I'm in college with 2 more semesters left after this one. I lift regularly with strong numbers 235/325/425, have a clean diet, good GPA and already accepted a full time position after I graduate. However, I don't really feel that happy with my life as it is. I don't spend much time with my old friends because most of them have gfs that consume a lot of their time, or are very religious and devote most of their time to that. Also, I have been dating my gf for about a year now, and although I enjoy spending time with her and she treats me well (cooks, cleans, does my laundry), I am feeling bored with her.

I'm making new friends, most of whom are in frats are have similar interests as me, but I'm not sure where to go from here. I have dedicated a lot of my time to lifting and eating and haven't gone out much so I'm sacrificing some gym time and my diet a little to go out more.

Last weekend I went out with a friend for her birthday and had one of the most fun weekends in a long time. I drank a good amount and was able to let go and live in the moment. The birthday girl danced with me and grinded on me for a while before I stopped it because of my gf. She later kissed me but I turned so she just kissed me on the cheek.

I should also note my current gf is my first and I lost my v card to her. A part of me wants to leave her to go out and go wild with other girls. When I was grinding with the other girl and the music was feeling great I had such a fun time. On the other hand I feel like I should continue to focus on the gym and diet and just stay with my girl. So I guess I'm asking guys who have been through college or are in it, what do you think would make me happiest now and after I graduate?