are just validation and resources to them. They don't want to share this so they make you out to be a loser. Secondly, you are confirming what your "girlfriends" are saying to their friends by acting butthurt and losing your confidence. Essentially you are outting yourself as a beta. What you should do in these situations is not hug your "girlfriend", instead…
/r/askTRP21/12/16 06:58 PM
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Watch some good looking popular guys in the club. Try to emulate what they do.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 06:51 PM
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If you are talking to her she already knows that you like her. Assuming you want to get laid, you should invite her out on a fun date and escalate on her.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 06:50 PM
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Next. Edit: especially since she did it in front of you. Thats cucking. She has zero respect for you. Don't waste your time validating her. Hard next. No contact. Ignore.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:50 PM
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Just do it. Don't tell others you are doing it. If you don't want to be seen as a wimp, stop being one. Its quite simple really.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:49 PM
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Lack of interest on her part is due to a lack of attraction. Ways to increase attraction: increase SMV (easy ways are dress and groom better and LIFT) and get better game.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:48 PM
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Relevance is that your body probably sucks. You can change that though. I'm assuming you want to get laid. For guys your age (college) the only thing that really matters is what your body looks like. If you are skinny fat or just fat and you have no game (which is you) you won't get laid. So you NEED to fix your diet (#1) lift smarter / better and go talk to people to get rid of your social awkwardness.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:45 PM
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You are way overthinking things. You need to get a girl attracted enough to want to touch your dick first. I'm assuming you are a kissless virgin at this point. Your mindset at this point should be what do i need to do to get girls to touch my dick.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:40 PM
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You don't mention that you are in good shape or ripped at all, so I can imagine you are skinny fat or just fat. Fix your diet and lift. You mentioned Trump. Trump thinks he is the absolute shit and doesn't give a fuck about anything. You need to love yourself as much as trump loves himself.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:38 PM
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If you used condoms you are 99% likely OK. Chances of her getting pregnant at 39 are slim to none. Next time buy your own condoms.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:33 PM
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I always put my finger on the edge of the condom before i pull out. Sometimes the jizz makes your dick slip against it when you pull out. There certainly is a chance some cum could have leaked out if it was all the way in there. Suggesting she take plan b is a good idea, but don't be overly forceful about it so you don't invoke her "independent woman" response. I would offer to pay for it.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:31 PM
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Shes probably insecure / nervous about what you think. Maybe make a light joke about it to show that it doesn't bother you.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:27 PM
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Yes. Your reputation will follow you. If you get a rep as a "nice guy" angry virgin it will spread like wildfire. You will have major trouble with women in the same social circles as the ones you told off. If you do it enough it will be really bad. Your behaviour is something women do. It is very feminine to become overly emotional.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:25 PM
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When i was younger, i developed my wit from having several groups of close male friends who used to tease, make fun of and banter with each other. Do you have guy friends? If you don't try to make some.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:21 PM
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You are putting the chicken before the egg. You need to be able to talk to girls and get them to like you and want to touch your dick first. So go talk to girls. Getting rejected is good for you.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:17 PM
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I grew up in a similar situation to you. Overly beta and absent father. Wasted a lot of my 20s partying and being a dumbass. You need to find your own path. Stop looking for someone to guide you. Figure out what YOU want to do with your life and make a plan to make it happen.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 04:14 PM
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Its probably an issue of power / control. Your wife is used to having the power in the relationship. You essentially asked for her permission to wake up that girl. She denied it. You did it anyways. She uses anger / emotions to try to control you / get the power back. She is not used to you acting this way. Best way to deal with the situation is totally ignore it and act like she is being unreasonable. Hold frame. Expect a lot more pushback in the future in situations like this. Remember, you ar…
/r/askTRP21/12/16 04:06 PM
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That, my friend, is the classic "player" shit test. You failed it by taking it seriously. Agree and amplify. Say something that will make her laugh. Or just ignore it and change the subject.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 03:57 PM
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Heres what happened: She met chad. She broke up with you. She fucked chad. Now chad doesn't want to see her again. Now she realizes she fucked up and wants you back. Just ignore her and date other girls.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 03:55 PM
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It depends what they are like with the rest of your life. If this is a one off thing that they are crazy about and you want to keep them in your life, its just a hair cut. Get something stylish. If they are overly controlling in all aspects of your life it may be better to cut contact if you can afford to. Being able to draw a line with your parents and live life as an independent adult is rewarding.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 03:52 PM
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Your main issue is that you do not have an abundance mentality. You are overly focused on one girl. As soon as she flaked once you should have written her off. If she REALLY wanted to fuck you, she would be on your dick right now.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 03:48 PM
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There are no short cuts. Stop being lazy and get your shit together.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 03:46 PM
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Over possessiveness is not a good trait. It is mate guarding. It usually has the opposite intended effect.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 03:44 PM
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Never contact her again. Ignore her if she contacts you. Congrats you dodged a bullet.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 03:40 PM
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The "friend zone" is quite simply a man they are not sexually attracted to. Be it from physical attributes (body or face) or personality (too beta, feminine, etc). She just doesn't want to fuck you. But she will keep you around because you provide value to her in some sort of way (validation, monetary things). Heres how to never end up in the "friend zone". Be up front about your sexual desire. If the woman doesn't reciprocate, be pleasant to her but don't go out of your way for her or turn her …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 03:33 PM
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Even better is how she thinks she still attractive when shes at least 50 lbs overweight. If you are supposed to be 100-130 lbs, 50-100 lbs extra is A LOT. Especially when a woman is over 30 and has had children. Just hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 03:26 PM
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You can't pull 7s because you have no game. Picking up girls isn't complicated or difficult. It just requires practice and calibration to what works for you. If you really want to pick up women, spend less time doing all that other stuff and go talk to them.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 02:40 PM
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Start watching some stand up comedy on youtube or whatever. Just watch how they handle hecklers and such. Should help you develop a witt. Banter a lot with your male friends.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 06:02 PM
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Actions speak louder than words. If you ask her out and its anything less than an excited yes, it means no in girlspeak.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 06:00 PM
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You are missing the real red flags here. Still keeps in contact with her ex. Mostly male friends (that she goes on trips with just guys). And thats what you know about.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 05:59 PM
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You are mate guarding. Do not mate guard. Theres plenty of information on the main sub / other manosphere websites on mate guarding and why its such a horrible idea. Ultimately, if shes doing stuff like this she is not suitable for an LTR. Downgrade her to a plate or next her. Your behaviour in this situation is abyssmal. Total beta. At least pretend to have some sort of abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 05:54 PM
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I don't think this should really change too much for you. Continue your life, focus on yourself and be supportive towards her. Try to be positive and upbeat. Help her try to forget whats going on and have a good time. Terminal cancer doesn't always mean game over immediately. She could live a long time. Ultimately though, you cannot forget about yourself. Don't lose sight of your own mission and get too caught up in trying to help her. She wont respect you for it and it will destroy you.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 05:41 PM
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No she won't. Reason being you are just emotional validation for you. If you are seeing someone else, she won't want to share that validation. Secondly, if a girl LJBF rejects you, she is not really attracted to you at all. She sees you as less than human / not fit for dating. Thus she would pass this judgement on to other women, confirming that you are a loser. If you get rejected, handle the loss like a man, be friendly towards her, but move on and approach other women.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 03:04 PM
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Its only a big deal if you make it a big deal. Personally, I think it makes you seem more interesting. If they ask about it, explain it in a passionate way. Women find men who are really passionate about something attractive. The part about inducing jealousy via cucking is a bit weird tho.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 03:00 PM
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What did they say about you. Generally, if you are interested in someone its best to talk to them directly and not go through her friends as it makes you seem unconfident / beta.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 02:56 PM
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Sounds like you are not good a holding frame. Being overly emotional and easy to provoke are not good attributes for a man. They are feminine characteristics. You probably get picked on cause you are easy to provoke. Just some food for thought.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 02:54 PM
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Your insecurities about your looks are probably making you miss a lot of opportunities that you didnt even know were there
/r/askTRP26/11/16 02:51 PM
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All that matters is your game. Yes, you can get laid. But you need to get over your insecurities. Women will smell it on you from a mile away. You have to love yourself first. Women are hugely attracted to confidence. If you dont like something about yourself, change it! As a former (still) skinny guy, make sure you are getting enough calories and protein in. Eat like your life depends on it!
/r/askTRP26/11/16 02:49 PM
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Theres quite a few guides on teasing / flirting on the main sub. Give those a read. Also read up on IOIs/IODs (indicators of interest / disinterest) I dont think what you are suggesting is a good plan. It would probably seem forced / inorganic and weird to a woman. Women are much better at reading body language / communication than men are. You need to seem organic and natural or you will come off as creepy. My suggestion would be to try to get a natural conversation flowing. Be genuinely intere…
/r/askTRP26/11/16 02:45 PM
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Generally, its best to avoid hot topic conversations (politics, religion) with people you aren't super good friends with. Law of power #38 - think as you like but behave like others. I would recommend you read the laws of power. It may help you out.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 02:36 PM
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No. Just no. Move on. She is just keeping you around for emotional validation. Don't be her shoulder to cry on.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 02:31 PM
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Seems like you are just more of a feminine guy, maybe have low T levels? Id suggest getting that checked. Have you ever tried any masculine hobbies? Like martial arts or physical sports? Have you tried lifting weights? Have you tried no fap / no porn? It is quite odd that you have no sex drive at your age.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 02:30 PM
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Dump her. Find a new place to live. Unless you have a cuck fetish.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 02:23 PM
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Thing is tho, women are very attracted to guys other women are attracted to. They want to win. Shes just putting up a fuss cause she wants OP for herself.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:48 PM
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If you never discussed being exclusive I dont see what the big deal is. If she sees you as really attractive she would probably be suprised you werent seeing other women. Shes probably seeing other guys too. I would just ignore and carry on as usual or pressure flip it.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:45 PM
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Lead an interesting life that is not just about her. This is TRP 101 really. Go read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:38 PM
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Too much TRP is not a good thing. There is a lot of garbage out there. Personally I only read posts with >100-200 upvotes once or twice a month. Even 1hr a day is too much IMO.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:37 PM
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If you are not that into her, just break up. If you are worried about social consequences it will be worse if you are outted as a cheater. Sure breaking up is hard, but its better for both of you in the long run. You can date multiple women (dont go exclusive next time) and she can find someone who cares about her.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:32 PM
1

I don't really watch sports either. All my friends are in pools for hockey and football. I just don't participate in that stuff. Find your own interesting hobbies and get into them. Do you do anything besides lifting? Personally, I'm into more of the "extreme" sports like mountain biking, skiing, climbing / bouldering, etc. Find ppl to hang out with who have similar interests.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:29 PM
3

They ignore you because you are not attractive to them. It would literally be an insult for you to approach them. Good news is you can change that. Dress better, groom better, eat well and lift weights. Don't be a social retard.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:26 PM
1

Read the book of pook, its a good place to start. Other than that there are tonnes of resources on game out there. Search the main sub for it. Stay away from the PUA crap.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 07:30 PM
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Theres a huge difference between a normal woman and one with BPD. Sounds like you have never gotten too close to a BPD woman. Good for you. If you do meet one, run the other way fast.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 07:28 PM
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If they make you wait 3-4 weeks (!!!!), they aren't that attracted to you. A girl would never make her Brad Pitt or Ryan Reynolds wait 3-4 weeks. She would do shit to that guy that you couldn't even imagine. She makes you wait simply because she knows she can.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 07:12 PM
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You are overly emotional and passive aggressive. Basically you act like a woman. You should be stoic and unmoved by her bullshit. Laugh it off, amused mastery.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 07:08 PM
1

Memorizing lines is the worst thing you can do. Game should be natural.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 07:05 PM
1

Lifting is a long term game. Its something you do for the rest of your lift. To get good results you also have to fix your shitty lifestyle and diet. Don't get too caught up in what kind of results you can get in x timeframe cause you might end up disappointed and give up. You have to love the process and live a healthy lifestyle to get good results.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 06:43 PM
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Theres plenty of other girls out there. Why bother with one thats clearly a mess. I would suggest being pleasant but aloof towards her.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 06:26 PM
1

Game is basically slang for the things you do / say to get girls to sleep with you. If you aren't getting laid, your game sucks. Don't be a douche to people who are trying to help you.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 06:23 PM
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She doesn't want sex with YOU. She isn't attracted to you anymore. You let your inner beta out and it has dried up her pussy. Next.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 06:00 PM
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My rule of thumb for diet is eating whole foods, ie avoid overly processed stuff. Meats, fruits, veggies. Definately minimize fast foods. Cheating once in a while won't kill you, but no fast food! That shit is horrible for you. Also, your diet doesn't have to taste like shit to be good for you. Experiment with cooking to see what you like. Make sure you get enough protein in though! Compound lifts really are the way to go IMO. They hit everything. Once you start plateauing on 5x5 you can look in…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 10:58 PM
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I say it from personal experience, dwelling on the past does nothing to help you in the future. Neither does jealousy. If you have toxic people in your life, cut them out. From now on, only look forward. Stop making excuses for yourself and definately stop feeling self pity.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:49 PM
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This is exactly what she wants. Its validation for her. Shes probably bragging to her friends about what a mess you are. This validation is better than 1000 likes on face book. STOP FUCKING VALIDATING HER
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:45 PM
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Why not? Theres only so many woman out there that you can fuck. Even if you fuck a different girl every day for the rest of your lift, theres still billions of others out there. Help a bro out.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:43 PM
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Your problem is you are too comfortable with her. She knows you aren't going anywhere and that you have no options. I bet she will ask for a break or dump you soon. Fully expecting that you will be there to pick up the pieces when chad is done pumping and dumping her. Women want men that other women find attractive.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:39 PM
1

Same way you do with any other woman
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:32 PM
1

Rollo Tomassi's books
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:31 PM
1

Sounds like you fucked the date up and didn't escalate. Her being on her phone on a date with you is a really bad sign. Next.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:23 PM
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Sounds like you are dodging a bullet. Let her go. Read this, very important!!! https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/06/shacking-up/
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:21 PM
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Why do you care if she fucks someone else. She's not yours, its just your turn. Read this, its a good mentality to live by: https://m.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3axfye/dirty_sheets/
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:17 PM
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You are still so young. If you stay with this girl and marry her will you be happy? Or will you look back 10 years from now and regret not dating other girls? From what you said, it seems like you regret being in a relationship. Theres plenty of time for more serious relationships when you are older. Enjoy being young.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:15 PM
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Women don't date men who they perceive to be of less value than themselves. If you dont value yourself (you said you are a 6) then this will translate into your subconscious behaviours when you interact with a woman you think is "higher quality". Two things I would recommend is to treat really beautiful women like a bratty little sister. Neg her and tease her more than you would normally. Secondly, have a higher opinion of yourself! If you dont like something about yourself, change it!! Dress an…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:05 PM
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Either you are giving off too much beta / needy / emotional behaviour or theres someone else. Have you guys had sex? Is it good for her? My advice would be to soft next. Don't reach out to her until she contacts you. Be a bit withdrawn from her in the future. Contact her less than she contacts you.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:01 PM
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You are probably giving off a desperate vibe if you are staring down every girl you ever meet while smirking at them. Try to be a little more casual and natural when you interact with women. Try observing some guys who you know are good with women. Emulate what they do.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:55 PM
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Closure creates drama. Women love drama. They love knowing that you breaking up with them is hard. It validates them. It lets them know they are a special little snowflake that you can't possibly live without. Don't validate them. Don't give them closure. Once its over be totally stoic. Dgaf about them anymore. It will drive them crazy!!
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:53 PM
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Perfect advice
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:50 PM
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You don't need money to get laid. You only need to look good and have game. Start lifting. Groom and dress better. Start talking to all the women you meet. Stop making excuses for yourself. You don't need a handout. You just have to get motivated and do shit for yourself.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:47 PM
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Breakfast is a super easy place to get a tonne of calories and protein in. Eggs! I always have 3 eggs + toast and juice for breakfast. If you are still hungry after eggs, add some breakfast sausage in too. Another super easy and quick way to get cals and protein in is a smoothie with a couple scoops of whey in it. There are tonnes of recipies out there to suit whatever your tastes are. Packs those cals and proteins in man!!
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:42 PM
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I disagree. If you are dating women who expect you to pay for all of the first date, I would look elsewhere. If they are just using you as a free meal ticket, I don't see that situation ending well in your favour.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:30 PM
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I don't think her paying would cause her to lose interest in you if things went well otherwise. You probably messed up otherwise. Did you get a chance to physically escalate on her at all? Or was the date just all conversation? Dinner is a horrible first date. It is expensive and gives no chance for escalation.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:28 PM
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Usually women are the ones pushing hard for relationships after a while. I think you may give off the alpha vibes when you first meet them, but after a while start giving off a beta vibe when you start talking about the future, having a relationship, kids, etc. If this is what you really want, don't talk about the future at all. Hint at being non-exclusive (ie you are seeing other women). After a while of banging non exclusively, she will try to tie you down. Women want a bird that is rare and h…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:22 PM
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You look skinny fat. What program / lifts were you doing? My suggestion would be to start a program that focuses on compound lifts like starting strength or stronglifts 5x5. I would also suggest taking a good hard look at your diet. If you are reasonably active and are still skinny fat your diet is probably shit. Seeing that your goal is to maintaim the sameish weight but gain more muscle (aesthetics) I would suggest eating at or slightly above your maintenance calorie amount, while making sure …
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:01 PM
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This is horrible advice. I was a skinny guy too. But I changed my body so I'm happy with it now. It takes consistency at the gym with a good program and a good diet. Sure its difficult but its not impossible. Don't ever settle man. Keep fighting.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:55 PM
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Yeah shes into you. Her talking to her friends about you is a good thing. Stop over thinking it so much!
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:49 PM
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Social media is for validating women. Your reasons for using it can be accomplished via other means. Keeping in touch with friends? Text / call them. Social proof? Lead an interesting life.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:47 PM
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You are her beta orbiter. She was insulted by you asking her out, hence her laugh. If a woman ever gives you anything but an enthusiastic yes when you ask her out, its a rejection. Don't waste any more of your time validating her.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:12 PM
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Hobbies. You may have your shit together, but if you are riding around on a motor cycle, train in jiu jitsu and go base jumping on weekends you will seem like a bad ass compared to most losers. You don't have to take it to an extreme like that, but having some interesting masculine hobbies goes a long way.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:07 PM
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College is all about how good you look. Time to get more serious about lifting. If you are overweight, lost it. Dress better and groom well. If you aren't receiving attention from women, there is a reason.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:04 PM
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If you meet an unmarried, good looking, financially well off woman in her 30s, theres a reason why she is single.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 01:57 PM
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Damn, sorry you went through that man. Sounds like you handled the situation well legally even though everything was set up for you to fail. That is a huge mind fuck though, I hope you feel better about it. I can't help but think there were some huge red flags that you missed about this girl. She seems mentally unstable and psychopathic in her determinations to get you in trouble no matter what evidence to the contrary showed. I would say she definately has some sort of empathy disorder. I would…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 01:36 PM
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You are putting way too much importance on age. Women don't look at age that way. They only react to the vibe you put out, your SMV. Your looks, appearance, game, etc. They live in the moment. There are plenty of much older guys on here (40s++) who easily pick up early 20s women.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 01:00 PM
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Your bro needs game. Give him some hints and it should take care of itself. Either he'll get shot down and move on or will succeed. Help a brother out.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 08:01 AM
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He does it cause it bothers you a lot. Stop giving him a reaction and it will stop eventually.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:58 AM
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No. Women need plausible deniability. Do you have aspergers?
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:56 AM
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It worked cause you have game. Op is an aspie and will end up with sexual assault complaints if he tries this.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:56 AM
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BPD is often mis diagnosed as bipolar by armchair psychiatrists. Unless shes taking meds specifically for it (lithium) I doubt she is bipolar. Be very very careful of women who claim rape. Yes some women are legitimately rape victims. These women don't spew it out to men they are not that familiar with.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:45 AM
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Acting super beta / needy usually turns off BPD girls. Good dodge though. BPD is the worst.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:42 AM
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A plate is a girl who you've slept with multiple times. Movies are a horrible date idea. Minimal opportunity to eascalate. Can't have any conversation. Do something else.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:37 AM
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Your biggest mistake is that you didn't escalate. You literally walked her to her door. She mentioned her room. She had to give a super strong suggestion to get you to kiss her. These are all the signs of a girl who wants to fuck you. Next time escalate!!!!! Always make firm plans for next time. Don't leave the ball in her court. I would suggest contacting her soonish to tell her what a great time you had and to schedule another date. And for fucks sakes man, make a move on her!
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:34 AM
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If she wont sleep with you after 3 dates, next. Another woman will. She is making you wait because she knows you will.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:27 AM
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Read how to win friends and influence people. It will help a lot for situations like this in the future. Make you realize what you are doing wrong socially.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:24 AM
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What she did to you is a compliance test. Its like her asking you to hold her purse or whatever. She knows when her birthday is. Why would she wait last minute to ask you to take the day off? Why couldn't you just hang out with her after work on monday? You should have told her you can't take time off on such a short notice, have an important case coming up ... insert whatever bullshit. Now she'll just expect you to drop whatever for her. Secondly, I don't think its a good attitude to have to ge…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:23 AM
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Creepy vs bold comes down to how attractive you are. If you are good looking you can say anything. That said if you are getting creep rejections, its time to increase your smv. Lift, dress better, read the sidebae.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:07 AM
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Why are you not getting results at the gym? Are you underweight or overweight? Is your diet shitty?
/r/askTRP07/09/16 07:26 PM
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Read 48 laws of power and how to win friends and influence people. You do not want your superiors to dislike you. It will not end well in your favour.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 07:23 PM
1

