the_cute_brigadier Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Letting down girls that catch feelings but aren't direct about it	Lifestyle	the_cute_brigadier	/r/seduction	13/04/22 06:16 PM
2	Need some help framing my career better when I talk to girls	Outer Game	the_cute_brigadier	/r/seduction	27/02/22 12:29 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Do guys normally make gifts for their friends? Hopefully for the same reason as you have men as friends. They're interesting people who enrich and add value to your life. I think you're right to be concerned about thinking of women this way. This transactional view of women isn't healthy. I think all too many in the PUA community encourage it. I'd take a real hard look at the reason why you'd never consider a woman a real friend in the same way as a man. I think you'll find some sexist assumptions underpinning it.	/r/seduction	13/04/22 10:55 PM
2	Letting down girls that catch feelings but aren't direct about it When's the right time to say it? For context, we first hooked up after going clubbing with mutual friends. We had sex a second time when I was in her city for unrelated reasons, and a third time when she was in my city visiting a friend.	/r/seduction	13/04/22 10:30 PM
5	Do guys normally make gifts for their friends? Mad projection. I have plenty of female friends I wouldn't fuck, so do plenty of guys I know.	/r/seduction	13/04/22 06:22 PM
8	How to talk about nothing? Commenting because I'm also neurodiverse and want to learn this skill better too.	/r/seduction	06/03/22 02:12 PM
1	Need some help framing my career better when I talk to girls I'm the master of thinking of comebacks in the shower but I suppose exposure therapy is the only way to get better at doing that on the fly. I'd best get back on the tinder hustle. Much appreciated, thanks for your time!	/r/seduction	01/03/22 08:04 PM
2	I feel bad for the people on the r/Foreveralone subreddit I was a pretty ugly teenager (main account is in top 200 of all time posts in r/uglyduckling), cons of being ugly is overrated. More specifically, cons of being ugly for reasons out of your control are. If you are profoundly disabled that will put people off, but just for those with poor facial structure? Usually they're not as badly off as they think, and if they are it's because they're not putting in the work.	/r/seduction	28/02/22 12:42 PM
1	Need some help framing my career better when I talk to girls Very very good feedback. Thank you so much for taking the time to type all of this out. Genuinely, this is awesome stuff that really cuts to the heart of my problem. I'm neurodivergent. This might be a weird question, but I wondered if you have any suggestions for practicing being quick with making jokes. The most common suggestion I see is practice, but I think that only works if the problem is a lack of it - I don't think that's necessarily the case with me. I'm a very analytical person by nat…	/r/seduction	27/02/22 11:52 PM
1	Need some help framing my career better when I talk to girls You aren’t contract admins for construction project management, you’re developing B2B Infrastructure for land/real estate/construction firms to navigate their complex client contract databases Probably a good idea. What do you think is the best way to segway from communicating information back into communicating feelings after this?	/r/seduction	27/02/22 01:36 PM
1	Need some help framing my career better when I talk to girls Find analogies to dumb down what you do. Good shit. I'll work on this. Do you mean something like "we're basically [famous company] for construction"? describe it as one big adventure, change the angle you look at it. I don't know how to do this without turning it into a monologue about my career. Any tips? Why the focus on dropping out? Isn't it more important, that you went there, even you did not finish it? It's more along the lines of trying to frame myself as exciting/daring. I dropped out …	/r/seduction	27/02/22 01:36 PM
1	BC 6 at 20	/r/seduction	19/02/22 06:12 PM