You don't ask, you just initiate / escalate on her.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 07:20 PM
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Next. Sounds like you have better things going.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 07:14 PM
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Well be prepared for a possible blow up on her end. Stuff like this usually isn't well received especially when you spring it on her a few months before you get married. I guess you'll find out what shes really like.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 06:59 PM
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Just be friends with them just like you are with your other friend. You can probably learn a lot from them and get into better shape.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 06:57 PM
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Did you actually physically discuss signing a prenup with her? My advice, see a lawyer asap and get it written up how you want then talk to her about it.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 06:53 PM
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You have her #. Text her in a day or two to hang out. Don't text to talk, just set a plan and invite her out.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 06:51 PM
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That was actually pretty smooth. Good work. Don't over think things too much. Just follow your gut instinct. Who cares if you day /do something weird. If she laughs or plays along its all good.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 06:51 PM
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Apparently you don't like getting laid though.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 06:49 PM
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https://m.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4a5akh/shes_not_yours_its_just_your_turn_the_glass_is/?sort=confidence&utm_source=mweb_redirect&compact=true
/r/askTRP07/09/16 06:47 PM
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You are getting married in a few months and are just thinking about a pre-nup now? My guess is this probably won't go over that well with her. Good luck with that. Go see a family lawyer for real legal advice.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 06:38 PM
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"He says the university did nothing when the two women called him a sexual predator online and in public" How do you feel about this statement? Since you are saying that a person should be removed from a class for giving "unwanted attention", what should the punishment be for publicly slandering someone who was proven innocent (in two seperate cases) of sexual assault. Should that also warrant removal from classes?
/r/MensRights07/09/16 02:59 PM
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You didn't answer my question. What "other circumstances" are you referring to?
/r/MensRights07/09/16 02:23 PM
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What other circumstances are you referring to? " ... Despite being found innocent by the university in both cases ..." This is a direct quote from the article. Meaning the university found nothing wrong with his behaviour or actions. So essentially he is innocent (did nothing wrong) but is still being punished (being removed from a class). I am really curious to see what "other circumstances" you think should have a person removed from a class despite being proved innocent.
/r/MensRights07/09/16 01:14 PM
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Great stuff. Thanks for posting.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 01:06 PM
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He was proved innocent and is still being discriminated against (removed from a physics class). Just reverse the genders in this case. If a male alleged a female made inappropriate sexual contact against him do you think the same reprecussions would happen to the female?
/r/MensRights03/09/16 06:53 PM
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You just proved my point. Why are you here?
/r/askTRP10/08/16 05:10 AM
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And thats why you will be a beta bitch who forever get cucked. Because you don't respect yourself.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:32 AM
2

Walk around with a chainsaw in your hands running.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:29 AM
1

Early onset oneitis. Love it.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:27 AM
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Agreed. Thats moving into PUA territory.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 03:13 AM
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They will just drag along a bb with a promise of sex.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:47 PM
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Ask her how old the pictures are.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:52 AM
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A month and a half isn't that long. Just hang out with her when she gets better. You don't want to pick up her germs.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:50 AM
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Did you read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:48 AM
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Date as many women as you can non-exclusively. This way you can find out what you like and what kinds of women you should avoid. Don't get into a committed LTR at a young age.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:47 AM
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You are skinny cause you don't eat enough calories. When you start lifting, make sure you eat enough calories and get enough protein in to gain weight. Don't be the guy who only does arms. You want a whole body program that focuses on compound lifts (squat, deadlift and bench press). Theres plenty of good programs out there like starting strength or 5x5 stronglifts. Do some research and have fun. The weight will go on quickly as long as you lift with proper form and eat enough good food.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:45 AM
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No. Bad idea. You are thinking like a man. But in girl speak you are saying I'm a total loser, pretty please don't cheat on me. How to ensure a quality relationship? Be a quality man. Have boundries and prepare to act on them if they are crossed. Use dread game. All the normal ways. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:42 AM
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I say this seriously and not as an insult, but you may have aspergers or autism. You probably miss out on a lot of social cues that most people get. Anways, read this. It may seem written in a silly way to you, but its solid stuff. https://bookofpook.neocities.org
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:37 AM
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Females brains operate differently than mens.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:35 AM
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Logistics only.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:33 AM
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Date someone else.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:31 AM
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You would make a great beta bucks with a date like that. Thats probably why you got a subpar interest and a maybe on the 2nd date. You were chasing hard after her. Maybe she will take you up on the 2nd date after shes done getting pumped and dumped by chads. But seriously. Don't do boring dinner dates. She probably goes on them all the time. Do action dates, where you go do something so conversation isn't the whole focus of the date. Walk in the park, hiking, ice skating, biking, swimming, mini …
/r/askTRP09/08/16 06:13 AM
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Theres a reason why they say LTRs are TRP on hard mode, especially when you have a predisposition for developing oneitis. You need to think about why a girl is attracted to you. She likes the cool, uninterested, succsessful, mysterious masculine guy. Thats what she is interested in. As soon as you start "falling in love" with her and spending all your time with her you lose her interest. You are not what she was attracted to in the first place. The key to keeping her interest in the long run is …
/r/askTRP09/08/16 05:30 AM
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You are seriously deluded if you think game is spending money on women. How old are you?
/r/askTRP09/08/16 05:15 AM
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Dont go too overboard with negging / being condescending. Theres a fine line between flirting and just being an asshole. I would say you are being too rough with kino. Kino is supposed to convey sexual interest and ideally should be reciprocated. Theres plenty of guides out there on kino escalation. Go read them. I would say its a good sign the girl got into bed with you and let you spoon her, etc. She may have been leery about having others in the room which was why she didn't let you escalate …
/r/askTRP09/08/16 05:13 AM
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Some guys are kissless virgins in their 30s or 40s.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 05:07 AM
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First off, I don't think you should ever discuss any aspect of game or TRP with women. Ever. Its a mans sexual strategy. Secondly, I think she is greatly underestimating her feminine colleagues. Women are not as easily damaged as this "alpha female" makes them out to be. Its just an aspect of girl game. Women act like they are "easily attached" to manipulate men. Ever notice that the same girl who acts easily attached also coincidentally happens to easily branch swing once chad gets too beta? Di…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 05:04 AM
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For me, the point when I realized I would never ever develope oneitis again was seeing behind the veil to the true nature of women. Dealing with a BPD ex and meeting (and fortunately avoiding) a true DT woman. Once you see their true nature and understand what makes them tick, I honestly think it is impossible to develope oneitis. Its not that all women are terrible, sure some are better than others, but they are not what most guys make them out to be. They are very socially adept, much more so …
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:53 AM
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Practice is good. You need to get social interaction somewhere. Don't validate girls though. Especially good looking ones.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:44 AM
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If she agrees to netflix at your place I would go for that! Its pretty much a guaranteed lay unless your game is brutal.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:40 AM
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You are not getting laid cause your game sucks. But thats OK, you can fix that. You are tall and in pretty good shape. A lot of guys don't have that. I would be you are chasing after girls too hard. You need to add some push / pull. Being overly touchy / feely isn't good either. Kino is best used sparingly, and should be reciprocated by the girl. Read this, its a good place to start. https://bookofpook.neocities.org Be patient. Game is something that takes a while to develope if you aren't natur…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:39 AM
1

Why stay in an LTR if you are unhappy?
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:32 AM
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If you are OK her fucking other guys / girls and have no expectations of anything with her, then why not. If you aren't 100% over her I would avoid it though.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:31 AM
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Or better yet, throw the hamster on a wheel and get it to work for you.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:27 AM
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I wouldn't personally be a dick to her. I would be pleasant and respectful, just wouldn't go out of my way for her. However, I would not white knight for her around the rest of the group. Its not worth losing social standing / power. One of the 48 laws of power is to avoid the unlucky and unfortunate as they can drag you down. But I wouldn't personally be mean or disrespectful towards her. Ultimately, I think it pays to be pragmatic in these situations. Socially awkward people will be ostracized…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:24 AM
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Women are attracted to dark triad traits. If you are interested in reading about it: https://illimitablemen.com/power/
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:18 AM
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Soft next, wait for her to contact you again. I don't think its a huge deal. Shes just a plate.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:15 AM
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Agree'd. Baby talk is very unmasculine. She is definately wearing the pants in that relationship.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:11 AM
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Is this really someone you want your sister marrying? He already lied and went behind her back to do this. People who have those behaviour patterns tend to continue them.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:05 AM
1

Ignore and continue as usual. Expect heavy asd / lmr.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:01 AM
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So much this. Dont be an aspie. Also, don't go overboard with validation. It should be used sparingly.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:00 AM
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I need some money too bro. Paypal is [email protected]. But seriously, stop giving her money. You may want to find a new girl after she starts freaking out when you stop giving her shit.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 12:27 AM
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You are on the right path man.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 12:22 AM
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Its cause you are chasing way too hard. Add some push / pull. They know they can get you to do a song and dance for them.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 12:21 AM
2

You are totally missing the point of this guys message. Its actually quite genious. You are focusing solely on the part where he says he likes her. The important part is where he says he doesn't need them for sex. In girl speak he isnsaying hes totally cool with not sleeping with her because he has plenty of other of options. This places the ball back in her court. She obviously wants to sleep with him cause they are in bed together. She is just trying to gain power in the relationship by feigni…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 12:20 AM
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It sounds like you answered your own question. In life, you have to be selfish sometimes. Think about yourself and what you want first. You are also not really doing her any favours by continuing a relationship that you are clearly not happy in. You are just settling for her because you don't want to hurt her. Let her go find someone who loves her like she needs.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 12:07 AM
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Flakes gunna flake. Chances are she'll do it again. Unless she had a legit excuse, apologized and made alternate plans, I wouldn't bother. See other women.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 12:04 AM
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This wasn't really a shit test, but more a random chick all out insulting and disrespecting you. Sometimes in life, you need to standup for yourself and not take peoples shit. Your GF is right. You are a lush. And a pushover. You need to stand up for yourself more. You should have held frame and calmly but politely told this cunt to go fuck herself.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 12:00 AM
2

Plausible deniability is always a good idea. They may want to fuck you, but don't want to seem like a slut. Always give them an out.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 11:53 PM
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Your game probably sucks and you are giving off a beta bux vibe if you are getting that kind of rejection. SMV is really only one component of what gets you laid. Guys with good game and way lower SMV than you can quite easily get laid.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 11:52 PM
1

You know how they say not to fuck girls where you work? You really don't want to fuck girls you live with who are dating a guy you also live with. You are just asking for a shitload of trouble. Seriously, do you really have no other options?? What you should have done is use her interest in you to get with her friends. If you want to still live there you need to try to be amiable with everyone. Drop the stupid games you are playing. This girl isn't worth all the trouble this will cause. Just mak…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 11:48 PM
0

Game SMV In that order.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 11:41 PM
2

Ah, so like most of the OPs on TRP.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 11:39 PM
2

If you want a shortcut to getting laid try the seduction / PUA crap. If you want to fix the underlying issues of why women don't find you attractive, then swallow the pill. Start by reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 07:14 AM
1

Chances are shes not that interested in you. You are just not a priority for her. She flaked without having the decency to tell you. Seems like a shitty person. Don't waste your time on her. Find a new hairdresser and approach other women.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 07:09 AM
1

Over protectiveness and mate guarding has the opposite effect thats intended. It drives women away from you. The solution is an abundance mentality. Actually knowing you have tonnes of options makes you care a lot less about womens random bullshit. The first step to fixing a problem is acknowleding it. You are on the right path.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 07:05 AM
1

Shes probably banging him. And you are being a little bitch. Stop being a little bitch and see other women. Oh and go read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 07:01 AM
1

https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/08/rooting-through-garbage/
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:58 AM
1

Soft next. Maybe she will come around with time. Personally I would have drove her home / called her a cab. Then you don't deal with drama.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:57 AM
1

I'm quite sure you could come up with a much better way to spend your time.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:54 AM
5

https://bookofpook.neocities.org Read that. Don't do the PUA (rsd) crap.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:51 AM
2

Your problem is entirely your attitude. Despite all you know and what you have been through (kids, divorce) you still prescribe to this blue pill disney fairy tale notion that there is this perfect unicorn out there that you can just totally give yourself to. Shes 23, hot, a dancer and a model. She can have whatever she wants. And she wants a hot masculine guy. Not a guy who tells his feelings. What can you do? Actually swallow the pill. Drop the blue pill bullshit and realize that no matter how…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:48 AM
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You are a back up option for when / if chad bails. Dont contact her. If she contacts you, just tell her to come over and escalate. See other women.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:39 AM
1

It seems like you have a "sniper mentality". Meaning you totally focus on one girl, putting her up on a pedestool, making her out to be something better than what she actually is. Then you get totally crushed when she either rejects you or comes up with a reason why she can't date you. https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/ Read that article. It will explain why your way of thinking hurts you. Actually, read all of the articles on that site. And read the sidebar too.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:36 AM
1

Text only for logistics. You can't convey complex human emotions and messages across text. It can easily be misunderstood.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:29 AM
1

Ignoring would have been a perfect response for this shit test. Shes just trying to stir up drama. Why respond to that msg. If you want to bring another girl, do it. But do it cause you want to, not so stir up some jealousy and add drama to something thats fine.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:27 AM
1

Time to grow up and get your shit together. You are a man. You have to work for everything. You DO NOT want to fail out of school. Go talk to someone in your faculty to see what you can do to avoid that. Other than that, read this: https://m.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3wzuet/newbies_read_this_a_comprehensive_guide_to_the/?sort=confidence&utm_source=mweb_redirect&compact=true Everything you need to know is there. You need to take action if you want things to change. No one else will do it for y…
/r/askTRP07/08/16 03:42 AM
1

Does she have assests or is it just her family? Does she have any income? You may make 110k, but if she has no assests or income, in the event of a divorce you are still liable to take care of her.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 03:37 AM
3

You can only unplug those who are ready. Your friend is so entrenched in his blue pill fantasies about women that he won't hear what you say. You have to wait until he comes to you.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 03:32 AM
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A) Could be you came across as boring. Deep conversations don't work well in a night club setting. Be fun. Add kino to let her know you are interested. A number close is never a good idea after no kino. B) Game improves with practice. Keep at it. C) Fake it til you make it. D) Start dancing with them. Don't come up behind them, make sure they can see you, then start getting closer. Watch closely how they react. Add some kino, see how it goes.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 03:10 AM
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Kino escalation. Kissing shouldn't be a huge deal. Get them slowly used to your touch.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 02:58 AM
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Drink less. You lost a couple of golden opportunities cause you were too drunk. Have some self control. Other than that, keep gaming, it gets better with practice. Looks like you are headed on the right path.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 02:57 AM
1

Pretty girls are attracted to the aloof assholish behaviour. They are so used to being overly validated and having guys drool over them all the time that this behaviour is novel and interesting to them. Thats why TRP always says have and IDGAF attitude and abundance mentality, etc. So what should you do? Stop caring about what girls think, quite literally. Their mostly insane yammering should be useless to you. I would just tease her every time she brings him up. "Oh its so cute!! You're just li…
/r/askTRP06/08/16 09:34 PM
1

Good job
/r/askTRP06/08/16 04:32 AM
4

It sounds like you love the idea of paying child support for 18 years.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 02:07 AM
2

The problem with persona and game tactics is that you are pretending to be someone you aren't. Women pick up on that and you will look fake. So if you are a boring fuck and your dates are boring, stop being boring! Go get involved in more fun shit so you have something interesting to talk about. Stop doing boring dinner / coffee dates. Go on action dates that don't solely revolve around conversation.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 01:47 AM
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TRP is anti-PUA for the most part. Sure understanding some aspects of it can help. But at its core, TRP is more about maximizing your SMV and undoing blue pill conditioning. Falling into the trap of just doing PUA techniques doesn't fix the core issue of the blue pill conditioning.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 01:44 AM
1

See a lawyer. Looks like it will be a clean split financially for the most part. As someone who went through a divorce, do your best to keep things amiable. It makes it much easier. Do not mention that you want a divorce to anyone. Ask your lawyer about the best way to proceed.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 01:40 AM
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I think you are over-reacting. Take it as an opportunity to improve yourself. You need to be able to step back and laugh at yourself and be willing to accept feedback. Something about your game or approach is creepy to women. Figure out what that is and change it.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 01:32 AM
1

Just send a pic of the pool and say come over
/r/askTRP06/08/16 01:29 AM
1

You just need game.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 01:27 AM
1

48 laws of power. Highly recommened read.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 01:25 AM
1

I would agree here.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 12:58 AM
2

Jesus. She wants you to go fuck her. Go fuck her you dumbass.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 12:56 AM
2

Start gaming then. Game developes with practice.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 12:54 AM
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See how it goes. If it feels rushed or awkward don't push it. On a side note, if a girl is really interested she will make time for you. A 10 min meetup is not ideal. I would push to another day / time if you could.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 12:53 AM
1

Not all women are validation whores on social media. Overly seeking validation on social media should be seen as a red flag. Such a women is only fit for pump or dump or plating.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 12:47 AM
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https://m.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4a5akh/shes_not_yours_its_just_your_turn_the_glass_is/ Read that. I think you have a poor attitude towards women. Im not saying this as an insult, but rather hope you will use the feedback to improve yourself. Over protective behaviour is not alpha. It is actually quite beta. Instead of "setting boundries", what you are essentially saying to her in girl speak is: "I am a loser with no other options. Pretty please don't speak to any other men or let them…
/r/askTRP06/08/16 12:44 AM
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https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/03/21/why-men-shouldnt-mate-guard/ Read this. What you are doing is mate guarding. You are essentially that skinny nerdy asian guy in that picture, just in a different way. Heres my advice: don't date instagram validation whores. If it clearly bothers you this much, pump and dump them or plate them. Consider it as a red flag for yourself in the future. The only thing mate guarding / overprotectiveness will do is cause your woman to lose respect for you. Women…
/r/askTRP06/08/16 12:30 AM
1

Im with that guy. Its quite simple really. If you don't want to date instagram validation hoes, then don't date them. Dump them and find someone else. You are not going to change that behaviour. Bitches will be bitches. The only thing you accomplish by pro-actively mate guarding like this and being over protective is lose your womans respect. A woman who does not respect you will cheat or branch swing. The dudes 100% right. Have an abundance mentality and stop giving a shit what bitches do. If i…
/r/askTRP06/08/16 12:25 AM
1

Leaving a number is about as beta as it gets. If you really want to ask her out, grow some balls and do it face to face. Has she in any way led you to believe shes interested in you? Keep in mind, she probably gets approached multiple times a day. Women in service positions (tips) will flirt with men for bigger tips. I would bet you are going to get rejected.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 12:17 AM
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Same way any other guy prevents being seen as beta. Read the sidebar. Fully swallow the pill. Educate yourself as to what kinds of women you should avoid. Date non-exclusively. Wrap that shit up and flush it down a toilet after. Your situation is not unique. Any man can be a beta bucks no matter his career or size of paycheck.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 12:14 AM
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You already told her the date time and place. If she doesn't show, find a new hairdresser.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 12:11 AM
2

She was making sexual jokes?? Thats the biggest green light ever. Always escalate!
/r/askTRP04/08/16 05:27 PM
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She's not just another girl I get it, you are head over heels infatuated with her. Thats why you lost her interest. Theres a huge reason why guys lrrach abundance mentality and IDGAF attitude. Because it works, and it gives behaviour patterns women are attracted to. Read the sidebar. Work on your game. For the next one, try not to over telegraph your interest next time and actually escalate.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:48 PM
2

Shes just another girl. She poops like everyone else. Don't get hung up on her beauty.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:13 PM
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https://m.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3kgbn7/the_lengthy_red_flags_warning_flags_green_flags/?ref=search_posts Read that. I can pretty much guarantee you that 99.99999% of attractive women have had sex. Its just how it is. Stop getting so worked up over it. Women like sex as much as we do.and they have much easier access to it.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:49 PM
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You wrote a novel about a girl you didn't kiss. Move on. Stop getting so attached before you even kiss them.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:46 PM
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You can't unswallow the pill my friend. You are in the anger phase. You have seen the world for how it really is. And its quite shocking. But, it is better to be angry and aware, rather than be the beta whos special snowflake gets blasted every friday night while out with her girlfriends. I think you are unhappy because you have not found your mission yet. You need to figure out what you want out of life. You are still very young and are in a good position in life. Figure out your mission and wo…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:13 PM
1

They are using you for validation. If they reject a meetup more than one or two times and do not schedule an alternative, they are not interested in you sexually. Move on and approach other women.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:04 PM
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You are misinterpreting what I said. Its not mean as an insult. Let me try and re-phrase it in different terms. It is feminine behaviour to nitpick very small insignicant social details. Feminine = beta. Beta = dry panties (no sexual interest). If you are nitpicking small insignificant details of your conversation with your girlfriend, you are probably acting overly beta in many other areas of your relationship with her. These overly beta behaviours are actively making her disinterested in you. …
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:02 PM
1

Thats a rejection. Move on. If she didn't say yes or schedule an alternative, its a rejection. You need to work on your game.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 02:54 PM
1

Ok, I think you are way too young and inexperienced with women to be considering an LTR with one specific girl that you probably haven't even fucked yet. Being able to maintain power in an LTR is like TRP on hard mode. Even with a "sweet innocent girl" if you start acting overly beta or not giving her enough comfort or not handling shit tests well or whatever. LTRs are very hard for the inexperienced. My suggestion to you would be to date LOTS of different girls non-exclusively. Find out what YO…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 02:52 PM
1

You are a man. Men don't get handed free shit. If you want something, you have to work for it. Being "in shape and dressing well" does not entitle you to getting pussy. Get over yourself. Tinder and online dating are a shit show. You need day game. Go talk to real women in real life and develope your game. Ditch the whiny entitled attitude. Women smell it from a mile away.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 02:43 PM
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Then dump her.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:53 PM
1

This is a shit test. Shes probably attracted to you. Amused mastery, agree and amplify, etc. This is what women do. Get used to it.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:52 PM
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Jesus fuck. You sound like a woman. Stop giving a shit about things that don't matter. It is a very feminine (beta) thing to nitpick over tiny details like this. Maybe shes on her period. Maybe you did something to piss her off. Maybe her hair isn't cooperating with her. Maybe chad won't call her back after he jizzed all over her face. Who the fuck cares. Go read the god damned side bar. Come back after you do.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:50 PM
1

Soft next. She will be back. You did well.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:45 PM
1

It has to be somewhere you can easily escalate on her. You have to quickly take advantage of her renewed interest in you.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:43 PM
1

Sounds like she just wanted a shoulder to cry on. Invite her over and see if you can escalate on her. If not, kick her out and move on. Just make it clear what you want and that you aren't willing to be an emotional tampon. Keep what you text to a bare minimum.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:41 PM
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https://m.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3kgbn7/the_lengthy_red_flags_warning_flags_green_flags/?ref=search_posts
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:36 PM
1

Stop asking n-count. Most girls just lie about it anyways. I guarantee the "14" she told you is easily 3-4x that, especially with her behaviour. Look up the concept of green and red flags.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:32 PM
1

1 will be more of a problem for you than #2. Everything you want to know is on the sidebar and recommened readings.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:28 PM
1

If its post sex, then it is a comfort test. If shes treating you well, you need to give her more comfort. LTRs need comfort, or they will find it elsewhere. You need a mix of "alpha" and "beta" behaviour in an LTR.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:26 PM
1

So you want to get laid? Start by reading the sidebar. Improve your life. Start lifting. Don't do it for women, do it for yourself.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:22 PM
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N- count is a poor way of looking at women. Majority will just lie about it. I don't even bother asking. Red flags and green flags are much better.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:16 PM
1

Not worth it.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:14 PM
2

She keeps doing it cause there are no consequences for her actions. Whats the point in even setting a boundry if all you do is calmly point out the fact that she crossed it.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:14 PM
1

Be in good shape. Have a decent job / career. Don't be a total beta around women. Most men are brutal these days so it doesn't take much.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:10 PM
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Stop caring. She's just a plate.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:09 PM
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Quite simple, don't. If you want to set yourself apart from the herd, ignore her beauty.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 01:08 PM
1

By asking this it really seems like you don't want to be in an LTR. Why not just leave?
/r/askTRP01/08/16 06:34 PM
1

You are over thinking it. If you present yourself as a fun, playful and sarcastic person, women will respond the same way. Women do mirror their man. There are many other tactics for dealing with shit tests. Change it up sometimes.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 06:30 PM
2

Mate guarding and possessive behaviour is about as beta as it gets. Doing these things will end up with you losing her respect and losing power in the relationship. You need to give less fucks and have an abundance mentality. If it bothers you that much, enjoy her for now and leave when the relationship starts detiorating.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 06:19 PM
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Active and in shape people are active and because they enjoy doing those activities. Sure, you may be able to inspire short term changes such as half heartedly going to the gym once in a while. But, to get anyone to make lasting lifestyle changes, they have to want to do it for themselves and truly enjoy it. Most likely, she will change in the short term until she gets what she wants (marriage) then she will go full pudge. If you want a fit girl, don't make one. Go find one.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 06:16 PM
1

Based on what you've said and your post history, I think your girlfriend and her family do not respect you. If she doesn't know about the letter, do not shoe her. Do not buy a house with her. Anywhere. It will not end well. Do not tell her that you do not want to buy. Because she and her family are all going to flip out on you. It is not going to be pretty. Why doesn't she work? How long have you been supporting her for? What is the dynamic of your situation with her? Are you certain you are the…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 06:09 PM
1

Both
/r/askTRP01/08/16 11:08 AM
1

https://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/
/r/askTRP01/08/16 11:07 AM
2

I do not like the term "alpha". I think a lot of guys on here misinterpret AMOG as "alpha". You know, the typical beat your chest, muscles puffed out, overly hostile / in your face, everything must be done as I say kind of thing. They become obsessed with everything being "alpha", which is not always a good thing. Rather than trying to encorporate the positive "alpha" traits like aloofness and the IDGAF attitude into their personality. The alpha / beta ideologies, however, are quite easy to get …
/r/askTRP01/08/16 08:39 AM
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Any girl is a slut for the right guy.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 08:29 AM
2

Read the sidebar, this is TRP 101 type shit. Start lifting. Fix your diet. If you are skinny fat its probably awful. Talk to girls. You don't have to approach them with a sexual outcome in mind. But if you aren't that social, holding a conversation with a girl may be difficult. I would recommend against "monk mode" because game is something that takes practice to develope. I wouldn't expect glaring succsess at first. Oh and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 08:28 AM
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https://m.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3kgbn7/the_lengthy_red_flags_warning_flags_green_flags/?ref=search_posts
/r/askTRP01/08/16 08:23 AM
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That would be good plate material.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 08:22 AM
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Ok. So, mate guarding is: "The process in which a member of a species (you) attempts to prevent another member of a species of a different sex (your girlfriend) from mating with rival members (your friends)." Mate guarding is a demonstration of lower value (DLV). By mate guarding, you are giving the power in the relationship to your girlfriend. You are admitting that she is the one with higher SMV. Repeated DLVs will lead to your girlfriend losing respect for you and either dumping you or cheati…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 08:20 AM
1

Brilliant advice.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 06:01 AM
1

Game only gets better with practice. You don't have to fuck a girl to practice your game. Just talk to them. Also, they only see what you present to them. Stop having such a poor opinion of yourself. Some guy who you may make out to be better than you is probably a total bitch who brings a girl a dozen roses on a first date. Learn to love yourself and succsess with women will follow.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 05:57 AM
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You are just taking that post out of context. The original OP (in the post you linked) failed a comfort (shit) test. The girl OP slept with felt slutty for sleeping with him. He should have simply ignored her comments and continued as normal. I.e just hung out with her again, giving her more in the process to get her to sleep with him again. I wouldn't say cuddling is "beta" per se. Cuddling is comfort. It should only be given out as a reward for good behaviour. Personally, I only really cuddle …
/r/askTRP01/08/16 05:53 AM
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You cannot negotiate her desire. You can't ask her to shave her pussy and put on a hot outfit and fuck your brains out. She has to want to do it. Shes only giving you boring duty sex because shes comfortable in the relationship. She knows you are not going anywhere. You have to make her hot for you. Dread game is the solution to your problem. Look it up.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 05:40 AM
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Did she get the abortion? If not, I would throw comfort her way until its done. Otherwise, seems like shes in contact with her ex behind your back. Not a good sign. Move on. Oh, and for fucks sakes, wrap your dick. One pregnancy scare should be more than enough.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 05:32 AM
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Mate guarding is the worst thing you can do in a relationship. Its about as beta as you can get. That being said, do you trust your friends? Is it a group of guys that invited her? I find it a bit weird that your "friend" invited your girl to an event without you. I think you have reason to be suspicious, but you handled the whole thing horribly. Never mate guard. Have an abundance mentality and a few backup options available. It sounds like you may be short a few friends and a girlfriend soon.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 05:28 AM
1

They are girls just like any other ones. Still insecure and unsure of themselves. Just imagine them as a bratty little sister and stop treating them differently based on looks.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:07 AM
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No offense, but hes right man. You are not special and thats not a bad thing. As a man, you have to work for everything. So go earn it.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:05 AM
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As a woman, your looks and your body are your number one asset. If you don't exercise and lift weights, start. Muscle in the right places for women is amazing. I can't comment on workout routines, but I'm sure there is tonnes of info out there. Make sure you eat right (healthy) and take care of your appearance. Good news is, as a woman you really only have to look good and be approachable. Men will talk to you if you seem approachable. If you see a guy you like, make eye contact and smile. He sh…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:04 AM
1

I went through what you did. My relationship was 8 years and ended i divorce. I had literally nothing afterwards. Don't let this failed relationship define you. Make something of yourself. Start making music again. It sounds like you love it. It will take time to get back into it. To be really good at anything takes a huge investment of time. You are not a negative person, you are just hurting and its understandable. You need to move on.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 03:49 AM
1

This is a win win situation. Why are you complaining? Do you not like sex?
/r/askTRP01/08/16 03:40 AM
1

No, you are just deluding yourself.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 03:36 AM
1

This is reality. This is the plight of being a man. Women are incapable of loving you how you want to be loved. Women do love, but not in the way you want. They love the good feelings you give them. They love your masculinity and the comfort you give them. They love what you represent as a man. They love what you provide for them and how you make them feel. It is a conditional love. This is our struggle. Your job as a man is to be a rock. To not be vulnerable and emotional. Vulnerability and emo…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 03:34 AM
2

Asthma doesn't effect lifting. I have asthma and it poses no issue for lifting. Intense cardio can be an issue, but pre using puffers helps. I would say heart disease is relative. Most heart diaease is lifestyle related. Fix your lifestyle (eat right, exercise, quit smoking, lose weight) and you may reverse your heart disease. Unless you have some congenital / anatomical issue that is irreversible. It sounds like you are just making excuses to me.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 03:23 AM
1

Girls in clothing stores are paid to flirt with you to get you to buy shit. Chances are if you are drooling over her so bad that you posted on here about it, I'd say you have no chance. But, you gotta develop your game somewhere. Embrace the awkwardness. Embrace the rejection. See if you can get her engaged in conversation. Smile at her and make eye contact. Tease her in some sort of way - make fun of her shoes or earings or clothes or something.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 02:31 AM
1

Social media exists to validate women. Liking instagram pics validates women. Stop validating women. Guys who women want to fuck aren't spending their time cruising instagram liking pics. They are out doing cool shit.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 02:21 AM
1

Dread game.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 02:18 AM
1

Sounds like you enjoyed being single more than the relationship. Just break up with her. Enjoy your remaining time at college. I don't know what the reason you broke up with her before was, but I bet shes not relationship material.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 02:17 AM
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They want their cake and they want to eat it too. In reality, a good looking girl will always have her beta bux waiting to pick up the pieces when shes done. Don't deceive yourself. Those "happy/smart" girls were still riding the CC, they are just more socially aware.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 02:15 AM
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I always recommend pook for guys who are completely clueless with women. I think it meshes well with trp.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 02:11 AM
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Excellent point. Women with personality disorders are not fit for relationships. BPD is hell.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 02:09 AM
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Take your education extremely seriously. Very good grades can set you up extremely well for the next few years. Get you into a good college / university with scholarships. This should be your number one priority. Get in really good shape. Start lifting if you don't already. Looking good and being muscular has a huge impact on your day to day life. Do not commit to a woman. You have your whole life ahead of you. Play the field until you are late 20s / early 30s. You do not need to be in a relatio…
/r/askTRP31/07/16 02:05 AM
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I would make another offer. Try to find something that works on your terms. However, constant re-scheduling and failing to show up is not a good thing. Ultimately, if a girl really wants to see you she will make time.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 02:00 AM
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The biggest issue here is that you "cuddle-slept" with her and couldn't close the deal. Theres no bigger way to ending up a girls emotional tampon than not making a move. I bet the next thing you will hear out of her mouth is how much of a great friend you are and she doesn't want to ruin such a great friendship by being intimate. Stop wasting your time cuddling and talking about bullshit with girls. Always be escalating.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 01:57 AM
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Jealousy will only end with you being cheated on. Mate guarding and acting like a jealous little bitch is the worst thing you can do in a relationship.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 01:54 AM
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Shes continuing to talk to you for validation. Girls LOVE it when they destroy a guy. It makes them think they are a super special snowflake. Don't talk to her anymore. Your feelings will disipate eventually. Eventually you will realize that she wasn't that special.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 01:00 AM
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Did you even read the sidebar?? Read the sidebar. Also, grow the fuck up and stop being a little bitch. I don't mean this as an insult. In case you haven't figured it out yet, nothing in life is free. If you want anything, you have to work for it. Do you want to be stuck dragging your sister down until she gets tired of you? Or do you want to make something of yourself?? Cancel the psychiatrist appointment. Start eating healthy and exercise. Take better care of yourself physically. Shower daily …
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:55 AM
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Not only did you stick your dick in crazy, but you fell head over heels in love with crazy. Women with personality disorders (or mental diseases) are not fit for relationships. Pump and dump material if that. Don't contact her again. Don't respond to her. Move on with your life if you want whats best for you. Theres plenty of other non crazy (relatively) women out there.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:49 AM
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I'm really not sure what you are complaining about. You didn't get outplayed here. You are still getting sex while another guy commited to her. The only thing you did wrong is asking why she prefers him. In my opinion, you should just keep fucking her. Stop bringing him up and stop caring about it. You are the alpha fucks. He is the beta bucks. Keep fucking her. Fuck many other women too.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:43 AM
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It sounds like you are suffering from depression. Not that I'm saying go get medicated for it, because I'm against that sort of thing, but you should accept thats what you are going through and make a plan to fix it. Firstly, you need some good male friends. I realize you have trust / emotional issues, but you have to get over that. People aren't all bad. Part of being human is being social. Do you do anything besides work, lift and game women? It seems like you are lacking purpose in life. Mayb…
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:38 AM
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Is this a single event or a repeated thing? If its a one time thing, I think you handled it right. You have to draw a line somewhere about what you are willing to do for a woman. Wait for her to contact you and don't mention the event. If she brings it up, just say you had shit you needed to do and couldn't wait. If this is a repeat issue where she consistently disrespects you, you need to implement dread game.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:18 AM
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Sounds like your girlfriend is out late partying and banging someone else. Grow a pair of balls and kick her the fuck out.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:03 AM
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Do nothing, don't apologize. Apologizing will only make you seem weak. Shes only lashing out cause she isn't used to people challenging her power. Carry on as usual. Act like you just don't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:01 AM
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Best answer by far. Women who use tears to manipulate are pump and dump material at best.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 11:58 PM
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It depends on the situation. Women use their emotions to manipulate men. Some women are extremely adept at this. By rewarding a girl with comfort every time she cries, you are innately reinforcing the behaviour. I.e. you teach her if she cries she can get you to do what she wants. Comfort should only be given as a reward for good behaviour.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 11:55 PM
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If someone constantly does that to you, they are not a friend. Get him out of your life as much as you can.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 11:50 PM
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Frame is how you present yourself to the world. How you react to situations. How you treat others and react to how they treat you. Take a guy like Connor McGregor. He has unshakeable frame. He takes a lot of shit and it doesn't effect him. He still looks like a badass no matter what people throw his way despite losing a fight and all that drama thrown his way. If you are into politics, think about Donald Trump. He has an outstanding witt and never lets anything get to him emotionally. He always …
/r/askTRP26/07/16 07:12 PM
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Game.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 07:06 PM
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Dress well (suit), be well groomed and well spoken. Listen to your lawyer.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 06:52 PM
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You dump her. Shes being shady for a reason. That reason is fucking other men. Exs are exs for a reason. Have some respect for yourself and dump her.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 06:45 PM
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Never ever ask why shes mad. Pretend everything is normal. Don't contact her. Wait until she contacts you.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 05:24 PM
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Don't tell her anything. Just stop talking to her. Its not doing you any good.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 05:23 PM
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If shes rescheduling more than twice, she is not interested. Move on.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 05:11 PM
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Based on what you said I can tell your problem is entirely in your attitude. You have zero self confidence. Girls can smell this from a mile away. It is the biggest turn off for them. You are literally shooting yourself in the foot. You should stop going to the club every week. It is only hurting you. If you have zero game and aren't 6'2" you will struggle massively. You need day game. Start talking to every girl you see in public. Once you stop being mopey and depressed all the time you will st…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 05:10 PM
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I only read a small portion of this. From what I read, she does not respect him at all and is very likely cheating. He needs to break up with her. There is no saving this.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 04:18 PM
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Who is rescheduling, you or her. If its constant rescheduling by her, thats a sign. Listen to girls actions, not their words. If she really wanted to see you, she would make the time. Personally, I would only give her 2 chances.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 04:16 PM
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If you need help with game, check this out. It really helped me. https://bookofpook.neocities.org
/r/askTRP26/07/16 04:12 PM
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Some women are just fucked and should be avoided like the plauge. IM has a really good write up about personality disorders in women (dark triad): https://illimitablemen.com/power/
/r/askTRP26/07/16 04:10 PM
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Best thing you could do for yourself is stop thinking about her and delete all her contact info. If you see her, don't talk to her. Be pleasant but don't engage. Girls THRIVE on drama. They love seeing that they destroyed their exes and that they are still in love with them (which you clearly are). She is just using you for validation. Stop giving that to her. If she contacts you, ignore it.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 04:01 PM
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Use a condom.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:56 PM
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I was in the same boat as you. Super skinny and found it hard to put weight on. I would recommend checking out stronglifts or starting strength. The biggest challenge will be fixing your diet. You need to eat enough calories and protein to put muscle on, while doing it reasonably healthy.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:55 PM
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I think you over reacted. Her offering to reschedule is a good thing. It means she still wants to see you. If she was a flake she would have cancelled last minute (or not shown up) and not reschedulled. I would have given her another chance. Only one though. Girls can be very busy and unorganized. Things do come up.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:52 PM
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If she doesn't look like shes in very obvious distress I would leave it alone.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:48 PM
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I doubt this is the program Pitt used. It doesn't seem like the best program. I would just look for a beginners body building program and try that. Body building isn't really my focus so I don't know any specific programs but I'm sure there are tonnes out there. Maybe check this out: https://www.t-nation.com/workouts/tried-and-true-bodybuilding-program-template I think the biggest thing for you to get the results you want is fixing your diet. You are overweight cause you don't eat well. If you d…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:46 PM
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Well give her some more time. Wait to see if she contacts you. Text her again in a couple of days to hang out. Don't ask if she wants to do something. Invite her over or out to do something at a specific date / time. If she says anything other than yes or no but how about this time - then its a rejection.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:31 PM
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Mate guarding and showing insecurity / jealousy is the worst thing you can do in an LTR. If shes going to cheat, shes going to cheat. She just won't tell you what shes doing next time. Mate guarding and insecurity will just make this more likely to happen. Did she invite you? Are there others going on this outting - or just him and her? What you should have done is be like, "Oh great, I'd love to meet him! What night are we going out??" Then if she didn't want you to go, you would know whats up.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:20 PM
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What did she say in response to that? When in doubt, escalate.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:11 PM
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Well, unfortunately that is how they are interpreting your actions. If it was just one or two girls, I'd say they were overly sensitive. But it is a repeated pattern, so that means the issue is you. First step to fixing it is acknowleding that you are doing something wrong. But good news is you can fix it. https://bookofpook.neocities.org Give that a read. I found it helped my game out a lot.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:09 PM
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Spend more time on foreplay focusing on her. Tease her a lot. Spend a lot of time kissing her neck and boobs. After that, slowly kiss you way down to her vagina. Dont give her oral right away. Tease her a bit before you do. Kiss the area around her vagina, stomach, legs and slowly make your way in. Don't dive in with your tongue on the clit right away. Slowly kiss and tongue her labia (the think skin folds on the outside of the vagina). Make your onto the clit (its just above the entrance to the…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:06 PM
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There is a fine line between teasing and being "mean" to girls. Teasing (or "negging") is done in more of a light hearted kind of way. I think you just need to tone down the direct negative comments towards women. You are probably coming off as abrasive / assholish. Not that you need to kiss their ass and compliment them. Just tone it down a bit. Every girl wants to think they are a special and unique snowflake.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:53 PM
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I wouldn't bring it up out of the blue. No point in making issues where there are none. However, if you life goals are incompatible with hers, I don't see the relationship lasting a long time. I would say you fucked up. You opened a can of worms that didn't need to be opened.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:45 PM
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It sounds like you need to be single.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:41 PM
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Dread game. Get yourself in shape. Start lifting and eat right. You want to be healthy so you can live a good long life. Date lots of hot women younger (and hotter) than your wife. You are in an open relarionship, so why not. Even at 40 with good game you can clean up with women. Especially in your position. Start setting yourself up to mitigate the damage a divorce will cause. Get a lawyer, like right now. You need to divorce her. She had no respect for you if shes openly asking for an open rel…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:35 PM
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Dont contact her unless she contacts you.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:28 PM
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What exactly did you do? High school is all about being popular. If you aren't one of the popular kids, not super good looking or built and don't really do anything interesting you will struggle in high school. Good news is you are still super young. Time to get in good shape - start lifting and eating right. Get some interesting hobbies. Stop falling for the gimmicky pick up shit. Sure it probably works for guys who are quite witty or quick thinkers and are good looking / at least in decent sha…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 07:19 PM
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Do NOT show you are displeased thats about as beta as you can get. A couple tactics you can use: If she stops you from doing something, stop for a few minutes then continue later on something less intense. Put her hand on your dick. Tell her - if you say stop, I'll stop. Then slowly tease her all over building up. Make sure you stop though if she says it. But never act displeased or frustrated. If all of these fail, tell her its getting late so you have to take her home as you have a lot to do i…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 07:13 PM
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The most important thing in having succsess with women is game. Appearance, living an interesting life and having a good job do help though. You have a lot of work to do if you can't hold down a conversation with a woman. Pick up some interesting hobbies so you have passions outside of work. Keep lifting. Make sure you are eating correctly and get enough protein in to devlope muscle. Read the main TRP sub sidebar. A couple of books I would recommend reading: The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi an…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 07:07 PM
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I guess I misinterpreted what you were asking. I think there is a fine line between a jerk / asshole to women and gaining their interest attraction. I personally think its more about being aloof and not caring about what she thinks (the idgaf attitude). Its a hard balance to strike. You will find it with time. Your "friend" seems like he is trying to pull of a more dark triad kind of thing. But thats a whole different ball game. IM wrote a lot about it if you are interested in reading up about i…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 06:57 PM
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Sorry dude, but you are wrong. You are buying into the unicorn fallacy. The thought that out there, there is some special subset of girls that is good. They only want LTRs with the best men. Good job, in good shape, fun, interesting, etc. You are thinking of this from a very male centered point of view. Logically if you will. Womens brains do not operate like this. They operate on feelings or "tingles" as TRP calls them - aka sexual excitement. They want that exciting mysterious hawt guy that al…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 06:15 PM
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There is no such thing as an "LTR type of girl". It simply comes down to would she or would she not fuck you if you were not in a relationship. Imagine this - if she met her favorite super sexy celebrity crush like Ryan Reynolds or Brad Pitt (or whoever - doesn't matter). Do you really think she would make him wait 3 dates and hold him at bay with a handjob????? Nahhh. He would have banged her in every hole and came all over her face without putting in an ounce of effort. Your SMV and game simpl…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 04:50 PM
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The problem with your suggestion is that she WANTS comfort. That is specifically why she is withholding sex from him, when hes been banging at the gates with a rock hard boner 3 times. She is this because she knows she can. And he will keep coming back cause he thinks she is this magical unicorn. By REWARDING her with comfort, he is innately reinforcing her to WITHOLD sex when she wants something. Comfort should only be given as a reward when her behaviour is good. Which it currently isn't. If h…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 04:42 PM
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This is your problem right here. You are pedestalizing her. Making her better than you think yourself to be. This is a really bad attitude to have towards yourself. By being willing to put in "work" to get the pussy means you are putting her above yourself. Fuck that man, she should be chasing you as well. You need to use some push / pull. You constantly chasing after her = you ending up a pussy whipped little bitch carrying her purse around for her.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 04:31 PM
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Not "knowing" you is just another shit test. I think you are just chasing too hard. And she is playing games cause she knows you will keep chasing hard. Soft next her and date other girls.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 04:27 PM
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Soft next and see other women. Your underlying motivation of plating / ltr'ing her is showing in your behaviour. She is sensing this and will push for commitment. Soft nexting will kill this vibe shes getting. It will let her know she needs to put out or she will lose you. How are you reacting to the shut down? Do you get all pouty and keep pushing? Do you leave / kick her out? Do you stay / let her stay and cuddle? This makes a huge difference. You could also be very bad at dealing with LMR. Ul…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 04:24 PM
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Its up to you to keep the conversation carefree. If she brings up work / money / budgeting change the subject to something more light / fun. Don't take girls out to bars / restaurants. Thats a boring date that they go on all the time. Take them on an action date, something cheap or free. A walk in the park or a hike. Its up to you to lead the interaction. If you want it to be carefree and fun, go do a fun activity with them that isn't solely revolving around conversation like going to a bar or r…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 04:17 PM
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Shit tests are a good thing. It means you are doing something right. Just a&a. If you are losing interest after shit tests it means you failed. You are probably taking it too seriously. Shit tests are just testing your frame. To see if you really are who you present yourself to be. Theres plenty of resources on how to deal with shit tests. However if you are getting constant and repeated shit tests from one girl, despite doing well on them, that usually means shes a huge drama queen or mentally …
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:46 PM
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Are you getting laid? If not, your game needs work. The overly aloof asshole may work for some, but not for others. I wouldn't overly worry about what other guys are doing. If you try to force yourself to act a certain way you may come across as fake and it will have the opposite effect you want. Focus on improving yourself. Work on your game. It will come with time.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:10 PM
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Really attractive women will almost never approach you. Its just how it works. As a man, if you want something, you have to work for it. Use these ugos as an opportunity to practice your game. You dont have to go out with them or sleep with em, just practice flirting. Good job with the weight loss so far, but you still have a long way to go. Keep up the good work, get ripped. Practice approaching women. Don't get discouraged if you get shot down a lot.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:05 PM
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Ugh don't listen to this guy. You are in a good situation here. Just ignore what the girls are saying. Keep banging this girl and flirt with her friends and bang em too.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:58 PM
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If they are talking about fucking you, they are thinking about fucking you. This is a really good thing. Most girls have zero self control. Game her friends. Fuck em all and watch the lulz ensue as they fight over you!
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:55 PM
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You cared enough to post here about it. Your perception of yourself isn't always the way it is. You can say / think you are whatever you are, but that isn't always the case. Pay attention to womens actions and behaviour, not their words. Ultimately, I wouldn't worry about it too much. Personally, I would just ignore it or tease her about it. "Aww he wuz sooooo mean to you!!! Maybe he has a big crush on you!! That is soooooo cute!!". Either she comes around or she doesn't. Shes in an LTR anyways …
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:53 PM
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This is most likely unconscious behaviour on her part.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:43 PM
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Girls interest will sometimes hot and cold. Don't react to this. Reward her with your time and attention when her interest is high. Ignore her when her interest is low. A high smv girl will be used to having guys wrapped around her finger doing what she wants. Don't be like this. Don't chase after her. You will set yourself apart from the herd by doing this. Keep doing you. Shes obviously attracted to something in you. Focus on improving yourself and being awesome and women will fall in line.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:42 PM
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A guy like this could still easily be a total beta around women. I know plenty of guys who are like this - outwardly appear awesome but have no game whatsoever. Guys like that end up as providers who get cheated on. Frame and game are king. If you show that it bothers you, then you lose. One thing that I've learned in life is that there will always be someone who is better than you. There will always be someone who can lift more, someone who has more money, someone who is better at whatever hobb…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:34 PM
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Eww not crossfit.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:26 PM
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Plates fall. Acquire new ones. The worst thing you can do is continue to bombard her with messages. Stop contacting her. Maybe she will come around, maybe not. It doesn't really matter whats going on with her. Just soft next, don't contact her til she contacts you.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:23 PM
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Attractive women get bombarded by tonnes of thirsty dudes on the internet. You are just one of many. Unless you are super attractive / fit, I wouldn't expect much sucsess online. In person, you can let your game shine.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:18 PM
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Maybe he skips everything but arms.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:16 PM
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Women are just attracted to aloof assholes. Its game 101 really. He is playing the "bad boy" and the girls are eating it up.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:15 PM
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You lost frame when you left her downtown without a way home. To do something petty like that shows you are too invested in her. If shes just a plate (and you are hopefully seeing other women) why do you give a fuck who she flirts with. Only a total beta would flip out and leave her there. Next time any women does that to you just go talk to other women and flirt with them. Ignore the bitch. You are supposed to be a rock, unwavered by her actions and emotions. It sounds like you have anger issue…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:05 PM
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You just have an inflated opinion of her due to your oneitis. Once you start seeing other women you will realize that she really wasn't that special. Go game other women. Theres plenty out there that are more attractive and better in bed. However, they won't be attracted to you if you are still all mopey about your ex. Time to move on.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:57 PM
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Game her as usual. Pay no attention to this. But, this girl is only pump and dump material. Don't go out planning an LTR with her in your head. Seems like you are already getting hung up on her if you are worrying who shes fucking already.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:52 PM
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Dread game. You can't soft next someone you live with because that involves not contacting them for several days. Why are you "soft nexting" your wife?
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:49 PM
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Frame is how you present yourself to the world and how you react to situations. Its your whole attitude and personality.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:47 PM
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Your penis size will only be an issue if you make it an issue. ~5 inches is average. Women are notoriously bad judges of size. When she loves you your dick is huge, when she hates you its super tiny. As long as you get her off she won't care. Most girls at your age probably won't have seen a lot of dicks unless they are huge sluts. You need to get them naked before they will see your dick anyways. Worry about stuff you can actually fix - like working out and improving youself. Good motivation no…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:46 PM
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He wouldn't be benching 205 at 100 lbs.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:37 PM
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You haven't even met the girls yet. Don't get ahead of yourself. Going into a first date with LTR expectations is going to set off numerous undesirable unconscious behaviours that these women will notice. Just approach things as you normally would. If things go well and continue up to the date of the surgery tell them then. This is not a first date kind of conversation.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:32 PM
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Yes, women are turned on by hot guys. Just like you are turned on by hot women. Just imagine yourself giving a massage to an hb9. You would be turned on. Women are exactly the same. The question is - do you trust her? If the answer is not a resounding yes I would suggest getting out of the relationship.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:28 PM
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Then you get the classic trickle truth.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:23 PM
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Stop making excuses for her.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:21 PM
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If she has a history with the guy and is lieing about it, you should dump her, immediately. Do not give her a reason why. Just say you are ending it and move on. Don't feed into her drama or need for closure. Even if shes not sleeping with him, the fact that she would do this is a huge sign of disrespect towards you. Leave.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:21 PM
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If you are in London, im sure there is a tonne of active stuff you can do. I live in a much much smaller city that has climbing gyms, tonnes of different types of martial arts. Just pick something you are interested in and try it. Or don't and just sit at home.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:15 PM
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You are a kissless virgin cause you don't talk to women. Stop avoiding them and talk to them. Any time you see a girl in public try to start a conversation with her. Look up day game. Unless your sister is a total prude, I wouldn't see her as an obstacle. See her as a wing-woman if you will. An easy way to talk to other women.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:11 PM
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Stop caring so much about being "the alpha". AMOG'ing is not a good thing. Guys who you see as the "alpha" of the group don't actively think about doing that. They just live their lives.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:06 PM
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Why are you not talking to women in your daily life? Any remotely attractive woman is going to be bombarded with thirsty desperate dudes online. You are literally one of hundreds. If you aren't super attractive you will just be scraping the bottom of the barrell or will be validating women. If an attractive girl is online dating, theres a reason why. And its not to meet some awkward boring out of shape guy with no game.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:04 PM
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Do you have non-nerdy hobbies or interests? Do you work out / do active things? Personally, I've found hobbies, especially active ones are the best way to meet new people and make friends. Pick something and try it - martial arts, rock climbing, hiking, biking - theres groups out there for everything. Bars are a waste of time and money IMO. There so many other more fun things you can do with your time.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:00 PM
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Don't take her on dates. Just fuck her. Invite her over / go to her place - fuck her and go / kick her out. Treat a cum dumpster like a cum dumpster. Don't be seen with it in public. Edit: shes still responding so shes interested. Keep the response minimal. "Was busy. Come over at x time". If she doesn't respond / says anything other than OK (or offers a different day / time) then don't bother.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:52 PM
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You need to improve yourself. Figure out what you want to do with your life. You are in a pretty good position right now. Do you want to go to school? You need some education or a trade or something to set yourself up for later in life. I wouldn't overly focus on getting laid right now. Your lifestyle is unattractive to women (unemployed, living at home). Maybe a trip wouldn't be a bad idea, but if your game is brutal and you are out of shape you probably won't get laid as much as you think. Dro…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:50 PM
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If you allow yourself to be cucked, its totally your fault. Your best option in any situation is to leave. If you fail to exercise that option you have lost all of your power. Cheaters will cheat no matter what.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:43 PM
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Do what you want. You don't have to fall into some pre-defined role you read about on the internet. Women aren't all bad. Sex is awesome. Just don't let yourself end up in a position where a woman can take advantage of you. Focus on improving yourself. If you want to talk to and sleep with women - do it. Just understand their nature and don't expect unrealistic things from them.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:40 PM
1

You just need to get over yourself. I'm not trying to say this in a way to be an asshole, but you are not special. Every women you meet will have fucked multiple men before you and will fuck more men after you. Its just the way works. You don't have some super special dick that they will always crave. If you did, your phone would be getting blown up non-stop by women. You are just wasting time and energy on something that doesn't matter. Spend that time and energy on improving yourself.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:37 PM
1

Women are a lot more perceptive to small details than men are. A watch alone probably wouldn't have a huge effect if you dress like shit and don't have good hygiene. But with the whole package - nice shoes, good clothes, being in good shape - it will set you apart from other men. You will still need good game though.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:31 PM
3

Just act like a normal human being around her. Don't go out of your way to talk to her, but if she talks to you act like what happened didn't bother you. Game other women.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:28 PM
3

I think your issue is that you care too much. You are spending way too much time with this girl if shes complaining to you about another guy. You are basically her emotional tampon. Game more women. Stop over-investing in a particular one. This is game 101 type shit. Women are just simply more attracted to the aloof asshole than the available beta.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:25 PM
1

Dread game. Be subtle about it, dont go overboard. Start putting yourself first. Do what you want to do.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:20 PM
-1

Hmm its actually a desk, not a counter. You just enlightened me to some of the trolls language manipulation tactics (that I fell for). Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 10:34 PM
10

I'm no artist, but here is an approximate representation of said landwhale.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 10:14 PM
1

Thats exactly what I was going for here. The best defence is a good offence. I think most of the still plugged in here haven't encountered a woman such as this whos only goal in life is to make those around her miserable. Sure, putting your feet on a counter may seem like a small thing, but where do you draw the line? When do you say enough is enough? Personally, I don't give this type of person an inch. Thanks for your feedback.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 09:56 PM
1

Making the person aware of their harrassing behaviour is the first step in making a complaint. If her behaviour continues, I surely will.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 09:51 PM
4

Thanks for the feedback. I will keep this in mind for future conversations with her. She has a history of making harrasment complaints against my friends, which fortunately haven't gone anywhere because we have a reasonable manager.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 09:48 PM
1

No such thing.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 09:33 PM
1

You are confused about what dread game is. Go read up on it. Because you find this girl hot, you are treating her differently. Thus she has you pegged out as a beta. Hence the "5 week" thing. She wouldn't make Ryan Reynolds wait 5 weeks. Next.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 06:09 AM
1

Game her like you would any other girl. Treat her like your bratty little sister. Kino escalate, but not like you have aspergers. Pay attention to her body language to make sure its well received.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 06:04 AM
1

This is a shit test (compliance). A quick and easy way to fail it is to take it seriously (like the ways you suggested to deal with it). Repeatedly failing shit tests makes her lose attraction for you.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 06:00 AM
1

Its just a basic compliance shit test. Use normal shit test tactics or ignore. Personally, I think you handled it well.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:57 AM
1

Realize its only your turn. One day the relationship will end. Just enjoy the ride my friend.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:48 AM
1

You haven't talked to this girl in 3 years. I wouldn't get your hopes up too high based on her responses to you. I would pay very close attention to her body language to see how she receives you. I would think any kino you try here will get swiftly shut down so don't escalate too much unless its well received and reciprocated. LMR is last minute resistence or the token resistence a girl sometime gives you when you are about to fuck her. Like when you are about to take her panties off and she say…
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:44 AM
2

No. You being a bitch is why you suck with women. Stop whining about the colour of your skin and improve yourself.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:37 AM
1

Coming right out and telling a girl you find her attractive is about as thirsty beta as you can get. Its really bad. An attractive girl gets hit on by losers all the time. Don't be a thirsty loser. If you don't like PUA, don't do it. I would recommend you read the book of pook. Its like a beginners guide to game. (game =/= PUA).
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:32 AM
1

Talk to her. In person. Stop being a bitch.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:20 AM
1

If you are consistently failing with women, the problem is you. Your game sucks. Especially if you blow a "sure thing." Don't text with a girl for a week. Text minimally only to make plans. I would suggest you read the book of pook. Its like a beginners guide to game.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:16 AM
1

Some aspect of your social interaction with them turned them off. Be it what you talked to them about, your body language, appearance or mannerisms. Hard to say what it was without being there. Work on your game and improve yourself.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:09 AM
1

If shes not willing to meet with you, you didn't strike a good enough impression when you got her number. Work on your in person game.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:04 AM
1

More foreplay. She should be begging for your dick if you do it right.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 04:59 AM
2

Keep texting to a bare minimum. You lost her cause you were texting too much about boring shit. Next time just set up a date and don't text other than that. Gotta keep up the mystery and intrigue! Girls like the challenge of figuring a guy out. Only chance you may have with this girl is a soft next. Don't text her anymore. If she texts you back keep your replies minimal and let them bake for a long time (ie dont respond right away, take a long time to respond).
/r/askTRP21/03/16 04:12 AM
4

Shes just fucking with you. Do yourself a favour and never talk to her again. Fuck other women.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 04:03 AM
7

Tingles supercede everything.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 06:44 PM
1

No.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 10:42 AM
3

She just wants drama and closure. She wants to feel like she was something super special in your life and to know that you can't live without her. She wants your validation. Don't give her anything. Just move on with your life. Act like she never meant anything to you.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 04:02 AM
2

Nexting gets easier after you've had success with women and realize that there are plenty of others out there. As for small talk, get her talking about herself. Keep it light and fun. Avoid serious or boring topics. Keep changing the topic of conversation frequently so it doesn't die out. Her comment about her boyfriend is likely cause shes thinking about brach swinging. Don't get too frustrated. Just keep on improving and talking to women.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 03:57 AM
2

Let her vent. Women sometimes need to just let their emotions out. Just listen. Do not attempt to solve her problems. She does not want or need your help.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 03:12 AM
13

They do notice absolutely everything. One girl I had chatted with very briefly at a party. I felt like I didn't really strike a great impression. I asked her out a couple of months later. When we were hanging out at her place, she let on that she remembered absolutely everything about me at that party. She had even asked all her friends about me. A few other things she did gave off the crazy vibe so I noped my way outta there. They feign it, but their social awareness is insane.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 12:15 AM
1

Don't be so hard on yourself bro. Women don't fuck down. She obviously saw something she liked in you. Find out what that was and do it more.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 10:34 PM
1

Nah I think you are good. She probably just felt a bit slutty and wanted some comfort. She thanked you, you must have done something right.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:43 AM
1

Say ok, have fun. Look for new girls. Bang new girls. Keep banging her til she goes.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:37 AM
1

You handled it well until the bye and good luck part. All women are going to throw drama your way. You just discourage that behaviour and encourage the good stuff. Once she reached out to you again (like when she sent the comedy video) you should have invited her over then. Who knows, maybe she will re-plate herself. Just don't contact her again. If she contacts you, just make plans. In the mean time just see other women.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 11:15 PM
1

Don't validate (compliment) women. Seriously, just don't. Stay away from "sexual" stuff in texting. It doesn't turn them on, it just makes you seem like a thirsty loser. Thats why you are getting these lackluster responses that are basically girl speak for "..." Keep texting for logistics only when you first meet a girl.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 11:08 PM
3

The reason she gave you for a break up is just so she could fuck someone else. She only came back cause chad didn't wanna date her. And you took her back with open arms. Her saying she wants you to say nice and affectionate things to her is just a shit test to pull you into her frame. Shes not reciprocating because you failed the shit test. You are the nice little beta backup boy. Dump this bitch and see other girls who actually respect you.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 10:56 PM
1

You are way too young to get married. Enjoy your freedom. Marriage is a trap.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 10:46 PM
3

Instead of trying to nail her, you tried to impress her with a 2.5 hr dinner. What you ran into was LMR (last minute resistance) not ASD. Thats just the token resistence girls put up before you fuck them. You shouldn't have massaged her, just keep escalating. She pretty much said she was DTF when she said "you didn't just invite me over here to kiss" (or whatever). Phones don't miss calls. Shes just not calling you back. Don't lie to yourself. Your only option is to soft next. Calling again and …
/r/askTRP14/03/16 10:44 PM
1

Only you can decide if you want an LTR. You can't rely on an internet site to tell you what you should / shouldn't do. An LTR is not neccessarily a bad thing as long as the girl is properly vetted. LTRs are generally advised against because they are essentially TRP on hard mode. Things like competition anxiety, abundance mentality and remaining mysterious keep women on their best behaviour. As soon as you start removing those things (that a plating mentality provide) women get more comfortable. …
/r/askTRP14/03/16 10:33 PM
1

The poophole loophole!!
/r/askTRP14/03/16 10:08 PM
2

I think you are just a bit (or a lot) socially inept. Read these books: How to win friends and manipulate people 48 laws of power
/r/askTRP14/03/16 10:07 PM
1

"You're only using me for sex" This is a comfort test. At this point you reward her for her good behaviour. Give her a big ol bear hug and pick her off the ground. "Nah babe, I kind of like you a lil bit" with a smirk on your face.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 10:01 PM
2

Nah you just fucked up. You had her over at your place (!!!) and failed to escalate. She had to even initiate a kiss. This girl speak for "please fuck me now, oh god please fuck me!!!" She isn't calling you back cause your boring and didn't fuck her. Next time you get a girl back at your place, don't be a bitch and escalate.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 09:56 PM
1

If the light kino is well received, keep escalating!! Its your job to push her boundaries as much as possible. Its her job to feign resistance (anti-slut defence). When in doubt, always escalate! She will let you know if your going too fast. When that happens, take two steps back and start again.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 09:27 PM
0

Thats just a really shitty attitude to have. Sure it takes hard work and commitment, but anything thats really good in life does. Its nowhere near impossible. It just takes discipline, which most man-children don't have.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 09:21 PM
1

I'm going to be brutal cause I think you need it. You are the classic Nice GuyTM You are average and boring. You do not wet panties. A "semi-athletic" body means you are overweight and that does not turn girls on. Time to lose some weight and build muscle. You want to know what turns girls on? Muscles. Theres a reason why Brad Pitt and Ryan Reynolds are so lusted after. Cause they're hot!! You can look like that too. It just takes hard work. Next you need to stop being so fucking boring and nice…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 09:17 PM
1

So. Many. Red. Flags. I'd tread carefully with this one. Overly religious girls are almost as bad as horse girls. Having an LTR-as-a-goal (marriage) mentality is a bad idea. There is a very good reason why TRP recommends plate spinning for newer guys. If you are really interested in educating yourself on it, read rollo's articles on plate spinning (therationalmale). Personally, I think you don't have enough experience with women to properly vett a girl for an LTR. They are going to smell it a mi…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 08:56 PM
1

Your problem is you are drawing a line between small talk and game. All game is, is banter (small talk) that encorporates kino. Assuming you aren't somewhere that kino would be inappropriate (work), start trying to encorporate some very light kino into a session of playful banter or light teasing with a girl. Carefully pay attention to how she responds to your touch. Don't go super overboard with kino it is very powerful and gets your intentions across.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 08:22 PM
-1

I think you are about to be catfished!!
/r/askTRP14/03/16 08:17 PM
3

Only way to salvage it is to let her drop. She may re-plate herself, she may not. You fucked up and went super beta on her. Your only alpha move left is to soft next her. Show abundance. You have other plates. Why do you need her? (You don't). Unless you have oneitis for her, in which case you should hard next. Acquire more (different) plates.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 08:14 PM
6

Do what you did to that "hb8-9" that you made out with. You already know what to do.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 08:09 PM
0

She is attempting to emotionally manipulate you by withdrawing affection and acting upset. Clearly it is working because you are feeling upset and questioning your actions. I'm guessing you are not really that experienced with women cause this shit is like 101 bitch management in TRP. It is your job to be the rock in the relationship. Her emotions are like the ocean. At times they will be calm and pleasant. Warm and enjoyable. Other times they will be stormy and rough with huge waves! You should…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 08:07 PM
2

She was never yours, it was just your turn. Get over the idea that she was some goddess unicorn. She wasn't. She was just good at being what you wanted her to be. You need to start talking to and approaching women. Then you will realize that she wasn't as great as you thought she was.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 07:46 PM
3

You don't need a girl to help you with "your mission". Anything she can do for you, you can do for yourself. If you don't want to talk about feelings, don't. Just escalate on her and don't talk. Ultimately, she may be looking for something (an exclusive LTR) that you may not be willing to provide. It may be time to let this plate drop.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 07:03 PM
2

I wouldn't have gone for coffee in the first place. Action dates are better. Structure your dates so they are fun and have opportunity for kino. One of my favs is hiking -> food / bar -> your / her place. But only ask her on a hike. Let the rest seem natural, just have a plan in mind. Hypothetically, it depends. If you are sitting right next to her it makes it very easy. Although thats not always possible depending on the venue. Just be creative, see what works in the moment. If you are sitting …
/r/askTRP14/03/16 07:00 PM
1

Don't act like you want to be her friend. Instead of chatting her up on facebook about boring shit, walk up to her and talk to her. If you see her at the mall do an insta-date. Just get her to go do something fun. If shes too busy plan something for another day. If you want a girl, you need to take action. You don't get laid by starting facebook conversations about metal bands.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:49 PM
1

He already said it in the post you edited in. Stop being a little bitch. Make yourself into someone women WANT to fuck.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:43 PM
1

Stop treating hot bitches like their hot bitches. Treat them like they are your annoying bratty sister. They are not used to it. They are so used to having everyone pander to them all the time (like you do). They just eat that shit right up.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:37 PM
2

It sounds like your game sucks. If you are waiting till the end of a date to try and hug her you are doing it wrong. By that time shes already written you off for being boring. Read up about kino escalation. I would also recommend reading the book of pook. Its like a beginners guide to game.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:32 PM
1

Validating / complimenting is demonstrating lower value. I.e you are saying she is better than you. Women don't fuck down.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:21 PM
2

Just flip it around on them, take control of the situation and escalate. A girl approaching you is basically saying fuck me /u/separatedeities, fuck me now. Just treat them like a bratty little sister and don't take them seriously. I would suggest reading the book of pook, its kind of like a beginners guide to game.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:18 PM
2

Its only your turn. Enjoy it while it lasts. Don't get attached. There are no unicorns.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:14 PM
1

You care way too much about the attractiveness of a woman. Thus you are pedestalizing the hot ones and treating them differently. That and you have oneitis for your ex. You don't need interest from a girl to approach. Just do it. Stop pedestalizing hot girls. Treat them like a bratty chubby annoying little sister. Don't take them seriously.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:06 PM
1

For kino, do things that feel natural at the time. Its not a formula to follow. If you are joking around with her, lightly push her on the shoulder. Grab her hand and take her to go dance / grab a drink or whatever. If shes standing next to you give her a light hip check or something. Be creative. Once you start getting her used to your touch she will be more receptive to it. But, carefully pay attention to her body language when you do it. Theres no quicker way to get labelled as a creepy touch…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 05:56 PM
1

Playing it low key and observing is your issue. If you want her, you need to escalate. If you are not familiar with kino escalation, look it up. If she responds well to kino, isolate and escalate. Ask her out. Be specific when you do x place at y time. If she says anything other than yes or i cant at y time how about z then its a rejection. I guarantee you, you will never get a girl by being low key. You absolutely need to take action. Rather than thinking if you have a chance, just do something…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 05:51 PM
1

I'd take that PUA stuff with a grain of salt. No to dismiss RSD for what they've accomplished, but that comes with years of practice, rock solid frame and a fantastic witt. You don't have that. You will just get slapped if you try to pull it off cause you'll come across as a socially awkward loser. Instead of PUA, go the TRP route. Build value in yourself as a man. Social skills will come with time and practice. Sure, theres a time and a place for banter such as this, I don't think it would work…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 05:14 PM
2

For cold approaches with people you don't know, I like to make humourous comments about the environment around you. Like take something obviously abnormal / outrageous / out of the social norm and comment on it. I can't really think of examples at the moment, but with practice it will come to you. When conversating, make sure to change the subject often. Have multiple subjects going at a time and change often. If the other person seems uninterested in what you are talking about, change the subje…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 05:03 PM
1

Why the fuck are you even here.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 04:55 PM
1

It sounds like you and her have different opinions about what your relationship is if shes using the word "cheating." Time to clear that up.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 04:53 PM
1

I'm not clear whether she is a plate or an exclusive LTR. Either way, you need to be clear what you want. Don't let her tell you what to do. She won't respect you for it. It sounds like shes not OK with you seeing other women. It may be time to let this plate drop.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 04:51 PM
5

Monk mode is just a crutch to avoid rejection. Its just a physical line in the sand you draw in your mind. "I won't approach until I do 'X'." Then you keep moving that line in the sand. Every time it approaches you move it back further. Just embrace the rejection. You will get shot down. We all did. Once it happens, you realize it really isn't that bad and your game will improve in the process.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 04:47 PM
3

Game will only improve with practice. Confidence comes as a result of improving yourself and succeeding. Just go talk to more girls. It will get better.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 04:43 PM
0

With specific dates, times and witnesses and a repeat history of actions, they can't ignore it.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 01:50 PM
1

Nah. He should do exactly that. Shes pretty much asking for that with what she said.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 01:42 PM
1

Think of every girl as that chubby girl you tease but don't really like.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 11:33 AM
3

If you are getting interest and losing it your game sucks. You are probably looking at women as something unattainable (especially attractive ones) - pedestalizing. Which manifests in your behaviour. My rule of thumb for game is to treat all women like a bratty sister. Make fun of them. Don't take them seriously. The more attractive they are, the more you up this. If you havent already, read the book of pook. Its a good intro to game / trp way of thinking.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 12:39 AM
1

Or you could do nothing.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 12:23 AM
1

Or you could do nothing.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 12:23 AM
1

You handled it perfectly. Don't reach out to her any further unless she contacts you. Personally, I wouldn't talk to this girl any further. Its quite clear what she is looking for. If you continue seeing her this will only come back up over and over.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 12:22 AM
2

Theres no such thing as a unicorn. The sooner you get that notion out of your head, the less likely you will be hugely let down / destroyed by the girl that convinces you that she is exactly what you are looking for. Instead of solely focusing on a low n-count as your most desirable attribute in women, I would suggest looking up the concept of red flags / green flags on the main forum. The vast majority of women will lie about n count. Don't even bother asking. But they can't hide red flags. In …
/r/askTRP14/03/16 12:19 AM
1

Thats just your inner beta trying to claw its way out. That will die out eventually. You are better off for being able to see the world as it actually is. In your blue pill days you would have tried to pursue an LDR with this special snowflake. Just enjoy your turn and move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 04:11 PM
2

Dump her and see other women. Why do you need to be in an LTR at 18?
/r/askTRP09/03/16 10:26 PM
1

It sounds like you are treating 8s differently than you treat 5s. Start treating 8s like you treat 5s and you sill have better results. Breakup with this 8.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 06:11 PM
3

Shes most likely flirting with other guys if they are getting close enough to touch her. Especially since this has happened multiple times. Her telling you is just trying to get you jealous and get you to lose frame. Break up with her and date other women.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 06:08 PM
3

She said "or something." That leaves it open for you to do anything. Personally, I like that response. Its straight forward and polarizes to help you from wasting time. Her comment kind of seems like she wants to date you.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 06:03 PM
1

Changing and improving isn't easy. It takes motivation and hard work. If it was easy, everyone would be skinny and fit. Maybe you are trying to implement too many changes at once. Start slower. Instead of going from your current diet to one salad a day, try just cutting out soda for a week and then implement other changes. Hold yourself accountable. Weight loss is very simple to do but very difficult to mentally implement. Eat less and move more. You need to start tracking your calories. MyFitne…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 05:59 PM
1

If you don't like average girls, don't go after them. Go after the ones you are attracted to. Your life probably feels fast paced because you are actually setting goals and trying to achieve them. Taking better account of what you do with your time. Before you just wasted your time with meaningless time sinks. Only weak minded people or losers would look down on you for having discipline and perserverence. They are just jealous of their own lack of motivation and are trying to pull you down to t…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 05:48 PM
1

Your problem is that you are taking her bullshit thoughts and feelings seriously. Stop doing that. Its not your job to solve her problems. She doesn't want you to and doesn't respect you for it. Don't argue with her. You will never win. This situation is entirely your fault. Don't contact her for a while. Give this a few days to blow over.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 04:20 PM
1

Just don't talk about your career if you don't want it to come out. Be ambiguous. Change the subject. Only go by your first name. Lying has a way of coming back and biting you in the ass.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 04:10 PM
1

Hiking / going for a walk in a park -> drinks -> your place / her place is one of my favs. If shes boring then it costs you nothing cause you can just bail after the hike. Doing any active / outdoors kind of activity that you are good it is good as well. Invite her along to something you are good at and teach her it.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 04:07 PM
1

Treat her like your bratty little sister. Work in kino escalation. Be fun. Don't talk about boring stuff. Just get her talking about herself. Women love to talk about themselves. Have a good plan in mind for where you want to go what you want to do. Action dates (where you do stuff) are way better than stuff like dinner dates. Have fun and enjoy yourself!
/r/askTRP09/03/16 04:04 PM
1

Women like strong, good looking, masculine men. Being better looking and better built makes life much easier.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 03:58 PM
3

Why do you want LTR a girl who won't sleep with you?? You definitely have oneitis. If you've been on over 3 dates with her and she hasn't slept with you, you need to move on. She is wasting your time. An LTR with her will only end up with you getting blue balls and cucked. Next.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 03:56 PM
1

I would have just ignored it. IMO its hard to A&A when you are not in person. Sarcasm and body language don't transfer well over the phone. You definitely handled it wrong. Acknowledging her bullshit is a huge mistake. Trying to call her back is an even bigger mistake. Is she always super jealous like this? Thats a bad sign. She may be cheating on you if she is.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 03:53 PM
1

Just ignore it. Focus only on improving yourself.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 03:41 PM
11

Your profile is boring. You are texting boring shit to them. Your first text to that girl is cringeworthy. You have to realize even a decent looking girl (6+) is bombared by thirsty dudes on tinder. You are doing nothing to stand out. Your pictures are likely the only reason you are getting matches. Theres a few guides on the main forum. Search for them.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 02:28 AM
2

Its not a rule, just a generalization.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 07:29 PM
1

My bad. Thanks for that. I will edit it.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 07:05 PM
1

Its not just lifting. You need to fix your diet or you won't see results in the gym. For me the hardest part of gaining weight (lean muscle) was eating properly and eating enough calories. Actually going to the gym was the easy part. Focus on a proper diet. There is absolutely no harm in talking to everyone you see. Social skills only get better with practice.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:13 PM
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Yes you are giving her too much of your time, attention and intimacy for her not fucking you. When she behaves badly (doesn't fuck you) you need to withdraw these things. When she sleeps with you, you reward her with these things. Next time this happens ask her to leave.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:09 PM
1

Just ask her out. Be specific - meet me at x place at x time. If she says no without a counter offer of a different time, its a rejection. Don't waste talking to her if this happens.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:04 PM
1

Do you lift? Why would a girl sleep with you when she can sleep with someone who is hotter than you or has better game. Instead of whining, you need to improve. Lift. Dress better. Fine tune your game.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:02 PM
2

College / uni is a good time for opportunity. Depending on where you work / live when you are done school, you probably won't have this much exposure to young hot women. Whether or not you can capitalize on it is up to you.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 04:58 PM
2

Just don't use the shotgun approach saying the exact same thing to 100s of women and it will be fine. Sure you may or may not get rejected, but you won't get labelled as a sexual predator and have detectives trying to talk to you.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 04:47 PM
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You've slept with her once. Don't push for commitment. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. You barely know this girl. Don't get ahead of yourself. Just enjoy your time with her and keep doing what you are doing.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 04:16 PM
2

Your wife doesn't respect you at all. She has 100% of control in the relationship. You need to implement dread game in your relationship. You also need to get in good shape. Lose the weight. Start lifting after you do. Don't do it for her. Do it for you and your longterm health. Don't believe the HAES bullshit. You are significantly limiting you lifespan and quality of life by being that overweight. Plus women find it incredibly unattractive. You are going to get a lot of pushback from her at fi…
/r/askTRP07/03/16 03:40 PM
1

Yes. You don't get that fat without living a really shitty lifestyle eating shitloads of empty calories.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 03:27 PM
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Women don't see it that way. The extremely methodical approach, likely repeating the same things to large numbers of women comes off as predatory. They want to be seen as special little snowflakes. Saying the same thing to large numbers of women is essentially saying to them that hes only interested in their vaginas. Also, you have to take into account that he is also very likely a low value male. I.e. hes is not likely very attractive or well built. Probably doesn't dress that well. If he was, …
/r/askTRP07/03/16 03:21 PM
1

If girls are shutting you down before you even say anything you've got a lot of work to do. Hit the gym and dress better. Hence the part about your perceptions of your own smv being off.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 01:12 AM
1

If she has crazy random unexplainable mood swings its possible she has BPD (borderline personality disorder). https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Borderline_personality_disorder If that describes your girlfriend, make a hasty exit plan. There is no living with a BPD girl. They will make your life a living hell. I know it all too well. I went through 8 years of BPD hell. GTFO ASAP.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 01:19 AM
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One word: dread. You need to implement some SERIOUS dread game to get your wife's respect back. Hit the gym immediately. Eat well. Dress better. Work on your game and being more social. You need to look and feel the best you ever have. You will get a lot of pushback from her at first. She is used to having all of the power in the relationship and will not give it up lightly. Good luck. Its going to be a huge uphill battle for you.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 01:09 AM
1

The only reason shes trying to come back is cause it didn't work out with the other guy. You are the beta buxxx back up plan.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 06:43 AM
1

You already know what to do. Just break up with her. Why would you want to stay with someone who cheats on you.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 06:41 AM
1

It sounds like theres a lot more issues in your relationship than you let on. She clearly doesn't respect you at all and you are totally in her frame. You totally mishandled this party situation. Butthurt jealousy is never the way to go. The only solution to your current predicament is some hardcore dread game. But even then, its probably too late. What I would suggest is, for the sake of your child and your future ability to be able to see the child, I would suggest you try to be as amicable as…
/r/askTRP04/03/16 06:37 AM
1

Based on how you are talking about this, you probably came off as too beta / clingy post sex. Give it a few days to cool down. Text her to hook up if she doesn't contact you. If she doesn't answer / rejects next her.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 06:26 AM
1

If shes going to cheat, shes going to cheat. You getting all jealous and butthurt over her going out with her friends will only make her more likely to cheat. The only thing to prevent that is having high SMV and an aloof attitude. That being said, dating a girl who goes out partying all the time probably isnt a good idea. They are best left for plates / ONS. What to do? Do what you want to do. Make yourself better. If you want to improve your grades, study more. If you want to improve your soci…
/r/askTRP04/03/16 06:20 AM
1

Seems like you have low self esteem and poor body image. Time to hit the gym and feel better about that!
/r/askTRP04/03/16 06:11 AM
1

Bad response. She was trying to see if you'd get jealous. And you did. Just ignore and change the subject.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 06:06 AM
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You work with her and shes in a relationship? Don't shit where you eat advice is given out here for a good reason. This has the potential to blow up in your face. If you like to play with fire, add some light kino into your daily interactions. See how it goes and slowly escalate from there.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 05:59 AM
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Suck it up kid. As a man, you make your life. Nothing is handed to you. Do you want to live the rest of your life living in your parents basement jerking off? Then get off your ass, hit the gym, eat good and study. If you want something you have to work for it.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 05:54 AM
1

Best way to handle this would be to not get yourself into a situation like that in the first place. I would just walk away if a woman was that glued to her phone.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 05:45 AM
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Your perceived SMV isn't high enough if you are getting this kind of rejection. Improve yourself. Lift. Eat well. Dress better.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:51 AM
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What the fuck did I just read. You must be a troll.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:49 AM
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Ugh. Just don't overthink it man. Go with the flow and try to enjoy yourself. Sex isn't rocket science. Just be dominant and do what you want to and what feels good to you.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:41 AM
2

Simply glorious. You have a way with words.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:38 AM
1

Dread game is for established long term relationships. You haven't even slept with this girl. If you want to bang her, you need to escalate...
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:37 AM
2

Just do it. Don't think about it. If a girl looks at you and smiles go talk to her. Rejection is better than regret. It will get easier as you do it more.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:27 AM
1

How about you just ask her out. I guarantee following someone on instagram will never get you laid. Grow some fucking balls son.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:26 AM
1

You need to kill your beta behaviour or you will ruin your relationship. To put it simply, women are not attracted to that shit. You should start focusing on yourself and less on your relationship / women. Go to the gym. Eat better. Learn new stuff. Improve you income. Start fun and interesting hobbies. Find your passion in life. Be a better man. Your relationships with women should not define you as a man.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:23 AM
1

Escalate on her and see how it goes. Thats the only way to truly know.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:16 AM
2

The only emotions and deep connection a girl needs to go out with you are tingles in her vagina. You aren't giving that to her.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:12 AM
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If shes saying 2 word answers and taking forever to respond, shes not interested. In general, texting when you first meet a girl should only be done for logistics. The more you text before actually going out with a girl, you run the risk of killing the tingles. Just don't do it. IMO, you should never contact girls through social media, its just for validation for them. Don't ask for a girls kik. Ask her out. Be specific. Meet me at x place at x time. If she says no and doesnt come up with a coun…
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:11 AM
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Wow you really fucked up. The reason you are getting this reaction is because you are taking an approach to meeting women that is extremely robotic and seems creepy / cringey. Combine that with the fact that you've done this 100s of times is really really bad. Like sexual predator bad. You need to develop a more natural, organic approach. Remember women are people too. They respond better to real organic flowing conversation than obvious pre-canned horribly done pick up routines. I highly sugges…
/r/askTRP04/03/16 02:59 AM
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Sounds like you have the horrible disease known as oneitis. And yes she is manipulating you. Nextttt.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 02:46 AM
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I went through 8 years of BPD hell and I still don't find women disgusting. I can see why you do though. Best advice I could give you is to closely evaluate women for red and green flags (search the main trp sub for articles on this) and limit interactions with women who have too many red flags. There are some decent women out there, they are just really hard to find. If you haven't read Rollo's book (The Rational Male) I would recommend it. I really helped me understand where I went wrong in th…
/r/askTRP04/03/16 02:08 AM
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Her not texting back / being super busy isn't a good sign. You probably either pushed her too fast (and now shes having second thoughts about it) or went too needy on her by texting all the time. Either way, best thing to do is not contact her until she contacts you. Try to remain aloof.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:58 AM
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She found a better option. Its just a nice way of rejecting you. Work on your game.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:52 AM
1

If you want to keep interest alive don't text them stupid shit like how was your day. If you find you are getting flaked on your SMV probably isn't high enough or you didn't strike a good enough impression when you first met her. If a girl is really into you and has your number, she will be blowing up your phone the whole time leading up to the date. Time to work on your in person game.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:49 AM
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Its called being a beta. She will lose attraction to you when you display too many beta behaviours. If you want her to go fuck other dudes then "give her all your love."
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:45 AM
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Single mom. Massive shit testing. Likely slept with other guys. You displaying massive beta behaviours towards her. Sounds like you are about to have a really bad time.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:41 AM
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Don't say anything. Go radio silent for a few days. Her ditching you like that is a huge sign of disrespect. I think you should seriously consider if you want to stay with her. Personally, I think you should demote her to plate status (sex only) and move on.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:36 AM
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That is a compliance test to pull you into her frame. You failed. You should have refused. Disagree and amplify would have worked well. "Im sooooo sore from squats yesterday. I couldn't possibly carry anything!!"
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:31 AM
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Once you accept their hypergamous and solipsistic nature you can enjoy their company. Jusr don't develope false expectations for them that are contrary to their nature.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:24 AM
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If she didn't text you back she is not interested. Next time you ask someone out, have a specific time and place in mind. Don't say sometime. Then its a yes or no answer. If its no without a counter offer for a time, that is a rejection. This is how you polarize to avoid having girls waste your time.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:22 AM
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No worries man. Have fun and enjoy the ride!
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:19 AM
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I agree. I thought it was impossible for me to put on weight before I started lifting. When I actually corrected my diet (which was horrible) and started lifting I put on weight super easily. A proper diet is so important.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:17 AM
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You did everything wrong if you are getting this kind of rejection. Go read the sidebar on the main subreddit.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:13 AM
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Go talk to her.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 09:09 PM
1

Seems like ASD / plausible debiability on her part. I'd proceed anyways. Don't acknowledge it. "Meet me at x place at x time."
/r/askTRP03/03/16 07:19 PM
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If you aren't attracted to chubby 5/6s don't sleep with em. Go after more attractive girls that you want to sleep with. Nothing wrong with being a virgin. People won't know unless you tell em.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 06:33 PM
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I think what that guy was not so eloquently trying to say is that there is a difference between being an asshole and being "alpha". I think your game is on the right track, it just needs a bit of fine tuning. My rule of thumb is to treat women like a bratty little sister. Playfully (but not maliciously) make fun of them. Keep texting to a bare minimum. Usually just for logistics. Next time a woman gives you a serious ultimatum like don't use that name or you wont see me again, its probably wise …
/r/askTRP03/03/16 06:30 PM
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I think you just have low self esteem from poor self image. People only see what you present to them. They have no idea about your past. If you meet a girl and really hit it off, you should try to pursue it with her. It isn't a bad thing that you dont have a lot in common with them. Your end goal is to sleep with women. Not be their best friend and have deep conversations. Stop over thinking things. If its going well, pursue it further. You are probably leaving a few girls wondering why you didn…
/r/askTRP03/03/16 06:19 PM
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Stop taking life so seriously. Everyone makes mistakes. She was probably light heartedly making fun of you. In these situations if you find it uncomfortable, you could agree and amplify or pressure flip it back to her.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 06:12 PM
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Thats a lets just be friends rejection. Next. Read up about kino escalation. Going for a kiss shouldn't be a huge awkward movement. You have to build up to it.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 08:39 PM
1

Read the book of pook. Its a good place to start.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 07:41 PM
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Her saying she is "career focused" is girl speak for I want to fuck a lot of guys before I settle down. You are just a stop on the cock carousel. Enjoy the ride my friend, but don't get attached. This little girl will destroy you in ways you can't even imagine.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 07:37 PM
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Girls always say they don't fuck on the first date. Then they do. You are not special. It is just your turn.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 07:33 PM
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I would be super careful if I were in your shoes. This has huge potential to blow up in your face (professionally and personally) and really fuck up your life. Not worth it in my opinion.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 07:19 PM
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You went full retard. Clearly you haven't actually read much about TRP if you are trying to LTR a girl who you went on 4 dates with and slept with once. Especially you bringing it up first.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 07:14 PM
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Sex is her last ditch effort to keep you around. Heres my hypothesis about what happened: she met someone better than you. That didn't work out (she got pumped and dumped). Now shes left with nothing and is trying desperately to get you back.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 06:49 PM
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She is attempting to emotionally manipulate you. Hard next and don't look back.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 06:45 PM
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I would say / admit nothing. Girls need plausible deniability. They don't like to admit that they are sluts. Bragging that you slept with a girl can hurt your reputation for your chances with other girls in her / your circles.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 04:24 PM
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TRP is a toolbox. Use the tools that pertain to your goals and ignore the others. Read these books: The book of pook (good place to start) The rational male by rollo tomassi No more mr nice guy by robert glover
/r/askTRP02/03/16 04:18 PM
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Way too many red flags in her. And I only read the first couple paragraphs. If you like pain, LTR her. If you care about yourself, hard next her and don't look back. There are decent women who are LTR worthy out there. However, she is not one of them.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 04:14 PM
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Smack her ass with a smirk on your face and walk away. Don't act butt-hurt. Once you start properly implementing dread (very subtly) you will notice a change in her. Be prepared for a lot of pushback from her. Shes used to having your balls in her purse and won't give them back easily.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 04:09 PM
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Just don't. If you are talking to a girl on tinder, its pretty obvious why you both are on there. Work on your in person game. That will get you laid.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 04:06 PM
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She is only doing this because you are in HER frame. She doesn't respect you. Imagine if her Ryan Reynolds or Brad Pitt walked up and asked her to spin around. She would probably spin around so fast she would get dizzy. All while giggling the whole time. The solution to your problem is dread game. Look it up.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 03:49 PM
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Monk mode (in your case) is just a way to avoid being rejected. If you are considering approaching, just do it. Once you get shot down you won't care anymore. Stop caring so much and just do it.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 03:45 PM
4

Its essentially a shit test. A&A into absolute absurdidty.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 03:43 PM
3

Quite simply. Improve yourself. Get better at game.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 10:09 PM
2

Treat them like a bratty little sister. Dont take anything they say too seriously and make fun of them in a light hearted way.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 04:36 PM
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Yeah except you are in the bottom 80% cause you act BP as fuck. Have some respect for yourself and stop giving a shit if some fugly tinder slut cancels on you. You have the complete opposite of a abundance mentality. Im not trying to say this maliciously.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 12:15 AM
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You fucked up. You probably still had a chance but you definately blew it there. Heres the thing: you were always the back up plan. Her plan A which she wasnt sure was going to work out did. You are plan B. Your texts showed pure desperation and lack of other options. If you were talking to multiple girls you wouldnt have cared cause you'd have other options. Getting ditched sucks. But texting back all butthurt kills any chance of getting in her pants. What you should have done: deny tomorrow an…
/r/askTRP19/02/16 12:13 AM
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If you asked her out and she said no without a counter offer, shes not interested. Shes just rejecting you nicely. Go after other women and take it as a learning experience. If she really wanted to fuck you, she'd find a way.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 12:03 AM
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If she has a boyfriend and you are having long conversations about her feelings with her, you are an orbiter. Stop fucking validating her need for attention. She is using you. Stop talking to her period. Have some fucking respect for yourself.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 11:59 PM
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I think you are taking this shit test way too seriously because you consider these women more attractive / less slutty than normal. This is a very bad idea. It leads to pedestalization / oneitis. My rule of thumb is to treat ALL women like your bratty little sister. A&A to the max. Ignore it. Make fun of her. Do whatever, just dont take her bullshit seriously. If shes really attracted to you it won't matter if you've slept with 100+ women. Only your frame matters. Ultimately, this is still a shi…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 11:52 PM
2

Its your job to push her boundries. You should be trying to go as far as she is comfortable with every time you see her. Stop talking about sleeping with her. Trying to negotiate your way into her pants is a sure fire way to kill the tingles. Always be escalating. If she stops you at a certain point, slow down, do something less stimulating and try again. Another method for dealing with lmr is to say if you say stop ill stop. But if she says stop, come to a full stop. Or another method is just p…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 11:38 PM
1

How to win friends and influence people and 48 laws of power are two very good books you should read. Also, practice. Its the only way to develop social skills and game.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 11:25 PM
1

Ugh. This is where you are going wrong. You are validating this troll by responding to him in a serious way. I can see why you blush IRL. Don't take this seriously. Its just a frame test. What you should have said to this guy: "I turn red cause I'm so fuckin red pill" Or the classic: "I only blush when my dicks in your moms mouth"
/r/askTRP18/02/16 11:04 PM
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More exposure to the things that make you blush. With practice anything gets better. If its certain things people say to you that make you blush, you could agree and amplify or pressure flip (turn it back on them). Usually with women i a&a and pressure flip (and change the subject) with guys.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 10:47 PM
1

Women are worth it. Unless you prefer your own hand to sex. Theres a reason trp exists and a huge part of it is sexual strategy. Try approaching IRL. Get used to talking to women. Monk mode is just a buffer to avoid rejection. The only thing it did for you is let you hamster your way into feeling better at the cost of not developing your game. Read this: http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/26/buffers/
/r/askTRP18/02/16 10:44 PM
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Don't ever compliment a beautiful woman like that. Especially as an opener. They hear it all the time.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 10:30 PM
1

I never said anything about gps tracking. Reading comprehension is your friend.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 06:35 PM
1

The sidebar is just the beginning. If thats all you have read, you have a ways to go. The book of pook is all sexual strategy, yes. But it is not the be all and endall of trp.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 07:36 AM
1

Sure, those things are part of the red pill, but not all of it. The red pill is whatever you want it to be. To me, its a different way of viewing the world. I really like the analogy of the matrix - swallowing the pill to see how the world really is (credit rollo or whoever came up with it first). That sexual strategy / self improvement is all it may be to you - but don't try to force that viewpoint on others.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 07:34 AM
1

TRP is amoral. You have your own values and lines you are unwilling to cross, and thats fine. But don't try to tell others what they should or shouldn't do or what makes them a good or bad person.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 07:12 AM
1

Jesus fuck man, you just don't get it. If a woman is withholding intimacy and tries to use sex as a bargaining chip - thats a really fucked up thing and a huge red flag. Any woman who does this is pump and dump material. Sex should NOT be used as a bargaining chip. If a woman is not attracted enough to you to fuck you within a short period of time (3 dates IMO) shes using you for something. You've got some reading to do for your own sake, before you end up in a shitty relationship with a connivi…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 07:07 AM
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I agree with everything you say. But never believe a woman's answer to an n number. Theres really no point in asking.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 06:42 AM
0

You still absolutely need to get a lawyer to make sure things are properlu done. A few grand now will save HUGE headaches in the future.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 12:54 AM
4

Split tab would probably have been better. You probably could have closed if you gave her better plausible deniability, but I think getting her to pay the whole tab probably threw her off. Your hookers and coke comment probably didn't come off the way you intended. Sarcasm never comes across well in text unless you know the person really well. Your game needs a bit of fine tuning. You fucked up a sure thing.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 12:40 AM
1

Clearly you haven't read any TRP material. If you had, you never would have cried in front of a girl or try to "treat her like a queen". You are a beta Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 01:29 PM
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Don't do it. Commitment is not implied when you are going on a first date with a girl. She has to EARN commitment (if thats what you want. Otherwise only discuss it if she brings it up. Or don't.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 01:25 PM
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Go for it man!
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:38 PM
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If shes flaking on weekend plans and totally ignores you on a "date night", I'd say this LTR is toast. If you really want to continue this LTR you need to lay down some serious dread. Personally, I don't see the point. She does not respect you. What you should do (at this point) is line up some back up girls an get an exit plan ready. The whole benefit to a man being in an LTR is regular access to intimacy / sex with a woman. If shes not living up to her end of the bargain and is treating you po…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 07:47 PM
1

Read this: How to win friends and influence people by dale carnegie
/r/askTRP27/01/16 03:33 PM
1

Why would you ask her to introduce you to a friend? Do it yourself. This is not a shit test. A shit test is a fitness test to make sure you are the "alpha" you are presenting yourself to be. Asking for an introduction is about as beta as you can be.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 02:54 PM
1

Someone who was swallowed the pill would never talk to a girl about feelings. What the actual fuck man!! Have you not read anything here?? I can't possibly think of a way to dry panties up any faster. You grow as a man by facing hardship and rejection. You NEED it to make yourself better. Embrace the pain brother, for it will make you a better man.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 02:41 PM
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Soft next. See other women. Do not LTR her. It sounds like you are doing most of the work to keep this "relationship" going. Which means you are the one who is more attached. This is a really bad sign. Oh and never believe what a woman tells you her partner count is. They always lie. The rule of 3 exists for a reason.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 02:36 PM
1

You oneitis for this girl. And you work with her. You should just go after other women. She is not special. Theres plenty others out there (that you won't have to see everyday after they awkwardly reject you).
/r/askTRP27/01/16 02:32 PM
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It sounds like you just ran into LMR and handled it poorly, thus losing frame and attraction. Theres plenty of methods to deal with it. Ultimately you did the right thing by leaving. It seems like you are doing the right thing and have the right frame of mind. Just work on your game. Search LMR on the main forum to get some ideas on how to deal with it.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 02:29 PM
1

I think you are getting too caught up on looks. Treat every girl as if she were that 2 and you will have better success.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 02:21 PM
1

Yeah exactly. He probably doesn't. Even if he does hes still blue as fuck on the inside.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 02:18 PM
1

Hes got 3 plates already. This one is special!
/r/askTRP27/01/16 02:10 PM
3

She already rejected you. Her trying to talk to you more is just an attempt to get your validation.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 02:08 PM
1

I think you answered your own question. You already have other plates. You don't want to date. So why go? If anything, soft nexting will increase her attraction for you. Don't be afraid to lose a girl you haven't slept with. Theres always other ones.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 01:41 PM
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Its a comfort test. Throw her some comfort if shes treating you well.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 01:22 PM
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I think you are wrong here. The single strongest action a man can take is by leaving. If a woman knows that a man will only leave as an action of last resort, it kills abundance. This is the concept of dread. If she is not fulfilling her duties in a relationship, he can easily find someone else.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 08:30 PM
2

Well its pretty simple. Don't approach seeing women with a relationship as a mentality goal. Commitment should be given out very hesitently. You should be screening women well if you are considering a relationship with one. Ideally, you should be dating lots of women. Looking for green flags and absence of red flags. Dating should progress to plating / fwb to ltr with good behaviour / absence of red flags. You shouldnt be the one to initiate an LTR. Ultimately, if you don't want to ltr a woman w…
/r/askTRP26/01/16 05:54 PM
1

People break up all the time. Just tell her you think that you shouldn't see each other anymore. She will obviously get upset and try to push for a reason / closure, but don't give in. Just keep the conversation brief and don't give a reason.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 05:48 PM
1

Your mission should be your motivation. Do what YOU want to do. Be the best version of yourself. Your drive, ambition and lifestyle (as a result of your mission) is what is attractive to women. Women are just a byproduct of succeeding at your mission. Women should not be your focus.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 05:38 PM
2

Only for logistics is for plates. For FWB / LTRs its obviously a bit different. There is definitely a fine line here. I would err on the side of too little rather than too much. Always leave her wanting more of you. Texting constantly is too much. That leaves no sense of abundance or mystery.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 05:34 PM
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Just keep banging her. Don't ever bring up the future or past relationships. Also don't worry too much about her losing interest. If shes just a plate / fwb you both will be seeing others. You need to approach this with an abundance mentality. If you try to rush things you'll come off as needy and unattractive. Just text her when you wanna bang. But don't say that. Just be like netflix and chill? And she'll get the hint.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 05:31 PM
1

Don't discuss it, it doesn't matter. If it ever comes up dodge the question and change the subject. If she persists just do a pressure flip onto her. Most women would probably find it unattractive that you have no experience with women. Read this book: https://bookofpook.neocities.org Its a sort of tl;dr on game.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 05:25 PM
2

No we totally understand man. A lot of us have been in your shoes. Do not marry this woman. If she has cheated on you in the past, she will do it again. Even worse is the fact that she is blaming YOU for HER cheating. Thats just fucked up. Putting a ring on her finger will accomplish absolutely nothing. It will change nothing. She will still cheat on you. Except now you will be financially responsible for you. It will hurt, but you need to get out of this relationship. She cheated - she is not o…
/r/askTRP26/01/16 05:08 PM
1

Nexting is simple. Just don't contact her. If she hits you up, try to arrange a hook up. Don't get sucked into a conversation.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:56 PM
1

So, lets get this straight. You hooked up with a girl once a few weeks ago. Shes now distance from you. You are getting jealous she is going on a hike with some other guy. I think you handled it horribly. You lost frame and got incredibly jealous. If a girl ever says anything like that, the correct response is so ignore and change subject. Abundance mentality and aloofness. Your busy guy whos seeing lots of other women, so why would you care if shes seeing other guys. You only slept with her onc…
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:54 PM
1

You have to flip it around on them. Thats the best method I've found with dealing with questions I really don't want to answer. Keep it super brief and pressure flip.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 03:55 PM
1

From the way you describe the differences between gross party sluts and attractive girls, it seems like you care too much about attractiveness. Stop treating good looking girls differently. Treat them how you would treat a gross party slut.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 03:32 PM
2

She is very materialistic and borderline narcisstic So, essentially like most women? You game them all the same way. Don't treat this one any differently. I am might not be able to put in the small blind to play the game. If she was attracted enough to you, you wouldn't have to pay at all. She probably sees you as a BB.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 03:21 PM
0

Sounds like she was trying to pull you into her frame. I think you did the right thing. I find women kind of test with things like this to see if you are a pushover. Don't give in. Personally, I would have just looked at her with raised eyebrows then grabbed her and kissed her.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 03:13 PM
1

If you are in an LTR and you are not having regular sex, it means she has lost attraction for you and is probably cheating on you. I would leave if I were you. Also, never let them know where you are 24/7. You need to have your own life and mission independent of her. Stop being so in touch with her all of the time.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 03:07 PM
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You've already been in monk mode fof 26 years. Why waste any more time on it? Has it really produced the results you are looking for? Sure, you could use the time to focus on yourself and improve your body and mind. But ultimately, "monk mode" is just a buffer against rejection. Game is something that requires practice before you get the hang of it. Read this book: https://bookofpook.neocities.org It is sort of a tl;dr on women and game. It will help a lot. Do not be concerned with other peoples…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 03:35 PM
1

No words. Actions. She already knows you are interested. You just have to take action to get what you want.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 03:26 PM
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Well, if you guys made out, you aren't there yet. But if you don't escalate physically, you may end up there. Remember its your job to push her boundaries. Stop texting her sexual stuff if you haven't fucked her. It comes off as desperate and thirsty. She already knows you want to fuck her.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 03:23 PM
6

Just kiss her. Or tickle her then kiss.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 03:12 PM
2

Couldn't agree more. I highly doubt those guys have even read the sidebar. They are just looking for validation for their hamsters. Somone who actually swallowed the pill wouldn't be whining that its so hard to get laid. Those threads aren't even asktrp quality. The fact that they got so highly upvotes is kind of sad.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 02:59 PM
1

So, lets assume everything you said is true. You are attractive, outgoing, well dressed, well groomed and at least reasonably well off income wise. Why are you not getting laid?? Well, I can tell immediately from the tone of your post why you are failing. It is your attitude and how you present yourself to women. You reek of desperation. Women smell this a mile away and it dries panties up faster than a 300 kg neckbeard that smells of stale doritoes. Because you are so desperate to get laid, you…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 05:26 PM
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You sir, have not swallowed the pill. Luck has nothing to do with getting laid. It had to do with SMV and game. Girls only use sex as a tool with potential providers. Believe it or not, they actually LOVE having sex with men they find ATTRACTIVE. You CANNOT expect an attractive women to simply jump on your dick just because you have one, or because it is on some "hierarcy of needs". This is blue pill thinking at its finest. You are trying to negotiate their attraction. Women, quite simply (like …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 05:09 PM
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Do action dates (where you do stuff) rather than dinner dates. Get her talking about herself, women LOVE to talk about themselves. Give as little away about yourself as possible. Remain mysterious and she will keep coming back for more. It sounds like your conversational skills need a bit of work. Don't always stick with one topic, constantly branch out to other topics.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 10:29 PM
2

I'm 32. Previously married (now divorced). Many girlfriends. So lots.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 10:04 PM
3

I think you just have to accept reality. Love women for what they are. Not the blue pill fantasy you have been force fed. Once you accept them for what they are and understand that their attraction for you is completely controllable (based on how you carry yourself and what you do with yourself) you'll realize its not that bad.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:59 PM
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Women are capable of loving you. They love you for who you are in the moment and what you provide for her. They do not love unconditionally - this is the disney blue pill fantasy.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:56 PM
1

Her saying meet me on the dance floor was just a polite rejection. She wasn't interested. You fucked up gaming her somehow.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:54 PM
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You don't have to sell yourself. Simply work on improving yourself: lift, eat well, improve your social skills and study hard. Girls will notice. As for gaming girls, don't worry about acting too uninterested. Never compliment them on their appearance. Tease them. Make fun of them in a light hearted way. Be fun. To let them know you are sexually interested in them, you have to touch them. Start with small stuff like punch them / push them playfully. Touch their arm, small of their back and escal…
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:50 PM
1

Girls with personality disorders are not fit for LTRs. Huge red flag. It also sounds like shes getting ready to cheat if she hasn't already. Next.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:07 AM
1

Forget about her. Just ignore her. She will probably try to get under your skin to get validation. Just act like it doesn't bother you. I would go. Flirt with her friends and other girls. Have a good time. Don't let her influence your life any more. In fact, I'd say you not going just because she is there is giving into your oneitis. Go and have a good time.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:41 AM
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Talk less, listen more. Get her talking about herself. Women love to talk about themselves. Don't give much away about yourself. Remain mysterious. If you give too much away too quickly you are not mysterious and not challenging. Even worse if you talk too much you run the risk of being her emotional tampon (the dreaded friendzone all the bluepills refer to). Ultimately, you are the man. It is up to YOU to push physical boundaries. Don't just go for a kiss. Start touching early (whats known as k…
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:37 AM
1

Next. Go ask someone else. You are nothing but an orbiter to her.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:27 AM
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Dude. You went on one date with the girl. She needs to earn your commitment. You cannot give it away do easily. No one wants a bird that so easily flys into a cage. I guarantee you, if you approach this girl with an ltr as a goal mentality, you will fail hard. Read rollo's articles on plate theory. Im not saying you should go out and plate 5 girls or whatever, but you should understand WHY guys who plate are attractive to women (ie abundance mentality). http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plat…
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:01 AM
1

Sounds like a shit test (or asd). Either way I would ignore and continue as if nothing happenend.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 05:55 AM
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You need to find other outlets to deal with emotions. You absolutely need to learn to control that shit. It is absolutely crucial for you as a man to not be overly emotional. Find a physical / creative outlet for dealing with your emotions. If you have to, talk to a really good guy friend. But I would even advise against that. When I get upset, I throw on some really loud music, cuddle my dog or go beat on something / break something if I'm really upset.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 05:52 AM
1

I don't think you have anything to lose here. TRP advocates against marriage because divorce is so skewed against men. But if you have minimal / no assests + income, then you don't have much to lose. You are already in an ltr. Marriage wouldn't be much different. You have a big party than life is back to usual. Just turn up the dread and stay in shape.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 05:47 AM
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Hard next. Don't talk to her again. If she wouldn't even kiss you (assuming shes even willing to see you again) she sees you as a billy beta provider who she will just string along. You should have just walked inside and said nothing.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 05:42 AM
3

Just stop thinking about her. If you rationally think about what she actually provided for you, you would realize that you can easily find someone else to do that. You are just male hamstering her into something that shes not.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 05:38 AM
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Yes it is unattractive. It is the very opposite of what women find attractive. If you want to cuddle and chat with them, do it after you nut inside them.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 05:35 AM
1

Tingles. That and they likely exhibit dark triad characteristics. IM has a really good writeup on DT stuff if you care to read into it more: http://illimitablemen.com/power/
/r/askTRP23/01/16 05:31 AM
1

Well, if its unreported it would make me wonder if it really happenend. Maybe it was a she drank a bit too much and regreted it in the morning kind of thing. Maybe it didn't happen. Either way, claiming that a henious crime was commited and doing nothing about it, while telling someone who is relatively new in her life seems like a cry for attention. A reason for you to feel sorry for her. Kind of gives her the upper hand and pulls you into her frame.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 05:26 AM
2

Yeah exactly. Make yourself better. But don't avoid women in the process. The only way your game will get better is with practice. If you avoid the practice your game would still suck post monk mode.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 05:21 AM
1

You will get a much better response from her by just being dominant and making out with her - read her body language though (for fucks sakes). Asking for intimacy is never a good play.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 05:18 AM
1

That is LMR. Usually its just token resistence girls put up before having sex with you the first time. Theres many strategies for dealing with it. Most are just pushing on WHILE paying close attention to her body language to make sure shes still into it. Ultimately if she doesnt give in, you should leave / kick her out. Dont reward her with comfort (cuddling) if she doesn't put out.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 05:13 AM
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She either gave you the wrong number or didn't text you back, either way its not a good sign. Shes not really that attracted to you. Girls do just mess with guys. "Eye fucking" could just be her fucking with you in an attempt to get your validation. Don't text her any more. Hard next her. If you see her at another party, maybe try to game her. See if you can get some action AT the party.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 05:05 AM
1

I'm assuming you haven't fucked her based on your post. That means you are an orbiter. She is using your desperation as validation. You are an emotional tampon. Do not respond to any of her texts. Do not see her again. See other women.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 04:59 AM
1

Your post is a bit ambiguous. As for being too agressive, its not really the best idea. You come across as desperate / having no other options. Best approach is an aloof attitude with push / pull. You gotta get her interested in you and chasing after you a bit. Game gets better with practice. Just keep approaching. As for this specific girl, seems like you are getting a bit of oneitis for her and ya havent even banged her yet. You should probably soft / hard next her and approach other women.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 04:55 AM
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Its not a shit test. Shes just not that interested if it took her 3 days to get back to you and she didn't come up with a counter offer. I would suggest soft nexting her. If you really want, come up with a specific plan to propose to her: meet me at x place at x time on x day. Then its a yes or no answer. If shes busy on that day and is genuinely interested, she will come up with a counter offer. "This week doesn't work" is girl speak for im not really that interested in you - maybe if all the o…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 04:15 AM
1

Yes you are wasting your time. If she wants to fuck you, she will move heaven and earth to do so. If shes flaking you are just a backup option or orbiter. The only reason she is responding is to keep you around for validation or as a backup for when chad flakes.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 01:06 AM
1

Next. Shes not interested.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 01:01 AM
2

You just really need to relax. Invite her over for a movie or whatever. Make sure your place (esp the bathroom) is squeaky clean. Have some wine (or whatever) and snacks ready. Find something mutually agreeable that is fun and light to watch. Start kino early and make moves. Remember she came over to fuck, not watch netflix. Just relax and have a good time!!
/r/askTRP21/01/16 12:59 AM
4

Don't. Own your height. Wearing lifts will be obvious. It will look like you are compensating for something, which is the exact opposite from what you want to portray - a confident aloof attitude. If a bitch bugs you about your height just agree and amplify it.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 12:55 AM
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I would try to joke around with him back. Following what some other posters say by attempting to hold frame and just say "please dont do ...." you risk coming off as boring and un fun. Don't take it too seriously and just joke around with him. Be sarcastic. Do some male bonding. See if he wants to grab a drink after work or something. He seems like a fun guy whos connections could really help you out.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 12:50 AM
5

No. Stop caring about her. She certainly doesn't. Only reason to ask for a break is to fuck someone else guilt free.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 12:34 AM
1

To not be creepy, you need to be more attractive to women. Increase your smv: lift, dress better and inprove your social skills / game. These are all core tenents of TRP. If you are not doing these things, start immediately.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 10:48 PM
1

As /u/abdada suggested, Rollo's GNO post would have been the best way to handle it. You failed a major shit test and lost frame. She now sees you as possessive and scared to lose her. Your best option here (IMO) would have been to just go to the event with her (assuming she invited you). In an LTR you have to provide some comfort (i.e. doing shit she likes). Assuming she has been good up to this point (giving you good sex) you should reward this behaviour with comfort. Best way to repair this si…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 08:40 PM
3

Text only for logistics. Once you get her number, you really have nothing to gain by continuing texting.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 08:18 PM
2

If you are really interested in learninf about the concepts behind TRP, I would recommend reading therationalmale. Start with the best of year one: http://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/
/r/askTRP20/01/16 11:14 AM
1

Stop feeling sorry for yourself. So you got rejected by one girl cause you went full beta. Monk mode is only a buffer to prevent rejection. 2 months is a long time. You can meet a lot of women in that time. Go talk to women and have fun instead of throwing yourself a pity party and pretend to be in "monk mode" while "improving yourself".
/r/askTRP20/01/16 11:12 AM
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Stop throwing yourself a pity party. Set specific goals that you can meet. If you want to gain weight, you NEED to start lifting. Once you do you will feel a lot better after being a slob for so long. To gain weight, you simply need to eat an excess of calories above your TDEE. Download myfitbit and start tracking your cals. If you are having issues with food, you may have some food insensitivies. Clean up your diet. Eat only whole foods. Avoid processed foods. Keep track of what gives you issue…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 09:50 AM
1

Don't date a girl with BPD. Its just not worth it. The insane mood swings make life with her hell. Not to mention the crazy risk taking behaviour. This girl has way too many red flags for an LTR. High n count for 18 (!!!). Personality disorder. Met on a hookup app. Fucked on the first date. Super clingy / emotional. Did she report the rape? Is her cousin in jail for it? If not then this is a HUGE red flag. You should plan an exit strategy carefully.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 09:43 AM
3

Hiking doesn't cost anything and you can still do it in the winter. Just dress appropriately. Also skating, snowshoeing and cross country skiing are relatively cheap. Be creative. I'm sure there are tonnes of local activities that are inexpensive going on where you live. Personally, hiking to food / bar to your place / her place is one of my favorite dates.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 09:28 AM
1

Your only option here is to next. You are developing oneitis. Also, never trust birth control to a woman. All it takes is her forgetting one pill and your FUCKED for 18 years. Its just not worth it for slightly better feeling sex. Not tobmention the risk of stds. Wrap your dick.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 05:00 AM
1

Never, ever, ever take advice from women on dealing with women.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 04:47 AM
1

Have you had sex with her? If you try to force intimacy with her when shes not into it, you risk coming off as needy/ desperate. You need to tone that shit down. Ideally, she should be all over you. This is either a huge red flag (girls with intimacy issues should be avoided like the fucking plague) or its just a sign that she really doesn't like you that much. Ignore what she says, pay attention to her actions. If shes actively pulling away when you touch her (and you haven't slept with her) - …
/r/askTRP20/01/16 04:12 AM
1

Just don't worry about it. It doesn't matter. If a girl really likes you she will actively hide the fact that she has a bf. Or if she finds you creepy / desperate she will invent one.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 04:02 AM
2

Some IOIs can be subtle, some overt. Deer in headlights look is a really good sign. Her being generally close to you / in your vicinity. Her making eye contact with you, looking in your direction. Her being receptive to conversation with you, asking things about you. Her following you if you stop a conversation with her. She laughs while talking to you. If she touches you. If you aren't approaching girls because of a fear of not recognizing IOIs, I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just approach…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 03:56 AM
1

I wouldn't say just next. I wouldn't respond to this. Just carry on as you normally would. Pay attention to her actions not her words. Try to make plans with her again. If she doesn't answer or refuses you have your answer.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 03:46 AM
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If a girl wants so see you she will make time. When you ask a girl out, try to be very specific. Say x place at x time for x activity. If they don't come back with a specific counter offer they are not interested. This is how you polarize early to avoid wasting time. Perhaps next semester is just a polite rejection. Don't waste your time with this girl.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:04 AM
1

I think you are playing it well and have the right frame. You have others on the go so its not a huge deal if you lose this one. Just don't apologize or justify your actions. As long as you haven't had a conversation about being exclusive with her, you have done nothing wrong. She could be doing the same thing too.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:57 AM
2

If you are consistently losing friends, your social skills are probably lacking. A couple of books you should read: How to win friends and influence people 48 laws of power
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:49 AM
1

They are not incapable of love. They are incapable of loving the way men want to be loved - unconditionally. Rollo wrote a good article on it. http://therationalmale.com/2012/09/10/men-in-love/
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:45 AM
2

Personally, I would advise against monk mode while in university. This is probably the best time in your life to meet hot young single women. You will regret it if you pass up on it. If your game is absolutely atrocious, I would suggest reading "The Book of Pook". Just google it, its relatively easy to find. Monk mode is essentially a buffer. It just helps you avoid rejection. Rollo wrote a really good article. http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/26/buffers/ Rejection is better than regret. You h…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:37 AM
1

University is hard work. Treat it like a job and you'll do fine as long as you put the time in and keep up with deadlines. For chemistry, you really have to do an masters/ doctors to get a good job out of it at the end. You are looking at 4 years for honours bsc and 2-3 for msc and 3-4 for doctors. So essentially 6+ years. Something to keep in mind.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:30 AM
1

If you are consistently being rejected, it is you who are doing something wrong. This isn't meant to be an insult. You need to take a good long hard look at yourself and find out what that thing is. Go back to the basics. Read the sidebar and recommended books. One thing I would recommend reading that really help me is "The Book of Pook". Just google it, its very easy to find. Last thing I would suggest is stop approaching women with an outcome in mind. Just talk to them. Get used to getting an …
/r/askTRP19/01/16 09:50 PM
3

Honestly, I wouldn't care about it. Just don't lose frame over this (get upset). In the grand scheme of things some girl saying you cheated on her in your 20s isn't a big deal. Focus on you. Lift, improve. Appproach new girls. DONT commit this time - then you cant be accused of cheating.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 09:32 PM
2

What is good protocol to groom plates that give out but don’t have hopes for an LTR? Don't talk about the future, kids, past relationships, anything of that sort. If she brings it up, change the topic. If she keeps on bringing it up you need to "punish" that behaviour, by doing shit like pulling away, stop talking to her, leave her for the night, etc. Anything that is the opposite of comfort really. You could also say shit like you just got out of a bad relationship and you are taking time for y…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 07:16 PM
3

Well, if she is treating you well (sex) you need to reward her with comfort (your time and attention). Personally, what I would suggest is finding activities that you both enjoy and do them together. Avoid boring stuff like dinner dates and other cliche crap. I love action dates - stuff like hiking, climbing, mountain biking, skiing, skating, anything active really. Just make sure you have a firm plan of what you want to do in advance. For example, I like to take them for a hike, grab food after…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 07:03 PM
1

I am like you. I like cuddling with a girl. BUT, I only do it after sex. If a bitch wants cuddles, its only going to happen after fucking. If you are too affectionate, you run the risk of looking needy. Being overly affectionate is a very easy way to kill attraction. Best way to keep attraction is focus on yourself. Keep your goals as #1. Having her around is a byproduct of your success. That and dread game. Never stop improving.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 06:52 PM
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If they aren't sticking around (after a few hook ups) you are probably failing comfort tests / not giving them enough comfort.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 06:39 PM
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